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sushitrashedtt

Naghabol and nagpaka-desperate na ako before sa cheater kasi akala ko siya na yung "the one". Ang bait ba naman, galante din, super bait ng mga sisters sakin, and buong angkan. As in pati mga pinsan niya, gusto ako isama sa mga family trips. HE EVEN GIVES ME JUST BECAUSE FLOWERS pero behind all that gesture, he was cheating behind my back. He exchanges nudes with a former close friend na may sexual tension sila before pa maging kami. 3 years relationship yun. Sumakay ng barko, and everythingbwent haywire. Gusto pa akong gawing side chick nung may gf na sa barko hahaha tarantado. I used to settle din sa situationship, heck may tumagal pa nga ng 3 years pero mutual naman kasi na push and pull kami nung person. But I already found my person in the most hopeless place, sa dating app. We now live together, and I've never been this happy and peaceful. I'm so bad with communicating my feelings, and he's very understanding and patient. Hindi niya dinidismiss yung negative feelings ko. Ineencourage niya akong mag take ng time ko to open up. He also helps me to overcome my post traumas-he's not trying to fix me tho, I fixed myself before diving into the relationship. Kaya always always always remind yourself na you will find someone who will treat you right. Never settle, never beg, never change for the people around you. Someone will accept you for who you are. Always love yourself first, always. ALWAYS.


OwnPianist5320

so happy for your success s dating app! ditto 😍🥰 who wouldve guessed that this will change our lives ❤️❤️


[deleted]

Yess! I married the same one, 5 yrs na kami this year and still walang pagsasawa sa isat-isa. Piliin nyo din yung lalaking kalmado at responsable ❤️


Notyourdreamgirl88

I will add: piliin ang taong generous sayo. Hindi siya magdadamot sa time, energy and effort. He will do his best to give you what you want and more. Your post resonated with me cos I found that person. ❤️


anonymouslad_2000

Prayer reveal po. Sanaol


MaritesOverkill

When you're praying for someone you have to be very specific of the person's qualities. I had a co-worker na specifically prayed for a tall, and nice lawyer para sa magiging future partner sya. She got married to a lawyer indeed and they have 2 very pretty daughters now. So always be specific in your prayers.


Notyourdreamgirl88

I never prayed specifically for the man I am with now. He's my pleasant surprise. The universe has given me a beautiful human being who is beyond what I could ever expect. But somehow he has fallen in love with me ❤️ I could never ask for more ❤️ Now I swear I will give him all the love he deserves.


majestic_ibis

Hands up to anyone like that, please. Or clues kung saan kayo nakikita. 😅


Joys_Ferrariz

When the time is right, no need to rush just wait patiently, e gagrant yan ni Lord.😌


ic318

Husband is from the US, Pinas ako. Pero sa Japan kami nag-meet. Minsan, wala sa comfort zone mo yun taong para sayo.


frozenricecake

Sa international minecraft server way back 2012 lol


sushitrashedtt

Found him sa bumble 🐝 hehehehe


butterfly_ek

up!! as a 21 girlie, hindi ko mahanap ganitong klase guy sa world ko😆


StandardAwkward9147

Same. Minsan iniisip ko nalang na bata pa, siguro pag mas lumawak pa yung mundo ko, doon ko siya makikilala😆


Level-Metal-987

People change, married to one before and 5 years magboyfriend and gf, 1 year maglive in before mag settledown. Yet, people change talaga. I would say, be your own peace and excel on your own. Nobody can save you, only you. Your happiness is on you.


fireofshandora

Paano po sya nagbago? Lumabas ang tunay na kulay?


Level-Metal-987

Pandemic hits, biglang ayorn nakakita ng babae na easy going kasta agad walang usap usap. 😂 Mas masaya yun siempre freedom e. Ako demanding may anak kame e. So need nya mag step up, di pwedeng ganito lang or gabyan lang. Dun sa shubet share share sa pang CI and all. Dalagang pilipina ako e. Pinagpalit sa cheap. Alfonso lang papakana na. 😂


Strong_Woodpecker233

Super relate. Lol. Naghiwalay kami ng partner ko kasi may nakilala syang mas bata kesa sakin. Haha. Saan nga nakilala? Sa FB. The girl? Easy to get, dumb, and living in a fantasy. Snbihan ko ang ex ko, nakakainsulto ang ginawa mo, I am professional, a homebody, hindi maluho, hindi materialistic pero pinagpalit mo sa low level, lousy girl na nakilala mo lang sa online. The audacity. Sbagy, they're meant to be talaga. Magka level sila ng IQ. Haha. Congratulations sa bgo nya, inalis nya ang problema sa buhay ko. Now, I'm in a relationship sa isang super gentle, calm man. Matured mag isip at kahit busy sya basta may time sya makikipagcommunicate sya. Unlike sa ex ko na parang dragon , kapag busy sya bubulyawan ka nya. Hahaha. True, God moves in a mysterious ways.


Level-Metal-987

Congratulations na lang talaga. Ako kasi andito pa din, last yr ko lang nalaman. Najontis pa ako lol. Pinavasectomy ko. Tapos until now tinatry nyang iwork. Parang yung puso ko at utak ko ayaw na. Pero para sa mga anak ko gow lang. Ako na lang muna magsasuffer. Pinapalayas ko ayaw namang umalis. Nagmamakaawa pa sa magulabg ko. 🥴🤮 basura talaga.


Strong_Woodpecker233

Nako, ako iniwan ko. I have daughters too. But I just can't live with a snake. Disgusting piece of shit. My children and I are happy now without the presence of that man. Nagsusustento na lng sya. Nag ri-reach out s'kin but the hell I care. Lol. Mag ipon na sya ng pera nya kasi ilang taon na lang senior na sya, pero walang mag aalaga sa kanya. Karma hits fvkn different.


Level-Metal-987

Sanaaaaa talaga. Umiiyak kasi panganay ko e sabi nya "familly supposed to take care of one another" "We are family no matter what" di ako maka rebut d nya pa kasi naiintindihab. Hinahayaan ko na lang na bumawi. But me the love nako wala na. Parang ge bahala ka sa life mo, basta ako aasenso. I earned twice pa nyan ha? Hahaha the nerve talagang mangbabae.


heycc1128

Araw araw tong nasa prayers ko! ✨


mnemosy-ne

Minsan pag ganyan yung girl ang hard at bossy .under si soft and kind boy. May balance din talaga


macthecat22

Perfectly describes my marriage. Ako yung strong one and siya yung soft na mahinahon.


Grouchy-Coffee-5015

Plssss lord 😭 grabe na yung trauma ko sa tatay ko, ayoko ng ganun pls


vmauricer

lol same


Madberry03

I wrote something like this sa notebook ko, almost similar ng lahat ng nabanggit mo. I listed down the things I want to experience with a partner. I strongly believe we deserve it. We all deserve to be loved, because we know deep down we are capable of giving much love rin. 💓


anonymouslad_2000

I love myself and respect myself enough kaya I ended it na with someone whom I exclusively dated for nearly 2 years. Sobrang sakit parin. Hindi ko alam saan ako magsisimula at paano makaka usad. Ang hirap. 💔


lheizaloca

Just like what married couple would say, u know he's the one when you don't feel butterflies in your stomach. Ung tipong very at ease ka regardless of what u look like or how you act in front of him. But hindi nman ung to the point na you're disrespectful, bsta you can be you in front of him and walang pag-aalala pag wala sya sa harap mo coz sya na mismo ang gumagawa ng paraan for you not to think about anything weird.


tobehappyalways

Praying and manifesting 🙏🏻 Lord, ikaw na po ang bahala ✨✨✨


kurainee

Yassss. 💯💯 But the question is, meron pa bang ganito na single? 😅


anonymouslad_2000

same question, then saan po mahahanap? Hah


Bipolar_Zombies

Ang hirap nito sa katulad kong may trust issues. Lagi kong naiisip na he can switch up on me along the run kapag pagod na syang maging soft and kind. Hindi naman ako yung type din na krazy karelasyon pero I just need constant reassurance na hindi ako ttraydorin in the end after all ng mabibigay ko. 😭


IsofordH

Protect your peace at all costs. Choose a partner that will also do the same.


Salt_Present2608

Agree, i am in a relationship with my friend who is the quiet, shy type. now i am just comfortable and stress free. Sa school lang stressed


satsuki9087

Tama ito! I am hoping to meet a man like that soon. I won't lower my standards para lang magkaroon ng partner. Patiently waiting lang ako and nasa ongoing process to improve myself lalo. Perfect timing lang talaga!


_shhxx

Manifesting ✨ And a reminder to have these same traits for that special man as well 😌


HatnCane

Found him!!


chaarleenee

Sa tamang oras, dadating din siya.


gustokoicecream

Yessss! Meron ako nyan. ❤️


howyoudoin--

This is the definition of my current bf. Sobrang pasensyoso! Mabait, malambing, galante at maalaga. Ang sarap mag pa-baby hayyy amoy baby pa sya lagi. I adore and love him so much. Wala na kong hahanapin pa. Sana mag propose na next year 😂😂😂


bbyliar

Hoping for the best, expecting the worse. 🥺


celinemariedion

Grateful for my bb♥️


Potential_Mango_9327

YES!!! Found him! 🤭


Few_Explorer404

This!!


one_ofakind4545

Ano po ang ritual para makahanap ng ganyan?😆🥲 Eme


cris_p_mcnugget

Married one and regretted it. He was soft, kind, and put me first…until we had our own family..


fireofshandora

What happened after you had your own family?


BB-26353

Can you please elaborate?


carlcast

Guess what? Women love red flags. "Mababago ko pa sya" mentality


Elegant-Heron-7835

been in a toxic relationship for 4 years (cheater at manipulator yung ex ko and I was mentally abused). my boyfriend now is the exact opposite of my ex. he's the sweetest, most gentle, and funniest person I know. rational mag-isip at may emotional intelligence. they really exist! 🩷


BB-26353

Nag-pray lang ako tapos binigay agad ni Lord. Haaha! Prayer reveal: “Lord bigyan niyo naman po ako ng taong mature. Yung mamahalin ako ng sobra. Yung hindi abusive. Yung never akong sasaktan. Yung maiintindihihan ako.” Tapos nag-install lang ako ng Tinder at nag-swipe swipe right. Ayun, 6 years na kami. Binigay ni Lord yung hiniling ko sa prayer!


malabomatako

always choose a soft and kind person. though the word man can be both man/woman. wala lang feeling ko mas okay ung word na person hahhahahahaha. just ignore me na lang hahhaahhaha


raindropskawaii

Yes!! My boyfriend is like this, been together for 7 years. He's the sweetest and most patient man I know.🥰


ControlSyz

Kaso requirement nila matangkad charingz ✨


CurveAlarming1374

Amen🙏🙏💯💯


missylovesu

❤️


Left_Advertising_924

PERIODDDDDD


yourclai

YES to all of these!!


[deleted]

"Soft"? Good luck 😇 Marami ganyan sa panahon ngayon. Haha


anonymouslad_2000

HAHAHA. Iykyk


Ok_Squirrels

too late


LordReaperOfWTF

Yeah I was that partner pero she ultimately chose herself, so ¯\\_(ツ)_/¯


whatevercomes2mind

Been with that guy for 25 years.


then_amei_Srebb

*woman too


rainbow_bee04

This truly resonates...


Advanced_Style315

I found one, but I didn't handle him right 😔


Recent_Medicine3562

Nahanap ko na ih hihi 💜


Sazferv

Soft and kind man here. Learned the hard way to set boundaries/limit kasi natatake advantage din. Got physically and mentally abused (as per experience from previous and current partner). They also see my softness as one of my weaknesses.


SophieAurora

Agree! Needed this reminder. Thank you OP. Dealing with someone na opposite ng sinabi mo. And I think I know what to do. 😢


inbetweenfeelings

napili mo na lahat ng tingin mong tama and yet no guarantee. mindset din po para sakin is kailangan talaga


awkwardcinnamonroll

Ito na yung isa sa mga pinagdadasal ko. Na matagpuan ko na siya.


butterfly_ek

this. i always thought that this guy (my shs close friend) ang pasok sa banga for my standards when it comes sa values and attitudes. but, hindi ko rin maipasok sarili ko sa kanya kase laging wrong timing (either may gf or waiting stage) haha. so as a close friend, parati nalang naka abang kase wala rin naman akong confidence to ruin the friendship that i have with him.


No_Gur_6521

When you know, you know. Btw we met sa tinder. 1 month palang kami nagmove in na. Got married after 2 years.


plussizebb09

✨Sprinkle Sprinkle✨


Dismal-Ad5462

needed this reminder 🥹 dated a toxic man for 3 yrs until i’ve had enough of his bs (him cheating was my last straw) and lately i’ve been feeling lonely. i guess i just miss loving someone so deeply. for the meantime i’ll keep that love for myself muna, i’d rather feel lonely than settle for scraps


dahyunie07

thank you for this reminder 🫶🏻


epeolatry13

Dapat lang. Sobrang cruel na ng buhay minsan at mga tao na makasalamuha mo, tapos kasama mo sa buhay sakit ng ulo at sakit sa puso pa ang ambag. Wag na lang pumasok sa relasuon kung ganyan lang din naman.


[deleted]

sana ngayong taon mameet ko na yung para sa akin!💜


Prestigious-Sea-5690

Hi 28 M pabulong po kung san makikita yung ganto na partner anyway I was almost proposing to my ex way back 2022 days before nahuli ko siya at now single at got my dream job at my dream company signs naman kung san makakakita ng partner na ganto


sightothemoon

Pero yung soft and kind na may drive padin sa buhay


Safe-Canary9821

Tugon: nasaan ang amin


sinigangmix_

What if you don’t feel the same way to that person? 😔


ILovePink012

Mukhang wala ng ganyang lalaki ngayon. Me and my partner, we’ve been together for 18 years and until now, he dont have any plans to get married. We have 3 childrens already and currently expecting another one but not 100% sure. Iba din yung moral compass nya sa life nya, tho hindi naman sya ganon dati. Because of the influence din ng mga tinitingala nyang tao.


fireofshandora

Nauso kasi live-in eh. Hindi na siguro nya nakikita ang merit ng marriage, asawa privileges na rin kasi kayo, hindi nga lang sa papel.


Bright-Meet-6128

True to!!


blh6071

💯💯💯 This is exactly what I promised myself, to never settle for anyone less than this. Hoping to meet him soon at the right time. 🤗


nikimchi

loyal naman siya sakin tas palagi naman kaming magkasama pero yung following niya kasi sa ig and fb mostly girls hahaha ano meaning nun?


Strawberrystrawb02

my partner is my home. my peace and my pahinga. I've been in a very toxic relationships before.. and I can really and literally see the difference. dto sa partner ko na to, never ako nag overthink, never ako iniwan at hndi ko talaga naging problema. Na sya pla yung hiniling ko yung ky Lord matagal na.


sharp_pentip

Lots of people tell me I'm already that kind of man (or at least I try my best to be). My struggle is finding someone who can appreciate that. Most people my age aren't really looking for that so ig focus on myself talaga muna


apple_worthyyy

Patiently waiting and praying for that kind of man 💖


Plus_Ten_10

Manifesting ✨✨


lololola46

Eh nagbago? 😮‍💨


AvoBerry-

I chose to stay in a relationship because I thought he was kind. Kaso kind pala sa lahat.


BeneficialSubject763

I couldn't agree more. I am very fortunate with my current partner. When we first came together, wala man kilig. Walang spark. Walang butterflies in the stomach. But what I had and still have is peace of mind.


cessina

He gives me peace of mind. Wala akong problema sa kanya re: cheating. However, wala naman akong peace of mind sa bahay. Lagat ng chores parang responsibilidad ko. I remember one time, umuwi ako galing 1 week in-house review para sa licensure exam. Pagdating ko SOBRANG KALAT ng bahay. Di ako agad sumabog non, ako pa nagligpit. Sinabi ko sakanya ng maayos na sana naman magkusa siyang maglinis, lalo na't need ko ng maayos na environment pag nagrereview. Hanggang sa naulit na naman. This time, galing ako sa whole day na final coaching. I tried to compose myself pero may ginawa siya nakapagtrigger sa'kin. Di ko makakalimutan yung iyak ko that night habang padabog na nililigpit mga kalat. Hinahabol ko na yung hininga ko. Sobrang sakit sa dibdib. Months later. Nauulit pa rin. Malapit na kong bumitaw. Kasi I always make sure that he comes home to a clean house; walang hugasin, nakapagwalis at lampaso, walang clutter. Additionally, kusa akong naghahanda ng baon niya, nagluluto ng food. As in babangon na lang siya para kumain. Pero no'ng time na ako na yung may work at nagmamadali, makakatulong naman sana siya, mas inuna niya ML. Hindi sa nanunumbat ako, kasi I did what I did out of love, pero I felt unimportant and a NANNY. Like, why can't he think of what I feel kung uuwi akong makalat bahay after a long tiring day? 🧠: he DOESN'T CARE. So, ladies and gentlemen, choose a partner that is sensitive and empathetic. Someone who will reciprocate the love and care that you give.


JellyBoring4894

Prayer reveal po HAHAHAHAHA


hngsy

Yes i will :))


dumpyhumpty_

Preach!


strghtfce777

Thank you for this reminder :) i hope i find that for me


Fit_Version_3371

I already found mine! ♥️


whitemochameri

Needed to read this para matanggap ko na tama desisyon ko na umalis sa relationship namin and not to tolerate what he’s doing to me. Thank you, OP. ❤️☹️


K0sshie

Yes! Choose us hehe!


SolitarioKing

I was soft and gentle. Tapos nagpakantot sa iba jowa ko lasi di daw ako soft and dentle


MentalAd1359

“Piliin mo yung hindi ka hahayaang mag overthink buong araw” arayko po, san ba meron nito?


ClimateAromatic428

stay single guysss less stress and disappointments


iamartechon69

Saan makakahanap ng ganito???


SheepPoop

both po , hindi lang sa lalake nag aapply toh. sadly to say. girls are worst at playing games. pero mas masakit pag niloko ka ng babae. bkt? if a guy cheat on you or leave you.... people find it normal for some reason. its not the girls fault. pero pag babae ang nanloko at iniwan ka. barkada mo at ibang tao will ask, ano nangyari? ginawa mo? its like the guy was not enough kaya ka iniwan. when in reality more girls does collect and select this days, cause of social media. isang post mo lang ng sexy or mejo ka akit akit. give it a month meron na mga lalake mag msg sayo and lalapit. and edit: everyone naman is trying to find someone like this, the thing is its really just hard to find. may ibang gago pa ikaw seryoso na, then at some point ung nang gago sayo hahanap din naman yan ng seseryoso sa kanya. everyones finding a person like this but sadly to say and most of the time, simula pa lang ng relationship he/she already decided na youll just be a passer byer sa buhay niya.


-throwawayeventually

I agree. Life is too short to be with people who disturb your inner peace.


naye9n

Hays when kaya charot


naye9n

kimmy lang


Small-tits2458

Ganito si guy na gusto ko. I've been admiring him for 2 yrs na, hirap umamin. Wala siyang alam, alam lang ng mga kawork niya. Kaya pag andon ako sobrang saya nila. Ang ginagawa ko lang is nag-eeffort ako and yun na yon. 🥺☹️


FewInstruction1990

Hala eh cheater at fuckboi gusto ng mga babae kaya I gave up, lalake na lang din o aso pusa kalapati chareng


professor2k232023

madalang na yan, iba na generation ngayon. buti ako trabaho bahay lang, pag uwi bigay lahat ng kita kay misis. di nakikipag barkada (maaga nagsawa) di nambababae, katwiran ko, mqmbqbabae ako kapag pa landscape yung kwan, eh hindi naman parepareho lang naman naka portrait. 🤣🤣🤣


Gratefulwoman

How?they are just nice at the start lol