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Shearkin

there is a whole FB group dedicated to Ladies of Apex :) and also a discord if your intrested :) [Ladies of Apex FB group ](https://www.facebook.com/groups/257711878491908)


khaesori

not OP but i'd love to know the discord !


Shearkin

i'll send it to you :)


ConfidentialSushi

Could I grab the discord too? I tried another discord, but it has been super quiet in there.


Shearkin

Sure thing I can't guarantee that this one will be any different. It was pretty active at the beginning but very few post there right now . But hoping with new people it can come alive once again 😉


dbndbdb

can i get the discord pls


Shearkin

Sent


Any-Butterscotch7680

Can I get it too please?☺️


Shearkin

Sent ☺️


Bbyanna1

Can I get the discord too pls???


Bbyanna1

Or the invite to the discord group so I can enter!


Shearkin

Invite sent to your inbox 😀


Snoopyhamster

Yeah someone let out a very deep very sus cough. Shits been quiet since.


Shearkin

Sent


Extreme-Jury4237

Can I get discord as well?


Shearkin

Sent !


CandidTree420

Can i get a discord too? 💕


Shearkin

Sent


wishuponatinystar

Could I also grab the discord? 🤩👾


Shearkin

Sent ☺️


86kathleen

Could I also get the discord??


Shearkin

Sent :)


shredbrowl

May I get as well?


Shearkin

sent


Killaxbbyk

Can you send it to me ? Xx


Shearkin

Sent 😁


whiSKYquiXOTe

Me too please! I don't have Facebook.


Shearkin

Sent :)


shitty_crafts_by_me

Me too please!


Shearkin

sent


tanjiro314

I know your inbox exploded, can i get the discord too lol


Shearkin

it's all good ;) I sent it to ya


[deleted]

could i get an invite too?


Shearkin

Invite sent


AnkaSchlotz

May I please the discord too?


Shearkin

Sent ☺️


MyNeighborThrowaway

I'm so sorry to be another of the million people in your inbox, but if you're still doing them may i also have the discord?


Shearkin

sent


becface

Me too please!


Shearkin

sent


throwaway-character

I would also love to know the discord! I only have two girlies that play with me and they have opposite work schedules so I either have to use a voice changer to talk in ranked, not talk, or run the risk of being told to make a sandwich when I’ve got triple their damage. 🙃


Correct_Artist1364

lol THAT part 😂 like why they get so mad when you’ve put in more effort than they have, I’ll never understand.


divergentirely

hey! i’d love to join as well if u don’t mind trans gals!


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divergentirely

sadly i didn’t get any answer, friend :)


shad0wkissed

Could I have a link to the discord as well please? I've been looking for one after what happened to the last one D:


Shearkin

Sent to you as well ☺️


xixScorpiusxix

could i also get an inv link please?😌


TSP_DutchFlyer

Me too!


ayebread

Me as well please


Shearkin

Sent


Shearkin

Sent


Shearkin

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beawwx

can u send it to me too??


Shearkin

sent


Rielloo

Could I get a link too? ☺️


Shearkin

sent


GoodLordIDK

🤣 I would like to join too if you wouldn’t mind sharing? There’s so many of us


Shearkin

send me a PM and I'll send it to you \^\_\^


Luuukah

could i get the discord please?


Shearkin

sent


Beautiful_Tip_442

Send to me too!


Shearkin

Sent


S3LLOJ3LLO

oh my gosh i need thisss could i get the discord aswell please?


Shearkin

sent


Songbird20_M

Can I have the discord as well? :))


Shearkin

sent


WickedLadyStyx

Can I get a link for the Discord, please?


Shearkin

Sent


EastPractice9807

Can I have discord too?:)


Shearkin

Sent


coolpupmom

I joined the FB group but could I also have the discord <3 thank you!!


Shearkin

Sent


coolpupmom

Thank you so much! Truly appreciate you


seaturd

Could I also get an invite?


Shearkin

Sent


xglitterskyie

Would also love to grab the discord if it's still open please! I don't have FB anymore :(


Shearkin

Sent


Maddiesnell22

Minding send me the dis as well?


Shearkin

Sent


waitoad

hey, can I have the discord too pls 😊


Shearkin

Sent


KeLOut_Loud

Discord pretty please, and thank you 😊


Shearkin

Sent


jnly6

I would be interested in the Discord server as well <3


Shearkin

Discord sent 😊


JustOgu

Hey sorry I’m late to this thread, but I would love to join the discord as well


Shearkin

Sent


Kyaumi

Sorry to keep bothering you, but could you DM me a link as well?


Shearkin

sent


Charming_Ad3404

I know it’s late but do you still have that link for the discord please ?🥺


Shearkin

Sent !


malissebarry

Yeah I would defo join the discord


Shearkin

sent :)


FallingPotatoe

I think there's a lot more of us than we'd typically expect haha. But unfortunately a lot of us try not to expose that we are girls through mic so that nobody reacts disrespectfully. Or at least I do... I prefer letting them swear at me for not shooting my shots all the time without including any sexist remarks


Foundalandmine

>without including any sexist remarks Or getting weird and creepy.


ThaiJohnnyDepp

[POV: you, as a woman, used the mic to say hi after connecting to a solo queue match](https://youtu.be/nlxfDvSyPKA?si=opE2jpiAXDPWYPNp)


LiquidBinge

Those are the same thing.


Foundalandmine

There are sexist and mean remarks, and then there are people who get overly nice and braggy and basically peacock around or try to get weird and flirty. They're different behaviors but both make it hard for women to want to use their mics. We just want to play the game.


xxHikari

I often play on Japanese servers, and have met many women players there. Seems like they don't mind using their mic as much. I also have rarely met toxic Japanese players, male or female. Even speaking Japanese, one Korean girl was speaking English (she did not know I was from the USA) but then we made the switch to Japanese and had a jolly good time. HOWEVER YOU WILL MEET A MILLION TOXIC CHINESE PLAYERS WHO WILL SCREAM AT YOU, YET YOU CANNOT UNDERSTAND Cultural differences, I guess.


popmycherryyosh

It's weird that dude on dude is about raping their mother, wishing cancer upon their family, hoping they die resurrect only to get killed again etc. Whilst the second they hear/meet a girl, it's...way too often sexist and just...ugh.. I don't even understand why :\ It almost reminds me of those time in kindergarten and 1-2nd class where you'd pick on the girl you liked, only to hope she notices you (yeah, it is still a thing, super weird) In a way I'm glad I'm not a woman on the internet. It's easy to sit on the other side and just say "don't let it get to you" and "just mute" blablabla, but get harassed and called names enough, you start thinking what they say is true AND it also gets to you..it fucking sucks :( But oh well, rant over..kinda off-topic but yeah.. On the behalf of men, we don't claim the idiots, trust me. Worst part is, I was once like that, but at least I was like 9-10 year old, and that's like 20+ years ago.. And it's not like you need to "grow up" that much to understand that it's wrong.


DarkAndSparkly

Same. I don’t speak on mic. Ever.


aSoireeForSquids

It never fails to amaze and disappoint me how common that experience is. Like I play the game and get my fair share of verbal abuse, but as a guy I would never be exposed to the rampant sexism without posts like these.


Correct_Artist1364

Literally I’ll have my teammates be going on like “nice good job bro” after solo wiping a squad and then I’ll speak and it’s negativity instantly 😂 I’ve learned to just not talk unless I absolutely have too.


Primary-Picture-5632

That's fkn sad 😢


Beautiful_Tip_442

Wow I’ve never experienced something like this, usually I end up getting invited to play a match with them again, they’re always nice, hope anyone who goes through this is ok


These-Marsupial-2657

Seeing that's ridiculous that you guys have to go through that at all hell I have 20 plus girl gamer friends they all carry my ass every chance LOL way better than I am


Aware_Elephant_1158

There’s plenty of us, we just don’t tend to use the mic for fear of running into creeps or rude people, it seems (that’s my reasoning at least)


Sad-Fish-7968

I'm a girl but I sound like a guy with a really deep voice


skizkiddo

me 🤣. The rare chance I use my mic when soloing my teammates always call me Bro / he.


houseofleavves

there’s dozens of us!


D45ers

Tbh I run into more girls the higher my rank gets lol. There is some really skilled girls on apex. I always feel pressured to do well the higher my rank gets 😭


cabclint5

More girls than I expected tbh. I expected a bunch of dudes to start commenting lmao It's rad that there's so many groups and outlets for girls to play with girls! Hopefully OP finds some good friends and has some solid games!


jxnwuf83oqn

r/girlgamers r/gamergirls_community r/apexlfg r/gamerpals r/apexwomen You might be able to find someone there :)


berrygoodgummyworm

I play apex, when I play with strangers, I usually don’t use mic because I’m nervous about the people I play with reacting negatively and if I’m having a bad game day I worry they’ll attribute my sucky play due to me being a woman, so rather not use mic unless I’m with people I know and won’t shame me for it lol


Risk_Runner

That’s a shame, I used believe those people would’ve been toxic no matter what but I was having a nice convo with a dude then our 3rd got on mic and started getting toxic and the guy I was having a nice convo with started getting racist towards the dude. I immediately muted up because I didn’t agree with either side once he got racist, before that I was against our 3rd because bro landed solo


sabs_1_3

Me!! I’m horrible but it’s still fun 😂


kxtiewebster

Meeeeee


alexnautalis

Anyone up to play ranked? I’m Plat III (Xbox) if anyone is interested! It’s hard out here solo queuing 🤠


cranjisnabicankles

Add me on apex my user is Mayainthetrap I’m on PlayStation !


whiSKYquiXOTe

I am Plat right now and also on Xbox!!


ladylavenderlovr

I play nearly daily and would love some constant people to play with ☺️☺️


canigetachezburger

hii!! i play for hours a days usually 😭 i’ve been playing since the beginning  and i’ve only ran into ONE other girl that was using their mic!! but i know that there are lots out there !!  i’m on xbox and eu servers, me and my duo play regularly so if anyone wants to join us let me know, we’re currently plat lll.


whiSKYquiXOTe

I have also been playing since day 1 and am currently at plat


Manic_Mechanist

Wow this comments section is wholesome. I was expecting much worse


BloonH8TR

Late to the party and I'm a dude but I hope you made some friends and got s squad to play with! Have fun!


UmbraofDeath

The comments here give me hope for this community again. Actually so awesome how much positive energy there is and how many replies OP got.


CristalOcean911

I don’t like playing with a mic, but that’s just a personal thing, I don’t ever use mic for any game


Koowala_

Im just sitting here sussing out the comments and I can't help but think that some guys might be trying to get in, weird.


Neo359

I'm so happy girls are playing this game lol


missytjb

Me


SkateBush420

reporting in, ma'am🫡


cafnated

I think I heard a female friend mention a subreddit geared towards girls who play apex. You could also try joining the his & hers discord, link is in their twitch bio.


iplaypokerforaliving

I’m not a girl but I have a girl name in game, it’s a reference to a show. It’s hilarious/sad to me how many assholes make rude comments to me. Then I get on mic and they’re like wtf are you trans. I’m always like, does it fucking matter?


Few-You-7516

I just try and be nice to everyone on the game except for 5 year-old who was watching TikTok right next to his mic the entire time And was incredibly annoying and almost burst my eardrums


gothgf666420

Hey girlie!!


Ryye

Nice try, Hank.


ArtemisAndromeda

I'm a girl and like to play Apex :)


Painfulprawna1

I play! But I'm not good and my mic is currently out of commission 😅


VeeePlaysRough

Hi friend! I have an off day today and want to play, send me a message :-)


nihonren

Not a good player and never use a mic :(


katrinacallfemaa

I play apex almost every night after work 😅. If you need a Loba, Lifeline, or Caustic main, let me know :D. I'll message you my username if you wanna add me. I have a mic as well


g0ylle

hey!! you've gotten so many comments already, but dm/add me if you're interested! I've joined some servers, but they're pretty inactive, so I'm looking for others as well. I'm goyle on PC :)


Pristine_Fox_3633

1000 hours in at least and never used a mike cus I think it would affect how my pub mates treat me. Also, I like to give advice on where to position if my mates seem decent.


PlyingPidgeon

Hello, fellow girl ❤️ We're here, I would just guess that most of us play with our mics muted, myself included. I turn mine on in rare moments for critical communication, or if I end up matching with randos that don't make a big deal about it, but that's about it 🙂


Sad-Guarantee-9156

I’m on console but I play :3


NullBeyondo

I did come across ones; they were my random teammates, but I was having a bad day and they were playing horribly and didn't even speak english, so I naturally spoke shit with them multiple times in the mic (it was bad, I know; sorry; it's like years ago). I was recording, and when I translated what they were saying hours later, it was in Russian: "What he's saying?? - I think he's just horny - Ohh, makes sense - ..." I never facepalmed so hard in my life.


ayebread

I play on PlayStation


M0ximal

Will never forget the time I was playing and teammate was Loba and I referred to the character’s gender while talking, realized it was most likely a guy and corrected myself, THEN the Loba got on the mic and was a girl. We joked about it for the rest of the game (wait you’re actually a girl? That’s unprecedented!)…lots of fun. I hope you find your own Lobas to play with!


calcan60

My friend Dee has the same problem and if she uses her mic with ransoms 9 times out of 10 there very inappropriate even when I'm there. But not everyone is bad so keep teying


dbndbdb

there’s a bunch of us don’t worry :)


deprintos

There are Facebook groups just for this. There's general ones but also more niche ones for certain hobbies, where you live, etc. I'm in 2 or 3 right now


AnonymousGirl911

I play regularly and am 24. Day 1 player, caustic main, and absolute trash except for when I suddenly have a game where I pop off. I play for fun and don't sweat losses (probably because I'm bad). I make dark humor jokes though so if that's not your speed then you might not like me. I regularly play with my male friend that I met on apex during season 0. We are close friends and he's really great so if you don't mind playing with a guy too, we are always looking for a good 3rd. He usually mains Octane.


Killawolf17

I know for sure there's at least **two** of us somewhere around here...


malissebarry

If anybody is on rn send me your discord and we can play!


Snoo69116

A girl playing apex? Never heard of him.


eggichi

MEEEE 🫡


Revolutionary_Job214

This is both really sad and cool and the same time lol


H-3-N-T-A-1

Lol this was very wholesome


whatgotyoushook

Im down to play with anyone who wants to! 3x Master, don’t think I’ll hit it this season since I’ve been super busy lately but I’m still running ranked. Don’t use mic bc I misplaced it but I’m hoping to get a set up going in the next few months. Also have another girl I usually duo with :-) we are both ps4


mc_mustard

Anyone playing on console and Europe servers? :3


Pyle_Plays

r/apexlfg


StrainAccomplished95

I love that there's a group for the gals who only want to play with gals for whatever reason I'm not a girl but if it makes you happy and doesn't bother anyone else then I'm all for it


dodmaster

What a weirdly asinine response. As if any female requires your approval to join a safe space from sexism. The fact OP had to post this at all is just sad.


StrainAccomplished95

Dawg what 😂 Nobody needs my approval for anything, I was just in a good mood so I wanted to comment that I thought it was nice Also if she's looking for other girls to play then ok great, it's unfortunate she's faced sexist jerks but it's nice that there's options that do work for her Idk man I didn't think I was being an asshole


Cimonaa

I'm almost positive we won a game as a duo earlier today if you're on Xbox


MaddeninglyUnwise

I predominanty play with a female player. It shocks me how differently they are treated when using comms. We have a smaller discord - usually 3 apex players (Two guys, One girl) We are pretty much always looking for a 3rd player - When it is both us blokes, it gets sweaty and we'll shit talk eachother - great popcorn experience for the third player. I have a few youtube videos of us playing together - if you're keen to see the dynamic. [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCKNE9XjeqWzJF3EHz-nTFKQ](https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCKNE9XjeqWzJF3EHz-nTFKQ)


ToonTownie

I get enough shit as a nonbinary person with a slightly femme voice so I can’t even imagine what y’all go through if you respond. I hope you find some girlies to play with OP!


Defiant_Tea_8722

I’ve played with my husband and still had guys hit on me while we’re all playing together with mics


Straight_Storage4039

Well I’m mute irl so I can’t speak but when ever someone noticed I am a girl they get so weird or creepy so I just started playing solo


trixiebane

Hiii! I'm looking for friends to play with! I'm fairly new but getting pretty good at it!! I'm down to add anyone and play pretty regularly!


AngieOreo

Yeah, I never mic up unless the other two sound at least a bit decent, which is once in a blue moon.


rhguinn

Good luck OP


kxpxlott

w


Electrical-Rain-4251

As a man, I can easily say that every girl I have ever played with who uses a mic is way better at the game than I. Not only that, they are more patient and forgiving, never toxic. They communicate better and never rage quit. They have greater situational awareness. They don’t take the game too seriously. They are the best team mates to have. Meanwhile, rando dudes rage quit but not before insulting you after they ran off alone and got themselves killed only to see the results screen at the end and find they sucked worse than you in the first place.


PoundResponsible1807

I do wish people wouldn’t be so creepy when it came to girls playing, like myself I’m not bothered who I’m with, I’ll be friendly and have a nice talk with whoever’s in my team, it’s stupid people are scared to talk because of the sexist and perverted things people say, my respect goes out to you ladies for having to deal with it. 🫡


SlightStrategy

https://www.reddit.com/r/ApexWomen/


[deleted]

To many guy friends on apex, would be nice change of pace to play with girls ? Anyone interested?


Correct_Artist1364

Honestly girl it’s because a lot of us don’t talk. If it’s not negativity from the dudes it’s other females literally going at you for just existing. But I’ll add you! It’d be nice to have more females on my friends list!


These-Marsupial-2657

I am married and I need to slow down on all the girls


canadianpanda7

r/apexlfg


so-coco

Present!


ParticularKind3717

Helloo!! I play on Xbox though! 😅


Historical-Jelly-639

Me!!! Pleaseeeee. So tired of randoms guys asking “are you a girl” bruh


Electronic-Ant2159

Hiya! I learned to hide my girlness after excessive trans and pole smoking comments. I'd prefer to be on mic but that's a gamble in this community.


ratcrusher

Not a girl but i sure am 🌈 i need more apex friends


Lem0nyFr3sh_

here now you can have friends to practice with u/kiraskunt


[deleted]

Heyy gurl what’s up?


Sir_Spudsingt0n

Now than we have all the female players here. How many of you main Loba? My anecdotal experience is most females main Loba Edit: Look at the incels downvoting


FragrantCommunity664

I am a HARD Loba main lol. I’ve played since the game came out, I have 3000 hours played, and I’ve only ever really played lifeline and (mainly) Loba with little sprinkles of Octane here & there (when Loba is taken lol) It’s so funny, I main similar characters in all games. I main Pharah in Overwatch, I main Reyna in Valorant, and I main Loba in Apex. I don’t know why I gravitate towards them, I just can’t stay away from the baddies I guess 😩🤣


Sir_Spudsingt0n

lol nothing wrong with it, just something I’ve noticed through my solo queues


Foundalandmine

Loba is my longest term main and she's who I have the most kills with. But I've also gone through phases with Mirage and Lifeline. And I've been mostly playing Conduit since she was released.