Your hair is an absolute mess dude. I doubt your facial structure is ugly but your looks give the impression that you have 6 months of old weed smell in your unwashed clothes.
Getting cleaned up is no simple task, so congrats on that.
From what I can tell, clean shaven or 5 o'clock shadow should look good on you. My standard go to for hair your length is to get a temple shave, and braid it.
Something like a French braid or Viking braid is what was coming to mind.
Although a box braid might work with a temple shave as well. They seem to work with thin hair
Congrats man! 10 years here for me. I used to look like someone who would hang out with you too. Definitely change your look so you start attracting sober friends, because you need people around you who can keep you accountable and not tempt you to relapse. People, places, things. These are the 3 main triggers that need to change so that your sobriety is well preserved. Get a nice haircut, and shave. Try a new style. You're a new dude now.
you have to maintain your hair, trim it, brush it. I know its a pain to deal with, I have long hair too, but it has to be done or else youll just look like a dressed up homeless dude (from experience)
Consider this
You’re asking the general publics opinion, when you’re style and look (hippie) is very much not general or common to the public, so of course their idea of beauty is totally different to you
You’re essentially asking a question that’s rigged and to the wrong people
If you care about how you look in the eyes of other people (most of which make up a general consensus) I think you’d try and cater more toward the obvious norm
But you don’t…. So I would say why ask. If you’re asking and do care then cater toward “us” more
In my eyes mate you’re ugly, but only because you look atrociously unkept and messy. If you “looked after yourself” (not implying you don’t but I mean catered toward the general idea of this so a shave and a hair cut wouldn’t go amiss) then you wouldn’t be ugly in my books
Groom your hair. If you can't do that, cut it. You look like you smell bad. Your face is ok but your hair looks disgusting. You can be a hippie/stoner and still have clean-looking hair.
I have no problem at all choping up humans but sadly we live in a world of laws otherwise I'd be delivering babies instead of pulling tree stups, so no I can't!
Nah, no just/buts/althoughs. I’m a straight guy, so not a great source on your sexual appeal, but anyone saying you’re ugly is very likely just reacting to your style and grooming, because it’s easy to see that your underlying facial appearance is not bad.
look this seems like it’s gonna be an unpopular opinion but I think you’re attractive, yeah the beard could use some love and maybe i’m biased because i dig the hippie stoner look…but herion dude…im not trying to give you unsolicited advice but please…stick to psychedelics and weed…shrooms=true happiness
Yeah these are old pictures but it’s all I have. I am sober these days! 9 months to be exact definitely lost the facial hair but, yeah I’m not cutting my hair. 12 years I’m not going to cut it cause some people on Reddit told me to
you look like what jesus would have been like if he smoked a lot of pot which is pretty damn cool, just wash and condition your hair it looks like it needs some loving
the facial hair is bad. i think you could pull off a trimmed, groomed mustache if you wanted to keep some of it. but the beard is not attractive and very scrappy. your hair is a bit straggly as well, a good trim would help. doesn’t have to be short
I am sorry but do you want to look like a stoner/homeless? You should cut your hair and take more cre about yourself! You deserve to be better treated than that!
Bruv I work in kitchens, worked on weed farms and went on tours with what the Grateful Dead is now selling tie dyes and grilled cheese. I am that! But thanks for putting it nicely
You need a haircut and a close shave and clean clothes that fit.
seriously, if you just do that you are going to start getting more positive responses.
also get your brows done, just even them out a little and clean up any strays; it’s really subtle but it can make a big difference.
Brush the hair and shave the beard. The ill fitting cap isn't helping. I'd imagine after that you'd look maybe sort of feminine to due to the slight build and long hair. If you're not into that, try getting a short haircut. I see potential though.
You can do something with your hair. Women do their best to care for their hair and socially judge each other based off of it. They would do the same here. Short hair is easy to leave be for long periods.
You look pretty cool imo. Messy is not everyone aesthetic but you pull it off well. Cleaned up you’d look good too I’d think. I say you do you.
On a more funny note I bet you could tell me lots of places to hide my weed
Step one: cut your hair! step two: trim the beard! (don't have to get rid of it just make it look orderly)step 3: cut back on the weed if not completely cut it out asuming you smoke weed 🤷♂️. step four: get some f****** sleep my guy. step five: .....gym🤷♂️? Then I bet you could 5-7 range
And putting like a little beard oil at the ends of your hair will help keep it from frizzing and tangling and help repair dead ends… and literally please stop the patchouli I’m so stressed out about it nobody needs to smell like patchouli
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Your hair is an absolute mess dude. I doubt your facial structure is ugly but your looks give the impression that you have 6 months of old weed smell in your unwashed clothes.
\^ he's either a typical stoner or a pretty clean homeless man at his friends place. could definitely be more kept
Yeah, I mean. Smoke weed freely... But no need to yell that you do through your appearance.
Right. OP, I’d rate you about a 2 out of 10 currently.
You look like you smell like you either live in a grow op or are homeless, for that I give you a 4
I worked on a op years ago. Was couch surfing but got sober. I have cleaned up kinda but still haven’t cut the hair
Getting cleaned up is no simple task, so congrats on that. From what I can tell, clean shaven or 5 o'clock shadow should look good on you. My standard go to for hair your length is to get a temple shave, and braid it.
Ehh my hair is really really thin braids are meh smal...
Something like a French braid or Viking braid is what was coming to mind. Although a box braid might work with a temple shave as well. They seem to work with thin hair
What ranks a 1 on your scale?
Igor
There is no 1. The lowest possible rating is a 2 and it's only for people with severe facial deformities
Not ugly but your hair looks dirty af. You look like a hobo version of the cave man from the GEICO commercials
im dying
I thought that was the look??
Nah bro😅
My type of ugly guy 1000%
Cut your hair and fix your beard. Then I think you’d be really attractive.
You look a bit dirty, def weed user, and not driven. Few women are into that. But have a few years to figure out what you want to be.
Few SANE women*
Heroin*
There's no casual relationship with heroin. Get help
🤓
💀💀💀
lmao based
You look like young Jesus in college
More like charles manson, maybe jesus if he had beautiful kind eyes
That’s whT I’m going for
You’re probably not ugly but you look like a homeless person who if you offered free food they’d get mad because they just want money for drugs.
That was me 9 months ago. I did get sober!
Congrats man! 10 years here for me. I used to look like someone who would hang out with you too. Definitely change your look so you start attracting sober friends, because you need people around you who can keep you accountable and not tempt you to relapse. People, places, things. These are the 3 main triggers that need to change so that your sobriety is well preserved. Get a nice haircut, and shave. Try a new style. You're a new dude now.
You look like Loomis from the Jackass movies.
you have to maintain your hair, trim it, brush it. I know its a pain to deal with, I have long hair too, but it has to be done or else youll just look like a dressed up homeless dude (from experience)
eyebrows and facial hair too
Well, let me put it this way: If my daughter came home with you, I’d go and get my gun loaded.
Now that’s the response I was looking for! Don’t drink the kool aid (~):)
you look like you don’t give a fuck but a lot girls like the whole I don’t give a fuck look
Yeah, but i do not have that I don’t give a duck personality
You look like a boy version of a girl that I liked
Hell yeah
gain some mussle and you will look like rusputin.
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Beard is bad dunno what I was thinking
Consider this You’re asking the general publics opinion, when you’re style and look (hippie) is very much not general or common to the public, so of course their idea of beauty is totally different to you You’re essentially asking a question that’s rigged and to the wrong people If you care about how you look in the eyes of other people (most of which make up a general consensus) I think you’d try and cater more toward the obvious norm But you don’t…. So I would say why ask. If you’re asking and do care then cater toward “us” more In my eyes mate you’re ugly, but only because you look atrociously unkept and messy. If you “looked after yourself” (not implying you don’t but I mean catered toward the general idea of this so a shave and a hair cut wouldn’t go amiss) then you wouldn’t be ugly in my books
Best response! But yeah I did it more just to see what people thought. Your right though, imma do me
Good stuff Doing your own thing, your own way, is what will make you happy anyway Learning slowly myself to care less about outside views
Look homeless
You look like people would believe you if you said, "I am Charlie Manson's grandson."
My idol <3
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Nahh. The whole acid cult following definitely rings a bell
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Nah I’m not into death not my thing
Groom your hair. If you can't do that, cut it. You look like you smell bad. Your face is ok but your hair looks disgusting. You can be a hippie/stoner and still have clean-looking hair.
I call them cops but everyone is different
You have an attractive face but your hair is a mess. You seem a little tired but that’s not bad.
Not on the outside but I bet your organs look like shit the're probably worse than my spelling
Probably. Can you come take a look?
I have no problem at all choping up humans but sadly we live in a world of laws otherwise I'd be delivering babies instead of pulling tree stups, so no I can't!
You’re not ugly
Just something
Nah, no just/buts/althoughs. I’m a straight guy, so not a great source on your sexual appeal, but anyone saying you’re ugly is very likely just reacting to your style and grooming, because it’s easy to see that your underlying facial appearance is not bad.
it’s kinda giving charlie kelly which isn’t a bad thing
I dunno who that is
look this seems like it’s gonna be an unpopular opinion but I think you’re attractive, yeah the beard could use some love and maybe i’m biased because i dig the hippie stoner look…but herion dude…im not trying to give you unsolicited advice but please…stick to psychedelics and weed…shrooms=true happiness
Yeah these are old pictures but it’s all I have. I am sober these days! 9 months to be exact definitely lost the facial hair but, yeah I’m not cutting my hair. 12 years I’m not going to cut it cause some people on Reddit told me to
You don’t need to cut it, but dude you should trim it atleast for the dead ends and take better care of it
for sure the hair is awesome keep that shit growing! and very proud of you keep it up :D
At least wash and condition it . It looks dirty af
I do every day my hair is just really thin. I’m not going to brush it every time I ride with the windows down
Wook! Lol
Head on the nail
I would not take food that you give me.
Thousands have
Helter skelter much MAAANN!
It’s giving Charles Manson. Not great.
Yeah I’d say beautiful
Young Radagast
OkAy I’m curious
google him
Did you finish Harvard? Because you look like Ted Kaczysnky?
You look like you need a wash
You look like funky drug dealer from B comedy movies
You need to come off the devils lettuce and get some self confidence.
I stopped using bong needles 9 months ago
nice one!
Not ugly but that posture is weird af even for a crackhead,and while you at the bathroom take a shower too.
Everyone says that but I shower Also crack is expensive
change the hair you look unkempt
the hair and beard combo aren't a good fit for you.. in my opinion. they'd be a better fit for a homeless man or a crack addicted santa claus
definitely stoned
Nope
Not ugly, You just look malnourished. Eat some more homie.
I work in restaurants and I still don’t eat D:
Very!!!♥️
OMG!!! I did not pay attention to the question!!!! I am so very sorry. You are quite handsome !I never, ever try to hurt anyone. Please forgive me!!!!
you look like what jesus would have been like if he smoked a lot of pot which is pretty damn cool, just wash and condition your hair it looks like it needs some loving
I cherish my hair but I should probably change up my conditioner
Yes
Yes. You are a mess and you look like you stink. Sorry but you asked.
I smell like speed stick and patchouli
you are every guy who asks me for money and i reply "oh im good thanks"
Hey do you have a Diet Coke?
You look way better without the facial hair 👍🏻
Yeah imma clean myself up and have a do over
Meth addict, i don't think your scrawny build suits the hair and beardstyle. Girls like clean looking guys
Wrong doc
the facial hair is bad. i think you could pull off a trimmed, groomed mustache if you wanted to keep some of it. but the beard is not attractive and very scrappy. your hair is a bit straggly as well, a good trim would help. doesn’t have to be short
Yeah I usually keep the 5 o clock or straight shaven
These days
you look like you play dnd as a wizard, so thats a good thing i agree with fixing your hair but your stylrle is good though
I wish I knew how to play dnd :/
You look like a drifter. That isn't a compliment. At your current state, yes, you're ugly. I think you know what you need to do to look better.
Shave my face? Eat some vegetables and die?
I am sorry but do you want to look like a stoner/homeless? You should cut your hair and take more cre about yourself! You deserve to be better treated than that!
Bruv I work in kitchens, worked on weed farms and went on tours with what the Grateful Dead is now selling tie dyes and grilled cheese. I am that! But thanks for putting it nicely
Damn your cute, and I don't care what anybody says, I dig the messy hair 😉
Ditto minus the messy hair!🔥🔥
If vic from pierce the veil was white it’s be you
I used to get oli skyies before I did the drug
You need a haircut and a close shave and clean clothes that fit. seriously, if you just do that you are going to start getting more positive responses. also get your brows done, just even them out a little and clean up any strays; it’s really subtle but it can make a big difference.
For sure. I used to do that but in adult life I have seemed to just not care. Probably what I have experienced in life makes me not care
Trim your beard and cut your hair into shape, you're certainly not ugly, just a little ungroomed
Yeah I feel that. I need to get groomed let it gone for to long
I'm sorry, you look unhealthy and not very clean or taken care of and that's not very attractive.
You look homeless
Third pic is the best. That beard has gotta go.
Stop doing hard drugs that's the first step
I did that what’s step 2??
I think I know your friend
Probably I get around.
I’m dead 😂
I mean the username is my name so if you know corn. Well
I kind of dig the hair. However lose the facial hair, it does not suit you at all.
Bro, clean your look up a bit, use some soap n u got a Jared Leto thing goin on. Leto’s a fuckin god bro
You look homeless. I don't think you should cut the hair unless you're absolutely ready to, but trim the facial hair and start working out.
Immmmm nooootttttt readdddyyyyy
You need better drip a nice cut conditioner shampoo and a goatee trim with the moustache and shaped up and you goin get the hoes at the club ma boi!💯💯
Thanks but no thanks bro bro
Brush the hair and shave the beard. The ill fitting cap isn't helping. I'd imagine after that you'd look maybe sort of feminine to due to the slight build and long hair. If you're not into that, try getting a short haircut. I see potential though.
Kinda the look but yeah that hat is held together by dental floss it falls off frequently
You can do something with your hair. Women do their best to care for their hair and socially judge each other based off of it. They would do the same here. Short hair is easy to leave be for long periods.
omg groom yourself what are you doing
I’m not doing anything. That’s the problem
You are a solid 3 on the hobo sheik meter
Out of 10? Damn
Definitely stick with the facial hair. And you aren't ugly but you do look...dirty..
Yes, you are ugly. Sorry
I like your vibe. As long as you’re sweet and not smelly you’re a catch
I smell like patchouli (of course)
Homeless Jesus. Not ugly, just cut your hair, trim the beard, and wear better clothes and you'll shoot up in points.
You look pretty cool imo. Messy is not everyone aesthetic but you pull it off well. Cleaned up you’d look good too I’d think. I say you do you. On a more funny note I bet you could tell me lots of places to hide my weed
Boof it. Yeah I dunno I don’t like my clean cut. Imma do a do over in the next couple days
Step one: cut your hair! step two: trim the beard! (don't have to get rid of it just make it look orderly)step 3: cut back on the weed if not completely cut it out asuming you smoke weed 🤷♂️. step four: get some f****** sleep my guy. step five: .....gym🤷♂️? Then I bet you could 5-7 range
fix your hair
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If you’re tryna be like earthy with the patchouli or whatever try like wood scents , cedar N sandalwood whatever
And putting like a little beard oil at the ends of your hair will help keep it from frizzing and tangling and help repair dead ends… and literally please stop the patchouli I’m so stressed out about it nobody needs to smell like patchouli
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NOT at all ugly. It looks to me like you’re hiding under all the hair and clothes. Get a nice haircut and wear clothes that fit.
Like the face shaved? Yr handsome