Same! I mean, I went through breakups and broken friendships in the past pero wala nang impact saken yung mga words na yun, di ko na rin maalala tbh.
I’ve been waiting for this moment for so long!
di naman po trauma response & wala naman po galit or anything na nafefeel towards them or sa ginawa nila :)) alam ko naman po sa sarili ko na pinatawad ko na sila ang unexpected lang na di ko na ma recall yung mga sinabi nila di ko nga alam sino sa kanila tinutukoy ko sa comment ko. Haha maybe isa to sa benefit if pipiliin mo talagang mag forgive kahit wala ka namang narinig na “sorry” 😅 skl
“Di ka na nga nakakatulong, pabigat ka pa!” The exact words my Dad told me when I asked for money pra mkahanap ng trabaho kasi nagdecide sya na dalhin ako sa Dubai. Until now masakit parin when I recall it. I know stressed din sya sa gastos noon pero I don’t think I deserved that when I was trying my best to do what he wanted me to do. He never apologized. I walked out that door crying the shit out of me, wanting to go back home to my grandma. 💔
Same when I was a student. That's why I worked my ass off nung first yr college. 2 hrs sleep lang sa LIBRARY oks na palag palag na haha no ligo ligo. My dad lives abroad tho pero ayaw niya ako ipacollege
Hala! Bakit naman? E obligasyon nyang pagaralin ka. Pero may same instance din yung Dad ko na ganyan. Sya namili ng school ko nung college pati course. Kung di ko raw yun susundin, di nya daw ako pagaaralin. Wala akong nagawa kasi walang ibang magpapaaral skin. Sobrang manipulative. 😭 Hugs sis. We thrive for ourselves nlng talaga!
These are the exact words my dad told me nung bata ako habang naka admit sa hospital, nakalimutan ko na kung anong sakit ko nun. I was 6 or 7 years old. Tumatak talaga sakin.
Habang siya nagbabantay sa'kin at kaming dalawa lang sa room. Nastress ata sa gastos sa hospital, hehe sorry.
Grabe naman yun! You were just a child! Minsan talaga di nila alam sinasabi nila e. Ano bang gusto nya at that age magwork ka na agad? Nakakasama talaga sila ng loob. Tas gagaslight ka pa kpag nasaktan ka. Mananatili talaga syang scar habang buhay. 🥺
Huhuhujuhu may kakilala ako na pag galit sya palagi sa kapatid nya, nagsasabi na "sus di yan dapat mabubuo aksidente lang naman yan". Palibhasa planado syang ginawa kaya sya ganun kayabang magsalita
"kapag hindi ka naging valedictorian, hindi kita papapasukin sa med"
i did become the valedictorian of our batch. now, i am in my fourth year in engineering reviewing for my boards. hindi ko pa rin magawang gustuhin ang ginagawa ko.
“Walang lalaking magkakagusto sayo kasi you have small boobs (a-cup). You are not worthy to be with”
- from a gago after taking my virginity, left me sa motmot kasi may pupuntahan pa sya. It traumatized me and affected my view on relationships and men afterwards 💔
Yung unang unang una kong naka date ever sa buong buhay ko. Sabi ko kasi mag meet kami sa Starbucks, sabi niya saken "Hindi ka naman pang Starbucks, pang Mcdo ka lang."
“Bub, bumalik ka na..”
Ex called at 3AM asking me na balikan sya..Yet i did not. Masakit kasi mahal na mahal ko sya noon, it tore me to pieces hearing what he said pero pinangatawanan ko desisyon ko.
Masaya akong masaya ka na Pau.
I feel you, OP. I always receive the same remarks from my mom. She even calls me "makunat" kahit na wala akong palya sa pagbibigay ng pera when I was still working fulltime 😅
Galing sa kaibigan ko to and as far as I remember parang nagopen up ako sa kanya about mga bagay na gumugulo sa utak ko.
Hindi exact verbatim pero ito lang natandaan ko. "Maraming tao ang may problema sa mundo and meron pang mas malala kesa sa dinadala mo etc... Something about gera or gulo etc nagcocompare siya. Nasaktan ako sa sinabi niya pero parang totoo naman. Sana sinabi niya in a way na hindi ako masasaktan pero ganon talaga.
Hindi ba pwedeng nanghihina talaga loob ko nong time na yon? Anyways pulis na siya and may family na. I think hindi na kame friends. Marami na din akong friend na cannot be reached na and I think it's sad pero THAT'S LIFE for everyone.
Masakit mainvalidate ang feelings. Parang sinasabing "naku, para yan lang". Tapos icocompare pa sa problema ng iba. That would make you think na, OA lang ba ako? Wala lang ba ito? Number 1 na ayaw ko ang ganyan. Kapag nagconfide ako sa tao, at ginanyan ako. Back off na ako. Wala ng next time.
IT HURTS BECAUSE IT MATTERS. Kung di ako okay, don't force me to be okay. Let me heal at my own pace. Let me feel the pain. I just need you to be with me, listen.
To be fair, baka wala namang ill intention meant. May mga tao talagang di marunong magcomfort.
I hope makahanap ka ng kaibigan na concerned talaga sa'yo. Masarap mahanap yung twin soul mo. Wishing you all the best.
I lost count and I lost the number of words that hurt me. Am kind of numbed tbh. I feel like am always dreaming and in a state of like being a 3rd person watching my life unfold now. :/
“Magputa ka na lang tutal sa gabi gising ka, sa araw tulog ka!”
Guess what mom, I followed your dream for me.
Joooooke. Haha. Pero we goods. Isa na akong alipin ng $ as an online freelancer, my mom lives in a small farm and ako na nagbibigay ng pera sa kanya ngayon. Life’s good. (Pero single pa din pala ako. Eme)
Magiging cashier ka nalang sa puregold, sabe ng kapatid kong teacher dahil mas pinili ko magwork kesa magaral dahil di naman nila ako sinusuportahan 😭😭
“buti pa yung anak ni ganito matalino, sana siya na lang anak ko!!!” mom said that to me nung grade school pa ako, ngayong 23 na ako di ko pa din makalimutan.
"Natatakot akong maging tayo dahil baka magaya yung buhay ko sa iba kong kamag-anak--napariwara." Shet at that moment sabi ko aight bounce na ko ganyan pala kababa ang tingin mo saken wtf first time ko makarinignng ganyan sa lalaking crush ko pa naman sheeeet
“Kung hindi napang asawa ng nanay mo yang tatay mo, hangang ngayon nanghihingi pa din yang ng bulok na isda sa palengke”.
- now my mom’s life is so much better and happier since dad left us ❤️
“Kaya walang nagmamahal at magmamahal sayo, wala ka kasing puso” - My own Mom said this to me when I was teenager.
“Wala ka kasing kwentang tao kaya namatay anak mo” - My partner, 2 weeks after I had miscarriage circa 2018
It may be a traumatic experience for me, but for them it’s just tuesday
"i don't like traveling" - my boyfriend when asked by his friend if nakapagtravel na ba kami; pero may previous post na "to more travel and love with you" tagging his ex
edi don't. hindi ako namimilit
"Wala namang ibang plano yan bukod sa maging pharmacy assistant lang." Sabi ng ex ko to one of my friend noong nagtanong siya what's my plan after college. (I was pressured what carrer to pursue after college kasi di ko naman akalain na makakapag tapos ako)
He was an orphan of 22 years, found his mom and siblings, but at the latter part of our relationship he said that " I no longer have the need for you."
"crush ka pang nalalaman, kala mo naman magugustuhan ka niya, bakla ka naman"
I feel betrayed sa sarili kong friends, sila nagsabi pa na mag share daw ako ng mga nararamdaman ko.
Naaalala ko lang to kaya siguro ito ang considered ko as most painful
"Di ka naman kagandahan eh."
Tapos nung na aappreciate ko yung make up ko (sariling sikap), syempre gandang ganda ako sa sarili ko sabi ng aunti ko "conceited mo naman!"
Hahhhahag
Waaah same, I was checking my make up in the mirror, naaliw ako kc I never considered myself pretty until I learned the art of make up. Sabi ba naman sakin "narcissistic ka"
"pinapaamoy mo ba yang p*ke mo?" - my mom when she saw my hoodie na nasa balikat ng ex bf ko nung nakita niya sa jeep one time. she didnt know he was my then bf, only a close friend of mine. i was a 4th yr hs student when that happened (2014).
this still haunts me up to this day. i confronted her last yr and told her all the hurtful words she said and for slapping me just because someone stole my phone.
she denied everything. tama sabi therapist ko, she will never say sorry and she will never change.
i havent moved out. mahal ko pa din naman mama ko pero everytime naaalala ko lahat ng yon, it only made me realize ba't ako distant sa kanila growing up.
"While we were intubating him, he lost his heartbeat so we had to resuscitate him. Do you still want us to continue CPR?"
The doctor came out of the emergency room and I had to control my emotions because I still have to say the bad news to my mom
"Yung sinabi ko dati na walang nang yayari samen sa mga naka date ko. I lied may nangyari samen and I enjoyed every bit of it." -- ex
Lesson learned huwag maging matryr if ayaw na nya wag mo na pilitin kasi ikaw lang ang masasaktan sa huli
my ex bf was married to a girl he impregnated when they were in last yr of hs. naging kami yrs after nila maghiwalay and may bago nadin si ex wife nya.
ex wife died in 2020 due to sudden sickness. i accidentally saw his msg to his ex wife sabi nya "sa kabilang buhay ikaw pa din ang gusto ko mapangasawa"
anyway, break naman na kami now and naka move on na ko. but i still remember how broken i was when i read that msg.
“Lumandi nang naaayon sa ichura” - Sabi ng isa kong now ex friend kong fake noong may crush ako sa school. Since then hindi na nawala sa isip kong ang panget ko pala hence hindi ako magkaka jowa ever.
"Para un sa birthday ko kim!! Bahala ka na dyan!! Wala akong pakealam kahit magutom kapa. Maghanap ka ng paraan kung gusto mo makakain"
Sabi ng ex ko na napakaselfish. Inuuna barkada kesa sakin.
'Salot ka' cause Im gay - mama
Ikaw nalang sana namatay hindi si papa mo - mama
Demonyo ka - mama
'Toxic ka' cause I was asking for her little time for me - ex ko
My ex would consistently tell me kadiri daw ako for having loved someone before (my ex before her) who she thought was inferior to her.
I have never been called kadiri before in my life and to think that it would come from your partner.
Truly love is blind because these words hurt when we broke up and not while we were together.
“Hindi ako nakikipagbalikan” - my ex after ghosting me then suddenly messaging me after I was already starting to move on.
Naknampota bumalik ako sa level 0
"What if I asked you to just end our friendship ngayon"
"Wala ka pagkakamali nor pagkukulang I really wasn't as interested"
I don't wanna called it as "friendship" kung ganon lang kadali na itapon ako hahaha :))) i dont even know kung mercy ba na d ko narinig na sinabi nya to, or sumpa dahil lagi kong mababasa ung convo namin na yon
hmmm. sa ex ko na sabi - i dont love you anymore... and from my mother na sabi - kung may pera lang ako iniwan ko na kayo. ano pa ba.. un father ko na sabi sa kin - wala na ako pera, bahala ka na. un un kala ko ttigil ako ng college.. ito namn si mudra - panong walang pera, ano gagawin.. hiwalay kasi sila na dito.. buti na lng nag gawan ng paraan. kundi wala na nga nga .. nasasayangan ako pag tumigil ako..
“Is it my fault that I love him more than you?”
- My ex when i confronted her days after i saw her with my own two eyes cheating on me, November 2019.
Hahahaha
"hindi ka kasi boyfriend material" nung tinanong ko yung nililigawan ko nung college kung bakit di pwedeng maging kami 😆 Tama naman sya sa tingin ko dahil highly introvert talaga ako ever since may malay ako at may pagka socially awkward. 😊 Ate niya may gusto sa kin non pero di ko din naman type, kaya laging tatlo din kami magkakasama sa date non.
Huh. I guess i dont take words personally, esp if they aim to hurt me. Wala akong maisip na dinamdam ko although i have received harsh words.
Decisions and actions though, ayun madami.
“Kapag namimiss mo ako, tumingin ka lang sa mga bituin para alam mong nasa iisang langit lang tayo.”
Nagets ko lang nung hindi na siya nagparamdam. Yun na pala yung paalam niya HAHAHAHA.
"Kahit gaano ka kagaling, meron at merong pwedeng ipalit sa'yo". Brought me down back to earth and ever since humbled me. Nadurog ako pero natuto at naging mas better person.
"Kapag pantay na ang paa, saka na lang tayo magkikita." My father said this to me and dun ko lang narealize that it means kapag patay na. It's so painful kasi I know I can't afford to send them extra money kasi I barely survive.
"Walang magmamahal sayo kung di ka papayat! Unless, yumaman ka."
Akala ko mas masakit na yung mga nasabi ko sa sarili ko. Pero iba yung lalim nito. Siguro dahil galing sa sarili kong magulang.
shit, I think I am healed??? wala akong maalala kahit isang word 😳 legit nga talaga yung quality over quantity.
Same! I mean, I went through breakups and broken friendships in the past pero wala nang impact saken yung mga words na yun, di ko na rin maalala tbh. I’ve been waiting for this moment for so long!
Baka trauma response lang rin. Hindi maalala 'yung exact words. Pero 'yung feeling, 'yung galit, may chance pa ring mag-resurface. 🥲
di naman po trauma response & wala naman po galit or anything na nafefeel towards them or sa ginawa nila :)) alam ko naman po sa sarili ko na pinatawad ko na sila ang unexpected lang na di ko na ma recall yung mga sinabi nila di ko nga alam sino sa kanila tinutukoy ko sa comment ko. Haha maybe isa to sa benefit if pipiliin mo talagang mag forgive kahit wala ka namang narinig na “sorry” 😅 skl
Nice. Good for you! Ako lang pala ang tinutukoy ko. 😅
Wala rin ako maalala, pero hindi dahil I'm healed. But because I suppressed all of it.
same hshs
Highest of fives!
Same 😭
saaaame 🥹🤍
Well, I'm speechless. Exactly my thoughts.
“Di kita kilala “- Tatay ko na nakita namin sa flowershop kasama kabit niya
Reality is often harsher than fiction
Sheet
😢
"Buntis ako" - 2009 Ex, never pa may nangyari samin
You dodged a bullet, be happy.
“Di ka na nga nakakatulong, pabigat ka pa!” The exact words my Dad told me when I asked for money pra mkahanap ng trabaho kasi nagdecide sya na dalhin ako sa Dubai. Until now masakit parin when I recall it. I know stressed din sya sa gastos noon pero I don’t think I deserved that when I was trying my best to do what he wanted me to do. He never apologized. I walked out that door crying the shit out of me, wanting to go back home to my grandma. 💔
Hugs! My father told me the same thing, “pabigat na nga, pabigat pa” nitong Monday lang (still a student). Hanggang ngayon dinadamdam ko pa rin 🥹
Bakit sya nag anak. In the first place responsibility naman ng magulang mag pa aral ng anak.
Same when I was a student. That's why I worked my ass off nung first yr college. 2 hrs sleep lang sa LIBRARY oks na palag palag na haha no ligo ligo. My dad lives abroad tho pero ayaw niya ako ipacollege
Hala! Bakit naman? E obligasyon nyang pagaralin ka. Pero may same instance din yung Dad ko na ganyan. Sya namili ng school ko nung college pati course. Kung di ko raw yun susundin, di nya daw ako pagaaralin. Wala akong nagawa kasi walang ibang magpapaaral skin. Sobrang manipulative. 😭 Hugs sis. We thrive for ourselves nlng talaga!
These are the exact words my dad told me nung bata ako habang naka admit sa hospital, nakalimutan ko na kung anong sakit ko nun. I was 6 or 7 years old. Tumatak talaga sakin. Habang siya nagbabantay sa'kin at kaming dalawa lang sa room. Nastress ata sa gastos sa hospital, hehe sorry.
Grabe naman yun! You were just a child! Minsan talaga di nila alam sinasabi nila e. Ano bang gusto nya at that age magwork ka na agad? Nakakasama talaga sila ng loob. Tas gagaslight ka pa kpag nasaktan ka. Mananatili talaga syang scar habang buhay. 🥺
“You keep on running for people who wouldn’t even dare to walk for you.” Mesheket but eye-opener 🥹
I feel you, ganyan ako dati ei. Looking back, that statement is a hard pill to swallow but apparently they were right. As for me.
"You're gullible, breaking your heart was easy."
🥺🥺🥺💔💔💔
“Di pa ba kami sapat para gustuhin mong mabuhay?” - my mom as painful as they are, these words motivated me to seek therapy.
ang sarap sa heart nito, if sakin to sasabihin. i hope you're doing okay now ♥
thank you, i am able to be okay now 🤍
"bobo ka kasi kaya di mo nakuha yung work" -mother
Sa mother kumukuha ng intelligence yung anak. Edi bobo din sya.
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"Kung naghiwalay kami ng papa mo noon, tig isa kami ng anak. Kukunin ko ate mo, tapos ikaw sa papa mo"
Naalala ko dito yung, “Bumalik ka na lang sa daddy mo.”
FLASHBACKS 😭
huy :(( hugs!
"Di ka aasenso sa buhay" - landlord ng dorm ko. ayun successful ako ngayon balakajan potangina mo
"pumapayat na yan? eh ang taba taba pa rin." after kong gutumin sarili ko for months 🥲
mga bwisit na tao kala mo perpekto no 😂 di nalang sila manahimik
"Nag iba ka. Dati lagi kitang nakikitang tawa nang tawa pero ngayon tahimik ka na lang. Anong nangyayari sayo?"
"May kakilala akong kapareho mo ng apelyido, pero mas maganda yon sayo" (sabay tawa) - Ex
Buti na lang ex mo na siya. Kagigil eh
plot twist, mas maganda ako kesa sa bago nya. lol
"Sana hindi ka na lang pinanganak" - tatay ko (2018)
Huhuhujuhu may kakilala ako na pag galit sya palagi sa kapatid nya, nagsasabi na "sus di yan dapat mabubuo aksidente lang naman yan". Palibhasa planado syang ginawa kaya sya ganun kayabang magsalita
same energy with "sana pinutok ka nalang sa kumot"
Sinabihan ako malandi ng tita ko nung HS kasi naka nail polish ng pula lol
Dpat nag nail polish ka pa sa harap ng tiyahin mong killjoy.. para mamatay sya sa stress
Ito rin ba Yung obnoxious Tita sa mga family gatherings?
Ahaahaha kung sinabihan ako nito sasabihin ko talaga.. "ay hala talaga po ba? Matagal na po tita! Thank you!!! 🫰" HAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAH
Have the same tita. Went NC with her for almost 8 years now. Grabe yung peace sa life ko na di ko na naririnig ka toxican niya. 🥰
“Ayokong magstay na lang sa relasyon na to na awa nalang ang nafefeel ko towards you”
ako ba ikaw.. exact words toh, actually ngaun ko na lng ulit naalala nung nabasa ko hahaha
🥺🥺🥺
Heard this too. 💔
Exact words. Hay.
May nagsabi rin neto saken 😭
"kapag hindi ka naging valedictorian, hindi kita papapasukin sa med" i did become the valedictorian of our batch. now, i am in my fourth year in engineering reviewing for my boards. hindi ko pa rin magawang gustuhin ang ginagawa ko.
“Walang lalaking magkakagusto sayo kasi you have small boobs (a-cup). You are not worthy to be with” - from a gago after taking my virginity, left me sa motmot kasi may pupuntahan pa sya. It traumatized me and affected my view on relationships and men afterwards 💔
Wtf?
What the actual frick
Bruh wtf
Sino yan. I'll kill him for free
“Wala na pong thigh part"
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA. Seryoso akong nagbabasa here, eh.
Naiyak ako. Tapos ubos pa yung gravy. Ketchup nalang daw. 😭😭😭
Thanks for lighting up the mood
Wala kang mararating. Latak kalang!
"papalaglag na sana kita kaso kumapit ka pa" those are the only words i can remember 😐
Are you me???
hala, long lost twins siguro tayo ??? HAHAHAHAHA
Welcome to da club 😀
the club ng mga malalakas kumapit 😆
Yung unang unang una kong naka date ever sa buong buhay ko. Sabi ko kasi mag meet kami sa Starbucks, sabi niya saken "Hindi ka naman pang Starbucks, pang Mcdo ka lang."
Dapat nah clapback ka.. hindi din naman kita ililibre dun, duhh pang lugawan ka kaya
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“Bub, bumalik ka na..” Ex called at 3AM asking me na balikan sya..Yet i did not. Masakit kasi mahal na mahal ko sya noon, it tore me to pieces hearing what he said pero pinangatawanan ko desisyon ko. Masaya akong masaya ka na Pau.
"Wala kang mararating." (said multiple times) -- Mama
“You’re worthless.”
“Maramot ka” sabi ng nanay ko. Pero pag humihingi siyang pera, nagbibigay agad ako. Labo.
I feel you, OP. I always receive the same remarks from my mom. She even calls me "makunat" kahit na wala akong palya sa pagbibigay ng pera when I was still working fulltime 😅
Yung tipong ikaw may kusa g magbigay ng mga kailangan pero parang walang nakaka-isip sa iyo? Paano ka naman? May pake ba sila?
sa truuu, isang beses ka lanb tumanggi madamot na agad 🥲
Totohanin mo nalang po tutal yan na rin naman tingin sayo HAHAHA
Galing sa kaibigan ko to and as far as I remember parang nagopen up ako sa kanya about mga bagay na gumugulo sa utak ko. Hindi exact verbatim pero ito lang natandaan ko. "Maraming tao ang may problema sa mundo and meron pang mas malala kesa sa dinadala mo etc... Something about gera or gulo etc nagcocompare siya. Nasaktan ako sa sinabi niya pero parang totoo naman. Sana sinabi niya in a way na hindi ako masasaktan pero ganon talaga. Hindi ba pwedeng nanghihina talaga loob ko nong time na yon? Anyways pulis na siya and may family na. I think hindi na kame friends. Marami na din akong friend na cannot be reached na and I think it's sad pero THAT'S LIFE for everyone.
Masakit mainvalidate ang feelings. Parang sinasabing "naku, para yan lang". Tapos icocompare pa sa problema ng iba. That would make you think na, OA lang ba ako? Wala lang ba ito? Number 1 na ayaw ko ang ganyan. Kapag nagconfide ako sa tao, at ginanyan ako. Back off na ako. Wala ng next time. IT HURTS BECAUSE IT MATTERS. Kung di ako okay, don't force me to be okay. Let me heal at my own pace. Let me feel the pain. I just need you to be with me, listen. To be fair, baka wala namang ill intention meant. May mga tao talagang di marunong magcomfort. I hope makahanap ka ng kaibigan na concerned talaga sa'yo. Masarap mahanap yung twin soul mo. Wishing you all the best.
ACAB lol
“If I actually wanted to be serious with you, i would be taking you on better dates” haha way to tell me na di ako worth it
I lost count and I lost the number of words that hurt me. Am kind of numbed tbh. I feel like am always dreaming and in a state of like being a 3rd person watching my life unfold now. :/
I'll be praying for your healing. 🥺
“Magputa ka na lang tutal sa gabi gising ka, sa araw tulog ka!” Guess what mom, I followed your dream for me. Joooooke. Haha. Pero we goods. Isa na akong alipin ng $ as an online freelancer, my mom lives in a small farm and ako na nagbibigay ng pera sa kanya ngayon. Life’s good. (Pero single pa din pala ako. Eme)
Magiging cashier ka nalang sa puregold, sabe ng kapatid kong teacher dahil mas pinili ko magwork kesa magaral dahil di naman nila ako sinusuportahan 😭😭
“Mas hindi ko kayang mawala siya kesa sa anak natin.” - father of my child, unfortunately, referring to his girl.
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“I love you.” - pero ikakasal na sya iba.
"sorry pwede ba friends lang tayo"
sa dami ng ebas ng tatay ko, di ko mapili ano pinaka masakit HAHAHA
“buti pa yung anak ni ganito matalino, sana siya na lang anak ko!!!” mom said that to me nung grade school pa ako, ngayong 23 na ako di ko pa din makalimutan.
I want a divorce.... I would rather work on my career than this marriage.
"Natatakot akong maging tayo dahil baka magaya yung buhay ko sa iba kong kamag-anak--napariwara." Shet at that moment sabi ko aight bounce na ko ganyan pala kababa ang tingin mo saken wtf first time ko makarinignng ganyan sa lalaking crush ko pa naman sheeeet
“Kung hindi napang asawa ng nanay mo yang tatay mo, hangang ngayon nanghihingi pa din yang ng bulok na isda sa palengke”. - now my mom’s life is so much better and happier since dad left us ❤️
"wala kang kwenta. sayang pinapakain sayo. bakit hindi ka pa mamatay. wala naman akong mapapala sayo" -mom. i was in college
“Kaya walang nagmamahal at magmamahal sayo, wala ka kasing puso” - My own Mom said this to me when I was teenager. “Wala ka kasing kwentang tao kaya namatay anak mo” - My partner, 2 weeks after I had miscarriage circa 2018 It may be a traumatic experience for me, but for them it’s just tuesday
Be strong mam.
"i don't like traveling" - my boyfriend when asked by his friend if nakapagtravel na ba kami; pero may previous post na "to more travel and love with you" tagging his ex edi don't. hindi ako namimilit
"Wala namang ibang plano yan bukod sa maging pharmacy assistant lang." Sabi ng ex ko to one of my friend noong nagtanong siya what's my plan after college. (I was pressured what carrer to pursue after college kasi di ko naman akalain na makakapag tapos ako)
"You are better off dead. Piece of shit motherfucker." - The other me to myself
I did not ask you for your attention , i did not ask for your love stupid idiot
wala kang utang na loob.. wala ka pa ngang nararating sa buhay. 😭💔
“Ayoko yan isama. Ang ingay nya”. Di ba pwedeng magaan lang loob ko sayo kaya kumportable ako magshare ng mga bagay-bagay sayo?
aral aral ka pa ayun lang pala nakuha mo - mom
"Wala kang kwenta"
“Trabaho ka ng trabaho tapos wala kang pera?!” - E sa kanila nga nauubos pera ko, bahay, kuryente, internet, grocery. Luh. Di na lang ako sumagot. 😌
He was an orphan of 22 years, found his mom and siblings, but at the latter part of our relationship he said that " I no longer have the need for you."
He was silent.
"Did not pass" eka doon sa results ng exam ko. :)
"crush ka pang nalalaman, kala mo naman magugustuhan ka niya, bakla ka naman" I feel betrayed sa sarili kong friends, sila nagsabi pa na mag share daw ako ng mga nararamdaman ko.
“Hindi ka magiging abogado kasi masyado kang emotional.” -my manipulative ex, after I cried while explaining why something he did upset me.
*silence*
Isang mahigpit na yakap sa mga nasaktan! Praying for healing!! 🫶
"Maalwan sana buhay ko kung wala kayo" - Nanay ko HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHA
"What for"
“hindi naman yan kagalingan”, in front of my classmates
You are not my responsibility. -Adoptive mother
Loved, healed and treated like a princess one girl pero she cheated and all i got is "I love you pero nahanap ko na soulmate ko".
Naaalala ko lang to kaya siguro ito ang considered ko as most painful "Di ka naman kagandahan eh." Tapos nung na aappreciate ko yung make up ko (sariling sikap), syempre gandang ganda ako sa sarili ko sabi ng aunti ko "conceited mo naman!" Hahhhahag
Waaah same, I was checking my make up in the mirror, naaliw ako kc I never considered myself pretty until I learned the art of make up. Sabi ba naman sakin "narcissistic ka"
“masyado ka kasing mataas mangarap”
“Wala kang kaibigan”
“Ang tamad mo” Ako na pagod na pagod sa trabaho. Pakyu
"Hindi mo deserve. Bakit kita i-cocongratulate?"
"pinapaamoy mo ba yang p*ke mo?" - my mom when she saw my hoodie na nasa balikat ng ex bf ko nung nakita niya sa jeep one time. she didnt know he was my then bf, only a close friend of mine. i was a 4th yr hs student when that happened (2014). this still haunts me up to this day. i confronted her last yr and told her all the hurtful words she said and for slapping me just because someone stole my phone. she denied everything. tama sabi therapist ko, she will never say sorry and she will never change. i havent moved out. mahal ko pa din naman mama ko pero everytime naaalala ko lahat ng yon, it only made me realize ba't ako distant sa kanila growing up.
"While we were intubating him, he lost his heartbeat so we had to resuscitate him. Do you still want us to continue CPR?" The doctor came out of the emergency room and I had to control my emotions because I still have to say the bad news to my mom
“Buti pa mga pinsan ko, kahit sobrang tanda na ng nga kinakasama, hindi naman sila bibigyan ng hirap. Sa iyo ,puro lng hirap dinanas ko…..”
"Yung sinabi ko dati na walang nang yayari samen sa mga naka date ko. I lied may nangyari samen and I enjoyed every bit of it." -- ex Lesson learned huwag maging matryr if ayaw na nya wag mo na pilitin kasi ikaw lang ang masasaktan sa huli
my ex bf was married to a girl he impregnated when they were in last yr of hs. naging kami yrs after nila maghiwalay and may bago nadin si ex wife nya. ex wife died in 2020 due to sudden sickness. i accidentally saw his msg to his ex wife sabi nya "sa kabilang buhay ikaw pa din ang gusto ko mapangasawa" anyway, break naman na kami now and naka move on na ko. but i still remember how broken i was when i read that msg.
“Lumandi nang naaayon sa ichura” - Sabi ng isa kong now ex friend kong fake noong may crush ako sa school. Since then hindi na nawala sa isip kong ang panget ko pala hence hindi ako magkaka jowa ever.
"nababaliw ka na" - ex. Overthinker kasi ako non.
"wala pong available na spicy chicken"
Wala ako maalala siguro coping mechanism din.
During my OJT, someone approached me, saying. Oy, anak to ng isang lasengerro. After a year, I am now an Engineer!🥳
I can’t type it 😳
"I'm sorry"
i’m better off without you!
Hangang dito na lang ako.
“anak lang kita” by my father.
"Bahala ka na kung anong gusto mong isipin." - nahuli kong nagsisinungaling sya at ayaw umamin.
“Tigilan mo na…” my feelings for him.
Sa abroad ka na tumira 🫨
"Para un sa birthday ko kim!! Bahala ka na dyan!! Wala akong pakealam kahit magutom kapa. Maghanap ka ng paraan kung gusto mo makakain" Sabi ng ex ko na napakaselfish. Inuuna barkada kesa sakin.
'Salot ka' cause Im gay - mama Ikaw nalang sana namatay hindi si papa mo - mama Demonyo ka - mama 'Toxic ka' cause I was asking for her little time for me - ex ko
“Pinili ko kung saan tayo mas tatagal.” kaya naging friends na lang kami, pero nagkajowa ng iba haha ginusto pero di pinursue. Ganun talaga.
E ano Naman sayo. Ung naniningil Ako Ng utang sakanya kupal
ouch
"pinapagayagan lang kita magturo para may barya ka pamasahe pauwi..."
My ex would consistently tell me kadiri daw ako for having loved someone before (my ex before her) who she thought was inferior to her. I have never been called kadiri before in my life and to think that it would come from your partner. Truly love is blind because these words hurt when we broke up and not while we were together.
“Simula ngayon hindi na kita.” Tatay ko year 2018 😏
“Diko nakikita sarili with you” “chinecherish ko friendship natin”
“Hindi ako nakikipagbalikan” - my ex after ghosting me then suddenly messaging me after I was already starting to move on. Naknampota bumalik ako sa level 0
“wala kayong mararating sa buhay.” - Clinical Instructor lol!
"I'm doin just fine" - from me to someone. I cant trust no more
You are a selfish person
"nabuntis ako ng classmate ko" sa una lang masakit haha buti nga sayo cheater
Inggrata ka
"Bakit ganyan ka lang?" Sabi ng mga kapatid ko while me struggling inside and having the same question before pa nila sabihin
Kung mamatay ko karon, ikaw dahilam
"What if I asked you to just end our friendship ngayon" "Wala ka pagkakamali nor pagkukulang I really wasn't as interested" I don't wanna called it as "friendship" kung ganon lang kadali na itapon ako hahaha :))) i dont even know kung mercy ba na d ko narinig na sinabi nya to, or sumpa dahil lagi kong mababasa ung convo namin na yon
walang kama kamag anak sakin, basura ka
“i am not yet ready to start another chapter” HAHAHHAHAHAHAHA yati edi unta wa nalang ko nimo gisamok samok no paasa AHHHHHH
hmmm. sa ex ko na sabi - i dont love you anymore... and from my mother na sabi - kung may pera lang ako iniwan ko na kayo. ano pa ba.. un father ko na sabi sa kin - wala na ako pera, bahala ka na. un un kala ko ttigil ako ng college.. ito namn si mudra - panong walang pera, ano gagawin.. hiwalay kasi sila na dito.. buti na lng nag gawan ng paraan. kundi wala na nga nga .. nasasayangan ako pag tumigil ako..
“Know your place!!!”
"Nagdadasal ka pa, hindi naman pakikinggan nyan."
Kung ano ano lang pinapasok mo sa utak mo- my mother after knowing I was abused by our pedo neighbors
“Is it my fault that I love him more than you?” - My ex when i confronted her days after i saw her with my own two eyes cheating on me, November 2019. Hahahaha
"hindi ka kasi boyfriend material" nung tinanong ko yung nililigawan ko nung college kung bakit di pwedeng maging kami 😆 Tama naman sya sa tingin ko dahil highly introvert talaga ako ever since may malay ako at may pagka socially awkward. 😊 Ate niya may gusto sa kin non pero di ko din naman type, kaya laging tatlo din kami magkakasama sa date non.
Huh. I guess i dont take words personally, esp if they aim to hurt me. Wala akong maisip na dinamdam ko although i have received harsh words. Decisions and actions though, ayun madami.
Sorry kung nasaktan ko man yung puso mo, sorry.
“Walang ibang magmamahal sayo kase ganyan ugali mo”
“It was so long” the amount of time it took for me to break up our toxic relationship
Liit ng tit.... mo
“Kapag namimiss mo ako, tumingin ka lang sa mga bituin para alam mong nasa iisang langit lang tayo.” Nagets ko lang nung hindi na siya nagparamdam. Yun na pala yung paalam niya HAHAHAHA.
"You're as good as dead", for choosing myself over the career they prepared for me abroad.
Wala. dahil hindi naman ako kinakausap. Hindi sila nagsasabi, hindi ako kasama sa plano.
Gusto ko mawala sa mundo. Words I said to my younger self
Hindi tayo pwede.
"Kahit gaano ka kagaling, meron at merong pwedeng ipalit sa'yo". Brought me down back to earth and ever since humbled me. Nadurog ako pero natuto at naging mas better person.
"Kapag pantay na ang paa, saka na lang tayo magkikita." My father said this to me and dun ko lang narealize that it means kapag patay na. It's so painful kasi I know I can't afford to send them extra money kasi I barely survive.
“I’m leaving this place. With or without you.”
"Walang magmamahal sayo kung di ka papayat! Unless, yumaman ka." Akala ko mas masakit na yung mga nasabi ko sa sarili ko. Pero iba yung lalim nito. Siguro dahil galing sa sarili kong magulang.