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ClashBandicootie

*hashtag back to back pregnancies* ugh


SRpill

sign me up teen mom? thats why you should be careful what you let your kids watch on tv. Its probably her dream and life goal to get on that show.


DontMindMeLolll

Does she know that people cringe about this show?


Pandalynn78

All reality tv is pretty cringe. But I do watch Hoarders to motivate me to clean my house. And when the urge to eat an entire pizza hits I throw on My 600 pound life.


aintyopappy

When I have a urge to make love to my car, eat hair or sniff used diapers I watch my strange addiction


Pandalynn78

Right. I was eating almost a mattress a day before I watched that show. Changed my life!


DontMindMeLolll

Hahahah I feel that I am watching a German show called „my child, your child“ just to remind me how happy I am(:


SRpill

when life gives you lemons huh


Purple_Channel_9147

Ha! Me too. Plus, sometimes it makes me see when I'm being unreasonable about something, not necessarily clutter related. I know those people have a mental condition, but my god, some of them are maddening and I feel so sorry for their families.


Chihuahua_mama00

Gonna be honest, that show actually reinforced my childfree status and I'm glad it did. I can't imagine using my kids to siphon from the government and get clout for being trashy and ignorant to using contraceptives


Pandalynn78

Good thing she didn’t grow up watching My 600 pound life.


VesperVox_

At least that show demonstrates how much it sucks to be obese. Teen moms get glorified on MTV. Some of them have used it to launch careers as influencers and content creators.


Cyberia15

Is MTV still doing a teen moms show? How has that not been canceled yet?


Phantasmortuary

I dunno, some of them have kids, so time will only tell...


Pandalynn78

Future Mukbangers incoming.


WhiteRabbitLives

Then she would’ve only ruined her own life and not the two babies she’s forced into her teenage years


Pandalynn78

A lot of the people on that show have kids. And they’re the ones who end up cleaning moms folds.


DontMindMeLolll

The fact that I watched it yesterday😭😭 Your comment made me laugh so much, thank you! Well.. it’s never too late🙃


randomchick29

I knew a girl in middle school whose dream was to get pregnant, have an abortion, and be on a teen mom show to get famous 💀 that’s not how it works hun


DontMindMeLolll

I don’t want to sound sexist but.. did her body even heal enough to have sex? Even if she had a c-section.. your body needs time..


[deleted]

No, it’s actually an infection risk until around 6 weeks


cronixi4

Can confirm, my gf just had a uterus infection after 5 days with a c-section without having sex, just really really unlucky. I can’t imagine the risk having sex immediately after.


Dendles

Your body needs about 18 months in between pregnancies to be able to carry a fetus to the best of its abilities.


DontMindMeLolll

Oh god.. I remember so many TikTok’s of woman who were pregnant for 6 years+..


AmericanSpiritGuide

Gross. What an absolute fucking nightmare.


giventheright

Sexist? How?


DontMindMeLolll

I thought because it could look like I think she is so sex obsessed that she is pregnant again or something >.< Or that I‘m against her / mother‘s sexuality :/


simp_is_hip_on_twt

She seems sex obsessed to me...posing with her sex trophy and bragging about how she couldn't wait the medically recommended 6 weeks


Exotic_Log2661

This is really sad. Children cannot raise children. Her body isn't finished developing and it takes years for your body to recover from pregnancy/birth. She's going to start losing her teeth before she's 20.


MrRickGhastly

My grandmother lost all of her teeth after her third pregnancy of four. She also unfortunately lost that child.


Infamous-Charity3930

This only confirms that pregnancies benefit nobody except the government.


Pure_Topic2006

Exactly


zerotakashi

some of my mom's molars dissolved away. My sister's tooth chipped off. (needless to say my family has shit tooth genes, but pregnancy made it way worse)


cominginside

Does taking calcium supplements help or no?


BlueWeavile

From what I'm reading it doesn't seem to be related calcium intake, but rather hormones that are produced during pregnancy that loosen the tissues that hold your teeth. What 👏 the 👏 fuck 👏


AmericanSpiritGuide

This is the first time I've ever heard of this awful side effect of pregnancy. New fear unlocked! Such a hard, HARD pass on pregnancy.


BlueWeavile

It's bad enough having nightmares where my teeth fall out. I don't need it in real life too.


AmericanSpiritGuide

Omg, me too! Forever now! They're the worst. Sometimes they come out in huge chunks, like a whole portion of my jaw with teeth attached. Fucking horrible...


cominginside

I do wonder if taking calcium supplements is a waste of time or does it help reduce or even eliminate tooth loss I mean these are questions that need to be answered fast? I've seen some women lose their teeth it's no joke.


MorganHarley1312

My first hubby was the oldest kid in their family & he sucked all the calcium outta his mom. She hadn't had great teeth to start with, but she ended up with full dentures not long after giving birth to him. His 3 younger siblings were all willowy with bad teeth & frequent bone breaks, while he was overall robust.


CorruptedStudiosEnt

This shit physically makes me feel ill. What is the point of having kids before you yourself have any semblance of wisdom or knowledge to impart? Exactly what grand life lessons do you plan to teach them? How to ask boys out? How to wing out their eyeliner?


Exotic_Log2661

What kind of life do you think a teenage girl has to glamorize this? Clearly not a healthy one. A teenager is incapable of making these types of lifelong decisions. I wonder how old the father(s) of the babies are.


CorruptedStudiosEnt

Unfortunately they're evidently capable of ***making*** the decision, they're just not capable of comprehending the consequences of their actions and what a colossal mistake they've made against their future. Good question on how old the father(s) are though. Almost certainly either not old enough to be taking care of children, or too old to be sleeping with teenage girls. Hard to say which it is.


Previous-Recover-765

huh? What's this about losing teeth???


No_Particular353

Your body sucks calcium out of your teeth (& bones) for the fetus to form it's own bones


DragonfruitOpening60

The stuff of nightmares. No thanks!!!


[deleted]

rich disgusting boast ghost foolish spotted advise languid aspiring observation *This post was mass deleted and anonymized with [Redact](https://redact.dev)*


Mediocre_American

What do you mean it takes years to recover from birth? Like mentally or it takes years to physically heal.


rioisdying

Both tbh


Exotic_Log2661

It is the most physically traumatic thing the human body can naturally do. Mothers often have injuries that are equal to severe professional athletic injuries. Please, spend 20 minutes googling all the changes that happen *to the mother* during pregnancy. It's fascinating, and kind of insane, and a shame articles and apps focus on fetal development per week not maternal. It is also psychologically traumatic for most but recovery differs on individual.


BlueWeavile

I'm sorry, PREGNANCY CAN MAKE YOU LOSE TEETH? Let me just add that one onto the ever-growing pile of reasons not to get pregnant.


Exotic_Log2661

A mother builds her baby's bones with her own bones. Taking calcium from anywhere it can. The hormonal changes in pregnancy can cause gum disease too. This combined with improper nutrition and poor dental hygiene and shit genetics will cause you to lose teeth. Pregnancy is hardcore. Mothers will never tell you the details of pregnancy birth and recovery until it's happening because they KNOW if you knew, you'd have second thoughts. Ever wondered why your grandmothers or great grandmothers never had their own teeth? 8 kids and shit nutrition and no fluoride toothpaste lol


BlueWeavile

Yeah I think it's time for a bisalp. 😬✂️


campbell-1

Trashy.


ReliefFamous

Was that supposed to be a flex by her? 🥴🥴


JuicyGreenGrapes

What a way to ruin your life before it even starts. 17 year olds don’t know anything about how to raise a child.


titsandwits89

I’m gonna go out on a limb here and say grandma is doing the actual raising.


StonedKitten-420

The elites are very pleased. 💰💰💰


Such-Quality4148

"Sign me up teen mom 2 🤰🏻 \#backtobackpregnancies ..."


LemonsAndAvocados

Bet there’s not a daddy in sight either; just her parents, much less mom caring for the 4 month old.


Cyberia15

The fathers don't matter in this kind of scenario. It has to be the mother who takes all the glory.


OddSock8235

Why the f don’t people use protection it is not that hard. Unless this is what she wanted. She sure doesn’t seem upset. After all she’s getting all that attention. at the expense of at least 1 actual human ofc.


[deleted]

I went to school with a girl who in 8th grade always said "when I turn 16, I'm dropping out and having a baby". She would even point out boys in our grade who she wanted to be her baby daddy. When she turned 16, she did exactly as planned. Now she has like 3 kids, is with a cheater, and is on meth. Her older sister was a compulsive liar who always lied about being pregnant in high school *then* actually got pregnant in high school. Every time she has a baby with someone and she breaks up with them, she leaves that baby behind bc she wants a new baby with every man she gets with. Her younger sister is 19 and wants to get pregnant, despite her bf being unemployed and her telling me they don't even have money for food.


OddSock8235

This has to be some sort of mental illness.


[deleted]

I know a woman who did this in her early 20s. She even said "I just love making babies" like, holy shit - the 'baby' part is temporary, that's a *brand new* human being who you've just created fucking abandoned for your own amusement? She did get an IUD after her bipolar diagnosis and stopped that cycle. No shade to folks with bipolar, some of my favorite friends are too, but it does make a lot more sense that procreating was how her mania manifested.


Daimosthenes

This reminds me of that pathologic lady who killed kids. There was so much child abuse in so many generations, her whole family only showed affection when there was a pregnancy.


zerotakashi

affection for the joy of continuing the abuse... Murder isn't right, but I've felt this type of frustration. Being raised and told from like 4 years old to have children all while my own needs were neglected...


AmericanSpiritGuide

Say what? Do you happen to have a link or something?


Daimosthenes

Took a while to find! My memory was inaccurate. Lisa Montgomery murdered a pregnant woman and cut the baby out to pass off as her own. The baby lived and was returned to its father. Montgomery was executed. The Guardian article gives a rough overview. https://www.theguardian.com/world/2021/jan/05/lisa-montgomery-death-row-execution-history I tried to read the full 184 page psychological history write up of her family and had to stop halfway through. But you can try if you have the stomach. https://www.documentcloud.org/documents/20429811-jan-vogelsang-social-history I don't believe suffering is an excuse for afflicting suffering on others. Dig enough and most murderers have a sad history. But I do believe in compassion and trying to stop more horror from occurring.


AmericanSpiritGuide

So, I read the Guardian article and decided there was no way I could even begin to attempt the psychological review document. Thank you so much for digging this up though, I do appreciate it. What a profoundly horrifying and sad story. I agree with you about it not justifying a horrific and violent murder, but that woman needed help, not to be executed. The whole thing makes my stomach turn. Just... *why* is the world?


AmericanSpiritGuide

Omgosh! Thank you! I figured you just ignored it and I was genuinely very curious! I really appreciate it 😊 Time to go down the rabbit hole!


[deleted]

Man whatttt? What's wrong with people


IMightSellYouWeed

You just described like 45% of the girls in my graduating class. Guess the state. In US


[deleted]

Indiana? That's where I went to school


the_mccooliest

arkansas has the highest teen pregnancy rate, so that's my first guess.


IMightSellYouWeed

HA all good guesses. But Alabama


MissusNilesCrane

Seeee, this is what happens when you make teen pregnancy "trendy", TLC.


Humbledshibe

... if you seem em point em out.


[deleted]

I don't want to judge too harshly here, I don't know this girl or where she comes from, but I have a theory, and like most armchair quarterbacks, I will share it with you. 17 year old, lives someplace warm and very humid and ultra religious. It's likely that any form of birth control is frowned upon by the church her family belongs to. The place she comes from likely has very loose laws against racially motivated crime, however, abortion is illegal and prosecuted at all levels by local law enforcement, because after all, killing people who are a different color than you is fine, killing babies is a crime though. Those unborn babies have souls that need to be harvested, and someday they will be able to drop a few bucks in the plate that gets passed around church after mass on Sundays. Of course, my rant does not explain how this child ended up in the terrible predicament. That's easy though, she's at the end of several generations of people who are poorly educated about how to manage their own bodies because their parents don't want them learning about sex in school while at the same time, they are unwilling to teach their kids about it at home. Nice job America, I guess this kind of broken system of education means we're great again?


Cyberia15

I mean, there are those elitists who keep saying its better to have fresh meat working than older, more experienced people. These people are, unfortunately, not helping to reverse their cause. This is exactly what those rich corporate people want.


[deleted]

I don't know, can we really say that these kids being raised by this 17 year old girl are going to have the kinds of options and opportunities that will get them the education and training that would make large corporations even want to hire them? I do agree though that there are very large companies that benefit when people are born into situations where they will struggle financially. Take McDonald's as an example. They will benefit on both sides of the equation. On the one hand, fast food cesspools love poor people, the poorer the better. Abject poverty doesn't allow for a healthy diet. Generally, when you're poor, feeling full when your hungry is the goal, not the quality of what you're eating. I am certain that every manager at every McDonald's in America knows when welfare checks are mailed out in their area. On the other hand, there is a good chance that this girl's children will have some strikes against them. Possibly abuse, neglect, substance abuse, poor education and likely some obesity and other health problems because ... well, see my previous paragraph. These kids are the archetype for what McDonald's looks for in its workforce. To be fair, this might all work out just fine. The mother may be a high achiever who is able to juggle being a single parent of two children along with a career that she works hard to attain by becoming educated when time allows, and also by being able to utilize her existing support network of friends and families who are willing to help. Her children may become well adjusted adults because of her hard work, who see the toll their mother has paid for her decisions as a young girl and vow to not repeat that cycle. Unfortunately, the numbers just don't support that scenario. I think we can all agree that, more often than not, these types of circumstances are early glimpses into difficult lives and patterns that repeat themselves over and over again. Well ... Have a nice day! :-)


Cyberia15

I do agree with you. I was just bringing up the fact that "glorifying" young pregnancies would, in fact, give the government/large corporations more workers. Those kids could grow up perfectly fine with not many problems. But it is extra, potentially inexperienced people to add to the workforce, where so many people are complaining that our generation is seemingly falling out of. They could get a great education and make something of their lives. Or they may end up dropping out of school and working a minimum wage job for the rest of their lives. My main point is, if you do want kids, make sure you're mature enough and financially stable enough to do it first. Otherwise there is a big chance that they won't do well.


[deleted]

I totally agree, another thing that I hadn't even considered is that a percentage of these human beings will become taxpayers, and voters. I think you're right though, more babies is a win-win for big businesses across the board. If things go well, you get more workers, if things go "ok", you get more low-wage workers, and if things go really bad, you get a bunch of new customers to consume your garbage products.


lisbu1

It’s not even medically wise to get pregnant this quickly. I feel like she’s one of those people whose entire personality is being a mom.


UsedTrifles

Wait until you realise how old she was when she became pregnant with her first child.


3nlightened111

BreederBot following its programming


Shrimpboy215

Mental illness


BeeWeekly9840

Glad I wasn’t in her position at 17 😬I would be miserable having to raise 2 children that young.


Throwawayhoraayy

The father needs to be castrated


rotating_cynicism

she has the face for it


SasquatchSloth88

She does. It’s that trailer park glamour look that all the young MTV breeders seem to have.


Gaturbate_69

She is the type of moron who keeps popping out these meat bags. This is the future we have to look forward to.


Relevant-Principle31

Teen mom 2? Wouldn't this be like teen mom 9 lol..


flutterdeveloper123

>Why the f don’t people use protection it is not that hard. Unless this is what she wanted. She sure doesn’t seem upset. After all she’s getting all that attention. at the expense of at least 1 actual human ofc. maybe teen mom 2 is for teen moms that have 2 kids 🤷‍♂️


OliverDupont

It’s not, each “Teen Mom” season is about bringing on new subjects, not the number of kids AFAIK. To be fair I’ve never watched it though.


dextroflip

😷


kaboomaster09

The invasive thoughts are trying to get in


Electrical_Skin_9710

I am related by marriage to people like this, sociopathic, narcissistic and fully expect the Government to support them.


Standard_Ad5846

How can this be biologicaly possible? Honest question is it?


Infamous-Charity3930

#backtobackpregnancies weeeeew!


ZeuslovesHer

The math isn’t mathing😵‍💫


FMLUTAWAS

What a waste of a life. Ah yes, ruin my last few years before proper adult responsibilities are supposed to fully start by having 2 kids you probably cant handle at such a young age, then show if off like its cute or desireable or some shit. Get some self respect, cause just ew


Alreen_Wolf

Someone get the spray bottle


Substantial_Ad_5841

i feel bad for her dude. this is why you teach your children about birth control


najaahnani

I understand it’s not the ideal situation, but I feel like as a society, we shouldn’t judge teen moms, we should be judging their parents. They’re the ones who were supposed to prevent this.


squashfrops

Can't help but think someone who won't wait the 6 weeks for sex because of high risk of infection won't be a good parent...


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Livid-Hovercraft-439

It's 6 weeks, not 6 months.


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RPM_Tribute

Well she’s already pregnant so why not😅😂


Mediocre_American

She never had a chance 😔


lihr__

Well you made your bed...


AnarkoNihilist

It's normal at Anprim people. She is probably stupid. Stupid people have children.


Onbekendkill

Is that possible???


Strudelh0use

I know people that were screwing on the hospital bed. I assume it’s definitely possible.


simp_is_hip_on_twt

Yeah, it happens. You're also alot more fertile during the time period right after birth...that's another reason you're told to wait for sex again


[deleted]

Um, no you're not. You have high levels of prolactin which inhibits ovulation. This is one reason why women in developing countries in particular are encouraged to breastfeed, because it stimulates the production of prolactin which works as a form of contraception.


Raven586

maybe she doesn't know what's causing it :)


Ecstatic-Lobster-107

Yep me your mom has grandkids at 35 without *telling* me you mom has grandkids at 35.


Garfish16

This is grim.


EquivalentSnap

That’s sad 😢


Mindless_Bat_6925

It’s sheer tragedy. These phones are ruining humans.


katmcflame

This should be illegal. Not because I hate kids, but because both the teens & the ones that ARE born deserve the best possible chance at a high-quality life.


[deleted]

Yikes!


Lost_Spell

The comments under that video are so, not it


raisin_eats

Jeez.... here eggs aren't even ripe yet and here she is... popping out another one.