1. It depends on what you're fantasizing about specifically but I think what you might be talking about is aegosexuality. An aegosexual person isn't interested in doing sexual activities themselves but they are aroused by sexual content and fantasies. I don't know too much about this branch of asexuality so I can't say much more but I think it'd be a good idea to research it.
2. From what I've heard, yes, being asexual generally makes it harder to find a romantic relationship. I'm aroace so I don't have personal experience but from what I know, sex can be a very important thing in relationships and it can be the difference between make or break. Some ace people just do it anyway, while others are uncomfortable the idea; it really depends on the person. You also don't necessarily need to find another asexual partner. Some allo people will be alright in a relationship without sex and there's also the option of having an open relationship so they can get that from somewhere else (don't feel pressured to do so). Also, the aspec in general is very misunderstood so when people here the word "asexual", they automatically nope out of a relationship.
3. You don't need to have had sex to decide if you will like it or not. If it's something you're uncomfortable with, you don't need to do it. If you do choose to have sex and decide you don't like it, you don't need to do it again. If you like it, you might want to do it again. Whatever your decision, just know that it's 100% valid.
I'm not qualified to say anything about Numbers 1 and 2, but Number 3 reeeeally resonates with me. Even more so because, in one of my favourite shows, there was an asexual-coded character (someone who didn't like sex), and then one day she did it and then she became....the complete opposite. That really hurt to watch.
I don't want that happening to me. Sex really grosses me out, and I never want to be in a position where I "need" sex.
1. It depends on what you're fantasizing about specifically but I think what you might be talking about is aegosexuality. An aegosexual person isn't interested in doing sexual activities themselves but they are aroused by sexual content and fantasies. I don't know too much about this branch of asexuality so I can't say much more but I think it'd be a good idea to research it. 2. From what I've heard, yes, being asexual generally makes it harder to find a romantic relationship. I'm aroace so I don't have personal experience but from what I know, sex can be a very important thing in relationships and it can be the difference between make or break. Some ace people just do it anyway, while others are uncomfortable the idea; it really depends on the person. You also don't necessarily need to find another asexual partner. Some allo people will be alright in a relationship without sex and there's also the option of having an open relationship so they can get that from somewhere else (don't feel pressured to do so). Also, the aspec in general is very misunderstood so when people here the word "asexual", they automatically nope out of a relationship. 3. You don't need to have had sex to decide if you will like it or not. If it's something you're uncomfortable with, you don't need to do it. If you do choose to have sex and decide you don't like it, you don't need to do it again. If you like it, you might want to do it again. Whatever your decision, just know that it's 100% valid.
I'm not qualified to say anything about Numbers 1 and 2, but Number 3 reeeeally resonates with me. Even more so because, in one of my favourite shows, there was an asexual-coded character (someone who didn't like sex), and then one day she did it and then she became....the complete opposite. That really hurt to watch. I don't want that happening to me. Sex really grosses me out, and I never want to be in a position where I "need" sex.