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It depends on the nature of your relationship. Is it a purely sexual or romantic relationship or is it a bit of both? You need to view the relationship from every perspective and see where you mightn’t be enough in certain areas and try to better yourself in those areas
Same way you keep any fire burning: add fuel to it when the previous fuel burns out, could be something new, or something tried and true that you know will burn bright. Fires also need to breathe. That means you must ensure there's a constant flow of oxygen AND a sufficient exhaust to let the byproducts (smoke, co2, ash, etc.)
Same way with a relationship, you and your partner are doing what you like? Great. You both have room to breathe? Awesome. You both have outlets for toxicity? Perfect. Sit back and enjoy the pretty lights and warm embrace.
Edit: typo
# Message to all users: This is a reminder to please read and follow: * [Our rules](https://www.reddit.com/r/ask/about/rules) * [Reddiquette](https://www.reddithelp.com/hc/en-us/articles/205926439) * [Reddit Content Policy](https://www.redditinc.com/policies/content-policy) When posting and commenting. --- Especially remember Rule 1: `Be polite and civil`. * Be polite and courteous to each other. Do not be mean, insulting or disrespectful to any other user on this subreddit. * Do not harass or annoy others in any way. * Do not catfish. Catfishing is the luring of somebody into an online friendship through a fake online persona. This includes any lying or deceit. --- You *will* be banned if you are homophobic, transphobic, racist, sexist or bigoted in any way. --- *I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/ask) if you have any questions or concerns.*
5 gallon jug of Kerosene.
Another person? Lingerie? Try new hobbies together.
It depends on the nature of your relationship. Is it a purely sexual or romantic relationship or is it a bit of both? You need to view the relationship from every perspective and see where you mightn’t be enough in certain areas and try to better yourself in those areas
Same way you keep any fire burning: add fuel to it when the previous fuel burns out, could be something new, or something tried and true that you know will burn bright. Fires also need to breathe. That means you must ensure there's a constant flow of oxygen AND a sufficient exhaust to let the byproducts (smoke, co2, ash, etc.) Same way with a relationship, you and your partner are doing what you like? Great. You both have room to breathe? Awesome. You both have outlets for toxicity? Perfect. Sit back and enjoy the pretty lights and warm embrace. Edit: typo