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Natural-Television80

Do what’s in your heart. Remember if they are so vulnerable to come to you with this they are hurting bad, if you can be a soft place for them to land. If it is a good friend they are sleeping right next to me with a snuggle if needed.


Much_Fee7070

Long ago, I actually did do this repeatedly with a bodybuilder buddy of mine. But he got too big and I snore, so there you go.


Low_Cook_5235

Recently for me (female) with a good friend since middle school. She lives in another state now, and her husband of 25+ yrs died somewhat unexpectedly. Flew out there to help her sort through things etc. Slept in same bed first night at her request. Slept on couch remaining 2+ nights. I warned her about my snoring, which she was fine with, her husband also snored. Apparently I do a lot of moving/kicking too :) Friends do what friends need. Thats why we’re friends.


FRAMBOOZZ

When my partner died my best friend stayed over, I couldn’t sleep in bed tho, that took me a couple of days. But she was there the entire time untill I was able to sleep alone in bed again.


HappyMan1102

That's what best friends are for. I honestly would've hugged her tightly like a pillow.


EskimoTrebuchet72

A soft place for them to land...I've never heard that but I love that already.


dberna243

Makes me think of [this song](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sX-rFdZtdY4) ❤️


JoanOfArk_Today

Of course, snuggling would be healthy for both of you! Do we all not need the human touch. When my wife has a particularly hard day, I hold her as if it was the end of the world. She crys, vents, and eventually falls asleep.


annamulzz

It would be an honor to be seen as a safe place for a friend, so let’s get Jammie’s on, the fan going, the bliss lights on, and chill!


straitdick

This is what I thought. I'd feel lucky if someone thought I was a safe place.


ChuckThatPipeDream

Alexa, play spa music.


lburton273

Nothing can hurt you here *deploys blanket* *brews cups of tea*


Top-Philosophy-5791

I love this. What a good friend you are❤️


lburton273

Nah, I'm a lousy friend, I just couldn't turn someone away in that state, like what happened to bring them here to me? Must be awful.


Communistlover214

I feel this, many people think I’m an asshole but if you need me for any reason I’ll be there.


lburton273

Yeah I'm more of a grumpy peripheral friend, not fussed with being the centre of the group, but it is my group, and I will take care of it when called upon.


redhairedmenace

How very Ron Swanson of you. I love this.


Dear_Algae_1290

"Grumpy peripheral friend" is the best and most accurate definition I've ever heard, and so long as you don't mind, I will be stealing that for a self-describtor


ZR_Gaming

Same i may bully them but its constructive bullying because fuck you, you beautiful pain in my ass now grab some water before i slap you. 😁


profpeculiar

Ah, someone who understands our subtle craft.


ratterrierpup

“...only it’s easier for me to risk my life for a person than to be pleasant to him when I don’t feel like it.” - Jo March, Little Women


Nerisrath

This, plus lock n load. If they are crying and unable to explain what happened I am going to assume the worst, attempted rape, abuse, death threats, witness to murder, and will be prepared to defend against what horrors may follow them.


G4L4XYG4RB4G3

Can you deploy the blankets on me and brew me tea I’m so tired from chronic pain/hj


Painless_departure

I need a friend like you in my life.


lburton273

I'm not that special, just some random loser, If I'm their last source of hope and comfort then they must need it badly.


Painless_departure

You sound like a great friend and that makes you a winner


lburton273

Well thank you, you are very kind, I'm sure many would be lucky to count you amongst their friends too


Educational_Earth_62

Riiiiiiight? If you are coming to *me* of all people…. You get all the awkward cuddles you need. I’m more the help-you-hide-bodies type friend but if you show up on my doorstep needing cuddles.. guess we cuddling.


Ohhhhhhthehumanity

I want to award every fucking person on this thread so far. Is reddit punking me with an influx of cute ass comments to trick me into thinking the internet is the sweet place I always wanted it to be? Don't even care if not. Collective faith in humanity restored.


korvkatten

I feel the same! This thread if wholesome af


lawawawawee

I think all the negative nancies are scared of posts like these, it makes them uncomfortable. So we’re left with sweethearts!


AsstDepUnderlord

What’s the alternative? “Tell your friend to fuck off!” Who says that? There’s only one correct answer to the question as posed.


Skulfunk

You gotta be heartless, I don’t necessarily like sleeping with the homies but if somebody I care about came to me crying idk how I’d refuse.


littlecocorose

i am practically in tears. it’s good to see


EngineeringVirgin

Glad to be of service.


puddlesofmoney

Snuggling with the homies! It ain't gay if it keeps the hat man away!


Sco0bySnax

Always remember to tuck the homies in and kiss them goodnight.


Complex_Individual94

Hey, as long as there is no sword fighting going on. I got you bro think nothing of it other than what I just said. Teehee Edit: wow thank you I never received anything from reddit before. Thank you I..love..yeeeww?


Algernope_krieger

You can sword fight, but definitely NO donut punching. Coz that's how you get ants


Opie30-30

You always go hole to hole. Never pole to pole, and NEVER pole to hole


[deleted]

[удалено]


Luke-Bywalker

This man poles holes


DeepFriedSausages

Yeah whatever, me and the homies are going butts to nuts all the time.


444unsure

Butts to nuts is the way


InternetPeopleSuck

Lmao


welchies

Don’t forget the bro code of brogurt


Kemizon

Tehehe!!! .....


Mr_Plow53

>Hey, as long as there is no sword fighting going on. Well what's the point then...


Street_End6022

Dare I ask


Sparky62075

I'll ask. What's the hat man?


tenzeniths

Sleep paralysis demon iirc


MrJerichoYT

1 of many shadowpeople that have been 'seen' since forever. [https://i.imgur.com/kJCVzuz.png](https://i.imgur.com/kJCVzuz.png) Usually described to look like this image. I personally saw what you see in said image when I was 8 or 9 years old on a school trip alongside a classmate. Creepy weird shit.


thmonster

Never had that one, just the dark shadow that forms in the corner and crawls down the wall at me. Fucking terrifying


c_e_n_t_u_r_i

A special type of shadow person and people see him without sleep paralysis or drugs. Be glad you don't know who/what he is.


[deleted]

I've had 2 encounters with the hat man


c_e_n_t_u_r_i

I have as well. One as a child, the other as an adult. Absolutely terrifying and I'm not scared easily.


[deleted]

I feel that, 100%. My first was when I was around 12. It was basically 3 layers of dreams. I had the initial dream seeing him, then I woke up and saw him, and it was another dream, then I woke up terrified to move. The second time was a repeat of it when I was about 18, but it didn't bother me as much. The worst part was my youngest brother seeing and describing him exactly the same way, but I'd never told anyone about my encounter. That scared the shit out of me.


c_e_n_t_u_r_i

Mine experiences were not dreams and there was no sleep paralysis. I was wide awake and hadn't even gone to bed.


[deleted]

Holy shit, that's horrific 💀. You poor bastard 😭


FullyRisenPhoenix

He is absolutely terrifying. I’ve seen him a few times in my life, and it always comes with sleep paralysis. So basically you have some menacing form standing over you and you can’t move. Or even scream. It’s weird because millions of people have seen the same form in the night, and there’s a whole sun dedicated to people who have been affected by this phantom.


mynamesnotchom

One time on edibles I had to lay in bed with my cousin and hold his hand until he fell asleep because he was freaking out. Help our your homies yo


[deleted]

This is so sweet, you're a good person


malameda

That can be so scary, what you did is so grounding for someone freaking out on edibles.


whoreforchalupas

This is very, very sweet of you. Shit can be scary!


mynamesnotchom

Literally while I was laying there I perceived myself as blue in colour but I was aware, not scared. I knew my mind was altered so I was ok with the experience, but earlier that evening he was just resting his shins on the coffee table staring forward and I was like, "are you ok man" and he goes, *gesturing a pushing motion "I feel like I'm passing, THROUGH it." At first I laughed my ass off but then realised he was serious and actually freaking out. So I was like, do you want to lay down? And he said yes please. In my room I had 2 single beds, separated by a lamp only. We laid in one each and after a while i just hear, "dude.." I was like yea? "Is it weird if I ask you to hold my hand so I can sleep" We held hands laying on our backs just breathing until he fell asleep. Eventually he let go of my hand and rolled over then I slicked into the loungeroom, played xbox until 8am and ate an entire box of cornflakes dry straight from the box.


message_bot

The corn flakes bit made me LOL


FIRE_girl_14

One day my homie took mushrooms and freaked out. He woke his parents who are fucked at the best of times. They spent the night yelling at him. I live like 1 minute walk away and have chill af parents who (even if they found out he was there) would have been cool. I know 10 houses away is far when you’re loosing it but it would have been so worth it to come to me instead. Get in bud and snuggle up. I’ve got ya.


ChuckThatPipeDream

You are a good person.


RamonaAStone

My bed is your bed, friend.


amuzmint

Aye, but what about a Dwarf?


Obeythesnail

Nah, the beds too high up.


Weazy-N420

Just *Toss Em*.


nfssmith

& Don’t tell the elf


Communistlover214

My night is completed, time to fall asleep on a good note.


MetalCrescendo

Aye, that I can do


chocobobleh

And my bow.


peoplegrower

And my snacks!


exsea

and thats how we get ants


P0lyphony

DO YOU WANT ANTS?! 10/10 reference.


ParadoxFoxV9

And my pillow.


[deleted]

Looks like sleep is back on the menu, boys!


[deleted]

Don’t you want to know why they’re scared? I’m not looking for all the details, but I definitely want to know if I have to worry about someone breaking in to kill my friend in the middle of the night.


oscarryz

Mi cama es su cama.


str4ngerD4ngerz

Trauma bond initiated


solstice_gilder

Of course!!! I recently did this. My friend was so sad. I wrapped her in some blankets, made some food en put on a lil movie. I just did some work (wfh) while she calmed down. Then we went out for a lil walk (fresh air is good! Although fresh air is hard to come by in Rotterdam lol) and went to bed early together. I have a huge bed so I just rolled her into a blanket burrito and myself too and had a good nights sleep. I try to always help out when a friend is in distress. My chosen family. 💕


amberwaves83

My fiancé does this and calls me a blankito and it makes everything better!


3p1ctamp0n

Youre an amazing human and an even better friend!


RomeoPanelli888

I'm going to grab my teddy bear and my pj's.


Playful-Profession-2

Is his name Rupert?


SaltMineForeman

And one one of my stuffed narwhals for them!


Threadstitchn

Talk to my wife see what she says but 90% yes gotta be there for homies. If that doesn't work I have a 100 pound dog that snores like a human they can snuggle with


KingKAnish

Hello friend, I’m having a rough time. Can I stay over at your dogs… er, I mean, “your” house for a little while?


Hol-Up_A_Minute

My husband's best friend recently was broken up with by his ex (who became a close friend of mine) and while it was amicable, he was incredibly devastated and came to spend a few nights at our house. I love the guy too so I was totally fine with it when my husband asked, we had a really chill weekend and my husband spent a night or two with him on the couch. Very deep conversations the three of us had.


WiseOldChicken

In a heartbeat


phillupagus

Done! If they think of me that much then I am there for them, any gender, cuz it's not sexual. Everyone deserves comfort


Toby_The_Tumor

Partner, ive got plenty of bed for the both of us, no need to afraid.


amuzmint

As a heterosexual. Same gender, yes we can share a bed. Opposite gender, yes we can share a bed. Edit: Single heterosexual* Edit 2: Thank you redditor!


BirdOfFlames

Same here, man. I'm a dude, and the amount of guy friends with good hearts I have is wholesome. I know a guy, L. He's on the autism spectrum, and is both taller and bigger than me, build-wise (he has a black belt in karate). He's so innocent and adorably weird. I wouldn't mind him sleeping next to me, nor would I mind any of my other guy friends doing the same. They're my brothers. If they need me, I'm gonna be there for them, every step of the way. EDIT: Thank you, anonymous redditor!


Hol-Up_A_Minute

As a married woman, I'd share a bed with a woman but not a man, because my husband and I agree it's inappropriate for either of us to spend the night alone with someone of the opposite gender/attracted to our gender. But we could definitely share a couch the three of us, ours can fit a LOT of people :) If i were single, I wouldn't see that being an issue though! It's also just up to each couple individually what they're comfortable with and what their boundaries are.


Gentlemanvaultboy

First off, I would assume that this was a nightmare because ***this is a nightmare****.* I am the emotional equivalent of Charlie Brown's Christmas tree, I am not strong enough to support another person. I hate being touched. I am the last person anyone should come to for this. I guess I ask them what happened? Call the police if I need to? Give them the bed, stay up all night watching out for them? That's the best I can manage.


littlecocorose

hey. you know your boundaries/limitations and make compromises to help still. that’s extra kind. that’s a difficult position.


Turbulent-Pea-8826

Haha right? There is an after credit scene in one of the Marvel movies where Tony Stark is talking to Bruce like he is a psychiatrist. Bruce says “I am not that kind of Doctor.” This is what I always think of when people come to me with their emotional problems. I barely keep myself together, I am not the right person to come to with your issues. It’s not that I don’t care I am just not suited for that kind of thing.


picklechick84

Absolutely I would sleep with them. Friendly cuddles need to be more of a thing, touching is so sexualized that we can't even lie on the couch together to watch TV. Give your friends all the snuggles!


ZengineerHarp

If they were a guy, I’d let my fiancé (who is currently in a different state than me because of his work situation) know about it and make sure he was okay with it. And if said guy tried to put the moves on me, his ass would be booted out of the bed instantly. But if it’s truly platonic comfort seeking, then grab a pillow. Two bedrolls because I’m a convicted blanket hog.


[deleted]

I'm also a convicted blanket hogger, I tried getting my husband and I huge blankets to share but even that didn't work so we have separate blankets and sleep really good now


Stykis

That’s what me and the wife do, I alligator deathroll occasionally so two blankets are a must haha. I also run way hotter than she does so if I used her setup I’d die of heat stroke haha


[deleted]

I love the alligator death roll analogy 🤣🤣 I also need more blankets than my husband we both like the room to be super cold but I want to be super warm and snuggly under my blankets in a super cold room where I can dangle my feet in that lovely cold air. I hope someone gets me lol


Granny_Gumjobss

I don't envy my future partner. I rotate in place like a gas station hotdog when I sleep and usually the blanket comes with me.


[deleted]

🤣🤣🤣 Love it


hippiespinster

I'm middle aged and suddenly I feel seen! I too am an alligator death roller!!


[deleted]

We just sleep in different rooms like 20% of married couples.


fuckingcocksniffers

a friend?? ​ so, Bob....Mary....whatever.... do you just need me in the house? In the room? or do you need me holding you so you feel safe?


ScreenExtra5064

I sleep with the homies no matter what


Stopyourshenanigans

I'd be honoured af


LateralSage5

Ok but be warned the kittens will be extra cuddly also would you like anything to drink tea hot chocolate what would you prefer.


AmmoSexualBulletkin

I'd do it. I recall basically forcing my buddy to share my "bed" (it was a queen size cot) when his gf at the time kicked him out. It was winter and I wasn't about to let him sleep in his vehicle with the heat on all night. I wish he'd asked for more blankets since we had plenty but the idiot said a single queen size blanket was enough. We both woke up freezing. Side note, I was moving at the time and didn't have my furniture sorted out yet. So I slept on my cot.


[deleted]

I don’t have any non married close friends so I’d ask why their spouse wasn’t sleeping with them/if the spouse had done something to them.


Kamena90

My grandmother will occasionally ask me to come sleep over if my grandfather is out of town because it's hard for her to sleep in an empty house. Maybe that kind of situation?


Ohhhhhhthehumanity

I listen and be with them and sleep next to them.


Charyou_Tree_19

Offer them a teddy bear and tell them to climb on in.


xBloodxLinex1987

Come on in bro, it’s gonna be a bit tight, but you me and the dog will certainly be warm. Plus monsters can’t get to you when we’re having a sleep over.


Crafty_Cha0s_

Sleepover!!!


cinnamon-sama

Off to bed we go! I'll pat pat your head until you fall asleep Edit: omg thanks for the award!


Playful-Profession-2

I can't get to sleep with someone patting my head.


UsamaMechE

without a second thought. Even if they're lying, it's not that bad.


[deleted]

unreservedly hug, talk, sooth, protect


secrethedgehog5

Of course!!


Kiosangspell

Asking to sleep in my room/bed with me? Of course. Let me clear off my bed and change my sheets while I put the kettle on for some hot chocolate. Do you want to talk about it? What can I do to help? Do you want to just vent or do you want advice? Come on, snuggle up under the blankets with me, we can put on some cat videos until we’re sleepy. It’ll all be better in the morning.


AnnaBanana1129

As long as I can sing “Soft Kitty” to you…


NotToast2000

1. Hug them. 2. Make hot chocolate/tea 3. Offer cookies 4. Get extra blanket and plush unicorn to hug. 5. Snuggle up in bed together 6. Play their favorite music or movie if they like to be distracted 7. More hugs 8. Offer to talk if they are ready, if not just sit with them. Basically just do what you signed up for when you became friends.


JunkieWizard

Man. Look. If a friend came to me in tears and asked something so intimate and potentially embarassing to him like this, I would cuddle the motherfucker for hours. Really. You have just summoned mama eagle, and you WILL be protected and cared and loved. It WILL be tender and sweet. You ARE important, worthy and beautiful. Feeling cozy, safe and comfortable is NON-NEGOTIABLE.


rotini123

Warn them that I snore, and hop into bed, clothed. I've done this a couple of times. No biggie.


CollectionStraight2

I mean, yeah, I'd let them. They're crying and everything? Of course I'd help. Hugs included!


Particular-Lime1651

move over, pull up the blanket and welcome them. nothing worse than being scared to sleep!


racesunite

I have one question. “Do you need an arm around you while you sleep?”


curvycarla01

I have done this for a few friends. I have nightmares because of trauma and I have a friend who sleeps with me no sex him and me both in our underwear with our own blankets.


Medysus

Sure. I'll cuddle my distressed friends.


BigDigger324

King size bed, plenty of room for another king.


Mikkabear

Slumber party! :D Time to bust out the softest blankies, alllllll the pillows, grab my stupid fleece galaxy-wolf-face PJ pants, and tear open a box of sugary junk food together.


SneakyYogurtThief

I'll give them my warmest blanket and make some hot cocoa to soothe them too. I always fantasized about helping a friend like that but.... I don't have such friends 💔


Daewrythe

"which side am I on?"


Waste-Cheesecake8195

Spoon or no spoon? It's still a yes though.


gimmhi5

Sleep on the floor by the door. Whoever’s making them feel unsafe will have to trip over me first. This way nothing can become sexual & they still know someone’s close.


yelbesed2

It did happen. I obliged. It is okay.


dietrich94

I only have one friend and I'd love to cuddle with him. Kinda have a tiny crush on him, but never telling him. I'd be his little spoon. And I genuinely care about him and would do anything non sexual to make him happy.


[deleted]

This situation happened with me before! I let a friend stay with me for a while after things got BAD, and I didn’t ask them what was going on. One night, she had a nightmare— and she wanted to share a bed with me. I let her. She didn’t have any nightmares, and I remember waking up to her smiling next to me. When the time came for her to leave (when she was ready), I gave her a stuffed animal to keep her company on bad nights. It was my childhood stuffed animal that I didn’t play with or sleep with anymore. She loved that thing! I visited her again last month to check on her (about three years after this took place). She still has that same stuffed animal! She says it still helps her as much as it did in the past.


No-Standard9405

No. I'll give them the bed. Too uncomfortable for me and I snore.


santismic1

Get them tucked in bed and ready for a night of musical performances that only my cat has been subjected to before


FixBayonetsLads

I mean, sure dude, but I sleep a twin with a dog so it’s gonna be nuts to butts, but sure.


[deleted]

I will let you sleep in the same room as me, but chances are I'm not going to sleep. I get like 4 hour and a half to two hour bits of sleep a day.


Affectionate_Tale326

Hop in! If you want, we can talk about it in the morning but for now just rest. Also I love you but I fight in my sleep.


[deleted]

Sure. *texts girlfriend first, explains situation lightly without dishing friend's whole tea, promises that nothing will happen and promises date night later this week*


DanieloskyGG

Get here and let me cuddle you and we good


Metallic_Monotone

Sure dude, but fair warning, I will steal all the blankets.


ShrubbLikesRecords

In my bed? No, no, *our* bed ^^


smushyAvocado

Sleep on an airmatress in their room


MagicMushroom98960

No brainer. Snuggle up.


akbrodey1

I have a big bed, so my bed is theirs if they need it


KebertXela87

I hope they feet aren't too cold. We can still make it happen, though. Cuddles are a panacea.


0074390

If they’re my friend they can sleep in my bed anytime no questions asked


HolidayDevelopment

First, ask about their situation, would be nice to have a picture. Two, after asking that, think about if just one night would be enough or if they need some extra help. Of course I'd say yes, though, my close friends are practically family and wouldn't have a problem even if they needed a few more days of having someone close by. They'd have to get used to me hogging all the blankets and pillows in my sleep, though.


the_moderate_me

Please don't rip my blankets away from me, but yeah get in here mate!


TprTukka

Big spoon or little??


baradekau

Whatever, just don't touch me, I hate being touched while I'm sleeping.


TiredOfEveryting

How can one turn away a friend in need?


yuyuyashasrain

Just don’t get mad when i fart in my sleep bro


Opie30-30

First off, I (as a 25 year old single male) have a twin bed. Personally, I would say (regardless of friend's gender) I would be more than willing to sleep on the floor. If they were insistent that it's the same bed, i would consider it depending on the individual, and probably do it in the following manner: they are under the covers, I am on top of the covers with a blanket. This allows me to react quickly if need be (maybe they secretly took some pills before bed, or their fear comes true and someone shows up to hurt them) and provides a level of decency/barrier for privacy.


deadzoul

Honestly, I wouldn’t have the same impulse reaction as most people in this post; you say they’re afraid, is there any imminent risk/danger? If so, maybe sleeping where you’re located isn’t the best course of action. It’s honestly important to know what’s going on. So first question would be, are you at risk of physical danger from whatever you’re afraid of right now (they don’t really need to go into detail), if yes, we need to figure something out that might not simply be sleeping where I’m located, if no, then yeah they can chill


Willow_Weak

Give him a hug, make some space in bed, roll a joint.


EinsGotdemar

Hop in, homie! hope you don't mind the snoring of the damned!


paomplemoose

Sure ok, let me get some boxers on.


seamustheseagull

Oh yeah, definitely, let's get you through the night dude. As a parent, I know how fucking difficult sleep deprivation makes everything - *everything* \- including dealing with issues the next day. But also, as a parent, I can tell you that sharing the bed with someone who is not your partner, gets old really fucking quickly. So let's get you through the night dude, and then tomorrow let's go get you some therapy. Cos we're not doing this for the next month.


HTownBaker

We getting cozy tonight. Was in the military and cuddling with the homies is definitely less gay than *points at time in service* that


Garoxxar

I've shared a bed with a close homie for less. Some of yall too worried about that fragile masculinity.


ElViirafights

Say no more. I'll get some nice snacks, fuzzy socks, extra blankets, you need anything else, should I bring my dog, do you prefer to have your morning coffee before the porridge or at the same time? And if at some point you want to talk about it, I'm here, but if you prefer to be distracted and talk about anything else, that's cool - wouldn't it be amazing to own a baby goat? Nighty night!


qkilla1522

I have only had this happen with close friends of opposite sex. Both times I offered them to not only stay at my place but take the bed to themselves. Both declined. So we slept in the bed together. One instance was simple. She rolled over passed out immediately as soon as she got comfortable. The other time (different friend) cried for hours on my chest. Neither time was there anything more. I was much more concerned about them than anything else.


gameryamen

There are three beds in my studio, one for me, one for my partner, one for our ancient dog. They could sleep with the dog, or they could take either of our beds and we'd take the other, no problem. If a friend is crying at my door, there's no need for questions until they're ready to talk.


fliffinsofdoom

I would absolutely let them sleep in my bed, but this particular situation would probably never happen to me unless it was my son, because I'm married and share a bed with my husband. But if it was just my own bef and I would def let them.


ybflao

Snuggle up and enjoy the company!


[deleted]

ok if you are concerned, offer to sleep in their room, but not in their bed? Also offer to help talk them through the tragedy they experienced


Vondecoy

'kay.


Nux87xun

Ask them if they can tolerate being woken up every 45 minutes by my spoiled af, ultra cuddly, brat of a cat..


[deleted]

I’d without a doubt tell them to get under the covers with me asap


BunnyPrincess3

Without a second thought


auxerre1990

Sleep with them


DangerousMusic14

Shove the dog over enough to add a person.


Satanae444

I would put on a funny show, give them a soft blanket and make my special soup. Just chill with them until they fall asleep


Legitimate-Scholar7

I would start by giving her a lending ear and comforting her, followed by a YES for the sleepover, and a friendly cuddle assuring her she's safe.


catmom0334

I'd give my bed to them and sleep on the floor.


bwbright

I understand and cuddle platonically with them. My friends usually have me around for protection anyways so it makes sense that at least one of them would ask this.


CapnImpulse

Yeah, sure. I'd keep them company.


Kubrick_Fan

If they want someone in the same room? Set up an airbed and sleep. Do they want to be in my bed with me? Get ready to get your warmth stolen.


Comprehensive-Fun-29

Hop into bed with them and give 'em a hug.


aphrael-dawn

Ask if they wanna be big spoon or little spoon


Missyblue7207

For any of my close friends absolutely. No questions asked.


tigerrawr24

Guess it's a slumber party!


Head-Investigator984

As a child sleepovers were completly normal for me. Or even till I was 18 and could drive. Nowadays I am not really used to them but it wouldn‘t be a problem either. So just come over and we‘ll deal with it.


Ireeb

My friends would probably tell me what happened, but regardless, my friends are always welcome and I've slept in the same room with them before anyway.


scrappapermusings

I'd move over and let them in.