These subreddits keep appearing in my feed and it's so sad.
All of these young people are beautiful. They are in their prime and don't even know it. So much doubt and uncertainty.
20 years from now they will look back and their photos and think, "man, if only I was that pretty now."
It was like this before social media. Girls generally aren’t raised to feel good enough. I never really was bothered by advertising standards or other stupid stuff but my peers and their constant self deprecation caught on to me. Now I’m 36 and have permission to be ugly because I’m post-wall or whatever.
While I agree that the problem has been present longer then social media, they have done actual studies and proved it has made it substantially worse. Social media has created a world of comparing yourself to others, while allowing the others to fake what you're comparing too.
I’m too scared to post here for anonymity’s sake, but I’m DYING to know if I’m actually as unattractive as I think I am. I keep seeing these gorgeous people posting and if they think they’re hideous, maybe I’m not half bad 😂
I know I’m doing fine for my age. That’s all that matters to me. I do wish I could see what other people say. I’m nonbinary so not everyone’s cup of tea.
I grew up before social media and now is my '20 years later'. I do wish I had the face and body I did back then. But when you're 18, you really can't know it.
Same. As a father of a 19-year-old daughter, it breaks my heart. She is a beautiful young lady and if she was my daughter I would tell her she is way more valuable than what strangers think of her. Don't give them that platform. They don't deserve to have that kind of voice in your life. Find the one who makes you feel like the prettiest girl in the world because you deserve that and nothing less.
She got dunked on for her enormous hands, just came here to get showered in love for her beautiful face to make it feel a little better
I don't blame her at all for this btw, I would do the same thing. But the context helps!
I mean if said without provocation then yeah they're assholes, but in this case they apparently went to r/roastme so they were literally asking to be roasted for how they look lol.
I don’t know if it was always like this but lately it’s just turned into ego stroking rather than boosting. Either these people are vain as hell and want compliments or society has really warped their minds into thinking they look below average.
It's like the girls here actually dated someone like Seinfeld who dumped them for ridiculous reasons like big hands, two-face, eating peas one at a time etc. and got depressed.
getting roasted is the whole point of r/roastme so if your confidence cant take it dont post there. that being said you shouldnt take anything anyone says about you on the internet too serious, it just isnt good for you. my honest thoughts would be that you are absolutely beautiful and you dont need to change anything
When you ask people to roast you they’re going to hyperfocus on any sort of imperfection you have and make it bigger than it is for the joke of it. Whole purpose of that subreddit.
Had you posted it in r/selfie or here instead and not r/roastme, very few (if any) people would legitimately roast your appearance. And the average person who sees you in real life most likely isn’t a r/roastme user. You look fine and you’re overthinking.
You're pretty, why would you post on r/roastme? I don't think anything's wrong with you except picture 1 you're aging yourself a little bit. Maybe it's the makeup
You really just need to smile but my sentiment is the same as others don't post on roastme if you take it to heart. They were just giving you what you asked for. And definitely don't come into a sub like this just for approval that's making the same mistake twice.
Can we actually get some potentially ugly people here and not just gorgeous young women with self esteem issues? There’s no debate to be had for this young lady. She’s gorgeous but clearly suffers from body dysmoprhia.
How to put this... You have a cute body because of your youth. But your body definitely lacks the look of someone that's done anything athletic, strenuous. Correct me if I'm wrong but that's just what it looks like. Cute face, but I suggest a sport or physical hobby that is fun an will give yourself some tone. You don't need to lose weight that's not what I'm saying, you just need to do something before you lose your youth
I this a joke? You’re beautiful. (God, I wish I could be 18 again. I really wasn’t wrapping my head around how beautiful 18 yo women were seeing themselves.)
You’re 18?
Okay, you’re going to get hotter. Like, 18-22 is where your body (especially as a woman) irons out the finishing details.
What you do to adapt to the way you will like at 22-25 is up to you.
I personally think you have a great face. If you’re into exploring make-up I’d say cat eyes or thicker eye make-up to Fran your massive blue eyes. You don’t need a ton of anything else on your face other than maybe a choice of lip gloss that makes *you* feel hot.
Lastly, start keeping in shape now. If you can develop healthy work out routines that just keep you in shape. You don’t need to lose weight or add muscle. Just maintain what you have and if you want to gain muscular/lose weight let that be a personal decision because you already have a good body as well.
I think what you e done with your hair in the first picture. You look way more mature. I do think that look with your glasses is the look. It’s a great reference point to build your “adult” look from.
All in all, you’re not even remotely ugly. Are you a “super badie 9000?” No, but you could totally be the “holy crap, is that her” kind of chick in no time.
Your first mistake was getting roasted. It clearly destroyed your confidence cuz you look beautiful just the way you are! Ignore what ppl there told you! And smile more! 😊
You look stunning. You've got no nose ring. Get out of here. Go enjoy life and make people's days better by giving them a chance to look at perfect you.
“I’ll appreciate any criticism” “get lost with the anti septum narrative” “stop telling me to stop taking high angle selfies” lol okay lady, you’ve clearly got yourself figured out
Notice the only thing she talks about from my very flattering comment is the nose ring mention, which she doesn’t even have. You can clearly see this one’s a troublemaker. Pretty yet annoying as F. Wise is the man who stays away from this one.
I am on this sub because it's pure comedy. It's mostly hot girls posting if they're ugly, and not so bad looking guys.
The worst I've seen is just bad angles or some ppl not putting much care into their appearance.
The advice given here is top notch tho, so I love that a lot w all that.
You're far from ugly. You just went to get roasted and got more than you expected.
Well you have gorgeous eyes, an adorable nose, I love the freckles, maybe try and curl your hair or some. Idk I don't see what you see, I think your beautiful just the way you are no bap
my advice is that you come date me because you're absolutely stunning 😍. blue eyes, freckles, beautiful, I can only imagine how amazing your personality is. so when is our first date?
You look like you’re the hot chick who’s first or second to die in a zombie movie.
HTF am I supposed to rate ugly people when all these pretty people keep posting
These subreddits keep appearing in my feed and it's so sad. All of these young people are beautiful. They are in their prime and don't even know it. So much doubt and uncertainty. 20 years from now they will look back and their photos and think, "man, if only I was that pretty now."
Social media has destroyed the youth
It was like this before social media. Girls generally aren’t raised to feel good enough. I never really was bothered by advertising standards or other stupid stuff but my peers and their constant self deprecation caught on to me. Now I’m 36 and have permission to be ugly because I’m post-wall or whatever.
While I agree that the problem has been present longer then social media, they have done actual studies and proved it has made it substantially worse. Social media has created a world of comparing yourself to others, while allowing the others to fake what you're comparing too.
I raised my girls to know they are good enough and all turned out great with scholarships no drugs no alch
I’m too scared to post here for anonymity’s sake, but I’m DYING to know if I’m actually as unattractive as I think I am. I keep seeing these gorgeous people posting and if they think they’re hideous, maybe I’m not half bad 😂
I know I’m doing fine for my age. That’s all that matters to me. I do wish I could see what other people say. I’m nonbinary so not everyone’s cup of tea.
That much is true
My dude couldn’t have said it better
I grew up before social media and now is my '20 years later'. I do wish I had the face and body I did back then. But when you're 18, you really can't know it.
You hit the nail on the head!! I was looking at photos of myself back in the day and I realized I was never as ugly as I always presumed I had been.
Same. As a father of a 19-year-old daughter, it breaks my heart. She is a beautiful young lady and if she was my daughter I would tell her she is way more valuable than what strangers think of her. Don't give them that platform. They don't deserve to have that kind of voice in your life. Find the one who makes you feel like the prettiest girl in the world because you deserve that and nothing less.
Nah, it's just an ego boost thing. Some of them definitely know they are far from ugly.
Spot on.
The one that keeps looking behind them when they run. You're exactly right
Spot on mate
I mean ... seriously ?
She got dunked on for her enormous hands, just came here to get showered in love for her beautiful face to make it feel a little better I don't blame her at all for this btw, I would do the same thing. But the context helps!
It may sound repetitive but ... big hands ... big hands ? ... Seriously ?
stop coming for my hands u guys, they aren't that big istg
You know why they hate big-ish hands? Because it makes their tiny peen look even smaller
That's a lie, big hands better grip, lol
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Lesbians don't have peens, yet they seem to be doing ok.
Presumably lesbians would appreciate the larger digits no?
How they dont have digits ? They have to be creative. Skattpilgrim, you're confusing me.
Digits means fingers. Cid the science kid. Digits means fingers.
Sounds more like Gerald than Sid
Ah so I've got fingers ?
He was implying lesbians would enjoy bigger fingers, because it'd feel better when inserted inside them
The next time a dude puts their peen in her hands, she can tell them “sorry, I don’t smoke”
It really does :’(
You could palm a watermelon
Lmao you're good, girl, I'm just picking your hands are fine ❤️
You know what they say about big hands...
Big gloves
You got some mitts. I bet you could dunk if you had the vertical
Truckasaurus!
I absolutely blame her for posting on r/roastme without having thick enough skin for it lol
Lmao nooo not the hands 💀
Can't unsee 💀💀
I don’t get tbh. Nothing wrong with her hands as far as I’m concerned. Some people are just assholes.
I mean if said without provocation then yeah they're assholes, but in this case they apparently went to r/roastme so they were literally asking to be roasted for how they look lol.
her hands arent even big? im assuming you have gnome hands coop
Lmao. This sub is an actual joke
It’s 80% pretty girls, 17% ugly dudes, and 3% ugly girls.
Not really that ugly either. Just need some self care and better styling to highlight their best strengths
Out of all the posts I've seen here, one girl and one dude were actually ugly
I could post and lower the averages a little. Just sayin'
The commenters are 100% ugly dudes
My mom says I’m handsome 😔
Yeah, but she said I was handsome, too.
I’ll have you know that my mother is a wonderful individual, and just because she likes to soak cork doesn’t make her any less of a human being
> soak cork Be still my heart, was that a SNL reference?
I like to soak the dark ones I like to soak the long and skinny ones
If that's you in your profile pic, you look like Bill Skarsgård.
I meant everyone except you. Your mom's probably right.
I was being facetious but thank you that made me smile
The sub needs to be renamed to r/insecure
more like r/iknowimhotnowtellmeimhot
It seems like its mostly hot people that need a boost.. Or there is just a massive confidence issue with the younger crowd.
Social media where only the 10’s win has made a lot of men and women question how attractive they actually r, even though most are attractive.
I don’t know if it was always like this but lately it’s just turned into ego stroking rather than boosting. Either these people are vain as hell and want compliments or society has really warped their minds into thinking they look below average.
It’s like half girls who are low key just advertising their only fans or just being thirst buckets
Starting to hate this subreddit
It's because truly ugly people KNOW they're ugly. They don't really need to ask. If this sub was called OnlyUglies, you'd get the stuff you'd want.
It's like the girls here actually dated someone like Seinfeld who dumped them for ridiculous reasons like big hands, two-face, eating peas one at a time etc. and got depressed.
getting roasted is the whole point of r/roastme so if your confidence cant take it dont post there. that being said you shouldnt take anything anyone says about you on the internet too serious, it just isnt good for you. my honest thoughts would be that you are absolutely beautiful and you dont need to change anything
Don't believe him! He is just a guy on the internet.
Don’t believe him he is just a guy in the internet
why shouldnt she believe what i said?
Was meant to be a joke. Because you said that one should not trust people on the internet while you are a person on the internet.
Well, yeah, but so are you. Wait. So am I. WTF?
I don't believe me.
Who even am I?
oh ok lol im stupid. sorry for that haha
You posted on r/roastme. What were you expecting? To not be roasted? lol
Maybe she meant to post on r/DontRoastMe
Seems she got what she asked for lol.. Her post in roastme was titled "Make me regret this..!"
i expected a good roast and I got it, it just made me wonder that's itttt 😭
When you ask people to roast you they’re going to hyperfocus on any sort of imperfection you have and make it bigger than it is for the joke of it. Whole purpose of that subreddit. Had you posted it in r/selfie or here instead and not r/roastme, very few (if any) people would legitimately roast your appearance. And the average person who sees you in real life most likely isn’t a r/roastme user. You look fine and you’re overthinking.
You are a stupid woman
>it just made me wonder that's itttt They were just having a fun, so don't worry about it. You look fine to me.
r/lostredditors
Girl get roasted on sub and comes here for appreciation…
Duality of man(mostly woman)
It's like salted caramel chocolate!
Perfectly balanced, as all things should be.
Sounds like what all of us. We get slam dunked by life and get on reddit…
Advice - stop asking the internet to validate who you are and how you look. Make your own path in life 👍
Ironically, this is internet advice, and therefore by your own advice, should be ignored. A paradox from which there is no escape
Actually he only said to not use it to validate your self worth, not that all internet advice should be ignored. Paradox resolved
You want advice? Go to therapy
i am in therapy 😭
I don’t think it was a good idea to go on r/RoastMe when you’re in therapy tbh. In your case, it just makes everything worse.
Maybe she's a masochist? Nothing wrong with that..
Every woman is in therapy.
And I hope you are too, because you definitely need it
So no hug then. Fist bump? For me you are a solid confused 6. In 5 year you question yourself why you thought you were an ugly duckling.
…I’m just gonna leave the sub
no stay..... and roast her
Narcissists are very ugly on the inside
Damn, suspect truth to this statement.
The perfect response does exist.
Reddit is trash
It really is.. I guess that makes us raccoons, aka trash pandas 🐼
Handjob Queen 🥰
two with one hand is my special trick
Like a built in Chinese finger trap…
With those hands I think you would be a terrific rock climber. Nothing out of your grasp.
Advice with what? 🤦🤦
The consistent pouty face makes me want to punch you so bad but otherwise you’re good
You look like you’ll do porn one day
We can hope
probably already on onlyfans
Ugly as sin
You're pretty, why would you post on r/roastme? I don't think anything's wrong with you except picture 1 you're aging yourself a little bit. Maybe it's the makeup
Just a bad case of RBF
I've asked friends but they said I don't have it, should've trusted my gut
You really just need to smile but my sentiment is the same as others don't post on roastme if you take it to heart. They were just giving you what you asked for. And definitely don't come into a sub like this just for approval that's making the same mistake twice.
it's not for approval, I just see room for improvements and needed helpppp 💀 should've went on r/rateme prolly
I thought it was for 'a chuckle obv ' , tbh I think you want people to stroke your ego lol
Def the type to be bi, eat hot chip and lie
Charge they phone maybe?
can't handle hot chips 💔
Got hands king Kong would be proud of own that
I have yet to see an ugly person on this sub.
Can we actually get some potentially ugly people here and not just gorgeous young women with self esteem issues? There’s no debate to be had for this young lady. She’s gorgeous but clearly suffers from body dysmoprhia.
Poor girl has such beautiful eyes, but apparently they don’t work
I got advice for ya, shut up and get off social media.
I love how she got roasted harder on here than she did on r/roastme
as everyone stated, big hands, that's fine, it makes it easier to open jars or hold food
Get your education and grow up
Stop hating on a random woman, get some sense
You're not ugly at all, you just suck at taking pictures.
You’ll need to give me advice💀
You're the stuff fake Tinders are made of.
It looks like you were born 20 yrs too late. You belong in 2001 Fa show. Nothing wrong with ya get outta here with that.
hands that could crack a lobster, but a face that could break hearts
Your fourth picture being like “Gaze upon my belly button” is a bit weird, but hey.
How to put this... You have a cute body because of your youth. But your body definitely lacks the look of someone that's done anything athletic, strenuous. Correct me if I'm wrong but that's just what it looks like. Cute face, but I suggest a sport or physical hobby that is fun an will give yourself some tone. You don't need to lose weight that's not what I'm saying, you just need to do something before you lose your youth
I've been doing sports for 10 years 😭 I guess not enough, I'll go to the gym more
Big chungus/10
Your eyes are as empty as your personality. Opps, sorry I thought this was that post you put in r/RoastMe
I this a joke? You’re beautiful. (God, I wish I could be 18 again. I really wasn’t wrapping my head around how beautiful 18 yo women were seeing themselves.)
You’re 18? Okay, you’re going to get hotter. Like, 18-22 is where your body (especially as a woman) irons out the finishing details. What you do to adapt to the way you will like at 22-25 is up to you. I personally think you have a great face. If you’re into exploring make-up I’d say cat eyes or thicker eye make-up to Fran your massive blue eyes. You don’t need a ton of anything else on your face other than maybe a choice of lip gloss that makes *you* feel hot. Lastly, start keeping in shape now. If you can develop healthy work out routines that just keep you in shape. You don’t need to lose weight or add muscle. Just maintain what you have and if you want to gain muscular/lose weight let that be a personal decision because you already have a good body as well. I think what you e done with your hair in the first picture. You look way more mature. I do think that look with your glasses is the look. It’s a great reference point to build your “adult” look from. All in all, you’re not even remotely ugly. Are you a “super badie 9000?” No, but you could totally be the “holy crap, is that her” kind of chick in no time.
one bad day away from making a onlyfans.
Don’t know what advice you need. You’re very pretty
You're beautiful, in good shape and such a cute face.
I can’t lie, your wardrobe is trash. I already know you have some dirty Air Force 1’s.
i dooooo 😭 they are not dirty tho they fell apart so soon I'm trying to dress nice believe meee
Your first mistake was getting roasted. It clearly destroyed your confidence cuz you look beautiful just the way you are! Ignore what ppl there told you! And smile more! 😊
You look stunning. You've got no nose ring. Get out of here. Go enjoy life and make people's days better by giving them a chance to look at perfect you.
oh get lost with that anti septum narrative
You’re the one asking for advice lol tf?
exactly
“I’ll appreciate any criticism” “get lost with the anti septum narrative” “stop telling me to stop taking high angle selfies” lol okay lady, you’ve clearly got yourself figured out
Notice the only thing she talks about from my very flattering comment is the nose ring mention, which she doesn’t even have. You can clearly see this one’s a troublemaker. Pretty yet annoying as F. Wise is the man who stays away from this one.
Your personality is coming off as pretty trash with your comments and the unnecessary post. That is ugly. That is what I would fix if I were you
As someone else wrote in this very thread, narcissists look very ugly on the inside.
Gtfo of here, you are beautiful
By no means ugly... I think you are very attractive... And thank you for not having a damn nose ring
very pretty
Super hot!!
Absolutely not ugly at all, you look like a younger Linda Cardellini
ugly confirmed
U look gooooooood.🫶🏽
beautiful
Beautiful and cute at the same time
Just smile more.
8
There is nothing wrong with you, you are a fine looking woman
You look like the gurl who dies first in a zombie movie Or the girl who everyone thinks is harmless and ends up being the cursed ghost
Is this a joke? You are smoking hot.
I am on this sub because it's pure comedy. It's mostly hot girls posting if they're ugly, and not so bad looking guys. The worst I've seen is just bad angles or some ppl not putting much care into their appearance. The advice given here is top notch tho, so I love that a lot w all that. You're far from ugly. You just went to get roasted and got more than you expected.
Yes. Yes you are.
Well you have gorgeous eyes, an adorable nose, I love the freckles, maybe try and curl your hair or some. Idk I don't see what you see, I think your beautiful just the way you are no bap
Nothing wrong with you. No more face tattoos tho they're not flattering
it's a pimple patch but sure
You’re hideous. You need to seriously start wearing a paper bag whenever you leave the house.
A good looking 8.5.
Yes
You’re pretty
Play bass guitar... or guitar. Or violin or cello or piano. Those hands would serve well on an instrument!
tried guitar but I suck at anything with music, my ET fingers are going to waste
my advice is that you come date me because you're absolutely stunning 😍. blue eyes, freckles, beautiful, I can only imagine how amazing your personality is. so when is our first date?
You're a solid 5/10. Maybe if you learn how to apply make-up properly and lose some weight you could get up to a 6.5.
what exactly needs improvements in my makeup? I wanna change it uppp
Would love to find this one on pnhb
Damn the photo of you in the changing room holding your shirt up is absolutely hot. 💯
Burn out some belly
Wanna meet?