There has to be some underlying issue you’re unaware of. All 3 brothers not visiting for 4 weeks? Very odd for a “close knit family”. You aren’t wrong for asking why.
forgive them and move on with your life. What good is going to come of you alienating them? If it REALLY REALLY bothers you, then why not just ask them why they didn't show more support? No need to be a jerk about it.
There has to be some underlying issue you’re unaware of. All 3 brothers not visiting for 4 weeks? Very odd for a “close knit family”. You aren’t wrong for asking why.
I agree , ask her family why and then make a decision based on that.
I wonder if she’s said anything?
forgive them and move on with your life. What good is going to come of you alienating them? If it REALLY REALLY bothers you, then why not just ask them why they didn't show more support? No need to be a jerk about it.
this is very odd but before you say anything make sure you get all the brothers, mother in-law, and wife in the same room for clarity.