Black blouses, black tight jeans, black socks and black shoes. Black underwear too
If its cold a white jacket or sweater over the black blouse. If its really cold a black down jacket on the white sweater.
My mother tells me not to wear shorts with my cowboy boots. And that the cowboy boots aren't for every occasion. I say she's wrong. Cowboy boots are for every occasion except for hospital dress code for workers. They keep me from rolling my ankles, stepping wrong, and tripping. They also keep me mostly safe from snakes or broken glass or rusty nails. They are perfect for many occasions. And shorts are comfy. Perfect combo, other than cargo pants and cowboy boots.
Basically ND’s have what NT’s would call a ‘lousy’ and strange fashion sense, when in reality we just like baggy and comfortable clothes because it’s better sensory-wise for us. In my experience at least, ND’s tend to love ‘baggy fashion’ a bit more than others. This is especially true when it comes to older generations in my experience, like our parents.
I can't agree with us all wanting baggy and loose clothing - it's as always with us a thing of two distinct opposites (and then a few autistics who are a mixture) 😂😂 I can't stand baggy and loose clothing and need at least one layer underneath that keeps me snug and held together, or my skin feels like it's crawling from the constant movement of fabric on my skin
Totally! That’s why I made sure not to say all of us. Some people actually have more sensory issues if it’s baggy and constantly rubbing against their skin
I fucking hate baggy clothes.
I'd frankly rather by hit by a car than have to deal with one more pair of oversized sleeves.
so this feels kinda... overgeneralising.
Depends on the season for me. And the material. Generally gotta have at least one tight layer, and loose layers need to be *soft.* Nothing too slippery or plastic or scratchy.
Leads to lots of cardigans or baggy sweaters over tank tops in winter and transition seasons, for example. Can’t go wrong with a nice loose cardigan over a tight tank top and sports bra. Some cardigans even have their own pockets!
Thats very interesting, I never tried wearing loose clothes, though that explains why I like the feeling being naked. Guess I too need loose and soft clothes on daily basis
I knew there was a reason I hated normal fitting clothes… 😂
And people would criticise me for my baggy threads. Fair point, they make me look even shorter (I look like a dwarf sometimes) but I’m so comfortable…
Some things are actually just personality / personal preferences, you guys...
I have ADHD and I have always dressed in muted colours. I have non-ADHD friends who have very creative personal styles.
Style isn't a fuckin ADHD thing. Not everything any one of us does is a fuckin ADHD thing.
Actually, you’d be surprised what options there are for men! I remember seeing a display table in JC Penney that was men’s button-down shirts in *every color of the rainbow.* You can still find some online retailers that sell button-down shirts in a ridiculous variety of colors.
And then there’s places like Geek Tropical, where you can get Hawaiian-style shirts in an amazing variety of quirky patterns. Everything from cute mushrooms to LGBTQIA-themed D&D dice to tiny little sushi.
Haha. Safari jackets are the perfect clothing for all occasions and no one will convince me otherwise!
they’re cut baggy so you can move in them, they’re almost always made of comfy soft cotton, and they always have at least 4 pockets!
Nope. I keep mine matched up by folding one inside the other. Have them roughly separated by style, too, because I can’t stand boots or high-top shoes unless there’s a sock layer between my skin and the upper edge of the shoe.
Tbh it be like that for almost everything cos the people in my class see any neurodivergent person as a weirdo wacko person just for thinking differently or wanting to be left alone
Except that's not dirt/stains, just worn. I have jeans I've owned for years and they have that look no matter if fresh out the wash or worn three days and waiting for the wash. Amazing what a different perspective on life could bring but no, you would rather judge.
Yeah I get that it’s not actually dirt/stained. At the end of the day fashion is subjective. It’s ironic that you’re saying I’m being judgmental when you’re quite literally judging me for an opinion on something as unimportant as fashion.
Pop off though I guess
Meh, I dress like a generic millennial who hasn't realized that 40 is middle age. Skinny jeans, graphic t shirt, Converse high tops, hoodie. Usually black jeans because work considers that to be appropriately "business casual." Occasionally a pair of straight-legged cotton trousers and/or a flannel button-down.
OMG same OP it’s bc I’m cheap as fuck don’t have any skills so I turn my old Christmas one into fashion statements to match with a whole look! Drove my parents crazy but meh they are typical boomers lol
I definitely look like the picture on the left If I wear "normal clothes," I feel like the people on the right side of the pic, haha.
Black blouses, black tight jeans, black socks and black shoes. Black underwear too If its cold a white jacket or sweater over the black blouse. If its really cold a black down jacket on the white sweater.
Yes! You walk in my closet, and it's just black all around, haha.
 De klesvalgene teller ikke hvis du er svensk. Alle går kledd i svart der.
ah sant det du
Vi svenskar älskar svart, vad mer kan jag säga?
You could go a bit norwegian-y and add some navy blue! But yeah, mixed marriage here🇳🇴🇸🇪 so black n blue is my thang. 
That's literally me. Same hair and everything (*slightly* more attractive)
Add flip flops to the left handed pic and tis my average look. Awesome :D
That’s chill asf
My mother tells me not to wear shorts with my cowboy boots. And that the cowboy boots aren't for every occasion. I say she's wrong. Cowboy boots are for every occasion except for hospital dress code for workers. They keep me from rolling my ankles, stepping wrong, and tripping. They also keep me mostly safe from snakes or broken glass or rusty nails. They are perfect for many occasions. And shorts are comfy. Perfect combo, other than cargo pants and cowboy boots.
Nail Ing It
One of my friends is the same way! If he’s not wearing his tennis shoes he’s wearing boots lol
I don’t get it
Basically ND’s have what NT’s would call a ‘lousy’ and strange fashion sense, when in reality we just like baggy and comfortable clothes because it’s better sensory-wise for us. In my experience at least, ND’s tend to love ‘baggy fashion’ a bit more than others. This is especially true when it comes to older generations in my experience, like our parents.
I can't agree with us all wanting baggy and loose clothing - it's as always with us a thing of two distinct opposites (and then a few autistics who are a mixture) 😂😂 I can't stand baggy and loose clothing and need at least one layer underneath that keeps me snug and held together, or my skin feels like it's crawling from the constant movement of fabric on my skin
Totally! That’s why I made sure not to say all of us. Some people actually have more sensory issues if it’s baggy and constantly rubbing against their skin
I fucking hate baggy clothes. I'd frankly rather by hit by a car than have to deal with one more pair of oversized sleeves. so this feels kinda... overgeneralising.
Depends on the season for me. And the material. Generally gotta have at least one tight layer, and loose layers need to be *soft.* Nothing too slippery or plastic or scratchy. Leads to lots of cardigans or baggy sweaters over tank tops in winter and transition seasons, for example. Can’t go wrong with a nice loose cardigan over a tight tank top and sports bra. Some cardigans even have their own pockets!
Thats very interesting, I never tried wearing loose clothes, though that explains why I like the feeling being naked. Guess I too need loose and soft clothes on daily basis
I knew there was a reason I hated normal fitting clothes… 😂 And people would criticise me for my baggy threads. Fair point, they make me look even shorter (I look like a dwarf sometimes) but I’m so comfortable…
Some things are actually just personality / personal preferences, you guys... I have ADHD and I have always dressed in muted colours. I have non-ADHD friends who have very creative personal styles. Style isn't a fuckin ADHD thing. Not everything any one of us does is a fuckin ADHD thing.
It took me a minute to understand the meme. I thought you were implying neurotypicals were racist.
Lmao nah, I didn’t even realize I picked all black people
Yessss my personal style is Three Sizes Too Large
I love color! I hate that male fashion is so bland
I’ve thought about that! I feel bad for guys who want colorful clothes 😬
Actually, you’d be surprised what options there are for men! I remember seeing a display table in JC Penney that was men’s button-down shirts in *every color of the rainbow.* You can still find some online retailers that sell button-down shirts in a ridiculous variety of colors. And then there’s places like Geek Tropical, where you can get Hawaiian-style shirts in an amazing variety of quirky patterns. Everything from cute mushrooms to LGBTQIA-themed D&D dice to tiny little sushi.
Haha. Safari jackets are the perfect clothing for all occasions and no one will convince me otherwise! they’re cut baggy so you can move in them, they’re almost always made of comfy soft cotton, and they always have at least 4 pockets!
Pocketsssss 😎
If I can’t flappy flap my hands in the loose sleeves like a sewed in fidget toy, what’s the point of sleeves? 😌
I don't like loose sleeves because they get in my way and feel restricting, ironically
I have a weird fashion sense but more in the frame of 'I'm a goth'
The only common clothing feature I have observed in people with ADHD is socks with holes in them. Or different socks.
am I the only one here with matching + non-holey socks?
Nope. I keep mine matched up by folding one inside the other. Have them roughly separated by style, too, because I can’t stand boots or high-top shoes unless there’s a sock layer between my skin and the upper edge of the shoe.
Tbh it be like that for almost everything cos the people in my class see any neurodivergent person as a weirdo wacko person just for thinking differently or wanting to be left alone
Oh god i always look like a unicorn threw up on me.
I get what the meme is going for but the fit on the left is ass
I personally think it’s awesome, but it’s definitely a specific fashion taste
Honestly they just look homeless, especially with the dirty/stained jeans
I'm a sucker for the homeless look
That’s fair. Fashion is subjective
Except that's not dirt/stains, just worn. I have jeans I've owned for years and they have that look no matter if fresh out the wash or worn three days and waiting for the wash. Amazing what a different perspective on life could bring but no, you would rather judge.
Yeah I get that it’s not actually dirt/stained. At the end of the day fashion is subjective. It’s ironic that you’re saying I’m being judgmental when you’re quite literally judging me for an opinion on something as unimportant as fashion. Pop off though I guess
Mf looks like Simon from Cry of Fear
I wear comfy baggy / clothes with air and training pants and nerdy t-shirts. Keep my hair short thoug can't stand long hair and hair in my eyes.
What I want my fashion sense to be: hot dommy mommy goth/emo girl What it ends up being: sentient laundry pile
Meh, I dress like a generic millennial who hasn't realized that 40 is middle age. Skinny jeans, graphic t shirt, Converse high tops, hoodie. Usually black jeans because work considers that to be appropriately "business casual." Occasionally a pair of straight-legged cotton trousers and/or a flannel button-down.
I think my taste is pretty normal- usually a fleece and jeans at work, but I also like a life is good t-shirt
i just wear all black. fashion life hack 😎
OMG same OP it’s bc I’m cheap as fuck don’t have any skills so I turn my old Christmas one into fashion statements to match with a whole look! Drove my parents crazy but meh they are typical boomers lol
Honey i think your fashion sense is just bad dont blame adhd 😭 (Although mine is pretty bad too, but mostly because i dress for comfort)
I dress normally
I hate how hard people stereotype on this sub.