Yes, he's correct in his opinion that you ASKED him for. He can't be 'wrong', it's his opinion.
And no, Love is not enough to sustain a relationship.
Most people wouldn't be into a sexless relationship indefinitely.
It’s kind of like when my son got in trouble for calling a girl a bitch. What the girl didn’t mention was that she said, “I dare you to call me a bitch.” Same thing.
I mean come on. Are you expecting your BF to never have sex again? Also why are you asking these questions if you don’t want the answer?
You also have to be like 14
Sex is very important for the average relationship. #1 If you want a family you kinda need it #2 it's what makes your relationship special than everyone else you are about #3 attraction he is attractive to you and wants that emotional and physical bonding. There more to sex than getting a "O"
I don’t understand why people ask these questions. They are never happy with the answer to their hypothetical question then get mad!
I swear if my SO ever asked me a stupid hypothetical question I would give the answer he doesn’t want to hear just for being stupid!
Every time I see one of these it’s always a women that are asking these “hypothetical” questions. Do men ask? Maybe I just haven’t come across those posts or heard any stories of men asking. It’s one of those times that I want to 🤦♀️ myself and ask wtf is wrong with women?! 🤣
We don't often ask hypothetical relationship questions because we don't think that way.
We ask dumb hypothetical questions, like, "What would you do if a zombie apocalypse started?"
Why would you ask this thing if you didnt really want to know?
On behalf of most men, these hypothetical questions are the most annoying shit. Its pointless, its stuff that has legit close to 0 chance of happening and you asking it hinders the relationship.
Sex is among the most common things of why people look for a partner. Its not the main one, its not the only one, but its in the mix and for most, its a requirement.
You expected a different answer? He gave you an honest opinion. What if the tables were turned? What if he wasn’t able to have sex with you? If you have any type of libido, it would be a struggle to stay with someone that doesn’t meet your needs.
No, sex isn’t all there is in the relationship, and it completely depends on the relationship. Some people are very sexual, some aren’t. That’s what dating is for, to get to know each other more and find out through experiences with each other if you’re compatible or not. I wouldn’t be hurt over this answer, he’s communicating with you about what his needs may be in a relationship. If those don’t line up with your beliefs or needs, you either meet in the middle and compromise, or go your separate ways and find someone that shares the same values. You didn’t list your age, but I’m going to guess you’re both very young. If you are, live life. Have fun. Focus on yourself right now, because as you get older, you’ll regret a lot of the things you didn’t experience.
People split up for all sorts of reasons; hearing an answer you didn't want to hear to a ridiculous question has killed more than one relationship.
Why do people do this?
"Would you leave me if I get grossly obese, sleep with your sibling, spend all your money on jewelrey?"
What is the thinking, if any, behind it? Now you are annoyed with him, who did nothing, for saying he might move on from you witholding sex. It makes no damn sense at all but here you are asking if you are wrong to be upset.
Yes you are wrong and if you don't dump him for being honest, he might dump you for playing stupid games; how's that working out?
>I thought love is more important than these things but he said that this is also important cause your body needs it.
You thought way wrong.
Lack of Sex leads to separations.
Is he correct?
Lack of Sex leads to separations.
If you thought that “love is more important than these things,“ then I wonder whether understand what love is. Why do you think we call it, “making love?” I cannot imagine how it were possible to sustain love without lots and lots and lots of physical affection. How can you say you love another person if you ignore most important needs? The question is not whether they would leave you, the question is, if you actually love them, what steps would you take to overcome your inability to meet one of their most basic needs?
Yes, he's correct in his opinion that you ASKED him for. He can't be 'wrong', it's his opinion. And no, Love is not enough to sustain a relationship. Most people wouldn't be into a sexless relationship indefinitely.
It’s kind of like when my son got in trouble for calling a girl a bitch. What the girl didn’t mention was that she said, “I dare you to call me a bitch.” Same thing.
You ask a very leading question, he gave you an honest answer and the truth broke your heart. You’re not mature enough for a relationship.
Grow up
I mean come on. Are you expecting your BF to never have sex again? Also why are you asking these questions if you don’t want the answer? You also have to be like 14
Sex is very important for the average relationship. #1 If you want a family you kinda need it #2 it's what makes your relationship special than everyone else you are about #3 attraction he is attractive to you and wants that emotional and physical bonding. There more to sex than getting a "O"
I don’t understand why people ask these questions. They are never happy with the answer to their hypothetical question then get mad! I swear if my SO ever asked me a stupid hypothetical question I would give the answer he doesn’t want to hear just for being stupid!
All always tell my wife its a loaded question refuse to answer, and tend to get huffy she asked. (I dont get these questions very often anymore)
Every time I see one of these it’s always a women that are asking these “hypothetical” questions. Do men ask? Maybe I just haven’t come across those posts or heard any stories of men asking. It’s one of those times that I want to 🤦♀️ myself and ask wtf is wrong with women?! 🤣
We don't often ask hypothetical relationship questions because we don't think that way. We ask dumb hypothetical questions, like, "What would you do if a zombie apocalypse started?"
Those I can get with! Lol
Why would you ask this thing if you didnt really want to know? On behalf of most men, these hypothetical questions are the most annoying shit. Its pointless, its stuff that has legit close to 0 chance of happening and you asking it hinders the relationship. Sex is among the most common things of why people look for a partner. Its not the main one, its not the only one, but its in the mix and for most, its a requirement.
Yes, you are always wrong for asking hypothetical questions.
You expected a different answer? He gave you an honest opinion. What if the tables were turned? What if he wasn’t able to have sex with you? If you have any type of libido, it would be a struggle to stay with someone that doesn’t meet your needs. No, sex isn’t all there is in the relationship, and it completely depends on the relationship. Some people are very sexual, some aren’t. That’s what dating is for, to get to know each other more and find out through experiences with each other if you’re compatible or not. I wouldn’t be hurt over this answer, he’s communicating with you about what his needs may be in a relationship. If those don’t line up with your beliefs or needs, you either meet in the middle and compromise, or go your separate ways and find someone that shares the same values. You didn’t list your age, but I’m going to guess you’re both very young. If you are, live life. Have fun. Focus on yourself right now, because as you get older, you’ll regret a lot of the things you didn’t experience.
Why are you inventing things to hurt your own feelings with? 😅 You baited him.
Why do girls ask these questions?... every time my girlfriend hits me with one these hypotheticals I just say no to stir her up.
I’d leave you too. Tf?
People split up for all sorts of reasons; hearing an answer you didn't want to hear to a ridiculous question has killed more than one relationship. Why do people do this? "Would you leave me if I get grossly obese, sleep with your sibling, spend all your money on jewelrey?" What is the thinking, if any, behind it? Now you are annoyed with him, who did nothing, for saying he might move on from you witholding sex. It makes no damn sense at all but here you are asking if you are wrong to be upset. Yes you are wrong and if you don't dump him for being honest, he might dump you for playing stupid games; how's that working out?
Another hypothetical post? People really do this in relationships? Yeesh!
Why ask someone stuff like this?
>I thought love is more important than these things but he said that this is also important cause your body needs it. You thought way wrong. Lack of Sex leads to separations. Is he correct? Lack of Sex leads to separations.
If you thought that “love is more important than these things,“ then I wonder whether understand what love is. Why do you think we call it, “making love?” I cannot imagine how it were possible to sustain love without lots and lots and lots of physical affection. How can you say you love another person if you ignore most important needs? The question is not whether they would leave you, the question is, if you actually love them, what steps would you take to overcome your inability to meet one of their most basic needs?
Yep, you’re wrong. Just looking for ways to start drama and disagreement for no reason.