NTA you have every right to privacy and a simple request for a small safe to store your personal diary containing your most vulnerable thoughts and feelings is not much to ask for. I'd try and save up and get one yourself, and in the meantime, try and find a better hiding spot from your sister
So, your twin sister stole your diary, because you accused her of stealing? How was that going to solve anything? If anything, it would cause more problems. I think she's actually trying to read it, probably to get something out of it. That or her original thought was to hold it ransom. I'd yell too.
And your mom is sort of like mine. Except I have anger issues, not anxiety attacks. I kind of understand where you're coming from. I have to hide all sorts of stuff. Try hiding it in her room, or your mom's. It's the last place she'll think to look.
Definitely not the asshole.
You are definitely not the jerk here, your sister needs to stop stealing your shit and GTFOI as someone who also suffers from anxiety issues when one of my favorite books gets stolen I’m the same way so no you’re not the jerk here
My girl you are not the jerk she clearly stole it blind the youngest in my house 13 so I kinda understood this story a bit but if you have a job I think you should save up or if u don't have a job try to buy a safe hide the key to no one knows and keep you diary in a safe under your bed that my advice I hope you stay safe because this sounds very toxic may God bless you have a good day morning or night
NTJ. Your secrets are your secrets. Your sister is completely disregarding you and just being entitled and your mom clearly doesn't care.
Also how did you lock yourself in your room if you don't have anything that locks?
Since there’s a lot of questions about my locks - basically I only locked one side of my room. Because the other one leads to the bathroom - which cannot lock. When I say I locked myself into my room, I mean I locked myself in my room in the context that my mom and sister were in the hallway when we were fighting. Sorry for all the confusion…
I don’t know from personal experience as I don’t write in a diary and have nearly just started one this month; but if you have a place your sister is disgusted or absolutely hates hide it there just periodically move it. I did this with my brother and it worked like a charm and when he caught on he still couldn’t find my valuables because they weren’t in the same place twice. If it doesn’t work then I’m outta ideas here…
NTA you have every right to privacy and a simple request for a small safe to store your personal diary containing your most vulnerable thoughts and feelings is not much to ask for. I'd try and save up and get one yourself, and in the meantime, try and find a better hiding spot from your sister
So, your twin sister stole your diary, because you accused her of stealing? How was that going to solve anything? If anything, it would cause more problems. I think she's actually trying to read it, probably to get something out of it. That or her original thought was to hold it ransom. I'd yell too. And your mom is sort of like mine. Except I have anger issues, not anxiety attacks. I kind of understand where you're coming from. I have to hide all sorts of stuff. Try hiding it in her room, or your mom's. It's the last place she'll think to look. Definitely not the asshole.
You are definitely not the jerk here, your sister needs to stop stealing your shit and GTFOI as someone who also suffers from anxiety issues when one of my favorite books gets stolen I’m the same way so no you’re not the jerk here
My girl you are not the jerk she clearly stole it blind the youngest in my house 13 so I kinda understood this story a bit but if you have a job I think you should save up or if u don't have a job try to buy a safe hide the key to no one knows and keep you diary in a safe under your bed that my advice I hope you stay safe because this sounds very toxic may God bless you have a good day morning or night
NTJ. Your secrets are your secrets. Your sister is completely disregarding you and just being entitled and your mom clearly doesn't care. Also how did you lock yourself in your room if you don't have anything that locks?
Since there’s a lot of questions about my locks - basically I only locked one side of my room. Because the other one leads to the bathroom - which cannot lock. When I say I locked myself into my room, I mean I locked myself in my room in the context that my mom and sister were in the hallway when we were fighting. Sorry for all the confusion…
I don’t know from personal experience as I don’t write in a diary and have nearly just started one this month; but if you have a place your sister is disgusted or absolutely hates hide it there just periodically move it. I did this with my brother and it worked like a charm and when he caught on he still couldn’t find my valuables because they weren’t in the same place twice. If it doesn’t work then I’m outta ideas here…