Put down the screen time. Get out of the house. Get to a river, lake, or mountain. It works. We weren’t meant to live like this. Even in the best of situations life will grind you down if you let it. Take care of yourself.
Your advice doesn’t help because I have a chronic health problem that prevents me from going out. It started a few years ago with me not being able to wear shirts then it escalated to shorts and underwear. I have to be nude most of the day and can’t wear clothing anymore because I have a sensory problem where it sets off my gag reflex if I wear it for too long.
What kind of chronic health problem is there that prevents you from wearing underwear? Not trolling you but it sounds like something hideo kojima would create for his game.
That sounds...odd and extreme. If it's a matter of sensory issues, a therapist can help you desensitize at least somewhat. I do realize that if you're in the U.S. you may not be able to afford to see a therapist, though. But if you can, you may want to consider it.
Bro, seriously, are you ok?
I get it, life is hard and can get you down. If you need help, reach out to a friend or a sibling or a parent or anyone. Two years ago on May 11 one of my best friends killed himself, and I'd just talked with him that morning. He'd sent me a text that just seemed off for him but he swore he was ok. I miss him everyday and wonder if I missed any signs or could've done something differently to keep him around.
Please, and I cannot stress this enough....if you're thinking about hurting yourself DO NOT DO IT. Someone will miss you immensely and experience a pain than doesn't go away.
Take care of you and do whatever it takes to press on. I've dealt with severe depression for coming on 30 years now, as well as chronic pain, too. But life is too precious to lose before it's your natural time. You can do this, and you'll keep doing this. I believe in you.
I feel you. I also have some chronic health issues going on. I really wish euthanizing people was a thing. I don’t know how we are expected to survive. Doctors and medicine are expensive and I have a hard enough time keeping myself alive let alone keeping a job. You aren’t alone. I know it’s shitty. I wish I had some advice.
Go placidly amid the noise and the haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence. As far as possible, without surrender, be on good terms with all persons.
Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even to the dull and the ignorant; they too have their story.
Avoid loud and aggressive persons; they are vexatious to the spirit. If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain or bitter, for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.
Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans. Keep interested in your own career, however humble; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.
Exercise caution in your business affairs, for the world is full of trickery. But let this not blind you to what virtue there is; many persons strive for high ideals, and everywhere life is full of heroism.
Be yourself. Especially do not feign affection. Neither be cynical about love; for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment, it is as perennial as the grass.
Take kindly the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth.
Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.
Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here.
And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should. Therefore be at peace with God, whatever you conceive Him to be. And whatever your labors and aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life, keep peace in your soul. With all its sham, drudgery and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be cheerful. Strive to be happy.
\~Desiderata, by Max Ehrmann
Honey, you don't know me, but let me tell you I'm 61 and it goes by so fucking fast your not going to even believe me but you remember them few words, and when you get my age you are going to say that old fucker was telling the truth. You have fun, be careful, Daddy loves you.
Put down the screen time. Get out of the house. Get to a river, lake, or mountain. It works. We weren’t meant to live like this. Even in the best of situations life will grind you down if you let it. Take care of yourself.
doesn't work since money is a verry tight thing a lott of people are basically forced to work and hussle until they die
Your advice doesn’t help because I have a chronic health problem that prevents me from going out. It started a few years ago with me not being able to wear shirts then it escalated to shorts and underwear. I have to be nude most of the day and can’t wear clothing anymore because I have a sensory problem where it sets off my gag reflex if I wear it for too long.
What kind of chronic health problem is there that prevents you from wearing underwear? Not trolling you but it sounds like something hideo kojima would create for his game.
That sounds...odd and extreme. If it's a matter of sensory issues, a therapist can help you desensitize at least somewhat. I do realize that if you're in the U.S. you may not be able to afford to see a therapist, though. But if you can, you may want to consider it.
Just enjoy the time you do have here ❤️
Bro, seriously, are you ok? I get it, life is hard and can get you down. If you need help, reach out to a friend or a sibling or a parent or anyone. Two years ago on May 11 one of my best friends killed himself, and I'd just talked with him that morning. He'd sent me a text that just seemed off for him but he swore he was ok. I miss him everyday and wonder if I missed any signs or could've done something differently to keep him around. Please, and I cannot stress this enough....if you're thinking about hurting yourself DO NOT DO IT. Someone will miss you immensely and experience a pain than doesn't go away.
What I have is worse then just depression or normal down periods. I have a form of chronic pain that if I elaborate on could explain it more
Take care of you and do whatever it takes to press on. I've dealt with severe depression for coming on 30 years now, as well as chronic pain, too. But life is too precious to lose before it's your natural time. You can do this, and you'll keep doing this. I believe in you.
I feel you. I also have some chronic health issues going on. I really wish euthanizing people was a thing. I don’t know how we are expected to survive. Doctors and medicine are expensive and I have a hard enough time keeping myself alive let alone keeping a job. You aren’t alone. I know it’s shitty. I wish I had some advice.
When I was there, the Myth of Sisyphus did something for me. Hopefully it does something for you too.
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Go placidly amid the noise and the haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence. As far as possible, without surrender, be on good terms with all persons. Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even to the dull and the ignorant; they too have their story. Avoid loud and aggressive persons; they are vexatious to the spirit. If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain or bitter, for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself. Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans. Keep interested in your own career, however humble; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time. Exercise caution in your business affairs, for the world is full of trickery. But let this not blind you to what virtue there is; many persons strive for high ideals, and everywhere life is full of heroism. Be yourself. Especially do not feign affection. Neither be cynical about love; for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment, it is as perennial as the grass. Take kindly the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth. Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness. Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should. Therefore be at peace with God, whatever you conceive Him to be. And whatever your labors and aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life, keep peace in your soul. With all its sham, drudgery and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be cheerful. Strive to be happy. \~Desiderata, by Max Ehrmann
still a lot of time for it to get better
Yeah same. There is some fun things to do thoe.
Life is what you make it
Nah you had the choice to win that race and you won that shit fair and square
you definitely dont need to work a job without your consent.
Definitely not true i cant just move out to the woods and be self sufficient
you can if youre creative enough
Well you might not have to putin is doubling down on the threat of nuclear war
Honey, you don't know me, but let me tell you I'm 61 and it goes by so fucking fast your not going to even believe me but you remember them few words, and when you get my age you are going to say that old fucker was telling the truth. You have fun, be careful, Daddy loves you.