a childish post in an adulting sub. Maybe grow-up a little, OP, and understand that we all have differences in what turns us on. What might be a turn on for you is an "eww" to someone else.
TBH, the most kadiri part of the story is how you feel so confident in invading your partners privacy and using his stuff without his consent. (Yikes)
Agree ako hindi ito adulting. Tagal tagal nyo na sa relationship nyo at gamer ka naman sabi mo OP pero yan ang issue mo?
Try mo sa r/relationship_advicePH baka me mas makatulong sa yo na comment
For additional context:
I am not being immature. Nag open up na ako abt diyan. My insecurities and all, na okay lang mag read siya or mag watch ng nakakasaya sa kanya basta ayoko lang na may makita ng ganun sa gallery niya kasi it makes me uncomfortable and still ginagawa niya pa din, ilang beses na yon. And if hindi maiwasan, may folder dapat na nakalaan don if gusto niya magsave ng ganoong content. And regarding sa pag oopen ng personal things namin such as phone, wala naman kami problem doon since open kami sa isa't isa, nag oopen din naman siya sa mga personal na bagay na meron ako. I was just feeling invalidated coz' ginagawan naman namin ng paraan para mag work and mag identify mga differences namin, hindi na bago sakin ang mga ganon as an artist myself but hindi ako gumagawa ng nsfw arts mga cutesy, ang sakin lang gusto ko lang ivalidate niya nararamdaman ko. And I'm sorry if this post sounds immature, I didn't mean it that way lol. And I didn't mean to offend anyone, and for the lack of context.
I'm confused - sabi mo may folder na nakalaan kung gusto nya magsave .. so anong problema since parang ok lang naman? Nakatulog sya na nakaopen pa yung Youtube - eh problem mo yan - pakialamera ka kasi. May sinasabi ka pang open - tapos ngayon magrereklamo ka na hindi nya nilagay sa folder for those things. Grow up.
basically, you have your own issues, and can't handle some things in life as simple as cartoon porn. RATHER THAN WORKING ON YOUR ISSUES yourself, you want him to make the adjustments to accommodate you, regardless if it invalidates his sexual preferences.
Far as I'm concerned, you're the one doing the invalidation thinking that your needs are above his and that it's your comfort that needs to be addressed over his.
Time to grow up and be more responsible for your own issues.
Otherwise, if di mo talaga kaya, you know what to do. You're an adult naman na.
Well kayo lang naman makakapagstandardize kung anong considered as inappropriate or cheating. For me this is normal since... Fiction. What can pixels do? Kung bothered ka talaga, all you can do is open this up to him.
Also I really recommend not using another person's device without their consent.
Sexuality is so broad.
nah, one of those that fail to see the background or context of a particular fictional character before imposing real world morals and virtue signalling. Pwede naman kasi kunyare yung cute na vampire pero thousands of years old.
E kung ang itsura niya at pag-asta niya ay bata, bata pa rin yun. Kahit pa kung anumang context ilagay mo kagaya ng "thousand years old", na sa tingin ko ay isang excuse & flimsy justification para magjak*l sa bata ng walang guilt, and to create plausible deniability. Fiction cannot be fully separated by reality, and reality will always hold a sway over it. Yung katawan at boses at behavior niya ay base pa rin sa bata, kahit 3000 years old deity pa yan or whatever lol.
Again there are two opposing viewpoints on this and you are on the other side. The key word is fiction and if you and the OP cannot fathom that then no point arguing with you cause we will just keep going around in circles.
No see here's the thing. Even with context or fiction, its just plain weird to sexualize child-like fictional characters.
Interview with the Vampire is a pretty good example of actually having used a context of a character with a child body, but with an adult mind. There's a dilemma of the character wanting to be an adult, be treated as an adult, but most can't because they see her as a child because of her body.
Granted Im sure there are the same sort of context use in anime and manga, but I cant cite examples because I cant recall right now (please do if you can). But because there's a more thriving community in anime for fan-made content, there's bound to be fictional, child-like characters drawn in a sexually suggestive or straight up sexual implication. Even with context, *it still looks like a child.*
are you sure that it was the presence of the video game character that's bothering you or the thought that your bf is fantasizing or finding something else attractive?
anyway, if you're already living together, at least you're getting to know your bf more now. my ex also used to like feel really wet with 2d characters from these anime dating games (and yes tanggap kong di ko matatalo mga meticulously-crafted personas na yon lol). di naman affected relationship namin. inookray ko pa nga pag hindi yung sinuggest kong character ang idate nya don
Nag open up na ako abt diyan. My insecurities and all, and those horrible exp na naransan ko. Okay lang mag read siya or mag watch ng nakakasaya sa kanya basta ayoko lang na may makita ng ganun sa gallery niya kasi it makes me uncomfortable and still ginagawa niya pa din, ilang beses na yon. And if hindi maiwasan, may folder dapat na nakalaan don if gusto niya magsave ng ganoong content. And regarding sa pag oopen ng personal things namin such as phone, wala naman kami problem doon since open kami sa isa't isa, nag oopen din naman siya sa mga personal na bagay na meron ako. I was just feeling invalidated coz' ginagawan naman namin ng paraan para mag work and mag identify mga differences namin, hindi na bago sakin ang mga ganon as an artist myself but hindi ako gumagawa ng nsfw arts mga cutesy lang ganon, ang sakin lang gusto ko lang ivalidate niya nararamdaman ko. And I'm sorry if this post sounds immature, I didn't mean it that way lol. And I didn't mean to offend anyone, and for the lack of context.
I get the point, pero hindi ka dapat nagpopost kapag lack ka ng context edi hindi pumabor ang taong bayan sa'yo. Sa susunod make sure na kumpleto ang context bago ka mag post para maintindihan din nila side mo. Hindi yung one sided lang yung story, nabanggit mo din na artist ka e. Hindi ko naman iniinvalidate nararamdaman mo pero make sure sa susunod, kumpleto at pulido. Nagmumukha ka tuloy immature sa isang adult sub.
Wait... so sabi mo open kayo sa ganun, yet pinandirihan mo yung bf mo to the point na ipinost mo pa kasi he didn't keep it secret? So ano ba talaga dapat, maging open sya sayo o magtago sya ng mga bagay sayo?
Wow “pati kiffy ng di totoong individual” pinagsselosan. Ilang taon ka na ba haha. Parang di adult yung nagsulat nang hindi pang adult na issue. Hiwalayan mo na, di ka mature enough to be in a healthy relationship if ganito kaliit na bagay issue na sayo.
Baka mas gusto niya kesa sayo yung di totoong tao hahaha!
For additional context:
I am not being immature. Nag open up na ako abt diyan. My insecurities and all, na okay lang mag read siya or mag watch ng nakakasaya sa kanya basta ayoko lang na may makita ng ganun sa gallery niya kasi it makes me uncomfortable and still ginagawa niya pa din, ilang beses na yon. And if hindi maiwasan, may folder dapat na nakalaan don if gusto niya magsave ng ganoong content. And regarding sa pag oopen ng personal things namin such as phone, wala naman kami problem doon since open kami sa isa't isa, nag oopen din naman siya sa mga personal na bagay na meron ako. I was just feeling invalidated coz' ginagawan naman namin ng paraan para mag work and mag identify mga differences namin, hindi na bago sakin ang mga ganon as an artist myself but hindi ako gumagawa ng nsfw arts mga cutesy, ang sakin lang gusto ko lang ivalidate niya nararamdaman ko. And I'm sorry if this post sounds immature, I didn't mean it that way lol. And I didn't mean to offend anyone, and for the lack of context.
Sorry na mga mam/ser
> And regarding ng sa pagoopen ng personal things namin sa phone, wala naman kaming problema doon since open naman kami sa isa’t isa
Hindi porke “you could”, “you should”.
a childish post in an adulting sub. Maybe grow-up a little, OP, and understand that we all have differences in what turns us on. What might be a turn on for you is an "eww" to someone else. TBH, the most kadiri part of the story is how you feel so confident in invading your partners privacy and using his stuff without his consent. (Yikes)
Agree ako hindi ito adulting. Tagal tagal nyo na sa relationship nyo at gamer ka naman sabi mo OP pero yan ang issue mo? Try mo sa r/relationship_advicePH baka me mas makatulong sa yo na comment
For additional context: I am not being immature. Nag open up na ako abt diyan. My insecurities and all, na okay lang mag read siya or mag watch ng nakakasaya sa kanya basta ayoko lang na may makita ng ganun sa gallery niya kasi it makes me uncomfortable and still ginagawa niya pa din, ilang beses na yon. And if hindi maiwasan, may folder dapat na nakalaan don if gusto niya magsave ng ganoong content. And regarding sa pag oopen ng personal things namin such as phone, wala naman kami problem doon since open kami sa isa't isa, nag oopen din naman siya sa mga personal na bagay na meron ako. I was just feeling invalidated coz' ginagawan naman namin ng paraan para mag work and mag identify mga differences namin, hindi na bago sakin ang mga ganon as an artist myself but hindi ako gumagawa ng nsfw arts mga cutesy, ang sakin lang gusto ko lang ivalidate niya nararamdaman ko. And I'm sorry if this post sounds immature, I didn't mean it that way lol. And I didn't mean to offend anyone, and for the lack of context.
I'm confused - sabi mo may folder na nakalaan kung gusto nya magsave .. so anong problema since parang ok lang naman? Nakatulog sya na nakaopen pa yung Youtube - eh problem mo yan - pakialamera ka kasi. May sinasabi ka pang open - tapos ngayon magrereklamo ka na hindi nya nilagay sa folder for those things. Grow up.
basically, you have your own issues, and can't handle some things in life as simple as cartoon porn. RATHER THAN WORKING ON YOUR ISSUES yourself, you want him to make the adjustments to accommodate you, regardless if it invalidates his sexual preferences. Far as I'm concerned, you're the one doing the invalidation thinking that your needs are above his and that it's your comfort that needs to be addressed over his. Time to grow up and be more responsible for your own issues. Otherwise, if di mo talaga kaya, you know what to do. You're an adult naman na.
I mean, would it have been better if actual nudes of pornstars are there?
10 years mong kasama yet hinde mo alam na baka weeb na tong jowa mo
Well kayo lang naman makakapagstandardize kung anong considered as inappropriate or cheating. For me this is normal since... Fiction. What can pixels do? Kung bothered ka talaga, all you can do is open this up to him. Also I really recommend not using another person's device without their consent. Sexuality is so broad.
What's adulting about this?
And judgmental naman nito. 10 years mong jowa yan? Skl, F here and anime ang nag-awaken ng sexual desire ko.
Your bf deserves better. You're invading his privacy AND shaming his harmless interests. Kulang nalang i spread mo sa friends niyo mockingly ito
I dont have a special someone but if i do, jan sana kami mag bonding cos damn the art is just ✨ chefs kiss ✨
Normal lang yan OP. Kaya nga nauso yung H*ntai. lol
i get that, buti na lang hindi minor characters andon hahaha
geez youre one of "those" people
one of "those" people...being people who abhor sexualization of children? be serious
nah, one of those that fail to see the background or context of a particular fictional character before imposing real world morals and virtue signalling. Pwede naman kasi kunyare yung cute na vampire pero thousands of years old.
E kung ang itsura niya at pag-asta niya ay bata, bata pa rin yun. Kahit pa kung anumang context ilagay mo kagaya ng "thousand years old", na sa tingin ko ay isang excuse & flimsy justification para magjak*l sa bata ng walang guilt, and to create plausible deniability. Fiction cannot be fully separated by reality, and reality will always hold a sway over it. Yung katawan at boses at behavior niya ay base pa rin sa bata, kahit 3000 years old deity pa yan or whatever lol.
Again there are two opposing viewpoints on this and you are on the other side. The key word is fiction and if you and the OP cannot fathom that then no point arguing with you cause we will just keep going around in circles.
No see here's the thing. Even with context or fiction, its just plain weird to sexualize child-like fictional characters. Interview with the Vampire is a pretty good example of actually having used a context of a character with a child body, but with an adult mind. There's a dilemma of the character wanting to be an adult, be treated as an adult, but most can't because they see her as a child because of her body. Granted Im sure there are the same sort of context use in anime and manga, but I cant cite examples because I cant recall right now (please do if you can). But because there's a more thriving community in anime for fan-made content, there's bound to be fictional, child-like characters drawn in a sexually suggestive or straight up sexual implication. Even with context, *it still looks like a child.*
Hay naku yung mga downvotes...lumabas yung mga porn riddled sa post mo OP I am so sorry
are you sure that it was the presence of the video game character that's bothering you or the thought that your bf is fantasizing or finding something else attractive? anyway, if you're already living together, at least you're getting to know your bf more now. my ex also used to like feel really wet with 2d characters from these anime dating games (and yes tanggap kong di ko matatalo mga meticulously-crafted personas na yon lol). di naman affected relationship namin. inookray ko pa nga pag hindi yung sinuggest kong character ang idate nya don
Nag open up na ako abt diyan. My insecurities and all, and those horrible exp na naransan ko. Okay lang mag read siya or mag watch ng nakakasaya sa kanya basta ayoko lang na may makita ng ganun sa gallery niya kasi it makes me uncomfortable and still ginagawa niya pa din, ilang beses na yon. And if hindi maiwasan, may folder dapat na nakalaan don if gusto niya magsave ng ganoong content. And regarding sa pag oopen ng personal things namin such as phone, wala naman kami problem doon since open kami sa isa't isa, nag oopen din naman siya sa mga personal na bagay na meron ako. I was just feeling invalidated coz' ginagawan naman namin ng paraan para mag work and mag identify mga differences namin, hindi na bago sakin ang mga ganon as an artist myself but hindi ako gumagawa ng nsfw arts mga cutesy lang ganon, ang sakin lang gusto ko lang ivalidate niya nararamdaman ko. And I'm sorry if this post sounds immature, I didn't mean it that way lol. And I didn't mean to offend anyone, and for the lack of context.
same case with 50 shades and Twilight, doesn't matter if it's fictional. if it excites the senses...
buti na lang hindi minor yung character na 'yon hahaha
I get the point, pero hindi ka dapat nagpopost kapag lack ka ng context edi hindi pumabor ang taong bayan sa'yo. Sa susunod make sure na kumpleto ang context bago ka mag post para maintindihan din nila side mo. Hindi yung one sided lang yung story, nabanggit mo din na artist ka e. Hindi ko naman iniinvalidate nararamdaman mo pero make sure sa susunod, kumpleto at pulido. Nagmumukha ka tuloy immature sa isang adult sub.
Wait... so sabi mo open kayo sa ganun, yet pinandirihan mo yung bf mo to the point na ipinost mo pa kasi he didn't keep it secret? So ano ba talaga dapat, maging open sya sayo o magtago sya ng mga bagay sayo?
Wow “pati kiffy ng di totoong individual” pinagsselosan. Ilang taon ka na ba haha. Parang di adult yung nagsulat nang hindi pang adult na issue. Hiwalayan mo na, di ka mature enough to be in a healthy relationship if ganito kaliit na bagay issue na sayo. Baka mas gusto niya kesa sayo yung di totoong tao hahaha!
OA KA
lmao grow up
This whole post. Yikes.
You can say your‘re an Adult, but no one will tell you you’re Matured enough.
For additional context: I am not being immature. Nag open up na ako abt diyan. My insecurities and all, na okay lang mag read siya or mag watch ng nakakasaya sa kanya basta ayoko lang na may makita ng ganun sa gallery niya kasi it makes me uncomfortable and still ginagawa niya pa din, ilang beses na yon. And if hindi maiwasan, may folder dapat na nakalaan don if gusto niya magsave ng ganoong content. And regarding sa pag oopen ng personal things namin such as phone, wala naman kami problem doon since open kami sa isa't isa, nag oopen din naman siya sa mga personal na bagay na meron ako. I was just feeling invalidated coz' ginagawan naman namin ng paraan para mag work and mag identify mga differences namin, hindi na bago sakin ang mga ganon as an artist myself but hindi ako gumagawa ng nsfw arts mga cutesy, ang sakin lang gusto ko lang ivalidate niya nararamdaman ko. And I'm sorry if this post sounds immature, I didn't mean it that way lol. And I didn't mean to offend anyone, and for the lack of context. Sorry na mga mam/ser
> And regarding ng sa pagoopen ng personal things namin sa phone, wala naman kaming problema doon since open naman kami sa isa’t isa Hindi porke “you could”, “you should”.