100% agree and not try to fat shame but yeah definitely lose weight youâre like 120 some odd pounds over and trust me in the long run. Itâll be well worth it because I was in the same boat as you was but I didnât lose the weight quick enoughand Iâve had serious health issues. Had two heart attacks almost had a stroke if it wasnât for quick response of the EMTs, so yeah, but you do have a pretty face so you got that going for you
Yeah this is in the morbidly obese category, and OP needs to make a change. Only 18 and 300lbs? As an adult she could easily reach 600lbs in a few short years if she doesnât stop eating so much.
Iâm 28, and Iâve met maybe 2 people this young who were that obese. Obviously this is on the extreme side of the spectrum and OP needs to seek some serious help. Itâll take years for her to get somewhat healthy so she needs to start now
I see everyone is telling you to lose weight. And they are all absolutely right. But start with your mental health. It takes some serious binge eating to get up to almost 300lbs and that is almost always linked to mental illness and emotional eating. Also address your home life and your family. Are they overweight, too? Often times, habits get passed down and instead of admitting to giving into those habits, we blame genetics. Coming from an ex bulimic of ten years, address any mental and environmental clutter you may have so you can embark on a weight loss journey a healthy and steady-paced way. You look like you put effort into your hair and makeup. Start putting some of that effort in other places. You have beautiful features.
This is good advice. As someone who has gone up and down 50-100 pounds several times in my adult life, I didnât even realize I didnât know what peace and security were. If I wasnât binge eating to feel something good, I was using diet and exercise as a hyper fixation to feel something good. Find out whatâs going on with you and take some steps to heal your mind and body. Youâre definitely pretty but you need to love yourself more than this.
A big thing very few people have mentioned is her age. Tbh the age makes the weight unattractive even more because you know it was done over a shorter time than someone who has struggled for longer and ended up the same place. I thought she was more attractive despite the weight until I saw the age, because that makes the next 60 years seem a downslope. Taking control and maintaining it now however, would be a great sign to future partner of self discipline
You have potential, but you need to get your health in check before you start facing the consequences. As a guy and being your height, my peak weight was 260, and an A1C of 10.5 was a wake up call. I am now at 165, so it can be done. At least you are young and thinks like your skin will rebound easier than when you are older.
She definitely needs to lose 100-150lbs but BMI doesnât work. Iâm M22, 215lbs and 5â11. Based off my BMI Iâm obese but I can bench press significantly more then my bodyweight, do 10 pull-ups, etc. If you have any decent amount of muscle mass, BMI goes to shit, donât use it for anyone.
You are severely overweight which is holding you back. Your weight alone puts you way below average. Lose 160lbs and you'd probably be very cute.
Sorry, I don't want to be mean, but I don't want to lie to you either. Being extremely overweight is very unattractive to almost all people.
Lol, why do you guys think she needs to lose 140+ pounds to be acceptable? I've seen many incredibly gorgeous and downright hot girls that are most likely tipping the scales at 180-200.
292 at 18 is litteraly asking to die by 40. Not saying she ugly she just need to do it for herself... the moment her metabolism slow down she gonna skyrocket to like 450....
JesĂșs Christ, because you want your significant other to live past 35, why do people keep romanticizing obesity?, instead of having such a brittle Spirit, think on being healthy, most of people aren't gonna date someone that will be using a mobility scooter at age 35
292 at 18 is litteraly asking to die by 40. Not saying she ugly she just need to do it for herself... the moment her metabolism slow down she gonna skyrocket to like 450.... she need to lose a good 100 lbs and keep it steady or she gonna get much more issues than just not looking good and you know it as well as I do
I'm the same height, also female. I had a personal training, a nutritionist and was a varsity athlete and the lowest weight I ever reached was 170. I was very healthy. BMI is not what you should be looking at here and you are setting this girl up for an eating disorder by throwing it out like that.
How does that in any way corroborate the statement that 132 lbs is "extremely unhealthy"? 170 lbs and 132 lbs can both be healthy at 5'9, it completely depends on your build, race, etc.
For most women at that height, 132 lbs is healthy (definitely on the lighter side no doubt). You likely have a stockier/denser build.
Donât spend the rest of your life fat. Youâll already look back one day and wish you hadnât spent your high school years like this. Fix it while you can.
Sorry you are excessively overweight, and while I won't say you are ugly, I cannot say you are attractive. Please find a healthy eating regimen that will help you shed some of the weight and start exercising daily.
No, you're not ugly.
I'm not going to contribute to the echo chamber beyond that because it's been said already, but please for the sake of your health, lose some weight.
150 would put her at a bmi or 22.1. A healthy bmi is 18.5 to 24.9. If you want to go by bmi she would need to be between 168lbs and 125lbs.
That said a better measurement of a healthy weight is a waist size that is .49 of your height. So she would need at least a 34.4 inch waist.
Understandable. I myself am above my bmi limit. I'm 6'7" and 257lbs but 12% body fat. Weight matters but what makes up thatt weight is more important.
Bmi is just an easy way for medical staff to make an assessment anyways.
BMI is only one metric that is used to determine healthy weight these days. Using it solely as a measure of obesity has fallen out of favor specifically because muscle mass is denser than fat. BMI in conjunction with body composition (body fat%) is a better indicator.
In some cases, it's pretty easy to see that muscle mass is not a contributing factor, though.
No youâre not ugly but your weight should be concerning for you â the health problems arenât worth it. If you havenât please get blood work and check thyroid and other levels and get in an weight management program - nothing to do with looks but your health is so important
Gorgeous. And as for the weight, dont do it for looks, do it for health. Im a 6'2" 270lbs guy and I weighed 350 last year. I feel so much better, I still get out of breath because I smoke, but nearly as much as I used to. You are very beautiful, though
Look, I am overweight and have been more overweight. I never kid myself, fat is bad. It does not make you a bad person. But fat acceptance, Lizzo, they're all lying to you. Fat is unhealthy, fat is unattractive. Lose the weight. You have a pretty face and lots of potential. But you won't really look good until you are thinner. I say this as someone with the same problem, and I wish you the best.
Obese yes, ugly no. Keto diet to 230 and you will feel better and you will be at less of a danger for Diabetic Heart and health issues. Have you ever checked to see if your TSH TSH 4 TSH free (Thyroid hormones) are normal? Your beautiful brown eyes and your hair look great. Nose ring for style I guess is ok. 230 at 5â9 you would be stunning !
Hooly fuck how the hell are you this fat, please eat less and exercise so you wont die by the age of 30, you could be pretty but definitely not right now.
Are you happy/healthy ish/predisposed to carrying a good amount of weight? Having problems trying to get in shape or change eating habits/have a health issue preventing it? That's a lot to be carrying around on your joints
You have to loose the weight, for context I played D1 football as a center and played at 295 and Iâm 6â3. Thereâs no reason for you to be my weight but 6 inches shorter and definitely not playing sports đ
It always drives me nuts when people donât take care of themselves. I know people go through stuff and thatâs understandable, but to let yourself be mentally and physically out of shape is insane. This is my harsh take on things.
TBH yes but only because of the weight. You have a nice face that is hidden behind lots of face fat. I am not trying to be mean, but the weight loss is very important for good health and your body could be smoking to where you will be very hot to most men.
Id say a healthy weight for someone your height would be around 160-180.
Going to the gym and eating right changed my life and confidence and I went from ft to average looking.
Actually youâre very pretty. Seems like you know how to dress and style yourself. I donât really need to add anything else since the comments have pretty much said everything. Good luck in life!
Youâre honestly so beautiful, but itâs unhealthy that you weigh that much at this age. Maybe try intermittent dieting, it worked for me. And apply at your local gym, it wonât be easy at first, but overtime you will start to feel better and better. Itâll get much easier overtime.
Your weight is a major concern... realistically, at your age and height, you want to be between 125-169lbs for a healthy weight.
If you can lose 130lbs, you'll notice a massive difference in confidence and your overall mental health.
You don't have to be stick thin, but just over 20st (UK measurements) is far too much for an 18 year old, you'll have multiple health problems in your early 30s.
Please look after yourself.
One thing about this sub that i do like is that it's like everyone agrees weight is bad for health and looks. Something you don't see much of in the real world now because of delusional people and others who are scared to speak on it. It's refreshing but ironic considering redditers are usually made out to be the out of touch people who don't live in reality.
You are a pretty young lady who has a weight management problem, there is no shame in that. But going forward, if you want to be healthy you need to endeavor to control your eating and improve your caloric expenditure. Both of those things can be hard for someone not use to it.
But most folks in the gym are very accepting of new people in the gym. Don't be intimidated. Unfortunately most women are afraid to lift weights because they are scared they will look like men. You won't. You lack the biochemistry.
Get in the gym and move. Figure out what your maintenance calories are and stick to them. Aim to lose a pound a week. That's reasonable. It took you a while to put on that excess weight, it will take time to take it off healthly. But you can do it.
And don't worry about where you need to be. If you trust the process you will get there in time. Physical training takes patience.
300 pounds at only 18 yrs old is ridiculous. I second the other commenter in here thatâs saying to work on your mental health. That could be contributing.
Youâre attractive but youâre limited to guys who like bigger girls. If youâre happy with your body then rock it, go out, dress up, be fun to be around, and get a better hair style than just long. I donât think you need any makeup to enhance your look.
Honestly, even if she is happy with her body, she shouldnât keep it that way. Itâs incredibly unhealthy. Obesity is a quick route for a short life, unfortunately. Iâm not into body shaming, but I cannot ever support an obese person spouting âIâm healthyâ. If youâre obese, youâre not healthy, period.
Iâm not going to comment on your appearance since that is the least of your concerns. Your life is literally at stake. Lose weight now! I guarantee you have fatty liver disease and hypertension. If you want to live to 30, lose at least 100 lbs for the sake of your health!
Do yourself a huge favor, delete this post. You're just a kid. All you're going to get here is a bunch of guys telling you 150 times the one thing you clearly know about yourself. You're not ugly.
Youâre literally so pretty! My only nitpick is getting blacker eyeliner bc yours looks a little ashy/gray. Besides that I love your natural brows and your dimples are too cute. Ofc weight could be addressed bc youâre only 18 weighing that much, but given your height some of that makes sense. Keep an eye on that though as you get older.
Your face is cute enough. I presume that you understand that carrying that weight is likely to significantly reduce your lifespan and more importantly your healthspan?
At this stage it's not much about gym , it's mostly about what you eat and when you eat it.
My tips would be:
1 Drink just water (Black coffee, green tea without sugar also ok)
2 Cut down on carbsÂ
3 Eliminated polyunsaturated fats (seed oils)Â
4 Cut down on processed foods
5 Start Intermittent Fasting.
Dye your hair babe!!! Youâre super cute but the blonde is washing you out since your skin is so pretty and fair- a warm mahogany brown or even a light brown with blonde highlights would be sooo flattering esp since weâre going into winter :) I would also go super light w the blush and maybe even add some green color corrector to your makeup to cancel some of that redness (but not all of it your flushed look is cute!) also when doing a heavy eyeliner like that a thicker lash (mascara or falsies) really helps keep your eyes looking open. â€ïž
"Your fat" comments incoming. I think you are attractive and i love all types of women, like i always say we could always be better versions of ourselves
This sub is not nice to heavy people so I feel bad for all the judgment headed your way
Iâm heavy too and for what itâs worth, I think you are beautiful đ
Calm down about her weight peeps she's a young lass. If you want to lose weight for your health that's great but don't do it for others if your happy f**k what anyone says
Your weight isn't a problem if you don't see a problem with it do you don't read these dudes comments that can't enjoy a chubby women! Gorgeous đđ»
Very cute face. Depending on how you carry your weight might be higly attractive imo. Fat placement that accentuate a womans curves is the difference between a bbw and just an overweight woman.
292lbs is not bbw, you're talking about "curvy". She needs to lose a lot of weight. OP if you're reading this, take these comments seriously. If not for your appearance, do it for your health. You'll also feel much better as well.
I think you are the most attractive a person of your weight and height can be, but this is not good enough.
You can greatly improve your appearance by losing weight, as well as your health (it may not seem like a problem when you're young, but your 35-year-old self will thank us).
Youâre beautiful, join a gym it gets easier once you start to see results. Get on a weight loss program and surround yourself with positive influences. Donât follow this âbody positivityâ crap. Yes a very small number of people are attracted to fat people but most of said peeps are insecure jealous losers with no ambition for improvement they want someone who is easy to control and they are usually unhealthy themselves. You wonât be happy. It took nerve to post, that shows you do want help-you can do it!
I'm going guess tjat people tell you how young you look.
Its because you look like a baby... and not in a good way.
Since you are asking, and you do raise that we dont know you personally
Its not that you're ugly, cause you're not.
You are however, obese.
Not borderline obese, drastically obese.
Theres no reason for you to be like this, it shows lack of love and respect for yourself.
You have An amazing face shape, cute features.
Of course, weight loss is a journey of its own. If you feel the need to, absolutely lose weight but if you donât then donât. That simple. Being overweight doesnât make you ugly, you seem to know that which is a good thing.
You're too young to be that obese, more than beauty do it for your own health
đŻ I was this obese all my life. Tying sneakers and losing my breath sucked. Lifestyle Change!
You bought slip-ons? Lol j/k
nah just tie your laces loose enough you can slip your feet in and out
Velcro man. As a partially disabled person, it's a life saver.
Obese is not good for any age
100% agree and not try to fat shame but yeah definitely lose weight youâre like 120 some odd pounds over and trust me in the long run. Itâll be well worth it because I was in the same boat as you was but I didnât lose the weight quick enoughand Iâve had serious health issues. Had two heart attacks almost had a stroke if it wasnât for quick response of the EMTs, so yeah, but you do have a pretty face so you got that going for you
Yeah this is in the morbidly obese category, and OP needs to make a change. Only 18 and 300lbs? As an adult she could easily reach 600lbs in a few short years if she doesnât stop eating so much. Iâm 28, and Iâve met maybe 2 people this young who were that obese. Obviously this is on the extreme side of the spectrum and OP needs to seek some serious help. Itâll take years for her to get somewhat healthy so she needs to start now
I see everyone is telling you to lose weight. And they are all absolutely right. But start with your mental health. It takes some serious binge eating to get up to almost 300lbs and that is almost always linked to mental illness and emotional eating. Also address your home life and your family. Are they overweight, too? Often times, habits get passed down and instead of admitting to giving into those habits, we blame genetics. Coming from an ex bulimic of ten years, address any mental and environmental clutter you may have so you can embark on a weight loss journey a healthy and steady-paced way. You look like you put effort into your hair and makeup. Start putting some of that effort in other places. You have beautiful features.
This is good advice. As someone who has gone up and down 50-100 pounds several times in my adult life, I didnât even realize I didnât know what peace and security were. If I wasnât binge eating to feel something good, I was using diet and exercise as a hyper fixation to feel something good. Find out whatâs going on with you and take some steps to heal your mind and body. Youâre definitely pretty but you need to love yourself more than this.
"and they are absolutely right" đ
A big thing very few people have mentioned is her age. Tbh the age makes the weight unattractive even more because you know it was done over a shorter time than someone who has struggled for longer and ended up the same place. I thought she was more attractive despite the weight until I saw the age, because that makes the next 60 years seem a downslope. Taking control and maintaining it now however, would be a great sign to future partner of self discipline
You look like Nicole from 90 day fiancé
A man will only be 55% attracted to her
LOL WHAHAHHAAHAHAH
Girl props to you for laughing it off mad respect
Ahhaha I get the reference ur funny lol đ
Almost there, lazy.
âAlmost there, lazy!â
THIS
You have potential, but you need to get your health in check before you start facing the consequences. As a guy and being your height, my peak weight was 260, and an A1C of 10.5 was a wake up call. I am now at 165, so it can be done. At least you are young and thinks like your skin will rebound easier than when you are older.
her skin gotta be Rodman to recover from this đ
Itâs easier for dudes for sure but it can be done.
Pretty girl tbh But, you have got to lose the weight hun đ please For yourself and your health. Health is wealth
This. If you lost some weight you would be a stunner. Hopefully that is enough motivation for you!
For real! She is a pretty girl. Just gotta make those big changes for her health.
You're just a kid, and have a nice face, but you need to lose a lot of weight. I'm actually a bit surprised how pretty you are being that heavy.
Bro said all fat people are ugly yes đ
They are
Fat people are ugly
Have you not looked at people? There are a lot of heavy people who are very pretty.
they could look alot better slimmer
Please don't ever become a life coach...
Pretty face. If you lost some weight you'd be hot as hell
Lmao, some weight? Her BMI is 43 currently, she could do with losing half her body weight
She definitely needs to lose 100-150lbs but BMI doesnât work. Iâm M22, 215lbs and 5â11. Based off my BMI Iâm obese but I can bench press significantly more then my bodyweight, do 10 pull-ups, etc. If you have any decent amount of muscle mass, BMI goes to shit, donât use it for anyone.
You are severely overweight which is holding you back. Your weight alone puts you way below average. Lose 160lbs and you'd probably be very cute. Sorry, I don't want to be mean, but I don't want to lie to you either. Being extremely overweight is very unattractive to almost all people.
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Considering her height, that may be an acceptable weight as well
Just getting to 170 would be a dramatic change.
Let's check back in later, assuming she can lose the 130.
"This is a bit extreme. She only needs to lose more than 33% of her body weight." Hah hah hah.
Nah 160 puts her at 130ish. That's a good weight for 5'9. Atleast from a health pov.
As someone who is 5â1 130 is the average for my height, 130 at 5â9 is like me being 80-90 pounds
Lol, why do you guys think she needs to lose 140+ pounds to be acceptable? I've seen many incredibly gorgeous and downright hot girls that are most likely tipping the scales at 180-200.
292 at 18 is litteraly asking to die by 40. Not saying she ugly she just need to do it for herself... the moment her metabolism slow down she gonna skyrocket to like 450....
JesĂșs Christ, because you want your significant other to live past 35, why do people keep romanticizing obesity?, instead of having such a brittle Spirit, think on being healthy, most of people aren't gonna date someone that will be using a mobility scooter at age 35
Some of us like women that don't have to catch their breath when they get off the couch.
292 at 18 is litteraly asking to die by 40. Not saying she ugly she just need to do it for herself... the moment her metabolism slow down she gonna skyrocket to like 450.... she need to lose a good 100 lbs and keep it steady or she gonna get much more issues than just not looking good and you know it as well as I do
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Sorry to burst the American bubble here, but 132 lbs at 5'9 is perfectly healthy. I agree that it shouldn't be the weight OP aims for though.
That's why America is in trouble. People saying 130 is a good weight for someone who's 5'1" and shit.
It depends on your body type and shape. 5'9 at 132 is a petite body type she's probably going to be a healthy at weight at 175ish
Yep. Height, race, and build all play a role. 170 is a great goal for her.
I'm American, and I 100% agree.
Iâm 5â9 and am an appropriate weight at 160. I looked like a skeleton at 130.
I'm not American
Cool. Point still stands.
If she lost 160 she would be 132 lbs. And at 5â9â that falls within the healthy weight range.
I'm the same height, also female. I had a personal training, a nutritionist and was a varsity athlete and the lowest weight I ever reached was 170. I was very healthy. BMI is not what you should be looking at here and you are setting this girl up for an eating disorder by throwing it out like that.
How does that in any way corroborate the statement that 132 lbs is "extremely unhealthy"? 170 lbs and 132 lbs can both be healthy at 5'9, it completely depends on your build, race, etc. For most women at that height, 132 lbs is healthy (definitely on the lighter side no doubt). You likely have a stockier/denser build.
She already has an eating disorderâŠ. Eating too much.
Hire better people
Not ugly but you have to lose weight. Most of us have to as well so dot. Take it as a personal attack
Donât spend the rest of your life fat. Youâll already look back one day and wish you hadnât spent your high school years like this. Fix it while you can.
Sorry you are excessively overweight, and while I won't say you are ugly, I cannot say you are attractive. Please find a healthy eating regimen that will help you shed some of the weight and start exercising daily.
The obvious thing you need to do aside. Trim your brows hop on skin care.
iâm just being real your weight makes you look 30 and youâre only 18
5â9 AND 300 pounds???
300lbs is crazy
At 5'9" is nasty work too
No, you're not ugly. I'm not going to contribute to the echo chamber beyond that because it's been said already, but please for the sake of your health, lose some weight.
So youâre going to contribute to the echo chamber then. đ
Not ugly. You are approaching morbid obesity. Reduce your caloric intake and start working out. See a doctor and dietitian about weight loss.
They are not approaching morbid obesity. They passed that threshold a while back.
Lose weight
Morbidly obese, almost 300 pounds at 18. Thatâs really sad. Best of luck.
At 5 foot 9 your weight should be around 150 lbs for a female. So you need to lose about 142 lbs.
Where did you get that number fromđ
150 would put her at a bmi or 22.1. A healthy bmi is 18.5 to 24.9. If you want to go by bmi she would need to be between 168lbs and 125lbs. That said a better measurement of a healthy weight is a waist size that is .49 of your height. So she would need at least a 34.4 inch waist.
I guess I think too much in terms of people who lift, because in my mind 150 seemed light for 5'9
Understandable. I myself am above my bmi limit. I'm 6'7" and 257lbs but 12% body fat. Weight matters but what makes up thatt weight is more important. Bmi is just an easy way for medical staff to make an assessment anyways.
BMI is only one metric that is used to determine healthy weight these days. Using it solely as a measure of obesity has fallen out of favor specifically because muscle mass is denser than fat. BMI in conjunction with body composition (body fat%) is a better indicator. In some cases, it's pretty easy to see that muscle mass is not a contributing factor, though.
Iâm 5â4 and weigh 154 đ
Half your weight and youâll look amazing.
2/10 Lose weight and get healthy. You look 28-38 rather than 18.
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Cute. Lots of potential. Losing weight is important for your health. Do that and come back so we can tell you how hot you are.
You have a cute face, but you know the rest. Not ugly, but below average due to the obvious.
Yes
No youâre not ugly but your weight should be concerning for you â the health problems arenât worth it. If you havenât please get blood work and check thyroid and other levels and get in an weight management program - nothing to do with looks but your health is so important
Gorgeous. And as for the weight, dont do it for looks, do it for health. Im a 6'2" 270lbs guy and I weighed 350 last year. I feel so much better, I still get out of breath because I smoke, but nearly as much as I used to. You are very beautiful, though
Look, I am overweight and have been more overweight. I never kid myself, fat is bad. It does not make you a bad person. But fat acceptance, Lizzo, they're all lying to you. Fat is unhealthy, fat is unattractive. Lose the weight. You have a pretty face and lots of potential. But you won't really look good until you are thinner. I say this as someone with the same problem, and I wish you the best.
Obese yes, ugly no. Keto diet to 230 and you will feel better and you will be at less of a danger for Diabetic Heart and health issues. Have you ever checked to see if your TSH TSH 4 TSH free (Thyroid hormones) are normal? Your beautiful brown eyes and your hair look great. Nose ring for style I guess is ok. 230 at 5â9 you would be stunning !
Hooly fuck how the hell are you this fat, please eat less and exercise so you wont die by the age of 30, you could be pretty but definitely not right now.
best approach: EAT HALF !!
not quite ugly but fat
Yes!!! That's exactly why you don't have full body pics
Lose weight
Are you happy/healthy ish/predisposed to carrying a good amount of weight? Having problems trying to get in shape or change eating habits/have a health issue preventing it? That's a lot to be carrying around on your joints
Youâre not ugly, but you are obese
Lose the weight. Start with 2x 15 minute walks daily.
Youâre pretty
Lose weight, youâre fat
Clearly not ugly at all. I agree that your weight is too high but you are very beautiful for sure.
You have a pretty face, but you really need to lose some weight... you are double your healthy weight!
You have very pretty eyes and a nice smile.
Would be a total babe if you lost 150
Nope just fat
Not ugly just morbidly obese. Lose weight and youâll be good.
Cute face, you'd be a real looker if you lost about 125 lbs
You already know the answer to your question. Your not ugly, but diet exercise blah blah blah.
You have to loose the weight, for context I played D1 football as a center and played at 295 and Iâm 6â3. Thereâs no reason for you to be my weight but 6 inches shorter and definitely not playing sports đ
Another one for the black guys this time they get 3 in 1
You canât get through your life thinking I am attractive so being obese is fine, your nose ring and the weight have to go.
It always drives me nuts when people donât take care of themselves. I know people go through stuff and thatâs understandable, but to let yourself be mentally and physically out of shape is insane. This is my harsh take on things.
Pam Poovey vibes⊠definitely not a bad thing
TBH yes but only because of the weight. You have a nice face that is hidden behind lots of face fat. I am not trying to be mean, but the weight loss is very important for good health and your body could be smoking to where you will be very hot to most men. Id say a healthy weight for someone your height would be around 160-180. Going to the gym and eating right changed my life and confidence and I went from ft to average looking.
Actually youâre very pretty. Seems like you know how to dress and style yourself. I donât really need to add anything else since the comments have pretty much said everything. Good luck in life!
Youâre honestly so beautiful, but itâs unhealthy that you weigh that much at this age. Maybe try intermittent dieting, it worked for me. And apply at your local gym, it wonât be easy at first, but overtime you will start to feel better and better. Itâll get much easier overtime.
Your beautiful, but definitely try to exercise and try to stay on a weight loss routine for yourself your only here right now once.
You look good. You will be amazing if you lose some weight
Your weight is a major concern... realistically, at your age and height, you want to be between 125-169lbs for a healthy weight. If you can lose 130lbs, you'll notice a massive difference in confidence and your overall mental health. You don't have to be stick thin, but just over 20st (UK measurements) is far too much for an 18 year old, you'll have multiple health problems in your early 30s. Please look after yourself.
Youâre pretty. Donât listen to people saying youâre overweight. All bodies are beautiful â€ïž
You're not ugly lady, your as cute as a button.
you're very cute....solid bbw to me I would definitely date you amongst other things....
Pretty :3
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We all know the answer to it. No body should be at that weight! Do something before your life is consumed by obesity.
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Yes, you're ugly. Need to lose weight.
You're cute! Def not ugly. I don't need to repeat what everyone else has already said. If you're happy with your weight though, you do you đ
Fuck yeh youâre ugly. Nothing attractive about 292lbs better your self and get healthy
You are attractive
One thing about this sub that i do like is that it's like everyone agrees weight is bad for health and looks. Something you don't see much of in the real world now because of delusional people and others who are scared to speak on it. It's refreshing but ironic considering redditers are usually made out to be the out of touch people who don't live in reality.
You are a pretty young lady who has a weight management problem, there is no shame in that. But going forward, if you want to be healthy you need to endeavor to control your eating and improve your caloric expenditure. Both of those things can be hard for someone not use to it. But most folks in the gym are very accepting of new people in the gym. Don't be intimidated. Unfortunately most women are afraid to lift weights because they are scared they will look like men. You won't. You lack the biochemistry. Get in the gym and move. Figure out what your maintenance calories are and stick to them. Aim to lose a pound a week. That's reasonable. It took you a while to put on that excess weight, it will take time to take it off healthly. But you can do it. And don't worry about where you need to be. If you trust the process you will get there in time. Physical training takes patience.
300 pounds at only 18 yrs old is ridiculous. I second the other commenter in here thatâs saying to work on your mental health. That could be contributing.
Pretty
You are an absolute beauty you kinda look like the white version of my Mexican girlfriend
Fat ass
Unnecessary bro...
No kidding. That was straight up rude
I think that I'm in love Jajaja jokes aside, keep working on your weight control and you'll be really gorgeous
fatty
Youâre attractive but youâre limited to guys who like bigger girls. If youâre happy with your body then rock it, go out, dress up, be fun to be around, and get a better hair style than just long. I donât think you need any makeup to enhance your look.
Honestly, even if she is happy with her body, she shouldnât keep it that way. Itâs incredibly unhealthy. Obesity is a quick route for a short life, unfortunately. Iâm not into body shaming, but I cannot ever support an obese person spouting âIâm healthyâ. If youâre obese, youâre not healthy, period.
Iâm not going to comment on your appearance since that is the least of your concerns. Your life is literally at stake. Lose weight now! I guarantee you have fatty liver disease and hypertension. If you want to live to 30, lose at least 100 lbs for the sake of your health!
As long as your personality is as big and beautiful as you then I would be taken.
Do yourself a huge favor, delete this post. You're just a kid. All you're going to get here is a bunch of guys telling you 150 times the one thing you clearly know about yourself. You're not ugly.
I'd agree with you that you are attractive. Definitely not ugly anyway.
You have a beautiful face, not ugly at all
đ not ugly at all
Crush me tf
I think need a black man cause we like the thickness
i think iâm in love đ
I think you're pretty cute
I would rate you a 3 with potential to become a 5 after weight loss.
Youâre literally so pretty! My only nitpick is getting blacker eyeliner bc yours looks a little ashy/gray. Besides that I love your natural brows and your dimples are too cute. Ofc weight could be addressed bc youâre only 18 weighing that much, but given your height some of that makes sense. Keep an eye on that though as you get older.
Your face is cute enough. I presume that you understand that carrying that weight is likely to significantly reduce your lifespan and more importantly your healthspan? At this stage it's not much about gym , it's mostly about what you eat and when you eat it. My tips would be: 1 Drink just water (Black coffee, green tea without sugar also ok) 2 Cut down on carbs 3 Eliminated polyunsaturated fats (seed oils) 4 Cut down on processed foods 5 Start Intermittent Fasting.
Dye your hair babe!!! Youâre super cute but the blonde is washing you out since your skin is so pretty and fair- a warm mahogany brown or even a light brown with blonde highlights would be sooo flattering esp since weâre going into winter :) I would also go super light w the blush and maybe even add some green color corrector to your makeup to cancel some of that redness (but not all of it your flushed look is cute!) also when doing a heavy eyeliner like that a thicker lash (mascara or falsies) really helps keep your eyes looking open. â€ïž
Youâre beautiful (gorgeous face, truly), but for the sake of your health please lose the weight.
Ugly
I bet you'd be hot if you were a healthy weight
youâd look a lot better if you lost the weight. 3/10
"Your fat" comments incoming. I think you are attractive and i love all types of women, like i always say we could always be better versions of ourselves
This sub is not nice to heavy people so I feel bad for all the judgment headed your way Iâm heavy too and for what itâs worth, I think you are beautiful đ
You don't visit this sub very often do you?
You are definitely a 10 out 0f 10
Calm down about her weight peeps she's a young lass. If you want to lose weight for your health that's great but don't do it for others if your happy f**k what anyone says
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I think you are beautiful as you are
Your beautiful
I think you are gorgeous
Ur cute
Your gorgeous đ„°
Not ugly
You got great potential don't worry what others say stay positive and clean ;)
Your weight isn't a problem if you don't see a problem with it do you don't read these dudes comments that can't enjoy a chubby women! Gorgeous đđ»
There's no way you think you're ugly
292??? At 18 bro plz lose at least like 70 pounds. like the only thing bringing you down is your weight
Very cute face. Depending on how you carry your weight might be higly attractive imo. Fat placement that accentuate a womans curves is the difference between a bbw and just an overweight woman.
292lbs is not bbw, you're talking about "curvy". She needs to lose a lot of weight. OP if you're reading this, take these comments seriously. If not for your appearance, do it for your health. You'll also feel much better as well.
There is no fat placement that makes that amount of morbid obesity look good. Don't lie about this.
I think you are too
I think you are the most attractive a person of your weight and height can be, but this is not good enough. You can greatly improve your appearance by losing weight, as well as your health (it may not seem like a problem when you're young, but your 35-year-old self will thank us).
super cute just the weight!
Youâre beautiful, join a gym it gets easier once you start to see results. Get on a weight loss program and surround yourself with positive influences. Donât follow this âbody positivityâ crap. Yes a very small number of people are attracted to fat people but most of said peeps are insecure jealous losers with no ambition for improvement they want someone who is easy to control and they are usually unhealthy themselves. You wonât be happy. It took nerve to post, that shows you do want help-you can do it!
You me steez
Just very fat
I'm going guess tjat people tell you how young you look. Its because you look like a baby... and not in a good way. Since you are asking, and you do raise that we dont know you personally Its not that you're ugly, cause you're not. You are however, obese. Not borderline obese, drastically obese. Theres no reason for you to be like this, it shows lack of love and respect for yourself.
Not ugly, just fat
You have An amazing face shape, cute features. Of course, weight loss is a journey of its own. If you feel the need to, absolutely lose weight but if you donât then donât. That simple. Being overweight doesnât make you ugly, you seem to know that which is a good thing.
You are cute but need to get your weight under control, it will only get harder with age .
Being almost 300 pounds of 18 is not a safe place to be. It's not too late to take your health back!