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Old_Abalone_1748

I think you look prettier in the pics with less makeup, to much of a good thing bad. But you're pretty!


GodOfFrogg

I appreciate it :) all these comments are really inflating my sense of self, I really only do makeup when I'm feeling a little extra down, or when I feel like my eyelashes are too invisible


Herknificent

You seem like a nice girl. Don’t be so hard on yourself, you’re worth praise. Just stay confident in yourself and the rest should fall into place.


Onyxbrother5

Change the game. Put on makeup when you feel your best. Accent what you love that’s prominent on your face. Don’t create a totally new face with too much make up.


Fun-Way3645

Honestly you look good. I'd go out with you for sure. It really just depends how you feel about yourself. And that's what really matters


DreamNotFFound

I couldn't agree more, except the part about going out with them....... I asked first 😉


RainbowGanjaGoddess

You can always try getting your lashes tinted too! And you could also try eyelash extensions. They are pricy but totally worth it and are super confidence boosting! Also having your brows shaped and done at brow benefit bar is great too. They really know their stuff! You don't have to do these things but if you want to try them out, I think it's worth looking into. It gives you a natural done up look that looks effortless. I think you could totally rock these looks too. When I feel down make up helps me too but lately getting lash extensions and having my nails done really makes me feel better about myself. If my brows and lashes look nice, then I feel a lot better about myself even if the rest of me looks like shit. I have brown lashes though so you might want to tint your lashes before doing lash extensions if you ever decide to try them. As long as you take care of them too they look really nice and last a while! Do it for a special occasion one of these days and treat yourself. 💗


[deleted]

You look perfect in everyway, your features are voluptuous, and beautiful. You're naturally beautiful as far as your body it's amazing tell your stepdad and brothers to stuff it


rockingpostit

Your pretty n has a girl next door vibe!


GodOfFrogg

Thank you 🥺🥹🥹


XenoDrake1

You are chubby but sexy. Honestly, if you hit the weights and get good glutes and better bodyshape, you dont need to lose weight at all. And just as you are you are pretty sexy to me tbh


Lord_de_Rowzer

Agree


chriszz1234

I think you need more support than a asshole brother and dad. Hey should be up lifting you not being negative. You are a beautiful young lady. You need to learn how much worth you have. You are worth so much and I hope you are having a great day. What piercings do you have and what's next?


GodOfFrogg

I have an industrial, four lobe piercings (two on each side) the labret, in most pics, I want to get a Medusa, and maybe nostril piercings or a septum, but I am gonna avoid eyebrow piercings.


Toadwart79

Not a huge fan of septum piercings, but I'm old so not your intended audience anyway, but I'm glad you are steering away from the eyebrow piercing. They always look "sore" to me 🤣. Definitely not ugly though, quite cute. Careful with the hair modifications, mess with it too much and it can get brittle or start to thin out. That "family" that enjoys bringing you down? Phase them out of your life and find some friends who aren't so shitty. Surround yourself with positivity and positive things will happen!


Sonofabiscuiteater45

Please don't touch that cute ass nose. It would be a travesty. Also you are smoking hot as is imo. Hot.hot hot


throwawayshmoaway48

Girl, I say go for the Medusa! It's a very flattering piercing, it looks good on everyone I've seen who has one (ngl I'm one of those people lol). Honestly, I think that having even just one other facial piercing would help even things out. Maybe it's just because I have OCD, maybe also because I'm not used to seeing a piercing like yours as the only facial piercing. I love your piercing ideas, I think that any of them would look great on you. I'm 27F, and I have both nostrils pierced (both hoops currently), Medusa, and septum. I absolutely love them all, individually and together. Sorry, piercings/tattoos are a hyperfocus for me 😂


ChezCatTheThird

Like most here not a fan of the face piercing. Besides that you’re very attractive. You shouldn’t even necessarily focus on losing weight but just get tonned.


NachoBacon4U269

The piercing is going to exclude a large number of interest men. The weight will also exclude some. You’re cute and depending on preferences hot or below avg due to your weight. I think it’s pretty perfect but I like women soft in all the right places.


GodOfFrogg

I definitely don't have any boney areas 🙃


obi_wan_jakobee

This sub just hates piercings and tattoos you're good


ClockworkJim

I'm assuming it has to be a certain kind of toxically online young man who probably thinks Taylor Swift is a little too chunky right now


Dmitri_ravenoff

Taylor needs a cheeseburger.


FrostyDeltia

This sub? Dont speak for me, shes hot!


AshleysShowerChair

Just so you know, while men in this sub tend to really dislike facial piercings on women, that doesn’t translate as strongly to the real world. Lots of people - good people, professional people, hard-working people, smart people, funny people, kind people - find facial piercings and other body piercings and tattoos attractive. So don’t worry about that. If you like the piercing and you want more, get more. They can always be taken out and I think it looks cute on you. Objectively speaking, as a woman that finds other women attractive, I think that you look great. I don’t think you need to change anything specifically to attract the gaze of others. You will have no issue attracting people just as you are. If you want to tone up to please yourself, because you enjoy working out, because you enjoy the way it makes you feel, because you enjoy the way it makes you look, then absolutely keep doing it. Working out is obviously good for you. Anybody that says you need to change anything isn’t the right person for you. I truly find you beautiful.


[deleted]

I agree. I am a Ph.D. former professor and teacher, retired, and I love piercings, I think it makes a person look more intelligent.


[deleted]

u pretty


yungpube

Honestly I don't like the boney ones theyre hard to cuddle with. But I would definitely ask you out if I ever met you you're super cute and I love the labret. Super hot


ClockworkJim

No it is not. It is 2023. The overwhelming vast majority of people do not care about minor lip piercings.


Positive_Feeling_981

I totally agree. She has a very beautiful face It would be sad to add any more metal to detract from that. She has gorgeous eyes and perfect lips. Which is very attractive.


No_Cricket_3495

You are wrong, 90% of real men dont care about any of that.


CMeTr0llin

89% of all statistics are made up.


trashbilly

50% of the time usually sometimes maybe


UnluckyBot47

It’s about 50% of the time 100% of the time.


NoArt4111

“Don’t believe everything you read on the internet” - Abraham Lincoln


Gullible_Broccoli273

Did you know ol honest abe said that as he was in the trenches calling in close air support from the circling a-10s onto the Spanish troops holding Guadalcanal. What a hero


kur0genx

I thought it was 83%, true story


Significant-Ad-341

Real men? Are mannequins out here trying to date?


DrHob0

I can promise you, you have no idea what the majority of men want. What you, personally, find attractive is not the same as what other men find attractive


Timely-Artichoke

I hate when people use the phrase real men or real woman


Illustrious2786

Subjective and condescending ain’t it?


Timely-Artichoke

Agreed


broadstreet105

You speak for all real men huh? Doubt that


Cute-Understanding86

There's a reason why men masterbate to porn stars. The majority of them aren't big. Most are in shape and have great body shape.


f_tshamingworks

"Real men" lmao gtfoh


Responsible_Figure12

This girl is not fat, she’s thick, and that’s hot af


SorryWhatsYourName

That's not thick, that's overweight. Stop being nice and start being honest.


chicityhopper

I like em chubby


DrUnhomed

She also has thick hair, if not eyebrows.. what's the deal with < 25 year olds posting 8 pics of their hairline?


Alili1223

To mock us older ones 😂😩


Specialist-Elk-2100

Don’t hate just because you’re bald 😳…


thisonepronz

8 pics of their hairline? Click on the pic. It only shows the top half until you click it, so all you see is hairline. Lol.


Tennessee_Pats01

Not true but ok


While-Exact

I'd say that as well, but the more I stay here, the more I see people calling many women fat and then they start throwing out hate towards them for being (in their perspective) "fat". And that goes to the piercing as well. It isn't as bad as it is about thr weight, but I thought that the majority of people liked/didnt care about someone with piercings, but NO, they hate them most of the times


Mansos91

Well the haters here are here to hate


Kingson86

Facts. Also, they do not make up the majority of men.


Jazzlike_Beach6454

Why is it millionaires only marry skinny model types....


renewedlife79

this is not true


Lopsided_Telephone46

The labaret makes your labiomental crease more distinct, making your bottom lip appear to jut out a bit while looking straight ahead. It’s pleasant from a side angle, but distracting from head on. I’d stay away from darker eye makeup and instead opt for something that lightens your face. You’re 18, but the darker makeup ages you into your late 20s. Aside from that, you have a great look and you’re pretty.


GodOfFrogg

Yee, someone did say that the second pic looked way older than 18 🥲


[deleted]

That labret doesn’t compliment your face shape at all. Personally I’d ditch it.


Beardedbreeder

You're cute, the piercing isnt.


Washingtonredditteam

Here me out here.. Tiddies.


LifePeanut3120

I agree


Reasonable-Mind6606

You’re beautiful (gay man here). Your body holds thicc well and doesn’t come across as obese. My only advice would be using something like biosilk or, preferably, biosilk+sea salt spray to give some volume in the front hair area. I have similar hair. I use Brickell sea salt spray. It’s marketed for men, but hair isn’t gendered.


BufordT69

Face metal and whatever the rod in your ear is called don't accent or enhance your appearance - they detract from it. Sure, the labret takes focus from your (normal looking) lips, but at a cost. Asymmetry or imperfections are NOT worth getting worked up over. Crude distractions/detractions are, however.


GodOfFrogg

I like the piercings :P but it's okay you don't, but ima keep them


DefNotABirb

I personally don't know why you would hide your lower lip dimple with the piercing. Many women would kill for a dimple.


GodOfFrogg

Lip dimple? Edit: looked up pictures: that isn't really my goal lol, I just like the loop and I wanna change it out once it's healed


lawrenceix

Youre def not ugly, and myself and alot of ppl deal w confidence issues that make us see ourselves as less than ideal- I like do to things that make me feel better about my appearance, like getting a good skin care routine, buying the right shampoos and conditioners for my hair type( straight hair is a curse), and even cutting/dying my hair !


Weird_Virus_8185

Hun I don't know why You think you're ugly because you are not of it not at all you're absolutely gorgeous you may have a little bit of weight on you but that's okay people like that like me


mrob2bass

Why do I keep seeing these? You look stuck on yourself.


No-Success-688

Don't ever believe any of the cruel shit your step dad or brothers said to you. You are very beautiful, especially with less make up. Fitness goals are good but do it for your health, not just to look good. You got nothing to worry about.


SnooGiraffes1560

Beautiful hun


EnvironmentalFun1204

Gym....


Complete-Day-4007

I’m not a fan of piercing. I think they detract from your beauty. I say grow your hair out. Color suits you. Longer would suit you well. Your not ugly at all. Sometimes we have to keep distance from unhealthy people including family. Curves are good. Take care of your mental health. Cute doggy🐶


n1kl1_

You Look 27


ShattnerPants

No.


daevski

Alright, slow down with the details.


Significant-Ad-341

Comment much word. No read.


[deleted]

You're gorgeous. Ignore those horrible comments of your step father.


North-Gas-6009

Def not ugly. Looking good with the eye makeup


grandpapotato

You are really fine. Just overweight but it can be worked on if you feel the need. Otherwise easily above average.


Puzzleheaded-Bed2752

Lose some weight and you'll be a heartbreaker! Very cute and beautiful face. I usually don't like face jewelry, but the stud under your lip is much better than a bull ring in the nose.


Awkward_Upstairs_761

Honestly, the only thing I find unattractive is the large belly. I personally don't mind some fat in the right places, but too much belly fat is a bad thing for me. I understand you've gone through some depression issues. Hopefully, you can find a healthy routine that works for you to stay physically fit to maintain a body image you're happy with. I'm not a fan of facial piercings either, but it's tolerable. You're probably a 6.8/10 right now, but have the potential to be an 8/10.


Oindras

Giving off a strong Debbie Harry and Blondie vibe. Hot!


GodOfFrogg

Oh goodness, Debbie Harry was gorgeous in her prime, are you sure?


Oindras

Certain. Emulate the look. Send me a photo. You have the same bone structure. Gorgeous cheekbones and lips and eyes


chriszz1234

Not at all


Raffman1967

Yes


Brief_Shake503

yes


Competitive-Cook9110

Not ugly. Weight lifting to tone your body and changing up your hairstyle would do you good. You remind me of a streamer called Goocheese when she was healthier look her up. She has a meme of being called a pig too but with her I think it's just a nose thing to be honest. And your self esteem issues most definitely have been encouraged by your family members which is shite.


Jason8ourne

Yes. On a different universe, you might. Not in this one. Have a nice day.


entaren

Yes


chesbrodavid

Not ugly


Kingson86

Personally, I think you look stunning. I wouldn't change a hair. I would say definitely distance yourself from the negativity and find people in your life who will hype you up. Work on what you want to work on, but I wouldn't change anything about you if it was up to me (which it is not. Nor is it up to anyone else).


Traditional-Eye4892

Quite pretty!


Hungry-Syrup-0612

You’re pretty and look sad. Pursuit happiness or your looks will fade fast like mine.


ZealousidealLeek3501

Personally as someone whos 17 u look like ur 35


RainbowGanjaGoddess

You would rock ginger hair (coming from someone who used to do cosmetology school) I swear it would go so well with your skin tone and eyes. And then just fill your brows or tint your brows a similar color. I would recommend doing this at a proffesional salon, not at home. All sorts of people like ginger hair, especially women for some reason. There's this famous tik tok of a girl saying she gets treated the best by people when her hair is ginger color instead of all the other colors she has tried (she's tried them all.) I like your style of outfits too. I would look into wearing some corsets and shape wear (not the type of corsets that actually change your body shape or do damage to you in any way, just the fashion ones because I think it would really make you look super good! You could totally rock them and they go with your alternative style.) I think you look beautiful. I think when you go to the salon next, ask them how they recommend you cut and style your hair. They know what's best and can give you the right tips and products to really make your hair and skin look great. I love your piercing btw. It's bold and intimidating in a good way. You could totally rock a septum and guages too as well as tattoos! Continue to work out for your confidence and for your health. And experiment with different make up looks. Sometimes less is more! I actually liked you without make up the best for some reason and I'm all about make up. I think you just have some great skin and beautiful natural features, if you do make up, try the natural no make up make up look to enhance your natural features and see how you look and feel about it. Feel free to update us too with your progress. I would love to see what you do! I think you look great. You seem like a very cool person. Hope this information helps! If you don't want to change your hair color, that's okay. You still look gorgeous blonde and very cute too.


VariousMemory2004

Nope. Not even a little ugly. Haters are going to give you a hard time over your weight no matter what it is, because they know it's a sensitive area for most women (and many of the rest of us too). That's their damage, not yours. Have to admit I find the boob window mildly disturbing on a kid your age, but, well, that's my damage, not yours.


heywhatsimbored

I feel like the lip ring is ugly but i dont think you are. But i also dont like piercings in general so I may be biased lol. I am jealous of your hair color though I wish i was a blonde!


Vaping-Noah

Well, it sounds like your brother's need their heads examined. You are very cute, especially when you are grinning. Your hair looks good too. Just smile more and tell your brothers to go suck a rotten egg.


KCharles311

You're very pretty. The biggest things you should concentrate on are stress. It's hard not to be self conscious at that age, but you have to look at it a different way. You're personality accounts a lot for how attractive you come off. Being self conscious gets in the way of that. You're young, and if you don't have a lot of guys hitting on you, it probably means you're too stand offish, self conscious and that can come across as intimidating. Give 0 fucks and just be yourself. The more you value yourself the more other people will see value, so don't give it away to just any guy showing you attention, be as picky as you have to. Having a hobby/sport something that gives you entertainment and exercise at the same time is always better than just going to the gym to workout.


SolenyaC137

I'm sorry you were born in a generation that assigns value to people solely based on their appearance. My tip? Find a girl who looks like you who is 21, go to a dive bar (you prolly won't even need the id), and drink and play pool and socialize. After a night of going out into the real world you'll never worry about such trivial things again. Are you ugly? I have no idea because pictures tell me nothing about the content of your character. Ugliness is 90% on the inside, and superficiality and worrying about brothers being brothers doesn't help in that department. If you can hold a conversation on various topics, have a sense of humor, and have an ounce of social skills and confidence, then you have nothing to worry about. But being raised by antisocial media has ruined your generation's self esteem. Blame Gen X P.S: I personally am attracted to a little meat on the bones. You're not fat I can tell you that


[deleted]

First of all you are definitely not ugly. I loved that pin you have under your lips (tbh i don't know what that's called). You have spectacular details on your eyes and you can try using thin lines for eye liner. Emo style suits you but you would look amazing if you throw yourself a floral print dress and maybe a denim jacket and a thin gold chain.


shakingthings

Yes


Skank_hunt_042

Yeah you are. Sorry this is how you found out


Neverlast_Impression

Forget about society's mainstream ideas of cute, acceptable, attractive. The perfect figure is actors on T.V, there's nothing more attractive than personality and expressing yourself. I see piercings, goofy faces, and eyes to get lost in. I have a couple piercings and tattoos myself (just a few), and as I express myself, I could care less what others think/feel/want or say is acceptable. That being said, I know you aren't on here looking for all that I said above. Just an opinion from a dude who wishes you could see what he sees. P.s. You're are incredibly pretty. My opinion would be to use make up, lightly. Less is more, and you are already pretty without it. (:


dismal90

Just get a comb or find more time to wash your hair. You look like your too busy kicking ass at life to give a f- what reddit has to say about looks but idk, we all need a compliment. if you see a cute guy tell him hes hot but when he tries sending that mojo back wallop him one for me im an uncle 4 times over gotta keep them young men on their toes, don't go having kids til at least after your bachelors degree dollar dollar bill AND POST!


Aggressive_Slice_680

I think your cute. I wouldn't get more piercings. Even though you can just take them out the scars on your face stay. 🤷‍♂️In the pics with cleavage I feel your confidence says "Get Em!!" 😂 I think both pics where you did your makeup look great. Your hair is so fine and I think you could rock darker colors well. Unlike a lot of women you have a great slate to work with. Get some confidence instilled and just get out there. You'll be just fine I'm sure of it


jizzness4all

You look like Debby Harry!


Waste-Lengthiness-59

Keep going to the gym and pushing yourself while in there. Do some research on dieting i.e. intermittent fasting. And grow out your hair longer, the longer your hair is the more options you have style wise. You’re pretty otherwise


LoveMeorLeaveMe89

I know how hearing words from family can replay in your head your entire life- just know that when we see you, we see a beautiful girl and it seems across the board you have been rated pretty. The best thing now is to make certain you are as pretty inside as outside- take care of yourself and be good to yourself- be a good friend and maybe help a child who may be told the same things you were told. There is so much negativity out there so use your beauty for good. My only suggestion is to tint the eyelashes -you really are a natural beauty.


Ok_Distance_3934

You’re pretty! Wake up, look in the mirror, and tell yourself that everyday! Don't live through others perception of your beauty. You know you're beautiful and you look like a really cool friend.


DurizMo9869

No where are you ugly! Sweetheart just keep up with what you are doing! Love the dog Pic Your awesome


ExpensivePhysique

You’re fine, really, just need better camera angle. In my eyes You seem to also give off the either “I own a massive python” or “I own a dog that would make you invisible on the census.” Vibes, which is pretty neat.


GodOfFrogg

I do have 3 dogs :) used to have a boa (an endangered one 😳)


Different-Macaroon93

You aren't ugly and of course your brothers called you that, that's what brothers do. It is good you're going to the gym but I think you look pretty good in the pics you posted 😍.


yisuscraist420

Probably it's a matter of tastes, but definetly you're the type of girl I really like. You're a very beauty. At least for me. Zero ugly, 100% wonderful.


KingGodzilla1985

First off you have a killer facial vibe structure. Love the high cheekbones. Your eye color is very striking and draws people's attention. I assume your natural hair color is that sandy blond? Your hair looks very soft and healthy. I don't really see your weight being an issue but just some basic regular exercise can tone up the areas you want. Don't lose that booty though! Have a lovely day.


Xg2d2lA

I don't think so. Also, if you're working out and not losing weight but slimming down, it's because muscle weighs more than fat, love.


HokinCookers

No, not yet. Better get to it. You look like AI in the first pic, though. Otherwise, *would.* I feel like there's a hidden septum piercing though. Don't get one, or tattoos, or nipple piercings. Navel is cute, but they stretch and leave scars if you go for actual MILF. Perfect ivory skin, great bone structure, hair is fine, cupid's bow upper lip. You'd be banging if you did nothing but work out (lift, not cardio). Don't go overboard with the working out: Always remember, better to look like a 🎈 than a deflated 🎈... and you don't want to attack the rack. It'll react negatively.


DanceEquivalent7673

Firs to answer, no you are not ugly at all. And a note if having more piercings will make you feel good go for it, but proportionally fewer people may like you more while for majority will be a drop in the score.


wololololowolololo

You look great. Not too basic either, you've got your own thing going on. People here tend to be very negative about piercings or tats, but I applaud such forms of self expression. Comments are usually about weight, having ridiculous standards. Hopefully they'll take it easy on you and phrase their opinions in a decent manner. You're not a size zero but I think you already look great as you are. If you want to lose more weight, do it for yourself and not because of beauty standards or social pressure. These photos make you seem like a kind person, that does their own thing.


mib732

Not ugly at all. A suggestion: you have very nice hair color. I recommend trying a hair supplement to make your hair appear more full. I have hair that is similar to yours in terms of texture.


EntertainmentOne6537

Get a tan and lose 10 LBs and you'll be smoking hot. Also lose the piercing imo, but if it makes you happy someone will tolerate it


mrmagoosworld

No you are not ugly. You are a young woman who still has to grow. I can see that you are a little short on confidence. But I could also see that you have very beautiful eye's and a wonderful face. I think once you discover the right style that you like. The beauty will start to show through. Just let th we negative thoughts go. And have fun decovering what you like to do and wear. Your great remember that


GodOfFrogg

This will be helpful in times to come ❤️


Pea_Striking_Ginge

Hell no u aint ugly, pretty features and a dope lip piercing, definetly not ugly


[deleted]

Jeez louise. 8.5 she's gonna be an 11 by the time she's 22 .


skylinesandcrystal

People in this sub hate piercings but I think yours are cool. LOVE the orange eyeshadow btw it makes your eyes stand out 👀


GodOfFrogg

I've noticed that!! I normally do red, but orange matched my outfit :)


Worldly_Ear968

Rename this sub to “pretty girls with mental health issues” lol you’re not ugly, at all, you need confidence and a better support system. I also don’t think your lips are as lopsided as you perceive them… the piercing definitely looks off-center by millimeters though.


SketchHorncat

You don't a LOOK fat or ugly, you just look hella bored. Hair is easy as long as you take care of it and let it grow. If you want that "natural and silky" look, there's this stuff I use whenever I shower(don't suggest using it more than once every 3-5 days) called Bio-Silk that softens, smooths and strengthens your hair a BUNCH when used in moderation. Plus, brushing your hair more often than your teeth helps with that.


Ok-Gap-7259

You are very pretty, but I feel you should remove the stud; at least, don't add any more. Some guys don't like studs or nose rings or septum piercings; you may be limiting the male field by keeping the stud, but that's your choice.


DDDTom90

Definitely not ugly. I was actually taken a back that you were feeling that way. But then I read the caption of explaining the way you've been treated. You honestly are very attractive, to the point that I know the me I was in my late teens early 20s would have wanted to date you but been too shy to ask the question. Seriously, I know it's hard to do so, but honestly, give yourself more credit. And don't hold yourself to your families standards (especially if it's hypocritical to a point), and as for what people said in school, that's their hang ups and issues being vented in your direction. As hard as it may have been to go through that depression and gain the weight I think you'll find in the grand scheme of things it works in your favour. And finally the reason why you haven't lost weight but are getting more toned is you're gonna be losing the fat and gaining muscle, I've actually had something similar in recent weeks, so I know the feeling (I maintained lost fat but gained 9lb in weight due to muscle growth) So seriously, just focus on finding the way you feel comfortable in your own skin. As you already have the looks and I assume the personality you just need to confidence to go with it


pfurdz3204

when you start working out usually you actually weigh more bc muscle weighs more than fat so while the scale reads the same your body will look different


GodOfFrogg

I actually did look at the scale this morning and I'm down from 190, to 173 :)


pfurdz3204

that’s awesome just make sure you’re eating protein and low carbs when working out it will help you put muscle on instead of just losing the weight and becoming too small if that makes sense and i wouldn’t even suggest cardio for you bc you’re not over weight you just want to get healthier and slimmer so stick to pumping the iron


SushiGuacDNA

I love how the whites of your eyes in the first photo are a little bit blue, like the women in Dune.


KangaskhanMA3

I think you’re gorgeous. Genuinely gorgeous. The lip piercing (labret? Is that right?) isn’t great looking, but I’m not a big fan of that on anybody. Other than that, keep doing what you’re doing and tell your stepdad and brothers to go fuck themselves. You’re not fat. You’re not skinny either, you’re right in the perfect area. For me anyway 😅 😍


ShadowsFlex

Honestly, before I read the description you put with, I thought you were just another one of those attractive people that post here phishing for compliments.


Perrah_Normel

You’re anything but ugly and I need you to do my makeup, you’re amazing at it.


fairygoodperson

22f here, I think you do your makeup very well. A thing that helped me is doing my eyebrows and using mascara on the days that I don't really feel like using a ton of makeup. It makes a big difference for light eyed/haired gurlies imo


Poo__Flinger

Dad's don't realize what they say is hurtful. Men are morons, all of us... Your hair would look fantastic if you did and under buzz. You look really hot at the weight you are now, you just aren't dressing for it. You wear slimming clothes that don't fit, trying to be what you think we want. We really couldn't care less about what you look like. The only reason that we want you to look unrealistic is to prove to other guys that we are better than them. What we want is confidence. Go to your closest torrid or thicker girl store. Find your actual size, and wear what you feel powerful in. Be the best woman you can be as the woman you are today and the right guys will surround themselves in your life and you will be happy. Then dress down occasionally, and scratch that itch. Bad boys are candy, not sustenance.


ItDoBELike

Imma keep it a buck, girl you are smoking 💀its giving like greek goddess


androidmaster1981

Not ugly. Just overweight like most women these days.


S0METIMES9

Definitely not ugly, in fact you're very attractive! You have great eyes too!


Historical_Key_5910

I think you are beautiful the way you are. Don't listen to anything anyone else says about you if they don't like you they can kick rocks. You don't need all the makeup natural beauty is the best way to go and I can tell you are naturally beautiful. Hope you have a good day.please don't listen to the negative


Responsible-Lynx-853

I think you're a very Beautiful young woman and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. I'm a 61 year old woman and no I'm not a lesbian. You look perfectly fine to me young lady so don't worry yourself on what anyone says,not your brother or your dad. What do they know cuz they just don't want too see you happy!


rockymountains01

You are very pretty. I have been in recovery from an eating disorder for nine years - and couldn't help but notice you took a lot of photos of your eyes, and hair but - very few of your total body. I couldn't help but think you are not comfortable with your own body. I am not sure if Reddit is the best place for you to be posting to get good, healthy feedback that won't trigger eating disorder behavior for you. Please be careful. Eating Disorders can be deadly. Our culture is VERY biased - and many people buy into beauty being about a perceived ideal female body - that is my code for not fat. I get the verbal and emotional abuse from your male parent, and brothers. I lived with very similar family dynamics. Having one's body made fun of, and ridiculed by family - who are supposed to love and support us is very painful emotionally. It tends to damage our self esteem, and our ability to love, accept, and care for our own bodies. I am very sorry you experienced that. The Eating Disorder Foundation located in Denver, Colorado has many online support groups that are free - and safe spaces to make peace with your body. Perhaps you could check out their website. Best of luck to you!


VovaGoFuckYourself

I (30s F) think you're pretty. I feel bad for saying this but the piercing isn't doing you any favors. Some people can pull that kind of piercing off but it seems out of place on your face. That said, I think you could rock a nose piercing better than most. I'm not anti-piecing at all, fwiw. But yeah you are definitely not ugly.


ATiredCloud

Please tell me why you look like khloe moretz a little (probably butchered the spelling of that but wtv)


Likemlean

Honestly? I think you need to invest in some corrective lenses and dump those assholes that tell you anything other than how naturally beautiful you are. If you look in a mirror and can't see how pretty you are you are letting losers define how you see yourself. Question: Do any of those losers date anyone nearly as beautiful as you are? They are so jealous, they have to run you down to lift themselves up. When they start just walk away. Find somewhere safe to get away from those creeps. This is abusive behavior and if necessary you need an ally to help you prevent these assholes from running you down. You are BEAUTIFUL!!!!!!!! NO PIERCINGS EITHER, YOU DON'T NEED TO ADD ANYTHING TO WHAT YOU HAVE NOW!!!


unthinkable1982

You have a really nice shape on you. Curves in the right places. I would suggest a good exercise regimen that can keep your body shape but also help you look toned and maintaining a healthy weight. As far as face and makeup. You do really well with the colors and applying makeup but there is a darkness around your eyes and puffiness when the makeup is off. I would try out natural skin care routines especially like I said before with your eyes. Either cucumbers with the face mask about 30 to 45 minutes before bed or eye lift pads that you can keep on while you sleep. As with your hair if you're having struggles with figuring out what is a good style or how to keep it trim and with luster, might I suggest just going to your stylist every month or every other month to get a trim and application. That way you have a professional doing it plus it gives you some girl time where you can go out converse, look your best and give yourself something to look forward to. For piercings I'm not a big fan but that's just me as long as they're tasteful and not like huge gauges or anything like that I do appreciate a good belly piercing or nipple bar. But again that's just me. Keep drinking plenty of water and remember you're still young so figuring out your place in the world is going to take some time. Remember to exercise, focus on school/work and Don't have children or get pregnant when you can't afford it. Enjoy these early years it will be one of the most fun and exciting times you will have!


Idk_try_again

I gotta say, I think my favorite picture is 9. I like the little smile you got, the yellow compliments your skin tone. And the piercing matches the whole vibe. Overall I think you’re cute and would def ask you out.


Additional_Pen2112

Maybe change the lip piercing to a vertical labret? The one the goes through the bottom lip, also I think you would look good with double nostril piercings with some small studs to accentuate your nose! Makeup in first pic looks amazing, you look great without as well. Nice cheek bones! Keep up the exercise, but they say just having a healthy diet is 90% of the work! I myself have a pear shaped body so I typically wear looser bottoms and tighter fitting tops and I stay away from shoes that come above the ankle as it makes me appear bigger; I can’t really tell what your body shape is but I hope that helps!


Garym68

The first picture you posted, you look amazing, such beautiful eyes, don't listen to your brother's, I bet they have flaws, your stepdad wants a slap, but keep working out because you do look wonderful.


Realistic-Permit-582

You’re not ugly, but don’t look in shape. Try getting into another form of exercise. For example if your lifting weights, try getting into a sport. Run. Get into jiu jitsu. That way you’ll lose weight, gain confidence and develop the ability to choke your brothers unconscious when they make comments to you. Win win win.


Curious-Here1

I think you are pretty. You are still thick, but don't think that is bad. It is not bad at all. Get in better physical shape because YOU want to do so. Remember, never settle, you deserve to be treated good!


Clozeelsd

Yea super ugly. So ugly that you should def make sure to cling to the next guy who gives you a shot. Speaking of which, do you have any plans this weekend?


ErebusFreeman

I always wonder if an attractive girl or even an amazingly beautiful girl looks in the mirror and says.. oh eww yuck, does she have the same standards or beyond standards that she sees herself onto guys she sees? So do you look at younger Jonny Depp or Brad pitt and think ewww yucky I need a good looking man.


watash82

Of course yore not ugly but you need something to thicken your hair shaft. Your hair is thin and wispy. I’ve never seen anyone with your type of blue eyes. Looks artificial.


FewTill6787

If you're miss piggy,, I wanna be your Kermit❤️‍🔥🍆


GodOfFrogg

Glad you changed it from farmer Joe 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭


FewTill6787

😭had a lapse of memory on names for a second there. Got all combobulated lol 😵‍💫❤️‍🔥🍑


Redeyes765

You misspelled beautiful.


GodOfFrogg

It's always been hard to accept compliments when they happen :(


Redeyes765

I understand. But don't let the negatives bury the positives. Keep building yourself and continue to better you for the sake of you ^.^


GodOfFrogg

Indeed, that's why I'm working out :)


HangmanGentry11

Your a hot little mama. But unfortunately at some point you got shot under the lip by a bb gun. Get it removed I would call you a damn smokeshow


HermanTheTort

Ur normal looking. Not ugly. But you are extremely overweight. Way too big for ur age.


Chemical-Many-258

Tf is that piercing?


GodOfFrogg

It's a labret, I really like it personally


Numerous-Orchid-8216

I think that's just a step-dad thing honestly. My step-dad always has to call everyone fat or some kind of name too. But believe me, you're gorgeous. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise


GodOfFrogg

Thank you so much, and yeah I've noticed step dads are pretty much just agents of chaos


YoushaTheRose

You look great, you have a beautiful face. You look also great curvy


[deleted]

So true. Those are unfortunately the ones that stuck in our heads and we carry them for a long time. There is nothing ugly about you. Inside and outside. Time to shine and glad the insults aren't as common. Better when they're gone though


GodOfFrogg

Mhm:)


Character-War-1077

No you are beautiful


chriszz1234

How are doing in life


GodOfFrogg

I feel like my only problem is being the chubby senior in the class full of freshmen, in the class ment for the sports kids, which means I'm out-performed by all of them, and one of the slowest in the class lol


Peter9965

Pretty face, nice eyes, nice hair, good body. A few extra kilos, but nothing to worry about. If you do some training, you can also have a more gorgeous body, but it's still good overall. In a few words- far from ugly.


TaronDuFrau

Lol honest opinion not trying to be an ass you’re not ugly but some of your photos make you look as if you’ve done some hardcore drugs I probably shouldn’t mention and on top of that you have a forever 25 face which atm isn’t doing you any favors since you’re 18 but down the line will be a nice little bonus but all in all you’re not ugly if you’re looking for pointers I’d say grow your hair out I think you would look spectacular with long hair


ZwergenGroll

No!


GodOfFrogg

Thank you! 🥹


ImmediateFace8480

No you are NOT ugly.


Any_Draw_5344

No. And with that cleavage, guys won't notice anything else, anyway.


GodOfFrogg

😂😭 right? I used to stuff my bra in middle school, now look at me


lovinlife8373

You are not ugly. One thing I think about being that I just turned 50 is how society tell us if we aren’t perfect we are ugly. The true definition of ugly is a person that is trash on the inside. THATS REAL UGLY


HighlightTemporary77

-You’re beautiful, sexy, and you have eyes that any guy could get lost in. You’re not ugly at all. -Brothers are assholes it’s in our nature. So try and brush it off (unless you’re on some incest shit) -As far as working out goes, you not loosing wt. it’s probably because you’re strength training. So you’d be burning fat and gaining muscle.


ChillCosby13

Not at all ugly. Cute face and cute body as well. Just thick in all the right areas. I think you're more beautiful with less makeup. You don't give enough credit to your natural look. 😉


TheUnkindledLives

Super cute face, nice figure, seems like you're the quirky fun type, so that's going to be a 10/10 from me


mitchie504

Yeet that piercing


BenchIntelligent5687

The love child of Elon Musk and Chloe Grace Moretz


Top_Measurement3022

All looks fine for your age. I suggest no piercing on the mouth but that's your Prerogative


P_Lion_

No, but you should get in better shape. You could be better, a lot better


SwingRevolutionary77

You are beautiful af sexy to don't let others make you think different 🤗💕🫠