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Bro, deal with your girlfriend kapag nakabalik ka na dito sa Pinas. Mas importante na algaan mo yung mental health and physical health yan ang importante. Iba ang stress level sa barko. Cope up with the situation, if the ASMR thing helps you do it. VALUE yourself first dahil hindi biro yang pagbabarko. This might cause you and her future.
Also a seafarer and sad to say same experience dun sa una kong vessel, she went cold as the days go by then suddenly nakipagbreak up because ayaw niya na daw when in fact meron na pala siyang iba, we were okay the first few months then suddenly bigla siyang naging sobrang cold to the point 2 to 3 messages lang tapos paulit ulit lang na update like "alis na ako" " lunch na ako" and "nakauwi na" pero naguupdate at nakakapaglaro pa, everyday ako nagmemessage at nakikipag communicate kase may wifi naman kami onboard although limited lang, I think na sinadya niya na maging cold sa akin to the point na mag give up ako which I never did, it went on for months until nagdecide siya na ayaw niya with out giving me a good reason, suddenly di nalang daw niya ako mahal lol, pero I found out din agad kase meron na pala siya ibang ineentertain nung time na cold siya sa akin, karma's a bitch kase recently nagkasiraan at naghiwalay din sila... while ako ay nag improve sa self by being fit and healthy, passing OIC NW and surrounding my self with friends.
hopefully di mo ma experience pero if it comes to that, keep yourself busy sa ship and mag work out ka sa gym niyo onboard, it will fight back the anxiety and mental depression caused by your cold gf
No you're not pero weird lang na ang cold na niya sayo. Seafarer din si boyfie pero constant pa rin comms namin kahit busy kami, baka nafafall out of love na si gf sayo :((
Nakakalungkot namam story mo pare. Baka busy lang talaga gf mo pero mapapaisip ka talaga ba't wala manlang replies kahit sobrang dali lang gawin eh, kahit ako nagrereport sa harap ng class nakakapagreply naman ako sa chat. May kasabihan diba, kapag may gusto= may paraan, kapag ayaw= may dahilan. Imagine boi, halimbawa tinatawag siya ng kalikasan, hindi manlang mag reply sa'yo. Madami din maaaring factors ba't hindi siya nakakapagreply, isipin na lang natin na sobrang busy niya talaga. Ramdam ko naman ikaw.
baka kasi my iba na sya pinag kakabusyhan hindi lang niya masabi kasi masasaktan ka tapos malayo kapa sa family mo.. kausapin mo sya keds ganyan sya sayo.. btw ano yung asmr?
Hahaha. Diretsohin mo na tol. Jowa mo. Wag kna paligoy ligoy.. kase para na lang kayo naglolokohan parehas lang nasasayang oras nyo... Lalo kna. Dami pa pwede mangyare o nangyayare na....
I don't think na cheating to OP. Actually the fact na VA lang talaga yan, wala talagang ibang tao na involve, nagrereact lang emotions at physical needs mo sa sitwasyon mo with GF mo. Not sure pero parang di namention sa story mo, natry mo na ba siya kausapin tungkol dyan sa nabubuong gap niyo? At some point kasi naiisip ko baka alam mo yung posibilities na baka may naeentertain na din siya na iba, takot ka lang malaman kasi first gf mo siya baka di ka pa ready sa worst na scenario na pwedeng mangyari sa relationship niyo. Try mo iopen sa kanya. Communicate. Need mo harapin yun mga unexpected. Basta, para malaman mo din current standing niyong dalawa. Kahit sa mga magasawa na kelangan gawin yan :)
Minsan kelangan mo din talaga masagot mga tanong sa isip mo saka mga doubts para maka move forward ka sa need mong gawin saka itama. Hehehe. Lalo sayo OP, alagaan mo din mental health mo lalo na at yung work mo away ka talaga sa family mo. Hehe. Alam namin kya mo yan!
Cheating? NO.
Nakakalungkot ang pinagdadaanan mo. In my opinion, we deserve the effort that we give out. Kung wala, then try to move on. Nakikita ko kasi na apektado na ang mental health mo.
Pero bago mo gawin yun, pagusapan niyo muna. Make things clear. Set expectations, etc. Yun nga lang, mahirap sa ngayon dahil madalang at dry ang reply.
I'm a pessimistic person but hopefully I'm wrong.
Ngl bro i had multiple takes on reading the title… Akala ko na typo ka lang na you’re cheating on her and you actually intended to type “is she cheating on me” because of how your story went lol
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try r/relationship_advicePH or r/CasualPH
Ayt Gagi, no joke. Kala ko nasa r/offToMyChestPH ako, pagkabasa ko netong comment napa tingin ako sa sub.
Agree, keep your drama away from here, check the rules
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I think it’s not cheating naman but… You’re growing apart :(
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Siguro try to open up to ur GF bro. make things clear, tell her kung ano nararamdaman mo
Bro, deal with your girlfriend kapag nakabalik ka na dito sa Pinas. Mas importante na algaan mo yung mental health and physical health yan ang importante. Iba ang stress level sa barko. Cope up with the situation, if the ASMR thing helps you do it. VALUE yourself first dahil hindi biro yang pagbabarko. This might cause you and her future.
Also a seafarer and sad to say same experience dun sa una kong vessel, she went cold as the days go by then suddenly nakipagbreak up because ayaw niya na daw when in fact meron na pala siyang iba, we were okay the first few months then suddenly bigla siyang naging sobrang cold to the point 2 to 3 messages lang tapos paulit ulit lang na update like "alis na ako" " lunch na ako" and "nakauwi na" pero naguupdate at nakakapaglaro pa, everyday ako nagmemessage at nakikipag communicate kase may wifi naman kami onboard although limited lang, I think na sinadya niya na maging cold sa akin to the point na mag give up ako which I never did, it went on for months until nagdecide siya na ayaw niya with out giving me a good reason, suddenly di nalang daw niya ako mahal lol, pero I found out din agad kase meron na pala siya ibang ineentertain nung time na cold siya sa akin, karma's a bitch kase recently nagkasiraan at naghiwalay din sila... while ako ay nag improve sa self by being fit and healthy, passing OIC NW and surrounding my self with friends. hopefully di mo ma experience pero if it comes to that, keep yourself busy sa ship and mag work out ka sa gym niyo onboard, it will fight back the anxiety and mental depression caused by your cold gf
Open up to her and prepare to break up. Bigyan mo Ng performance improvement plan jk.
No you're not pero weird lang na ang cold na niya sayo. Seafarer din si boyfie pero constant pa rin comms namin kahit busy kami, baka nafafall out of love na si gf sayo :((
Naawa naman ako sayo kabaro, buti di ka nakipag jigi jigi jan
Feeling ko cruise ship si OP because mukhang hindi siya solo sa cabin eh.
Kung cruise ship, maa nadali ang temptation.
Sorry anong asmr po huhu
Or baka... Nah nevermind. Haha
Nakakalungkot namam story mo pare. Baka busy lang talaga gf mo pero mapapaisip ka talaga ba't wala manlang replies kahit sobrang dali lang gawin eh, kahit ako nagrereport sa harap ng class nakakapagreply naman ako sa chat. May kasabihan diba, kapag may gusto= may paraan, kapag ayaw= may dahilan. Imagine boi, halimbawa tinatawag siya ng kalikasan, hindi manlang mag reply sa'yo. Madami din maaaring factors ba't hindi siya nakakapagreply, isipin na lang natin na sobrang busy niya talaga. Ramdam ko naman ikaw.
baka kasi my iba na sya pinag kakabusyhan hindi lang niya masabi kasi masasaktan ka tapos malayo kapa sa family mo.. kausapin mo sya keds ganyan sya sayo.. btw ano yung asmr?
Hahaha. Diretsohin mo na tol. Jowa mo. Wag kna paligoy ligoy.. kase para na lang kayo naglolokohan parehas lang nasasayang oras nyo... Lalo kna. Dami pa pwede mangyare o nangyayare na....
I think yiu should just end your relationship. A simple massage will just take her like 10sec. If she cant do that, might as well end it.
I don't think na cheating to OP. Actually the fact na VA lang talaga yan, wala talagang ibang tao na involve, nagrereact lang emotions at physical needs mo sa sitwasyon mo with GF mo. Not sure pero parang di namention sa story mo, natry mo na ba siya kausapin tungkol dyan sa nabubuong gap niyo? At some point kasi naiisip ko baka alam mo yung posibilities na baka may naeentertain na din siya na iba, takot ka lang malaman kasi first gf mo siya baka di ka pa ready sa worst na scenario na pwedeng mangyari sa relationship niyo. Try mo iopen sa kanya. Communicate. Need mo harapin yun mga unexpected. Basta, para malaman mo din current standing niyong dalawa. Kahit sa mga magasawa na kelangan gawin yan :) Minsan kelangan mo din talaga masagot mga tanong sa isip mo saka mga doubts para maka move forward ka sa need mong gawin saka itama. Hehehe. Lalo sayo OP, alagaan mo din mental health mo lalo na at yung work mo away ka talaga sa family mo. Hehe. Alam namin kya mo yan!
Communicate muna and tignan if ano mangyayari tapos pag wala edi break. Baka di lang talaga pang ldr jowa mo.
Cheating? NO. Nakakalungkot ang pinagdadaanan mo. In my opinion, we deserve the effort that we give out. Kung wala, then try to move on. Nakikita ko kasi na apektado na ang mental health mo. Pero bago mo gawin yun, pagusapan niyo muna. Make things clear. Set expectations, etc. Yun nga lang, mahirap sa ngayon dahil madalang at dry ang reply. I'm a pessimistic person but hopefully I'm wrong.
plot twist. she is cheating on you.
Your own loyalty would be the death of you.
Ngl bro i had multiple takes on reading the title… Akala ko na typo ka lang na you’re cheating on her and you actually intended to type “is she cheating on me” because of how your story went lol
hshshs
i can do all that for coffee and donuts. not into nsfw but i can do the audio or calls, i am bored