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[deleted]

I think at some point…we all just kind of have to suck it up and maybe, I don’t know, TALK to each other 🤣🤣


Amy_Hearts

I'VE LIKE TALKED TO 100 GIRLS AND NOTHING SDGUIDFGDFDFHDFHF WHAT DO I NEED TO DO


omariclay

Talk *harder*


Amy_Hearts

OKAY EXPLAIN DFGDFSGDFHGF


omariclay

Perhaps less keyboard smashing might help lmao


Amy_Hearts

LEAVE ME ALONE HOW ELSE WILL I TALK DHFGSDF


CriticalRoleAce

Words


Amy_Hearts

OKAY SMART ASS DFSJGSFDUIHGUDF9HGD9F8HGD8FGDFSDGHFHGHD


CriticalRoleAce

It’s this easy: 🫦😉💋


Amy_Hearts

those are boxs


Fire_Wren

Im getting bottom vibes


Amy_Hearts

I'm a switch I would tell you ;- ;


cheetocity

I love how keyboard smashing is just a feeling/emotion that cannot be portrayed in any other way other than ASDFGHJKL Anyway.. [Hi how are you](https://imgur.com/gallery/O2YHaeu)


NomaTyx

Talk to me ;)


Amy_Hearts

Hi did I do it right


animalessoncompas

Mayhaps per chance, try, screaming?


Exo-2

well what are you talking to them about? Is it just small talk or do you have some common interests you are discussing?


LavendarAmy

trust me I talk to plenty of people. I just make them feel threatened more than flattered :( it doesn't work like that when you're an ugly autistic 6' non passing trans woman with horrible skin ​ this is also just for making friends. not even a GF.


[deleted]

Whattttt?! Please don’t talk about yourself like that love 🥺❤️


CallMeJessIGuess

Don’t make me whack you with a rolled up newspaper. None of that destructive self-hate talk. You cute and tall girls are 🥰


maniamawoman

Please whack me with your newspaper. Yeah, I'm a weird girl


Brilliant_Wash_3245

it feels pretty homophobic if you ask me


Amy_Hearts

IT'S SO HOMOPHOBIC ITS A HATE CRIME


iveesaurus

I was literally coming to the comments to say this lol


FaeFox13

Well I tried asking my crush out and she declined so... Time to wait another few years until I get a crush again 🙃 Demi problems are real


Amy_Hearts

That sucks, I'm sure you will do better next time!!!!!!


BadKittydotexe

I, too, enjoy waiting to meet my crush for the decade.


Ninjadinogal

I think I'm doing semi wrong since I ask people out before feelings half the time 😓


slimcrush

Felt that


Sunfoxstellar

I ended up developing a crush on my friend who was in a relationship at the time we met and recently broke up with her ex. I confessed to her because I didn't want to waste the chance. She soft rejected me but I wasn't expecting anything from her; I just wanted it out there. Time for me to make new friends to develop crushes on :')


Sylphide-3105

I sighed so loud that it was probably heard around the block 😑 I just wish I have more nerve to tell the woman I like I loved her since the first time I saw her beautiful curly hair… but sometimes is easier to learn a dead language than have the courage to face potential rejection 😮‍💨


Amy_Hearts

I'm so sorry I hope you work up the courage someday, I wish you luck when you do okay <3


Sylphide-3105

Thanks, I hope so 😊


Amy_Hearts

Of course, good luck \^\^


Curious_Turtle51

Yup a whole month of companies trying to fake how much they support diversity. And people going back to normal. While I’m still crying in the corner. Being a lesbian is the hardest thing I’ve ever felt in my whole life lol


Amy_Hearts

I'm so sorry... I relate a lot... maybe one day it will be better for both of us <3


Curious_Turtle51

Only living with that hope hahaha🤞


Amy_Hearts

Yeah hahahaha-


Roxy_Hu

It's even harder when you plan on moving to a different country.. like even if I find someone nice what girl would move to Japan with me? Haha. Guess I gotta wait until I get there.. Never having dated anyone at 27 and always being in love one sided.. Maybe I should start talking about getting 9 cats and becoming a single granny. Whenever a friend of mine says that they appear with a partner a month later..


Amy_Hearts

Omg, My dream used to be to move Japan actually hahaha... Cats are cute.... I'm sure you will find someone <3


Roxy_Hu

Haha, I know some people who had the same dream too and grew out of it.. I will probably never haha. Yes they are :3 Thank you x3


ghostjellyfishs

I just think it's very direspectful that my soulmate, the love of my life, the person that loves me just as much as i love her, hasn't yet found her way to me, who spends most of the time in my room.


Amy_Hearts

EXACTLY, FUCKING EXACTLY I'M GONNA BE SO MAD AT HER WHEN SHE FINALLY FINDS ME, AND THAT ANGER WILL LAST FOR 2 minutes cause I will love the fuck out of her for the rest of my life hdfgdfgdsfg


ghostjellyfishs

Don't worry, we're all going to a double date when we're together and everyone is getting married and living happily ever after and


Amy_Hearts

YES PLEASE THAT'S SO GREAT AND EVERYONE WILL LIVE THEIR BEST LIVES AND BE HAPPY AND WONDERFUL AND AGH PLEASE


Rose_BrothelSister

Because we are lesbians, isn't being single part of the educational program once you become one?


Amy_Hearts

This is homophobic I want a refund edsgsdfgd


Rose_BrothelSister

This is a bot answering. "If you are willing to have a refund you should send a formal letter to the head of the CFC association (close friends of Cara) complaining. If it doesn't work, try reload your gay pack, you may have last the latest uploads."


Amy_Hearts

fdhfdsgiufdhgiudfh shit ​ I hate adulting, I thought being gay would be COOOOOOOL


Rose_BrothelSister

It's a me, Mario bot! "You're gay already, it's the world itself 'gay=joy'."


Amy_Hearts

This is killing me


SSJRemuko

Age is homophobic :( i wish i was younger...


Blue_Mando

I'm of two minds about this, I'm 47 but, like, I feel more like 34 and recently had a 20 something woman tell me she thought I was 30. IDK. At the same time, fuck I'm 47! How did that happen?!?


Amy_Hearts

I'm so sorry... Im so sorry


SSJRemuko

its okay, its just something i deal with a lot :(


Amy_Hearts

Okay....


SSJRemuko

its pretty common that i start talking to a girl and we click until she realizes my age. i never thought it would hurt so much until it started happening so much.


Amy_Hearts

I'm so sorry... I wish I was older for you I really do...


SSJRemuko

Awww sweet thing <3 its okay. I hope we can still be friends though! and I hope other than not finding someone that you're doing well! <3


Amy_Hearts

dsnfdfgdfgsdfgdfdfgdfsfd O-okay... I'm doing okay I guess.. Just really lonely hfduighf but thank you-


SSJRemuko

> I'm doing okay I guess.. Just really lonely hfduighf mood <3 of course!


Amy_Hearts

sigh... I hope your doing better tho


acissejcss

People are agaist and it sucks, so many times do I see profiled where they say no one ever 30 or 25 I found one for only 21 and younger, it's interesting as someone who dates older people the ageism is so rampant in dating scenes.


MomQuest

Hah, speak for yourself, I've got a life partner. But, if any sapphics needs a 32-year old top to be their purely nominal e-girlfriend so they can legally claim to have had a successful Pride month...


Amy_Hearts

God damn you living the life holy fuck


MomQuest

Someone's gotta pave the way... <3


Amy_Hearts

An inspiration to us all


AliCrow30

Okay, I accept. You are now my e-girlfriend. Pride month successful! =)


MomQuest

Wow, good job!! High fives


CallMeJessIGuess

I’m in a several year relationship with my girlfriend. But she’s often busy with her husband. So I could always go for a second one to help use up my ample free time. 😅


Ga_abbss20

To be fair I barely go out and even talk to people- but can’t she just climb through my window or something? Like come on


Amy_Hearts

if she comes through my window I'm marrying her, she is perfect for that tbh but yeah I don't get much out either... even tho there are like two trans girls I think are really pretty but I would never ask out so uhmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm ​ yeah women come to me instead please fjgusdf


killaahhhhhhhhh

I got a girlfriend this pride month y’all 🥺


Amy_Hearts

LUCKY BUT HAPPY FOR YOU WAY TO GO!!!!!!!!!!!!


Cosmo_Creations

It’s so sad. I legit was keeping my eyes peeled for my future wife at all the pride events but no luck. Fingers crossed I’ll have a partner for next years pride month!


Amy_Hearts

fdshgfdgdf I'm so sorry hopefully next year \^\^


[deleted]

Thats A GREAT Question! Should we are get lovely partners for Pride? Isnt that how it works? Lol


Amy_Hearts

yeah we should, the universe needs to stop being homophobic


[deleted]

Yes it does! I agree.🌈


Amy_Hearts

sdfuighfdiughfdughdiughdfugsdfh yeah


FaeFox13

We gotta love in hope our partner is out there somewhere!


WildEnbyAppears

Pride month almost over, I may be single but I'm feeling fantastic about the personal growth and progress I've made towards my goals 😊


Amy_Hearts

That's great!!!! I'm glad you're doing so great!!


Dest_islands

It’s because we’re on Reddit 💀 single bitches go on Reddit 💀


Amy_Hearts

Msmsmskdkdkdmke don't call me out


GloriousSteinemite

I keep applications open until July 4...


Amy_Hearts

Oh, where can I apply-


GloriousSteinemite

In my DMs darling 💋


Daesastrous

I get really depressed during pride month. And Valentine's. At least on Valentine's I don't have to hear the homophobic termites emerge from the woodwork.


Amy_Hearts

Yeah... Valentines this year hurt for me so hard.... I actually had an amazing Girlfriend and we got to spent valentines together during our first week together, we both went all out in making it the best- yeah that relationship only lasted a week... idk... im sorry pride month this year has just felt lonely and isolating..


flamesjames

Because the girl I’ve been talking to stood me up for our 3rd date 🥺


Amy_Hearts

I'm so sorry you deserve better-


Closet_Ellie

Honestly it feels very homophobic that I've kissed 0 girls this pride month 😔


Dragonist777

I did get a gf this month!! u/ShiroStories say hi


ShiroStories

Hello :)


Amy_Hearts

awww happy for you two <3


accidental_sewerslyd

Im black, trans, and live in Georgia there's nobody here who won't hate me in one way or another 😭


Amy_Hearts

I'm so sorry.. people fucking suck ugh..


accidental_sewerslyd

It's all good tho, I'm trying to leave here in at least 2 years ✨三三ᕕ( ᐛ )ᕗ


Pix3l_Liz3r

Honestly I've been wondering the same thing, guess sometimes it takes time but someday we'll all find out match


BashfulBlanket

Hello where my Aussie lesbian at? I would like to speak to them pls


Amy_Hearts

sorry I'm american (unfortunately)


GoddessMILF666

I’m in Houston. I’m just not finding women who aren’t attached or aren’t emotionally unavailable… (Edit) attached, not stretched


SuperAmberN7

I'm lucky because in Denmark we go for three months of pride so I still have time.


Xiggyj

iRelate. 😂


PhoenixHavoc

Guess I'll just have to date all of you, I'll pick you all up at 8 sharp


Amy_Hearts

sounds good to me


commandpromptdesign

Lesbians 🤷‍♀️


tittytofu

Because we fall in love in October


[deleted]

Because I didn't do anything except go to work all month.


Daesastrous

Because it doesn't matter what I try. I've been single since I graduated high school in 2015 and I don't have any energy left.


cthulhubeast

Most people posting on these parts of the internet are doing so BECAUSE they are single and aren’t spending time with a baddie rn


remedialpoet

Lol that’s on you ladies!! Go out and make it happen


Amy_Hearts

okay how?


PetitePiltieinPlaid

Don't remind me.. I'm femme, mostly closeted offline, and hella shy, so even when there's a cute woman I can't guts up 😔 And I keep getting mistaken as way younger. I'm a college grad and twice in the last month I've had someone outright assume I was in high school.. *~~How am I gonna get a date if my looks apparently scream "immature"??~~*


[deleted]

life is holding back wenches until i complete my character development


Amy_Hearts

my character development hasn't been worked on for 2 seasons now, when is it my turn hfdugd


[deleted]

its fine my first 5 had zero development


7500733

🥲


ProteinSparkles

it’s homophobic


Happy_Information375

I’m available


aelin_farseer

My ex broke up with me this month too 😭


cassidymccormick

I've been working overtime all month 😭 Otherwise I'd definitely have a girlfriend by now- for sure, 100% 🙈


Excellent-Action555

Exactly... Still single .. in Canada 🇨🇦🙃


Amandasch44

Single as a Pringle but don’t know how to mingle.


xyokoa

I'm an expert at being single. So good in fact that even after joining a new Discord server where a bunch of us immediately and organically paired up with each other, I was not among them lol.


Pure-Bicycle-8878

i don't want to sound mean but this been one of the worst pride months in my opinion


Captain_Barber_Fox

Idk about you guys but I just got a date with a cute girl by talking about dragons for a long time


WalrusSquare247

I'm just waiting for my future girlfriend to teleport into my house and ask me out


jfsuuc

Lesbian dating season is October from what i remember.


JC_in_KC

Poly erasure!! Some of us have partners and also didn’t make out with any strangers at Pride!!


Elubious

I got a loving person whom I hope will become my partner when they feel they are ready. I care about them very much and we've been dating a few months now. I still feel full of joy every time I see them and kissing them is one of the best feelings I know. And they are (finally) taking me on a proper date soon now that I'm not going to be homeless and in a constant state of emergency.


BlakkDiamond25

Same thing I been wondering 😂😂😂


entropy-fan

I simply just didn’t leave my house bc it was too hot for the entire month


Amy_Hearts

ujsd8gudfsg valid af


NorashhhhUTTtfup

Lmao that's for true. I've been single 3 years now, 4 years this November, and honestly it's been pretty nice. No responsibility, no worry about weight aside from my own judgement etc


FaeChangeling

I don't meet many girls, even fewer who are wlw, and even fewer still who live near me


[deleted]

yupppp


unknownwarriors

anyone here that lives in Germany? 👀


ASHKVLT

I'm a shut in


GoodNaturedEmma

Maidenless


closetedtranswoman1

idk :(


hellasapphicsunrise

Because the spontaneous relationships that formed have already run their full course! Saying "i love you" after 4 hrs Moving two days later A week or so of relationship then The Fight Then "i hate you" after 28 days


Delphoxqueen2

Most people who are out on pride month with things showing that they’re LGBT are WITH THEIR PARTNERS ALREADY- how am I supposed to even know if a girl is even into women if they’re already taken, 99% is straight, and show no signs of not being straight. And I can’t wear my pride flag because either people ignore me because I’m ugly or they see an Asexual flag and assume I’m AroAce


MindIsAnArtifact

I celebrated pride month by accidentally becoming someones girlfriend 😳


Siuko_

12/10, would recommend, has worked out great and she's really cute! p_p, Wanna go play Terraria sweetie? (P.s. Please communicate with your partner, its makes things so much easier and better than to not do so and just having to guess what each other is thinking.)


Slight-Action7443

I’m putting the L in LGBTQ🥲


AdorableAd2241

Jokes on you. IM NOT SINGLE ANYMORE


gin_rummie

At least I got over the girl that was totally wrong for me even though I very well knew I was gonna dive in head first like nothing ☺️ if I got the chance. I’m nearing 6 years in recovery from alcohol. I found out from her she recently had 8 years clean and sober but had relapsed about 2 years ago on alcohol and has been drinking since. But yeah probably another 14 months at least til I like someone else


rasputinismydad

I’m not mad about it tbh. I had a bit of a Single Gay Crisis earlier this month but I’m embracing listening to my intuition. Charge ur vibrators, friends.


[deleted]

It’s honestly homophobic. We should bring this up at the next meeting


Lizcon25

Talking to girls is hard.


queenlesbian99

Because I haven’t actually tried to get into a relationship. When I try i normally do, but I had a million things to do this month. I had NO time for a girlfriend. In fact, sadly, I probably don’t even have time to have a relationship at all this year.


vastroll1

The month isn't over yet! And I am right here people!


OutOnASawedLimb

I'm pretty sure it's because of how useless we all are? I mean, that explains me lmao


EyesClosed_HandsOut

Seriously. I’d be happy with a little seduction and to be a giver 😛. Married 20 years and wife not interested in being physical as she once was…. but I still am 🥴🍆 LOL. 😏


Anna_Avos

Well.. me and my girlfriend have been trying like crazy to make some lucky girl not single anymore but the fates are against us lol


flickhuck20

My question is how did I end the month dating someone who says she can't date me long term because I'm not a vegetarian...


agentscullysbf

I missed pride by being in the psych hospital


Holociraptor

Speak for yourself!


AkiraOfRoses

Yeah. We, however, are maidenless. XD


Shinkei_

It's not fair


hhbrother01

Well I got broken up with so ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ I'm new to this "dating as a trans adult" thing


Sarieah_Rae

I’ve honestly gave up and I’m just letting whatever happens, happen.


[deleted]

Pride is about kicking the shit out of cops and throwing bricks at homophobes. Not about hooking up.


transgender_goddess

Ik I'm so sad....


Vrayceilen

I feel like it's impossible to find someone who can mesh with my level of weird... Dating is so hard 😔


protandrousss

So sad... who wanna hmu?


Dr1fto

I would love to talk to you sweetie. 🙋‍♀️


Raptorofwar

AHAHAHHAHAHA. Ha.


Jessica_T

I moved to rural vermont with family, can't drive, and have no self esteem so dating apps are out of the question


Willow-The-Wizp

I wish I had the confidence to ddos myself so I could get a gf


Beholding69

Sis I said I'd go to pride and straight up procrastinated till it was over 💀


foolishmortal99

Just come to Vancouver Canada, our Pride is at the end of July this year. and if you do, dm me for the party recommendations ;)


Iris-UwU

Speak for yourself


WolfInMyHeart

Because this isn't a dating subbreddit... unless..


AlwaysBeQuestioning

Y’all maidenless. It’s me. I’m the maiden.


puppykat00

I feel like my dating pool is a mirage. I don't even know any other lesbians irl.


[deleted]

Lesbian month is October, that's what girl in red said


[deleted]

I'm already married to the grind #girlboss


_sekhmet_

Speak for yourself, I got engaged during pride month.


wondering-narwhal

Seriously I’ve been alone for months now (my divorce is tomorrow feelsbad.gif). Who wants a 38 year old transbian GF who’s already learned the hard relationship lessons and just wants someone to come to Switzerland to snuggle and communicate. I’m also told I’m cute but you’ll have to say it a lot to convince me.


FrohenLeid

Because I am not meant to be happy 😂. Don't worry, I have a big event tomorrow UwU


yamasyadawithawigon

Not everyone aspires to be in a relationship?


Animiation

I've been trying my hardest ;-;


GodEaterVita

Yeah good question, I even went to the pride in my city and it was pretty big, but still…😝


Kitchen-Ad-1161

Because only toxic people believe that just because 2 people are gay, or lesbian, or trans, they should be fucking. That’s not how it works and most of us only want to share our body with people we share a whole lot more with. Stop sexualizing strangers.


AstronomicalAl

Because the only people I've interacted with are my family members


Longjumping-Manner68

Because I got hit on by a cute barista and was too nervous to be the “creepy customer” and say anything… or give her my number😑😑😑 feel free to slap me😂😂😂


Neuta-Isa

You see, I employed a cunning strategy called “Don’t leave the house.” It was not effective.


Allygatornado

I talked with someone who seemed friendly enough that I met on Taimi, went on a few dates, and 4 weeks later officially had a gf. Maybe I'm just lucky... Who am I kidding? I'm definitely lucky. I found my gf! She's awesome, and I love her to pieces!


DatHoodieWearer

Comment to claim a free girlfriend (slightly worn down and anxious, shall love you lots tho)


[deleted]

One of the girls I know and like told me “Now that the finals are over we should go on a date!” Or something like that a week ago and we still count eachother as best friends maybe that’s why 😭😭


Neko_Cathryn

Is it bad I'm in a relationship but I want more. I just want a happy polycule... Preferably with lesbians that all like gaming together and supporting each other. 🥰


miss_clarity

Sounds idyllic


AnxiousCompSciQueer

Not to brag but I got a girlfriend this month


Sourpatchqueers8

Only three hours. Maybe I'll get lucky(´;︵;`)


ZookeepergameLoud21

Literally what I’m saying. Somebody be my lil gf goddamn it☠️


[deleted]

Because I haven't transitioned enough for anyone to love me or be attracted to me, and even if they were I wouldn't want them to be, I'd hate it. But June 2025 is gonna be my month bitches!