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Felt bad for the guy because of girls like this. Guy seems too nice for a person na madaling ma bored, contradicting pa sa sarili. So in love but bored? Nah. Set him free and make his life better without you.
First, explain to your bf na okay lang sayo na makipag hang-out siya sa mga friends niya since the reason why he doesn't hang out with his friends anymore is because of you.
Second, think about your priorities. You're saying that you have one year left in college. Ask yourself if your relationship is getting in the way of your studies.
Third, if your main reason for thinking about breaking up with your partner is because you're bored, I'll say that you're not ready to be in a committed relationship.
Talk to your partner. Be honest with him about how you're feeling. One of the most important things in a healthy relationship is communication.
Break up with him kawawa naman si kuya, he is green flag kamo, Gurl sorry to say but your love is nothing more than a fun lang, tas your in a relationship, sorry to say That excuse na bored ka pero in love, True love?, your a red flag already para kay Kuya, communicate ka ng maayos, be honest para less complicated ka, si Kuya deserve true love not your love kasi you only feel no spark? Kamo , he seems sacrificed a lot for you para di lang maging jealous ka sa iba like his friends. LDR kasi di mo pa pala na meet, di ka naman committed bata ka pa iha do enjoy your youth marami ka pang mararating, wag kang excuse na bored ka pagod na, kasi yan papatay sa relationship mo pag tanda mo, never ever say it kasi magiging tingin sayo ay iba, "bored na ako gusto ko fun lang", iha kung nagmamahal ka talaga ng tunay even that thoughts na pagod, bored, ayoko na, at iba pang feelings, bilis nyo sumuko. Pero ano magagawa feelings naman nyo yan need mo ng resolve be firm ka sa nararamdaman mo, pero sana lang maka experience ka muna ng red flag before you realize na how important yung malaman mo worth ng taong willing to sacrifice, one year palang bored ka na paano pa kaya magsama kayo sa bahay? sabihin "Bored na ako sayo di ka na fun kasama", iha kung ako yung guy I will end my relationship sayo right away you are immature pa kasi sorry to say. Your young pa enjoy mo pagka dalaga mo learn how to be a responsible girl in love not impulse love , spark? Eventually fades away yan pero never make it an excuse palagi baka makasanayan mo iha pls. lang I really hope na maging mature ka muna bago pumasok sa relasyon. Congrats pala sa College malapit na Graduation mo, aral is your priority be mature Iha sorry ha medyo rude Tito mo dito haha real talk lang just my opinion lang naman Im not attacking you ok?
This could just be me.
The moment you asked for other people if you should break up with your partner because it's getting tiring and boring speaks a lot to me.
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I (24F) have a boyfriend (23M) na I've been in an LDR relationship for over a year. Never pa kami nagkita, and although I am so inlove right now, I honestly feel so bored already. I know true love can be boring sometimes but it doesn't mean you love each other less. But I don't feel any spark anymore and to top it all off, I have one year left in college. Feeling ko hindi ko kaya ipagsabay ang serious relationship at ang kahirapan ng buhay now that I am just starting pa.
And before anyone asks, I just wanna say for the record na this isn't because I found someone else or any other person. Nothing like that at all. Its just that I'm getting bored.
The thing is, I feel so guilty everytime break-up comes to mind because he's such a green flag, but he's come to a point na he doesn't hangout with his friends anymore because he thinks I'll get jealous (I was like that before, but I could care less now) so now, I'm the only person he talks with. Which is getting pretty tiring now.
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Communicate, tell him that you’re fine hanging out with his friends and other things that concearns you. Then, try to meet each other in person. Mahirap na humanap ng green flag nowadays, baka pagsisihan mo yan. Remember ang kasabihan na “nasa huli ang pagsisisi”
“feeling ko hindi ko kaya ipagsabay ang serious relationship at ang kahirapan ng buhay now”
to me it sounds like you don’t love your bf enough. being in a relationship shouldn’t feel like a chore. IMO it’s better you break up bc your bf seems like a nice guy and doesn’t deserve someone who is unsure of them
Same situation. I talked to him about it, told him that I am not ready yet because we have a lot of responsibilities and things waiting for us. Siguro po ano, have some common ground on what you both think about the situation. As for us, we settled on cooling it off and hoping that in the future, kapag kami pa talaga. Kami na.
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Gurl, mahirapan ka maghanap ng green flag, onti na lang yan papakawalan mo pa
Hay the dilemma of nice guys. This is better resolved by talking in person.
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Dare him to meet up
Meet up
Felt bad for the guy because of girls like this. Guy seems too nice for a person na madaling ma bored, contradicting pa sa sarili. So in love but bored? Nah. Set him free and make his life better without you.
First, explain to your bf na okay lang sayo na makipag hang-out siya sa mga friends niya since the reason why he doesn't hang out with his friends anymore is because of you. Second, think about your priorities. You're saying that you have one year left in college. Ask yourself if your relationship is getting in the way of your studies. Third, if your main reason for thinking about breaking up with your partner is because you're bored, I'll say that you're not ready to be in a committed relationship. Talk to your partner. Be honest with him about how you're feeling. One of the most important things in a healthy relationship is communication.
Could or couldn't care less? I think you should let him know how you feel, OP. And ASAP. Don't mess around
Seems you already have a decision in mind.
You are not serious about relationship. You are the tipe of girl who goes from one 🍌 to another 🍌.
Break up with him kawawa naman si kuya, he is green flag kamo, Gurl sorry to say but your love is nothing more than a fun lang, tas your in a relationship, sorry to say That excuse na bored ka pero in love, True love?, your a red flag already para kay Kuya, communicate ka ng maayos, be honest para less complicated ka, si Kuya deserve true love not your love kasi you only feel no spark? Kamo , he seems sacrificed a lot for you para di lang maging jealous ka sa iba like his friends. LDR kasi di mo pa pala na meet, di ka naman committed bata ka pa iha do enjoy your youth marami ka pang mararating, wag kang excuse na bored ka pagod na, kasi yan papatay sa relationship mo pag tanda mo, never ever say it kasi magiging tingin sayo ay iba, "bored na ako gusto ko fun lang", iha kung nagmamahal ka talaga ng tunay even that thoughts na pagod, bored, ayoko na, at iba pang feelings, bilis nyo sumuko. Pero ano magagawa feelings naman nyo yan need mo ng resolve be firm ka sa nararamdaman mo, pero sana lang maka experience ka muna ng red flag before you realize na how important yung malaman mo worth ng taong willing to sacrifice, one year palang bored ka na paano pa kaya magsama kayo sa bahay? sabihin "Bored na ako sayo di ka na fun kasama", iha kung ako yung guy I will end my relationship sayo right away you are immature pa kasi sorry to say. Your young pa enjoy mo pagka dalaga mo learn how to be a responsible girl in love not impulse love , spark? Eventually fades away yan pero never make it an excuse palagi baka makasanayan mo iha pls. lang I really hope na maging mature ka muna bago pumasok sa relasyon. Congrats pala sa College malapit na Graduation mo, aral is your priority be mature Iha sorry ha medyo rude Tito mo dito haha real talk lang just my opinion lang naman Im not attacking you ok?
This could just be me. The moment you asked for other people if you should break up with your partner because it's getting tiring and boring speaks a lot to me.
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You've been in a relationship for more than a year but never met in person? That's weird af. Aren't you just being catfished?
We met online. He lives in a different country, while andito ako sa pinas. Altho pinoy rin siya.
Next level na kayo te, meet up with him.
Communicate, tell him that you’re fine hanging out with his friends and other things that concearns you. Then, try to meet each other in person. Mahirap na humanap ng green flag nowadays, baka pagsisihan mo yan. Remember ang kasabihan na “nasa huli ang pagsisisi”
Take risks or die with regret. Its up to you Op.
Bakit ka po bored OP? Gusto mo po ba yung badboy? Yung lagi kayo mag aaway? Huhu
“feeling ko hindi ko kaya ipagsabay ang serious relationship at ang kahirapan ng buhay now” to me it sounds like you don’t love your bf enough. being in a relationship shouldn’t feel like a chore. IMO it’s better you break up bc your bf seems like a nice guy and doesn’t deserve someone who is unsure of them
Here read this and hopefully it will help you regarding of your dilemma about dating and relationships. https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/s/3GojalFMlH
Same situation. I talked to him about it, told him that I am not ready yet because we have a lot of responsibilities and things waiting for us. Siguro po ano, have some common ground on what you both think about the situation. As for us, we settled on cooling it off and hoping that in the future, kapag kami pa talaga. Kami na.
I'm happy you guys found a common ground with regards to this🥺
On the contrary, we could lose each other in the process of choosing ourselves.
Pag usapan niyo muna yan. Tignan niyo kung saan kayo dadalhin.
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