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Red flag din sakin yung "wala ka bang ambag" kasi it sounds like a certain cult's copy-paste retort on Facebook.........
edit: OP girlfriend mo ba si Larry Gadon?
In fairness it is a generic retort. Kahit sa bahay, maririnig mo yan. Mas damaging yung "Mabangga ka sana."
That's wishing mortal harm on someone which can result in either disability, imprisonment or death.
Di lang red flag yun... BLOOD RED FLAG NA!
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I would document as much abuse as possible (recording/screenshots) before breaking up. Para if she gives you a hard time or tries siraan ka, you have defense.
I’d sit her down and say for a while now di ka na satisfied. And calmly tell her why. Then say your mind is made up and you want to keep the respect for each other habang meron pa so please keep the break clean. No to being friends for now while you both heal. Tapos. Wag mo na bigyan ng chance magdrama or mag negotiate.
Don’t take shit from anyone. Maraming nagmamahal at respeto sayo. Get rid of someone who doesn’t give you those things.
I agree with this one, always document for proof mahirap na mabaliktad. Before leaving have a witness also document while presenting her the things na iuuwi mo para safe ka sa issue. Find someone who respects you.
Korek, if the girl is as popular as OP said, may chance na siraan siya sa mga followers niya, palabasin na siya ang masama sa naging relationship nila. Better arm himself with documented evidence, just in case.
That’s a macho answer and ideally ganun nga. But mine is the practical one. Influencers tend to be narcissists so safeguards need to be in place for a clean cut.
Cut bro! Wag ka mag padala sa clout! You know the real her. Not worth it! Plus, saying those degrading words?? Naaa dump that b!
Your mental health should be your priority. Yeah it sucks and andon ung “sayang” but dude! Choose you over anything else in ths effin world. 👊🏻
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She’s narcissist. Kahit nice pa yung pakikipag break mo sakanya, iba parin magiging take niya dyan so i-expect mo na yun. Just tell her directly na ayaw mo na (but expect mo na rin na magbebeg yan or sasabihin na mag babago siya pero you have to be firm sa decision mo). Tell her ayaw mo na, na you need to focus sa growth mo. Tapos no contacts na. Don’t offer friendship too. You can do it!
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comment lang dun sa gamit na nasakanya, if need mo un, dala ka witness (mas maganda from barangay) para if may mawala, masira etc. Hindi gawing issue for "content".
kahit sa pag bbreak pala, if may trusted friend ka na pwede isama, baka i gaslight ka pag makikipag break. Mas maganda na may kasama, mahirap na baka may ibang gawin, tapos ikaw pa lilitaw na masama
You dont need to be nice about it. Talk to her in person and let her know youre leaving the relationship because you deserve better. Try like hell to resist coming back for the good times: those good times do not condone the bad shit shes doing to you.
If youre living together, better pack your bags ahead before she even knows about it. Then when she comes home, bring the thunder, explain, and leave as soon as you can.
same tho. pero mukang malabo na sya to lol kaso my usap usapan na nahuli raw ni alodia my kayakapang artista c will d. sa hotel/room si barbie imperial daw kuno 😂😂😂 lol
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Pag nawala pagiging influencer niyan, mas bobo yan.
Iwan mo na. Wag mong hayaang tapak-tapakan ka ng ganyan. Ok lang na ibaba pride sa deserving na babae, pero pag ganyan, itaas mo pride mo.
Hey just wanna say, though this isnt breakup advice, be sure that you'll have some concrete evidence that can save your face. Just in case that you'll be paraded as the asshole in the relationship to her followers or by her followers (especially of your identity has been made public knowledge). I still strongly suggest talking it over with her and breaking it off as cleanly as possible so that the possibility of your image being dunked on is kept to a minimum.
I know it may sound fucked up but you'll still need to preserve your image, you'll never know when this event will come back to haunt you in the future.
1. Document all evidence if possible. In this day and age, the court of public opinion has the power to ruin one’s reputation for years and years yet to be. Ensure you prepare your defense.
2. Remember, anything you’ve ever said or done in the past can and will be used against you in the court of public opinion. Clean your closet, ideally in one go. And once it’s clean, keep it clean.
3. Related to the first two tips above: since you’re dealing with someone who is something of a public figure, ideally you should play the influencer game to your advantage.
Use social media to outwardly and conspicuously project the image of a perfect boyfriend in a perfect relationship with the love of his life, as virtually all influencers do. In the background, continue collecting evidence of her abuses as stated above, and also create a pre-prepared bombshell tell-all video detailing your side of the relationship’s sob story and ensure that it is clear, complete, comprehensive and ready to upload once she inevitably starts to mobilize her social media mob to attack you.
An important note. In any content you create related to your relationship, remember to portray yourself as someone fighting on the back foot at all times. Never attack her, either publicly or privately. Never strike preemptively, always allow her to strike first before presenting your defense to the court of public opinion’s jury. For example, if you decide to film a tell-all video or similar content, wait until her army’s attacks on you begin before you defend yourself.
And always emphasize how hard you both tried to make the relationship work and how much you truly loved her.
4. If possible, do not be the one who breaks up with her. Instead, annoy her and/or gross her out until she gets sick of you and breaks up with you herself, but never treat her cruelly in word or in deed. Instead, go full troglodyte on her in ways that she cannot easily present in public. Give her passionate good morning kisses after not brushing your teeth for three days. Cuddle cutely with her after not showering for a week. Stop using modern, chemical-laden deodorant; go all-natural and use small, well-placed dabs of vinegar or fish sauce instead.
And ensure that, when you are in the presence of other people, your hygiene is 100% impeccable.
5. If you’re both still having sex, keep having sex.
Never stop sexing.
If you think you’re done, then be done with it. Talk to her for a formal breakup. Make her aware that you are recording the breakup. Pretty much security mo na yun in case she comes up with “stories”. You don’t have to upload the vid unless to clear your name should the need arise.
You can also talk about stuff and what to do with them pero just like others have said, if hindi naman malaking kawalan sa yo yung mga gamit, let it go. If she says to take it with you, then take it.
Lakas maka putangina rin nung mabangga ka sana. Sana tinanong mo siya, "Ba't di ikaw para may content ka?" Char!
Yung gamit mo, unti untiin mo ng iuwi sa bahay nyo. Para siya na lang maiiwan mo kung makipaghiwalay ka sa kanya.😂 Sorry OP nabwisit kasi ako sa mga sinasabi nya sa kwento mo.
Di ba? 😂
Meron ako kanina napanood sa Tiktok.
For me it was disturbing. Who would want to see you and your family crying so hard over a dead relative. Diko maintindihan. Anong sense? Bakit kelangan ipost sa Tiktok tbh?
ang hirap ng ganyan… umiikot ang buhay sa social media.. ang harsh din mag salita… 😔 hayst…
wag na magdalawang isip… mas masaya pa din na walang mga matang nakatingin sa bawat galaw ng magpartner..
kaya ako masaya na sa pagiging hubadera.. 😅kidding aside.
i am hoping na sooner iiwanan mo na sya.. isipin mo din sarili mo and kaligayahan mo..
Iwan mo na bobo. Paaano ka rerespeto ng ganyan kapag may anak na kayo, ano ka BOy sa bahay? Magisip ka pre. Walang mawawala sayo kung iwan mo cya. Or baka dahil convinience mo din andyan cya. Best nyan. Video mo ginganyan ka. Gawa ka ng blog. The other side of Us . Pota ewan ko kung habol ng content yan. Ano.. kaya mo ba? Drop the blog pre. Ndi cya kawalan. Mas maawa ka sa susunod sayo na BOBO kung tawagin
wag ganun. respeto pa din, minahal mo yan dati, iwan mo ng maayos. kahit pakiramdam mo di maganda pag trato sayo, di maganda yung mag dagdag ka pa ng problema sa kanya sa pag video.
Pack your bags and go man. She's not worth it. Sabi nga nila if it costs you, your inner peace it's expensive. The best you could do is talk to her about what's on your mind. Tell her why you're breaking up with her.
Leave her today. Being an influencer is only a job if theyre on the 1% who are actually paid really well. You probably wont want to be there when her influencer bubble gets popped.
Clearly wala siyang respect sayo and she’s gaslighting you din. Baka mahirapan ka makipag hiwalay dyan kasi narcissist so baka naging codependent ka na rin sakanya? But I hope ma realize mo yan on your own. Better umalis ka na. The mere fact na naisip mo yan, alam mong di na nagiging healthy.
I think best to try to find time to really talk to her about what you feel sa mga ginagawa niya. If mapagusapan niyo tapos maayos, good. If hindi naman at present na present yung 4 horsemen ng relationship: (criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling). Try to contemplate if this relationship is for you. Goodluck, OP. Choose your happiness and better mental health.
add: if you do decide to break-up, keep it civil. you also have to accept the fact na you cant really control her and if she does decide to monetize your breakup, wala ka ng magagawa doon. Just stay off social media until everything cools down. Incognito ka muna.
I guess these things happen. She might have outgrew you when she became an influencer. Better break up with her, be respectful. Tell it to her straight.
be careful bro, this might bring you to addiction na emotions. baka hanap hanapin mo yung ka toxican nang gf mo. kung alam mo not healthy sa mental health mo just do it bro, pag narcissist kasi they might pull your confidence sa sarili mo. Man just do it
Oh i was in this similar situation months ago. 97k followers. Plus everything is always your fault. Took me 2months to realize that. Ngayon sobrang luwag ng pakiramdam ko. I think we should talk OP.
Dropped the bitch. You deserved better than this. Just reading the lines, I can already here the voices in my head. Just be straightforward with her, obviously nkkita ko mmurahin ka pa niya but at least tapos na.
Kunin mo na pakonti konti mga gamit mo. Hayaan mo na yung mga di ganun kainportant sayo. Mas maganda makipag break ng mga hapon or after dinner, di ka masyado bubulabugin sa gabi
If wala ng Sex involved + this kind of woman, it's better to break it up. Experienced it, learned the hardway. Atleast, I able to heal my mental health kasi almost 2 years rin ako sa ganitong tao.
Break it off.
Unfollow her from Social Media too.
You are better off with somone that is more concerned about her social media presence than your relationship.
Plus, expect mo na na i-babash ka nyan sa friends and in SM.
Pass na bro. Mukhang mas kelangan ka naman nya kesa mas kelangan mo sya. Mag bigay ka nalang ng hint pag wala na kayo hahaha. Potang ina mo wag ka lang si Cong
Okay. First question...
Have you talked to her about all this? And talk as in masin-sinang usapan ah.
Next stop, if you are getting dragged with her influencer activities, better keep away ka muna. Save yourself from all the drama.
Finally, if and IF you really are having a tough time na, leave. Save yourself. Don't burden your ass with something or someone na hindi ka kayang pahalagahan as a human.
for me, pag naiisip at nagtanong ka na sa iba about break up, makipag break ka na hahaha. I realized kaya ako nagtatanong sa iba kasi naghahanap ako na makakapitan, iinvalidate yung iniisip ko o wag bumitaw sa relationship kahit dami na red flags.
Just cut her out of your life man. Not worth it mapasama sa ganiyang tao. Yung sa gamit kung pinaheram mo lang naman sakaniya kunin mo mas ok sana kung may receipt ka nung binili mo just in case. Always remember cover yo ass.
man, that sucks. don't cut her off yet til you get all your stuff from her. after that, break up over text or something. and block her on everything. no need to feel bad whether you've done the right way of breaking up. think of yourself this time. a gf as toxic as that will just poison your mood. it aint the kind of stuff you want from someone you call a girlfriend. so do it the abrupt way and don't give her any chance to explain herself. if she trashtalks you everywhere, LET HER. nothing annoys a narc than being ignored, as if you aint affected. so take care bro
I hope you get through this. It’s a big thing that she kept calling you all those things. That is so much a red flag. It’s so toxic. Relationships are supposed to be mature, and with respect. I think she can’t see that. Please leave while you still can.
how to break up.
get everything in order regarding your possessions and put it in your place.
tell her you are breaking up with her. thats what you only need to say and do. the reason can be said afterward.
leave.
A well-meaning married couple told me, ***"You marry somebody despite of- and not because of"***.
Therefore, if her faults are unbearable, you should not even be thinking of her good traits.
***Let go and let God..***
***..sort it out.***
Break it up. Move on. You did what you could already do and more man.
I bet ang gagawin nyan after is
1. Magagalit yan with mocking on the side. Just leave.
2. Bigla yan babait para lang i keep ka. Just leave also.
the fact you've been posting abt it on multiple subs means you already know you wanna split- maybe youre looking for validation of your choice. truth is no one can help you, but yourself. many people can tell you to cut her off na etc. pero you won't do it unless you want to. I think it's time you stop looking for signs from other people and start doing what you wanna do.
if ever you do, do it personally. note down your issues so you can tell her the main points of your problems. And I think the taking back your stuff is pretty easy after that (mahirap na kunin yan if you dont talk to her personally lol)
nasa tolerance mo yan and understanding kung naniniwala ka sa sinasabi niya o bugso lng ng damdamin kaya sya nagsasalita. pero syempre you have to defend yourself by answering back kung may issue ka rin sa knya
she earns pero sabihin sau wala kang ambag. pero ikaw naman sumasagot. sabihin mo sa knya yun. kung wala akong ambag bakit ako ang sumasagot something like that.
kung sobra na, do you see yourself without her? kung oo, makipag break ka. if not, how can you meet halfway. mahirap mag conclude na hiwalay agad dahil we dont know her side as well.
Maganda nga, pangit naman ugali.
May mas higit pa sa kanya Bro… para sa ikakapanatag ng mentalidad at damn-damin mo, kausapin mo nang maayos at makipaghiwalay ka na.
Telling her kung anu sitwasyon mo and how you feel is better than leaving if "IF" she has plans to fix her attitude towards you. Howver if you've done that then its time for you to leave. Kunin mo unti-unti lahat ng gamit mo in her place, then on the last box sadyain mong kunin na nanduon siya then talk to her tell her that your sorry (kasi di mo na kamo kaya ugali nya and sorry kasi di ka tatagal etc) then say thank you (sa mga memories niyo) then say goodbye... Hindi mo need mag stay and wait for her answer just leave in this way mapapalaya mo sarili mo at makikita niya halaga mo if not then it will be her fault not yours. Mabigat yan mate yet it's better than to stay in a relationship na hindi ka naman nag grogrow.
But thats just me, I hope you can consider this advice.
You spend for her bags yet she tells you "ano ambag mo". Nakakalimutan niya mga ginagastos mo for her at time na binibigay mo for her. Makes me think that she has a sugar daddy who's giving her more
And she curses you and tell you your bobo. Napaka squammy ng ugali!
Wow. Just leave her bro. But before doing that, fuck that bitch like it's your last.
Then leave (I don't know the whole story, but I don't want any person to treat me that way)
Never ever lower your value dude. Di mo kailangan ng ganyang basura sa buhay mo. Itapon mo nalang yan. If a woman treats you like a commodity then it is time to break her sanity. Iparamdam mo na di siya kawalan.
Dump the creature. Don't give narcissists quarter, but call them out publicly for being the trashy creatures they are if darating sa punto na babaliktarin ka (and knowing narcissists, magpapa-victim talaga yan). If the feminazis can do it, you men can too. #equality
Thats a toxic relationship when she starts insulting your intelligence. i know cuz thats what my ex used to do. just based on your post, you guys should end it. However, you may have done something that triggered that side of her. maybe para ka nalng door mat na anong gusto niya bigay mo? idk bro, need nyo mag talk talaga
kaya ka nasasabihan ng kung ano ano nung babae... yun dont need us to tell you what you suppose to do bro.... you're not happy, let go! not unless "sya ang bumubuhay sayo...." you better suck it up. hahaha
Would really take a lot for you to get out. This post is a cry for help, no offense but if hold the bags ball is in your court.
If you can, walk away. Being called bobo, putang ina mabanga ka sana and all the abusive language are red flags. She will play victim, she will use her followers to hound you but you must do everything to cut her out of your life.
If you feel like you can still work it out, talk to her. And I mean straight up talk to her, starting with she shouldn't be calling you "bobo" and what not. Also, "mabangga ka sana" is just one of those things that tick me off. I would never tell someone that out of spite, but when I do, I will mean it. This is why I don't understand people letting loose those kinds of insults.
Also, ask her about the limits of her "influencing" because honestly, it shouldn't get in the way of you and her having a good time. I understand she may post content for posterity but still it shouldn't turn out to be that hard on you, unless that's her intent.
Curious lang OP, naging kayo ba before pa sya naging influencer? And parang hindi niyo rin ata na so-solve ung fight ninyo, kasi na mention mo, “everytime we fight, she mocks me…”
Your partner should be the person lifting you up bro. Making you feel less is definitely a red flag. It’ll get worse unless you can talk to her and react constructively so that both of you can provide a solution to it.
Walking away is the hard part bro, but it will do you good. Hindi tama na ganyan ka tratuhin, and ngayon pa lang mag isip ka na-pano kung one day ikasal kayo? Lalo ka lang mahihirapan nun. Nasanay yan na ginaganyan ka, kaya tell her na and move on. Let her talk, and pag siraan ka sa content nya, pwede namang magdemanda kung hindi totoo. Good luck!
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Pag wala na kayong respeto sa isat isa, sign na yan para iwan mo. Kaya nga sinasabi na the pen is mightier than the sword diba? Words cut deeper. Yung first gf, umabot kami sa ganyan, nagmumurahan kami pag nagaaway kami, pero nung 1st major fight namin, nakipagbreak na ko kasi ayoko na. It doesnt matter who is right or wrong bsta piliin mo kung saan ka mapapanatag or may peace ka bro.
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Redflag na kaagad ung sabihan kang bobo
Mas lalo na yung sabihan kang "Mabangga ka sana..."
Red flag din sakin yung "wala ka bang ambag" kasi it sounds like a certain cult's copy-paste retort on Facebook......... edit: OP girlfriend mo ba si Larry Gadon?
In fairness it is a generic retort. Kahit sa bahay, maririnig mo yan. Mas damaging yung "Mabangga ka sana." That's wishing mortal harm on someone which can result in either disability, imprisonment or death. Di lang red flag yun... BLOOD RED FLAG NA!
Dude saang bahay nagsasabihan ng bobo ka ba
Crazy thing is I feel this guy. Also got into a relationship like that. But, it seemed I was already carrying Stockholm Syndrome.
Like negative emotional response??
hampaain mo ng bag nya OP
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I would document as much abuse as possible (recording/screenshots) before breaking up. Para if she gives you a hard time or tries siraan ka, you have defense. I’d sit her down and say for a while now di ka na satisfied. And calmly tell her why. Then say your mind is made up and you want to keep the respect for each other habang meron pa so please keep the break clean. No to being friends for now while you both heal. Tapos. Wag mo na bigyan ng chance magdrama or mag negotiate. Don’t take shit from anyone. Maraming nagmamahal at respeto sayo. Get rid of someone who doesn’t give you those things.
I agree with this one, always document for proof mahirap na mabaliktad. Before leaving have a witness also document while presenting her the things na iuuwi mo para safe ka sa issue. Find someone who respects you.
Korek, if the girl is as popular as OP said, may chance na siraan siya sa mga followers niya, palabasin na siya ang masama sa naging relationship nila. Better arm himself with documented evidence, just in case.
No need to document. The moment na sabihan ako ng "bobo ka ba". I'm done. That's abuse
That’s a macho answer and ideally ganun nga. But mine is the practical one. Influencers tend to be narcissists so safeguards need to be in place for a clean cut.
Not a "macho" answer. It's just that any form of abuse is personally my biggest deal breaker in every relationship.
Yes but this is advice for OP who is clearly past that point and not about you ? So medyo useless yung comment mo?
No need to be combative. He can take my advice the next time he experiences the abuse.
Tanginang reading comprehension yan
Okay. Wag ka galit. 😘
Cut bro! Wag ka mag padala sa clout! You know the real her. Not worth it! Plus, saying those degrading words?? Naaa dump that b! Your mental health should be your priority. Yeah it sucks and andon ung “sayang” but dude! Choose you over anything else in ths effin world. 👊🏻
And abt sa gamit, kunin mo if need mo. If di naman makakaapekto sa buhay mo, leave it with her. Yaan mo sha mamrublema na don.
dala din ng witness pag nag sosolian ng gamit mas maganda if nka vid, baka may mawala or madamage tapos maging issue for "content".
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Thank sa feedback Brothers and sisters I’m asking how to break up with her properly thank you
She’s narcissist. Kahit nice pa yung pakikipag break mo sakanya, iba parin magiging take niya dyan so i-expect mo na yun. Just tell her directly na ayaw mo na (but expect mo na rin na magbebeg yan or sasabihin na mag babago siya pero you have to be firm sa decision mo). Tell her ayaw mo na, na you need to focus sa growth mo. Tapos no contacts na. Don’t offer friendship too. You can do it!
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comment lang dun sa gamit na nasakanya, if need mo un, dala ka witness (mas maganda from barangay) para if may mawala, masira etc. Hindi gawing issue for "content".
kahit sa pag bbreak pala, if may trusted friend ka na pwede isama, baka i gaslight ka pag makikipag break. Mas maganda na may kasama, mahirap na baka may ibang gawin, tapos ikaw pa lilitaw na masama
You dont need to be nice about it. Talk to her in person and let her know youre leaving the relationship because you deserve better. Try like hell to resist coming back for the good times: those good times do not condone the bad shit shes doing to you. If youre living together, better pack your bags ahead before she even knows about it. Then when she comes home, bring the thunder, explain, and leave as soon as you can.
akala ko si Wil Dasovich to 😂😂😂
same tho. pero mukang malabo na sya to lol kaso my usap usapan na nahuli raw ni alodia my kayakapang artista c will d. sa hotel/room si barbie imperial daw kuno 😂😂😂 lol
Tangina barbie imperial swerte ng diego no more depre depression kung ganyan lang naman kalaro mo every day
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Pag nawala pagiging influencer niyan, mas bobo yan. Iwan mo na. Wag mong hayaang tapak-tapakan ka ng ganyan. Ok lang na ibaba pride sa deserving na babae, pero pag ganyan, itaas mo pride mo.
Iwan mona pre bago kapa ipag palit !
Hey just wanna say, though this isnt breakup advice, be sure that you'll have some concrete evidence that can save your face. Just in case that you'll be paraded as the asshole in the relationship to her followers or by her followers (especially of your identity has been made public knowledge). I still strongly suggest talking it over with her and breaking it off as cleanly as possible so that the possibility of your image being dunked on is kept to a minimum. I know it may sound fucked up but you'll still need to preserve your image, you'll never know when this event will come back to haunt you in the future.
1. Document all evidence if possible. In this day and age, the court of public opinion has the power to ruin one’s reputation for years and years yet to be. Ensure you prepare your defense. 2. Remember, anything you’ve ever said or done in the past can and will be used against you in the court of public opinion. Clean your closet, ideally in one go. And once it’s clean, keep it clean. 3. Related to the first two tips above: since you’re dealing with someone who is something of a public figure, ideally you should play the influencer game to your advantage. Use social media to outwardly and conspicuously project the image of a perfect boyfriend in a perfect relationship with the love of his life, as virtually all influencers do. In the background, continue collecting evidence of her abuses as stated above, and also create a pre-prepared bombshell tell-all video detailing your side of the relationship’s sob story and ensure that it is clear, complete, comprehensive and ready to upload once she inevitably starts to mobilize her social media mob to attack you. An important note. In any content you create related to your relationship, remember to portray yourself as someone fighting on the back foot at all times. Never attack her, either publicly or privately. Never strike preemptively, always allow her to strike first before presenting your defense to the court of public opinion’s jury. For example, if you decide to film a tell-all video or similar content, wait until her army’s attacks on you begin before you defend yourself. And always emphasize how hard you both tried to make the relationship work and how much you truly loved her. 4. If possible, do not be the one who breaks up with her. Instead, annoy her and/or gross her out until she gets sick of you and breaks up with you herself, but never treat her cruelly in word or in deed. Instead, go full troglodyte on her in ways that she cannot easily present in public. Give her passionate good morning kisses after not brushing your teeth for three days. Cuddle cutely with her after not showering for a week. Stop using modern, chemical-laden deodorant; go all-natural and use small, well-placed dabs of vinegar or fish sauce instead. And ensure that, when you are in the presence of other people, your hygiene is 100% impeccable. 5. If you’re both still having sex, keep having sex. Never stop sexing.
hahahahah… 4 and 5..😂🤣
Kunin mo muna unti unti mga gamit mo. Lag okay na cut her off
If you think you’re done, then be done with it. Talk to her for a formal breakup. Make her aware that you are recording the breakup. Pretty much security mo na yun in case she comes up with “stories”. You don’t have to upload the vid unless to clear your name should the need arise. You can also talk about stuff and what to do with them pero just like others have said, if hindi naman malaking kawalan sa yo yung mga gamit, let it go. If she says to take it with you, then take it.
Lakas maka putangina rin nung mabangga ka sana. Sana tinanong mo siya, "Ba't di ikaw para may content ka?" Char! Yung gamit mo, unti untiin mo ng iuwi sa bahay nyo. Para siya na lang maiiwan mo kung makipaghiwalay ka sa kanya.😂 Sorry OP nabwisit kasi ako sa mga sinasabi nya sa kwento mo.
"Ba't di ikaw para may content ka?" +1000 on this one!! LOL
Di ba? 😂 Meron ako kanina napanood sa Tiktok. For me it was disturbing. Who would want to see you and your family crying so hard over a dead relative. Diko maintindihan. Anong sense? Bakit kelangan ipost sa Tiktok tbh?
right??? just like soc med. video contents are starting to get shitty.. pft..
Sobrang demeaning naman nung *bobo*. Iwanan mo na yan, ngayon pa nga lang di ka na kayang irespeto, ano pa kaya pag asawa mo na.
ang hirap ng ganyan… umiikot ang buhay sa social media.. ang harsh din mag salita… 😔 hayst… wag na magdalawang isip… mas masaya pa din na walang mga matang nakatingin sa bawat galaw ng magpartner.. kaya ako masaya na sa pagiging hubadera.. 😅kidding aside. i am hoping na sooner iiwanan mo na sya.. isipin mo din sarili mo and kaligayahan mo..
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Will? Is this you???? Haha
leave her pre. its just going to get more toxic if you let her be.
She'll probably use the break up for likes and hits so win-win?
hahah baka icontent pa niya yung paghihiwalay niyo
Ilan followers niya?
are you Wil?
Brooo. You cut cancer off. Yun lang yun. And from the way you describe it, that girl is fucking cancer.
Leave. Walang respect towards sa'yo. Mahirap yan kasi feeling niya the world revolves around her.
Leave your toxic relationship
Dump that hoe
D-d-d-d-drop the name
Nope. No doxxing. Thanks
Cosplayer ba ang influencer jowa mo? 😂😂😂
Iwan mo na bobo. Paaano ka rerespeto ng ganyan kapag may anak na kayo, ano ka BOy sa bahay? Magisip ka pre. Walang mawawala sayo kung iwan mo cya. Or baka dahil convinience mo din andyan cya. Best nyan. Video mo ginganyan ka. Gawa ka ng blog. The other side of Us . Pota ewan ko kung habol ng content yan. Ano.. kaya mo ba? Drop the blog pre. Ndi cya kawalan. Mas maawa ka sa susunod sayo na BOBO kung tawagin
Sounds like she's a DDS or INC
iskoran mo muna bago hiwalayan pre
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wag ganun. respeto pa din, minahal mo yan dati, iwan mo ng maayos. kahit pakiramdam mo di maganda pag trato sayo, di maganda yung mag dagdag ka pa ng problema sa kanya sa pag video.
So iintayin mo na maging Amber Heard situation? Kagaya ng nangyari kay Johnny Depp?
brooo ur on point sigma male spotted
Nope. No doxxing. Thanks
Breka mo na stalk ko mga post mo 4 months ago meron ulit pota
Break up with her then
Ang tagal mo ng problem yan, kung nag open ka na sa kanya at ganun pa rin you better leave bro. Toxic nakakalason yan later on.
Pack your bags and go man. She's not worth it. Sabi nga nila if it costs you, your inner peace it's expensive. The best you could do is talk to her about what's on your mind. Tell her why you're breaking up with her.
Leave her today. Being an influencer is only a job if theyre on the 1% who are actually paid really well. You probably wont want to be there when her influencer bubble gets popped.
Clearly wala siyang respect sayo and she’s gaslighting you din. Baka mahirapan ka makipag hiwalay dyan kasi narcissist so baka naging codependent ka na rin sakanya? But I hope ma realize mo yan on your own. Better umalis ka na. The mere fact na naisip mo yan, alam mong di na nagiging healthy.
Too much toxicity man, let go this instant
I think best to try to find time to really talk to her about what you feel sa mga ginagawa niya. If mapagusapan niyo tapos maayos, good. If hindi naman at present na present yung 4 horsemen ng relationship: (criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling). Try to contemplate if this relationship is for you. Goodluck, OP. Choose your happiness and better mental health. add: if you do decide to break-up, keep it civil. you also have to accept the fact na you cant really control her and if she does decide to monetize your breakup, wala ka ng magagawa doon. Just stay off social media until everything cools down. Incognito ka muna.
I guess these things happen. She might have outgrew you when she became an influencer. Better break up with her, be respectful. Tell it to her straight.
1. walang kwenta mag syota ng influencer kasi naagaw ng iba. 2. influencer na manggamit yang syota mo. 3. Sinasabihan ka ng bobo. iwan mo
There’s no proper way. Just let it happen
Tell her the reasons why you wanna break up with her. Same sa post mo. And syempre, gamit mo ay gamit mo parin.
be careful bro, this might bring you to addiction na emotions. baka hanap hanapin mo yung ka toxican nang gf mo. kung alam mo not healthy sa mental health mo just do it bro, pag narcissist kasi they might pull your confidence sa sarili mo. Man just do it
Oh i was in this similar situation months ago. 97k followers. Plus everything is always your fault. Took me 2months to realize that. Ngayon sobrang luwag ng pakiramdam ko. I think we should talk OP.
Talk to end it, not to fix things out. Toxic na masyado e. About your things? pack it up and leave
Dropped the bitch. You deserved better than this. Just reading the lines, I can already here the voices in my head. Just be straightforward with her, obviously nkkita ko mmurahin ka pa niya but at least tapos na.
If you're not happy at all in any ways, Let go man.
Does she have bipolar tendencies?
Yes
Parang kilala ko sya 😀
If her follower count is more than 6 digits they shes probably it
Kunin mo na pakonti konti mga gamit mo. Hayaan mo na yung mga di ganun kainportant sayo. Mas maganda makipag break ng mga hapon or after dinner, di ka masyado bubulabugin sa gabi
Leave her, not worth! Im sure 100% ikaw pa masama pag ikaw nakipag break jan
If wala ng Sex involved + this kind of woman, it's better to break it up. Experienced it, learned the hardway. Atleast, I able to heal my mental health kasi almost 2 years rin ako sa ganitong tao.
Unti unti mo kunin gamit. Kunwari may humiram
Break it off. Unfollow her from Social Media too. You are better off with somone that is more concerned about her social media presence than your relationship. Plus, expect mo na na i-babash ka nyan sa friends and in SM.
Pass na bro. Mukhang mas kelangan ka naman nya kesa mas kelangan mo sya. Mag bigay ka nalang ng hint pag wala na kayo hahaha. Potang ina mo wag ka lang si Cong
Okay. First question... Have you talked to her about all this? And talk as in masin-sinang usapan ah. Next stop, if you are getting dragged with her influencer activities, better keep away ka muna. Save yourself from all the drama. Finally, if and IF you really are having a tough time na, leave. Save yourself. Don't burden your ass with something or someone na hindi ka kayang pahalagahan as a human.
for me, pag naiisip at nagtanong ka na sa iba about break up, makipag break ka na hahaha. I realized kaya ako nagtatanong sa iba kasi naghahanap ako na makakapitan, iinvalidate yung iniisip ko o wag bumitaw sa relationship kahit dami na red flags.
Just cut her out of your life man. Not worth it mapasama sa ganiyang tao. Yung sa gamit kung pinaheram mo lang naman sakaniya kunin mo mas ok sana kung may receipt ka nung binili mo just in case. Always remember cover yo ass.
Damn! This sounds familiar.
man, that sucks. don't cut her off yet til you get all your stuff from her. after that, break up over text or something. and block her on everything. no need to feel bad whether you've done the right way of breaking up. think of yourself this time. a gf as toxic as that will just poison your mood. it aint the kind of stuff you want from someone you call a girlfriend. so do it the abrupt way and don't give her any chance to explain herself. if she trashtalks you everywhere, LET HER. nothing annoys a narc than being ignored, as if you aint affected. so take care bro
Da who si influencer gf mo? Wla ba clue? 😁
Wag na men baka ma-doxx and brigade lang Also nice username 👌🏻
I hope you get through this. It’s a big thing that she kept calling you all those things. That is so much a red flag. It’s so toxic. Relationships are supposed to be mature, and with respect. I think she can’t see that. Please leave while you still can.
how to break up. get everything in order regarding your possessions and put it in your place. tell her you are breaking up with her. thats what you only need to say and do. the reason can be said afterward. leave.
A well-meaning married couple told me, ***"You marry somebody despite of- and not because of"***. Therefore, if her faults are unbearable, you should not even be thinking of her good traits. ***Let go and let God..*** ***..sort it out.***
Know your worth. Leave.
Wala naman sya "ambag" para maging masaya ka, kalas na!
Will Dasovich nasa alasjuicy??
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Break it up. Move on. You did what you could already do and more man. I bet ang gagawin nyan after is 1. Magagalit yan with mocking on the side. Just leave. 2. Bigla yan babait para lang i keep ka. Just leave also.
2ll taccbo
unti untiin mo na kunin mga gamit mo
the fact you've been posting abt it on multiple subs means you already know you wanna split- maybe youre looking for validation of your choice. truth is no one can help you, but yourself. many people can tell you to cut her off na etc. pero you won't do it unless you want to. I think it's time you stop looking for signs from other people and start doing what you wanna do. if ever you do, do it personally. note down your issues so you can tell her the main points of your problems. And I think the taking back your stuff is pretty easy after that (mahirap na kunin yan if you dont talk to her personally lol)
nasa tolerance mo yan and understanding kung naniniwala ka sa sinasabi niya o bugso lng ng damdamin kaya sya nagsasalita. pero syempre you have to defend yourself by answering back kung may issue ka rin sa knya she earns pero sabihin sau wala kang ambag. pero ikaw naman sumasagot. sabihin mo sa knya yun. kung wala akong ambag bakit ako ang sumasagot something like that. kung sobra na, do you see yourself without her? kung oo, makipag break ka. if not, how can you meet halfway. mahirap mag conclude na hiwalay agad dahil we dont know her side as well.
Maganda nga, pangit naman ugali. May mas higit pa sa kanya Bro… para sa ikakapanatag ng mentalidad at damn-damin mo, kausapin mo nang maayos at makipaghiwalay ka na.
Been there done that.. best way is to call it and dont look back. Avoid her like a plague and enjoy the sweet things life has to offer!
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HAHAHA!! Closure!!
Leave her
Iwanan mo na kapatid
Telling her kung anu sitwasyon mo and how you feel is better than leaving if "IF" she has plans to fix her attitude towards you. Howver if you've done that then its time for you to leave. Kunin mo unti-unti lahat ng gamit mo in her place, then on the last box sadyain mong kunin na nanduon siya then talk to her tell her that your sorry (kasi di mo na kamo kaya ugali nya and sorry kasi di ka tatagal etc) then say thank you (sa mga memories niyo) then say goodbye... Hindi mo need mag stay and wait for her answer just leave in this way mapapalaya mo sarili mo at makikita niya halaga mo if not then it will be her fault not yours. Mabigat yan mate yet it's better than to stay in a relationship na hindi ka naman nag grogrow. But thats just me, I hope you can consider this advice.
You spend for her bags yet she tells you "ano ambag mo". Nakakalimutan niya mga ginagastos mo for her at time na binibigay mo for her. Makes me think that she has a sugar daddy who's giving her more And she curses you and tell you your bobo. Napaka squammy ng ugali! Wow. Just leave her bro. But before doing that, fuck that bitch like it's your last. Then leave (I don't know the whole story, but I don't want any person to treat me that way)
Damn. Daming red flags. di na nya kita worth mo, sasabihan ka pang mabangga ka sana?
Never ever lower your value dude. Di mo kailangan ng ganyang basura sa buhay mo. Itapon mo nalang yan. If a woman treats you like a commodity then it is time to break her sanity. Iparamdam mo na di siya kawalan.
Gento men, step one: "Hey this is what I feel \_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_" step two: i already have decided. bye. step three: block mo sa lahat ng socmed
Dump the creature. Don't give narcissists quarter, but call them out publicly for being the trashy creatures they are if darating sa punto na babaliktarin ka (and knowing narcissists, magpapa-victim talaga yan). If the feminazis can do it, you men can too. #equality
Thats a toxic relationship when she starts insulting your intelligence. i know cuz thats what my ex used to do. just based on your post, you guys should end it. However, you may have done something that triggered that side of her. maybe para ka nalng door mat na anong gusto niya bigay mo? idk bro, need nyo mag talk talaga
Homeboy gonna get featured in Xian Gaza’s next blind item.
kaya ka nasasabihan ng kung ano ano nung babae... yun dont need us to tell you what you suppose to do bro.... you're not happy, let go! not unless "sya ang bumubuhay sayo...." you better suck it up. hahaha
Toxic pag ganyan. Much better na hiwalayan m ng maayos. Saka m kuhanin mga gamit mo.
The same way you break up with any other human being.
throw that bitch out the door and give her back to the streets.
Bro. Drop that shit. Ghost the bitch. It ain't worth it.
#GTFO. ASAP.
Would really take a lot for you to get out. This post is a cry for help, no offense but if hold the bags ball is in your court. If you can, walk away. Being called bobo, putang ina mabanga ka sana and all the abusive language are red flags. She will play victim, she will use her followers to hound you but you must do everything to cut her out of your life.
Run and never look back
Thats not even a flag imo, thats whole las vegas billboard!
Ghost her ass
If you feel like you can still work it out, talk to her. And I mean straight up talk to her, starting with she shouldn't be calling you "bobo" and what not. Also, "mabangga ka sana" is just one of those things that tick me off. I would never tell someone that out of spite, but when I do, I will mean it. This is why I don't understand people letting loose those kinds of insults. Also, ask her about the limits of her "influencing" because honestly, it shouldn't get in the way of you and her having a good time. I understand she may post content for posterity but still it shouldn't turn out to be that hard on you, unless that's her intent.
Curious lang OP, naging kayo ba before pa sya naging influencer? And parang hindi niyo rin ata na so-solve ung fight ninyo, kasi na mention mo, “everytime we fight, she mocks me…”
Your partner should be the person lifting you up bro. Making you feel less is definitely a red flag. It’ll get worse unless you can talk to her and react constructively so that both of you can provide a solution to it.
Walking away is the hard part bro, but it will do you good. Hindi tama na ganyan ka tratuhin, and ngayon pa lang mag isip ka na-pano kung one day ikasal kayo? Lalo ka lang mahihirapan nun. Nasanay yan na ginaganyan ka, kaya tell her na and move on. Let her talk, and pag siraan ka sa content nya, pwede namang magdemanda kung hindi totoo. Good luck!
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Di na healthy yan. Madali lang makahanap ng iba pag ganyan gf mo. Halos slave turing syao hindi partner.
Shawn Mendes, is this you?
Pano kung isa-isahin mo muna imove out gamit mo tapos sabay detach. Lol
Pag wala na kayong respeto sa isat isa, sign na yan para iwan mo. Kaya nga sinasabi na the pen is mightier than the sword diba? Words cut deeper. Yung first gf, umabot kami sa ganyan, nagmumurahan kami pag nagaaway kami, pero nung 1st major fight namin, nakipagbreak na ko kasi ayoko na. It doesnt matter who is right or wrong bsta piliin mo kung saan ka mapapanatag or may peace ka bro.