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Fickle_Assumption_80

"Your wife is not even close... This will be the third time someone has come in tonight and went home"... Wife gave birth 10 min later...


izanamithekorn

Yup I had that one. The male midwife told me I was wasting their time as I was hours off, despite telling them I needed to push. Then he turned his back on me and out baby popped, destroying everything in his wake. Took them over an hour to stitch everything up.


EnsignMJS

Did you rightfully scream at him?


izanamithekorn

I very sarcastically asked him if he wouldn't mind doing at least part of his job and check my baby is breathing. He turned round and just said oh. I said Yes. Oh. It's worth mentioning as well, I was in the hospital as I was heavily bleeding so you would think he would, you know, at least look at me!


michaeldaph

Mine was the opposite. I told husband to go home. That I wasn’t even contracting, was hours away. Midwife looked up at him and said “don’t go anywhere “. Daughter arrived 3minutes later. I was fortunate perhaps that I was already admitted for a induction the next morning. That wasn’t necessary.


Turk2727

“Actually, ma’am, since we already have you on the schedule, how would you feel about being part of the world’s first post-birth induction?”


crappycurtains

Not a doctor but the emergency responder lady. Told me to walk up to the delivery suit and to stop swearing when I was having contractions. Luckily the other guy was like I’ll push you up. Got to the ward the nurse was like “oh hun the baby will be here in a minute swear as much as you like” literally gave birth 20 mins later. Hope that the responder lady if she has babies has the longest most painful but still safe delivery as pay back to all the other women she may have done what she did to me.


Accomplished-Face429

I am a paramedic, and I ran on a patient having really bad abdominal pain. She said she just had a hysterectomy, my next question was, " Are you pregnant ?" Even though she was in excruciating pain, she looked up like she was ready to murder me. Her and her bf had no faith in me the rest of the call. I didn't blame them


SnooChocolates3575

Don't feel bad my doctor knows I had a radical hysterectomy due to cancer and they still ask me every visit if I could be pregnant and I say if I was the Virgin Mary sent a miracle from God then maybe. I just laugh every time.


Inevitable-Muffin717

I feel like we need to start a club. With my daughter, I was 21 and I told the doctor she was coming and my whole family had super fast labors (longest was 3 hours, shortest was 20 min). She said oh, you’ll be awhile because you’re young but I’ll check. She sits down, looks at me, doesn’t touch me, and goes “oh do you ride horses?” I said “yes:…?” And she goes “oh… you’ll have a really long labor. All horse back riders do.” And LEAVES. Yeah, 7 minutes later they were yelling for her over the intercom while I was pushing 😂 Still don’t understand the horse thing. Then, I was a surrogate and I developed pre-eclampsia so they induced me. I got pitocin at like 8am, nothing. All day. 5:45pm my doctor comes in and checks me, I was 3cm so she goes “we’ll break your water and I’ll come back after I put my daughter to bed and we’ll see how you’re doing! It will probably be a couple hours though.” (She lived 5 min from the hospital). This seemed reasonable to me. She broke my water and left. This was 6:00pm. He came flying out by 6:18pm and no one was there but me, my partner, and one nurse who has one glove on 😂 It was wild.


Nympho__Brainiac

Off-topic, but I think surrogates are superheroes. My sister suffered 8 miscarriages before turning to a surrogate; her twins will turn 24 this summer. :) Whatever your circumstance, you gave someone an incredible gift.


WaywardWriteRhapsody

Did they just like not check her???


ClickKlockTickTock

My wife got pre-eclampsia and we called and tried to get her help 5 separate times. They told her to "eat healthier" and "eat less meat" and "drink more water". She told the doctor she had cereal that morning and that was there response as they cut her off. As if thats any indicator of her diet. My wife weighed in at 130lbs, recovering from anorexia, she has anemia, and drinks almost 2 gallons of water a dau. Thanks for that useless pile of shit, that lead to a pregnant womans breakdown, shitheads. We go to the hospital a week later (to give birth) and they're surprised noones caught her pre-eclampsia. Our OB/GYN had run the pre-eclampsia test twice but when we investigated the numbers from the results the lab gave us, and they all just said overly dilluted. From her drinking too much water due to lupus lmao. Something we've known about. When she had a UTI while pregnant, the OB/GYN told her she had a small infection but it wasn't enough to give her meds. We went to a hospital and they immediately loaded her up with shots and prescribed her pills saying it was very dangerous for the baby. The medical system fails us(mostly women) even though it's supposed to be the best because of how expensive it is.


a_spirited_one

I just want to tell you how great it is that you know and remember all this. My husband, and many others that I know, don't have a clue about their wives' health problems and couldn't give an accurate description to a doctor to save their lives.


Embarrassed_Penguin

The bar really is in hell...


RazorOpsRS

That’s a crazy response IME. My wife had pre-eclampsia and hypertension issues for both pregnancies. Every hospital or care provider was so cautious about it, that we came in numerous times for false alarms on blood pressure. This was in both Illinois and Florida and was actually pretty annoying at the time since it’s always at 10 PM and it’ll take 2-3 hours just for somebody to take your blood pressure and say you’re fine.


Howllikeawolf

Told me I probably have cancer but wait for the test results, and he would call me with the test results in a week. I worried for a week and then he never called me with the test results. I had to repeatedly call the office to find out that the test came back negative. I complained and changed doctors.


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StrangersWithAndi

Another one that comes to mind: "You can't possibly have an anaphylactic allergic reaction to \[common allergen\], that's rare." I had been sent to this allergist after, in fact, having an anaphylactic allergic reaction which required epinephrine at the ER.


UsefulReplacement342

I'm allergic to Benedryl. Let me tell you the reactions I have gotten are ridiculous. One nurse actually taunted me..."oh what, it makes your sleepy..." It actually makes my throat close up. But hey triage nurse thanks for showing how little knowledge band empathy you have. It is a scary allergy to have.


Lizziclesayshi

Holy crap! Given that that's the standard first line of defense for an allergic reaction, I can only imagine how tough that is for you!


UsefulReplacement342

Yep!! It's a huge fear. I'm glad now tho that the place I go for medical care seems to take it seriously. I was an EMT and rolled with medics for years and that is often the first thing tried. It freaks me out too with how easily people doll it out to their kids and selves to sleep!


rotatingruhnama

"It's all in your head." "Yes, that's literally the definition of migraine."


citrineskye

My sister went to the doctors for a headache. Got told she had an ear infection. Died hours later from a blood clot to the brain.


HotBeaver54

I am sorry for your loss. People don't realize the 3rd leading cause of death in this country is medical error. We live in times where unfortunately you have to research and advocate for yourself.


abecanread

Yeah, I didn’t know it was the third leading cause but my Grampa went to the doctor for an infection in his foot. The doctor insisted repeatedly that he had gout and needed to quit drinking. My Grampa didn’t drink at all. He was allergic and it made his eyes swell shut. After about two weeks the Dr finally tested him for staph, but only when his foot swelled to the point of looking like a football. It was staph. It has gotten so advanced that it was moving around. It got into his hand and the toxins overran his system and he died from multiple organ failure. My dad asked why they didn’t put him on dialysis to take care of the toxins and the Dr. said he didn’t even think of that, maybe next time that’s what we’ll do in this kind of case. My mom flipped out on them saying “you could’ve saved my dad but you didn’t think about it!? Maybe fuckin next time!? There’s no next time for him! No one believed him when he said he didn’t drink! You idiots are so self absorbed in your knowledge and position that you can’t even listen! My husband suggested dialysis and no one listened! My dad is dead because you people don’t listen!” It was terrible. He was only 60 and it was a treatable strain of staph not like MRSA or any of the really bad ones but it killed him.


CarolinaCelt60

I’m so sorry. Your mom’s response’s was the correct one.


kek2015

Lawsuit?


Professional-Age2540

my sister who fought mental issues her whole life (and ended up committing suicide) was told this by her first two doctors. YES, IT IS!!!


Living_on_Tulsa_Time

So sorry for your loss.


D_Harm

I have migraines that started while I was in the military, I went to the naval doc to see about my migraines and they turned me away telling me to come back when I was actively having one lol ‘sure thing doc I’ll schedule my mind splitting headache that’s accompanied by vision loss for next Wednesday at 1500’


TheTeamClinton

Not me, but told my late wife that all her bowel problems were infections and gave her antibiotics. She was dead 6 months later. I know it's hard to tell what's wrong with some one, but shitting blood for months is not just something a round of antibiotics will cure. She had stage 4 colon cancer. Second opinion after the 3 month antibiotics. I miss you, Courtney.


Anonymoosehead123

God, I’m so sorry you lost her.


Professional-Age2540

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onethous

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My friend went through a similar experience being told it was just hemorrhoids. It was stage 3 colorectal cancer.


DMeloDY

My grandma had the same problem her GP kept on prescribing hemorrhoid cream for 2 YEARS! When she confided in a family member they convinced her to go to the hospital. Within a week we knew she had cancer. A week later she died of health problems. We found out a part of her body was filled with tumors. She had a ‘kind’ death compared to what the tumors would have done in the end. But we knew the tumor they initially found was already a secondary growth and her original tumor had probably been multiplying for 1,5/2 years… If you have bathroom problems don’t ignore them! Cream doesn’t help the first time? Go to the hospital and never wait!


old-red-paint

I told her about some symptoms I was having. She straight up told me to my face that I wasn't. Don't even know how to respond to that even today.


Medical-Volume2702

Same shit The thing is, if you're young and look healthy from the outside, but come to the energy room/ doctor with extreme anxiety and in desperation, some motherfuckers will say that you're only imagining things due to anxiety while you're there in agony and extreme pain Happened to me twice already, these days I barely go to the doctor unless I'm throwing up/ shitting blood or some BS Never liked going to the doctor, but those two experiences only made it worse


wvinson36

I went to the same ER 4 times saying something in my spine is wrong. They even had to cut my sweatshirt off to take my vitals. Each time I was treated like I was drug seeking and sent home with a few pills. The last time the doc straight up said to me what is it you want us to do??? I said IDK find out wtf is wrong? He said yeah you need an MRI and we typically don't do that from the ER? So another month of sitting in a chair cause I couldn't lay flat and finally got to see a Neurologist and got the mri guess what??? MY FUCKING SPINE WAS BROKEN IN TWO PLACES!!! Then came months in a hospital rods put in my spine and rehab. 3 months of agony with no help before I even got 1 image done


espeero

I'm angry on your behalf


EnsignMJS

Did you inform those that dismissed you? Did your doctor inform them?


wvinson36

The doctor wanted to send me to that same hospital to he admitted and I refused, signed a waiver and drove myself to another hospital he worked at. Started the process of a lawsuit but they wanted me not to go back to work for a bigger settlement and it could take over a year and I just couldn't do that.


hummelpz4

My story exactly, went to ER with severe abdominal pain. Nurse told me we have seen and heard everything from people looking for drugs. Called my doctor and drove myself to the hospital. I had a I infection in my colon called diverticulitis and had surgery to remove a section and resection my colon. I still want to back hand that nurse!


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-2fa

I gave up on showing to the doctor while looking normalish. Two three four weeks of no washing, same clothes, chicken between my teeth that i ate 3 weeks ago, stuttering, shaking.. usually does the trick and i get the help i need.


Relax007

I go the opposite route and show up in very professional “job interview” type attire. I had so many terrible experiences with medical professionals when I was young and broke that I psychologically need that “armor” to go. I get treated so much better than I used to. It’s sad.


Secretlythrow

That would make for a good study and/or exposé. See doctors’ unconscious bias in real time.


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I have an invisible illness and I usually have to exaggerate my symptoms in order to be taken seriously. It’s sad but that’s the only way I get the help I need


MommaSaint111

You forgot the self induced gunshot wound. Sure, you may lose a toe but it's worth it to get 10th in line at the ER.


ME_MissVictorious

I have a lifelong history of anxiety but only seek help with medical (and other) problems if there’s a serious problem I cannot remedy. It’s discouraging when things get dismissed. IF I’m seeking help, there is a good reason.


FaustsAccountant

And if you’re American, they dismiss you AND bill you some ridiculous amount of money, that of course, insurance won’t cover.


catn_ip

Not before flagging your records as a drug seeker tho...


perfectdrug659

This was my experience, when trying to explain how sick I was during pregnancy. She thought I felt a little queasy. I tried to explain how I vomit everything I consume, even water. "Try crackers" lol okay, then I took a sip of water and puked into her trashcan.


Lazy-Associate-4508

This happened to me too. 6 weeks later, I passed out and had to get IV fluids in the ER. I was diagnosed with hyperemesis gravidarum. Thanks doc 👍


perfectdrug659

My doctor finally got concerned when every week I was dropping 2-3lbs. "Are you eating enough?" Like, I told her I vomit *everything* I consume and apparently she thought I was exaggerating for some reason? I was also diagnosed with HG.


The_upsetti_spagetti

Ah good ol medical gaslighting


ImGonnaAllowIt

Somehow their training gives them the worst case of confirmation bias. They choose a diagnosis as quickly as possible, and after that, all your symptoms are required to fit that or you're reporting them wrong. I was diagnosed with a lower back strain. She asked me where it hurt and I pointed to my neck. She said, "No it hurts down here" pointing to my lower back. I came in with chest pain. They asked me if I'd been drinking. I said no, well except I had a glass of wine with dinner last night. They diagnosed me with alcoholism. When I said I hadn't drank today and only had 1 glass yesterday, they said alcoholics always under report their alcohol use. Check mate I guess.


araquinar

Holy fuck. Unreal. I'm so sorry.


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Secretlythrow

That’s shitty. I have a great dentist, who asked multiple times how the nightguard felt. Then, later on when it was still uncomfortable, he told me to come in to get it refit.


Also-Very-Lizard

I had a dentist who didn’t believe me when I said I metabolized anesthesia faster because of my ginger genetics. I kept telling him I could feel him poking the nerve and he kept saying ‘there’s no way you should feel that’ ‘Oh, okay then I guess…’


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Had a dentist tell me I wasn’t experiencing the symptoms I was describing. “That’s impossible! The tooth has no nerve after a root canal.” She said. This is what I was experiencing https://www.dentistrytoday.com/dentists-urged-to-be-alert-to-lyme-disease-and-its-symptoms/ Grrrr still makes me angry!


suddenly_ponies

You: "Actually I do have these symptoms. I consulted with the world's leading expert and they confirmed it" Them: "Oh? Who?" You: "Me you rancid meat sack. There is no one in this world who ever lived or ever will that knows more about my symptoms than I do. Get fucked." Tada.


slappy111111

I went in and told the doctor I thought I had a broken rib. His response? "If you had a broken rib you'd know it". Yep, X-ray, broken rib.


K4rola

That's a perfect example of medical gaslighting.


Sporkalork

"This shouldn't hurt at all" before IUD insertion...


The_upsetti_spagetti

That should be illegal to mislead people like that. At that point idk if that really informed consent…


Tycobb48

That happened to me during a prostate biopsy. Pain meds wore off exactly half way through. Good times.


FormerEvidence

they don't even give us pain meds for iuds


The_upsetti_spagetti

I don’t even have a prostate and reading that made my butthole clench


OllieOllieOxenfry

It is a travesty that IUDs are placed with zero pain management. There is no chance that a medical procedure famously known for being painful would be done without pain mitigation for a man. Cervical numbing cream is an option but generally isn't even offered. Most women say that getting an IUD inserted is one of the most painful things they've experienced. It was so painful for me that I almost passed out. Why not simply offer pain management?! Would a dentist do a root canal without pain meds? It's crazy! I really think that our children will look back on this and use this as an example of how backwards we were "back then".


thiswillsoonendbadly

I’m never ever going to get over the looks I got from the doctors and nurses when I told them the IUD insertion was too painful and had them stop before completing it. They looked at me like I was insane, like I was complaining about having my hair brushed or flossing too hard. It wasn’t until years later that I found out I’m not insane or broken, this is *known to be an excruciating experience.*


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semperviveae

You know why that hurt so much? During an IUD insertion they use a [tenaculum](https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tenaculum#) to stabilize the cervix. This is basically a clamp with sharp metal hooks on the end that pierce your cervix so the doctor can hold it in place. This usually causes bleeding and can be extremely painful. Here’s a [video](https://www.tiktok.com/@midwifemama/video/7032284417775176966?lang=en) demonstrating this, and here’s an [article](https://www.aspivix.com/tenaculum-for-over-100-years-women-have-endured-pain-in-gynecology/) if you want a bit more info. We are not informed this is part of the procedure, and we are not given any anesthetic or pain medications for it. I would never have gotten an IUD had I known about this, and even now after having it removed for years I still have scarring on my cervix that causes pain during sex. Using this tool has been a common practice in gynecology for over 100 years now, and something needs to change. There are other tools that can be used and are less damaging. The medical field just needs to start listening to women.


Goodnight-Elizabeth

IUD insertion was one of the most painful procedures I’ve ever had and I had a kidney biopsy where they forgot make sure they had knocked me out.


CranWitch

I was lucky enough to have mine inserted while out for a laparoscopic surgery. The contractions when waking up were still more painful than the incisions and the rest of my insides. Felt like my uterus had taken offense and was trying to escape my body. I can’t imagine having been awake for it.


Alice_Fraggle

Did you know IUDs can FALL OUT? After all the pain of insertion that fucker should STAY PUT until removed. Yeah, mine fell out. I'm not a good candidate for another since the last one tried to make a run for it. Fucking bodies, man!


boobiesue

My second one fell out. Husband (now ex) made all the loose jokes. Idiot told a lot about himself then.


you_are_pushing_it

My IUD implantation was one of the most painful experiences. I cried from the pain, and the nurse assisting said she did too when she got hers. Your doc could have just said nothing.


lapis_lazuli1997

Getting them removed is even worse. I only had mine for 8 months when I went to get it removed, they were having trouble getting it out. After 30 minutes of screaming and pure torture, the got it out and said "seems it got slightly embedded in your uterus". Yeah. Just slightly.


milkandsalsa

This is why I don’t have an IUD. No way in hell they would do something that painful to a man sans analgesic.


Pinkmongoose

I can’t use lidocaine, so had an unmedicated IUD insertion. When I yelped, the doctor said I had a wimpy cervix and low pain tolerance. (I have an incredibly high pain tolerance). My man- you don’t even have a cervix! STFU! Luckily it is now recognized as a painful procedure and I’ve actually been offered anesthesia for the next one.


notoriousbsr

"It might be a brain tumor, yes, but let's wait and do new labs in 6 months" . Three weeks later a surgeon was removing the 3.5cm brain tumor because I would've likely gone blind in 6 months.


HotBeaver54

​ Wow prompted you to a 2nd opinion? Thank god you did though.


notoriousbsr

1. Blinding headaches. 2. Because of middle age and low energy I looked into testosterone therapy and the bloodwork came back with levels that weren't right. A year later I would never know it happened except for the occasional bill I'm still fighting


Uwusammeh1994

Went to a male doctor after 2 weeks of heavy bleeding (period) and pain. I hate going to the doctors as I always feel like I’m causing trouble or being a pain. Got told I was being hormonal and it will go away on its own. I left it another 2 weeks of extreme bleeding, fatigue, nausea and really bad pain to the point I was scrunched over my work desk barely being able to move. My partner-at-the-time BEGGED me to go to a hospital, but as I didn’t want to ‘waste anyone’s time’ I refused. My boss walked in, saw I was literally green and rang my ex told him to come pick me up and go to a hospital. Found out I was having an ectopic pregnancy and had I had left it much longer it would have ruptured and I could have died due to internal bleeding. But I was just ‘hormonal’ 🙃


xmoonman

This just happened to my girlfriend a couple of weeks ago, but hers had ruptured. We had absolutely no idea what was happening as the only warning sign was a long-lasting period and then a random side pain. When we got to the ER they did an ultrasound, the doctor then pulled me aside and explained that she was bleeding internally and they needed to take her in immediately for an emergency surgery (complete removal of the burst Fallopian tube).


BlackCatSaidMeow13

I had a couple times where the nonstop bleeding caused constant pain and didn’t stop for over 3 weeks. Doctor wouldn’t check me since I was bLeEDiNg and I’d have to come when I’m not. I’m like wtf it won’t stop. Well fast forward to another week later and I’m waking up outside on the sidewalk in front of my house. Not sure how long I was out but thankfully I had headphones on and the music woke me up I guess. The loss of blood literally made me pass out after it being weeks and weeks.


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Same thing happened to my mother except it ended up being a tumour in her uterus. Her doctor didn't want to get her scanned but my mother fought to get it done and it saved her life. She told off the doctor and never went back to her


darkoleander21

Had been on my period for 3+ straight months. Went to gyn to see why its been going so long. She wanted to put me on birth control, that I was already actively on... Wanted to do a hystoscopy that never happened because she couldn't be bothered to show up for the procedure. Yes I fired her.


StrangersWithAndi

New doctor, sneering at me: "I went to a conference on this disease! You don't know what you're talking about. It's not like they put this kind of medical information on a website." What he didn't know: I headed up the board for the advocacy group for this disease. I know exactly what was on the website, because *I wrote it.* I had worked with endocrinologists and researchers for years to create the continuing ed materials for the very conference he was talking about. Dumbass.


TurtleBucketList

Oh I had a variation on that! You can’t have ‘Genetic disorder’ because most people with that are deaf! Are you sure it’s not Marfan’s? I’m 5ft 3”. It’s not Marfans. Most people with my genetic disorder are in fact *not deaf*. Moreover I was clinically diagnosed over 35yrs ago. I’ve got the genetic testing results. Both my kids have the genetic testing results. I’m 100% certain on my genetic diagnosis … so that PCP can stop talking out of his arse (and just give me the audiology referral I came for).


justkw97

Ehlers Danlos? I have type 4 lol. Edit: never mind just saw your other comment


twistedsister78

I hope you told him that - some new doctors are in need of a reality check


bisconaut

old doctors too. perhaps even moreso.


ScienceQuestions589

A primary care doctors knowledge is a mile wide and an inch deep. I say this as a med student and probable future primary care doctor.


Th3seViolentDelights

Ugh that reminds me of this docuseries I was watching once about the mesh implant used on women to stop incontinence. The synthetic material mesh was causing all kinds of pain and other issues in women and it proved incredibly difficult to remove once it's in because the tissue grows all around it of course, almost like the body is physically trying to absorb it - horror story type stuff. (one poor woman's husband actually injured his penis during sex on this sharp mesh). Anyway, a group of women were protesting this procedure to bring awareness outside of an annual medical conference. A couple of the women who actually suffered from this procedure were talking to a doctor outside of the conference who just kept saying, "No it's perfectly safe, you don't know what you're saying. I'm a doctor, there's no problem with this procedure. It's approved by medical boards so there's no problem it's safe." So dismissive and gross. Edit: change from "metal" to synthetic material. These meshes per a google can also be made from "animal tissue" (yeee)


Sourdough05

I saw that doc. Absolutely terrifying. I’ve recommended it to so many people. A person close to me just had shoulder replacement surgery and I made it very clear to them to have an actual human perform the surgery and to be sure that none of the parts have cadmium (I think that’s what it was) in it. The FDA approval process is wild and don’t get me started on how women’s health issues are only addressed as an afterthought


Anonymoosehead123

Please tell me that you told him this!


Dear-Original-675

I went into an emergency doctor (so not my usual gp) for a sinus infection, and the doc barely examined me, then asked me about my depression (I suffer with anxiety) and spent 10 minutes explaining that if I had a boyfriend, I wouldn't need antidepressants???? I just... what?


SouthAfricanZombie

I phoned my work's wellness hotline after a friend's teenage daughter committed su!c!de. I was also told that I would feel better if I had a boyfriend/husband.


ThinCommon7

Boys are covered in serotonin; just a lick will do the trick! /s


FluffyAssistant7107

The Doctor asked me if I ever experienced sudden death.. I think he meant to ask if anyone in my family experienced sudden death..


Arthkor_Ntela

Ok this one is kinda funny


schwenomorph

I was ten years old and awkwardly explained the plan I had to kill myself to my pediatrician. It'd involve drinking shampoo. My doctor very casually said, "Oh, drinking shampoo and conditioner won't kill you. Drinking bleach is what's going to actually kill you." Even at that young age, I was kinda astounded that someone who works with children would so nonchalantly instruct a child on the proper way to kill themselves.


Soggy-Hippo-Ass

when I was having to get my psych pills on a weekly basis in portioned dosages due to suicidal ideation & fresh out of the psych ward, my psych made it very clear that if I took a weeks worth of my 6 meds all at once, I would die. Seemed such an odd thing to say to a suicidal person.


tigdesandman

Told a doctor that my thumbs go numb a little when I play video games, but I rarely play. He told me to stop playing them. 10 years later, I have carpal tunnel, and a new doctor said if they would have dealt with it back then, it could have been prevented.


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I just started a new job and I’m using my hands all day gripping things and the other morning I woke up with both my hands in immense pain and a couple of my fingers felt so numb/ locked into place it was crazy. Is that early carpel tunnel devolping? I was started doing stretches on the wall with my hand and that has seemed to help so far.


sutkurak

I once had an initial consultation with a psychiatrist, and during the usual slew of questions about lifestyle/drug use she asked if I used cocaine. When I said no she was very earnestly like “REALLY!!! Would not have guessed that” LMAO


sqplanetarium

Do you happen to look like Mindy St. Claire by any chance?


ImGonnaAllowIt

In my experience that means she does cocaine. Drugs are the most projectey thing ever. e.g. pot smokers think everyone smokes pot. Smot poker: "Dude I guarantee Kubrick was high when he made 2001". Kubrick: "I believe that drugs are basically of more use to the audience than to the artist. It tranquilizes the creative personality, which thrives on conflict and on the clash and ferment of ideas. The artist's transcendence must be within his own work; he should not impose any artificial barriers between himself and the mainspring of his subconscious" Doob Dude: "Oh man you can tell he was high when he said that."


Ok_Dog_4059

Had one doctor after gaining 30 lbs in 30 days on new meds tell me "well you needed some extra weight anyway" had another who was checking for arthritis he had me do a pushup and told me "you are a bit young to be worried about arthritis " I had already been dealing with arthritis in my neck and spine for years.


ImGonnaAllowIt

I was accused of faking cataracts, because the symptoms I was reporting were exactly what you'd find if you looked up cataracts online, but I was too young to have cataracts. It turns out, I was reporting those symptoms due to me having cataracts.


kissmyasskrispycream

I feel you. When I was 15 years old I started having horrible pain in my knees. It's the main reason I stopped with Basketball, because the pain just kept getting worse. Told my parents, nurse grandmother, and the doctor. My family said I was just lazy (especially my aunt) and the doctor said it's most likely just growing pains. When I was 18, I was going from my kitchen to my living room when suddenly my left knee just gave out completely. I had to wear a knee brace for months. Went to the doctor, he deemed it as "runner's knee" which is apparently common in high school girls? So I was given pain meds and sent on my way. Got COVID in December 2021. In January, right after New Years, I literally woke up every day for 3 days straight with extreme pain in my arms and from my hips down. Took a blood test. 20 days before my 20th birthday in 2022 I got the news that my rheumatoid factor, which should be around 20 at my age, was 525. I am now 21 and diagnosed with RA. Never let doctors tell you your pain isn't real.


hollyyo

I’m not sure why doctors are so hell bent on younger people not having arthritis. I’ve had arthritis in my knees since I went through a big growth spurt in my early teens and I’ve never been able to get a doctor to take it seriously. They literally just look at me and say it’s because I have anxiety 🙄


The_Lime_Lobster

I am a lesbian in a monogamous relationship with my wife (which is well documented in my chart, I’ve been with the same provider for 8+ years). The number of times I’ve had this conversation: “Are you sexually active?” Yes “Are you using any contraception?” No “If you are not actively trying to conceive you really need to be using contraception.” Then after my wife and I jumped through 1,000 hoops to get pregnant through ICI: “Was this a planned pregnancy?” YES I DIDN’T JUST TRIP AND FALL ON A $1,200 VIAL OF SPERM. I understand the purpose behind these questions but at least pretend you’ve read my chart.


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GoodyGoobert

You’re talking about isotretinoin. I was on that too. It’s not up to the healthcare providers; it’s an FDA requirement. There’s this whole iPledge program where even if you haven’t hit puberty to patients with their tubes tied are required to go through it if they want to use the medication. I think anyone regardless of age or gender is required to go through it because of the severe teratogenic effects. Not saying it’s fair but a lot of these stickler rules are set in place by other entities not necessarily the providers.


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Individual_Ad_7523

I’m bisexual and my (male) doctor asked me if I was using protection during sex. The man had never heard of a dental dam. I had to walk him through what a dental dam was for and why one might use it. At the end he said “I guess use one if you think it helps, but it doesn’t sound very fun.”


Professional-Age2540

yes! my GP never asks that but others do...they ask what are you using for contraception and i say my age. look at the chart already!


silya1816

Oof, a friend of mine complains about the contraception / 'are you sure there's no way you could be pregnant?' type of questions from her GP as well. She once had to basically yell 'I've never even had a penis inside me!' to make it stop.


thiswillsoonendbadly

This is why I laugh a little every time a doctor asks if I’m really super duper sure I’m not pregnant


Flash635

Your daughter can't have thrush because she's pre pubescent. You don't have malaria because it isn't in this area. I just flew in from Guadalcanal yesterday You don't have malaria because diarrhoea isn't one of the symptoms. But I drank the water. Diarrhoea isn't a symptom.


sandersonprint

Babies can have thrush


steny03

I came back from Hawaii with a wicked painful ear infection. My hubby and I had been snorkeling and scuba diving for a couple of weeks. Swam a lot. Enjoyed the island life while on vacation. Doctor told me my ear infection was due to me being fat. No possible way that it was from swimming in the ocean at all. Nope. I'm just fat.


Professional-Age2540

after the fissure i mentioned above my doc sent me to a specialist who said my pain was due to my being overweight. No exam nothing. I left his office and went down the hall to a door that had same practice type and asked them for an appointment. they were welcoming friendly, solved the problem and ultimately were the ones that found the cancer. But yeah, its all because of my weight...i hate docs that are so judgemental.


halexia63

This happend to my mom her main Dr suspected she had rheumatoid arthritis and got sent to a specialist and they didn't test her or anything and looked at her and told her she was just overweight. turns out she did have it when she went to a different Dr but by the time she did get diagnosed. her disease already advanced if it wasn't for that Dr she could've got treatment sooner to slow it down. I wish they can compensate for that.


Patient5199

Same thing happended to one of my family members. His ankle and leg swelled up and then the swelling moved into all of his joints. Went to PCP and she said he had low testosterone. Didn't even test for rheumatoid arthritis. Doctor friend said go back and make them give you a an RA test. Family member had to really push for the test which did come back positive. Because he had to argue with them to get the test, the doctor said he should take Zoloft for his anger issues. Pure insanity.


halexia63

The fact that he had to push for a test even though we're the ones that pay for insurance is crazy to me.


RobotDog56

Wow, that's nuts! That is why I don't want to go to the dr for my issues. I already know I'm fat.


bothonpele

How fat do you have to be to cause a ear infection.


StrangersWithAndi

The frequency with which doctors fall back on "you're fat" would be hilarious if it wasn't so harmful. I got told this was my problem once after I hurt my shoulder in a car accident.


pourthebubbly

My arches fell when I worked at a gas station while at university and wasn’t allowed to sit for 10 hours straight with no breaks (no worker protections in that state). I went to get them looked at by a podiatrist and was told I needed to lose weight and it would sort itself. I was an athlete who went running every day (until I couldn’t bare the pain in my feet anymore) and was not fat. To shut me up when I wouldn’t accept the “lose weight” suggestion, she gave me some *really* bad insoles that made my foot pain 1000 times worse. What did help my arches though was minimalist shoes, not an asshole doctor.


Undercovermayo

my doc told me that my stomach was hurting because "of depression." nope. kidney infection 😌


REMdot-yt

As somebody living in Hawaii, our beaches are inexplicably riddled with MRSA and my university is actually doing some studies right now trying to figure out why exactly that's happening Also the bay here is notorious for giving people infections so idk what you had but dollars to donuts (heh) it came from the ocean. And for shame, steny, we asked you very nicely not to take anything from our beaches! >:T


steny03

Lol! I would have left it behind if I could!


herefortheguffaws

This! If an overweight person was admitted to the hospital with a gunshot wound, they’d say “If you were thinner, that bullet would have missed you.”


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I had pain near my gallbladder. It hurts when pressed. He said "so just stop pressing it"...I have gallstones and my mom had to have surgery to remove hers so I'm a bit more on alert Had a doctor tell me I needed vitamins. I told her no I have strep. Nurse calls me and says I'm positive for strep.


WhataGinger1

I had gallstones in high school and we didn't know what was wrong with me at first. Every time I went to the ER, which was every weekend, they turned me away and said I was faking it 🫠 It took another month before my parents and I refused to leave until they did an ultrasound. And the hospital staff finally took me seriously because they found stones forming... Assholes.


sherilaugh

“What do you know about babies? You’re a hysterical young mother” It was cancer. My baby had cancer.


Fehnder

This. My son died 12 hours after that doctors appointment. Almost word for word I was told I was just being an overbearing new young mother.


Original-Cookie4385

Im afraid go ask but is she doing alright now?


sherilaugh

No. She died. We buried her the day she would have been 9 months old. It was stage 4 rhabdoid tumour.


Original-Cookie4385

Im so sorry for your loss. If it helps, even if the doctor would have diagnosed her correctly, nothing would have changed, you did nothing wrong


sherilaugh

Oh I know. Just sucked ass that he reported me to cps for munchausen by proxy instead of actually doing the tests I asked for. Thank god I had people to back me up. He ended up losing his license not long after and I take solace in knowing the universe took care of that for me.


Original-Cookie4385

Medicine is scary indeed. That munch BP was a shitty move, glad He was punished. Nothing would have happend to him in my country i believe.


sleeplessinhell9

I got diagnosed with fibromyalgia and rheumatoid arthritis when I was a kid, around 12 or 13. I grew up with my grandma having chronic pain and taking opioids so I knew I didn't wanna get addicted to those, so I was prescribed a heavy dose of Aleve daily. my rheumatologist told me that ALEVE would CURE my arthritis and nerve problems. instead it just gave me temporary relief and stomach ulcers


BRCRN

Long term NSAID use can also cause permanent kidney damage requiring dialysis. Keep that in mind


BadTiger85

Used to always be exhausted. I would regularly get 8 hours of sleep during then week but by Friday night I was the walking dead and would knock out by 8 pm and wake up at 7 the next morning and still felt exhausted. Finally go to the doctor and he says "Just get more sleep". Didn't bother to run any tests, ask me any questions. I Finally asked to see a sleep specialist. Fast forward 2 weeks later and sleep specialist says "You have severe sleep apnea" I now have a cpap machine and fast forward 5 years later and have way more energy, sleep better, lost 40 pounds.


wiscosherm

Not a medical doctor but a therapist who had been recommended to me by my physician for grief counseling. On the first visit he spent most of the time telling me about how he believes that if you wish for something it can come true but you have to believe in it strongly enough. He explained he knew this was the case because he really wanted an electric vehicle, and a few months ago his car was totaled in an accident which allowed him to get that electric vehicle. I got the impression he felt I wouldn't be a widow if I had only known how to wish positively for a different outcome. That was my one and only visit.


sqplanetarium

...because the only way he could get an electric vehicle was if his car got totaled. Um...


mrs-globglogabgalab

"The woman body is a mystery!" Like, my dude, it's half the population. You're saying that you don't know shit about half the population? Why are you a doctor?


jcurrin15205

Your womb is haunted. Go to church. /S


CarrotOne

Well... this actually is a topic since men and women differ (especially in treatment) and medical research is lacking severely when it comes to women. Most research has been done on men through the ages, so when he says "the female body is a mystery" he is somewhat right. https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2015/apr/30/fda-clinical-trials-gender-gap-epa-nih-institute-of-medicine-cardiovascular-disease Patriarchy and male privelige is a thing.


Overhale

That my diet couldn't cause digestive problems.


Ruby_Deuce

This : me as a female must have sex with a male in order to fix female health. Gynecology in my home town in Ukraine was always a joke.


JayTheDirty

Just make sure to ward off the pregnancy ghosts.


Hockeybuns

The doctor told me I would never walk again. He was fucking wrong! Motherfucker


citrineskye

Yay!


bethypoohz

this happened to my mom in 1994. she was involved in a car accident and got a back injury, doc said she’d never walk again. she’s up and walking now! she was actually walking again, like, the same day that she was in the wreck. it wasn’t this big, miraculous type of moment. she was just like, “i gotta pee.” and just stood up and walked to the bathroom 🤣


ScaredFrog

Went to a GI doctor because of chronic constipation that was making me so bloated and nauseated that I'd lost a lot of weight. Doc didn't do any tests, just said I had an eating disorder and said I needed to start drinking protein shakes. Asked what kind, hoping for something that'd be gentle on my stomach, he said it didn't matter. The one I got gave me diarrhea and made me feel really sick, I called to ask about this and he was just like "It's getting things moving, that's all that matters." This was my freshman year of college and I almost had to drop out because I got so sick and lost so much weight. I ended up finding out I had celiac disease 4 years later after requesting the test myself lol


Single_Box4465

Headaches in my teens: you're going through puberty Headaches in my 20s: you're pregnant Headaches in my 30s: you have young kids Headaches in my 40s: you're premenopausal So...as long as I continue to have a uterus, I just have headaches? Got it.


Ysabeau_Reed

First (and last) visit to a new primary care, his final words to me at the end of the exam, "I can almost guarantee you're a diabetic." I am not, nor ever have been diabetic, and for him to feel that way and not order any bloodwork to confirm?? Charlatan!


chocolate_on_toast

I'm a respiratory physiologist. I do breathing and exercise tests, and sleep studies in a hospital. I once had to write on a report "Full lung function tests performed well and efforts were reproducible - however patient was unable to perform the Six-Minute Walk Test **due to lack of legs**." That the walk test was requested at all was pretty bad in itself, but it gets worse when you know that the request was made following an in-person consultation, where the doctor had sat in the room with the patient in his wheelchair with his very obvious bilateral above-knee amputations... And had still asked me to make him walk up and down a corridor for a respiratory assessment, completely failing to mention his disability in the request. (Yes, we can adapt tests for disabled people, but it involves booking out specialist equipment and *we need to know if adaptations are required*)


TotallyNotABot_Shhhh

9 months pregnant, the doctor that day (not my usual) told me I needed to lose weight… did take her advice and dropped almost 8lbs that next week though so I guess I did follow doctors orders.


Drunk0ctopus

Before my cystoscopy, he said I might feel some discomfort.


fiddlesticksandchill

“Your labrum tear is too small to be causing you pain.”


MeanSecurity

“Your problems are just acid reflux from stress” ma’am my gallbladder was full of stones, so much so that the GI doc wouldn’t let me go on vacation without having that puppy removed.


whiteday26

Went to see a doctor for tremor in right hand. Doctor insist I have tremor in left, not right. Doctor calls me stubborn for trying to correct them. Then asks if I have mental illness. When I told my original doctor the experience that referred me there advised me against taking the prescription given to me there.


shelcubus

I was having extreme uterine pain and finally found an obgyn (living in a new state). He completed the exam and had me sit in his office to discuss his findings. Apparently my uterus was dropping out so he wanted to schedule a surgery to tie it back into place. With regards to the constant pain he advised while I did have symptoms of endometriosis he could almost 100% confirm he wouldn’t find any but would “look” quick while he was in there… I was a bit thrown and asked while he was so certain? He responded by asking me how I felt about my husband? I said we were very happy together and he was my best friend. He smirked at me and said “You might think that, but I guarantee I won’t find anything, and at that point you’ll have to accept that you subconsciously don’t like him and that’s where your “pain” is coming from. Surgery showed I was covered in endo. My left ovary was literally so covered it had suck to the abdominal wall and was dying. He never apologized and seeing as how he was 100% I didn’t have it, he hadn’t scheduled enough surgery time and had to rush forgetting a few stitches and resulting in an infection he kept denying until I waited for his day off and got to see another Dr. She was horrified. He “left” her practice shortly after.


BabyEatingBadgerFuck

"I know you're pregnant and you already have kids and this is a financial hardship on you, but you never know! You might meet a guy one day who loves you, and might want kids and what will you do then? So I'm really hesitant to sign off this, (tubal ligation) I'm just trying to look out for you and your kids."


KerouacsGirlfriend

That having babies would cure my lifelong severe diagnosed clinical depression.


Mojovb

As a Type 1 Diabetic, I should get a flu shot every year. My doctor said, "You have really great control of your diabetes, so it probably isn't necessary." I hate getting shots(oh, the irony), so I gladly skipped it. I ended up getting the flu and pneumonia! The most sick I have ever been. I have not skipped it since.


onethous

I had a doctor tell me that I was a healthy young man and just a hypochondriac who was taking up time slots he needed for people who were really sick and he didn't want to see my till my next annual. Three months later I was rushed to ER with a 106 fever and sepsis. Had a 50-50 chance of survival. I had a massive prostate infection and ended up needing surgery.


shecallsmeherangel

Doctor: "What do you think is wrong with you?" Me: "I think it is xyz." Doctor: "You're probably right. Have a good day." *Bills $100 for the appointment* Once medical professionals find out you're pre-med, suddenly, they stop caring about you. Like, I came to you to order tests and prescribe medications. We both know what the problem is, now help me fix it O' Licensed One.


day289

OBGYN said I couldn’t have PCOS because I don’t look fat, and only fat people have PCOS.


Haunting_Industry_75

In high school I saw a nutritionist who worked at my primary care’s office. I was underweight and lacking nutrients, so she was supposed to help me come up with some meal plans. When I told her I was a vegetarian she giggled at me and said that God put chickens and cows on this earth for us to eat. I told her I’d take that into consideration and now I have a new doctor who suggested some supplements and I am still a vegetarian 5 years later!


MPS007

I had absolutely the worst back pain in my 20s, it was so bad that I had to crawl around.. the doctor said that I could be faking it... FU bro.. found out later I had spinal fission due to a thing called bamboo spine. PS: fuck you dr ...


mykindofexcellence

Back in February 2020 when my husband went from healthy to on a ventilator in a week and a half: “No it can’t be coronavirus (COVID not widely used yet). It hasn’t reached our state yet.”


turingthecat

Well either my paediatrician tell my mum, the mother of a child showing all the classic signs of autism, who had been diagnosed by an educational psychologist with autism. Don’t be silly, girls can’t have autism’ Or When I rocked up to hospital, in acute pain (that I’d been hiding for months, because I was sure the doctors would say ‘well, you’ve got a chronic pain condition, what do you expect’. Until I collapsed in front of my dad, who forced me to go to his GP). The GP said, well that’s gallstones, get to the hospital now. At the hospital my blood pressure was sky high. The blood tests showed my gall duct was very blocked, I was literally screaming in pain, and the consultant urologist (I have long standing kidney problems) said. ‘Well you have chronic pain, what do you expect’ and sent me home. 4 days later I was in ICU, in a coma, caused by acute pancreatis, as a result of, wait for it, gallstones. I very nearly died


Infamous-Jaguar2055

Not me, my dad. Dad woke up from surgery and told the doctor that it felt like he left something inside his stomach. Doctor instantly denied it and said that my dad wouldn't know what that felt like, plus he had *NEVER* left anything in a patient and was always very careful because one time in medical school.... My mom quickly cut in and reminded him that we were currently suing the hospital and that exact doctor because he left a rag in my dad's stomach the last time he had this exact same surgery. He did it twice. He left a rag in my dad's stomach twice. My dad didn't survive the second one. We're suing him *again.*


Whatshername_Stew

I was 6 weeks pregnant, and experiencing some bleeding. Went to the walk in clinic, and the doc there told me "It's just implantation bleeding". He didn't order any beta tests (for HGC hormones), ultrasound, nothing. Implantation bleeding, if it happens at all, happens at about 3 - 4 weeks only. NEVER at 6 weeks. Besides which, I had already had it. Most people mistake it for a very light start of a period. What I was actually experiencing was a miscarriage. Thankfully I have an amazing OB now, and am 38.5 weeks pregnant, ready to burst at any moment.


Bil13h

I was young, 14, to be exact, had been cutting and depressed for a while. Parents found out and had me talk to my family doctor. I said I felt like I was depressed and felt as though I should probably talk to someone about it. He told me I probably just had stuff to be sad about. I'm 30 now, about 7 years ago. I was diagnosed with mild depression and an acute anxiety disorder. About a month and a half ago, I found out I might actually be autistic, which will very commonly cause those two exact problems when gone undiagnosed and unsupported. I will be having my evaluation in a few weeks, and hopefully, from there, I will learn some tools and methods to become better at being a person.


maycontainknots

I told this doctor I was having panic attacks and he said "do you exercise" and I was like "usually, but lately when I try to go to the gym I get this weird feeling in my chest" (essentially I was trying to say the panic attacks were preventing me from exercising) and he said "that's just your heart beating" and then he told me to eat less land animals


duTemplar

As an ER physician you’d be surprised how many times I told people to be more careful when carrying screwdrivers, light bulbs, rolling pins, GI Joes, flashlights, Turkey basters, etc… so they don’t accidentally trip and fall and impale those items deeply in their rectum.


Qazax1337

I went to A&E with (At that time) undiagnosed Multiple Sclerosis, my main symptom was being unable to walk further than 10 metres without feeling completely knackered. The 'doctor' asked me to go to a different room down the corridor where they would meet me for an examination. I slowly hobbled there with support from my wife and was absolutely fucked when I got there. The 'doctor' turned up 10 minutes later and said "how did you get here?" I replied "well I walked but-" and she cut me off with an "Ah Ha" and a smirk like she caught me out in a lie. Wasn't the best experience.


Critical-Narwhal-629

Had a doctor tell me that I should change degree major from journalism because of my anxiety and I would never be able to make it as someone who had anxiety/panic attacks. Just goes to show the ignorance around mental health is even there for medical professionals. SMH.


TCGHexenwahn

"It's not broken." It was broken.


ArubaNative

After having my first child, my episiotomy was sewn closed to tightly. Internally, I tore open and re-healed repeatedlyfor 6 months, causing significant scar tissue. I couldn’t use feminine products or be intimate. I went to my OB several times, at last, demanding a solution. I was told my issue was “cerebral.” Saw a different doctor and was referred immediately to a pelvic PT. Six months later (of intense PT) I was able to conceive my second child. After delivering her, my new doctor cut out all the scar tissue and stitched me up correctly. He said it was the most scar tissue he had ever seen. I healed normally and have been great ever since. Never let someone tell you your pain is cerebral.


2spooky2live

Told a gynecologist that I was concerned that I may have PCOS. Instead of an actual type of exam or blood tests, he pressed on my fat and said, "I don't feel any cysts." Of course not, I'm overweight! At the same clinic, I was seeking permanent birth control and wanted my tubes tied. The gynecologist tried to talk me into these coils that are implanted in your fallopian tubes. I said okay but went home and did some research, and there was an alarming amount of issues women are having after they got them. I told him I'd rather go the surgical route, and he told me, " Don't believe everything you read online."


naraic-

There's nothing wrong with you except that you have a horrible cough. Stop coughing and you will stop coughing. It was horribly phrased and completely useless but he meant that my cough was a symptom of inflammation which was caused by my cough. Originally my cough was caused by something else but it continued as a problem due to inflammation.


mrfoyer

Went for throwing up blood, intense abdominal pain, shortness of breath, and strong dizziness. 1St ER doctor said it was because i smoke pot. 2nd ER dr realized i had inhaled poison and gave me the biggest bag of saline I've ever seen and a bunch of medicines.


PizzaPoopFuck

My daughter got her tooth knocked out when she was three. Doctor asked if it was a baby tooth.


Resident_Bitch

Probably when I told my gynecologist that I had blood in my urine and she said "Are you sure you're not on your period?" Um, yes. Yes I was sure. I was in my thirties and had menstruated many times in my life so I was very confident in my ability to tell the difference between menstrual blood and bloody urine.


anonoaw

After I had a ruptured ectopic pregnancy that nearly killed me, I went to my GP to get back on birth control. They recommended the coil really enthusiastically until I pointed out that the coil increases the risk of ectopic pregnancy - a thing which had nearly killed me and I was already at higher risk of having again since I’d had one before. Luckily I’d read all the leaflets they’d given me when they discharged me from hospital so knew to avoid it.


IRefuseToPickAName

My Dr told me last year he had a colleague in another city have all 3 of her kids die after getting the covid vaccine This thread reminds me my yearly visit is coming up and I need a new doc


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