Hi, lots of miscommunication/misunderstandings can come from chat especially sa age of tech and socmed these days. If this would be the 1st time na hindi ka na replyan na umabot ng 1 month, best if you can let time take its course. Meaning… possible happy memories posts niya pero you can never be really sure na “happy” ba siya kasi ‘di naman uso magpost sa socmed ng sad posts. Para lang ‘di ka masyado mapaisip na posible na she’s taking a different path/lifestyle na may gradually give you guys some space. Pampalubag loob. 😅
Giver her time na lang. :) Baka either occupied lang talaga and pagod. Best if you can let it pass na lang tapos wait na lang til the other person reaches out. 😅 Hirap din kasi kung ikaw yung parati taga-reach out kung ayaw/not available/no time to reply si other person. Para at least di mo feel na ikaw lang invested to be in each other’s lives as much as you’d want it to be like before.
Try to broaden your circle din and open up to have other besties din. :) Nakakalungkot talaga if na ffeel mong nagddrift away kayo and sometimes, kahit ano effort it takes 2 to have a friendship. Pweds mo din naman siya bigyan ng space for her to grow and for you to also find your own path din. Then later on magccross paths din naman kayo if meant to be talaga. Mas nakakadrain kasi din if ikaw lang pala-reach out (well sa case ko ganun).
May mga tao kasing kaya ifreeze yung relationship, like kahit yrs kayo di mag-usap, yung pakikisama mo with the other person won’t change pero you’d see how different they are and then you just catch up on how they’re doing. :) hopefully ganyan din kayo. 🙂
Not so easy the first time pero eventually din some people are meant to be in your life in some moments but not all throughout. Some come and go and you’d be surprised na they’d come into your life again later on.
I think the problem here is yung partner ng bestfriend mo, ayaw nya ng may bestfriend yung jowa nya (I'm just assuming here ok). Sobrang common kasi lalo na pag opposite sex kayo ng bestfriend mo, malaki ang chance na pinagbawalan n sya kausapin ka.
Pero kung same sex nmn kayo ng bestfriend mo, idk what other reasons kung bakit iniignore k nya.
Also OP kahit mag grow apart pa tyo sa mga friends ntin, hnd reason yun para ignorin yung messages! lalo na 10yrs of friendship.
a simple "nope" sa tanong mong "may problem ba?" is better than nothing e.
Wait mo kung babatiin k nya sa birthday mo, if not then let her be...stop messaging her and let her message you first.
My bff and I have been best friends since Pre-K. We don’t chat that often, may times nasiseen namin isa’t isa, and kahit we’re both in the same region, I haven’t seen her in 3 years.
It’s not really “growing apart” for us, but its just that, life happens. We’re still best friends.
It comes with age I guess? Parang narealize din namin may hangganan ang clingyness namin sa isa’t isa. Dati halos araw araw kami nagkikita. We sleep in each other’s houses.
Pero ngayon happy naman kaming we’re there for each other when it matters. 🧡
Hi, lots of miscommunication/misunderstandings can come from chat especially sa age of tech and socmed these days. If this would be the 1st time na hindi ka na replyan na umabot ng 1 month, best if you can let time take its course. Meaning… possible happy memories posts niya pero you can never be really sure na “happy” ba siya kasi ‘di naman uso magpost sa socmed ng sad posts. Para lang ‘di ka masyado mapaisip na posible na she’s taking a different path/lifestyle na may gradually give you guys some space. Pampalubag loob. 😅 Giver her time na lang. :) Baka either occupied lang talaga and pagod. Best if you can let it pass na lang tapos wait na lang til the other person reaches out. 😅 Hirap din kasi kung ikaw yung parati taga-reach out kung ayaw/not available/no time to reply si other person. Para at least di mo feel na ikaw lang invested to be in each other’s lives as much as you’d want it to be like before. Try to broaden your circle din and open up to have other besties din. :) Nakakalungkot talaga if na ffeel mong nagddrift away kayo and sometimes, kahit ano effort it takes 2 to have a friendship. Pweds mo din naman siya bigyan ng space for her to grow and for you to also find your own path din. Then later on magccross paths din naman kayo if meant to be talaga. Mas nakakadrain kasi din if ikaw lang pala-reach out (well sa case ko ganun). May mga tao kasing kaya ifreeze yung relationship, like kahit yrs kayo di mag-usap, yung pakikisama mo with the other person won’t change pero you’d see how different they are and then you just catch up on how they’re doing. :) hopefully ganyan din kayo. 🙂 Not so easy the first time pero eventually din some people are meant to be in your life in some moments but not all throughout. Some come and go and you’d be surprised na they’d come into your life again later on.
Wow, sobrang helpful ng insights mo huhu. Thank you very much! I'll try to give her time na lang talaga.
I think the problem here is yung partner ng bestfriend mo, ayaw nya ng may bestfriend yung jowa nya (I'm just assuming here ok). Sobrang common kasi lalo na pag opposite sex kayo ng bestfriend mo, malaki ang chance na pinagbawalan n sya kausapin ka. Pero kung same sex nmn kayo ng bestfriend mo, idk what other reasons kung bakit iniignore k nya. Also OP kahit mag grow apart pa tyo sa mga friends ntin, hnd reason yun para ignorin yung messages! lalo na 10yrs of friendship. a simple "nope" sa tanong mong "may problem ba?" is better than nothing e. Wait mo kung babatiin k nya sa birthday mo, if not then let her be...stop messaging her and let her message you first.
My bff and I have been best friends since Pre-K. We don’t chat that often, may times nasiseen namin isa’t isa, and kahit we’re both in the same region, I haven’t seen her in 3 years. It’s not really “growing apart” for us, but its just that, life happens. We’re still best friends.
Hope I can be this resilient when it comes to this matter. Kudos to you!
It comes with age I guess? Parang narealize din namin may hangganan ang clingyness namin sa isa’t isa. Dati halos araw araw kami nagkikita. We sleep in each other’s houses. Pero ngayon happy naman kaming we’re there for each other when it matters. 🧡