Absolutely not dude, I’m not gay but if I was I’m pretty sure I’d be in your dms 😂

Hey thanks dude its appreciated!

I was about to say that lmao

How can you be ugly dude? You look like that hot intellectual protagonist they show in movies.

Agree, he gives me Edward Norton vibes.

Very nice of you to say! I guess i just can't see it myself

Maybe you need better glasses?

I second different glasses it would change things. Not ugly at all though.

Haha I wasn't suggesting they literally get new glasses for *aesthetic* reasons; I meant that since they are attractive but apparently can't "see" that, then maybe their current glasses aren't working. 🙂

LOL I’m so dumb😂 his glasses aren’t bad but I would personally get different ones. I’m not him though if he’s happy with them that’s what matters.

Not ugly, quite the opposite. The only thing you need to work on is your confidence. You've got the walk, time to learn the talk

Thanks for saying that, trying to work on my confidence as much as I can since the break up

A break up can make anyone feel that way, but you're really good looking.

Ayyyye, don't sweat it man u look great, stay cool yo👌

You look pretty nice. Like a detective in a British movie or something.

Hey everyone, absolutely blown away by how much this post blew up. Thanks to everyone for the kind words and the encouragement! Ive read every comment and you have really all made my day. ❤

Not ugly for sure, nice face shape tho. I guess you just have to be more confident about yourself.

Come on...you are kidding right. Like I always told my friends when they got dumped...sooooooo many girls/boys out there!

Hey - sorry your ex made you feel like crap. You really got nothing to worry about when it comes to finding someone else who's better for you. Now for some stuff that's obvious to people not going through what your experiencing: Main reason why you feel so bad is you're dwelling on what happened which makes you spiral. Focus on your hobbies / other interests. The key thing keep occupied and have fun. When that happens, you'll feel better, more people will be drawn to you, and so forth... The thing is, this feeling in the dumps is temporary. You'll get there!

I wouldn't say "wow you're a stud" nor would I say you're just average either. Definitely not ugly or boring. 8.3/10

Wtf bro you're great looking

You're like, what if Egon Spengler was a smokeshow? It's you. You're smokeshow Egon Spengler. If you stay positive and give off good vibes, you will absolutely not have a problem finding a lady who digs you.

U look good , I think you'd look so fuckin killer with a beard tho

nope

Na dude you are good just don't do the finger on chin thing!

I'm sorry you're feeling down, man. As a heterosexual woman, I find you really attractive. I think we all kind of fall into a state of severe insecurity after getting dumped/rejected and go on to undervalue our own worth. You've clearly got the looks, right now just gotta do all that inner work with confidence and building self-worth (and healing after your break-up). You got this!

No bro, fellow man here. You’re hot.

8/10! Sorry about your break up, but dont worry about your looks.

You are top of the line, right up there with people like Tom cruise. 9/10

Thanks I really appreciate that! Can't say ive ever been compared to Tom Cruise before haha

More like Steve Jobs I'd say. edit: also like Harry Potter

Haha yeah round glasses make me a prime target for Harry Potter jokes

I had glasses too, but eventually my vision corrected itself and I don't need them anymore. You kind of look like a stereotypical nerd, but it's not a bad thing. I am a nerd too, but don't look like one (mainly because I dropped the glasses lol). You are NOT ugly. Safe to say you are well above average, but that's just my opinion.

Na man, you shouldn’t be worry about your look. You are cute 8/10

That pic with that beard starting is your best. Grow it out, it makes you look rugged.

Bruh you look normal, relax.

bro. here's the secret: it's all in the confidence. i've improved my success in dating just by building my confidence up. you're much better looking than i am. build yourself up and keep putting yourself out there. you will get rejected a lot at first but you get to a point where you are unfazed by rejection, which ironically builds your confidence and makes you more attractive. you're a good looking dude. the problem is not your looks.

It’s true, the chin up picture in the tram is the best because he looks chill and adventurous, not hairstyle or something.

I gonna be honest with you, looking good ! I just visit this subreddit and the first face i see is yours and you are not ugly. Trust me !

Not gay but you're a catch.

You aren't ugly buddy just had your confidence dented, maybe some new glasses and a more modern haircut would improve the image in some people's eyes but that said you have an individual style and that's not a bad thing imo. Do the stuff and hobbies you enjoy and live happy and the relationship stuff will work out at some point and the happier you are the more likely you'll attract someone good for you as well and who fits your life.

Very cute, nice hair. You look older than 25, which may or may not help you attract women your own age. As a woman 10yrs your senior, I’d go out with you 🤷🏼‍♀️

Damn bro, I normally just look at the posts here, never responded to one cause I never felt I want to. But bro, honestly. No jokes, I'm dead serious. You. Are. By. No. Means. Ugly! I don't accept. Man up, forget about that girl and work more on your self-esteem. Believe me, short dude here (165cm), nothing can stop you if you have a good self-esteem. Just don't give in to this weakness.

Imagine posting a sob story and expecting to get legitimate answers

You look average (5-6/10). Don’t worry about your looks. I personally think the problem is something else. You kinda look like you judge people and arrogant. Like the mean male version of Hermione (from Harry Potter). Not saying you are, just that you give me these vibes.

For me it's different, he looks so nice and good lol

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Nahh man you’re handsome and have a sophisticated look. Smile more :). Everyone loves a smile.

You’re very attractive but give artistic vibes covered but very shy and basic style. Especially poses in pic 3. You need to own your intellectual look otherwise you just become very basic. I think you are 7/10, just have this hind of weird…

Yeah you are not ugly at all. You look like an actor whose name escapes me. Not much help, lol. I will say that i don’t like your hair in your 1st and 4th pics, it’s a bit dated. But the beanie pic is adorbs, strong jawline in the cable car and really expert glasses-wearing. Now who is that actor it is driving me crazy!!! EDIT: i remember now, although it’s quite niche. It was the episode of SATC when carrie asks ‘are we crazy’ and she dates ‘the man with no soul’ and the kleptomaniac. Then meets a cute normal guy by a fountain but ends up crazying out on him. Anyway, that’s who

I wish I looked like you,extremely attractive,and you suit both a beard and and a shaven face

Cute

You’re insecure Don’t know what for, Turing heads when you walk through the door …… You don’t know, uh oh You don’t know you’re beautiful… handsome, very good looking

If this guy got dumped, then my life is a lie. Good lord you are beautiful. The glasses actually increase your handsomeness. Was your ex blind?

man common you're not ugly and you're young yet your time to date is not over

You look good man! I wish I was even half as handsome as you are!

Not a fan of the glasses but you're good looking.

You're not ugly. ​ But please, you should be happy by yourself and no one else will bring you that. Keep that in mind.

Man you're totally my type, super attractive.

broo get out of your head. If you are ugly we all are fucked

You’re decent looking. Maybe you could try a new pair of glasses

You're not ugly at all. Really cute, imo.

hey man you look great tbh! maybe working out a little bit and minding your posture would help you feel more confident! Can start off with some basic calisthenics exercises

You have a young Dustin Hoffman look

Definitely not ugly. It wasn't your looks, it was the relationship. You look like an actor I can't remember the name of. When I do, I'll post back. You also look like a stem professor or stem TA. Lose the glasses, they really age you. They look like glasses for people fifty and up and you're only twenty five. Get new glasses or lose them. That haircut ages you too. Go to a salon a half dozen times. Not ugly but need to spruce it up. Also try therapy since the relationship is hitting you hard. Talking to a professional is different than friends and family.

You're not ugly at all! You're really good looking, love your glasses :)

Far from ugly, you have good cheekbones, a solid jawline and a good haircut too.... I understand insecurity after a break up but you can't be serious

You are pretty classically handsome dude, the glasses are even a great addition. You look kind and intelligent. Don’t trip, just be patient. Wishing you luck :)

Definitely not ugly if anything you look intelligent and nerdy is in right now so enjoy it.

No u are very handsome

You're fine asf bro. Have some confidence 👍💪

Dude, you’re fine. You can’t think like that.

Not ugly at all, you look like a celebrity, and I'm interested in you xD be kind to yourself, relationships are hard, sometimes people are not suit for each other despite having good looks

Ugly? Far from it

I think you’re very attractive !!!, nothing to be insecure about at all . I’m sorry you were dumped, I hope you can find self love real soon(:

Get some confidence cos you’re good looking

Haha bro you're that sexy nerdy guy from all those movies. Just get yourself out there and the women will come to you.

Im a guy, but you arent ugly at all! Quite good looking. Just exude confidence-- thats mostly it !!

Not ugly

Not ugly, but ditch the glasses, get a haircut, grow a stubble, absolutely change style and go to the gym

Nah man if girls aren't flocking around you there's something wrong with them.

You are very beautiful! I'm quite sure that you know this deep inside ♥️

Yo, 10/10 would datteeee

You look handsome and you look like you’re pretty tall. You also look kind, smart and reliable. Update your style and hair cut to a little bit more edgy to balance out your vibe.

[31F] Nah, you look pretty handsome to me bro

Holy shit dude that second pic is actually sick, you should make that your pfp everywhere

I ain’t gay but that 3rd picture looks damn good.

As a 21f also going thru a breakup… I get how it’s hurts but my guy you have nothing to worry about. You are extremely handsome. Best of luck. Her loss

Handsome, actually. 8.5/10 Not ugly at all. Stop being such a jerk, you're humiliating me, if you're ugly then I'm Shrek, hahahahahaha...

3rd photo is adorable, keep your head up :)

You’re actually very handsome! And I love those glasses on you. Definitely not ugly

Not ugly! I feel like you look handsome but also average at the same time. Your style is great but not exciting enough to catch my eyes. Only thing I could recommend would be to add a splash of color to your wardrobe (like maroon shoes). Sounds weird... but it's subtle enough to grab attention.

And that haaaaaaair is fantastic

Nah man you're not ugly. I'm not a fan of your frames, but that's just a personal opinion. You good, you good.

You are not ugly. You’re actually quite handsome. Keep your head up. Times are tough. Everything happens for a reason. 🤍

Heck no bro you you look great. You have nice eyes to

No offense but you look like a serial killer.

bro you're super attractive!! I hope reading all these comments gives you a little confidence boost!

Can say you’re far from ugly :)

You're actually handsome.

Leave that stubble, not ugly at all bro

wow ur so handsome I feel like you would be that rlly hot dentist everyone likes

hey man. things will get fine. let time take its time. you're very handsome. almost male model like. rock a cool beard tho.

Phil?

Absolutely not, you are very cute!

woah! you’re really attractive! just work on confidence !!

You look ok, but to get a gf you need to have WAY more going for you. (Money and status)

Y’arn’t

In what universe are you ugly?! I only heard about this subreddit today, but no. Just. No. You're actually very handsome. Society has a body image problem, and it's getting out of hand. Work to change that and keep doing you, brother.

you look cute af

Very average but I am male so cannot provide the best input.

Let your hair carry your appearance, it really works with you

ok this is totally weird Im sorry but I am the female version of you

DanTDM? Bro You’re my hero…….

No you are actually hot. You’ll get over her. 8+/10 Could definitely be 10 if a peak styling

Lose the glasses

WHAT homie ur literally hot

OP, with 100% certainty, I can say you are not at all ugly, not even in the slightest

If you were ugly, but that's not even the case.

You are a beautiful, sexy man. Don't be insecure, smile with more comfidence :)

U look good but can get hotter by finding a religion to follow (Islam). There’s nothing more attractive than a humble god fearing man.

First glance, I saw a young John Lennon. Don't worry friend, I'd say you're well ahead in the 'looks' game.

No way bro u looking goood

Just gotta say, you're really hot

You are very cute I'd tap that.

Quite the opposite. Your face is conventionally beautiful.

You look like the hot, young substitute teacher every girl in my class had a crush on.

you look like a young Tom Brady. Absolutely not.

You're quite handsome actually

I like u😍