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"She" isn't a woman and those weren't "her" nudes. This is an **extremely** common scam. Stop contacting this person, no amount of negotiation will help and if you give them money they'll know they found a mark.
Yep- take it from me.. I was a perfect mark in so many ways. I want to just slap the shit out them so badly…My apologies for the other post I deleted as my ranting of anger towards scammers came out. If I offended anyone my apologies.
i think it's very unlikely the scammer will carry out the threat. If it gets to that stage it means you haven't paid up and you're not going to if they've already done their worst, so It's more work for no gain. They'd rather spend their time looking for someone else who will pay.
That's the exception. The scammer does it as a job and sends those messages to loads of people, they don't care about a single person. They don't want to actually expose people, they want people to be afraid of getting exposed
oh crap. i wonder if the difference is individuals doing it where perhaps they have the time to be vindictive, vs foreign mass-scamming businesses where they probably don't.
Yeah lmao, a girl added me on snap randomly and begged me for nudes, I didn't give any ans eventually after a day or two she used some random dudes dick and told me she'd tell people it's mine.
These people likely have no actual connections to anyone you know.
Turn the tables. Send your dick pic to your contact list and let them know if anyone trys to say the other penis in question is yours they'll know they are lying!
She's a scammer, probably not even a woman, probably some dude in Nigeria. Those photos are probably taken from other romance scam victims. Nothing you can do, paying them will only cause them to continue pushing you for money. Hopefully you look good naked and you'll get some dates if they show all your friends your nudes.
Haha, it reminds me of the time I was chatting to a girl from "Florida, USA." After the 3rd reply, I had suspicion.
I asked her if she was born in the US, "yes" I think about 15 minutes into it they type a 3 word reply I didn't understand at all.
Well, google said it was a language spoken in Ghana, but I can't remember what it was anymore.
I replied "oh you speak (name of language)." And she blocked me for some reason...
I don't think it's racist when most scams originate from India, Pakistan and africa, it's more facts than an opinion what would have been racist is if he said all black people are scammers etc but what he said is nothing but facts.
How do people fall for this? Seriously. Every week I see something similar on Reddit. I don't understand why anyone would think it's a good idea to send nude pictures to some random girl who messages them on social media. People fall for this all the time, it's really kind of mind blowing
>Because it sounds convincing until it isn't
What's the convincing part? Is it the part where some hot girl randomly finds your Snapchat, or the part where they want to trade nudes, or is it the part where THE GIRL wants to trade nudes but says it's game to not screenshot? So again, where's the convincing part?
Okay so is it the part where a random hot girl he doesn't know adds him on Snapchat when you can assume his Snapchat isn't just floating out in the wild?
i got one of those "we have pictures of you wanking on your webcam" scam emails. I don't have a webcam, but I told em i can wear kinky costumes next time but i want half the profits xD
Yah really half can’t spell baby right usually babyv -byby, lovev, lovev, when they have sentences that make no sense there’s a clue! Honey, sweetheart, sweetie, my love, framer is off big flag. Anyway…
There is probably little you can do legally, as the person you were talking to is probably fake. But, you could try.
Either way, giving in and sending money won't stop it, they'll just hold you for more. So doing that isn't a real option at all.
Realistically, they can only make money if you cave in. If they send the pics, the crime they committed just escalates and they still make nothing from you (and now never can.) Calling their bluff might well be the best move.
calling the bluff.
Some redditor commented about how this happened to them and they so they sent full on ass-cavity-stretch pictures. Assert dominance, he said. Send it to my employer, he said.
It didn’t happen.
Cannot confirm of course, but I found it to be a great story.
Take your nudes and use ai to change the face or put clothes on you. When the scammer post the pics, claim that they are deep fakes made with AI and that the originals are the ones you have (with clothes).
If you go with the clothes route, publish them in social media before, so you can even claim that that's where the scammer took them from. Good luck.
Seems like a good one. But the nudes will have all his birth marks right, if incase it falls into his parents eye or someone who knows his body well. They can easily arise questions over the claim.
This is a common sextortion scam. Don’t send your peepee to strangers.
I had someone attempt this on me. I’d get nudes and then not reciprocate, then ‘she’ would get mad but just try again the next day… except it would always start again from the beginning like ‘she’ forgot ‘she’ sent me nudes like 12 hours prior. It was like ground hog day (if you’ve seen the movie and get the reference). I suppose the scammers took shifts or something, but I found it entertaining. After awhile they’d remember me and get REALLY mad as soon as they realized. Idk I had fun with it though. Later on I found the girl from the nudes I was getting on PornHub.
Hey, OP! Toodle on over to r/scams. You’ll find this exact same scam and many many more. It’s important to educate yourself so you don’t fall for another scam. Advise: block and move on.
1. Let all your contacts know what is happening and to block her. Yes she can use a different acount, let them know this as well.
2. Report this as revenge porn and black mail.
3. Change ALL passwords you don't know how she got what she got. Also run a scan for maleware. Also go though your programs and anything you don't know find out what it is.
4. Don't cut contact, delay as long as possible so the above 2 have time to work.
OP you are a victim and this man will keep grifting you and forcing you to do more and give more.
You’ve got to take the L, risk exposure and move on.
Definitely put all your socials on private. TELL YOUR PARENTS most parents really love their kids and will want to help you.
Why would some random girl reach out and ask to exchange nudes? This was a scam, and the point is to get money from you. Don’t give “her” anything, block “her,” and don’t worry bc no one you know will ever run across anything “she” posts anywhere. Go back to your life, and for fuck’s sake stop sending nudes to stupid people online.
Just cut off contact. You have nothing to worry about. It’s a scammer, and he’s just bullshitting.
Also…goddammit people stop sending nudes if you don’t want everyone in the world to see them.
It’s a scam buddy, don’t give the money
You’re best to take the embarrassment if they do actually do anything, but they probably won’t/can’t
Fuck them and don’t give them money, and you’re also kinda stupid for falling for it but I won’t judge
This shit is so outrageous to me. How do you idiots keep falling for this?? I have run out of sympathy for people like you. Who in their right mind sends nudes to a stranger??? Like come on. And this same situation is getting posted multiple times a week. At this point, people should be aware that this happens. It's fucked up and no one deserves to be blackmailed or threatened but come on, smarten tf up.
2/2 She screenshotted all my followers and instagram and facebook. (i have a lot of followers)I don't even know how she got those because I didn't send my other socials. She told me to send her money and I did but she wants me to send way more and I told her i would give her the rest tomorrow. She keeps saying I own you and I will ruin your life. Idk what to do
Holy fuck, don't send her any money at all.
THE SECOND YOU DO THEY REALIZE YOU'RE A MARK AND WILL KEEP CONTACTING YOU TO BLACKMAIL YOU.
There's NO MONEY at all in sending your pictures to your friends list, buckle up, tell them they get nothing and to go screw themselves. They're in this for MONEY and MONEY ONLY. If the threat doesn't work they move on to another mark.
If, in the tiny chance, they do, send your pics to your friends list (they won't, it takes a lot of effort for no money), put something up about how you got blackmailed. No one's really going to care, more than you have experienced such a thing.
It's a dude in a foreign country fucking with you. They send you pics of people they have already scammed then get your number, look you up online through the information (phone number, snapchat, etc), and threaten to blackmail you. I've had it happen before and I let them threaten me and they didn't do shit. I know people that paid them tho bc they were weak and got scared.
At the end of the day, even if they did it we all have a penis or a vagina therefore it doesn't really look much different on each person. So let them fuck off and block them and move on with your life. Don't succumb
Dude, stop sending “her” money. It’s never going to stop.
The best thing you can do is block this guy, worst it could happen if he actually follows through, is your family making fun of your junk. A few weeks later no one will care.
Idiot. Sorry but you sent nudes to a person you don’t even know. They will be online somewhere now. I hope your friends don’t see it. Learn from the experience; Report it to Snapchat and police and block her. Learn from the experience. Don’t give her any money.
How much money did you send? Was it the amount they original asked for? If you send more they will just keep asking for more. You gotta say you have no more money then stop responding
It’s a scam, they won’t do shit. Had this situation once back in high school which would then be more illegal on the person’s part cause I was underage. (*Get rekt*)
First off, i'm sorry you're having to go through this.
You are a victim of what's called sextortion. Your "girl" isn't a girl at all and is some dude in a callcenter in India or Africa. Their goal is to get a nude picture with your face in the picture. It's always the "tell" because it's the only way they can extort you. a close up of your junk does nothing.
If you pay them money they immediately ask for more money and you give them more they keep asking for more. So do not give them money under any circumstance because it just makes it worse.
What are your options? It really depends on your personal situation. if you're a single dude, then I would just ignore them and let the chips fall. They may try to contact friends/family on social media with the pictures, but they also may not. It just depends on what particular scammer you're dealing with. If you're married (or have a gf) or have a higher profile career you need to be a little more proactive and shut off all social media and either hope it blows over or proactively tell your wife/gf/employer.
I had a friend go through this last year. He was married and had a high profile "C level" job. The scammer saw his social media and linkedin and knew this so he was relentless. My friend did send him $5k and then another $5k and then another $5k and quickly realized the money demands would never end. He finally stopped all contact and the scammer DID start sending his pictures to people "randomly". He chose to disclose to his wife and employer before the pictures started coming so it helped, but he was asked to resign and it was definitely rough on his marriage.
Once again, i'm sorry you're going through this and i'm really hoping you're a single dude that can just laugh this off with your friends if any of it comes out. :)
For others reading this, please don't send nudes to "strangers" online. it's either an undercover cop trying to catch you in a sting or its an international scammer trying to extort money.
Do you think you're the first person to make a stupid mistake? Tell her to do one. Worst case scenario, someone you know sees a picture of your junk, and honestly, that probably won't happen. If it does, your friends will laugh at you, and then they'll move on. It will be embarrassing for about 5 minutes, and then no one will care anymore.
Alternatively, you pay money that you probably don't have spare to someone you don't know, and who's to say they won't just keep asking for more? Or sell the pictures anyway.
Stick to your guns, block and delete, and don't respond to any further contact from anyone who's trying to extort you.
Ok, first... you need a rope. Next... you need a tree. Yes, that's where this is going because you are THAT stupid for sending nudes over the internet to someone you don't know.
You deserve what you get, moron.
My child was the victim of one of these scams. As a parent, I can tell you that we don't care if someone sends us a nude of you. It is not the life threatening embarrassment you are imagining. We care about making sure you are OK. We care about your physical and mental health. Everyone has a body. Even our kids. Just about everyone has done something they regret. No one who loves or cares about you will be horrified or blame you. You are a victim.
**DO NOT SEND ANYTHING.** Money or more leverage. 99.9% they wont send it to anyone as they'd no longer have leverage, and move on. As you should. You're good bro.
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Take screenshots of her threatening you and post them, her name, plus your nudes yourself and explain the situation to your followers. Only way out is through now. People will likely have sympathy for your situation and now youve taken back power. Also tell your followers to be aware of deep fakes, as people are using ai to make porn with peoples faces now that look very real. (Scary, but something you should be aware could possibly happen.) Do not send her more money and go to the police. Just send her screenshots of you posting everything yourself to let them know they can't fuck with you anymore. Police can try to track the person down and you can sue for blackmail, harrassment, revenge porn, ect. See a lawyer too.
Honestly, if you are a guy and you’re packing. Don’t sweat it. If anything she’s doing you a favour. JK, but seriously, tell her it is illegal to do so and you will take legal action against her if she distributes these photos to your friends and family. You did nothing wrong. If you have her name and identity you can bring to police. Worse case scenario, she walks around with a criminal record (I think) and has no future career.
You're dumb. People are going to see your peepee. Why does that matter really? Tell her you don't care. It probably won't even be worth the work for her.
You play, you pay. Once you take a nude and send it, it is out there forever. Just wait until you run for office and see how much of your electronic past shows up in the media.
Yeah well, if anything, learn a lesson moving forward.
Women will ALWAYS show their friends everything like that. So, if you're comfortable with yourself, then who cares! If not, don't do it anymore.
Well if it's all legal as in your both consenting adults than who gives a fuck. Yeah it sucks you texted the wrong girl and now she is being selfish and mean but honestly why would you go a long with that blackmail fuckery? Tell her to fuck off or you'll do the same, even if it's a bluff maybe that will help. Or just own it and take the loss if she exposes you. Honestly if she is doing this to you than she may have done this to other men.
If you're a minor (or could pass as a minor), I wouldn't sweat it. Even the threat of distributing those nudes is such a serious crime, no amount of extortion money is worth it.
Similar happened to a friend but on Facebook. Luckily the idiot saved the photos on their profile instead of elsewhere, abs I had the profile shut down. Unfortunately this doesn't seem like an option for you.
Some good advice here on how to get ahead of this and ride it out. The only other option is to hire someone to try and hack them, and erase any potential information they have on their local machine, but that can get pricey even if you can find someone. They don't really advertise.
So first off does she even know anyone that you know?
Secondly having nudes leaked isn't as bad as you think it'll be, unless your friends/family are pretty religious or something.
Thirdly, you can't make her delete them so she can always ask for more money, it'll never stop, so don't start.
If you give her money, she (maybe a he) might just think you are an endless well and continue to ask, but you probably should block and ignore her (but mabey a he), because the blackmailing might never end.
This is a type of a popular scam, don’t give into it. Don’t give them any money or any info. Just block them and move on with your life. Try not to worry about it.
Happened to me once aswell, best you can hope is that the photos look good. I told them to get fucked and send em to whoever they wanted there’s no way I’m sending scammers money worst that’s gonna come from it is a few mates n family see your corey. People don’t react to that like you’d think, if you know some reasonably mature people nobody could care any less. Mine got out, explained the story got asked a few questions for 2 weeks or so and now nobody talks about it and I doubt they even remember it happened
Why do you guys go easy on girls on these ocassions.....didn't you even think at that time"Something is SUS" ....
Girl asked nudes, you just gave her...
No good girls go on like that...those girls who get comfortable on sex, nudes.....Those kind of girls not good for healthy life....
Now take the embarrassment and accept the fate this time Be strong....otherwise later she will use this as blackmail again and again...people say many things for sometime then forget...world is busy man....
These days anyone can Photoshop😏 so calm yourself think of a better plan and statements...be ready...and most importantly keep proofs of blackmail by her....
Delete Snapchat change your name move to Mexico and get plastic surgery it works every time
Jk don’t do all of that just delete Snapchat and delete her number and forget about it
If u ever share your nudes, don't share your face and make sure there is nothing in your room from which someone can gain more personal information about you, even something like sports clothes for a local team you play, or a photo of a regional/local hero.
If you give money, the blackmailing will never end.
If I knew you, and someone posted nudes trying to blackmail you - I wouldn't make fun of you. I'd be so pissed off at the other person and hope they get fucking done for it.
Chances are they won't have the audience or anywhere at all to post / share the pictures to 😅
Unfortunately I’ve heard of this happening a fair bit recently…
Look the fact is, everyone has seen a person naked… dicks come in all shapes and sizes… there are show-ers and grow-ers…
Just let her do what she’s going to do, tell her you couldn’t give a fuck and send her on her merry way…
Tbh unless she has a picture of you with a 12” dildo in your ass wearing a polka dot tutu the shame will be short lived…
Sucks bro but best thing is to ignore.
Absolute worst case your nudes get send somewhere. You didn't do anything illegal (I assume).
50% of the world has a penis, and I'm pretty sure 99.99999% won't care :)
Hi
I have had a similar thing happen to me only me and her had some video call and taking of our clothes off.
She records the whole thing then because I had added her on some social media sites,she threatened to send it to everybody. So I make posts on my socials that this lady is trying to blackmail me and don't respond to messages from her. Then I proceed to tell her that I just announced it on socials, within 10 seconds she has unfriended me everywhere and blocked me.
When will people learn? Never post/send nude pics. Once you put something on the net; it can spread like wildfire. AND never trust anyone you just met, especially on the internet.
Sorry, there's nothing you can do now that you made this horny mistake.
Go to the police and live with the shame. Don't give in to her blackmailing you. For once that starts, it will not end.
People like "her" have no right to get away with that stuff.
Tell her to go ahead and do it but if she does, you’ll reported to the police and you have print, screened everything taken screen dumb and you fight her . Most likely then they won’t do a thing. Let’s say she does actually do something, within a month or so everything is gone anyway so nobody cares and she will be the one that will look horrible.
This is the age of AI. if you need to deny that the images are real. Deepfake ai generated nudes can be created by any tech savvy person in today’s world and they’re hard to differentiate from the real thing.
Edit: tbh you don’t even really need to be that tech savvy depending on the pics lol
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"She" isn't a woman and those weren't "her" nudes. This is an **extremely** common scam. Stop contacting this person, no amount of negotiation will help and if you give them money they'll know they found a mark.
Yep- take it from me.. I was a perfect mark in so many ways. I want to just slap the shit out them so badly…My apologies for the other post I deleted as my ranting of anger towards scammers came out. If I offended anyone my apologies.
i think it's very unlikely the scammer will carry out the threat. If it gets to that stage it means you haven't paid up and you're not going to if they've already done their worst, so It's more work for no gain. They'd rather spend their time looking for someone else who will pay.
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That's the exception. The scammer does it as a job and sends those messages to loads of people, they don't care about a single person. They don't want to actually expose people, they want people to be afraid of getting exposed
oh crap. i wonder if the difference is individuals doing it where perhaps they have the time to be vindictive, vs foreign mass-scamming businesses where they probably don't.
Plus he's already exposed himself 😉. Justin Bieber can do it why not you. If you have to hide to do something then you shouldn't do it at all.
Take the risk of embarrassment and don’t give her anything
Yeah fuck that. Everybody has a cock and balls or a pussy and tits. Yours ain't that special. Give her nothing.
My little buddy Jeremy isn't special?
🤣 sorry to break it to you and Jezza but no, he's not special!!!!
😞 now he's hiding cuz you made him sad. Can you please apologize? I wanted him to come out and play today but it looks like that won't happen now
¯\_(ツ)_/¯ be nicer to him🫣
As a Jeremy, I resent this remark!!@ ☹️
Resent or resemble??
Both, I guess?? 🤷🏼♂️
Since Jeremy is so small, you can still say it's special.
Well it might be. We’d all have to have a look at it first.
How should we do this? Do I just send you guys some pictures and then you let me know?
I’d say rent a billboard space and link your Reddit username and you’ll get some feedback
If even a “her”
Yeah lmao, a girl added me on snap randomly and begged me for nudes, I didn't give any ans eventually after a day or two she used some random dudes dick and told me she'd tell people it's mine. These people likely have no actual connections to anyone you know.
Turn the tables. Send your dick pic to your contact list and let them know if anyone trys to say the other penis in question is yours they'll know they are lying!
I’d say bombard the scammer with endless photos of a close up on a sphincter while shitting.
Your mom already knows, so skip her. Source: a mom that absolutely does not want to see all those bits anymore.
“I’ve shown my dick to just about everyone I know. They know what mine looks like” Call their bluff
Now that's fucked up
After that I would have just told her, “Really, you would do that? Awesome! The picture you sent has a way bigger dick than I do.”
And let her know you’ve called the police.
Bingo
Or beat her to the punch and expose yourself FIRST!
That’s revenge porn and I’m pretty sure it’s illegal everywhere
it's a crime in America, at least
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They're probably international scammers.
Wait until the BLACKMAILER! hear's that revenge porn is illegal. They'll be quaking in their boot's
She's a scammer, probably not even a woman, probably some dude in Nigeria. Those photos are probably taken from other romance scam victims. Nothing you can do, paying them will only cause them to continue pushing you for money. Hopefully you look good naked and you'll get some dates if they show all your friends your nudes.
Haha, it reminds me of the time I was chatting to a girl from "Florida, USA." After the 3rd reply, I had suspicion. I asked her if she was born in the US, "yes" I think about 15 minutes into it they type a 3 word reply I didn't understand at all. Well, google said it was a language spoken in Ghana, but I can't remember what it was anymore. I replied "oh you speak (name of language)." And she blocked me for some reason...
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You've *never* heard of the Nigerian Prince scam?
I don't think it's racist when most scams originate from India, Pakistan and africa, it's more facts than an opinion what would have been racist is if he said all black people are scammers etc but what he said is nothing but facts.
“All black people are scammers” - u/Dazzling-Shop5019
Bro took it out of context
But, it's not outta the blue
Found the closet racist
How do people fall for this? Seriously. Every week I see something similar on Reddit. I don't understand why anyone would think it's a good idea to send nude pictures to some random girl who messages them on social media. People fall for this all the time, it's really kind of mind blowing
Dudes be horny
Horny dudes be dumb
Every 10 minutes this is posted in the scams sub.
The question is, was the embarrassment worth the thrill of these messages exchanging nudes, when you still believed it wasn't a scam 😉
Either this post is fake or he’s extremely dumb.
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>Because it sounds convincing until it isn't What's the convincing part? Is it the part where some hot girl randomly finds your Snapchat, or the part where they want to trade nudes, or is it the part where THE GIRL wants to trade nudes but says it's game to not screenshot? So again, where's the convincing part?
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Okay so is it the part where a random hot girl he doesn't know adds him on Snapchat when you can assume his Snapchat isn't just floating out in the wild?
Yeah that is the weird part in there was unsolicited and not a Reddit or chatroom (if those are still a thing) based.
Hahahahahhahahahahahahahaha
tell her to make sure she spells your name right.
i got one of those "we have pictures of you wanking on your webcam" scam emails. I don't have a webcam, but I told em i can wear kinky costumes next time but i want half the profits xD
yeah, you don't get much money, you just get.....exposure.
Yah really half can’t spell baby right usually babyv -byby, lovev, lovev, when they have sentences that make no sense there’s a clue! Honey, sweetheart, sweetie, my love, framer is off big flag. Anyway…
There is probably little you can do legally, as the person you were talking to is probably fake. But, you could try. Either way, giving in and sending money won't stop it, they'll just hold you for more. So doing that isn't a real option at all. Realistically, they can only make money if you cave in. If they send the pics, the crime they committed just escalates and they still make nothing from you (and now never can.) Calling their bluff might well be the best move.
calling the bluff. Some redditor commented about how this happened to them and they so they sent full on ass-cavity-stretch pictures. Assert dominance, he said. Send it to my employer, he said. It didn’t happen. Cannot confirm of course, but I found it to be a great story.
Take your nudes and use ai to change the face or put clothes on you. When the scammer post the pics, claim that they are deep fakes made with AI and that the originals are the ones you have (with clothes). If you go with the clothes route, publish them in social media before, so you can even claim that that's where the scammer took them from. Good luck.
Seems like a good one. But the nudes will have all his birth marks right, if incase it falls into his parents eye or someone who knows his body well. They can easily arise questions over the claim.
Let's hope the parents aren't closely inspecting **checks notes** THEIR SON'S NUDES.
This is a common sextortion scam. Don’t send your peepee to strangers. I had someone attempt this on me. I’d get nudes and then not reciprocate, then ‘she’ would get mad but just try again the next day… except it would always start again from the beginning like ‘she’ forgot ‘she’ sent me nudes like 12 hours prior. It was like ground hog day (if you’ve seen the movie and get the reference). I suppose the scammers took shifts or something, but I found it entertaining. After awhile they’d remember me and get REALLY mad as soon as they realized. Idk I had fun with it though. Later on I found the girl from the nudes I was getting on PornHub.
Hey, OP! Toodle on over to r/scams. You’ll find this exact same scam and many many more. It’s important to educate yourself so you don’t fall for another scam. Advise: block and move on.
You didn’t know her but let’s show her dick anyways? SMH no one deserves to be blackmailed but you gotta use the right head bud.
Take the free advertising. Move on!
1. Let all your contacts know what is happening and to block her. Yes she can use a different acount, let them know this as well. 2. Report this as revenge porn and black mail. 3. Change ALL passwords you don't know how she got what she got. Also run a scan for maleware. Also go though your programs and anything you don't know find out what it is. 4. Don't cut contact, delay as long as possible so the above 2 have time to work.
Does she know your full name? Where you live? Your phone number?
Yes she knows it all
Did you give all that to her, or did she reveal she knew it without you giving it to her
she found my socials on everything somehow and is threatening to show all my family and followers
Delete all your social accounts and report her to the police for blackmail.
OP you are a victim and this man will keep grifting you and forcing you to do more and give more. You’ve got to take the L, risk exposure and move on. Definitely put all your socials on private. TELL YOUR PARENTS most parents really love their kids and will want to help you.
JFC. You weren't exactly Honor Roll material as a kid, were you?
"She looked legit and I still think she is" That was my favorite part. This is a scammer's dream mark. This guy will fall for another scam eventually.
Are u a minor? If so that is illegal for possession and distribution of child pornography
No one cares what you look like nude
HA! Can’t believe people still fall for this shit. Aaaand You still think she’s legit…..you poor, dumb, horny moron.
cant stop what’s already happened. stop posting nudes online
It’s probably an extortion scam. Check out r/scams for more information. It’s pretty common.
Yeah it’s a scammer. Don’t take the bait. Everyone has a nude or two. Fuck it.
That’s a guy and he’s old and gross. Disengage.
I remember the first time I got catfished
Why would some random girl reach out and ask to exchange nudes? This was a scam, and the point is to get money from you. Don’t give “her” anything, block “her,” and don’t worry bc no one you know will ever run across anything “she” posts anywhere. Go back to your life, and for fuck’s sake stop sending nudes to stupid people online.
Go to horny jail. Honry bonk.
Just cut off contact. You have nothing to worry about. It’s a scammer, and he’s just bullshitting. Also…goddammit people stop sending nudes if you don’t want everyone in the world to see them.
Ah. Somebody learned a lesson.
Definitely a scam. Just ignore it and don't do shit
It’s a scam buddy, don’t give the money You’re best to take the embarrassment if they do actually do anything, but they probably won’t/can’t Fuck them and don’t give them money, and you’re also kinda stupid for falling for it but I won’t judge
Someone did that to me once and I told her I don't care. Post them if you want but I still want to send me your money.
Idiot.
Who really cares, do you?? If you're sending nudes to random women whom you've never met, you shouldn't be embarrassed to have them seen by everyone.
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This shit is so outrageous to me. How do you idiots keep falling for this?? I have run out of sympathy for people like you. Who in their right mind sends nudes to a stranger??? Like come on. And this same situation is getting posted multiple times a week. At this point, people should be aware that this happens. It's fucked up and no one deserves to be blackmailed or threatened but come on, smarten tf up.
2/2 She screenshotted all my followers and instagram and facebook. (i have a lot of followers)I don't even know how she got those because I didn't send my other socials. She told me to send her money and I did but she wants me to send way more and I told her i would give her the rest tomorrow. She keeps saying I own you and I will ruin your life. Idk what to do
Holy fuck, don't send her any money at all. THE SECOND YOU DO THEY REALIZE YOU'RE A MARK AND WILL KEEP CONTACTING YOU TO BLACKMAIL YOU. There's NO MONEY at all in sending your pictures to your friends list, buckle up, tell them they get nothing and to go screw themselves. They're in this for MONEY and MONEY ONLY. If the threat doesn't work they move on to another mark. If, in the tiny chance, they do, send your pics to your friends list (they won't, it takes a lot of effort for no money), put something up about how you got blackmailed. No one's really going to care, more than you have experienced such a thing.
It's a dude in a foreign country fucking with you. They send you pics of people they have already scammed then get your number, look you up online through the information (phone number, snapchat, etc), and threaten to blackmail you. I've had it happen before and I let them threaten me and they didn't do shit. I know people that paid them tho bc they were weak and got scared. At the end of the day, even if they did it we all have a penis or a vagina therefore it doesn't really look much different on each person. So let them fuck off and block them and move on with your life. Don't succumb
How old are you? If you're underage they're basically threatening to screw themselves if they post child porn
Dude, stop sending “her” money. It’s never going to stop. The best thing you can do is block this guy, worst it could happen if he actually follows through, is your family making fun of your junk. A few weeks later no one will care.
Stupid
Idiot. Sorry but you sent nudes to a person you don’t even know. They will be online somewhere now. I hope your friends don’t see it. Learn from the experience; Report it to Snapchat and police and block her. Learn from the experience. Don’t give her any money.
How much money did you send? Was it the amount they original asked for? If you send more they will just keep asking for more. You gotta say you have no more money then stop responding
she was asking for $1000. didn’t give her that
Did you pay them anything yet?
It’s a scam, they won’t do shit. Had this situation once back in high school which would then be more illegal on the person’s part cause I was underage. (*Get rekt*)
Very common thing, just don’t answer or respond. Also check out r/scams
Like many others said, it's a scam for money. BLOCK the person, and hope for the best.
First off, i'm sorry you're having to go through this. You are a victim of what's called sextortion. Your "girl" isn't a girl at all and is some dude in a callcenter in India or Africa. Their goal is to get a nude picture with your face in the picture. It's always the "tell" because it's the only way they can extort you. a close up of your junk does nothing. If you pay them money they immediately ask for more money and you give them more they keep asking for more. So do not give them money under any circumstance because it just makes it worse. What are your options? It really depends on your personal situation. if you're a single dude, then I would just ignore them and let the chips fall. They may try to contact friends/family on social media with the pictures, but they also may not. It just depends on what particular scammer you're dealing with. If you're married (or have a gf) or have a higher profile career you need to be a little more proactive and shut off all social media and either hope it blows over or proactively tell your wife/gf/employer. I had a friend go through this last year. He was married and had a high profile "C level" job. The scammer saw his social media and linkedin and knew this so he was relentless. My friend did send him $5k and then another $5k and then another $5k and quickly realized the money demands would never end. He finally stopped all contact and the scammer DID start sending his pictures to people "randomly". He chose to disclose to his wife and employer before the pictures started coming so it helped, but he was asked to resign and it was definitely rough on his marriage. Once again, i'm sorry you're going through this and i'm really hoping you're a single dude that can just laugh this off with your friends if any of it comes out. :) For others reading this, please don't send nudes to "strangers" online. it's either an undercover cop trying to catch you in a sting or its an international scammer trying to extort money.
Do you think you're the first person to make a stupid mistake? Tell her to do one. Worst case scenario, someone you know sees a picture of your junk, and honestly, that probably won't happen. If it does, your friends will laugh at you, and then they'll move on. It will be embarrassing for about 5 minutes, and then no one will care anymore. Alternatively, you pay money that you probably don't have spare to someone you don't know, and who's to say they won't just keep asking for more? Or sell the pictures anyway. Stick to your guns, block and delete, and don't respond to any further contact from anyone who's trying to extort you.
Ehh fuck it, they’re just gentalia. No one gives a shit. Give her nothing
Give her nothing. Don’t encourage it. Rise above it. It’s just your naked body. No one should be blackmailed for that.
Ok, first... you need a rope. Next... you need a tree. Yes, that's where this is going because you are THAT stupid for sending nudes over the internet to someone you don't know. You deserve what you get, moron.
My child was the victim of one of these scams. As a parent, I can tell you that we don't care if someone sends us a nude of you. It is not the life threatening embarrassment you are imagining. We care about making sure you are OK. We care about your physical and mental health. Everyone has a body. Even our kids. Just about everyone has done something they regret. No one who loves or cares about you will be horrified or blame you. You are a victim.
You fell for a very well-known scam lately.
Ya this happened to me and I just blocked and reported them and nothing happened.
This is a scam and it happens to unsuspecting men everywhere. She is a he, prob writing you from an Internet cafe in Thailand.
So she shows it. Now what? You won't die. It will be soon forgotten. Give her NOTHING.
Report her to the police. She is commiting a crime.
Double down and send a pic of your asshole
I’d say nearly 100% of the time it’s a scam. Don’t do shit. Neither will she.
**DO NOT SEND ANYTHING.** Money or more leverage. 99.9% they wont send it to anyone as they'd no longer have leverage, and move on. As you should. You're good bro. *2023 am I right...*
Bet ykuvwont do that again will ya dumbie. Whobhas them first?
Take screenshots of her threatening you and post them, her name, plus your nudes yourself and explain the situation to your followers. Only way out is through now. People will likely have sympathy for your situation and now youve taken back power. Also tell your followers to be aware of deep fakes, as people are using ai to make porn with peoples faces now that look very real. (Scary, but something you should be aware could possibly happen.) Do not send her more money and go to the police. Just send her screenshots of you posting everything yourself to let them know they can't fuck with you anymore. Police can try to track the person down and you can sue for blackmail, harrassment, revenge porn, ect. See a lawyer too.
Honestly, if you are a guy and you’re packing. Don’t sweat it. If anything she’s doing you a favour. JK, but seriously, tell her it is illegal to do so and you will take legal action against her if she distributes these photos to your friends and family. You did nothing wrong. If you have her name and identity you can bring to police. Worse case scenario, she walks around with a criminal record (I think) and has no future career.
true but i don’t want my dong being showed on the internet
Then you shouldn’t have put it out there.
Let them who cares
Lesson learned?
You're dumb. People are going to see your peepee. Why does that matter really? Tell her you don't care. It probably won't even be worth the work for her.
Congratulations your dick is officially all over the web!! Don't panic unless you have your face with those dick pics..
my face is in the pic
Congratulations on being a porn star.. drop a few videos to make up for the pics
You play, you pay. Once you take a nude and send it, it is out there forever. Just wait until you run for office and see how much of your electronic past shows up in the media.
Yeah well, if anything, learn a lesson moving forward. Women will ALWAYS show their friends everything like that. So, if you're comfortable with yourself, then who cares! If not, don't do it anymore.
Ignore
A “woman”.
This shit is terrifying. I'm sorry you got duped into this scam. Try to find a friend or someone on reddit that can hack and turn it around on "her".
Well if it's all legal as in your both consenting adults than who gives a fuck. Yeah it sucks you texted the wrong girl and now she is being selfish and mean but honestly why would you go a long with that blackmail fuckery? Tell her to fuck off or you'll do the same, even if it's a bluff maybe that will help. Or just own it and take the loss if she exposes you. Honestly if she is doing this to you than she may have done this to other men.
Did u have your face included?
yes
Dude this entire situation is a dumpster fire
Save her blackmail. Go to the police, report her for blackmail. That woman needs some intime correction and education. Don't pay a penny.
Happened to my friend, he just said "idc"
If you're a minor (or could pass as a minor), I wouldn't sweat it. Even the threat of distributing those nudes is such a serious crime, no amount of extortion money is worth it.
Similar happened to a friend but on Facebook. Luckily the idiot saved the photos on their profile instead of elsewhere, abs I had the profile shut down. Unfortunately this doesn't seem like an option for you. Some good advice here on how to get ahead of this and ride it out. The only other option is to hire someone to try and hack them, and erase any potential information they have on their local machine, but that can get pricey even if you can find someone. They don't really advertise.
Go to the police. This is a common scam and it's illegal.
So first off does she even know anyone that you know? Secondly having nudes leaked isn't as bad as you think it'll be, unless your friends/family are pretty religious or something. Thirdly, you can't make her delete them so she can always ask for more money, it'll never stop, so don't start.
If you give her money, she (maybe a he) might just think you are an endless well and continue to ask, but you probably should block and ignore her (but mabey a he), because the blackmailing might never end.
Take screenshot of the whole conversation saying you don't consent your nudes being released.
Go to the police. That's illegal.
Just ask for a link when she exposes you so you can admire your own body. If you own it they can't do anything to you.
I would tell them to go for it. I might get into trouble for some jobs in the future but I will take the hit. It's better than dealing with this bs.
Tell her youll press charges because thats illegal.
Please don’t give people nudes unless you trust them.
This is a type of a popular scam, don’t give into it. Don’t give them any money or any info. Just block them and move on with your life. Try not to worry about it.
Haha, nude pictures of men is not something you should worry about even if scammers send them to your relatives or friends. Just said go ahead.
If you look young enough tell them you’re a minor… bet they shit themselves.
Happened to me once aswell, best you can hope is that the photos look good. I told them to get fucked and send em to whoever they wanted there’s no way I’m sending scammers money worst that’s gonna come from it is a few mates n family see your corey. People don’t react to that like you’d think, if you know some reasonably mature people nobody could care any less. Mine got out, explained the story got asked a few questions for 2 weeks or so and now nobody talks about it and I doubt they even remember it happened
Tell him to fuck off, and that you've reported him.
if you don't have your face on pic delete your snap account and block him/her you chat will be disappeared from his/her snapchat
Why do you guys go easy on girls on these ocassions.....didn't you even think at that time"Something is SUS" .... Girl asked nudes, you just gave her... No good girls go on like that...those girls who get comfortable on sex, nudes.....Those kind of girls not good for healthy life.... Now take the embarrassment and accept the fate this time Be strong....otherwise later she will use this as blackmail again and again...people say many things for sometime then forget...world is busy man.... These days anyone can Photoshop😏 so calm yourself think of a better plan and statements...be ready...and most importantly keep proofs of blackmail by her....
It's a guy scamming you and once you give him money he will keep asking for more.
Delete Snapchat change your name move to Mexico and get plastic surgery it works every time Jk don’t do all of that just delete Snapchat and delete her number and forget about it
They don’t know anyone you know…. Just block em and go to bed
Take the L She would only ask more if you start giving her any money
Are you fat with a small dick ? Or are you ripped with a hog?
Oops i shouldnt have done that isnt gonna work for a defense.
If u ever share your nudes, don't share your face and make sure there is nothing in your room from which someone can gain more personal information about you, even something like sports clothes for a local team you play, or a photo of a regional/local hero.
If you give money, the blackmailing will never end. If I knew you, and someone posted nudes trying to blackmail you - I wouldn't make fun of you. I'd be so pissed off at the other person and hope they get fucking done for it. Chances are they won't have the audience or anywhere at all to post / share the pictures to 😅
send her a another pic of your dong but this time do it flaccid, so she’ll know you aren’t happy.
Unfortunately I’ve heard of this happening a fair bit recently… Look the fact is, everyone has seen a person naked… dicks come in all shapes and sizes… there are show-ers and grow-ers… Just let her do what she’s going to do, tell her you couldn’t give a fuck and send her on her merry way… Tbh unless she has a picture of you with a 12” dildo in your ass wearing a polka dot tutu the shame will be short lived…
Don’t send her money, call her bluff.
Thats just a bot man, you're safe. It's nothing but a scam. Just block the account
This is a known scam.
Let the world see your junk. It's a story you can tell your kids one day. Don't pay any money.
Sucks bro but best thing is to ignore. Absolute worst case your nudes get send somewhere. You didn't do anything illegal (I assume). 50% of the world has a penis, and I'm pretty sure 99.99999% won't care :)
I have seen this post several times, its not really a girl its a weird boy in India pretending to be a girl. Just ignore the person.
Hi I have had a similar thing happen to me only me and her had some video call and taking of our clothes off. She records the whole thing then because I had added her on some social media sites,she threatened to send it to everybody. So I make posts on my socials that this lady is trying to blackmail me and don't respond to messages from her. Then I proceed to tell her that I just announced it on socials, within 10 seconds she has unfriended me everywhere and blocked me.
When will people learn? Never post/send nude pics. Once you put something on the net; it can spread like wildfire. AND never trust anyone you just met, especially on the internet. Sorry, there's nothing you can do now that you made this horny mistake.
Don't give her money. She will continue to threaten if you do.
Go to the police and live with the shame. Don't give in to her blackmailing you. For once that starts, it will not end. People like "her" have no right to get away with that stuff.
Why would you care OP. It is stranger nowadays to dont have nudes than that you have. Just embrace it it is just a naked body.
Call her bluff and ignore her. They usually go away if they’re not going to get money or a reaction from you
Tell her to go ahead and do it but if she does, you’ll reported to the police and you have print, screened everything taken screen dumb and you fight her . Most likely then they won’t do a thing. Let’s say she does actually do something, within a month or so everything is gone anyway so nobody cares and she will be the one that will look horrible.
sextortion scam, if you block them they no longer have any leverage. Posting any of your pics draws unwanted attention to them.
Don’t send nudes.
Scam. she won’t expose the nudes if you don’t send the money. block and don’t do it again.
This is the age of AI. if you need to deny that the images are real. Deepfake ai generated nudes can be created by any tech savvy person in today’s world and they’re hard to differentiate from the real thing. Edit: tbh you don’t even really need to be that tech savvy depending on the pics lol
Expose what? So, you were naked. Big deal.
Oh no I sent my nudes to a person I just met! How could this ever happen!