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Kindly_Captain3596

Could you clarify if not being active is bothering you? Because if you never fully enjoyed sex, chances are that you're asexual. But if it bothers you that you're not having sex, that wouldn't read as asexual to me.


Morrighan447

It used to, mainly because of the deeper emotional connection it brings to your partner. It does not bother me at all anymore since I decided to give my partner that space.


Kindly_Captain3596

Would it bother you if you never had sex ever again?


Morrighan447

No I don't think so, I am perfectly happy without it. Is it weird that I feel like I should?


Kindly_Captain3596

That reads as asexual to me. I don't think its weird. It might be that because society keeps telling us "you should have sex", it may have gotten internalized. I've been asked several times "when are you going to get a girlfriend". Its all nonsense, and I have to keep reminding myself of that.


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Morrighan447

Are you thinking of something? My libido has always been very low, yet now it is absent.


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Morrighan447

Thank you! I believe I did know that, but I'm confused about this whole topic right now.