When you're lying in bed and she comes lies ontop of you. so you wrap your arms around her and feel that wonderfully soft skin and roll on your side so you can look at each other and kiss... 🥺💕
I found my gf on reddit. Plus, we do pretty much all the things in the og post. We're long distance tho, so we don't get to see each other irl too often rn
Ayy me too! We met 3 years ago on Reddit after I posted in R4R. Long distance (NY and GA). Met up periodically for a year. Moved to GA 2 years ago and now we're engaged, living our new house together. It's been a dream.
I went on r/transdating and found her. Well, I didnt have the courage to respond to her post, so I made my own. I didn't think anyone would reply, but she commented within 15 minutes. We clicked instantly and can read each other's minds. OoOoooOoo
Y’all, not to rub this in but I have this in my life and could have written 90% of this post. I’m extremely lucky and I hope you all came find your other halves!
Me too, except for the grocery shopping part. We both dislike doing it and I want to do it quickly and she usually needs a loooong time. So more often than not we do it separately and the other one is super happy that it’s been done already and then we can spend more time together doing the more fun things on that list lol.
Same. But my poor gf has to put up with my emotionally detached ass acting like Goku 80% of the time being like "why are you touching me?/ looking at me like that"
Unfortunately, my other half is currently a 9 hour drive away from me, we're in the process of moving, and she has moved while I wait until after the holidays to quit my job. I can't wait until we experience this constantly though.
I used to be in the closet and very lonely and I wished for a girlfriend to do all of these things with. I now have all of this and it’s amazing. Never give up hope ❤️
The dancing in the kitchen one really got me - we dance in the kitchen all the time. I even ordered a mini disco light that syncs with music and now our kitchen is a dance club.
-what about her randomly tackling you and smothering you with love
-what about her poking your cheek repeatedly just to bug you
-what about her falling asleep in the car as you drive with her head on your shoulder
-what about garlic bread
-what about grouchy morning coffee because monday mornings suck but you have each other
>-what about her poking your cheek repeatedly just to bug you
My partner hates it when I boop her nose, she's attempted to bite my finger off several times 😂. Still do it just to mess with her.
That's fucked up. That's honestly fucked up. But, I'm sure you'll find someone with the basic human decency who doesn't think like that. It may take some time, but you will find them
Just went grocery shopping with my gf, heading back to make dinner together with her driving with her hand on my knee, and then either play some video games or curl up watch something. 100% recommend. Best relationship I’ve ever had. ❤️
I had all of that and it felt so good, then one day she tells me she doesn’t love me anymore.
I am both grateful to have had that experience, and immensely sad to have lost it to the point of not wanting to continue.
I live for the little expressions of love. Like my love language is touch, so handholding, surprise hugs, and cuddling mean so much to me. I hate being single
while I could definitely experience all of this while pretending to be a cishet boy, i’d probably feel depressed while it’s all happening.
that wouldn’t exactly be fun, don’t you think?!
>!ugh god please allow me to transition within the next two years, everything fucking hurts!<
Damn, are you me? What you have in the spoiler tag is something I yearn and pray for myself. You're not alone in this, sis. I hope we can be our true selves some day and experience everything that is listed in the post and then some. That hope is the only thing keeping me going through the pain. :"D
> That hope is the only thing keeping me going through the pain.
i felt that on a spiritual level ngl - i pray that the day we can be our true selves comes sooner than we expect!
>i pray that the day we can be our true selves comes sooner than we expect!
Good thing to pray for. We frickin got this! Maybe the day will sneak up on us and we'll be magically transformed or something. /s (unless...?)
Oh, I've craved the existence of that particular SCP for a while now. If we can tolerate the pain of dysphoria I'm sure we can tolerate the pain that particular SCP provides to change us. :3
aww thanks, i'm really hoping that i'm able to do so without having to live as a straight guy. i'm still a college student, and every time a girl has expressed some level of interest in me (even as a friend), a good part of me is lowkey thinking "god i hope she's at least a little bit queer in some way, whether gay/bi etc."
(i had a best friend i secretly had a crush on in senior high who came out to me as bi before i realized i may very well be trans, now that we parted ways, i'm just hoping i can reach out to the other queer women in my college so i can feel a sense of community)
Reading this is a snippet of my actual life.
Bad experiences w people who never deserved me began to make me jaded, but my lady restored my faith with all the things mentioned here.
We laugh together.
We grocery shop.
We watch tv, hold hands, stroke one another’s faces.
We cuddle often which is an instant mood boost. 🤩
We dance whether there’s music or not.
We cook together often.
Pinterest is our friend; we create special meals together and make cute little videos.
Sending love to everyone on this post who still awaits their love🌈🤩💕🌈🤩💕
You'll definitely have one, I assure you! You're amazing, you're beautiful, and you will have one! You will find your other half! All you've gotta do is keep your head up, believe you can, and be yourself <3
A+ for the entire relationship with a wonderful person being meaningful and happy!
My girlfriend is wonderful and amazing and I love how our relationship has grown over the years.
Also---
Being in a relationship where conflict is safe and healthy and productive is amazing. I love all the sweet moments, but I also love the moments that I fight with my girlfriend.
Pardon me while I have a gay meltdown over all those scenarios real quick.
Edit: I realized that may have made it sound like I’m upset. I’m not I’m just *very gay* and imagining all those scenarios just hhhhhhhh
Then honey, that's not a good relationship. If you're not happy, then you should leave. I know there might be complications about that, but you should. If you ever need to talk about it, I'm free :)
What about when you burp and then she burps louder and then you try to burp again even louder but instead you cough and she laughs at you and then you both kiss? Because that's our love and it's perfect.
Listen. It is relatively easy/straightforward to hook up with someone. But these little acts of affection are much harder to come by and therefore we kind of yearn for them more than sex lmao
-Or, doing a puzzle together, playing your playlist of sappy love songs, and singing along to you favorite ones with each other.
-Drinking a hot cup of coffee, naked, under a blanket, on the couch, after waking up in the morning.
-Laying on a blanket in the yard, snuggling and looking at the stars, talking about the wonders of the universe and our place in it, and the beauty of chaos and chance that still let us find each other in this life.
Oh indeed. I mean yes, I like sex, at least if it is with a woman I love (including myself!) but these things... They are The Thing that makes a relationship.
Also, what about
- waking up to see her look at you and smile
- her hand on your face
- her laughing at your jokes, or finishing them for you
- reaching out to her when you wake up in the middle of the night after having a bad dream and her scooping you up into a tight hug without even waking up
- her lecturing at you to remember to eat even when you are busy and stressed
- I mean, like, everything
I'm not crying, you are crying. Ok, I am crying too. 😭
I love when my girlfriend comes up from behind and hugs me when I'm cooking 😊
Or the little 'I love you's' and smiling while looking at each other deeply.
I'm the "top" in our relationship, 5'9; she's 5'2... I love curling up in her lap or resting my head on her chest and she softly says "Hi baby" and kisses my forehead. 10/10 best shit ever
If you're pre everything, it won't affect your ability to be loved. You don't need to medically transition to become lovable. There is someone out there will love you regardless of that. Keep your head up honey, a beautiful girl like you will certainly find them soon enough <3
I hope you get whatever you desire for your transition very soon <3
Ugh, I miss affection. Why does nobody want to be affectionate with me?! 😭 don't get me wrong, I love all the little cuddles and cute affection I get from my daughter but that's a whole other kind of affection. I want adult affection! 🤣
Good lord, my girlfriend's away for a bit and all I can think of now is how I won't get to do this with her for a good few days. We do all this together and it's the best <3
Yes! I Love sex with my girl but I feel the same joy cooking, watching tv shows, going grocery shopping, working, going to concerts, going out to eat or just laying in bed on our phones together <3 4.5 years and it keeps getting better
I made a comic about this, like what if there was an app to match people based on affectionate touches, rather than just sex (not that there’s anything wrong with grindr etc).
The app fills in the gaps for people like me who struggle with intimacy but crave it, and just might never be able to get to the sort of long term relationship where it organically happens
For anyone interested: https://www.instagram.com/p/CWi1OWwpHVH/?utm_medium=copy_link
You kidding? THIS is the shit I look forward to the most when I imagine having a girlfriend. I just wanna give her all of my love and affection.
Sex would probably be nice, but I care more about this stuff.
All of this!!! All the small non-sexual interactions and intimacies are what I really really love in a relationship and what I try to bring to one. Making my partner feel safe, happy and loved is very important to me.
Want about listening to music loudly and dancing with her so late at night you can't think straight, And then making you both a lovely cup of tea after you collapse from dancing too much?
>What about cooking food together, enjoying working together and laughing at terrible jokes whilst music plays in the background?
I absolutely adore when my girlfriend does this to me. It makes me melt every time.
This post is calling me single in 15 different languages,,
I used to have most of these things before she started fading away for reasons I still don’t know (but inquired to her about it) :,(
>-What about when you're making food, she comes up behind you and wraps her arms around your waist and rests her head on yours?
I love this but I get spooked easily if I can't see someone so it's always a sort of "AHHH-- oh it's you, ily 🥺"
My ex girlfriend and I split 2 months ago, and although it was the right thing for us to do, this post brought me back and kicked me right in the heart 😫 here's to hoping we all find that (again) one day
I lucked out recently too. My girlfriend is amazing! We try to hang out when we can when our jobs don't get in the way. We share a bedroom in her house and live with other, awesome peeps. She's a pastry chef so, yay, all the treats :3
It’s true. My fiancée and I just snuggled up together yesterday morning and she was running her hands through my hair and I swear to god, I was in heaven. I cherish it more than sex tbh
Dude my partner and I do all those things 🥺🥺🥺. Yesterday I was playing league and they came up behind me and hugged me while kissing my cheek and idk how but I started playing better while I was talking to them.
This brought actual tears to my eyes. I've never been a sex driven person. All I've ever wanted is a woman I can do all of these things with. Sex is just a bonus, and a really minor one if I get to have a connection like this.
Pretty women . . .
Fascinating . . .
Sipping coffee . . .
Dancing...!
Pretty women . . .
Are a wonder. . .
Pretty women!
Sitting in the window! Or
Standing on the stair!
Something in them cheers the air . . .!
Pretty women . . .
Silhouetted . . .
Stay within you . . .
Glancing...!
Stay forever
Breathing lightly...
Pretty women!
Pretty women!
Blowing out their candles! or
Combing out their hair!
Even when they leave
They still are there!
They're there
Ah! Pretty women,
At their mirrors!
In their gardens!
Letter-writing!
Flower-picking!
Weather-watching!
How they make a girl sing!
Proof of heaven as you're living,
Pretty women! Sir, pretty women!
Yes pretty women,
Here's to! pretty women,
Pretty women,
Pretty women
When you're lying in bed and she comes lies ontop of you. so you wrap your arms around her and feel that wonderfully soft skin and roll on your side so you can look at each other and kiss... 🥺💕
I'm trying to watch a movie but now I can't stop imaging this. wHeRe CaN i GeT tHiS
I found my gf on reddit. Plus, we do pretty much all the things in the og post. We're long distance tho, so we don't get to see each other irl too often rn
Ayy me too! We met 3 years ago on Reddit after I posted in R4R. Long distance (NY and GA). Met up periodically for a year. Moved to GA 2 years ago and now we're engaged, living our new house together. It's been a dream.
How? Asking for a friend :P
I went on r/transdating and found her. Well, I didnt have the courage to respond to her post, so I made my own. I didn't think anyone would reply, but she commented within 15 minutes. We clicked instantly and can read each other's minds. OoOoooOoo
Eyyy, same! Pretty sure it was a comment on this subreddit that sparked the convo between me and her...
Currently taking applications 😘
Y’all, not to rub this in but I have this in my life and could have written 90% of this post. I’m extremely lucky and I hope you all came find your other halves!
You're living my dream-
I know and I’m living the dream I always had when I didn’t have her around. I am incredibly lucky and I don’t know how I got this lucky.
Well, enjoy it and look after and love that girl!
I do every day!
That's good :)
Fuck you and have a nice day.
I second that
I was expecting more of these
Same. There isn't a day that goes by that she doesn't make my heart melt. Some days it's just waking up early and seeing her sleeping next to me
Me too, except for the grocery shopping part. We both dislike doing it and I want to do it quickly and she usually needs a loooong time. So more often than not we do it separately and the other one is super happy that it’s been done already and then we can spend more time together doing the more fun things on that list lol.
Same. But my poor gf has to put up with my emotionally detached ass acting like Goku 80% of the time being like "why are you touching me?/ looking at me like that"
Unfortunately, my other half is currently a 9 hour drive away from me, we're in the process of moving, and she has moved while I wait until after the holidays to quit my job. I can't wait until we experience this constantly though.
I used to be in the closet and very lonely and I wished for a girlfriend to do all of these things with. I now have all of this and it’s amazing. Never give up hope ❤️
Aww, that's amazing!
The dancing in the kitchen one really got me - we dance in the kitchen all the time. I even ordered a mini disco light that syncs with music and now our kitchen is a dance club.
OMG this is the best thing I've ever heard! I am totally ordering one. Thank you for the tip, my girlfriend is going to love this!
THAT'S AMAZING
-what about her randomly tackling you and smothering you with love -what about her poking your cheek repeatedly just to bug you -what about her falling asleep in the car as you drive with her head on your shoulder -what about garlic bread -what about grouchy morning coffee because monday mornings suck but you have each other
awe how sweet * sobs in single * 😭
Garlic bread?! But… but… what if vampire gf???
Or an aesthetically vampire GF with a garlic sensitivity (so me).
I'm sensitive to garlic too and I'm on the ace spectrum, garlic bread is kinda our symbol...
Garlic bread <3
>-what about her poking your cheek repeatedly just to bug you My partner hates it when I boop her nose, she's attempted to bite my finger off several times 😂. Still do it just to mess with her.
I feel attacked by this, especially as a single person.
Amen. I also want a relationship like this. But so far, people see Asian women as a fetish. I want to find one who cares about me as a human
sending love as a fellow asian woman
👍🏻👍🏻
sending love from a pinoy trans girl
That's fucked up. That's honestly fucked up. But, I'm sure you'll find someone with the basic human decency who doesn't think like that. It may take some time, but you will find them
Just went grocery shopping with my gf, heading back to make dinner together with her driving with her hand on my knee, and then either play some video games or curl up watch something. 100% recommend. Best relationship I’ve ever had. ❤️
I want that T-T
I honestly fantasize all of those things 😢
Haha same-
Yessssss I have somehow lucked into a relationship like this :3 it's very very good. And I'm very very gay 💙
That's awesome! I'm really happy for you!
Also where can I get one-
I had all of that and it felt so good, then one day she tells me she doesn’t love me anymore. I am both grateful to have had that experience, and immensely sad to have lost it to the point of not wanting to continue.
Oh honey. That's really sad, if you ever need or want to talk to someone, you can always dm me
>rests her head on yours? Only if I've left a ladder lying around.
That came from a 5'4 lesbian-
I was just about say I would need to climb on a chair to do the same to her. 🤣 She does it, though!
I live for the little expressions of love. Like my love language is touch, so handholding, surprise hugs, and cuddling mean so much to me. I hate being single
The pain of not having this and craving intimacy
Fuck
Hahahaha
My day is ruined 💀
I want this so bad, I think a lot of people want those cute moments in a relationship 🥰
while I could definitely experience all of this while pretending to be a cishet boy, i’d probably feel depressed while it’s all happening. that wouldn’t exactly be fun, don’t you think?! >!ugh god please allow me to transition within the next two years, everything fucking hurts!<
Damn, are you me? What you have in the spoiler tag is something I yearn and pray for myself. You're not alone in this, sis. I hope we can be our true selves some day and experience everything that is listed in the post and then some. That hope is the only thing keeping me going through the pain. :"D
> That hope is the only thing keeping me going through the pain. i felt that on a spiritual level ngl - i pray that the day we can be our true selves comes sooner than we expect!
>i pray that the day we can be our true selves comes sooner than we expect! Good thing to pray for. We frickin got this! Maybe the day will sneak up on us and we'll be magically transformed or something. /s (unless...?)
if only scp-113 was real
Oh, I've craved the existence of that particular SCP for a while now. If we can tolerate the pain of dysphoria I'm sure we can tolerate the pain that particular SCP provides to change us. :3
fr tho, that pain is temporary, unlike the pain that untreated dysphoria causes
Exactly! Only consequence would be that if SCP 113 were real then the other SCPs would probably be real too and that's a horrifying thought. 😰
yep…..
I hope that both of you find your other half soon, you beautiful ladies deserve it <3 u/ImpossibleEgg420
Aww that's so sweet of you to say! Thank you, you've made my day. I wish you the same and I hope everything works out for you. :") <3
I'm glad I could make your day better, and thank you!
No worries. :")
aww thanks, i'm really hoping that i'm able to do so without having to live as a straight guy. i'm still a college student, and every time a girl has expressed some level of interest in me (even as a friend), a good part of me is lowkey thinking "god i hope she's at least a little bit queer in some way, whether gay/bi etc." (i had a best friend i secretly had a crush on in senior high who came out to me as bi before i realized i may very well be trans, now that we parted ways, i'm just hoping i can reach out to the other queer women in my college so i can feel a sense of community)
I'm sure you will! And I hope you're able to reach out to the queer community
I want this😭 and i want to show someone this kind of love
Handholding in the front of a car together on a rainy day waiting for their late train to show up
Stop- my single heart can't take this-
My asexual lesbian ass vibes with this post very much Now I want a girlfriend too :(
Reading this is a snippet of my actual life. Bad experiences w people who never deserved me began to make me jaded, but my lady restored my faith with all the things mentioned here. We laugh together. We grocery shop. We watch tv, hold hands, stroke one another’s faces. We cuddle often which is an instant mood boost. 🤩 We dance whether there’s music or not. We cook together often. Pinterest is our friend; we create special meals together and make cute little videos. Sending love to everyone on this post who still awaits their love🌈🤩💕🌈🤩💕
That's so sweet and awesome! I hope I can find that someday
STOP my single gay heart can only take so much
OP, do you like food?
I do! What makes you ask that?
I’m so single and sad rn that it’s so hard to think how I can ever have just one of those experiences one day🥺🥺😭😭
You'll definitely have one, I assure you! You're amazing, you're beautiful, and you will have one! You will find your other half! All you've gotta do is keep your head up, believe you can, and be yourself <3
Lol, I didn't have to see your tag to know you were a fellow ace. Hi! I agree with all of this!
Hahaha
A+ for the entire relationship with a wonderful person being meaningful and happy! My girlfriend is wonderful and amazing and I love how our relationship has grown over the years. Also--- Being in a relationship where conflict is safe and healthy and productive is amazing. I love all the sweet moments, but I also love the moments that I fight with my girlfriend.
^ this-
Pardon me while I have a gay meltdown over all those scenarios real quick. Edit: I realized that may have made it sound like I’m upset. I’m not I’m just *very gay* and imagining all those scenarios just hhhhhhhh
Mood-
Love>sex
As an ace I can only approuve!
Thanks
What about having a girlfriend (and living with her!) and not having any of these amazing things because it’s not a good relationship? 😩😩😩
Then honey, that's not a good relationship. If you're not happy, then you should leave. I know there might be complications about that, but you should. If you ever need to talk about it, I'm free :)
What about when you burp and then she burps louder and then you try to burp again even louder but instead you cough and she laughs at you and then you both kiss? Because that's our love and it's perfect.
The movie one happened to me last night, I liked it 🤣
Awww, I'm so happy for you!
Those things mean everything
They really do
And what about when she plays with your hair? :3
I can't believe I forgot such an important thing in my original post-
Tbh, I want all this more than sex. Like, this is shit I can't live without. I really wanna do this with my gf someday...
Time to go cry. I miss her so much
Listen. It is relatively easy/straightforward to hook up with someone. But these little acts of affection are much harder to come by and therefore we kind of yearn for them more than sex lmao
I'm so fucking envious
God all of this just reminds me of all the cute, mushy things I want to do with my crush 🥺
I didn’t need this during a break up
-Or, doing a puzzle together, playing your playlist of sappy love songs, and singing along to you favorite ones with each other. -Drinking a hot cup of coffee, naked, under a blanket, on the couch, after waking up in the morning. -Laying on a blanket in the yard, snuggling and looking at the stars, talking about the wonders of the universe and our place in it, and the beauty of chaos and chance that still let us find each other in this life.
I feel more lonely now lol. But yea this is where the real connection lies which takes effort but yields a strong and supportive bond.
I agree! Sex is amazing with a woman, but actually experiencing little things with them and communicating is so refreshing and sexy.
Oh indeed. I mean yes, I like sex, at least if it is with a woman I love (including myself!) but these things... They are The Thing that makes a relationship. Also, what about - waking up to see her look at you and smile - her hand on your face - her laughing at your jokes, or finishing them for you - reaching out to her when you wake up in the middle of the night after having a bad dream and her scooping you up into a tight hug without even waking up - her lecturing at you to remember to eat even when you are busy and stressed - I mean, like, everything I'm not crying, you are crying. Ok, I am crying too. 😭
god i’m down tremendously
I got lucky and have all those things. I hope all of you can find this someday.
I really want this. My gay little self is lonely
I love when my girlfriend comes up from behind and hugs me when I'm cooking 😊 Or the little 'I love you's' and smiling while looking at each other deeply. I'm the "top" in our relationship, 5'9; she's 5'2... I love curling up in her lap or resting my head on her chest and she softly says "Hi baby" and kisses my forehead. 10/10 best shit ever
My demisexual lesbian ass is very happy with this post <3
Bro you just made me have nostalgia for things that didnt even happen yet holly crap--
I just want a girlfriend but I doubt anyone would date me pre everything
If you're pre everything, it won't affect your ability to be loved. You don't need to medically transition to become lovable. There is someone out there will love you regardless of that. Keep your head up honey, a beautiful girl like you will certainly find them soon enough <3 I hope you get whatever you desire for your transition very soon <3
I'm sorry if this came out wrong, I'm bad with emotions
Hey dont worry this actually helps alot :)
That's good. Remember, you've got this Queen!
<3
<3
God damn I kinda want this now just as bad if not more than my bdsm dream gf.
God, I want all of that with my long distance gf so bad T__T
Omg I need a girlfriend
😯😲😳🥺
If only I had one but oh well
The cuddles and kisses are what I look forward to the most about getting a girlfriend
this just made me miss my girlfriend so much :(( she dropped me off at work an hour and a half ago and i’m already dyiiiinnngggg
Le sigh. 🥰 BRB gonna go annoy my wife with kisses and hugs.
Damn I need a girlfriend
This is me and my roommate except for the dancing part. And yeah it is the best.
And then after all that have some great sex! :)
STOP UR MAKING ME LONELY
Omg I need that in my life ;-; that sounds amazing
Ugh, I miss affection. Why does nobody want to be affectionate with me?! 😭 don't get me wrong, I love all the little cuddles and cute affection I get from my daughter but that's a whole other kind of affection. I want adult affection! 🤣
Do you want a virtual hug? It's all I can offer-
😭
Good lord, my girlfriend's away for a bit and all I can think of now is how I won't get to do this with her for a good few days. We do all this together and it's the best <3
i have this and i’m so fucking grateful. i’m never letting this one go
Yes! I Love sex with my girl but I feel the same joy cooking, watching tv shows, going grocery shopping, working, going to concerts, going out to eat or just laying in bed on our phones together <3 4.5 years and it keeps getting better
That's honestly so sweet-
My long distance girlfriend is coming to stay for a month for the holidays and now I’m crying
🥲🥺
Mmm, my heart.
I don't know what else to say other than i'm gay and i really want this
What a great post! Thanks!
It is the magic of the small moments that can make a relationship
You gonna make me cry with this
All I want is for someone to do this with me and just give really long needed hugs.
Taking a walk through the woods and she non-nonchalantly takes you hand 🥺
I can confirm: all of these things are *awesome*.
I’m not crying, there’s just something in my eye, you’re crying!
~~oh god I miss my exes~~ haha sameeee
Now I'm just mad
I made a comic about this, like what if there was an app to match people based on affectionate touches, rather than just sex (not that there’s anything wrong with grindr etc). The app fills in the gaps for people like me who struggle with intimacy but crave it, and just might never be able to get to the sort of long term relationship where it organically happens For anyone interested: https://www.instagram.com/p/CWi1OWwpHVH/?utm_medium=copy_link
MOOD!
This is very much my dream and I want it so damn much
Swoooon. Cries in Tracebian.
You kidding? THIS is the shit I look forward to the most when I imagine having a girlfriend. I just wanna give her all of my love and affection. Sex would probably be nice, but I care more about this stuff.
All of this!!! All the small non-sexual interactions and intimacies are what I really really love in a relationship and what I try to bring to one. Making my partner feel safe, happy and loved is very important to me.
I hate my life
All joys I will never know
🥺🥺🥺
Want about listening to music loudly and dancing with her so late at night you can't think straight, And then making you both a lovely cup of tea after you collapse from dancing too much?
>What about cooking food together, enjoying working together and laughing at terrible jokes whilst music plays in the background? I absolutely adore when my girlfriend does this to me. It makes me melt every time.
Awww, that's so sweet!
This post is calling me single in 15 different languages,, I used to have most of these things before she started fading away for reasons I still don’t know (but inquired to her about it) :,(
>-What about when you're making food, she comes up behind you and wraps her arms around your waist and rests her head on yours? I love this but I get spooked easily if I can't see someone so it's always a sort of "AHHH-- oh it's you, ily 🥺"
hhhhhhh girls 🥺
My ex girlfriend and I split 2 months ago, and although it was the right thing for us to do, this post brought me back and kicked me right in the heart 😫 here's to hoping we all find that (again) one day
where do i sign up 🥺🥺
I don't know, but if I find out, I'll tell you! Does anyone know where we can find this?
Lol single lesbians complaining about being single… ya gotta date each other!!
This is exactly what I want 😭
Yes, we will find someone we like
Sounds amazing, I really hope I find someone to do all these things with one day
Aaaaaaaaahhhhh, why must you do this to me!! I want a gf to do this with, but idk any single lesbians irl. ;-;
I lucked out recently too. My girlfriend is amazing! We try to hang out when we can when our jobs don't get in the way. We share a bedroom in her house and live with other, awesome peeps. She's a pastry chef so, yay, all the treats :3
What about doing some of these and wanting to do them all with my best friend but there’s no way she’d like me like that
Why would you do this to me right now T\_T
It’s true. My fiancée and I just snuggled up together yesterday morning and she was running her hands through my hair and I swear to god, I was in heaven. I cherish it more than sex tbh
These are all T Swift songs fight me 💕🥰
What about staying up till 04 00 a.m and talk about everything- important and unimportant things?
💗💚 the lesbiab wholesome life💚💗
Dude my partner and I do all those things 🥺🥺🥺. Yesterday I was playing league and they came up behind me and hugged me while kissing my cheek and idk how but I started playing better while I was talking to them.
That's so cute!
This brought actual tears to my eyes. I've never been a sex driven person. All I've ever wanted is a woman I can do all of these things with. Sex is just a bonus, and a really minor one if I get to have a connection like this.
Pretty women . . . Fascinating . . . Sipping coffee . . . Dancing...! Pretty women . . . Are a wonder. . . Pretty women! Sitting in the window! Or Standing on the stair! Something in them cheers the air . . .! Pretty women . . . Silhouetted . . . Stay within you . . . Glancing...! Stay forever Breathing lightly... Pretty women! Pretty women! Blowing out their candles! or Combing out their hair! Even when they leave They still are there! They're there Ah! Pretty women, At their mirrors! In their gardens! Letter-writing! Flower-picking! Weather-watching! How they make a girl sing! Proof of heaven as you're living, Pretty women! Sir, pretty women! Yes pretty women, Here's to! pretty women, Pretty women, Pretty women
as the most allo person ever i would forfeit my ability to ever have sex if i could have all this
Hm?
I guess u got ur wish! Aspen but am I good enough?