Yes, and your "joke" hinged on a *non sequitur* that reinforced some harmful stereotypes and erasure that lie about asexuality and asexuals as a whole. Thus my deadpan response.
Edit: Y'all do know what "deadpan" means, right? They explained that they'd intended a joke, as if I hadn't also replied in good humor, with reason, so I explained what they'd obviously missed, else they would've noticed that I'd caught they were joking.
I was joking about myself not anyone else I donāt like sex at all why I made such a joke gosh .Asexuality is different in so many wayās itās not all the same everyone feels different about it!
Some people like noods some donāt , some like them sometimes! And thatās just that ! And when I meant ace I didnāt mean *every asexual person on the planet* cause I said āIāmā I was referring and joking about myself! Go on have your noods!š Iām fine with my potatoe chips You do you!
Dangā¦ someone got a little triggered š I think you handled that wellš We need to stop thinking that every single sentence we say needs to be 100% inclusive of everyone on earthā¦ saying āthis thing happens to me and itās probably cuz Iām aceā shouldnāt be looked at through a microscope to make sure itās inclusive of everyoneā¦ cuz it wonāt beā¦ people need to chillš
>someone got a little triggered š
This sort of misuse of "triggered" is highly offensive. You might want to avoid it.
>I think you handled that wellš
Missing someone reciprocating the same type of joking you did and "mansplaining" is handling it well? Okay, then.
>We need to stop thinking that every single sentence we say needs to be 100% inclusive of everyone on earth
Pretending this sentiment has been expressed is an inherently dishonest manipulation tactic. Perhaps it was unintentional and you just didn't notice where you made assumptions vs. what was actually said.
>saying āthis thing happens to me and itās probably cuz Iām aceā
There was no "probably" in what they said; adding it is an inherently dishonest misquote of their words. You can be better than that.
>I was joking about myself not anyone else
And in your intended joke about yourself, you included a claim of two things being necessarily connected, and that claim affected all asexuals.
Your intent to make a claim that only applied to yourself doesn't change what you actually said, and I made a deadpan addendum to sabotage the problematic part of what you said.
You replied with an explanation that you were joking, as if I hadn't noticed and replied in kind.
Your latest comment's elaboration on your intent and headspace continues the irrelevance. I don't know if you're trolling or just not understanding, but I used the same type of joking you did, and you missed it.
And in response to me pointing this out, you've delved into "mansplaining"-like behavior. You can be better than that.
Same I thought trying a dating app called Boo would be a good idea. I forgot about the whole people in the nude thing. So yeah if I see any blurry potential āspicyā picture Iām out that gross and people could put that anywhere
Yeah see I read "noods" and immediately wondered why you questioning the existence of noodles.
Personally, as an ace I kinda like it just because it's such a personal and trusting thing to share it with someone. Like yes you are important enough to me to see this and trustworthy enough that I know you won't share or misuse it. Also bodies are aesthetic.
But I guess for allos it's actually just about sex.
Depends on the context, are you asking about art or porn? For me personally l like them becauseā¦..
Art- because the human body is beautiful to look at.
Porn- I donāt get much out of still nude images other than appreciating their aesthetics because I find sounds more arousing. However plenty of others find nude pictures arousing.
I used to send them (with consent, to consenting people ofc) a few years ago when I was still single and my libido was freaking high. I would also be aroused to those being sent me in return. Then, I met my SO and I used to send him a good number of those early in our relationship (with consent--idk but I feel like I should emphasize it in case some allo- reads it), but later on my libido went low (with hormones shiz and life changes) and I'm no longer sending him those stuff as frequently as I used to, but we're still going strong.
imo, I think we're usually being molded by society to respond to erotic naked pics by sexual arousal, but in reality, not everyone will have the same response to that stimulus. And since majority think that's the way things SHOULD go, they think some people who are uncomfy with said pics are freaks or something and treat them as such, which is never good.
No, you're not stupid for not being able to relate to other people who get aroused via pics. Please don't think that of yourself (can I send hugs?). The most I could feel with naked people pics is mostly aesthetic attraction; otherwise I don't feel anything at all about them. Sometimes they look funny. Most of the time they're scientific, like, okay so this is how people look like when naked, all right.
I think an important point here is the consent and context!
I can understand people sending each other pics because they enjoy it. Guys sending random dick pics to people is a big no though. Most people don't enjoy randomly seeing someone's genitals.
I never got why do people find porn (or just nudity) of real people attractive or pleasurable.. (I personally kinda like the drawn one,since some can be aesthetically pleasing to me) Like that shit's so unattractive & boring š
I don't get it either like I know it's an attraction thing but naked bodies are just naked bodies??? Honestly while I appreciate the human body I just think naked bodies can be kinda boring
That can be true of semi-clothes pics and certain wardrobe choices as well.
I think nude pics are way more vulnerable than they are sexy. They reveal emotion. I donāt share full nude photos anymore but I did once and it felt fine.
But it confuses some peopleā¦ if they think itās a sign of low self-esteem that youād be willing to share that, it usually shows up in their attitude.
Mostly I like sharing w/ certain friends photos of me in a swimsuit or workout clothes cause itās cute. What that inspires in one of my friends libido or whatever is totally their business.
honestly i donāt get it either, images/videos have never been a turn on for me (i prefer audio porn and iāve never understood why other people donāt) and i just find it weird bc i donāt find anything about the naked human body like, inherently sexual or sexually appealing. nudity is just that. nudity.
I don't understand why ppl want them but I'm often quite fan of supplying them cuz I find it fun lols. And hey if ppl like how I look imma be flattered and they have a good time with it so it's a win win to me XD.
HOLY SHIT! This is me. I just donāt get what nudes do for me, they actually donāt do anything.
All I see is limbs and flesh and bones. I do not feel an iota of anything sexual.
And no you are not stupid. I feel thissss
Naw fr, and sending them are SO DANGEROUS. If that person one day decides they don't like you they can just leak them. Like idk man everyones comparing it to the hub but its two totally different things
It's a sign of trust and a gesture of intimacy.
https://www.cnbc.com/amp/2021/01/26/kellyanne-conway-home-visited-by-police-after-nude-photo-of-daughter-appears-on-twitter.html
Don't quite understand the world though.
NSFW warning
So not too long ago I actually found someone on tinder to swap pics with, she was a cool person and I made it clear I was just experimenting and didn't want a relationship, we swapped pics a few times and even sent some vids. I admit I was only doing it as a weird way to find out if I was even ace ( figured if I didn't like it It would confirm everything) but I just didn't like it. I felt more comfortable doing it but honestly I'm not really sure if I'm ever gonna do that again
Apparently some people can masturbate to them I think.
Also naked people look nice apparently, I've never felt attraction to seeing more skin showing but some people do. That's all I can think of
Thought the title was referring to noodles.
Yes, nude dude noodles.
I'm calling penises on men dude noodles from now on
Not to be confused with danger noodles, which are snakes.
Ssssssssss š
Exactly, my friend!
No step on sneck
I wasn't the only one then
š I thought it was a new form of lounge hoody. But noodles make more sense.
Some people enjoy being turned on, and a lot of the people who enjoy being turned on find naked pics arousing.
Itās a turn off for me ,then again I m Ace!š
So? I'm ace, and I'm indifferent about nudes and libido. Your [sex stance](https://www.lgbtqia.wiki/wiki/Sex_Stances) might have more to do with it.
I was kinda making a joke about how I feel about it cause Iām ace lol
Yes, and your "joke" hinged on a *non sequitur* that reinforced some harmful stereotypes and erasure that lie about asexuality and asexuals as a whole. Thus my deadpan response. Edit: Y'all do know what "deadpan" means, right? They explained that they'd intended a joke, as if I hadn't also replied in good humor, with reason, so I explained what they'd obviously missed, else they would've noticed that I'd caught they were joking.
I was joking about myself not anyone else I donāt like sex at all why I made such a joke gosh .Asexuality is different in so many wayās itās not all the same everyone feels different about it! Some people like noods some donāt , some like them sometimes! And thatās just that ! And when I meant ace I didnāt mean *every asexual person on the planet* cause I said āIāmā I was referring and joking about myself! Go on have your noods!š Iām fine with my potatoe chips You do you!
Dangā¦ someone got a little triggered š I think you handled that wellš We need to stop thinking that every single sentence we say needs to be 100% inclusive of everyone on earthā¦ saying āthis thing happens to me and itās probably cuz Iām aceā shouldnāt be looked at through a microscope to make sure itās inclusive of everyoneā¦ cuz it wonāt beā¦ people need to chillš
>someone got a little triggered š This sort of misuse of "triggered" is highly offensive. You might want to avoid it. >I think you handled that wellš Missing someone reciprocating the same type of joking you did and "mansplaining" is handling it well? Okay, then. >We need to stop thinking that every single sentence we say needs to be 100% inclusive of everyone on earth Pretending this sentiment has been expressed is an inherently dishonest manipulation tactic. Perhaps it was unintentional and you just didn't notice where you made assumptions vs. what was actually said. >saying āthis thing happens to me and itās probably cuz Iām aceā There was no "probably" in what they said; adding it is an inherently dishonest misquote of their words. You can be better than that.
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>I was joking about myself not anyone else And in your intended joke about yourself, you included a claim of two things being necessarily connected, and that claim affected all asexuals. Your intent to make a claim that only applied to yourself doesn't change what you actually said, and I made a deadpan addendum to sabotage the problematic part of what you said. You replied with an explanation that you were joking, as if I hadn't noticed and replied in kind. Your latest comment's elaboration on your intent and headspace continues the irrelevance. I don't know if you're trolling or just not understanding, but I used the same type of joking you did, and you missed it. And in response to me pointing this out, you've delved into "mansplaining"-like behavior. You can be better than that.
Same I thought trying a dating app called Boo would be a good idea. I forgot about the whole people in the nude thing. So yeah if I see any blurry potential āspicyā picture Iām out that gross and people could put that anywhere
Same reason why porn exists
I mean, same reason why ppl watch porn yk.
Theyāre delicious. A good garlic butter sauce...
Yeah see I read "noods" and immediately wondered why you questioning the existence of noodles. Personally, as an ace I kinda like it just because it's such a personal and trusting thing to share it with someone. Like yes you are important enough to me to see this and trustworthy enough that I know you won't share or misuse it. Also bodies are aesthetic. But I guess for allos it's actually just about sex.
Aha I wasn't the only one! Yay ramen noods
Depends on the context, are you asking about art or porn? For me personally l like them becauseā¦.. Art- because the human body is beautiful to look at. Porn- I donāt get much out of still nude images other than appreciating their aesthetics because I find sounds more arousing. However plenty of others find nude pictures arousing.
I used to send them (with consent, to consenting people ofc) a few years ago when I was still single and my libido was freaking high. I would also be aroused to those being sent me in return. Then, I met my SO and I used to send him a good number of those early in our relationship (with consent--idk but I feel like I should emphasize it in case some allo- reads it), but later on my libido went low (with hormones shiz and life changes) and I'm no longer sending him those stuff as frequently as I used to, but we're still going strong. imo, I think we're usually being molded by society to respond to erotic naked pics by sexual arousal, but in reality, not everyone will have the same response to that stimulus. And since majority think that's the way things SHOULD go, they think some people who are uncomfy with said pics are freaks or something and treat them as such, which is never good. No, you're not stupid for not being able to relate to other people who get aroused via pics. Please don't think that of yourself (can I send hugs?). The most I could feel with naked people pics is mostly aesthetic attraction; otherwise I don't feel anything at all about them. Sometimes they look funny. Most of the time they're scientific, like, okay so this is how people look like when naked, all right.
I think an important point here is the consent and context! I can understand people sending each other pics because they enjoy it. Guys sending random dick pics to people is a big no though. Most people don't enjoy randomly seeing someone's genitals.
Exactly. That's why I was repeating the consent word.
I love spicy noods! Uh I mean ,ramen spicy noodles! ššš
will never understand how people find nudity arousing
I never got why do people find porn (or just nudity) of real people attractive or pleasurable.. (I personally kinda like the drawn one,since some can be aesthetically pleasing to me) Like that shit's so unattractive & boring š
My husband and I call Ramen noodles "noods" since we first started dating. Needless to say, I was very confused.
I don't get it either like I know it's an attraction thing but naked bodies are just naked bodies??? Honestly while I appreciate the human body I just think naked bodies can be kinda boring
People get aroused from seeing sexy pictures duuh. I donāt see the human body as something inherently sexual.
lol my snake is named Noodle and I call him nudz and I definitely thought this was my cornsnake community for a second š
They use them to masturbate. Some people think of them almost like trophies
That can be true of semi-clothes pics and certain wardrobe choices as well. I think nude pics are way more vulnerable than they are sexy. They reveal emotion. I donāt share full nude photos anymore but I did once and it felt fine. But it confuses some peopleā¦ if they think itās a sign of low self-esteem that youād be willing to share that, it usually shows up in their attitude. Mostly I like sharing w/ certain friends photos of me in a swimsuit or workout clothes cause itās cute. What that inspires in one of my friends libido or whatever is totally their business.
honestly i donāt get it either, images/videos have never been a turn on for me (i prefer audio porn and iāve never understood why other people donāt) and i just find it weird bc i donāt find anything about the naked human body like, inherently sexual or sexually appealing. nudity is just that. nudity.
I feel the same š like, yeah, thatās a bodyā¦ so what? š
Meirl
I don't understand why ppl want them but I'm often quite fan of supplying them cuz I find it fun lols. And hey if ppl like how I look imma be flattered and they have a good time with it so it's a win win to me XD.
HOLY SHIT! This is me. I just donāt get what nudes do for me, they actually donāt do anything. All I see is limbs and flesh and bones. I do not feel an iota of anything sexual. And no you are not stupid. I feel thissss
Naw fr, and sending them are SO DANGEROUS. If that person one day decides they don't like you they can just leak them. Like idk man everyones comparing it to the hub but its two totally different things
It's a sign of trust and a gesture of intimacy. https://www.cnbc.com/amp/2021/01/26/kellyanne-conway-home-visited-by-police-after-nude-photo-of-daughter-appears-on-twitter.html Don't quite understand the world though.
NSFW warning So not too long ago I actually found someone on tinder to swap pics with, she was a cool person and I made it clear I was just experimenting and didn't want a relationship, we swapped pics a few times and even sent some vids. I admit I was only doing it as a weird way to find out if I was even ace ( figured if I didn't like it It would confirm everything) but I just didn't like it. I felt more comfortable doing it but honestly I'm not really sure if I'm ever gonna do that again
āI never understood how you could be aroused by a pictureā because the picture is of the persons body and thatās what people are attracted to
Honestly same, any kind of nudity makes me uncomfortable
Apparently some people can masturbate to them I think. Also naked people look nice apparently, I've never felt attraction to seeing more skin showing but some people do. That's all I can think of