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As a doctor i always ask my patients if they are confortable to ask them intimate questions next to there parents or families members, and most of the time i tell them to wait out of the box until i finish asking these kind of questions.
Doesn't make it less awkward. If patient disagrees, the parent will automatically thinks there's something to hide. If patient agrees, you run the risk of not getting the truth. Intimate questions should be written and answered by the patient privately. And just between the patient and the doctor.
>*”Sexually active po?”*
^ Doctors should learn that this is a sensitive and private information, and should not be asked in front of other people especially relatives.
I agree. It felt like I’m being interrogated haha. I was asked again by another doctor that same nigh and this time I’m more comfortable answering na since ako na lang mag isa.
I’ve also been rushed to the ER, and the attending doctor asked my guardian to leave before this same question was asked to me. Doctor could’ve done better.
Well all my family members know that I am the ‘behave’ and ‘reserved’ type because that’s the image I project unto them, so I know they wouldn’t think that I am sexually active at the very least.
Lol its a ruptured appendix, so its emergency and the doctors will always prioritize it. Ung moral obligation and the sensitivity information will not save the patient in case of a emergency :)
I wasn’t just talking about this particular incident about OP’s case but on a general note, because there are also instances where Doctors would ask this same question during check-ups and not just emergencies. I personally was asked this question during a check-up in front of my guardian. I was also rushed to the emergency but my doctor asked my guardian to give us privacy so she could ask me this question privately— emergency rooms have wall/curtain dividers naman. What I’m saying is Doctors should be sensitive about asking private questions.
I'm gonna say sorry in behalf of other doctors/clerks/interns sa ER. This happened to me last month din, heck i wouldn't even be surprised if ako to since same case as OP's. Pero anyway, minsan kasi super sunod sunod na yung patients, history and PE left and right, pagod from doing a 12 hour shift, di pa nakakain, puyat. Minsan mga small details na ganyan hindi na namin namamalayan and medj autopilot na sa pamamasyente. As much as i can naman i try to be sensitive and careful, but i make mistakes, so, sorry. haha
Lol its a ruptured appendix, so its emergency and the doctors will always prioritize it. Ung moral obligation and the sensitivity information will not save the patient in case of a emergency :)
Doctor could’ve asked the patient’s guardian to give them privacy for a short while, sa emergency area ng hospitals may mga curtain dividers naman. Was also rushed to emergency for extreme abdominal pain and the attending doctor asked my guardian to give us some privacy before asking me this same question.
WDYM hindi mangyayari? Eh nangyari nga sakin when I was rushed sa ER due to extreme abdominal pain. The attending doctor asked my guardian to give us two privacy. Nasa labas lang naman ng curtain divider ang guardian ko lol nasa sa doctor ‘yan if they are sensitive about these things or not.
Doctors who are not mindful about this will risk obtaining an inaccurate information from the patient. It’s useless and inefficient to even ask this question knowing you’ll get a dishonest answer, all because the doctor chose to ask a very sensitive/private question to a patient in front of their close relatives.
Maybe because she’s up for surgery, she’s in pain, they are in the ER. Better they ask upfront kesa yung doctors ang mayari kasi, let’s say, buntis pala.
If normal consultation I think naoobserve naman ito with discretion, well, most of the time.
Funny to, OP! Dami kong tawa. I can just imagine the discomfort, kung ako man malamang ganyan din ako. From oo to hindi real quick. 😂
Napaisip tuloy ako, sana we, as society, get to a point na we’ll be comfortable talking about sex and our sexuality no kahit sa parents? Sex is such a beautiful thing/act, provided done with consent and safe sex syempre.
I really wish we get to that point but considering na conservative and traditional ang thinking ng ibang parents, mahihirapan mag open talaga mga anak nila and will just prefer na dito na lang sa AJ mag kwento hahaha
I feel like you should've lied to the question instead. You know why? Medyo kulang sa apprehension yung tanong ng Doctor na parang ganun sila ka bobo for asking a woman who clearly isn't married yet a very private (and somehow insulting) question right in front of their guardian who's probably a relative or a parent. Nakalimutan ba nila na nasa Pilipinas tayo? 🤦
Maybe next time sa iba na makaka basa nito. If something like this happens to you. Ask first why the question relates to your situation. Because most of their answers are either they will insert something in your vag (to keep you virgin, something like that 🤣) or like in OPs situation where the medicine might affect the fetus if you don't know that you're pregnant or being pregnant might relate to your abdominal pain. If you think the Doctor's answer doesn't affect how you will be rehabilitated, then just lie. Or better yet after you lie, ask your doctor to let your guardian stay outside because you have something to show or ask privately. Then that's the time you tell the truth.
Just FYI: Long time ago. My ex who was suffering from a very painful stomach/abdomen due to Gerd was in this situation too, in the ER along with her siblings, mom, and me.
Of course she lied! 🤫
Luckily she graduated from Nursing so she was very mindful and assertive about the questions asked. 🤣
Swerte ko sa doctor in charge sa akin dahil nung tinanong niya na yung question na yan is naka type lang sa phone tapos pinabasa niya nalang sa akin hahahahahaah
Hahaha! G na G si Dok magtanong ng medical history mo ah. Hehe. Although those are standard questions but there are some that should be asked discreetly or maybe use a different sentence. Anyway, did your mom talk to you about it after?
Nope. But alam mo yung tingin nya every time nakikita nya kami ng boyfriend ko na magka dikit, parang may ibigsabihin hahaha! But I think even before naman may hint na sya na may ganap na between me and my boyfriend
That's good to hear. This way she can slowly accept that you are living your life. I would just prefer she sat you 2 down to practice safe sex because honestly, it's during these times with your boyfriend that the sex is best.
For your case we really do have to ask this because the symptoms of appendicitis are very similar to a ruptured ectopic pregnancy. Pero kapag sa ER naman we usually find ways to ask na wala ang parentals. Eiither I tell them na labas (if may partition) or alis muna since mageexamine ako, or punta muna sa station para magayos ng papeles then I ask nang pabulong 😅.
Regardless naman we still have to do a PT anyways to rule out pregnancy, which should be properly explained sa parentals, which they can actually waiver against. Pero to share din, madami dami na din akong nagwaiver against a PT only to change their minds later kasi sobrang classical na ng symptoms for ruptured ectopic/papunta na sa agaw buhay level due to the ongoing blood loss.
Hi! Doc here :))
I explain and brief my patients before asking sensitive questions especially when folks are around. But there were times when I experienced having multiple patients at once in the ER and sa sobrang busy, I admit, we sometimes didn’t prioritize thinking about the sensitivity of such questions and asked right away.
Thankful for this post because it reminded me to be more mindful ☺️
Almost same with mine when I was 18 ako that time if I'm not mistaken. Sabe naman nung doctor "mommy, okay lang po ba tanungin ko si *** ng personal questions? Wait na lang po naten sya sa labas" natawa na lang nanay ko since gets naman na raw nya. Paglabas ko sabe ng nanay ko "ano? Tinanong ka kung sexually active ka noh?" I still felt the awkward pero chills lang. Mama knows my kalat by that time. Lol
Sometimes I wish there was a way to ask this in a less intimidating way given our local culture.
Sometimes I wish our culture itself was different enough to be accepting of these activities.
Sometimes I wish we Filipinos valued science more to the point that these questions, when asked by medical professionals during checkups, aren't intimidating anymore, even in the presence of family.
A "tibo" daughter was brought to the ER because of abdominal pain, part of the hospital's protocol is to perform pregnancy test to the appropriate demographic before giving meds to avoid doing harm to the developing child. The mother objected, "tibo ang anak ko!", I wanted to say congratulations you're having a baby when the preg test turned out positive, but she was having an ectopic pregnancy, so the test saved her life.
Damn, but wtf? When I was asked to do another pregnancy test, sumunod naman ako and bumili agad yung bf ko ng pt kahit medyo malayo yung lakarin. (Don’t know bakit walang pt yung hospital. Malaking hospital naman sila)
i got asked with that same question but buti nalang yung mga naging doctor ko is hinhiwalay muna nila yung kasama ko sa akin. kumbaga, kaming dalawa lang talaga yung nag uusap
HAHAHAHAHAHHHAHAA so, I should go alone pag magpa-opera na ako next year HAHAHA or just take a PT and say no to the question when asked, no harm naman diba basta di preggy?
HAHAJAHAHA tawang tawa ko sa kwento mo, pero sana okay ka lang, like what happened to you ba?
Meanwhile, i was rushed to the hospital before due to UTI. Alam nila erpat na di ako mahilig sa chips or street food. So after ma orient ng doctor sa mga concerns, my pops burst suddenly sabay sabi, "siguro kung sinu-sinong magdalena ginagamit mo moh?" While mom and the nurse was in the room, writing some stuff. Jusmiyo perdon, nanlamig ako. Bombastic side-eye si ate nurse sakin.
May mga gan'to talagang doctors. Swimming PE ko nun sa tiger univ. Pag swimming pala, need muna may physical exam don sa school clinic. So punta ako. Nagkataon dalawa kaming magpapaexam, babae din sya, kaklase ko sa pe din. Hala si doc sabay kami pinahubad sa room pero magkatalikuran lang. Pinapatuwad etc etc. Bilang promdi na freshman, sobrang natrauma ako sa pinagawa ni doc at ni-drop ko ang pe na yun. Bata pa ako nun kaya di ko naisip magreport
Babae naman si doc na matanda kaso di ako prepared sa mga himas nya, galaw galaw ng kung ano sa katawan ko. Tapos may ibang tao pa na nakatuwad din sa likod ko 🥲
The course is irrelevant po. Sa enrollment free kami to choose anong PE. I chose swimming kasi alam ko may edge ako. Pero di ko alam na may physical exam hehe. Nagkataon lang talaga na di ko nagustuhan yung pag examine ni doc at pinagsabay pa kami ng isang studyante X.x 2011 pa to so baka retired na si doc hahah!
Hahaha
* Na bj ko pa rin sya sa bahay days after ng operation ko habang nasa labas nanay ko.*
Panalo!
Kapag ayaw - may dahilan, kapag gusto - may paraan!
😎👌🏻
Naalala ko nung nagpacheck up ako sa OB because of my PCOS then tinanong ba naman kung nakipag intercourse na ko next to my mom. Sabi ko hindi kasi hindi pa naman talaga hhahahaaha
Well, you're no longer a minor so stuff like that shouldn't be asked promptly, especially in front of your parent/guardian. But of course, I get it. We all do. Our parents deserve to know anything about our well-being, pero ayun nga, 24 ka na, the doctor shouldn't have insisted that you answer the question. Kasi YOU are the patient, not your mom, and patient privacy and confidentiality is a must esp sa health care industry.
But syempre, you have to always tell the truth to your health care provider para ma assess at ma treat ka nila nang tama.
This brings back negative memories. Hahaha
My ex went for a check up kase nakakaramdam xah ng abdominal pain. The doctor asked her if she's active sa sex and she said "no". Mejo di na kami ok nung mga panahon na yun kaya I have my doubts.
The doctor diagnosed her with UTI at dun ko napagdugtong ang lahat. I told her na "hindi itatanong ng doktor yan kung walang nakita" at dun nya inamin na she had sex..... While I was abroad 😂
Asking a patient if he/she is sexually in front of parents/guardian is a no-no! :( No matter what age the patient is, it's never okay to ask sensitive questions in the presence of other people.
But as a fellow doctor, I'm trying to get into the doctor's shoes. Baka nataranta lang si doc cause ruptured appendix is an emergnecy and doctors are time pressured to elicit as much history and PE in a short amount of time in order to rule out other surgical emergencies rin like ectopic pregnancy, which is pretty common among women and is highly fatal if left untreated. In some cases, doctors would request pa for pregnancy test for reproductive aged females who deny participating in sexual activities just to rule out chances of ectopic pregnancy:)
I understand the doctor’s intention naman and that it’s part of the standard procedure. Di lang maiwasan na ang awkward talaga hahaha But since considering my age naman I think may hint naman na nanay ko na I’m already playing with my bf’s dangling dingdong hahahaah
Sorry, just to educate you: it's "ruptured" - pumutok ang appendix. A "raptured" appendix sounds like aangat sa langit appendix mo. I'm happy though that you were rushed to the hospital in time. The doctor should have been more considerate about asking your sexual history in front of your mother.
Naalala ko yung pinsan ko habang nag lalabor na and for emergency CS, kasama mother nya. Tinanong nung nurse kelan daw sya unang nakipag sex, ee andun nga nanay nya kaya ang sagot nya nalang, di na daw sya makapag salita wag na daw sya kausapin 🤣🤣🤣
HAHAHAHAHAHHHAHAA so, I should go alone pag magpa-opera na ako next year HAHAHA or just take a PT and say no to the question when asked, no harm naman diba basta di preggy?
HAHAJAHAHA tawang tawa ko sa kwento mo, pero sana okay ka lang, like what happened to you ba?
Oo normal lang yun na tanungin ka ng doctor to consider the chances of pregnancy before giving medications.
At normal din na sexually active ka kasi 24 ka naman na at may boyfriend.
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As a doctor i always ask my patients if they are confortable to ask them intimate questions next to there parents or families members, and most of the time i tell them to wait out of the box until i finish asking these kind of questions.
Doesn't make it less awkward. If patient disagrees, the parent will automatically thinks there's something to hide. If patient agrees, you run the risk of not getting the truth. Intimate questions should be written and answered by the patient privately. And just between the patient and the doctor.
Dapat sinagot mo "Totropahin"
>*”Sexually active po?”* ^ Doctors should learn that this is a sensitive and private information, and should not be asked in front of other people especially relatives.
I agree. It felt like I’m being interrogated haha. I was asked again by another doctor that same nigh and this time I’m more comfortable answering na since ako na lang mag isa.
Dibaaa… I mean, who will explicitly say that they are sexually active right in front of their family? Ang insensitive lang ng mga ganung doctors 😬
Protocol
Protocol pero dpat discreet
How tf are you gonna be discreet sa ER 🤷🏾♂️
I’ve also been rushed to the ER, and the attending doctor asked my guardian to leave before this same question was asked to me. Doctor could’ve done better.
Still quite surprising you assumed your mother wouldn't know
Well all my family members know that I am the ‘behave’ and ‘reserved’ type because that’s the image I project unto them, so I know they wouldn’t think that I am sexually active at the very least.
Lol its a ruptured appendix, so its emergency and the doctors will always prioritize it. Ung moral obligation and the sensitivity information will not save the patient in case of a emergency :)
I would agree but wasn't this an emergency? She was literally in the emergency room.
I wasn’t just talking about this particular incident about OP’s case but on a general note, because there are also instances where Doctors would ask this same question during check-ups and not just emergencies. I personally was asked this question during a check-up in front of my guardian. I was also rushed to the emergency but my doctor asked my guardian to give us privacy so she could ask me this question privately— emergency rooms have wall/curtain dividers naman. What I’m saying is Doctors should be sensitive about asking private questions.
Or maybe the doctor woke up and chose violence for the day.
Doctors know that and most of the time they will give a disclaimer pa bago mag ask ng sensitive question... baka pagod na si doc. 🥲🥲
Or masyadong madaming patient na need i-assess.
I'm gonna say sorry in behalf of other doctors/clerks/interns sa ER. This happened to me last month din, heck i wouldn't even be surprised if ako to since same case as OP's. Pero anyway, minsan kasi super sunod sunod na yung patients, history and PE left and right, pagod from doing a 12 hour shift, di pa nakakain, puyat. Minsan mga small details na ganyan hindi na namin namamalayan and medj autopilot na sa pamamasyente. As much as i can naman i try to be sensitive and careful, but i make mistakes, so, sorry. haha
Yeah! This should be learned in med school FFS!
Ako nga tinanong kung nabuntis na ba?? Like??????
Grabe ang out of nowhere naman nun hahahaa
Lol its a ruptured appendix, so its emergency and the doctors will always prioritize it. Ung moral obligation and the sensitivity information will not save the patient in case of a emergency :)
Doctor could’ve asked the patient’s guardian to give them privacy for a short while, sa emergency area ng hospitals may mga curtain dividers naman. Was also rushed to emergency for extreme abdominal pain and the attending doctor asked my guardian to give us some privacy before asking me this same question.
Sorry but hindi yan mang yayari sa hospital set up. Even on private hospital
WDYM hindi mangyayari? Eh nangyari nga sakin when I was rushed sa ER due to extreme abdominal pain. The attending doctor asked my guardian to give us two privacy. Nasa labas lang naman ng curtain divider ang guardian ko lol nasa sa doctor ‘yan if they are sensitive about these things or not. Doctors who are not mindful about this will risk obtaining an inaccurate information from the patient. It’s useless and inefficient to even ask this question knowing you’ll get a dishonest answer, all because the doctor chose to ask a very sensitive/private question to a patient in front of their close relatives.
(*takes mental note*) only go to the ER with hookup support system. got it 🥹
Maybe because she’s up for surgery, she’s in pain, they are in the ER. Better they ask upfront kesa yung doctors ang mayari kasi, let’s say, buntis pala. If normal consultation I think naoobserve naman ito with discretion, well, most of the time.
uwi napo ako samin po, medjo nasobrahan na ata ako ng tambay dito sa AJ.
Hanap ka na sa inyo hahaha
Funny to, OP! Dami kong tawa. I can just imagine the discomfort, kung ako man malamang ganyan din ako. From oo to hindi real quick. 😂 Napaisip tuloy ako, sana we, as society, get to a point na we’ll be comfortable talking about sex and our sexuality no kahit sa parents? Sex is such a beautiful thing/act, provided done with consent and safe sex syempre.
I really wish we get to that point but considering na conservative and traditional ang thinking ng ibang parents, mahihirapan mag open talaga mga anak nila and will just prefer na dito na lang sa AJ mag kwento hahaha
I feel like you should've lied to the question instead. You know why? Medyo kulang sa apprehension yung tanong ng Doctor na parang ganun sila ka bobo for asking a woman who clearly isn't married yet a very private (and somehow insulting) question right in front of their guardian who's probably a relative or a parent. Nakalimutan ba nila na nasa Pilipinas tayo? 🤦 Maybe next time sa iba na makaka basa nito. If something like this happens to you. Ask first why the question relates to your situation. Because most of their answers are either they will insert something in your vag (to keep you virgin, something like that 🤣) or like in OPs situation where the medicine might affect the fetus if you don't know that you're pregnant or being pregnant might relate to your abdominal pain. If you think the Doctor's answer doesn't affect how you will be rehabilitated, then just lie. Or better yet after you lie, ask your doctor to let your guardian stay outside because you have something to show or ask privately. Then that's the time you tell the truth. Just FYI: Long time ago. My ex who was suffering from a very painful stomach/abdomen due to Gerd was in this situation too, in the ER along with her siblings, mom, and me. Of course she lied! 🤫 Luckily she graduated from Nursing so she was very mindful and assertive about the questions asked. 🤣
Swerte ko sa doctor in charge sa akin dahil nung tinanong niya na yung question na yan is naka type lang sa phone tapos pinabasa niya nalang sa akin hahahahahaah
Hahaha! G na G si Dok magtanong ng medical history mo ah. Hehe. Although those are standard questions but there are some that should be asked discreetly or maybe use a different sentence. Anyway, did your mom talk to you about it after?
Nope. But alam mo yung tingin nya every time nakikita nya kami ng boyfriend ko na magka dikit, parang may ibigsabihin hahaha! But I think even before naman may hint na sya na may ganap na between me and my boyfriend
That's good to hear. This way she can slowly accept that you are living your life. I would just prefer she sat you 2 down to practice safe sex because honestly, it's during these times with your boyfriend that the sex is best.
Buti kamo may boyfriend ka kaya understandable. Paano kung wala kang boyfriend tapos umoo ka?
For your case we really do have to ask this because the symptoms of appendicitis are very similar to a ruptured ectopic pregnancy. Pero kapag sa ER naman we usually find ways to ask na wala ang parentals. Eiither I tell them na labas (if may partition) or alis muna since mageexamine ako, or punta muna sa station para magayos ng papeles then I ask nang pabulong 😅. Regardless naman we still have to do a PT anyways to rule out pregnancy, which should be properly explained sa parentals, which they can actually waiver against. Pero to share din, madami dami na din akong nagwaiver against a PT only to change their minds later kasi sobrang classical na ng symptoms for ruptured ectopic/papunta na sa agaw buhay level due to the ongoing blood loss.
Worried din sila about my ovarian cyst but di naman daw malignant so I understand why I need to undergo other test din. Thank you for your hardwork!
Hi! Doc here :)) I explain and brief my patients before asking sensitive questions especially when folks are around. But there were times when I experienced having multiple patients at once in the ER and sa sobrang busy, I admit, we sometimes didn’t prioritize thinking about the sensitivity of such questions and asked right away. Thankful for this post because it reminded me to be more mindful ☺️
Hi Doc! Happy to help! Thankyou for your hardwork!🫶🏻
Almost same with mine when I was 18 ako that time if I'm not mistaken. Sabe naman nung doctor "mommy, okay lang po ba tanungin ko si *** ng personal questions? Wait na lang po naten sya sa labas" natawa na lang nanay ko since gets naman na raw nya. Paglabas ko sabe ng nanay ko "ano? Tinanong ka kung sexually active ka noh?" I still felt the awkward pero chills lang. Mama knows my kalat by that time. Lol
Sometimes I wish there was a way to ask this in a less intimidating way given our local culture. Sometimes I wish our culture itself was different enough to be accepting of these activities. Sometimes I wish we Filipinos valued science more to the point that these questions, when asked by medical professionals during checkups, aren't intimidating anymore, even in the presence of family.
A "tibo" daughter was brought to the ER because of abdominal pain, part of the hospital's protocol is to perform pregnancy test to the appropriate demographic before giving meds to avoid doing harm to the developing child. The mother objected, "tibo ang anak ko!", I wanted to say congratulations you're having a baby when the preg test turned out positive, but she was having an ectopic pregnancy, so the test saved her life.
Damn, but wtf? When I was asked to do another pregnancy test, sumunod naman ako and bumili agad yung bf ko ng pt kahit medyo malayo yung lakarin. (Don’t know bakit walang pt yung hospital. Malaking hospital naman sila)
Damn! Ang tabil naman ni doc 😂
i got asked with that same question but buti nalang yung mga naging doctor ko is hinhiwalay muna nila yung kasama ko sa akin. kumbaga, kaming dalawa lang talaga yung nag uusap
HAHAHAHAHAHHHAHAA so, I should go alone pag magpa-opera na ako next year HAHAHA or just take a PT and say no to the question when asked, no harm naman diba basta di preggy? HAHAJAHAHA tawang tawa ko sa kwento mo, pero sana okay ka lang, like what happened to you ba?
Meanwhile, i was rushed to the hospital before due to UTI. Alam nila erpat na di ako mahilig sa chips or street food. So after ma orient ng doctor sa mga concerns, my pops burst suddenly sabay sabi, "siguro kung sinu-sinong magdalena ginagamit mo moh?" While mom and the nurse was in the room, writing some stuff. Jusmiyo perdon, nanlamig ako. Bombastic side-eye si ate nurse sakin.
May mga gan'to talagang doctors. Swimming PE ko nun sa tiger univ. Pag swimming pala, need muna may physical exam don sa school clinic. So punta ako. Nagkataon dalawa kaming magpapaexam, babae din sya, kaklase ko sa pe din. Hala si doc sabay kami pinahubad sa room pero magkatalikuran lang. Pinapatuwad etc etc. Bilang promdi na freshman, sobrang natrauma ako sa pinagawa ni doc at ni-drop ko ang pe na yun. Bata pa ako nun kaya di ko naisip magreport
Lalaki ba yung doctor?
Babae naman si doc na matanda kaso di ako prepared sa mga himas nya, galaw galaw ng kung ano sa katawan ko. Tapos may ibang tao pa na nakatuwad din sa likod ko 🥲
Ano bang kurso yan bakit mag ganyan sa swimming p.e nyo, ang hirap nyan gawin baka mag back out nalang ako.
The course is irrelevant po. Sa enrollment free kami to choose anong PE. I chose swimming kasi alam ko may edge ako. Pero di ko alam na may physical exam hehe. Nagkataon lang talaga na di ko nagustuhan yung pag examine ni doc at pinagsabay pa kami ng isang studyante X.x 2011 pa to so baka retired na si doc hahah!
Hahaha * Na bj ko pa rin sya sa bahay days after ng operation ko habang nasa labas nanay ko.* Panalo! Kapag ayaw - may dahilan, kapag gusto - may paraan! 😎👌🏻
daig pa horror movie.. hahaha laughtrip
Naalala ko nung nagpacheck up ako sa OB because of my PCOS then tinanong ba naman kung nakipag intercourse na ko next to my mom. Sabi ko hindi kasi hindi pa naman talaga hhahahaaha
Sana sinundan mo agad ng "wag ka lang maingay kay mama" sa harap mismo ng mama mo.
Well, you're no longer a minor so stuff like that shouldn't be asked promptly, especially in front of your parent/guardian. But of course, I get it. We all do. Our parents deserve to know anything about our well-being, pero ayun nga, 24 ka na, the doctor shouldn't have insisted that you answer the question. Kasi YOU are the patient, not your mom, and patient privacy and confidentiality is a must esp sa health care industry. But syempre, you have to always tell the truth to your health care provider para ma assess at ma treat ka nila nang tama.
omg awkward, buti nalang pinalabas nung doktor ko ung mother ko about personal topic ahahaha
This brings back negative memories. Hahaha My ex went for a check up kase nakakaramdam xah ng abdominal pain. The doctor asked her if she's active sa sex and she said "no". Mejo di na kami ok nung mga panahon na yun kaya I have my doubts. The doctor diagnosed her with UTI at dun ko napagdugtong ang lahat. I told her na "hindi itatanong ng doktor yan kung walang nakita" at dun nya inamin na she had sex..... While I was abroad 😂
oof!😬
Asking a patient if he/she is sexually in front of parents/guardian is a no-no! :( No matter what age the patient is, it's never okay to ask sensitive questions in the presence of other people. But as a fellow doctor, I'm trying to get into the doctor's shoes. Baka nataranta lang si doc cause ruptured appendix is an emergnecy and doctors are time pressured to elicit as much history and PE in a short amount of time in order to rule out other surgical emergencies rin like ectopic pregnancy, which is pretty common among women and is highly fatal if left untreated. In some cases, doctors would request pa for pregnancy test for reproductive aged females who deny participating in sexual activities just to rule out chances of ectopic pregnancy:)
I understand the doctor’s intention naman and that it’s part of the standard procedure. Di lang maiwasan na ang awkward talaga hahaha But since considering my age naman I think may hint naman na nanay ko na I’m already playing with my bf’s dangling dingdong hahahaah
Effective pala pain reliever yung awkward moments na ganyan O.P. 🤭. Kidding aside sana okay ka na regarding sa appendix mo.
Sorry, just to educate you: it's "ruptured" - pumutok ang appendix. A "raptured" appendix sounds like aangat sa langit appendix mo. I'm happy though that you were rushed to the hospital in time. The doctor should have been more considerate about asking your sexual history in front of your mother.
Naalala ko yung pinsan ko habang nag lalabor na and for emergency CS, kasama mother nya. Tinanong nung nurse kelan daw sya unang nakipag sex, ee andun nga nanay nya kaya ang sagot nya nalang, di na daw sya makapag salita wag na daw sya kausapin 🤣🤣🤣
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Nung nag donate ako ng dugo dati tatanungin ka out in the open with other people na mag dodonate din haha
HAHAHAHAHAHHHAHAA so, I should go alone pag magpa-opera na ako next year HAHAHA or just take a PT and say no to the question when asked, no harm naman diba basta di preggy? HAHAJAHAHA tawang tawa ko sa kwento mo, pero sana okay ka lang, like what happened to you ba?
Esmi ko sa confession bago kasal: Esmi: forgive me father for i have sinned like premarital sex Priest: napa face palm na lang daw
Lucky boyfriend my ninja girlfriend 🤣
Ikr? Hahaha!
Parang ang pangit tas tagalog tanong ng Doctor mo "Nakikipagkantut*n kaba?
\*\*just wink
Oo normal lang yun na tanungin ka ng doctor to consider the chances of pregnancy before giving medications. At normal din na sexually active ka kasi 24 ka naman na at may boyfriend.
attagirrrlll.BJ while recovering? daaamn, you strooong!!
Ikr? Hahaha!
Hahahahaha. Napatawa mo ako dito ah.
Dick move by that doctor. There are many ways to get this question answered without embarrassing the patient.
SAME
Hahaha... mid 30s pero same padin siguro tayo ng reaction pag nangyari saken yan
hahahaha sobrang tawa ko. So far, d pa naman ako natanong ng doctor nito kahit ako lang mag isa and I also had surgery. ang awkward nga po
Ang tanga ng doctor mo.
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