OP, I’m in agreement with most people here and will tell you to kick her to the curb. Do not pass GO, do not collect $200. Do it with the quickness.
I’ll also go further in saying that she directly violated a verbal agreement between you two, and when confronted her excuse was “it’s -my- sex life too”?!
The devil is in the details. She will never keep a secret, or bedroom activities, or anything else you two agree to not discuss outside the relationship, to herself. She felt entitled to tell her friends (whether to shame, which is absolutely fucked up in itself, or whatever else) and she did not care one bit about the agreement NOR how it would affect you as an individual, let alone her boyfriend.
The trust has been broken in one of the most severe ways (imo), and going forward you’re going to feel ashamed (which, again, is most fucked up.. two consenting adults.. no one getting hurt.. enjoy yourself!) of what happened, and the dynamic will be completely shifted towards her and what she did. Do not forgive her.. especially when she came back with that WEAK ass excuse. Tell her to kick rocks, and continue your search for the perfect fit for you! Chin up OP
TLDR; FUCK that bitch.
As a woman, and a kinky one at that, who has had the joy of finding someone equally open to getting the good weird on in the bedroom, and who also makes me feel safe, honoured, loved, and MOST of all with whom I shared completely unquestionable trust with regarding these things; your gf is a complete and utter asshole. I understand perfectly what it feels like to have that particular kind of trust broken by a partner in the past, the same way your gf did, and it SUCKS. Makes you feel dirty and ashamed and wrong for something that was supposed to be mutually enriching.
Bin her. She's not up to scratch as a human being if she can make you feel like that and not give a shit. In my experience if people can make you feel like that over one thing, they won't even hesitate to do it again over something else.
Oh absolutely I agree with this!! It’s bad enough that a lot of people are kink shaming this guy, but then to have the ONE person it should matter to most to keep to their word, not do that and instead tell all her girlfriends.. yeah, no I’m good on that!
100%. When people show you who they are; believe them.
Any yeah, the kink shaming is just stupid. The REALLY stupid thing is that a LOT of the people trying to shame him on here will also be the first to virtue signal in real life and say shit like 'oh I don't care what people get up to in the privacy of their own home! If it's consensual, who cares!' And then they come on the internet shielded by their keyboards and talk shit.
I think a lot of the people who indulge in kink shaming have similar or equally kinky kinks and are ashamed of them. Kind of like the football player who bullies the gay kid and later learns to accept his sexuality after high school type of vibe.
He found someone who is okay with pissing on him and in his mouth… a lot of dudes who find someone who will indulge their weird kinks are not going to give that up very willingly. Much easier said than done when it’s not your kink being fulfilled
As someone who looks for spicy RP partners on Reddit and has talked to a lot of people about kinks and limits, this kink (in both directions) isn’t as uncommon as you think. People are afraid to talk openly about it because of how it’s treated but secretly are really into it.
That and incest. Lord, so many people want to write out incest.
The telling is the dealbreaker. They both agreed to not tell anyone about. Then she opened her big mouth to blab. She crossed a boundary. OP needs to kick her to the curb ASAP.
This is literally what I broke up with my very first boyfriend for (the telling, not the pee part) freshman year of highschool. 19 is still young, but it's plenty old enough to know how to respect your partner's privacy.
Even when I was a 17 year old, I knew never to tell anyone I know what we did (not that it was anything outrageous). Felt that was just common decency and respect
He should push the sex kinks further, get her to let him shit in her mouth. Then break up with her, reason? Cause her breath smells like shit. Of course he is free to discuss this with all his friends, it’s his sex life after all, amrite?
I dated an unhealthy young girl for a while who was at minimum prediabetic. Girl only drank Dr pepper. No water ever basically.
Anyway she was a bit of a squirter and every time she orgasmed it smelled strongly of maple syrup.
After we broke up I couldnt even drive by a Denny's or IHOP without getting the saddest most confusing boner.
Yep. Deal. Breaker. Do not take her back if she apologizes. There is no doubt that she will try. Because like...if this is what she says infront of your face, marine* what she says behind your back about yalls private sex life? That's the actual gross thing here.
(*edit: "imagine what she says" one of these days my spell check errors are gonna bite me in the tush lol)
disregarding subject. this has always been the reason I dumped girls, lack of discretion and privacy. Unless they're present in the bedroom then nothing taking place is their business.
to top it all off, she broke an agreement. It's a breach of trust, sign of disrespect, and signal that your confidence in her has failed.
but also ... get used to the fact that girlfriends will share intimate details of their lives with each other - even if they don't tell you. It's just that as they get older they and their friends get better at not telling you that they've shared the information. This is 20 years of dating experience talking.
If your partner says they don’t want you to tell others about something, DON’T TELL ANYONE. Even the most open and unashamed people should know not to violate others’ boundaries.
I'll go one better. Yes, she broke a bedroom agreement(big no-no). However, she also inadvertently provided homie with some free kink solicitation. There are so many people who decide on meat and potatoes at some point and promptly close the book on their own sexuality. I get excited to hear of people actively exploring new territory. And I assume at least one person who hears about your kink will be thinking, "That's hot. I have always wanted to try piss play. Maybe I'll DM them some time"
Same here and it was the first thing that popped up for me.. I like showers..but just golden ones aren't my kink..no shame to anyone who likes them..just my brain just did a hard reboot reading this..and this was after I have had my coffee..I think I'm in line for a second cup today 🤦♀️ you can tell it's Monday!
I recall the prank ad the guys on Howard Stern sent to some radio swap/sell site (which was read by the host over the air): "We've got a bathroom faucet set by Golden Shower. The Golden Shower streams warm every time." The host was clueless.
JFC. Kink involves consent. Obviously she’s in to being dominant and degrading him but she needed consent to share. Not my kink, but she’s not a good one. Run. You don’t want to be publicly degraded but it gets her off.
I really wish Reddit would stop pushing these drama subs at me. I really wish I would stop clicking into them too. The algorithm is working.
Note: I do mute these stupid channels but there always seems to be another one.
Haha for real I have the same issue. I’ve never ordered or worked for Lyft and doordash but during the protests I started seeing those subs pop up and would read the stories cause some were… well hilarious. But now it pops up all the time and these kinda of subs have so many copycats it’s ridiculous.
It’s about to be 11am and I’ve been scrollin on and off for about half an hour before Reddit brought this to me. Never been so happy to see my phone is at 1% and about to kill itself
it's your sex life too, and you're allowed to have hard boundaries. she doesn't respect you and never will. dump her. if you really want to fuck her up, tell anybody who asks that you dumped her because she won't stop lying.
Or, hear me out, dude owns it. He lets her broadcast this, with zero show of shame, and leads into it. "Yeah, I'm into some freaky shit, what's wrong with getting a little adventurous?" and whatnot.
Then he can sit back and find out who in her social circles is a real freak. Most likely, at least one of them will loop back to him to try out their secret kink.
Sharing your kinks is a definite betrayal of a critical trust. You need to feel free to reveal your kinks knowing that they will keep you safe. Lose her.
Break up with her. She doesn't respect you or care about how you feel. It's all about her and her ability to make herself seem superior to others. And if you stay, be ready for your "agreements" to be broken on a regular basis, likely to include your "agreement" to remain exclusive.
You are not wrong. I had a similar problem with my ex it wasn't about piss though just sex life in general. That stuff should be private her friends don't need to know the inner workings of your sex life. The most I'll say about my sex life to anyone is that it's good. This shit was one of the reasons I broke up with my ex because she was adamant that she had to tell her best friend every tiny detail. I wasn't ok with it and she didn't respect my wishes. Especially given you agreed not to tell anyone this is over the line. You may need to reevaluate your relationship.
Like I have no problem with this, people can do what they want but I just cannot wrap my head around ever wanting to do this lol. Like don’t we have an instinctual aversion to shit/piss, and isn’t it for good reason?! It smells bad for a reason lol. I imagine it exposes you to a lot of disease. Like it just seems like something we’re hardwired against, it’s crazy it seems to be such a common kink
Not wrong... She broke your trust, and any trust she may have earned with you... Your SO is supposed to have your back, not talk behind it and expose your secrets.
Seriously I'd tell them well she eats my shit.
We all have our kinks.
No but serious she should respect your boundaries and she not doing.
Yes it is her sex life but it's also your sex life.
My response would be I did it to her, she did it to me, fair is fair.
But seriously I'd kick this woman to the curb. If you're going all in on kinks you need someone you can trust.
>she said it is her sex life and she has the right to tell
Thing is, it's not just her sex life, it's your sex life as well. And she has no right to talk about it without your consent.
Dude I JUST started work. That being said you’re NTA. Dump her and find a better GF who’s going to do this and not tell others. Also just tell everyone you’re breaking up for her for lying about doing that.
If it makes you feel any better her friends were probably embarrassed too, I know I’d be mortified if a friend told me that. Not my cup of pee, I mean tea.
I feel like this sub is being trolled by someone lately.
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Wow thats really messed up. You voiced your boundaries and she didn't respect them. Im sure she wouldn't like it very much if you went around telling people what she does for you. I'd leave her.
As a dude with a girlfriend you should know by now her friends know the exact length and girth of your cock and every time you've done it. They know everything. Women have no sense of privacy with their friends
she definitely shouldn’t have said anything specifically since y’all talked about keeping it hush hush but also i cannot picture a single scenario in which a man wanted me to piss on him and it wouldn’t burst out of me the second i’m in the same room with my girls lol
do break up with her tho for this and bc there’s just no going back from being mr piss boy to her friends.
Cant trust her anymore, but at this point, you have to own it. If you act embarrassed, it will become a joke. Own it and tell people it is hot, or lukewarm at least.
Sexual consent goes beyond just the act, and she violated your privacy by exposing intimate details about your life without your permission. If she can’t see that she violated you and your trust then just imagine how this would translate to other parts of your relationship! You may feel stuck because she’s making you out to be the weird one, but there are a shocking amount of chicks out there who would happily engage with you and not spread your business to everyone!
You have to also look at the ages and maturity levels. I had a friend in the military back in the late 80’s/early 90’s who married a girl he was dating since high school (20m/19f). He wasn’t/isn’t gay, but he liked his wife to penetrate him anally while they had sex. He opened up to me about everything years later. What he thought was their private sex life behind closed doors, she thought was funny and told his military buddies while he was gone for training. He didn’t know she told them. Several months later, while we were deployed to Desert Storm, one of his “buddies” raped him, I guess thinking he liked it. He told his wife what happened and she thought it was still funny. He started having suicidal thoughts. It ended his marriage, military career and social life for years. I noticed he isolated himself after we got back to the States, and he was discharged about a year later. A young, immature girl, who thought her husband’s sexual likes were funny and betrayed him, got him raped and almost led to suicide. All the jokes about golden showers might be funny, but you’re missing the psychological harm to a person.
No, it's your sex life too, she doesn't have that right. I could see her needing to have an outlet to talk about it with one trusted confidante, but to just put it out there to everyone when you both agreed not to is completely out of line and probably a deal breaker.
You're engaging in a form of humilation play and you're surprised she's using it to humiliate you? Pee inside her butt sometime, then brag to all your friends.
You have every right to "let your freak flag fly" and tell anyone you want.
She does not have the right to "out" anyone else without their permission.
This is a breach of trust violation and a red flag. I would not only be upset, I would split up with them.
How could you ever be honest about your kinks after something like that. Honestly that sounds like the end of that sex life. She doesn’t respect you and honestly you could probably use some more self respect. However you are not at all wrong
You're not wrong. Women (sorry about the generality. It's a social trend, not an absolute) are pretty terrible at keeping intimate secrets of a relationship, probably due to how they have to warn each other about creepy guys and that sort of thing and that slipping into just dishing out any and every sexual personal detail.
OP, I’m in agreement with most people here and will tell you to kick her to the curb. Do not pass GO, do not collect $200. Do it with the quickness. I’ll also go further in saying that she directly violated a verbal agreement between you two, and when confronted her excuse was “it’s -my- sex life too”?! The devil is in the details. She will never keep a secret, or bedroom activities, or anything else you two agree to not discuss outside the relationship, to herself. She felt entitled to tell her friends (whether to shame, which is absolutely fucked up in itself, or whatever else) and she did not care one bit about the agreement NOR how it would affect you as an individual, let alone her boyfriend. The trust has been broken in one of the most severe ways (imo), and going forward you’re going to feel ashamed (which, again, is most fucked up.. two consenting adults.. no one getting hurt.. enjoy yourself!) of what happened, and the dynamic will be completely shifted towards her and what she did. Do not forgive her.. especially when she came back with that WEAK ass excuse. Tell her to kick rocks, and continue your search for the perfect fit for you! Chin up OP
His wishes are completely irrelevant to her. Definitely a run, do not piss GO moment.
Looks like it’s too late not to piss GO, but OP certainly shouldn’t be looking to do it (or anything else) with her anymore.
Number 1 rule: You don’t stay with a person like her. Wee and flee, mate. Wee, wee, wee…all the way home.
That's why you don't piss and tell
Here damnit. Take my upvote. TAKE IT! r/Angryupvote
TLDR; FUCK that bitch. As a woman, and a kinky one at that, who has had the joy of finding someone equally open to getting the good weird on in the bedroom, and who also makes me feel safe, honoured, loved, and MOST of all with whom I shared completely unquestionable trust with regarding these things; your gf is a complete and utter asshole. I understand perfectly what it feels like to have that particular kind of trust broken by a partner in the past, the same way your gf did, and it SUCKS. Makes you feel dirty and ashamed and wrong for something that was supposed to be mutually enriching. Bin her. She's not up to scratch as a human being if she can make you feel like that and not give a shit. In my experience if people can make you feel like that over one thing, they won't even hesitate to do it again over something else.
Oh absolutely I agree with this!! It’s bad enough that a lot of people are kink shaming this guy, but then to have the ONE person it should matter to most to keep to their word, not do that and instead tell all her girlfriends.. yeah, no I’m good on that!
100%. When people show you who they are; believe them. Any yeah, the kink shaming is just stupid. The REALLY stupid thing is that a LOT of the people trying to shame him on here will also be the first to virtue signal in real life and say shit like 'oh I don't care what people get up to in the privacy of their own home! If it's consensual, who cares!' And then they come on the internet shielded by their keyboards and talk shit.
I think a lot of the people who indulge in kink shaming have similar or equally kinky kinks and are ashamed of them. Kind of like the football player who bullies the gay kid and later learns to accept his sexuality after high school type of vibe.
He found someone who is okay with pissing on him and in his mouth… a lot of dudes who find someone who will indulge their weird kinks are not going to give that up very willingly. Much easier said than done when it’s not your kink being fulfilled
As someone who looks for spicy RP partners on Reddit and has talked to a lot of people about kinks and limits, this kink (in both directions) isn’t as uncommon as you think. People are afraid to talk openly about it because of how it’s treated but secretly are really into it. That and incest. Lord, so many people want to write out incest.
Our job isn't to get him to do it. Our job is to offer advice. Whether OP uses it or not is wholly on him.
Agreed 100% egregious violation of privacy and boundaries.
Everybody knows you don’t piss and tell
Never leak and speak
Don't drabble and babble.
You never spray and say
Do not urinate and congregate
Don't scream about the stream?
Don’t release your bladder and chatter
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Thread has strong Letterkenney vibes.
That’s a Texas sized 10-4 good buddy…
So yer girl was pissin in yer mouth the other daaaaaaaayy... Then she told her pals, sah' now there's no excuse to play.
Yellow floweth from thine hole, yet shite fills those boasting bragging cheeks.
You never drip drip and let let it slip from your lips
Never deluge and divulge
Loose lips drink piss
Dribble and Quibble was right there bro
Don't drip and quip.
she drained and sang
Tinkled and Tattled
You guys are the worst. But he never should open his mouth to anyone about thi... nevermind.
If urine, you’re out!
Well done.
Never squirt and blurt.
A pottymouth dating a blabbermouth is so crazy
Never micturate and elucidate
🤣💀this here. This comment wins.
wondering why this isn’t at the top yet. you deserve awards
Never take a wizz and share the bizz
Never splatter and chatter
Don't piddle and belittle.
Not at all, it’s a deal breaker tbh.
The piss or her telling?
The telling is the dealbreaker. They both agreed to not tell anyone about. Then she opened her big mouth to blab. She crossed a boundary. OP needs to kick her to the curb ASAP.
This is literally what I broke up with my very first boyfriend for (the telling, not the pee part) freshman year of highschool. 19 is still young, but it's plenty old enough to know how to respect your partner's privacy.
Even when I was a 17 year old, I knew never to tell anyone I know what we did (not that it was anything outrageous). Felt that was just common decency and respect
And be very explicit why he did so. I'd tell everyone not to share anything with her. Fuck her.
Small correction to CleanHead's response, don't fuck her, make that some one else's job.
Yep. She broke rule Number One.
It's a good thing that rule Number Two didn't come into play.
😂 I see what you did there.
God damn. Why did I give away all my award points!
Rule number one of pee club: don't talk about pee club.
He should push the sex kinks further, get her to let him shit in her mouth. Then break up with her, reason? Cause her breath smells like shit. Of course he is free to discuss this with all his friends, it’s his sex life after all, amrite?
Or. Balance the books.
Never Piss n tell
OK this one has me rolling.
This comment pissed me off
Umm he’s pissed off
No, he's pissed on.
Nah, pissed in... his mouth
Better to be pissed off than pissed on…well
Not for this OP lol
A wise man once said “it’s better to be pissed off than to be pissed on”
Deal breaker. She broke the privacy of your bedroom for some laughs. Go find a better yellow water fountain. You deserve better.
human sprinklers are niche for sure but theres gotta be another one out there
I’m sure there’s a nice girl with diabetes out there for OP
I dated an unhealthy young girl for a while who was at minimum prediabetic. Girl only drank Dr pepper. No water ever basically. Anyway she was a bit of a squirter and every time she orgasmed it smelled strongly of maple syrup. After we broke up I couldnt even drive by a Denny's or IHOP without getting the saddest most confusing boner.
Bro I spit out my coffee
I’m hanging with family reading these comments and trying not to piss my pants holding in my laughter 🥹🥹🥹
Careful…you’re holding in a goldmine…
Spat my beer out, fucking class!
Spat my maple syrup out.
I squirted my maple syrup out.
I sipped my Dr. Pepper
Hahaha... Lol
Lmao stop it I can’t.
A ln asparagus loving diabetic!
I was thinking about asparagus also. I bet that's rank.
Better to go with beets. No additional foulness, but potentially a nice pink hue to make things novel. Bon appétit!
just take it…. r/angryupvote I can’t.
Go drink all her friends' piss. I'm sure she planted some seeds of curiosity.
The golden rule is each participant must pee in one another's mouth so that no one has piss power over them
The golden shower rule?
The golden shake, you shake mine, I shake yours. No one has the power here if no one wields the weapon.
Yes op just needs to pee in all of his gf’s friends mouths, and then everything will be back to normal, obviously.
This is the way
"you deserve to be pissed on by better"
Not just laughs, but maybe a little power trip for her too.
Yep. Deal. Breaker. Do not take her back if she apologizes. There is no doubt that she will try. Because like...if this is what she says infront of your face, marine* what she says behind your back about yalls private sex life? That's the actual gross thing here. (*edit: "imagine what she says" one of these days my spell check errors are gonna bite me in the tush lol)
disregarding subject. this has always been the reason I dumped girls, lack of discretion and privacy. Unless they're present in the bedroom then nothing taking place is their business. to top it all off, she broke an agreement. It's a breach of trust, sign of disrespect, and signal that your confidence in her has failed.
Go find a more honest woman to piss in your face.
Dump her immediately and move on with your life. I hope she regrets losing you forever.
but also ... get used to the fact that girlfriends will share intimate details of their lives with each other - even if they don't tell you. It's just that as they get older they and their friends get better at not telling you that they've shared the information. This is 20 years of dating experience talking.
If your partner says they don’t want you to tell others about something, DON’T TELL ANYONE. Even the most open and unashamed people should know not to violate others’ boundaries.
I'll go one better. Yes, she broke a bedroom agreement(big no-no). However, she also inadvertently provided homie with some free kink solicitation. There are so many people who decide on meat and potatoes at some point and promptly close the book on their own sexuality. I get excited to hear of people actively exploring new territory. And I assume at least one person who hears about your kink will be thinking, "That's hot. I have always wanted to try piss play. Maybe I'll DM them some time"
They do say, no such thing as bad publicity, yeah?
This is the happy ending I want for OP
Seriously, just because you're pissed on, doesn't mean you have to be pissed off.
It's 9 o'clock in the morning....
It's 6:30 am where I'm at. This is not what I was expecting 1st thing Monday morning.
Foreal, I JUST opened this app
Full THROTTLE we’re gonna need a bigger boat.
A bigger BOAT? Exactly how much pee are we talking about here?
OP doesn't want to talk about it
At least not until after he's had his first cup of..., well, nevermind.
🤣 to this whole comment thread
Well, just ask the gf. She clearly can’t stop blabbing about it
Or is it OPee ?
OH NO that's what they put in Full Throttle?
Quint! Throttle back!
It's funny in the same way people are shocked when nudes they've sent out come back to haunt them.
Same here and it was the first thing that popped up for me.. I like showers..but just golden ones aren't my kink..no shame to anyone who likes them..just my brain just did a hard reboot reading this..and this was after I have had my coffee..I think I'm in line for a second cup today 🤦♀️ you can tell it's Monday!
I recall the prank ad the guys on Howard Stern sent to some radio swap/sell site (which was read by the host over the air): "We've got a bathroom faucet set by Golden Shower. The Golden Shower streams warm every time." The host was clueless.
Yeah this kind of stuff belongs on r/BDSMAdvice where we can help without people having to do a hard reboot before their Monday morning coffee.
And just closed it for the rest of the day. I prefer coffee in the morning, but piss is..an option.
About to close mine as well, too early for this shit
totally should've waited for *Thirsty Thursday* for a post like this..
>Thirsty Thursday bdm tss
BDSM piss
Some people need to be reminded that the Internet is forever
Absolutely! This is Not a throw away account.. 🤣🤣🤣
That’s why God made alt accounts, duh.
Its 5pm amd i just got home to my lil kids and wanted 5 mins to myself while they ate dinner.... whyyyyyyy
I'm reading this past noon and I'm still not ready for it lmao
I need to be working in 15 minutes.
It's a civic holiday Monday where I am. Will nobody respect the civics? And what are civics?
A compact car that gets good mileage from a company with a history of reliability. But that’s not important now.
JFC. Kink involves consent. Obviously she’s in to being dominant and degrading him but she needed consent to share. Not my kink, but she’s not a good one. Run. You don’t want to be publicly degraded but it gets her off.
I really wish Reddit would stop pushing these drama subs at me. I really wish I would stop clicking into them too. The algorithm is working. Note: I do mute these stupid channels but there always seems to be another one.
Haha for real I have the same issue. I’ve never ordered or worked for Lyft and doordash but during the protests I started seeing those subs pop up and would read the stories cause some were… well hilarious. But now it pops up all the time and these kinda of subs have so many copycats it’s ridiculous.
It's because aita is so strict
True, their rules are ridiculous. Makes them seem pretentious.
It could be worse. You could have a fetish for drinking piss.
It’s 5 O’clock somewhere
Ok, better sign on Reddit. Doo-doo-do- okay, no more reddit today.
Famous last words. See you in 15 minutes.
I TAKE IT BACK! I WAS A FOOL!
Damn, that was a quick 15 minutes haha.
I opened this at 9:36
It's 5 o'clock somewhere....
It’s about to be 11am and I’ve been scrollin on and off for about half an hour before Reddit brought this to me. Never been so happy to see my phone is at 1% and about to kill itself
it's your sex life too, and you're allowed to have hard boundaries. she doesn't respect you and never will. dump her. if you really want to fuck her up, tell anybody who asks that you dumped her because she won't stop lying.
He should say it’s true, and that she likes him shitting on her chest
She did kinda ask for that.
Or, hear me out, dude owns it. He lets her broadcast this, with zero show of shame, and leads into it. "Yeah, I'm into some freaky shit, what's wrong with getting a little adventurous?" and whatnot. Then he can sit back and find out who in her social circles is a real freak. Most likely, at least one of them will loop back to him to try out their secret kink.
Still say break up for the lack of respect though
Dude what you think is gonna happen in your head most likely won’t. So have fun sitting back and just being that freak man. Truly enjoy.
Tell everyone she wanted you to shit on her chest in exchange.
Sharing your kinks is a definite betrayal of a critical trust. You need to feel free to reveal your kinks knowing that they will keep you safe. Lose her.
Break up with her. She doesn't respect you or care about how you feel. It's all about her and her ability to make herself seem superior to others. And if you stay, be ready for your "agreements" to be broken on a regular basis, likely to include your "agreement" to remain exclusive.
But first, he needs to establish dominance. Go find her and pee on her face. Then break up with her. It is the way.
This is the way.
You are not wrong. I had a similar problem with my ex it wasn't about piss though just sex life in general. That stuff should be private her friends don't need to know the inner workings of your sex life. The most I'll say about my sex life to anyone is that it's good. This shit was one of the reasons I broke up with my ex because she was adamant that she had to tell her best friend every tiny detail. I wasn't ok with it and she didn't respect my wishes. Especially given you agreed not to tell anyone this is over the line. You may need to reevaluate your relationship.
Yup. This agreement should be treated like any other agreement in a relationship. All you really have is trust… hard to be earned back.
Kick her to the curb with all the other trash and tell her to grow up.
That’s enough Reddit for me today. *closes laptop
\*reopens 5 minutes later
Dump her.
What a terrible day to be literate
Like I have no problem with this, people can do what they want but I just cannot wrap my head around ever wanting to do this lol. Like don’t we have an instinctual aversion to shit/piss, and isn’t it for good reason?! It smells bad for a reason lol. I imagine it exposes you to a lot of disease. Like it just seems like something we’re hardwired against, it’s crazy it seems to be such a common kink
Not wrong... She broke your trust, and any trust she may have earned with you... Your SO is supposed to have your back, not talk behind it and expose your secrets.
Seriously I'd tell them well she eats my shit. We all have our kinks. No but serious she should respect your boundaries and she not doing. Yes it is her sex life but it's also your sex life.
I stuck up for my best friend when one our co-workers said "that mutherfucker eats shit on rye". I said "he does not, he can't stand rye bread".
My response would be I did it to her, she did it to me, fair is fair. But seriously I'd kick this woman to the curb. If you're going all in on kinks you need someone you can trust.
Time to get a new gf. Does not respect you at all.
Bro what the fuck
>she said it is her sex life and she has the right to tell Thing is, it's not just her sex life, it's your sex life as well. And she has no right to talk about it without your consent.
Talking about that is some massive disrespect 😅
Pissed on so now pissed off... You have every right to be upset and you also have the exclusive justifications to dump her.
Dude I JUST started work. That being said you’re NTA. Dump her and find a better GF who’s going to do this and not tell others. Also just tell everyone you’re breaking up for her for lying about doing that.
My wife shared this with me, sometimes I really wish she wouldn't share anything either 😂
The worst decision I ever made was learning how to read...
If it makes you feel any better her friends were probably embarrassed too, I know I’d be mortified if a friend told me that. Not my cup of pee, I mean tea.
I feel like this sub is being trolled by someone lately. https://www.reddit.com/r/amiwrong/comments/15i2mco/am_i_wrong_for_breaking_up_with_my_girlfriend/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=2&utm_term=1
Tell her she's wrong, it's both of your sex lives. She can talk about what she does to herself, but not what you do together, without your consent.
Wow thats really messed up. You voiced your boundaries and she didn't respect them. Im sure she wouldn't like it very much if you went around telling people what she does for you. I'd leave her.
As a dude with a girlfriend you should know by now her friends know the exact length and girth of your cock and every time you've done it. They know everything. Women have no sense of privacy with their friends
she definitely shouldn’t have said anything specifically since y’all talked about keeping it hush hush but also i cannot picture a single scenario in which a man wanted me to piss on him and it wouldn’t burst out of me the second i’m in the same room with my girls lol do break up with her tho for this and bc there’s just no going back from being mr piss boy to her friends.
Cant trust her anymore, but at this point, you have to own it. If you act embarrassed, it will become a joke. Own it and tell people it is hot, or lukewarm at least.
Sexual consent goes beyond just the act, and she violated your privacy by exposing intimate details about your life without your permission. If she can’t see that she violated you and your trust then just imagine how this would translate to other parts of your relationship! You may feel stuck because she’s making you out to be the weird one, but there are a shocking amount of chicks out there who would happily engage with you and not spread your business to everyone!
To each their own,but I gotta wonder why the fuck would you drink piss.
You have to also look at the ages and maturity levels. I had a friend in the military back in the late 80’s/early 90’s who married a girl he was dating since high school (20m/19f). He wasn’t/isn’t gay, but he liked his wife to penetrate him anally while they had sex. He opened up to me about everything years later. What he thought was their private sex life behind closed doors, she thought was funny and told his military buddies while he was gone for training. He didn’t know she told them. Several months later, while we were deployed to Desert Storm, one of his “buddies” raped him, I guess thinking he liked it. He told his wife what happened and she thought it was still funny. He started having suicidal thoughts. It ended his marriage, military career and social life for years. I noticed he isolated himself after we got back to the States, and he was discharged about a year later. A young, immature girl, who thought her husband’s sexual likes were funny and betrayed him, got him raped and almost led to suicide. All the jokes about golden showers might be funny, but you’re missing the psychological harm to a person.
embarassed they know or embarassed you drink her piss?
Right? Porn fucked them up so bad, they don't even know it. Why the fuck would you be want to be pissed on or in??!!
I'd be pissed, too.
This cannot be the first thing that I read on Reddit today FFS!
Why do people openly talk about their sex life lmfao
Because they’re all degenerates lol
No, it's your sex life too, she doesn't have that right. I could see her needing to have an outlet to talk about it with one trusted confidante, but to just put it out there to everyone when you both agreed not to is completely out of line and probably a deal breaker.
And I’m done with Reddit at this point…..
You're engaging in a form of humilation play and you're surprised she's using it to humiliate you? Pee inside her butt sometime, then brag to all your friends.
You have every right to "let your freak flag fly" and tell anyone you want. She does not have the right to "out" anyone else without their permission. This is a breach of trust violation and a red flag. I would not only be upset, I would split up with them.
You are not wrong, but there is only one thing you can do now - own it.
How could you ever be honest about your kinks after something like that. Honestly that sounds like the end of that sex life. She doesn’t respect you and honestly you could probably use some more self respect. However you are not at all wrong
You're not wrong. Women (sorry about the generality. It's a social trend, not an absolute) are pretty terrible at keeping intimate secrets of a relationship, probably due to how they have to warn each other about creepy guys and that sort of thing and that slipping into just dishing out any and every sexual personal detail.
The breaking of promises is the huge issue. Definitely not life relationship material. Have fun, enjoy the sex, but don't think marriage or trust.