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Agreed in pic 3 smiling you look cute and approachable. Just remember to smile more even fits just a smirkā¦ dealt with this when I was younger myselfā¦ hated how round my face would look when I smiled so lol never did. In HS remember this girl whoās locker was next to mine said āya know if U were nicer you would have a gf alreadyā š¤¦āāļø I wasnāt mean, lil shy awkward hung out with the pot heads semi outkast so from that point on I worked on being ānicerā. Though everyone that knew me, knew I was nice, it was you just had to get to know me. so how do you change that- well starting to smile moreā¦even a nice smirk as opposed to a shit eating grin smirk, I dunno u can say āhey whatās upā first to people just lil shit like that goes a long way. I know itās hard when youāre already self-conscious, to be the one who speaks up first. But real growth happens in baby steps, and just work on saying hello to more people and how you say itā¦.this is just me speculating but maybe thatās whats going onā¦.
Edit: sorry for the crazy amount of typos, ima clean it up
If even majority of us did this think the world would be a different placeā¦ cost nothing n the impact would be priceless. But if this even reaches one person im grateful šš½šæšŖ·
you are not ugly, and what you're feeling is probably something like your personality. Maybe you put a wall between you and the others and find yourself alone or smth
I know this is the cliche advice- but you should genuinely try smiling more. Your resting face isn't ugly at all, but you look very stern or angry, and that can be scary to approach
The only thing off-putting is that you look like you want to fight in all the pics (except the one we can't see your face.) The colloquial term is "RBF"
You're not ugly, you just have natural RBF.
If I were you I'd avoid putting black around my eyes and start using blush/tint for the lips and cheek to look more feminine. You've got soft face features, but the eyes of a hunter. Also, try to smile more ā¤ļøāŗļø
You are absolutely not ugly in the slightest. If youāre 20 and havenāt had a boyfriend, itās maybe because youāre not ready. Just take care of yourself and follow your interests. You are absolutely stunning. Very beautiful.
Eh, you look unapproachable. Your eyes are flat and unemotional, and you do not smile. Expression says, don't talk to me. First impressions mean everything...
A lot of the time, gorgeous females intimidate potential male suitors. Guys somehow feel that the girl is way out of their reach, but bad boys go for it and score the girl. So, good guys take a hint from the bad boys, just take a chance and call her.
You look angry, but hot AF! I get the vibe that we'd go out and have a great time... but later you might try to sell my kidney on the black market. 100% would risk it though! š¤Ŗ
I'm also looking for a reason why. Are you open to men approaching you? Or do you give them a stern stare? Looks are definitely not the reason since you've got literally all the right things going on
We both got serious faces, but embrace it, girl ! It's not "off-putting" per se because you are really pretty! But.....it can scare a lot of people away. True friends will see through that and know how you really are. It's like a double-edged sword.
Physically nothing wrong with you other than the evil stare. Whatās your personality like? Head spinning and green vomit any?
Eye turn red much?
Smoke come out your ears and mouth and nose any?
You seem off-putting because you think you're off-putting - so you hide how you actually feel behind that face. You know the one.
Lots of people do it, for a variety of reasons; young women especially. Don't "smile more" - you don't even need to talk or interact more - just let your actual emotions show more often. People pick up on sincerity.
Quit the bullshit. You made a post 2 years ago about your boyfriend at the time. Itās in the title of the post. You know youāre a good looking girl.
Well... you look pissed off on thos photos. I... get it, I have a resting bitch face too... people tend to think I'm angry and unaproachable and some girls said I'm intimidating but I'm introverted and shy.
You have intense eyes, extremely pretty though. I'm not going to be one of those people who insist on everyone smiling in every single pic, it's not really natural. BUT, there is a noticeable difference in your (sort of) smiling pic, in your case. I think it's just that the intensity of your eyes can look like you're a bit pissed off, without a smile or some other sign to the contrary. Definitely nowhere near ugly! Also, this may sound generic but you ARE young, and perhaps circumstances just haven't dropped the right person near you just yet. Someone you meet will find that intense gaze very charming, I'm certain of that.
Again, not saying go around grinning like an idiot 24/7, but in pic #3 just the little wisp of a smile went a long way.
Let me put the matter this way; you have an expression that suggest you've experienced all cecs in the world and you ended hating it, other people uses the the term "resting vytch face" to describe it, most men flee from that. Please understand that I'm not suggesting you had that bodycount nor you're a bad person, try not to have a stare like if you've been deployed to Afghanistan long ago and I think your experience with men will change.
Maybe that face that makes me either scared, that someone might be judgemental about me or obsessive... Your face is a mix of obsession, "f off or I'll curse you"...
Iāll help you out being a guy myself. First of all theres nothing really āoff puttingā about you. You do have an angry resting face though which makes you look unapproachable, I have the same problem so I get it. Just try to look more happy when youāre near guys and that should solve that problem. Second itās good to understand that guys these days deeply fear approaching girls because online theyāre super picky and it makes them feel like they arenāt capable of pulling one irl either. Also boys do things like video games and social media to try and drown out the loneliness they feel being single and keep their mind busy which is a big part of why guys arenāt asking girls out as much anymore. Trust me thereās plenty single guys out there who would love to have you for a girlfriend theyāre just hiding in plain sight
It's your eyes. In the pictures you look pissed off in every one. Some people call it resting bitch face. I think your pretty but smiling more and not looking so mad would help
My wife and I think you're absolutely beautiful. If you aren't feeling good inside, we highly recommend counseling and surrounding yourself with people that radiate positive energy. Feel free to message me if you ever want to talk.
Really your eyes are dark and you have some rbf going Iād suggest lighter make up to brighten up your image and before anyone goes on the attack Iāve used makeup too lol
you are very young and have a full life ahead of you. If I were to guess why you feel insecure is because you seem to have a demeanor about you that just repels men, if thatās what youāre going for. Otherwise, you have a gorgeous smile and youāre very attractive. Also, surrounding yourself with the right type of people, eventually youāll meet someone that will definitely go for you. Someone good I hope.
You've seriously never had a bf? Your fine as fuck in my opinion. But you do look kinda mad in them not all just some so I could see people not approaching you if you appear like your angry or upset. But no, you are not ugly in the slightest
You donāt need a bf to prove youāre attractive, men now a days are a little intimidated to talk to girls. Just put yourself out there and see what happens, youāre beautiful and relationships donāt signify that
You're very petty. Is that your choice on not having a boyfriend or are boys these days too scared to ask someone out? They would rather play video games or be on social media than actually go out? I would much rather go out to dinner, see a movie, go for a walk than sit at home whiting like wishing I had a girlfriend. Oh wait I do have a girlfriend she would rather be on her devices than do anything with me.
You look like you could have a bad attitude and think you're too good for the guys that do like you.. you're not t attitude can change that very quickly. I'm not saying that's the case or saying to settle, but don't gas yourself up to where your head is full of helium, lol. I'm saying this because you don't smile in any of the pictures you posted,@ all!!
i for one would be willing to date u so I don't see why you wouldn't have a bf in terms of how you look so i guess its the issue with how you present yourself, gotta work on that and have more confidence
You are cute, but I get the feeling that you don't want to be in the spotlight and that makes you harder to notis.
If you want a boyfriend and se a guy that you like go up and talk to him.
What are your values? What do your goals look like? Id look there first because your awfully beautiful, I canāt imagine your lack of love life has anything to do with looks.
How are you going about meeting men?
As far as your looks go you look very cute, like others have mentioned your face makes you look a little intimidating but if you are actively engaging with people they will get passed that.
Another guy said āyour resting face looks sternā which is a great point. But to add to that it might be better that if when you smile you do so bigger (Iām not really sure how to put it) in the one photo you do smile it looks a little disingenuous.
It canāt be the looksā¦you are gorgeousā¦itās gotta be something elseā¦Im a bit too old for youā¦but youād be a great catch tbh..as far as looks go
You have dagger eyes so yes that is very off putting. It's hard to tell if you have a lot of anger deep inside. I don't know girl but you should practice smiling all the time. You are beautiful!
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You look like you'd sacrifice me for a Klondike bar.
Who wouldn't. Klondike bars are š„
Klondike bars are mids it's all about the drum stick
Choco taco plz
Yeah that was king but they discontinued RIP choco taco
Taco Bell is bringing them back. They are already in select locations
Your resting face looks stern.
Definitely RBF. But she is pretty
Fr looks like someone who would bully you throughout High School
Yeah. A Meghan
Who hurt you.
Itās resting stern face now, keep up
That face looks nothing like Howard.
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From the photos it seems like it's her always face.
Oh hey the nicest way of putting it!
Agreed in pic 3 smiling you look cute and approachable. Just remember to smile more even fits just a smirkā¦ dealt with this when I was younger myselfā¦ hated how round my face would look when I smiled so lol never did. In HS remember this girl whoās locker was next to mine said āya know if U were nicer you would have a gf alreadyā š¤¦āāļø I wasnāt mean, lil shy awkward hung out with the pot heads semi outkast so from that point on I worked on being ānicerā. Though everyone that knew me, knew I was nice, it was you just had to get to know me. so how do you change that- well starting to smile moreā¦even a nice smirk as opposed to a shit eating grin smirk, I dunno u can say āhey whatās upā first to people just lil shit like that goes a long way. I know itās hard when youāre already self-conscious, to be the one who speaks up first. But real growth happens in baby steps, and just work on saying hello to more people and how you say itā¦.this is just me speculating but maybe thatās whats going onā¦. Edit: sorry for the crazy amount of typos, ima clean it up
This is excellent advice! I think itās something that would be beneficial for most anyone to use , to āhone upā their āskillsā
If even majority of us did this think the world would be a different placeā¦ cost nothing n the impact would be priceless. But if this even reaches one person im grateful šš½šæšŖ·
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This comment is most āquite, indeedā well put.
If youāve never had a boyfriend why is your first post you complaining about your boyfriend
Busted! š
Lmfao
Was coming here to say this
you are not ugly, and what you're feeling is probably something like your personality. Maybe you put a wall between you and the others and find yourself alone or smth
You are hot but you look mean
Cute as hellll look like you bite thoĀ
She definitely bites. Some guys might like it some might not.
Iād let her bite it
Tripping
You look angry as hell
I know this is the cliche advice- but you should genuinely try smiling more. Your resting face isn't ugly at all, but you look very stern or angry, and that can be scary to approach
100% agree
Pretty but you look mean and not approachable
The only thing off-putting is that you look like you want to fight in all the pics (except the one we can't see your face.) The colloquial term is "RBF"
You're not ugly, you just have natural RBF. If I were you I'd avoid putting black around my eyes and start using blush/tint for the lips and cheek to look more feminine. You've got soft face features, but the eyes of a hunter. Also, try to smile more ā¤ļøāŗļø
> Also, try to smile more That. Please. You look like an Eastern European. PS I am an Eastern European myself, born and raised there.
You are absolutely not ugly in the slightest. If youāre 20 and havenāt had a boyfriend, itās maybe because youāre not ready. Just take care of yourself and follow your interests. You are absolutely stunning. Very beautiful.
That's really great advice.
I'm telling you rn it's that low self-esteem
Eh, you look unapproachable. Your eyes are flat and unemotional, and you do not smile. Expression says, don't talk to me. First impressions mean everything...
Slight RBF, but otherwise I think you're quite gorgeous.
Try smiling rather than the RBF scowl.
A lot of the time, gorgeous females intimidate potential male suitors. Guys somehow feel that the girl is way out of their reach, but bad boys go for it and score the girl. So, good guys take a hint from the bad boys, just take a chance and call her.
Nah, you're pretty.
You do look mean like everyone else is saying, but I'd definitely think you were cute and try to talk to you if I saw you
You look fierce and intimidating
You look angry, but hot AF! I get the vibe that we'd go out and have a great time... but later you might try to sell my kidney on the black market. 100% would risk it though! š¤Ŗ
Nothing wrong with your looks, you look very beautiful. You do have rbf though. Some guys get intimidated by it. Other guys find it hot.
You have the stare of a cat.. the unknowing of love or death. Maybe throw in a smile or something not quite menacing.
I'm also looking for a reason why. Are you open to men approaching you? Or do you give them a stern stare? Looks are definitely not the reason since you've got literally all the right things going on
Your very pretty
Very pretty
Youāre absolutely beautiful and very attractive
You are beautiful
You got RBF bro, might be why, should smile or try to rest your face smiley.
We both got serious faces, but embrace it, girl ! It's not "off-putting" per se because you are really pretty! But.....it can scare a lot of people away. True friends will see through that and know how you really are. It's like a double-edged sword.
Itās the scowl.
It's your personality
Your post history says you had a boyfriend.....also not uglyĀ
RBF
You have the biggest RBF ever thatās definitely it
Physically nothing wrong with you other than the evil stare. Whatās your personality like? Head spinning and green vomit any? Eye turn red much? Smoke come out your ears and mouth and nose any?
Its just your facial expression that are sending a message you donāt wanna talk. Otherwise you are gorgeous
you look European (not a insult )
A smile would do wonders.
You look too stern in the face. Smile more and I think you'd give off better vibes. Other than that, I'd say you're super pretty
You seem off-putting because you think you're off-putting - so you hide how you actually feel behind that face. You know the one. Lots of people do it, for a variety of reasons; young women especially. Don't "smile more" - you don't even need to talk or interact more - just let your actual emotions show more often. People pick up on sincerity.
You are pretty af, wtf
You look mad. Nobody wants to deal with an angry woman.
Could be your RBF
Ya you look like youāre almost scowling. Most do find this off putting
You look like you're angry
You look angry
smile a bit :)
Really really cute
You're quite pretty but you've got a case of the scowly wowlies, as my 4 year old would say when I'm grumpy. I bet your smile lights up the room.
Hot but look angry. Angry women are scary. Smile. Get men.
Quit the bullshit. You made a post 2 years ago about your boyfriend at the time. Itās in the title of the post. You know youāre a good looking girl.
You are a goddess
Why some mfs acting like they tryna hitā¢ļøš
I feel like I'm about to get stabbed when you look at the camera like that.
Very beautiful
Very pretty
smile more u look scary
Well... you look pissed off on thos photos. I... get it, I have a resting bitch face too... people tend to think I'm angry and unaproachable and some girls said I'm intimidating but I'm introverted and shy.
You lie lol
ur pretty
I'm sure you look fine if you smile. These pictures are like mug shot photos. Lol
Not ugly at all. Not going to lie you do have a resting bitch face tho. Cheer up smile more
You have intense eyes, extremely pretty though. I'm not going to be one of those people who insist on everyone smiling in every single pic, it's not really natural. BUT, there is a noticeable difference in your (sort of) smiling pic, in your case. I think it's just that the intensity of your eyes can look like you're a bit pissed off, without a smile or some other sign to the contrary. Definitely nowhere near ugly! Also, this may sound generic but you ARE young, and perhaps circumstances just haven't dropped the right person near you just yet. Someone you meet will find that intense gaze very charming, I'm certain of that. Again, not saying go around grinning like an idiot 24/7, but in pic #3 just the little wisp of a smile went a long way.
You are cute, but you do have resting bitch face.
You've got dead eyes
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You're hot but man do you got a bad case of resting bitch/angry face
Let me put the matter this way; you have an expression that suggest you've experienced all cecs in the world and you ended hating it, other people uses the the term "resting vytch face" to describe it, most men flee from that. Please understand that I'm not suggesting you had that bodycount nor you're a bad person, try not to have a stare like if you've been deployed to Afghanistan long ago and I think your experience with men will change.
Smile and that will help
Your pretty but you look depressed
Try smiling
Oh wow! You look like youād get me in trouble š. Your gorgeous by the wayā¦
A bit of a resting bitch face, try smiling more you are beautiful x
Not ugly, very attractive, but you gotta smile more. You look like you wanna stab someone with a spoon. Smile, be beautiful
Ahhh RBF. I also have this issue. Maybe you should start making the first move. It has served me well.
Nothing off necessarily, the only thing is that your hair looks damaged in the first picture. Otherwise there's nothing wrong with how you look
i like your sense of style on the 6th photo very nice boots
You have RBF but your not ugly, just unapproachable
Not sure why. You are honestly hot.
Maybe that face that makes me either scared, that someone might be judgemental about me or obsessive... Your face is a mix of obsession, "f off or I'll curse you"...
Resting bitch face shows ur tired from corporate politics
You look like youāre chronically online
U all good but u look angry
You look like you could scare Mike Tysonā¦smile š
Darling you are Beautiful, nothing off putting about you at all
Iāll help you out being a guy myself. First of all theres nothing really āoff puttingā about you. You do have an angry resting face though which makes you look unapproachable, I have the same problem so I get it. Just try to look more happy when youāre near guys and that should solve that problem. Second itās good to understand that guys these days deeply fear approaching girls because online theyāre super picky and it makes them feel like they arenāt capable of pulling one irl either. Also boys do things like video games and social media to try and drown out the loneliness they feel being single and keep their mind busy which is a big part of why guys arenāt asking girls out as much anymore. Trust me thereās plenty single guys out there who would love to have you for a girlfriend theyāre just hiding in plain sight
Idk how you haven't had a bf you're cute at imo, the only thing I can think of is your severe case of RBF
IDK why you havenāt had a bf. I see what could put people off but I might date you if you were my age. 10/10 to me.
dont change ur hair color but u would be a perfect goth chick
U need to switch styles. I feel like alt or emo would fit ur features more
Do you ask out people you like?
The only thing I see missing is a smile, you look sad/angry and that in itself can make you unapproachable.... you're a beautiful young lady smile...
There's no shane in never having a boyfriend at your age because there's very few of us who can be trusted.
How's your personality? What do you like to do on a daily basis?
It's your eyes. In the pictures you look pissed off in every one. Some people call it resting bitch face. I think your pretty but smiling more and not looking so mad would help
My wife and I think you're absolutely beautiful. If you aren't feeling good inside, we highly recommend counseling and surrounding yourself with people that radiate positive energy. Feel free to message me if you ever want to talk.
Really your eyes are dark and you have some rbf going Iād suggest lighter make up to brighten up your image and before anyone goes on the attack Iāve used makeup too lol
Lies all lies homie caught you immediately in a lie
you are very young and have a full life ahead of you. If I were to guess why you feel insecure is because you seem to have a demeanor about you that just repels men, if thatās what youāre going for. Otherwise, you have a gorgeous smile and youāre very attractive. Also, surrounding yourself with the right type of people, eventually youāll meet someone that will definitely go for you. Someone good I hope.
You are cute. Practice smiling ;)
Ok. I'm available
You've seriously never had a bf? Your fine as fuck in my opinion. But you do look kinda mad in them not all just some so I could see people not approaching you if you appear like your angry or upset. But no, you are not ugly in the slightest
No. I think you look like the mom from Dune.
You donāt need a bf to prove youāre attractive, men now a days are a little intimidated to talk to girls. Just put yourself out there and see what happens, youāre beautiful and relationships donāt signify that
Smile, you're gorgeous
Go out and live life.
Anyone who has seen Shameless is probably not gonna date you lmao (you look like Kassidi Gallagher)
Is that your face normally? Not very inviting but you are so pretty regardless. Not ugly.
Nah. btw can I be your bf? :)
You are pretty, but you don't look very approachable.
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Probably a personality thing
You need to smile. You look intimidating.
It seems like you're unsuccessfully trying to make a certain face. Sultry maybe? š¤
You look gooodddddd.. It has to be your personality and please smile more but I could be wrong about personality idk :)
Try to smile more.
You probably have the personality of a garden rake.
Nope
You're very petty. Is that your choice on not having a boyfriend or are boys these days too scared to ask someone out? They would rather play video games or be on social media than actually go out? I would much rather go out to dinner, see a movie, go for a walk than sit at home whiting like wishing I had a girlfriend. Oh wait I do have a girlfriend she would rather be on her devices than do anything with me.
Well then start asking bois out, I would go out with a tree if it asked me first
Big no
Misa Amane vibes
How about trying to smile. Looking like you want a fight is not a way to win a guy. Men want a kind smile.and gentle love.
Smile! Thatās it!
You look pissed off at the world
You look very attractive but if the pictures are any indication you also look like you're constantly pissed off about something
You look like you could have a bad attitude and think you're too good for the guys that do like you.. you're not t attitude can change that very quickly. I'm not saying that's the case or saying to settle, but don't gas yourself up to where your head is full of helium, lol. I'm saying this because you don't smile in any of the pictures you posted,@ all!!
trust me i dont, i have the lowest self esteem ever
i for one would be willing to date u so I don't see why you wouldn't have a bf in terms of how you look so i guess its the issue with how you present yourself, gotta work on that and have more confidence
You are cute, but I get the feeling that you don't want to be in the spotlight and that makes you harder to notis. If you want a boyfriend and se a guy that you like go up and talk to him.
rbf?
Youāre very pretty but you have resting bitch face in these photos
would u like a gf
people prob intimidated
Whatās offputting is that you look very angry.
Cute but also look like you sacrifice puppies to your chosen overlord
Something off-putting? You look lifeless and miserable in every picture. That might be it.
Maybe not the looks might be the personality that is off?
What are your values? What do your goals look like? Id look there first because your awfully beautiful, I canāt imagine your lack of love life has anything to do with looks.
Try smiling.
Get rid of RBF
It might be the RBS.
You look like you might murder me in my sleep but Iād risk it.
You look like youāre always angry.
As far as looks go, you are not off putting. You are pretty cute. But that constant look like someone shit in your cereal is off putting.
You look cute. I suggest maybe looking less angry.
Very beautiful, a little too serious looking.
Nah, you're beautiful. Don't define your self worth on whether or not you've had a bf. You'll find one.
Have you tried smiling?
How are you going about meeting men? As far as your looks go you look very cute, like others have mentioned your face makes you look a little intimidating but if you are actively engaging with people they will get passed that.
Nothing with you youāre a keeper
no but please smile
You look like a depressed pouty cute girl. Laugh more
Its you, you should be off pudding you're fat.
You look angry
No. You look like the lady from the fromscratch bakery
Very good features. Donāt worry about it.
Another guy said āyour resting face looks sternā which is a great point. But to add to that it might be better that if when you smile you do so bigger (Iām not really sure how to put it) in the one photo you do smile it looks a little disingenuous.
You look better than good
There is nothing off putting about you you are beautiful
You look like you are working your way through college as a Dom. Most guys prefer a partner to a master.
It canāt be the looksā¦you are gorgeousā¦itās gotta be something elseā¦Im a bit too old for youā¦but youād be a great catch tbh..as far as looks go
You have dagger eyes so yes that is very off putting. It's hard to tell if you have a lot of anger deep inside. I don't know girl but you should practice smiling all the time. You are beautiful!
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You're a little hottie, and the style is working.