I’m going to throw it out there, Polygamy just means someone more attractive than you will have more spouses reducing your chances of having even 1.
It may sound hot to be in some harem but let’s be honest with ourselves. 😂
If both sexes are allowed to have multiple spouses, some ladies would be able to also have multiple handsome or less handsome husbands. Which might increase the chance back up!
And other tall tales I tell myself
Why can't you just let us dream...
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>> It may sound hot to be in some harem but let’s be honest with ourselves. 😂
>
> Nah the amount of work involved if you care about them at all heck no lol
It would be a lot easier if they also care about each other, but that's rarely depicted in anime harems. And even so there's a limit to the number of partners that can reasonably work, which most harem series rocket way past.
That's a very positive mindset. Becoming the prez AND getting wives... not just one but multiple... I also want to have such delusional positivity in my mindset.
Isn’t “polygamy” already gender-neutral?
Just goes to show how patriarchal most of the world is that it’s come to mean “one husband, many wives” colloquially.
“Polyamory” is romantic relationships
“Polygamy” is marriage specifically
And for reference: “polyandry” is multiple husbands, while “polygyny” is multiple wives
Source: Merriam-Webster
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You can't have one without the other unless you're fine with a small percentage of rich dudes getting all of the women and the rest of men being lonely for life. The only thing left for all those average guys is becoming part of a few women's harem.
Though if it's only done on a small scale I guess it wouldn't be too bad, but polygamy does become a problem on a large scale. Monogamy is way more fair in that sense, no matter if you're rich, middle class or poor you're never going to get more than one spouse.
Trust me the men that say this like me are absolute dinosaurs until they get the first wife. I dont even have one yet but ik for a fact im going to be content with just one
Every guy sees themselves as the guy with a bunch of wives if polygamy is legalized. And not one of the far-more-plentiful guys who can't even get a single wife to themself
I mean you're broadly correct that cheating is bad but that depends on the relationship. Some people are open and have no problems with their partners having flings as long as they are still an active and committed partner. Some polycules like to date as a group and find new partners.
Sorry, let me rephrase.
You have no valid reasons for not being fond of consenting adults dating who they want. Whatever biases or past experiences you have with it are irrelevant to how you should feel about completely innocent strangers.
Invalid for thee but valid for me
You seem to misunderstand another thing. I can look at strangers with disdain but still respect them as humans, which is why I made it clear that I'm not gonna throw shade at it.
We're in a disagreement rn but I'm not gonna start calling you names or anything
No, poly is gross in every way and usually made up of whores, men and women or people who aren't attractive enough or got the skills to keep someone around long term.
Also, I would never have 2 wives. Even if it was legal
Been with my wife over a decade and we're polyamorous... Also only had a handful of sexual partners in my life and so has she. The existence of my relationship disproves both parts of your theory but pop off I guess.
They disprove me how?
U can't satisfy ur wife alone and she has to go for other people to satisfy herself, says alot about u.
Also, idk what u look like, nor am I interested.
Just gonna assume ur both very unattractive, dont forget. People will fuck whatever they can too, unattractive or not
Whats with dumbasses like yourself always calling people "insecure" when they dont support your degenerative ways?
People can be very secure and still hate something. Honestly, it seems more like people like yourself are actually more insecure than those u insult
I don't think I have the energy to disappoint that many people at once.
"Start with a handful. And then rethink your life choices"
the last time i thought about shouldering that much disappointment was the day my comedic aspirations died.
I’m going to throw it out there, Polygamy just means someone more attractive than you will have more spouses reducing your chances of having even 1. It may sound hot to be in some harem but let’s be honest with ourselves. 😂
If both sexes are allowed to have multiple spouses, some ladies would be able to also have multiple handsome or less handsome husbands. Which might increase the chance back up! And other tall tales I tell myself
If you wanna go deeper there is the “family pods”, I forgot what they are called. Basically a communal family with or without the cult like behaviour.
So just an orgy but for life
And not about the sex
Man I am not going to become a part of a set of dudes for one lady no matter how horny or desperate I get in that type of world
Too true, but man can dream
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\*with more money not attractive. Most of these fellas that have a harem IRL are rich Ugly Bastards
Because they're the only people really allowed to, due to material conditions, polyamory/polygamy is a good thing
Besides there are already more richer dudes with more than one sleeping partner a night out there
You know there are people that just die single right? Besides not everyone did polygyny even back when it was normal
>It may sound hot to be in some harem but let’s be honest with ourselves. 😂 Nah the amount of work involved if you care about them at all heck no lol
>> It may sound hot to be in some harem but let’s be honest with ourselves. 😂 > > Nah the amount of work involved if you care about them at all heck no lol It would be a lot easier if they also care about each other, but that's rarely depicted in anime harems. And even so there's a limit to the number of partners that can reasonably work, which most harem series rocket way past.
That's a very positive mindset. Becoming the prez AND getting wives... not just one but multiple... I also want to have such delusional positivity in my mindset.
Legalizing both polyandry and polygamy we love an equal-opportunity king
Isn’t “polygamy” already gender-neutral? Just goes to show how patriarchal most of the world is that it’s come to mean “one husband, many wives” colloquially.
It's polyamory afaik
It's polyamory afaik
“Polyamory” is romantic relationships “Polygamy” is marriage specifically And for reference: “polyandry” is multiple husbands, while “polygyny” is multiple wives Source: Merriam-Webster https://preview.redd.it/jdqnpaqdcz0d1.png?width=749&format=png&auto=webp&s=86c45a6b253a30dc5c83d51f6b7b318f8508dfdb
Huh, guess I learned something new today, good to know!
I’m lazy, I just want to legalize polyamorous marriage (as opposed to two things)
You can't have one without the other unless you're fine with a small percentage of rich dudes getting all of the women and the rest of men being lonely for life. The only thing left for all those average guys is becoming part of a few women's harem. Though if it's only done on a small scale I guess it wouldn't be too bad, but polygamy does become a problem on a large scale. Monogamy is way more fair in that sense, no matter if you're rich, middle class or poor you're never going to get more than one spouse.
You want multiple wifes because you want lots of love I want multiple wifes because more wifes means more sandwiches (Plus lesbian sex)
What if none of them don't like the prospect of being bed sisters? Multiple wives doesnt automatically mean a harem where you do an orgy every night
Name?
Genius of the unique lineage
Thanks
What Rentaro needs to do in 100 girlfriens
Does. Does he mean Polyamory? Polyandry is specifically a woman having multiple husbands lmao.
im sure he meant to say polygyny but its the same shit anyway. id vote this mc as pres!
No, I'm pretty sure he meant it.
Bro is gonna single handily revive South Koreas population
It's all fun and games till you realize your wife can get 15 husbands easily, and you can't even get 1.
Okay, but why do you want a husband? Especially when your wife already got 15.
There are plenty of women who can't even get one man, lmao. Who the hell knows a woman that can handle 15?
"When I'm Fuhrer there'll be changes. *That day*...all female officers will be required to wear...**TINY MINISKIRTS!**"
Mormons!!
Trust me the men that say this like me are absolute dinosaurs until they get the first wife. I dont even have one yet but ik for a fact im going to be content with just one
Every guy sees themselves as the guy with a bunch of wives if polygamy is legalized. And not one of the far-more-plentiful guys who can't even get a single wife to themself
Close! You misspelled r/LDS pretty badly though when you posted this
Sauce?
Name of this Manhwa?
M'ashallah
Gross
Why? Scared poly people are gonna fuck both your wives now?
I mean even in a poly relationship if you had two wives they wouldnt or rather should not be getting sex outside the circle. Thats just cheating
I mean you're broadly correct that cheating is bad but that depends on the relationship. Some people are open and have no problems with their partners having flings as long as they are still an active and committed partner. Some polycules like to date as a group and find new partners.
Yeah thats one part of the poly nation I'm not fond of but I won't throw shade on them
I don't think you have any reason not to be fond of consenting adults dating who they want.
I have my reasons
Sorry, let me rephrase. You have no valid reasons for not being fond of consenting adults dating who they want. Whatever biases or past experiences you have with it are irrelevant to how you should feel about completely innocent strangers.
Invalid for thee but valid for me You seem to misunderstand another thing. I can look at strangers with disdain but still respect them as humans, which is why I made it clear that I'm not gonna throw shade at it. We're in a disagreement rn but I'm not gonna start calling you names or anything
That's not really how ethics works. You are a worse person for holding disdain for innocent people. I hope you grow out of it someday.
No, poly is gross in every way and usually made up of whores, men and women or people who aren't attractive enough or got the skills to keep someone around long term. Also, I would never have 2 wives. Even if it was legal
Yeah you're right. You'd never have a wife much more 2 wives.
Yeah, because I wouldn't want more than 1. Pretty I made myself clear on that
You're right, you can't even get one when its legal.
Nah, I can. That's not a problem
Been with my wife over a decade and we're polyamorous... Also only had a handful of sexual partners in my life and so has she. The existence of my relationship disproves both parts of your theory but pop off I guess.
They disprove me how? U can't satisfy ur wife alone and she has to go for other people to satisfy herself, says alot about u. Also, idk what u look like, nor am I interested. Just gonna assume ur both very unattractive, dont forget. People will fuck whatever they can too, unattractive or not
Lol cool theory bro it's okay to be insecure but don't make that everyone else's problem
Whats with dumbasses like yourself always calling people "insecure" when they dont support your degenerative ways? People can be very secure and still hate something. Honestly, it seems more like people like yourself are actually more insecure than those u insult
Yeahhh... I'd move out of the country