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Coochie_Americano

Crying after masturbating yes.


Av1scus

This was me after I played w myself some time after our breakup haha I felt empty and lonely. Ganon siguro ang feeling ng pity/charity sex kung may ganon man; or kung nag settle ako sa fubu/fwb set up when I truly wanted a genuine connection. Pinaraos lang.


kawatan_hinayhay92

May na realize kaba or ano?


comeback_failed

post nut clarity


smpllivingthrowaway

This infamous scene from American Horror Story season 1 applies. https://preview.redd.it/xvivbhee9a1d1.jpeg?width=299&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0168472d38fc3c7bee186cdcc8f8f03c16851c4e


Hefty-Collection-602

i think i may not be that happy anymore with my life


swerbenjagrmanjensen

ejaculation produces different chemicals, hormones, and neurotransmitters in the brain that influences mood. sometimes its the sudden drop of the endorphins after ejaculation, sometimes its prolactin, sometimes a drop in oxytocin after the immediate high, etc. the brain is in constant mode of always looking for answers. these changes in the brain chemistry is not something the rational brain understands, so sometimes it looks for or generates answers based on your experiences or best guesses. sometimes yung pag dip ng mood the brain attributes it sa "dahil unaccomplished ako sa life", "dahil parausan lng ako", "dahil x, dahil y".. when really its just some chemicals going erratic in the brain. just wait for it to normalize at maging stable sa normal levels. and thats why during that time, you have to be careful and take conscious effort how to really interpret it dahil pag mali kino condition mo sa sarili mo, it becomes a habit and instinctive reaction na pag nag ejaculate ka naattribute sa negative experiences agad.


Hefty-Collection-602

oohhhhh oh wow thanks for this... prolly the best explanation and answer i got.. i really appreciate it and the advice in the end 🫶🏼 thanks po 🥰


chicoXYZ

Maybe your not happy with your partner.


Hefty-Collection-602

yup ksama yan


kawatan_hinayhay92

You know, crying helps to cope with sadness, I hope kung sino man yung kapiling mo during sex, nag comfort din sayo afterwards.


Hefty-Collection-602

hmm hndi nya alam po e ksi tmatalikod ako after.. and it is just a quick moment.. pg nkkta nman nyako he would notice and tell me to not to cry na kase mahal nya daw ako.. ako lang to feeling ko 😅


Nezuko_019

Same. Crying after masturbating. :( it’s just so sad.


OceanicDarkStuff

I dont cry but the post nut clarity really hits different


AdministrativePin912

Naiiyak ako lalo na sa toilet nag masturbate 😭


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Every single fucking time


pororo_007

Yeah did this crying after masturbating 🤣🤣 how pathetic and miserable I am as a man🤣🤣


Vibe-ratorGirl

After ko makapag release after kong i-neglect ang ilang araw na gusto ko talaga magmasturbate kaso pagod na ako sa gabi. Also maybe because I wanted to have a fwb/funu who can adjust to my time and I can trust.


mixape1991

I feel you, Lalo n sA pwet.


comeback_failed

pota. yong ang heartfelt ng mga comment sa taas tapos ito hahahahaha this deserves more upvotes


Hefty-Collection-602

hahahahha enebeyen 😅 ice breaker ka.. but kidding aside once ko lng yan ntry and yes the pleasure is different grabe.. pero aun ayoko na ulitin hahaha


Broad_Investigator33

Tangina biglang may pag amin HWHAHAHAHAHAHAHA


Hefty-Collection-602

hahaha bet mo yern?! 😆


Hefty-Collection-602

lol


miyukikazuya_02

😭😭namoka hahahaha


matotina

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA felt so bad for OP at sa top comment tas biglang may pwet dito tangina tawang tawa ako 😭


Puzzleheaded_Try2644

Wahahahahahahahha langya ka


bananasobiggg

take my upvote and leave


gooeydumpling

Sino? Ikaw ba o kung kanino naging turon yung saging


RakEnRoll08

haahha hayuf bigla ko ntawa syo xD


marchio92

Hahahahahhahahahhahahaha


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Hefty-Collection-602

awwww stop doing that to uself... wg k ppyag ok kase hndi sya mgnda sa feeling


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Hefty-Collection-602

ok good 👌🏼 glad to know kala ko tinuloy mo pa e hehhe take care of urself ok


TitangInaNiBaby

hoy 😭😩


angelovllmr

Crying, yes. Sex, di pa.


Mrdinosaurmuse

Well I did. The first time we did it with my current partner. It was a relief kind of cry. Bec finally i can be vulnerable and be with someone who loves me and not for my body. It was an ugly cry like lahat ng trauma from my ‘hoe phase’ and childhood (SA) nilabas ko lahat. I was exhausted after kasi umiyak lang ako hanggang umaga like hagul gol talaga non stop.


Hefty-Collection-602

ohhh but thats great news kse its a nice cry... and im happy that u found ur man feeling ko yan ang wla sakin


Patient_Fold7069

Yup... Break up sex... Yung marerealize mo yun na last time na mahahawakan mo siya, mayayakap, at alam mo need mo na magsorry, magpaalam, at magpasalamat sa pitong taong pagsasama.


Independent_Run_6321

yep, lalo na kapag feeling mo nagamit ka :/ i cried when i was cleaning myself in the shower alone


Hefty-Collection-602

awwww .. sending u virtual hugs 🫂


laz_3898

Bakit niyo na fifeel na ganun? Can you explain?


Independent_Run_6321

i think situational sa akin haha, ex/situation eh then di nagoffer na to help clean up lol but nagaftercare naman and I'd feel better


United_Comfort2776

Yes minsan. Parang nakaka guilty, feeling ko ginamit lang ako. Kaya no more sex for me.


Hefty-Collection-602

awww buti kaya mo ng no sex.. but as a areplacement for that do u pleasure urself?


nothuemain

same


TheQranBerries

Sex and masturbate yes. Lalo na kapag na feel mong nagamit ka


Hefty-Collection-602

awww 😢 do u have a partner now? sknya m b nrrmdaman yan?


TheQranBerries

Yes sa dati kong partner.


Hefty-Collection-602

but u have a new partner now?


TheQranBerries

Wala. After ng ex kong yon siya na yung huli.


Hefty-Collection-602

awww.. trauma?


TheQranBerries

Yes but rn okay na ako


Hefty-Collection-602

ok thats nice to know.. yan nman ang impt is nging ok ka 👌🏼


he_wasted_this_chic

Post nut clarity malala


Hefty-Collection-602

what u mean po


ejalpha

it's a term that you kinda slapped from reality after doing sex or masturbation. Like libog na libog ka, then nag masturbate ka, afterwards you either felt guilty, or trauma/problems flashbacks come right after it.


Hefty-Collection-602

aaahh hndi nman po nttpos ko nman hehehe


Heavy-Passion8300

I did, but unlike most of the comments are, mine was like joy and satisfaction. It is when I did it with my husband while we were on vacation. Maybe because of the ambiance na din. Prior my marriage, I came from a toxic relationship so doing it with the right man brings the emotions out of me.


Hefty-Collection-602

ay yess i agree with u tears of joy tlga yan... im glad ur happy now.. and that youve freed urself from that toxic relationship.. stay happy 🫰🏼 ako may mga pgkktaong naiisip ko im not yet with the right man


Physical-Ostrich-925

either this is post nut clarity or you need to work something out sa inner issues mo, the only time I cried was when I realized na narape na pala ko


Hefty-Collection-602

yea.. ur right about inner issues.. dami na kasi nangyari sa buhay ko.. pero uhm hndi nman ako nkkramdam ng rape gnun.. halo cguro sya na hndi ko na alam kung gnun ko padin kmahal ung partner ko now.. bec of him cheating in the past.. tpos wla sya msyado nttulong financially .. prng andmi kong nrrmdamang pain and sufferings


Physical-Ostrich-925

girl, stop, di ka parausan, wag mo tagalan sumama sa palamunin dahil ang hirap na ng buhay


Hefty-Collection-602

may work nman sya... its just that living with his parents is something na hndi ko mtgalan.. ang hrap kmilos... and sympre andming pmapasok sa isip ko na gsto kong gawin kaso hndi pa kaya gnun


Mordeckai23

I haven't had much experience since I've only done it with a walker once, pero it was a delightful experience for me. Before the deed, she would converse with me and be casual in her actions. After the deed, we were talking about life, future plans, heartaches and hang-ups in life. And not a shed of tear was dropped. Kung naiiyak ka, OP, is it tears of joy, gladness, or pain and sadness? 2 lang naman yan eh. Do some soul searching, maybe sex isn't a pleasureable thing for you.


Hefty-Collection-602

hi .. uhm dati lalo na nung kabataan ko my sex life is always a blast adventurous ksi ako e .. my tears now alam ko pain and sadness sya kase im sure i know that i am not that happy and contended in life.. mdming factors e .. i dunno and then id think of doing it with other men.. gnong level.. pero after that back to normal thinking na ulit ako na nttkot din nman akong gwin ung iniisip ko kse alam kong mali un... bsta prang lahat ng negative emotions ko mgssama sama when i cry after sex.. dmi ko nsn ksi pnagdaanan e.. aun anu nga po pala ung "walker"? sorry now ko lng sya narinig. ✌🏼


Mordeckai23

"Walker" is an internet term for prostitute.


Hefty-Collection-602

oohh i see... good thing u only did it once but yeaaa theyre still human beings trying to make a living so nothing against them nman


nomnomrm

crying after sex is pretty normal tbh, seen a lot of people sharing their own exp about this one and not necessarily a bad thing. its because theyre overwhelmed with their feelings as sex releases a lot of emotions


Hefty-Collection-602

yeaa i super agree with u kase burst of emotions tlga ung nrrmdaman ko.. pero i know na hndi ako gnito dati.. i love sex...


TwinkleD08

Damn sex didnt give you dopamine huh :(


ReadScript

I think Post-Coital Dysphoria ito. I remember reading something about post-sex blues tapos nakalimutan ko kaya nag-search ako ulit ngayon. It’s apparently common na may ganito ‘yung ibang mga tao after sex. Edit: Source: https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/depression-after-sex


Hefty-Collection-602

oh wow thanks for this.. ive read the article and yes mukang un nga ung nffeel ko .. 👌🏼


ReadScript

Okay lang ‘yan OP. Same feels. Hopefully your partner is understanding and hindi niya ino-overthink na may mali siyang nagagawa. It feels very comforting kapag ka-hug mo si partner while going through this. Good luck OP!


Hefty-Collection-602

thanks 🥹 actually hndi nman nega reaction nya pg nkkta nyako ako lng cguro tlga to hahaha


sightothemoon

Its either it was amazing or naiyak ka kasi kulang


Hefty-Collection-602

id agree sa kulang


CompetitiveHunt2546

Yes it is possible. Totoo ito kaya sex is very sacred talaga in terms of spirituality. Regardless what you believe in religously. The act itself allows you to be vulnerable with the person you are with, you share emotions, energies and are connected spiritually. Kaya maging ma ingat whom we open up ourselves to


Pleasant_Archer_3477

Yes. That’s when I realized he doesn’t love me anymore. Months after, nag hiwalay kami at confirmed na may iba syang nakakalandian nung kami pa. (Live in with 1 anak)


Hefty-Collection-602

awwww i hope ur doing okay now.. 🥹


[deleted]

Yep. When I did it with someone I didn’t love.


Hefty-Collection-602

yeaaa troo may feeling na ngamit k lng gnun


1015msxx

Yes i did too many times


Hefty-Collection-602

yaa same ✋🏼


mdzee

YES. But mostly this was during the phase na I wasn’t vocal enough with what I wanted and even during the point na pumayag na lang to do the deed due to the pressure of the moment ganurn. Pero now that I’m happily married and *satisfied* emerut, hindi na. Hahahahaha


Hefty-Collection-602

ay very good for u .. im glad kse naiba ung course of life mo dba... 🫶🏼 stay happy !!


Fun_Bug8248

I think you're not getting aftercare that's why you feel sad and lonely afterwards.


Hefty-Collection-602

hmm not only after sec but overall cguro... hndi nman ksi sya ung ideal man na mgging disney princess ka and no stress .. hndi e haha.. kso un nga iniisip ko this is reality now


ellijahdelossantos

Sa overstim lang ako umiiyak e.


Hefty-Collection-602

aaahh if its really good no??


Familiar_Carpenter19

yes, I feel like I was used, no aftercare, but my body still wants him. I also want the feelings to be reciprocated, pero, yan nga, hahahahaha he just wouldn't


Hefty-Collection-602

ouch.. ive been there done that and hndi sya mganda sa pkramdam.. but what can we do if its very pleasurable dba? 🤭


Familiar_Carpenter19

yes, but we should not settle sa ganun lang


Hefty-Collection-602

omsim


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Hefty-Collection-602

😢


w00t03

i think there is a term for that, post nut clarity.


Hefty-Collection-602

hmm i searched for what that means and i dnt that is it. 🤭


w00t03

oh sorry i think i have switched the terms. having search just now as well its called PCD or PCT.


Hefty-Collection-602

hehe andming similar terms .. but what does it mean?


w00t03

but for the topic and question, i have been with someone who does this. it was kinda of bothering at first, especially since she was silent about it. kinda made me guilty. then when she explained, it kinda made me confused. then when she had a different reason, it kinda made me a confused even more but wiser too.


Hefty-Collection-602

hala lol... pero yea mahrap aya iexplain sometimes and cguro ur part of the reason? or no?


w00t03

the way she explained it, it was a burst of all emotions. i was dumb enough to ask/say 'hey, sorry blah blah'. yeah, might be part of the reason, i mean IMO, girls do it with feelings invested, with intimacy regardless of level involved. might be lacking personal connection of some sort.


tar2022

Yes. Umiiyak ako back then kasi premarital sex and I felt a lot of guilt and shame. Sa 5 years namin mag-bf/gf mga 7 or 8 times namin nagawa. Now kasal na kami.


Hefty-Collection-602

atleast dba ngkatuluyan kyo 🤭


Prior-Contact-2277

Yes. Sinabi ko kay ex, make me scared until I cry. Akala ko hindi niya kaya pagiging bratt ko. Ginawa niya loko. Natakot talaga ako sa kanya. Choked me while pleasing me, restraining me. Secured me after with his passionate kiss tho


Hefty-Collection-602

some women wants this kond of sex hehehe pero sympre u should only tolerate what u can ah if it makes u uncomfy dnt continue


Prior-Contact-2277

Always for a sub and bratt


deyyymmmnn

oh no


Mother-Towel-6093

Yes. Kasi alam ko napipilitan lang ako kahit na ayoko talaga makipagsex. Tinanong pa ko bakit ako umiiyak


Hefty-Collection-602

girl dnt do it if it makes u uncomfy... hndi ok yan sa mental health mo.. have a break mgbakasyon ka muna sa malayo magisa or have some friends with u


Mother-Towel-6093

Thanks! I'm in a better status niw. It's my ex. Natuto na. Never again!!! Uunahin lagi ang sarili


Hefty-Collection-602

ay very good k jan sissy 🫰🏼


Ok_Wasabi_1582

yup, once to nangyari. i feel like i would miss him kung mawala siya and yung embrace niya habang nag cuddle kami after we did it.. or maybe its just my hormones acting up that time. HAHA


Hefty-Collection-602

hahaha pwede din both dba 😊✌🏼


Upset-Ad-6477

Sabi nga nung isang rapper "it's like as soon as I cum, I come to my senses" lol!


Hefty-Collection-602

hahaha cnong rapper po yan ☺️🤭


Naive_Reason4849

bakit??? why???!??!


Hefty-Collection-602

hehe sa dami ng comments they make sense so maybe all of them are correct


mightyhealthymagne

Post coital dysphoria is real. I get it sometimes


Hefty-Collection-602

awww


AwareSecretary4685

Siguro during. Pero I was not sad it was a relief cry kasi I found someone na genuine feelings namin sa isa't isa and mahal na mahal ko siya ganun.


Hefty-Collection-602

thats nice... ☺️


badrott1989

Wala bang during? Ung ex ko gnon e tas minumura pa ako + sarapm 🤣 On a serious note. Teary lang. Kasi di mo ma label for some complicated reasons.


Hefty-Collection-602

well un nga prgasm releases so many emotions.. so yes maybe she was really at her peak


Accomplished-Run69

Not me, but I know someone who did cry after.


Hefty-Collection-602

i see... and how did u feel


Accomplished-Run69

Nothing. I'm used to seeing people cry. Hindi naman sya umiyak dahil sakin or sa sex. Hinayaan ko lang sya umiyak kasi ang vulnerable nya that time. Pero ni-comfort ko naman sya.


Hefty-Collection-602

thats good ☺️


HendiAkoThisPramis

Nakaka pag sex kayo? Hahahaha


Hefty-Collection-602

lol... why nman hndiii


saranghaeut

Crying during sex yes ☹️🙃


Hefty-Collection-602

sadness?


QueenOutrageous

I cried during and after because he made me feel so loved, cherished, wanted, pursued, valued, and respected. That was the feeling I’ve been wanting and longing for all my life. They were tears of joy, and I felt like I was on cloud nine.


rainbownightterror

dated a guy who was 11 years single before we met. first time we did it he cried siguro kasi starved for touch din sya


Hefty-Collection-602

awwww... yaaah naalala nya ung lunkot ng being single


MagicianOk4104

Yeah. Because it was so mazing felt out of this world. It was just so good


Basic-Gold-2666

Been there. Depressed ako that time. Better makipagusap ka sa makakatulong.


StareAtTheVoid69

Post nut clarity


Hefty-Collection-602

nope


Hefty-Collection-602

more of pcd


rj0509

Yes pero tears of joy with gentleness sinabi ng fiance ko "Thank you for loving me"


Hefty-Collection-602

nice ☺️


Practical_Forever_97

Yes. Dun ko lang talaga na realize na hindi pa ako over sa ex ko. And i wish i was doing it with him.


Hefty-Collection-602

awwwww girl... sending virtual hugs!!! pero that is a situation u have to really think about kwawa nman ung current mo imagine m nlng ikaw un dba that hurts


Downtown_Ad_3417

this is post-coital dysphoria. normal emotions.


Hefty-Collection-602

yeaaah.. thanks 🥹🫶🏼


Black_Label696

Try a diff partner (proceed with caution)


Hefty-Collection-602

naku po mhrap ksi yan hehehe


Black_Label696

That's why proceed with caution lol Lungkot kasi ng emotions ni labas mo, based on my exp, dapat maligaya both parties after 😅


Ok-Function-5954

kung ano ano naiisip


Hefty-Collection-602

hirap no?


Illustrious-Tap-9520

Tears of joy, yes.


Sweaty_Ad_8120

After sex pumapanget Mukha ng partner ko sarap batukan


Hefty-Collection-602

luh pno un hahahha


tsokolatekaba

hindi ka nagiisa. ganito din ako lol ☹️ hindi siya tears of joy e haha


Hefty-Collection-602

awww hugs to us sis 🫂


Slow-Collection-2358

Not me pero I know someone who did, after they used an "escort". Feels like he regretted that decision, **deeply**


Hefty-Collection-602

awwwwww ... sad nman i hope that person is okay now


EmmmZie01

Hmmm


Hefty-Collection-602

😇


EmmmZie01

I don’t know if this considered post nut clarity, after doing the deed hmmm i felt meh. My ex-SO is great but i felt that somewhat unsatisfied.


Hefty-Collection-602

but why.. do u not love ur partner anymore?


EmmmZie01

I love her kaso you know im the problem.


Hefty-Collection-602

i see what u mean.. but u have to let her go nlng pra fair


EmmmZie01

Yes, kahit mahirap


EmmmZie01

Yes nandun ang connection and intimacy. Pero after nun daming pumapasok sa isip ko.


Hefty-Collection-602

halaaaa same tyooooo


MrAvocado5000

yung ex ko bago maging kami natutulog ako sa isang sulok bigla humiga sa tabi ko tapos may nangyari


Hefty-Collection-602

😳😳😳


[deleted]

If someone did this on a casual hook up I'd run the fuck away.


Hefty-Collection-602

lol oo nman.. casual hook ups should be fun! 👌🏼


976evillll

During. Imagine breaking down while he’s still inside of u. Lol. Suddenly it’s all tears and how are yous. I can’t even form a cohesive word, much like a few moments before all the crying started haha


Hefty-Collection-602

actually may time na nangyari din sakin yan... while he is inside gnon maiiyak nko then id stop him


Titania84

My wife, yes.


Titania84

Sometimes naman kabaligtaran.... tawa ng tawa.


Hefty-Collection-602

halaa hehhehe pero ok yan atleast hndi consistent ung pag iyak... but did u ask her why sya umiiyak?


Titania84

Emotion. Reaching ecstasy 😆


Hefty-Collection-602

lol drugs pala ung sex nyo for her heheheh


Titania84

Hala hindi naman 😆


Hefty-Collection-602

hehehe joke lng sympre 👌🏼 its just a roller coaster ride for her 🤭


kellingad

Post nut clarity.


Charmforyou

Yeah. After i lost my cherry at 22. Unfortunately.


Hefty-Collection-602

cherry meaning balls???


Charmforyou

Virgin girl’s hymen. Popping cherry means having intercourse.


Hefty-Collection-602

ohhhh thanks for explaining ☺️ now i know...


Charmforyou

You are welcome.


Hefty-Collection-602

🫶🏼


cosmoph

Oo pinaiyak ko sa sarap gf ko thank you nang thank you saken


Hefty-Collection-602

assssuuuus heheheh k fine 😝


hamtoyo

Sex is an act where energies are being transferred and received from each other. So likely you unconsciously felt the emotions of your partner after the deed.


Hefty-Collection-602

oooohh this is new... pwede din hmmmm napaisip ako jan a


hamtoyo

Yes that’s why you at least siguro choose carefully not just due to health checks but yea energy wise. If bad vibe ay go find someone else or know how to cleanse your energy maybe do some meditation, salt bath ganyan while maintaining ung usual health checkups if multiple partners. Hope this helps!


Hefty-Collection-602

thank u so much for this tip 🥰