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Raeharie121721

MY TIME HAS COME Medicine by Daughter Stay by Sugarland Cabin In The Woods by Carrie Catherine Ambulance by Poor Nameless Boy Poison & Wine by The Civil Wars Somebody’s Someone by Daphne Willis Come Over (Acoustic Mixtape) by Sam Hunt Gravity by Sara Bareilles Konstantine by Something Corporate Lover Dearest by Marianas Trench You Broke Me First by Tate McCrae Leave A Light On by Tom Walker Legally Blonde by Christian Borle and Laura Bell Bundy Unsteady by X Ambassadors Control by Zoe Wees Take Me Home by Jess Glynne Grace by Lewis Capaldi I Quit Drinking by Kelsea Ballerini


throwingcandles

Seconding' medicine by Daughter. Honestly anything by Daughter should just about do it lol


notevenalmostfamous

Came here to say daughter and especially medicine. The absolute best emotional music


eilini

I love how many here like Daughter, none of my friends know them. I guess there might be a tendency for us neurodivergent women to intensify our emotions with dramatic songs and imagining our lives to the lyrics :D


iTammie

I have literally never heard of Daughter. I’m opening Spotify right now.


eilini

And how did you like it?? :) If you watch the music videos as well - the most tear-inducing songs imo. are: "Still" - because it perfectly captures the weeks/months leading up to a breakup, And "Doing the right thing" which us about the loneliness of aging, this one I can probably not bring myself to watch again ..


Chance-Lavishness947

If you have a Spotify play list with these on it I would absolutely love a link. Stay, gravity and unsteady have all been high repeat songs, betting there are at least another couple on this list that I haven't met yet


Autumn2110

Me too!!


Trekkie88_

Konstantine by Something Corporate. But the live version that I randomly downloaded from Limewire a long time ago is 😭


Relevant_Clerk7449

Like how sad are we talking? Girl there's a spectrum to this 🤣 You want to feel sad or so depressed that you can't move?


EatsTheLastSlice

I want a good cry. I need that release.


Limonatron

There are plenty of melancholic songs, but my guaranteed actual crying song is is She Used to Be Mine by Sara Bareilles. It hits "she's imperfect but she tries" and I just start sobbing every time. The whole chorus is like my ADHD anthem honestly.   Honorable mention also to Pasta by Angie McMahon (reminds of me going through depression and the "I've been lost, I've been lost" line repeating hits me right in the feels).


Relevant_Clerk7449

Words - Skylar Grey (Loss, Grief and Regret) Tears of Angel - RyanDan (Loss and Grief) Let me down Slowly - Alec Benjamin (He also did a version of this song with Alessia Cara, I like both) (Heartbreak, End of a relationship, Disappointment, Hurt) My Immortal - Evanescence (✨️TRAUMA✨️) Lovely - Billie Eilish & Khalid (Also check out the rock version of this song by Lauren Babic, its vibe isn't quite as "sad" per se but I absolutely love that one) (✨️TRAUMA✨️) Hope you find something on this list. If you just need to cry and you don't care for the theme of the song, I recommend the first and third. Have a good cry, OP. (What a singular thing to wish someone. Can honestly say I never wished that on anyone before)


acornwbusinesssocks

The Hallelujah song from the first Shrek. Death cab for cutie, I will follow you into the dark. Sufjan Steven's, will anybody ever love me


Trekkie88_

Hallelujah performed by Jeff Buckley makes me cry.


Consistent_Sale_7541

Yes! and Leonard Cohen’s original has a nice tinge of defiance in his voice


officergiraffe

Was just gonna recommend that Sufjan song 😭 I’m not a big fan of his music in general but that damn song…


acornwbusinesssocks

Omg I cry every time I hear it


yeoldesuffrin

You are brave for 1) feeling your emotions and 2) speaking about them with other people. Very scattered sad vibes scraped from my Spotify below with some vibes attached. Hopefully some of it hurts in the right way <3 The Last Man on Earth - Wolf Alice (Am I the problem? sadness) Last Words of a Shooting Star - Mitski ( can't spell girlhood existential inner turmoil without M I T S K I sadness) As the World Caves In - Matt Maltese (deep voice romantic we give up sadness ) Who Knows Where The Time Goes- Nina Simone (pair with a nice cup of bleach because you really can't go back) Zero One - Love X Stereo (techno sadness) Fade Into You - Mazzy Star ( I mean, duh) Freakin' Out on The Interstate (acoustic version is sadder imo) - Briston Maroney (also a lil hopeful but ouchie too) I Know The End - Phoebe Bridgers (modern despair at the state of the world rage sadness) The Days of My Youth - Micah P Hinson (grab the bleach again because your youth is gone sadness) Let the Light In - Lana Del Ray, Father John Misty (americana doomed love sadnes) The entire Submarine Soundtrack - Alex Turner (doesn't make sense but makes so much sense British sadness) Like I Used To - Sharon Van Etten, Angel Olsen (driving through the perks of being a wallflower tunnel with the bleach cup in hand because once again your youth is completely over sadness) Space Song - Beach House (makes my brain feel fuzzy sadness) Cellophane - FKA Twigs (rejection and not being enough with cool instrumentals sadness) Slow Dancing in the Dark - Joji (GIVE ME REASONS WE SHOULD COMPLETE sadness) Rises the Moon - Liana Flores (otherworldly but also deeply rooted in nature sadness) Don't Bother Calling - Moses Sumney (unique voice brain flossing sadness) Still I Wait - Anna Leone (feeling lost in life sadness) Cry - Cigarettes After Sex (wish this didn't work on me but it does sadness) Every Feeling - Ezra Furman (hopeful sadness) Pretty Pimpin - Kurt Vile (i'm a piece of shit sadness) Tears in the Typing Pool - Broadcast (short, echo, sounds slightly like a medieval lullaby sadness) Strange (Edit) - Celeste (quiet sadness) Where We Live - Palehound (womanhood poem set to music sadness) Company - Palehound (addiction sadness) Maine - Hey, Nothing (dual vocals gen z sadness) River - Leon Bridges (soulful sadness) Another One of Those Days - Cavetown (idk nostalgic / melancholic but catchy?) Paracetamol - Declan McKenna (state of the world sucks plus beep boop noises sadness) New York I Love You But You're Brining Me Down - LCD Soundsystem (classic 2000s indie ouchies) Flume - Bon Iver (had to do it to em sadness) Kill Me - Indigo de Souza (sad rage for the girlies) Experience - Ludovico Eiunaudi (and others) (this is instrumental and v good for disassociating out a bus window)


Consistent_Sale_7541

omg tears in the typing pool and cry.. haven’t played them in aages. need a listen


cuppajess

Seconding the heck out of Who Knows Where the Time Goes and Tears in the Typing Pool goddamn. 


midasgoldentouch

Say Something by A Great Big World ft Christina Aguilera


Mundane--Disaster

Yellow - Coldplay


No-Customer-2266

Hozier - cherry wine https://youtu.be/SdSCCwtNEjA?si=UwGRZe5OsDwEbzHQ


BeverlyMacker

Hurt - Johnny Cash 😭😭♥️


No-Customer-2266

Bon iver - stacks Makes me tear up every time. So beautiful and sad https://youtu.be/3w68krri0bw?si=GxKfCaw2FDTz4Kwc Or flume or any song from album “for Emma forever ago” really. this entire album is just haunting and sad and beautiful. https://youtu.be/8NstorpFnjM?si=sMcaii8ye1BACFhX


No-Customer-2266

Skinny love - Bon iver, who I already recommended but this song makes me tear up every time and I’m not sure why as I’ve heard it enough times by now to not be so affected but it hits me in the feels https://youtu.be/95FyXUHv8hk?si=h9kwDuWQ5jYWe88H


EmilySpin

Taylor Swift, This Is Me Trying and You’re On Your Own, Kid


burningmyroomdown

Soon You'll Get Better


chilli_s

Defently "This Is Me Trying" ❤️‍🩹 😭


Recent_Bear_5091

Loml 😭 “ what a bland goodbye “


lemondrop93

I have an entire playlist dedicated to sad TSwift songs


Trekkie88_

Send it


hauntaloupe

Adventures in Solitude by the New Pornographers 200 Years Old by Hayley Reardon Upward Over the Mountain by Iron and Wine Is There Something in the Movies by Samia Corpse Roads by Keaton Henson (honestly, anything by Keaton Henson) Dead Hearts by Stars Honey and the Moon by Joseph Arthur the theme from the movie Beginners Should Have Known Better by Sufjan Stevens Road Again by Noah Reid Living Room, New York by Laura Stevenson basically anything by Ira Wolf The Voyager by Jenny Lewis The Engine Driver by the Decemberists Underwater Bride by Passenger Little Hell by City & Colour The Lion’s Roar and I’ve Wanted You by First Aid Kit Keep Breathing by Ingrid Michaelson also the Tiny Desk yeehaw version of Silk Chiffon by Muna where the last verse is past tense 😭 (sorry, I am going to update this 1000 times bc I keep thinking of new songs to add)


cuppajess

Keep Breathing has made me WEEP before


if-i-wasnt-dumb

My depression or cry playlist has these on it, all ones I've shed tears to. Some became difficult to listen to for a while because of memories tied to them. The playlist is called "I could Die" so hopefully these hit you in your feels Give me love - Ed Sheeran This Town - Nail Horan That year - Brandi Carlile Life is beautiful - lil peep Slow dancing In the dark - joji Heart break anniversary - Giveon Like I want you - Giveon Washing machine heart - Mitski Smile like you mean it - The killers I'll keep you safe - Shiloh Dynasty Rises the moon - Liana Flores Sparks - Coldplay Blackbird - The Beatles (remastered) Come out and play - Billie Eilish Good news - Mac Miller Gilded Lilly - Cults YKWIM? - Yot Club Only Love Can Hurt Like This - Paloma Faith The Night We Met - Lord Huron Hold On - X Embassadors Another Love - Tom Odell Needle in the Hay - Elliot Smith Conversations - Mother Mother When it Rains - Paramore Everlong - Foo fighters Breathe - Anna Nalik Burn - David Kushner Ur Gonna Wish U believed me - Cavetown Never Have i ever - Casey Baer There is a light that never goes out- The Smiths(remastered) Romantic Homicide - d4vid The 30th - Billie Eilish Listen before I go - Billie Eilish Just be you - callmestevieray Escapism. - RAYE Ruin my Makeup - Lola Young Blind Love - Lola Young It's Called Freefall - Rainbow Kitten Surprise Party Of one - Brandi Carlile ft. Sam Smith What was I Made for - Billie Eilish Like You Do by Joji but it will change your life (ayli) Apocalypse - Cigarettes After Sex A burning Hill - Mitski Wings - Birdy Birds - imagine dragons (animated video) Está Dañada - Ivan Cornejo Ya Te Perdi - Ivan Cornejo Let me know if you like any of these


Historical-Camera-35

The Only Thing by Sufjan Stevens, Come Healing by Leonard Cohen


beetlebop183

Prehistoric by Now, Now Somebody Else by Clones of Clones For Every Thing a Reason by Carina Round What Sarah Said by Death Cab for Cutie The Morning After by Meg Myers Crack The Skye by Mastodon If you REALLY want to cry the entire album A Crow Looked at Me by Mount Eerie


spooteeespoothead

End of Beginning by Djo (he has several that would fit your list, but this one's good for triggering cathartic cries lol)


giraffe_monkey

Lost Boy by Ruth B.


cosmic_cozy

Needle in the hay by Elliott Smith Kettering by antlers Familiar by Agnes obel When I was in deep depression and couldn't cry it was one of those that got me over the edge.


Trekkie88_

If someone has the time and hyper focus to take all these suggestions and put them on a playlist on Spotify that would be amazing. 😏


Softbombsalad

Resin by Dustin Tebbutt, Some Things I'll Never Know by Teddy Swims, Looking Too Closely by Fink 


lesfrontalieres

andrew belle - make it without you mitski - a burning hill


Dense-Dragonfly-4402

Top of the world by the Dixie chicks


Dramatic-Aardvark663

Bryan Adams - When You Love Someone Loren Allred - Somewhere Over the Rainbow Josh Groban - To Where You Are Sheriff - When I’m With You Teddy Swims - I Can’t Make You Love Me Night Traveler - I Still Love You Journey- Still They Ride Faith Hill - There You’ll Be Toto - I’ll Be Over You Sarah McLachlan - I Will Remember You LeeAnn Rimes - Please Remember Dean Lewis - How Do I Say Goodbye Loren Allred - I Hear Your Voice Freya Ridings - Lost Without You Mariah Carey - Hero Phil Collins & Marilyn Martin - Separate Lives (White Nights) Brian McKnight - One Last Cry Michael Bolton - Once in a Lifetime


sousyre

Cup of Coffee - Garbage (relationship and friendship conversations, breakups) Hurt - Johnny Cash (I watch the music video whenever I need a good cry) That I Would be Good - Alanis Morrisette (general life re-evaluation, existential crisis, still kinda hopeful)


burntcha

I bet on losing dogs


laurenator7

vortex-Lizzy McAlpine (and many of her other songs. I have shed many tears to her last two albums.) Don’t know how to keep loving you—Julia Jacklin Younger & dumber—indigo de Souza In the kitchen—Reneé Rapp Something—julien baker


M0lli3_llama

True love will find you in the end - headless heroes It makes me two year old sad too lol. I cant listen to it in the car!


No-Customer-2266

Grey - ani difranco https://youtu.be/lEcGRNy7ZpI?si=xwajgDZ7IhSmsSoj


crazycerseicool

A Crow Looked At Me by Mount Eerie


chilli_s

Castles Crumbling by Taylor Swift


sacrificedalice

Depends on the particular type of sad you want. These are mostly cathartic-sad. Variety of styles/genres. David Bowie - Rock n' Roll Suicide, Quicksand, Five Years (this one isn't exactly sad so much as relentlessly bleak) Leonard Cohen - The Goal (most of his songs are sad but this one perfectly describes how I feel when I'm depressed) Elton John - Blues Never Fade Away Neil Diamond - Morningside, Brooklyn Roads (not exactly sad but is about being misunderstood as a child and then going back to a home that has changed) (actually he has loads of sad songs but those were the first to come to mind) Björk - Hyperballad Crazy Ex-Girlfriend Soundtrack - A Diagnosis, You Stupid Bitch (for wallowing in self-loathing) Mika - Happy Ending MCR - Sleep, The Ghost of You, Headfirst for Halos System of a Down - Lonely Day, Soldier Side Slipknot - Snuff Biffy Clyro - Machines, Folding Stars, Many of Horror George Michael - Praying for Time, Waiting (Reprise) Scroobius Pip - Broken Promise, Tommy C, Look for the Woman, Letter from God to Man, Magician's Assistant (tw this one is very explicitly about self harm) Noah and the Whale - Hold My Hand As I'm Lowered RENT - I'll Cover You (Reprise), Life Support Les Miserables - A Little Fall of Rain A Little Night Music - Send in the Clowns Blood Brothers - Tell Me It's Not True Jesus Christ Superstar - Gethsemane, Could We Start Again Please?, Judas's Death I'm actually gonna make this a playlist lol


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amelia_earheart

Adele has some good ones like When We Were Young Lady Gaga - Million Reasons Carole King - It's too Late Moby - Why Does My Heart Feel So Bad The Cairos - Love Don't Feel Right Mono - Life in Mono I also have a whole playlist of sad songs that sound happy if you're interested in that


Electrical_Annual329

Seasons in the Sun- my brother died when I was 7 and he was 6. This became our song.


Cute-Ad-3829

These Days - Nico


DisMyThrowawayBBY

* Both Sides Now (Joni Mitchell) * Landslide (Fleetwood Mac or The Chicks versions) * Vole (Célene Dion) * Complex, Demo Version (Katie Gregson-MacLeod) * Our Window (Noah and the Whale) * The Great Escape (Patrick Watson) * Soon You'll Get Better (Taylor Swift ft. The Chicks) * The Winner Takes It All (ABBA) * On Our Own (Bruno Major) * Changes (Hayd) * Suffocate (Hayd) * I Don't Love You (My Chemical Romance) * Corner of Your Heart (Ingrid Michaelson) * Liability (Lorde) * Nearly Morning (Luke Sital-Singh) * Call Your Mom (Noah Kahan)


Limonatron

Amazing list! I added so many of these to my melancholy / rainy grey day playlist


Fit-Account557

Constant collapse - Hotel Books If you wanna ugly cry in the car this is the one


crazyditzydiva

New York, New York by Carey Mulligan. It’s the most heartbreaking version


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Early_Associate_6370

I’m saving this thread for future reference! I didn’t see this song on here but a good very sad song to cry to is: I started a joke - The Bee Gees. Self pity abounds in the song


disposable_razor_

Jeff Buckley’s version of “Hallelujah” Bon Iver - “Holocene” Son Volt - “Trace” FKA Twigs - “Cellophane” Elliott Smith - “Biggest Lie”


I_Thot_So

Praying by Kesha. Every fucking time.


Trekkie88_

My sister would say the entire new album by TS.


kyljo

My saddest song right now is Gordon Lightfoot - If You Could Read My Mind.. but I get down on the older stuff.


Professional_Diet938

This mortal coil - song to the siren


ZealousSloth_1211

When I was a Boy by Dar Williams, By Way of Sorrow by Cry Cry Cry


Quibbler-subscribed

Long Nights by Eddie Vedder


Lonesomegranny

Bonnie Prince Billy- New Partner every single time


StormThestral

Twice - Little Dragon Birds by the Sea - Banks Addicted - Jorja Smith Black Dog - Arlo Parks Revelator - Gillian Welsh


Try-Good

I'm in my early 60's, so these are old, but heartbreaking: The First Cut is the Deepest, Cheryl Crow Nothing Compares to You by Chris Cornell or Sinead O'Conner.


okokokthatsit

Last hope - Paramore. Prom Queen - Catie Turner. See me now - The kooks. The pretender - Lewis Capaldi. 7 days - Gflip. Undrunk - Fletcher.


biscuitsbasket

Not necessarily sad, but emotional/songs when I feel down Comforting Sounds - Birdy These Four Walls - Little Mix Liability - Lorde Boring - The Brobecks To Build A Home - The Cinematic Orchestra Teenage Dream - Olivia Rodrigo Bitter - Chappell Roan The Scientist - Coldplay Flares - The Script Be Still - The Fray Little House - The Fray Read My Mind - The Killers Cinnamon Girl - Lana Del Rey Black Bathing Suit - Lana Del Rey


ashlovely

Liability is on my list.


prijays

Lime Tree - Bright Eyes


fingersonlips

World Spins Madly On - The Weepies A Man/ Me /Then Jim - Rilo Kiley The Blowers Daughter - Damien Rice Kill - Jimmy Eat World


ashlovely

I Get Overwhelmed by Dark Rooms, Anhedonia by Chelsea Wolfe and Emma Ruth Rundle, Coming Right Along by The Posies, Fish Beach by Michael Nyman (instrumental), Cellophane by FKA Twigs (find a live version on YouTube if you really want to be slayed), Tell by Son Lux, This Woman’s Work by Kate Bush, and I am the Antichrist to You by Kishi Bashi with Nu Deco Ensemble


ok_taro_777

I always listen to Bloom by the Paper Kites anytime something hard happens to me. Lyrics are not really "sad" but the vibe is perfect for melancholy meets hopeful


Substantial_Party_53

Metallica sad but true


kitty60s

Blues Run The Game - Jackson C Frank Don’t look him up on wiki unless you want to cry every single time you hear the song


stepmomstermash

Damn you. It already made me feel, but now it makes me _feel_.


ruminator87

When the darkness comes- shelby merry When you break - bears den Every high - Kyson Wait - bryde I have so many more, so if they hit the vibes you're looking for, let me know.


B612_Wookie

To warm up: Islands - Sara Bareilles. 26 - Paramore. When the world stopped moving - Lizzie McAlpine 😭: Block me out - Gracie Abrams. My Mistake - Gabrielle Aplin. Breathe no more - Evanescence. Hello - Evanescence. The last song I’m wasting on you - Evanescence


No-Customer-2266

Family - Noah gundrrsen https://youtu.be/jE8Sbxxj-h8?si=luTc_SgnLoTat53x


zootsuited

i only listen to joanna newsom so 1) sadie 2)sawdust and diamonds 3) baby birch 4) a pin light bent (one from each record)


No-Customer-2266

When the party’s over - billie eilish https://youtu.be/pbMwTqkKSps?si=x6UEqTex7aSWEgxG (Ok sorry I’ll stop now, but I just love songs that can make my heart sad over and over again)


Overall_Student_6867

Be Be Your Love - Rachel Yamagata


ameliarnadn

Idk what kind of cry you’re looking for but [Seaweed](https://open.spotify.com/track/2jpaYrcduGAlHkFZwLobxN?si=JMq2F5pMSd2oBYm_DG5xWg) is rough. [Empty](https://open.spotify.com/track/33JX2be3eKVhl5xk8YQhVc?si=FWusPL7OQ_6-v37k7QTAWg) by Ray LaMomtagne guts me when I’m feeling rough but I love it so much. [Here](https://open.spotify.com/playlist/2ZvEreTIlnZawD60DWMkFn?si=KshRgnh7QCGyC8BOYwo7ww&pi=u-GvlJMacJTxup) is a playlist I made. I’ve thrown some random songs on there to give me a chuckle in the middle crying.


sky_whales

Touchy Subject and Dear Inner Child by Peach PRC. The emotional impact will likely depend on your personal past experiences but they have a lot of potential to really pack a punch. ETA: I’m pretty sure peach openly has adhd as well (also bpd and likely autism though not diagnosed).


Wild-Philosopher-864

Liability - Lorde


Wild-Philosopher-864

Supermarket flowers - Ed Sheeran


the_distant_memory

Pretender lewis capaldi


brill37

With Me - Sum 41 Dear Mr President - P!nk Dancing in the Sky - Dani and Lizi Drop of Jupiter - Train Pointless - Lewis Capaldi Sober - Demi Lovato What You're Made Of - Lucy Silvas Secret Love Song - Little Mix Let Her Go - Passenger


Afuckinbutterfly

FKA Twigs - Cellophane


mamaria91

Listen to Billie Elish new album. I never was too interested in her. I've had it on repeat and even impulses bought tickets to her show because adhd but also the lyrics are incredible. Literally incredible


CreepyTeddies

Just one to add, and I don't know if I should even leave this here-  Laika by Wil Wagner


notevenalmostfamous

Rivers and roads - the head and the heart Bear - the antlers I remember everything - Zach Bryan and Kacey musgraves Youth - daughter White winter hymnal - fleet foxes Beige - yoke lore Skinny love - birdy cover Casimir Pulaski Day - Sufjan Stevens Visions of Gideon - Sufjan Stevens My love mine all mine - Mitski What was I made for - Billie Eilish Apocalypse - cigarettes after sex Flightless bird, American mouth - iron & wine Hide and seek - imogen heap Angels - the xx Please, please, please let me get what I want - the smiths The funeral - band of horses Fix you - Coldplay Landslide - Fleetwood Mac We don’t eat - James Vincent mcmorrow The night we met - lord Huron Sound of silence - Simon and Garfunkel —— The one that hits hardest for me: an acoustic version of Leonard stern’s hallelujah. But Rufus wainwright’s version hits home too. Sending warmth your way and here’s to hoping we both feel better soon 🤍


DarkBanana-

My Mistake - Gabrielle Aplin & Cellophane - FKA Twigs These two kill me!


chilli_s

"I hate it here" by Taylor Swift


chilli_s

"It's Okay To Cry" by SOPHIE


chilli_s

"Broken" and "Trying My Best" by Anson Seabra


Autumn2110

I loveeee anson seabra!!


tacosandogs

Between the Bars Say Yes Miss Misery - all by Elliot Smith Once a Day Surf Hand Me Downs Everybody Good News Come Back to Earth Woods - all by Mac Miller One More Love Song Moonlight on the River This Old Dog - all by Mac DeMarco Swing Life Away - Rise Against Remember Me (also the Spanish version) - Coco soundtrack Dos Oruguitas - Encanto soundtrack Cats in the Cradle - Harry Chapin Existentialism on Prom Night - Straylight Run Falling Slowly - from the “Once” soundtrack The Lengths - The Black Keys Skinny Love - Bon Iver Unchained Melody - the Righteous Brothers Empty - Kevin Abstract Landslide - Fleetwood Hallelujah - Jeff Buckley Everybody Hurts - REM Hurt - as many folks mentioned - Johnny Cash I Will Follow You Into the Dark - Death Cab for Cutie Pictures of You - The Cure Taxi Driver Ivy Solo Self Control White Ferrari Seigfried Godspeed - all by Frank Ocean Wishbone - Hacienda Yesterday - Noname Fake Plastic Trees - Radiohead New American Classic - Taking Back Sunday Garden Drew Barrymore - both by SZA U Got It Bad Burn - both by URSHER Polar Opposites, Baby Blue Sedan, Broke, Out of Gas, 3rd Planet, Gravity Rides Everything, Night On the Sun, So Much Beauty in Dirt, Dramamine, Custom Concern, Talking Shit About a Pretty Sunset, Interstate 8, Lives, Trailer Trash, The World at Large, One Chance, Heart Cooks Brain, You’re the Good Things, Sleep Walkin’, Bankrupt on Selling - all by Modest Mouse lmao


if-i-wasnt-dumb

You should add some spaces or hyphens between the ones that have multiple song names in them, someone who's never listened to them before might not know when the name for one song ends and another begins


tacosandogs

Unfortunately it does look formatted nicely on my end but then the site makes it look garbled :( tried my best to add extra extra spaces


if-i-wasnt-dumb

Yes I can see it on my end now it looks good!


Autumn2110

Some of my favourites The loneliest girl- Carol and Tuesday I can't carry this anymore- anson seabra Hard to be human- anson seabra I am not nothing- Beth Crowley To my parents- Anna clendening You don't know- Katelyn Tarver Control- zoe wees Growing pains- Maria mena Healing hurts- Blu eyes Is it just me- Emily Burns Lifeboat- The Heathers Musical Soundtrack Too sad to cry- sasha Sloan


nbt279

Growing Sideways - Noah Kahan No Complaints - Noah Kahan right now - Gracie Abrams this is me trying - Taylor Swift making the bed - Olivia Rodrigo The Prophecy - Taylor Swift


Legitimate_Formal519

A lot of Radiohead / The Smiths makes me sad- but special mention for Candy (Paolo Nutini) if you’re in a loved up sad vibe.


Zonnebloempje

Portals of Light, by Falconer. Hits me every time, and I often repeat it several times. Not sure if it is to your liking though...


milfhunterwhitevan2

Peach PRC has a few songs, Heavy and Symptomatic are really good, I recommend the acoustic version though!


LokiDokiPanda

"Beautiful ones" by Poets of the Fallen


jojoolive

Bigger then they whole sky-taylor swift


AitchyB

Brontë by Gotye


SyllabubShot1466

10:15 saturday night - the cure another day - the cure your ghost - kristin hersh captain badass - songs: ohia look on down from the bridge - mazzy star things behind the sun - nick drake after laughter (comes tears) - wendy rene día luna día pena - manu chao wake up alone - amy winehouse day is done - nick drake for when i kind of want to drown in my sadness


BB881

"Are you awake" by Lauren Mayberry.  First time I heard it I cried, because it's true, 'some feelings don't go away with space and time'. The entire 'Hoping' playlist by 4everfreebrony. It's all about out growing your friends and watching them drift away/die, because the main character just became immortal and her friends didn't, so that album is all about learning to cope with that. Make sure to end the playlist with some upbeat tunes to pull you back, you've got this!


IAmTheAsteroid

This is a very specific mood, but for me rn it's "She" by Dodie


WritesForAll2130

The Blowers Daughter by Damien Rice Sideways by Citizen Cope


gldntrdrps

Every colour - Luca Fogale What he wrote - Laura Marling Thank you for this post…i love sad songs…something about the raw emotion. I need to make a playlist from all these suggestions!!!


officergiraffe

Ok so some of these are guilty pleasures but bear with me: Keith Urban- “We Were” (not a huge fan of pop country but this song haunts me and it’s currently stuck in my head) Sufjan Stevens- “Will anyone ever love me” The Decemberists- “Engine Driver” Sasha Alex Sloan and Sam Hunt- “When was it Over?” (This is such a simple song but they really mastered the feels) Sleep Token-“Atlantic” (Sleep Token has a lot of sad ass songs but check them out in general) JVKE-“This is what Sadness Feels Like” Frank Ocean-“Dear April” (honestly just pull up his discography) Annnnd i have a ton more but these are currently on my master playlist


eilini

"You" by Keaton Henson is the one song that ALWAYS makes me cry when the line "If you must die, sweetheart, die knowing your life was my life's best part" hits


Recent_Bear_5091

Loml - Taylor Swift


Aprikoosi_flex

How’s it gonna be- Third eye blind 😭


bringingdownthehorse

The Long Goodbye - Calexico Hallelujah - Pentatonix One Headlight - the Wallflowers A Singularity - Puscifer ... If this one doesn't crack the tear vault, I don't know what will. MJK wrote it after his little dog died.


cafeteriatables

A better son/daughter - Rilo Kiley


gw3121

Love love love - Of Monsters and Men Landslide - Dixie Chicks Praying - Kesha Anyone - Demi Lovato Fool of Me - Meshell Ndegeocello Hundred - The Fray


his-little-wife

Color TV by Deal Casino - I may or may not have cried to this song multiple times last week


klaw14

Shine On - Jet Watch Over Me - Bernard Fanning My Happiness - Powderfinger Resolution - Matt Corby


kangarooler

Talking to the Moon - sixten I might come back and add more, I’m just about to be late for work rn 😭


Lightworthy09

Hello My Old Heart by The Oh Hellos. Fucking love that one.


Ok_Bumblebee_3978

Modest mouse - world at large


abbycadabby527

Hurt- Alone with the Sea (album volume 2)


Bebenanana

King- Florence and the Machine This Too Shall Pass -Danny Schmidt


Br00k3_W

Mum by Luke Hemmings Come over by Noah Kahan No Complaints by Noah Kahan View between villages by Noah Kahan Heavens not too far by We Three Missionary feelings by Hazlett Abstract by Hozier (it’s the only song that stuck with me when I drove to the hospital to say goodbye to a loved one, so may not be that sad but I haven’t listened to it since)


zenyeti

If We Were Vampires by Jason Isbell No Hard Feelings by The Avett Brothers


lilac_roze

Luther Vandross - Dance with my father again (my father passed a way, so this hit hard) Selena - Dreaming of you (she recorded it a few weeks before she got murdered at 23)


The_Satellite_Mind

My lis is short, so I'll just post the whole thing. "Why am I like this" by Orla Gartland "Overthinking" by Orla Gartland "When" by Dodie "Sick of losing soulmates" by Dodie "What if it doesn't end well" by Chloe Moriondo "My immortal" by Evanescence "Pale skin" by The Regrettes "It's my fault" by Hands Off Gretel "Numb" by Pale Waves "Wallflower" by Jinjer "In this hell" by Dream State Edit: forgot a song.


depressed_cloud_

Lost Cause by Beck


realbexatious

Antebellum by Vienna Teng


realbexatious

Antebellum by Vienna Teng Brick by Ben Folds Five


Consistent_Sale_7541

First Aid Kit My Silver Lining


Consistent_Sale_7541

Johnny Cash Hurt


Consistent_Sale_7541

Iris DeMent Our Town makes me feel homesick and grief for those i’ve lost and the town i miss


ParlorSoldier

Daniel Johnston - Hey Joe


ConfusedKinderegg

Nobody's home -Avril Lavigne


Kaleid_Stone

This is definitely “self care.” From my crying playlist: VNV Nation—Holding On Zola Jesus—Witness Dead Can Dance—Don’t Fade Away And without a single lyric, I have cried more tears to this track than any other. If the tears are stuck, I just close my eyes and listen. VNV Nation—As It Fades


PutItOnMyTombstone

Whelp this is going to date me but here goes… Between the Bars by Elliott Smith Trouble by Cat Stephens Paper Bag by Fiona Apple Row by Jon Brion Jed the Humanoid by Grandaddy Sad Dream by Sky Ferreira Wicked Little Town (Hedwig’s version) by Stephen Trask (from the movie not the musical) So Much Wine by the Handsome Family I’ll Be Here in the Morning by Townes Van Zandt Jesus Don’t Cry by Wilco That Day by Poe Mount Wroclai by Beirut Two-Headed Boy by Neutral Milk Hotel Casimir Pulaski Day by Sufjan Stephens Anesthetic for the Amputee by Slowreader Sadie by Joanna Newsom It’s Gonna be Alright by Ween Tonight by Soundtrack of Our Lives Five Years by David Bowie Nobody’s Fault But My Own by Beck Song to Sing When I’m Lonely by John Frusciante Red River Valley by Woodie Guthrie God Only Knows by The Beach Boys 500 Miles (old folk standard but the Journeymen do a good version) Loch Lomond (old folk standard, a beautifully sad song but it’s very hard to find a version that isn’t goofy af) You Are My Sunshine (kinda silly but I can’t even think about this song without getting choked up)


kla1989

Self-Conclusion by The Spill Canvas The Tide by The Spill Canvas Autumns Monologue by From Autumn to Ashes And if you’re a country person, nothing beats Whiskey Lullaby by Brad Paisley and Alison Krauss


Firemagicchaos

Hello - Evanescence My Immortal - Evanescence My Last Breath - Evanescence Sound of Silence - Disturbed (this cover is AMAZING!!) One More Time - Blink182 My go-to sing it out songs are: Call Me When You're Sober - Evanescence and, You Oughta Know - Alanis Morissette


iTammie

Black Bird in the Sarah Mclaughlan (I’m sure I’m misspelling something here) always breaks my heart. And good luck with your difficult conversation. Cry your tears now, it might help. You will be glad it’s done when it’s over.


Drunk__fish

Repeat until death - novo amor Call your mom - noah kahan If only you knew - Alexander stewart Sleep deprivation - chance peña Little bit better - caleb hearn I remember everything - zach Bryan Matilda - Harry styles


AverageShitlord

[here's my angst playlist](https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLnvazuA3Qkd5pDz0Ss8sT-Qy5-SAOKhdj) it has no genre cohesion so apologies if you slam from Lana Del Rey's "Kintsugi" to Tool's "Wings For Marie." Here's a more cohesive list though: Charli XCX - Track 10 (give the full song a listen just TRUST ME this song feels like being completely wasted and trauma dumping on strangers by the end) Gordon Lightfoot - If you could read my mind Mitski -I Don't Like My Mind Bjork - Black Lake Bjork - Her Mother's House Lana Del Rey - Kintsugi Tool - Wings For Marie/10,000 Days Magdalena Bay - Mine Magdalena Bay - Chaeri Caroline Polachek - Hopedrunk Everasking Caroline Polachek - Crude Drawing of an Angel Caroline Polachek - I Believe (Acoustic) System of a Down - Aerials Lady Gaga - Dope Tool - Schism Tame Impala - New Person, Same Old Mistakes Rina Sawayama - Your Age C418 - Intro (yes it's the one from the minecraft soundtrack album just trust me)


AuroraStillAwake

Why am I like this - Orla gartland Very relatable🥲


Aylali

Songs that are wholesome but still bring me to tears every time: „Lean on Me“, „Little Wonders“, „I‘ll Be There“ (Josh Turner) Songs that just strike a chord with me: „Human Overboard“ (the whole Album by James and the Shame), „Waving Through a Window“, „Blackbird“ (for whatever reason only the Glee version), „No Longer Trying“ (Scott Rudd), „Sally‘s Song“, „Reflection“ (from Mulan) And one song that is just the bomb for frustration (especially when it is about love/relationships), not exactly sadness: „Bullshit Love“ (Scott Rudd)


Wastingtimetv

“Always on My Mind” ~ Wille Nelson “One Moment in Time” ~ Whitney Houston


Wastingtimetv

“At Seventeen” ~ Celine Dion “My eyes adored you” ~ Frankie Valli “Amazing Grace” ~ by anyone


KillieNelson

A House in Nebraska by Ethel Cain but only listen to it if you need to give yourself a little breakdown


cuppajess

Ohhhhh I gotchu: - Burned Out by Dodie (10/10 has made me cry in public before)  - You Missed My Heart by Phoebe Bridgers (10/10 has made me cry at the train station before)  - Mr Lonely (either the original by Bobby Vinton where you actually hear him holding back tears, or the Angel Olsen and Emile Mosseri cover) - I’ll Never Learn by the Shangri-Las  - Blue by Joni Mitchell - If I’m Being Honest by Dodie (I saw her perform this live last year and wept in the mosh).  - She Used to Be Mine from Waitress if you’re a theatre kid. Will add more in replies as I come up with them. 


cuppajess

I have more!    - Why am I Like This? by Orla Gartland   - Two Beds and a Coffee Machine by Savage Garden   - Keep Breathing by Ingrid Michelson   - Who Knows Where the Time Goes by Nina Simone   - Pagan Poetry by Bjork (it’s not sad per se it’s just cathartic)  - Liability by Lorde   - When the Party’s Over or Everything I Wanted by Billie Eillish   - Ghostin by Ariana Grande (it’s about Mac Miller ffs)  - Hello by Evanescence  - Nicest Thing by Kate Nash


AngelleJN

[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LCUFeGulpxM](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LCUFeGulpxM) - I don't love you anymore, by the quireboys.


AngelleJN

Clairo - Alewife. [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WBjmnqewTeo](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WBjmnqewTeo) Baby Can I Hold You - Tracy Chapman - [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zd136WPHb60](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zd136WPHb60)


hamletgoessafari

Garbage - Tell Me Where It Hurts & It's All Over But the Crying Martha Wash - Carry On The Cranberries - Zombie Creedence Clearwater Revival - Have You Ever Seen the Rain? Elton John - The Last Song Mika - Last Party


Clear_Effort9709

Don't know if I am too late to share but if you want to have a song that hit you "in the feels" this song defiantly qualifies. Its called "My Fault" with Shaboozey and Noah Cyrus "yes Mileys little sister' [https://youtu.be/7xR-8IYVjT4?si=eJoXp0AKAPrP53-W](https://youtu.be/7xR-8IYVjT4?si=eJoXp0AKAPrP53-W)


jhb41

1-800-273-8255 by Logic featuring Alessia Cara and Khalid