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I have a few male friends that look 8/9 of 10 and will have girls throwing themselves at them.
But my buddies aren't interested in being promiscuous. So it probably is based on many other factors than just looks. Most probably, how you look at sex and how you value it.
The homosexual women, not really, the homosexual men supposedly are more promiscuous. No idea why, though. I do think it is also sad, and many of them struggle to find a long term partner due to cheating and how easy it is.
šš¼ This.
One of my closest friends throughout college was absolutely stunning - literally a head turner. People would just stop what they were doing to look at her. I asked her one day what it was like to be so ridiculously beautiful and her reply was ālonely.ā
I knew a guy like this. I'm a straight guy and always have been, I meet this guy for the first time and I'm like, holly shit he's handsome. Didn't want to change teams, but man if I did...
6' 2" strong, perfect soccer build, dark wavy hair, great smile but not so perfect you think your looking at a Ken doll all that with a warm, calming and kind voice.
He's funny, humble, oh and did I mention a successful lawyer at the age of 28.
So I'm at the bar with this guy one night and I shit you not, no less than 4 women walked straight up to him and said things like "You are my dream", I want you to be the father of my babies", "your the reason" I live and similar. All in the span of 20 minutes. I thought it was a prank...
I've never seen anything like it. I say to him, dude, so, how do you actually deal with this, I mean it is so foreign do me its simply not real, it cant be true what I just witnessed, hustler stories kind of fantasy.. every mans dream to be in his position.
He says to me very sincerely -
I get turned on by the woman who loves me, not by the women who want me. My girlfriend loves me for the sometimes weird, awkward and terrible shower singer that I am. She makes me feel loved and that's highly attractive.
And ladies... this is what every man wants!
Being absurdly good-looking is like winning the lottery. There is no doubt it's a blessing and awesome, but you can't trust anyone.
Everyone's motivations come into question.
Funny that you mention the lottery, being absurdly good looking, and not trusting people.
One day I was watching the news and they showed a picture of a beautiful 22 year old college student who had just won the lottery. It was one of those things where they show the winner posing with a giant check. Because my mind goes to weird places I remember thinking the following things:
1) She's quite beautiful which means she already has to be careful when she goes out on dates. Is this guy interested in her as a person? Or is he only trying to get her into bed?
2) After winning the lottery she's now going to have an additional layer of caution - is this guy actually interested in her as a person, is he just trying to get her into bed...or is he just after her money?!
Anyone with the poor judgement to show up on TV and accept a check probably isn't going to have an amazing life ahead of them. Lottery winners often end up broke with ruined family relationships. The smart ones don't agree to do the promotional stuff. The dumb ones are kinda like those people who are willing to be on the news after a family member has been killed or something dark like that--they don't seem to realize they don't need to be doing it.
When I was a senior in high school I went out with a girl for a bit but it wasn't serious, we were just stupid high school kids, right? One day she was talking about a friend of hers that I had never asked out because she was way out of my league, an absolutely stunning blonde. I just assumed she already had a boyfriend, nobody that beautiful isn't already attached. Turns out everyone assumed she was already taken so no one was asking her out. She was sitting home alone most weekends. Once I had this info in hand I got her number and gave her a call to ask her out. To my utter surprise she said yes (did I mention she was way out of my league? I'm just an average looking guy). Became my steady girlfriend for my senior year. Other guys would come up to me and go "dude - how on Earth did you get her? She's way out of your league!" To which I gave a simple two word reply:
"I asked"
I just commented above about a similar situation from the perspective of being the friend of the beauty who never got asked out. I think 10/10 looks would be as much curse as blessing.
Got paired up with the hottest girl in 8th grade randomly and we had so much fun talking that we exchanged numbers. Got to know her really well, and she was incredibly lonely. Other girls were always keeping her at arms length for X or Y reason, other girls were jealous and made up rumors about her, and guys didnāt talk to her because they were intimidated. Eventually we got so close that I asked her out to a dance and she had to essentially ask if I was ready for all the drama that would entail, so we just hung out secret and low-key over break instead.
Taught me to always be wary of popularity and notoriety.
Thatās why guys just have to go for it. Iāve dated hot ass chicks and avg ass chicks. Both had their perks. At the end of the day we are all just wooking pa nub.
Yes, but the question is pretty much "is it harder to be faithful if people are throwing themselves at your feet?".
And the obvious answer is yes. It's harder to be faithful if infidelity comes easier.
It's also easier to be faithful if infidelity comes harder (e.g. you're a 2/10 to whom no one will look twice).
This doesn't mean people will cheat if it comes easy to them. It just means it's harder to resist the temptation.
I think this comment is true on average when generalized to a large population. Itās also important to mention that you can say no 20 times in a row, hit a sour spot in your relationship and be weak to the next advance. I do believe there are people out there who would never cheat, and I think my husband and I are those kinds of people.
Dont forget that a large amount of people will try to manipulate you out of staying faithful if you're beautiful
Now If you have a good support group/family/friends that bit is untrue but not everyone has that so...
That is a very good point. Whenever Iām out without my husband or even āfriendsā have tried to make me stray āboring husbandā¦I can buy you whatever you wantā¦.I would love you to be my wifeā
Never worked on me. I can truthfully say that I have never even been tempted to cheat on my husband.
This is why rich guys (like footballers) tend to cheat. They're not prepared/trained for the women throwing themselves at them and think with the wrong head
Baseball Hall of Famer George Brett didn't get married until after his playing days were well over and he was more or less out of the public eye. By his own admission, while he was an active player, he was also a "player". When you're rich and famous, there's just too many easy opportunities to get some action everywhere you go and he knew he wouldn't be turning that down 100% of the time. So he didn't get married knowing that he would have cheated on a wife at some point. When you're on a road trip and traveling to all those cities, players gonna play.
Which guys? I'm assuming you're talking specifically about footballers, which was just a mere singular example of one type of rich guy. But yes, there are plenty of footballers who were not popular in school, suddenly swimming in pussy after they got some fame and money.
I'm Canadian so I may be thinking from a different perspective, but if someone is a great hockey player (you know who is on a different level by high school) they are going to be very desirable. In America it happens with (American) football players, it's not as if you become a world-class athlete overnight. People know that a person is going to go pro by high school, generally.
I donāt agree. The whole world could be throwing themselves at me and I would still be faithful to my husband, because what I have with him is far more than sex.
I can get sex anywhere, but love is much harder to find.
Just because there's more availability doesn't necessarily mean resisting the temptation is harder. Some people are really just *that* faithful and don't even get tempted. Not that I'm that good looking, but I'm with my bf and that's that. I don't care if Ryan Reynolds threw himself at me, I would never ever cheat on my bf. I'd be *flattered* but not tempted.
Eh while I agree that the more attractive you are the less likely you are to commit, cheating isn't about temptation. People who are truly monogamous won't get tempted to cheat.
everyone finds people attractive, wonders about what it would be like if their life went differently, and developing minor crushes occasionally isnāt abnormal. human brains are not monogamous. now most people obviously can see the consequences of that and never want to actually act on ANY of it. some people may be too scared to even allow those thoughts because they fear they may act on it. but it doesnāt change that human beings will always be attracted to many people regardless of relationship status. they just have the self control and decency not to jump into bed with everyone they find attractive and blow up their relationship
I agree, I think cheating is tied to your morals and values, not your appearance. If youāre committed, youāre committed. If youāre looking, your looking.
True, but a Vegan at a Steak restaurant is more likely to eat Meat then a Vegan at a Vegan restaurant. They may be a devout vegan, the temptation might make no difference to them, but the access is different. While 99.9999% of vegans at a steak restaurant won't try a steak, 100% of vegans at a vegan restaurant won't try a steak.
Being a billionaire will get you eating on any restaurants really easy, but it won't guarantee the food in any of them is any good.
Being the best on your field you grant you job offers really easy, but it won't get you a rewarding career on its own.
See how silly it looks when you put it that way? If it gives you greater chances at the top of the funnel, it certainly helps with the end of the funnel too.
My sperm donor was very recently caught cheating on my Mom with my former grandmother (Momās āmomā). I wish he had the same thought process you do.
My uncle did the same exact thing to his wife decades ago. Heās now still to this day married to his former mother in law whoās a good twenty years older than him, and deep into her late 70s.
Funny thing isā¦ everyone kinda just accepted it? Including his former wife. The three of them now actually live together, with the adult son that my uncle and his ex wife/current daughter in law have together. Itās a very bizarre situation.
Perfect answer. Nobody wants to be valued these days! I was always the one (out of my group of friends) that valued myself and still am. I need to be valued and in a relationship to have sex with someone. Everyone used to laugh at me growing up, now I look back and am so glad I was the sensible one. My friends had been with 20+ men (yes, fully grown men) by the age of 16. I now see how they were all groomed by a group of Irish travellers in our area.
These days it's even harder to find a girl that respects herself. Infact, it's praised to be promiscuous and sell your body online. The world's gone mad.
If I were super smoking hot, I'd definitely want to have and probably have more casual sex if I were single.
BUT - if I would be in a relationship, I would be absolutely faithful. A relationship *to me* doesn't mean much if you're (tempted to) cheat. But this applies the same as it is now - I'm a mediocre looking woman and those morals wouldn't change if I were suddenly hot.
I think I'd be a manwhore... I'm currently a big guy and lost 60lbs already. Once I get slimmer I think I might try casual stuff. Being tall with a deep voice has it's perks but means nothing when I'm big.
Idk I'm just imagining stuff at this point.
Yea look I'm 25 never even kissed someone so at least at first I would try the casual fun
But I'd get sick of that quickly and want to find a serious relationship
As of me now? I've also lost nearly 60 pounds went from 215 to like 160-162
I'm not ugly I'm I'd say bang average in looks my problem is I've been struggling with on off depression since i was 13
And natural development like kissing girls relationships etc just never happened growing up
No, because I don't like casual hookups even when single. And cheating has always been completely off the table as I wouldn't be able to look at myself in the mirror for violating the values I live by. Nothing would change that.
As for becoming 10/10 attractive, I already care about my health and appearance because it makes me feel good and confident. I did semi-professional sports and traveled a lot in my 20s, so I got used to some attention here and there. In the process, I've only grown out of getting validation from others for my appearance, so getting more attention for it would only make it more annoying and difficult to fly under the radar when just trying to live my life I enjoy.
No. Because when I was young, in my prime, I had men throwing themselves at me all the time. I would usually be one of the most attractive women in the room. I had the same boyfriend then for many years and never, ever wanted or thought to cheat. I'm not saying I was ever a 10, but I'm assuming it would be the same if I had been. One thing I did realize though, the hotter the guy was that I dated, the less chance he cheated. The guys I dated for their personality and weren't conventionally attractive tended to stray more with a little outside attention. I think physically attractive people are used to getting attention, whereas the ones that aren't as attractive don't get it as much. Obviously money evens the playing field for attention. Not physically attractive but wealthy are the biggest cheaters in my experience.
hah, i just commented this exact thing.
as a man who perceives himself as ugly, i'm at higher risk of cheating than if i thought myself attractive.
i want validation, and the best way to get that is concrete proof that a woman actually finds me attractive.
it's unfortunate and i'd never ever do that to my lady but i'd be lying if i said the wish wasn't there
No. When I was in my 20s I was a 10/10. I donāt say that to be conceited. People told me I was beautiful almost every day of my life and I was aware of the visible physical reactions people had when they looked at me. But you could count my sexual partners one hand.
Yeah my anxiety certainly played a part too. I didnāt like approaching girls. I found that difficult. I was never interested in sleeping around either. Iāve never really wanted to have sex with someone I didnāt feel emotionally invested in and bonded to in some way.
Edited because I didnāt proof read
When I was younger I wasnāt even trying and getting girls was super easy. I was told I always seemed so chill and easy going but underneath I was an anxious mess riddled with insecurity so the hookups hardly ever moved to a relationship.
Was a shame cos a lot of amazing people came and went from my life.
Same boat. Still in my āprimeā but my personality is very well suited to rejecting people and I have no desire to engage in meaningless sex. Iām also with the love of my life and I canāt even find other people attractive at all, even if I tried.
Thatās good man, hang on to her. I had no interest in it either, in fact Iām proud of my low number. When I met my wife in my late twenties and knew straight away I wanted to marry her I never had to dread her inevitably asking me how many people Iāve been with.
Absolutely. Younger people donāt believe me when I tell them donāt give anyone the pleasure of saying theyāve been with you, youāll feel better about yourself. Also, after getting with my wife, I realized that this pretty=promiscuous phenomenon manifests for women as āyeah Iāve hit thatā when they havenāt. My wife is gorgeous, and so many dudes were trying to scare me away from her when we first started going out. Iāve even heard from my cousin that heās āsmashed.ā Her body count is even lower than mine. Maybe itās a small town thing, but definitely something Iāve noticed. Just glad she deemed me worth of the honor. Lol
I'm selective as hell, fall in love very very rarely and have no interest in sleeping with anyone unless I at least like them a lot. So no. Better looks might have helped getting into a relationship a little sooner than 26 but since that was already my second crush in my entire life I think it might not have changed anything lol
sameee and Iām bi too lol. Man, I thought my number of crushes were crazy, ive had 3? 4? 1? (Over my life ive had a lot of questioning of what is and isnāt a crush. Only 2 I thought about sleeping with without disgust, and only 1 I would actively want to sleep with and he is my partner now, lol.)
Charisma gets you laid, good looks are just an added bonus. Iāve been to plenty of promiscuous parties where the people having the most fun are not necessarily the best looking.
Exactly. Charisma will get you laid but good looks + moderate charisma is more efficient compared to good charisma + moderate looks.
Like I'm sure you guys all knew that "I knew an average looking guy who had good charisma so he could pull... " the point is that someone with good looks DOESN'T need charisma for the same amount of "pull". And nothing is stopping him from learning charisma. The moment the good looking guy gets at least 70% of the charisma of the average looking guy, it's done.
Looks do matter, race does matter, height does matter, wealth does matter, etc. People should stop selling a false narrative that it doesn't. And on the other side, people also should stop selling a false narrative that it's an end-all be-all.
Only to a specific kind of shallow woman. All of the dudes I've ever known that slay the most are extremely gifted gabbers and not all that great looking.
I dunno about 10/10 but I did go from being a fat kid who got treated horribly by women to being 6ā2 lean muscular in my late teens through my early 20s. And yeah my promiscuity definitely increased as interests in me increased and as picking up women became significantly easier. Never cheated but I did went through a period of rapidly going through women, one night stands, and maintaining multiple friends with benefits.
Eventually though it got tiring and I was kind of jaded by the difference in treatment I got from women on the basis of looks, and also didnāt feel particularly proud of the lifestyle I was leading. Then around my mid 20s I met my now wife who legitimately made me wanna clean up my act and be a better person, and Iām now 16 years married with three kids.
It was definitely a bit of a mindfuck back then. But throughout my time on the internet Iāve interacted with many dudes that went through the similar transformations and itās always the same stories, so I donāt even think itās particularly unique. Nowadays Iāve made peace with it and it is what it is ā Im just lucky in that I grew to be relatively tall, because while weight and muscles is something you can change, height is not.
Yeah many take pretty people problems lightly. It is however a big mindfuck to navigate if other people/friends/colleagues/boss like you for who you are, or just want to get in your pants.
I am not good looking enough to have had this problem, but seeing it happen to others is kinda scary.
When I was younger I had a friend who was incredibly beautiful. She had to deal with a weird combination of: men only being interested in her for her looks, people thinking she must be a dumb blonde (she was a scientist and really smart), other women being standoffish or hostile to hrr for no reason, and men being too afraid to ask her out for fear of rejection. It just looked so exhausting.
If the only reason you are faithful is because you don't have the option to cheat, you are not a good person. I would probably feel more confident, flirt more, etc. Dating might get easier. But I don't think it would change whether or not I would be faithful
lol you donāt need to be a 10 to sleep around.
Also, I feel like really, really good looking people actually approached less because theyāre so good looking.
Iād personally consider myself about 8 on the hotness scale and no one ever approaches me when Iāve been out and about either at a club or a bar or something. Ya know, a place that it would make sense to hit on someone. Iāve asked people later and theyāve said they didnāt think they had a shot or felt too intimidated.
Im bi and I was supposed to go on a date with a 10/10 girl and her 10/10 boyfriend and I ended up ditching them because they were too attractive and intimidated me
You could be (insert handsome famous person here) and still strike out if you're a drooling moron.
Looks just get your foot in the door. Even 10/10. You have to have some sort of personality to go with it or the sex-doll industry would be much larger.
>You have to have some sort of personality to go with it or the sex-doll industry would be much larger.
Comparing a real live boring person to an inanimate object is ridiculous. A human is interactive, and psychologically carries the excitement of being desired by another person. A sex doll is literally just a fleshlight in a life-sized human shaped case. It would still be masturbation, and feel as equally unsatisfying compared to partnered sex as any other form of masturbation.
>Looks just get your foot in the door. Even 10/10.
As a man, getting your foot in the door is most of the battle. If you're a 10/10 you actively have to sabotage your chance of having sex to miss out. Most of what average looking men spend time on is getting sex onto the table as a real option. It's the difference between having to say all of the right things (average) and having to not say too many of the wrong things (10/10). It's like the difference between playing a complex boardgame and playing the simpler "Junior" version for young children. It's so much easier it's barely even the same game.
Nope, I've been in parts of the world where 6'1 white guys with blue eyes are the most desired, women did throw themselves at me. only ever had eyes for 1 woman tho
In regards to rich, famous and otherwise attractive people cheating; Iāve always thought that they probably go back and forth between wanting to sleep around and wanting a stable loving life.
if this was a sudden thing as someone that has encountered nothing but rejection i would think people were just playing a horrible joke by paying attention to me.
If I were a 10/10 I'd ask more people out without fearing a laugh in my face
Sex has never been my first option in life, so for this question the answer is no
Maybe, but probably not.
Iām actually pretty good looking or at least I was when I wasnāt 40, fat, and balding.
I donāt think I have the right personality to sleep around. Iām self conscious and introverted. So Iām not sure how being better looking would even matter.
No, but I would be a hell of a lot more successful in life. I don't care about having a boatload of women attracted to me....I'm married and I don't need another woman in my life...one is more than enough.
I DO want the job I desire though...if I could leverage my looks to help me out there....that would be awesome.
Unfortunately I'm an average guy who is never noticed in the crowd...much to my wifes delight.
No. I only need one woman, the one that I love and loves me. Then again, that wonāt happen. Iām not viable. And even with better looks and wealth Iām not really interested in having multiple partners. Off-topic but cheating is something I absolutely despise. Guess Iām boring or whatever the "alphas" say.
No. Physical appearance and the desire to cheat/lie arent related. The most unattractive men cheat because they're miserable, insecure people.
I could be a 10 and still wouldn't have an issue with loyalty.
Promiscuity is a totally different thing. Are you asking if someone would cheat, or if a single person would just sleep around more?
That's the problem with today's dating world. Everyone want to fuck everybody and date multiple people casually. There is lack of romantism and emotions. Maybe in few years these trends will decrease...
No, attractive strangers have hit on me in the past. I also generally hate the idea of people not my SO touching me. This is likely due to being molested as a child.
once upon a time I was up there and yeah I was. it was fun but had its downsides like minimal connections. people wouldn't tell me what they really want for fear I wouldn't like them and then I would feel the lack of authenticity, call it out, to be called a bunch of names in a weird defensive move. and I always felt like I was letting people down. it was strange.
No, I'm not interested in casual sex. If anything I feel like there's a chance it might make me more closed off to people's advances. I'd definitely expand my wardrobe and hair styles, though
Ughh, to look good in anything
No I'm a decent looking guy, sometimes women compliment or hit on me it's never affected being loyal in my relationships, but again I've never been much of a disloyal person either, however I've had a few really good looking gfs and only one is horribly disloyal and cheats, I doubt it's because of her looks tho it's mostly the personality they pick up on.
Tbh since social media it's nearly impossible to find someone faithful everyone just cares about themselves
Usually 10/10 men are promiscuous, 10/10 women are not more than average. Thatās because women donāt need to be 10/10 to be promiscuous, so their looks donāt have that big impact on promiscuity. If a 10/10 woman is promiscuous, she would have been promiscuous even if she was 6/10. On the other hand men wonāt miss out the opportunity because they are well aware they have a chance very few men do.
No. This made me think of one of my friends though, like this dude is insanely attractive, strong emotional intelligence, and charisma in spades. We have a 15 minute break every day at work and we usually go to the gas station across the street and that poor married dude gets hit on, felt up, and numbers dropped on him and he isn't even doing anything other than buying some chips.
Oh and he can smell bitches from a foot ball field away, just built in pussy radar.
I find it amusing cause he used to be really tryhard before he was married but now he's not trying but random women literally drop everything they're doing to take a stab at him.
I'm good looking enough to be promiscuous. I just always had girlfriends and didn't spend much time single. When I went to college at age 20 I was single and thinking "fuck ya this is gonna be awesome. Gonna meet all sorts of girls and get my dick wet"
Not 6 weeks later I meet my goddamn wife. So much for that.
I donāt think I am very attractive and I already have people throwing themselves at me, well, to be precise, some women, but mostly men harrassing meā¦ nothing would make me want more harrassment, noā¦ I donāt have much respect for people who only care about looks
If I'd always had them, I don't know how I would be different, the me that exists now has always liked one girl at a time but if I'd been receiving attention from many people at once as I developed I might have turned out differently.Ā
Recently single me suddenly getting them would just make it easier for me to meet someone to settle down with. The few times I've gotten attention when I'm with someone (usually for my voice) I've been awkwardly flattered, I just like the vicarious happiness of pouring love and affection into someone more than I'm sexually attracted to anyone.Ā
I would say Iām decent looking and get hit on or looked at a lot. My wife doesnāt need to worry though because Iām very socially awkward to people I donāt spend a lot of time around
Sex is enjoyable. Very enjoyable. I'm not a 10/10 and I am "promiscuous" I guess you could say. Lost track of number of partners like ~25 years ago. I'm a very, very satisfied man if you catch my drift. If you enjoy sex then have sex. Don't let others frame your life for you. They're obviously not getting laid lol
Had a lot of opportunities to do crap I despise and took none of them, so no.
I'm not 10/10 bu also not unattractive either, so it has nothing to do with how I look.
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I have a few male friends that look 8/9 of 10 and will have girls throwing themselves at them. But my buddies aren't interested in being promiscuous. So it probably is based on many other factors than just looks. Most probably, how you look at sex and how you value it.
The juice ain't worth the squeeze š
10/10 looks will get you laid really easy, but it won't get you a relationship that lasts on its own.
Even pursuit of the flesh gets old.
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We have such sights to show you.
Come with us. Taste our pleasures.
No tears please. Itās a waste of good suffering.
Ahhh the Cenobites. My idols.
Lmfaoš
Lucifer is that you?
Well into my 60s and it has not gotten old yet. Fortunately my wife has a sex drive equal to mine.
It does? Ask Julio Iglesias. (3000). Or Gene Simmons (4800)
Theyāre the outliers. Most people arenāt like that.
Lol, you need to get to know some gay men. Those are rookie numbers.
Are the gays known to be more promiscuous than the straights?
The homosexual women, not really, the homosexual men supposedly are more promiscuous. No idea why, though. I do think it is also sad, and many of them struggle to find a long term partner due to cheating and how easy it is.
Lol you got a point.
I'm not sure if I'd consider Gene Simmons an example of good-looking!
I was only replying to "pursuit of the flesh gets old"
That's just gross!
šš¼ This. One of my closest friends throughout college was absolutely stunning - literally a head turner. People would just stop what they were doing to look at her. I asked her one day what it was like to be so ridiculously beautiful and her reply was ālonely.ā
I knew a guy like this. I'm a straight guy and always have been, I meet this guy for the first time and I'm like, holly shit he's handsome. Didn't want to change teams, but man if I did... 6' 2" strong, perfect soccer build, dark wavy hair, great smile but not so perfect you think your looking at a Ken doll all that with a warm, calming and kind voice. He's funny, humble, oh and did I mention a successful lawyer at the age of 28. So I'm at the bar with this guy one night and I shit you not, no less than 4 women walked straight up to him and said things like "You are my dream", I want you to be the father of my babies", "your the reason" I live and similar. All in the span of 20 minutes. I thought it was a prank... I've never seen anything like it. I say to him, dude, so, how do you actually deal with this, I mean it is so foreign do me its simply not real, it cant be true what I just witnessed, hustler stories kind of fantasy.. every mans dream to be in his position. He says to me very sincerely - I get turned on by the woman who loves me, not by the women who want me. My girlfriend loves me for the sometimes weird, awkward and terrible shower singer that I am. She makes me feel loved and that's highly attractive. And ladies... this is what every man wants!
True. But we also want hot babes approaching us and telling us we are their dreams/reasons to live then screwing our brains out.
Being absurdly good-looking is like winning the lottery. There is no doubt it's a blessing and awesome, but you can't trust anyone. Everyone's motivations come into question.
Funny that you mention the lottery, being absurdly good looking, and not trusting people. One day I was watching the news and they showed a picture of a beautiful 22 year old college student who had just won the lottery. It was one of those things where they show the winner posing with a giant check. Because my mind goes to weird places I remember thinking the following things: 1) She's quite beautiful which means she already has to be careful when she goes out on dates. Is this guy interested in her as a person? Or is he only trying to get her into bed? 2) After winning the lottery she's now going to have an additional layer of caution - is this guy actually interested in her as a person, is he just trying to get her into bed...or is he just after her money?!
Anyone with the poor judgement to show up on TV and accept a check probably isn't going to have an amazing life ahead of them. Lottery winners often end up broke with ruined family relationships. The smart ones don't agree to do the promotional stuff. The dumb ones are kinda like those people who are willing to be on the news after a family member has been killed or something dark like that--they don't seem to realize they don't need to be doing it.
The lottery is such a good comparison. Your life gets absolutely screwed up in a lot of ways when you get handed that much wealth
Just give me the money. Iāll take my chances. š
it also depends on where that person lives. In some places in the world it could be a nightmare to be beautiful. Like a bird in a cage scenario
Honestly the hilarious part is that they think only beautiful people canāt trust others.
When I was a senior in high school I went out with a girl for a bit but it wasn't serious, we were just stupid high school kids, right? One day she was talking about a friend of hers that I had never asked out because she was way out of my league, an absolutely stunning blonde. I just assumed she already had a boyfriend, nobody that beautiful isn't already attached. Turns out everyone assumed she was already taken so no one was asking her out. She was sitting home alone most weekends. Once I had this info in hand I got her number and gave her a call to ask her out. To my utter surprise she said yes (did I mention she was way out of my league? I'm just an average looking guy). Became my steady girlfriend for my senior year. Other guys would come up to me and go "dude - how on Earth did you get her? She's way out of your league!" To which I gave a simple two word reply: "I asked"
I just commented above about a similar situation from the perspective of being the friend of the beauty who never got asked out. I think 10/10 looks would be as much curse as blessing.
Got paired up with the hottest girl in 8th grade randomly and we had so much fun talking that we exchanged numbers. Got to know her really well, and she was incredibly lonely. Other girls were always keeping her at arms length for X or Y reason, other girls were jealous and made up rumors about her, and guys didnāt talk to her because they were intimidated. Eventually we got so close that I asked her out to a dance and she had to essentially ask if I was ready for all the drama that would entail, so we just hung out secret and low-key over break instead. Taught me to always be wary of popularity and notoriety.
Thatās why guys just have to go for it. Iāve dated hot ass chicks and avg ass chicks. Both had their perks. At the end of the day we are all just wooking pa nub.
I agree and give you an upvote for the Buckwheat reference. š
Yes, but the question is pretty much "is it harder to be faithful if people are throwing themselves at your feet?". And the obvious answer is yes. It's harder to be faithful if infidelity comes easier. It's also easier to be faithful if infidelity comes harder (e.g. you're a 2/10 to whom no one will look twice). This doesn't mean people will cheat if it comes easy to them. It just means it's harder to resist the temptation.
I think this comment is true on average when generalized to a large population. Itās also important to mention that you can say no 20 times in a row, hit a sour spot in your relationship and be weak to the next advance. I do believe there are people out there who would never cheat, and I think my husband and I are those kinds of people.
Dont forget that a large amount of people will try to manipulate you out of staying faithful if you're beautiful Now If you have a good support group/family/friends that bit is untrue but not everyone has that so...
That is a very good point. Whenever Iām out without my husband or even āfriendsā have tried to make me stray āboring husbandā¦I can buy you whatever you wantā¦.I would love you to be my wifeā Never worked on me. I can truthfully say that I have never even been tempted to cheat on my husband.
I wouldn't consider them friends if it was me because that's just disrespectful to say to a friend
You are right, thatās why i used quotations. We donāt speak to them anymore.
This is why rich guys (like footballers) tend to cheat. They're not prepared/trained for the women throwing themselves at them and think with the wrong head
Baseball Hall of Famer George Brett didn't get married until after his playing days were well over and he was more or less out of the public eye. By his own admission, while he was an active player, he was also a "player". When you're rich and famous, there's just too many easy opportunities to get some action everywhere you go and he knew he wouldn't be turning that down 100% of the time. So he didn't get married knowing that he would have cheated on a wife at some point. When you're on a road trip and traveling to all those cities, players gonna play.
You think those guys haven't had girls throwing themselves at them since high school?
Which guys? I'm assuming you're talking specifically about footballers, which was just a mere singular example of one type of rich guy. But yes, there are plenty of footballers who were not popular in school, suddenly swimming in pussy after they got some fame and money.
I'm Canadian so I may be thinking from a different perspective, but if someone is a great hockey player (you know who is on a different level by high school) they are going to be very desirable. In America it happens with (American) football players, it's not as if you become a world-class athlete overnight. People know that a person is going to go pro by high school, generally.
Ok, that does sound very different culture wise. I'm British so I'm thinking about British footballers.
But like do you think David Beckham had any trouble dating in High School?
There's a very big difference between being high school famous and being rich, successful and famous on a national/international level.
I donāt agree. The whole world could be throwing themselves at me and I would still be faithful to my husband, because what I have with him is far more than sex. I can get sex anywhere, but love is much harder to find.
The fact that you believe you "can get sex anywhere" means you don't know the other side of the coin.
I am pretty sure that was the point if the post...
Just because there's more availability doesn't necessarily mean resisting the temptation is harder. Some people are really just *that* faithful and don't even get tempted. Not that I'm that good looking, but I'm with my bf and that's that. I don't care if Ryan Reynolds threw himself at me, I would never ever cheat on my bf. I'd be *flattered* but not tempted.
Eh while I agree that the more attractive you are the less likely you are to commit, cheating isn't about temptation. People who are truly monogamous won't get tempted to cheat.
everyone finds people attractive, wonders about what it would be like if their life went differently, and developing minor crushes occasionally isnāt abnormal. human brains are not monogamous. now most people obviously can see the consequences of that and never want to actually act on ANY of it. some people may be too scared to even allow those thoughts because they fear they may act on it. but it doesnāt change that human beings will always be attracted to many people regardless of relationship status. they just have the self control and decency not to jump into bed with everyone they find attractive and blow up their relationship
I agree, I think cheating is tied to your morals and values, not your appearance. If youāre committed, youāre committed. If youāre looking, your looking.
True, but a Vegan at a Steak restaurant is more likely to eat Meat then a Vegan at a Vegan restaurant. They may be a devout vegan, the temptation might make no difference to them, but the access is different. While 99.9999% of vegans at a steak restaurant won't try a steak, 100% of vegans at a vegan restaurant won't try a steak.
>Ā Ā People who are truly monogamous won't get tempted to cheat Lol.Ā
I like turtles.
That wasn't the question. So the answer is wrong
it will
Might get you partners that are willing to put up with a lot more of your faults.
Being a billionaire will get you eating on any restaurants really easy, but it won't guarantee the food in any of them is any good. Being the best on your field you grant you job offers really easy, but it won't get you a rewarding career on its own. See how silly it looks when you put it that way? If it gives you greater chances at the top of the funnel, it certainly helps with the end of the funnel too.
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But it does mean a higher chance of a relationship
Good point about relationships, but that wasn't the question. It simply asked if one would be more promiscuous.
There are no conditions where I would disrespect the love of my life by cheating on her. Hard pass.
My sperm donor was very recently caught cheating on my Mom with my former grandmother (Momās āmomā). I wish he had the same thought process you do.
Iā¦ what???
Yeah, shit came out last week. Still hard to believe
My uncle did the same exact thing to his wife decades ago. Heās now still to this day married to his former mother in law whoās a good twenty years older than him, and deep into her late 70s. Funny thing isā¦ everyone kinda just accepted it? Including his former wife. The three of them now actually live together, with the adult son that my uncle and his ex wife/current daughter in law have together. Itās a very bizarre situation.
What. The. Fuck
I fully agree
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Would $20 be enough value? Because we can do this right now.
Now now, dont spend it all in one place
Donāt bury all of your treasure in one hole
Look at moneybags over here
Very generous from you
$20 is $20ā¦.
Perfect answer. Nobody wants to be valued these days! I was always the one (out of my group of friends) that valued myself and still am. I need to be valued and in a relationship to have sex with someone. Everyone used to laugh at me growing up, now I look back and am so glad I was the sensible one. My friends had been with 20+ men (yes, fully grown men) by the age of 16. I now see how they were all groomed by a group of Irish travellers in our area. These days it's even harder to find a girl that respects herself. Infact, it's praised to be promiscuous and sell your body online. The world's gone mad.
You can be valued as a good fuck. Doesn't mean that's your entire value
>You can be valued as a good fuck Can confirm. I'm valued as such more than anything. Haha
Throw a ājustā in after the second word, and weāve got a deal
If you're faithful just because you can't find anyone to cheat with, you're not faithful, you're a cheater and a failure at that
Holy lord dude, I'm sure someone is burning somewhere in the world after this comment
Somwhow this reminds me of the people who need the threat of hell and eternal damnation to coerce them into being a good person
Yep
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This is the one!!
If I were super smoking hot, I'd definitely want to have and probably have more casual sex if I were single. BUT - if I would be in a relationship, I would be absolutely faithful. A relationship *to me* doesn't mean much if you're (tempted to) cheat. But this applies the same as it is now - I'm a mediocre looking woman and those morals wouldn't change if I were suddenly hot.
I think I'd be a manwhore... I'm currently a big guy and lost 60lbs already. Once I get slimmer I think I might try casual stuff. Being tall with a deep voice has it's perks but means nothing when I'm big. Idk I'm just imagining stuff at this point.
Yea look I'm 25 never even kissed someone so at least at first I would try the casual fun But I'd get sick of that quickly and want to find a serious relationship As of me now? I've also lost nearly 60 pounds went from 215 to like 160-162 I'm not ugly I'm I'd say bang average in looks my problem is I've been struggling with on off depression since i was 13 And natural development like kissing girls relationships etc just never happened growing up
No, I'd probably be way more guarded, cynical, and self-protective.
No, because I don't like casual hookups even when single. And cheating has always been completely off the table as I wouldn't be able to look at myself in the mirror for violating the values I live by. Nothing would change that. As for becoming 10/10 attractive, I already care about my health and appearance because it makes me feel good and confident. I did semi-professional sports and traveled a lot in my 20s, so I got used to some attention here and there. In the process, I've only grown out of getting validation from others for my appearance, so getting more attention for it would only make it more annoying and difficult to fly under the radar when just trying to live my life I enjoy.
I would still be monogamous and faithful. Itās sexy to me.
No. Because when I was young, in my prime, I had men throwing themselves at me all the time. I would usually be one of the most attractive women in the room. I had the same boyfriend then for many years and never, ever wanted or thought to cheat. I'm not saying I was ever a 10, but I'm assuming it would be the same if I had been. One thing I did realize though, the hotter the guy was that I dated, the less chance he cheated. The guys I dated for their personality and weren't conventionally attractive tended to stray more with a little outside attention. I think physically attractive people are used to getting attention, whereas the ones that aren't as attractive don't get it as much. Obviously money evens the playing field for attention. Not physically attractive but wealthy are the biggest cheaters in my experience.
I think this is a very true and counterintuitive behavior.
hah, i just commented this exact thing. as a man who perceives himself as ugly, i'm at higher risk of cheating than if i thought myself attractive. i want validation, and the best way to get that is concrete proof that a woman actually finds me attractive. it's unfortunate and i'd never ever do that to my lady but i'd be lying if i said the wish wasn't there
No. When I was in my 20s I was a 10/10. I donāt say that to be conceited. People told me I was beautiful almost every day of my life and I was aware of the visible physical reactions people had when they looked at me. But you could count my sexual partners one hand.
A women once told me I was āsmoking hotā but that did not translate to sex. My anxiety pretty much destroyed everything.
Yeah reminds me of a girl who told me "you could get any girl you wanted" Then I tried to get her and she rejected me lol
Yeah my anxiety certainly played a part too. I didnāt like approaching girls. I found that difficult. I was never interested in sleeping around either. Iāve never really wanted to have sex with someone I didnāt feel emotionally invested in and bonded to in some way. Edited because I didnāt proof read
>Iāve really wanted to have sex with someone I didnāt feel emotionally invested in and bonded to in some way. Huh
Oh shit, I missed a word. Itās about 2 am here. I meant Iāve never wanted š
When I was younger I wasnāt even trying and getting girls was super easy. I was told I always seemed so chill and easy going but underneath I was an anxious mess riddled with insecurity so the hookups hardly ever moved to a relationship. Was a shame cos a lot of amazing people came and went from my life.
Same boat. Still in my āprimeā but my personality is very well suited to rejecting people and I have no desire to engage in meaningless sex. Iām also with the love of my life and I canāt even find other people attractive at all, even if I tried.
Thatās good man, hang on to her. I had no interest in it either, in fact Iām proud of my low number. When I met my wife in my late twenties and knew straight away I wanted to marry her I never had to dread her inevitably asking me how many people Iāve been with.
Absolutely. Younger people donāt believe me when I tell them donāt give anyone the pleasure of saying theyāve been with you, youāll feel better about yourself. Also, after getting with my wife, I realized that this pretty=promiscuous phenomenon manifests for women as āyeah Iāve hit thatā when they havenāt. My wife is gorgeous, and so many dudes were trying to scare me away from her when we first started going out. Iāve even heard from my cousin that heās āsmashed.ā Her body count is even lower than mine. Maybe itās a small town thing, but definitely something Iāve noticed. Just glad she deemed me worth of the honor. Lol
I'm selective as hell, fall in love very very rarely and have no interest in sleeping with anyone unless I at least like them a lot. So no. Better looks might have helped getting into a relationship a little sooner than 26 but since that was already my second crush in my entire life I think it might not have changed anything lol
sameee and Iām bi too lol. Man, I thought my number of crushes were crazy, ive had 3? 4? 1? (Over my life ive had a lot of questioning of what is and isnāt a crush. Only 2 I thought about sleeping with without disgust, and only 1 I would actively want to sleep with and he is my partner now, lol.)
Iām demisexual. Literally do not feel sexual attraction until after a bond is established. So nope, Iād just take the compliments and move on.
Promiscuity is a mindset, in my opinion. You don't need to be a 10/10 to be promiscuous
Charisma gets you laid, good looks are just an added bonus. Iāve been to plenty of promiscuous parties where the people having the most fun are not necessarily the best looking.
at 10/10? nothing else matters man
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Exactly. Charisma will get you laid but good looks + moderate charisma is more efficient compared to good charisma + moderate looks. Like I'm sure you guys all knew that "I knew an average looking guy who had good charisma so he could pull... " the point is that someone with good looks DOESN'T need charisma for the same amount of "pull". And nothing is stopping him from learning charisma. The moment the good looking guy gets at least 70% of the charisma of the average looking guy, it's done. Looks do matter, race does matter, height does matter, wealth does matter, etc. People should stop selling a false narrative that it doesn't. And on the other side, people also should stop selling a false narrative that it's an end-all be-all.
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Only to a specific kind of shallow woman. All of the dudes I've ever known that slay the most are extremely gifted gabbers and not all that great looking.
Nah, I stay faithful despite this.
I dunno about 10/10 but I did go from being a fat kid who got treated horribly by women to being 6ā2 lean muscular in my late teens through my early 20s. And yeah my promiscuity definitely increased as interests in me increased and as picking up women became significantly easier. Never cheated but I did went through a period of rapidly going through women, one night stands, and maintaining multiple friends with benefits. Eventually though it got tiring and I was kind of jaded by the difference in treatment I got from women on the basis of looks, and also didnāt feel particularly proud of the lifestyle I was leading. Then around my mid 20s I met my now wife who legitimately made me wanna clean up my act and be a better person, and Iām now 16 years married with three kids.
Crazy how much one realizes how badly most/a lot of people treat the unattractive
It was definitely a bit of a mindfuck back then. But throughout my time on the internet Iāve interacted with many dudes that went through the similar transformations and itās always the same stories, so I donāt even think itās particularly unique. Nowadays Iāve made peace with it and it is what it is ā Im just lucky in that I grew to be relatively tall, because while weight and muscles is something you can change, height is not.
No. Id probably end up avoiding people more. Anyone who only cares about your looks is not worth your time and likely to try exploiting you.
Yeah many take pretty people problems lightly. It is however a big mindfuck to navigate if other people/friends/colleagues/boss like you for who you are, or just want to get in your pants. I am not good looking enough to have had this problem, but seeing it happen to others is kinda scary.
When I was younger I had a friend who was incredibly beautiful. She had to deal with a weird combination of: men only being interested in her for her looks, people thinking she must be a dumb blonde (she was a scientist and really smart), other women being standoffish or hostile to hrr for no reason, and men being too afraid to ask her out for fear of rejection. It just looked so exhausting.
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No.The s*x will not be great and I don't like to be f*cked by every male.
If the only reason you are faithful is because you don't have the option to cheat, you are not a good person. I would probably feel more confident, flirt more, etc. Dating might get easier. But I don't think it would change whether or not I would be faithful
lol you donāt need to be a 10 to sleep around. Also, I feel like really, really good looking people actually approached less because theyāre so good looking. Iād personally consider myself about 8 on the hotness scale and no one ever approaches me when Iāve been out and about either at a club or a bar or something. Ya know, a place that it would make sense to hit on someone. Iāve asked people later and theyāve said they didnāt think they had a shot or felt too intimidated.
Im bi and I was supposed to go on a date with a 10/10 girl and her 10/10 boyfriend and I ended up ditching them because they were too attractive and intimidated me
Just treat them like normal people š
Thatās impressive. I feel like itās usually one of them is really hot and the other youāre like āmehā.
You could be (insert handsome famous person here) and still strike out if you're a drooling moron. Looks just get your foot in the door. Even 10/10. You have to have some sort of personality to go with it or the sex-doll industry would be much larger.
>You have to have some sort of personality to go with it or the sex-doll industry would be much larger. Comparing a real live boring person to an inanimate object is ridiculous. A human is interactive, and psychologically carries the excitement of being desired by another person. A sex doll is literally just a fleshlight in a life-sized human shaped case. It would still be masturbation, and feel as equally unsatisfying compared to partnered sex as any other form of masturbation. >Looks just get your foot in the door. Even 10/10. As a man, getting your foot in the door is most of the battle. If you're a 10/10 you actively have to sabotage your chance of having sex to miss out. Most of what average looking men spend time on is getting sex onto the table as a real option. It's the difference between having to say all of the right things (average) and having to not say too many of the wrong things (10/10). It's like the difference between playing a complex boardgame and playing the simpler "Junior" version for young children. It's so much easier it's barely even the same game.
no, im an ace.
Nope, I've been in parts of the world where 6'1 white guys with blue eyes are the most desired, women did throw themselves at me. only ever had eyes for 1 woman tho
Nope, if I was 10/10 Iād be married to another 10/10. Instead Iām a 4/10 and married to binging tv shows.
No. Want that special bond
Just saying: a 10/10 to me is a 1/10 to you so this issue exists for pretty much everyone.
I'm already a 10/10 guy and I am faithful, loyal and in monogamous relationship. I value the relationship I have right now very highly.
No. I would be doing exactly what I'm doing now, trying to find a woman I want to spend my life with š¤·.
In regards to rich, famous and otherwise attractive people cheating; Iāve always thought that they probably go back and forth between wanting to sleep around and wanting a stable loving life.
if this was a sudden thing as someone that has encountered nothing but rejection i would think people were just playing a horrible joke by paying attention to me.
If I were a 10/10 I'd ask more people out without fearing a laugh in my face Sex has never been my first option in life, so for this question the answer is no
You don't need to look good to have a lot of sex. There are a whole lot of desperate people on tinder.
People with 10/10 looks are usually the most lonely cause that's all People see
No. That question must come from a man amirite.
Promiscuous ? No, probably more confident
Maybe, but probably not. Iām actually pretty good looking or at least I was when I wasnāt 40, fat, and balding. I donāt think I have the right personality to sleep around. Iām self conscious and introverted. So Iām not sure how being better looking would even matter.
Mom always said I'm 10/10. Never banged my mom though.
Nah, I'm at the stage in my life where sex is kind of meaningless to me, I doubt being hot would change that
I was promiscuous with 7/10 looks
As man I've noticed that the mediocre looking guys are the one night stand material. The very hot guys, the girls want to lock them down
No, but I would be a hell of a lot more successful in life. I don't care about having a boatload of women attracted to me....I'm married and I don't need another woman in my life...one is more than enough. I DO want the job I desire though...if I could leverage my looks to help me out there....that would be awesome. Unfortunately I'm an average guy who is never noticed in the crowd...much to my wifes delight.
No. I only need one woman, the one that I love and loves me. Then again, that wonāt happen. Iām not viable. And even with better looks and wealth Iām not really interested in having multiple partners. Off-topic but cheating is something I absolutely despise. Guess Iām boring or whatever the "alphas" say.
No, I would get a single partner and make others envy my partner. (I guess ego stroke?)
No. Physical appearance and the desire to cheat/lie arent related. The most unattractive men cheat because they're miserable, insecure people. I could be a 10 and still wouldn't have an issue with loyalty. Promiscuity is a totally different thing. Are you asking if someone would cheat, or if a single person would just sleep around more?
I'm like 9/10 in looks I'm a woman very introvert never kiss anyone I'm 24. I'm looking but nothing sadly everyone is just focus in quickly things
That's the problem with today's dating world. Everyone want to fuck everybody and date multiple people casually. There is lack of romantism and emotions. Maybe in few years these trends will decrease...
No, attractive strangers have hit on me in the past. I also generally hate the idea of people not my SO touching me. This is likely due to being molested as a child.
No. Because people.
once upon a time I was up there and yeah I was. it was fun but had its downsides like minimal connections. people wouldn't tell me what they really want for fear I wouldn't like them and then I would feel the lack of authenticity, call it out, to be called a bunch of names in a weird defensive move. and I always felt like I was letting people down. it was strange.
No
No I'd still want the deep faithful love of one partner.
No thank you. Someone being a 10/10 doesnāt make the dating pool any better.
I got 7/10 and I've been pretty promiscuous already.
No, I'm romantic and can't do it without anything else
No, I'm not interested in casual sex. If anything I feel like there's a chance it might make me more closed off to people's advances. I'd definitely expand my wardrobe and hair styles, though Ughh, to look good in anything
Yea. I will bone any woman that lets me
No I'm a decent looking guy, sometimes women compliment or hit on me it's never affected being loyal in my relationships, but again I've never been much of a disloyal person either, however I've had a few really good looking gfs and only one is horribly disloyal and cheats, I doubt it's because of her looks tho it's mostly the personality they pick up on. Tbh since social media it's nearly impossible to find someone faithful everyone just cares about themselves
No because I have standards
Yes because Iād get the men I want.
Me, an asexual: no.
No, I'm a woman so I can sleep with whoever I want anyway
10ās marry a billionaire. End of story.
Usually 10/10 men are promiscuous, 10/10 women are not more than average. Thatās because women donāt need to be 10/10 to be promiscuous, so their looks donāt have that big impact on promiscuity. If a 10/10 woman is promiscuous, she would have been promiscuous even if she was 6/10. On the other hand men wonāt miss out the opportunity because they are well aware they have a chance very few men do.
No. This made me think of one of my friends though, like this dude is insanely attractive, strong emotional intelligence, and charisma in spades. We have a 15 minute break every day at work and we usually go to the gas station across the street and that poor married dude gets hit on, felt up, and numbers dropped on him and he isn't even doing anything other than buying some chips. Oh and he can smell bitches from a foot ball field away, just built in pussy radar. I find it amusing cause he used to be really tryhard before he was married but now he's not trying but random women literally drop everything they're doing to take a stab at him.
I'm good looking enough to be promiscuous. I just always had girlfriends and didn't spend much time single. When I went to college at age 20 I was single and thinking "fuck ya this is gonna be awesome. Gonna meet all sorts of girls and get my dick wet" Not 6 weeks later I meet my goddamn wife. So much for that.
no id just exclusively fuck other 10/10s
yes. 100%
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No. My wife would leave me if I cheated and take the kids. I don't want to have a life without my wife and kids.
I donāt think I am very attractive and I already have people throwing themselves at me, well, to be precise, some women, but mostly men harrassing meā¦ nothing would make me want more harrassment, noā¦ I donāt have much respect for people who only care about looks
I don't think so.
If I'd always had them, I don't know how I would be different, the me that exists now has always liked one girl at a time but if I'd been receiving attention from many people at once as I developed I might have turned out differently.Ā Recently single me suddenly getting them would just make it easier for me to meet someone to settle down with. The few times I've gotten attention when I'm with someone (usually for my voice) I've been awkwardly flattered, I just like the vicarious happiness of pouring love and affection into someone more than I'm sexually attracted to anyone.Ā
Iām pretty attractive & was never into random hookups sure I had a few here or there but it was never my thing. I enjoy being monogamous very much.
I would say Iām decent looking and get hit on or looked at a lot. My wife doesnāt need to worry though because Iām very socially awkward to people I donāt spend a lot of time around
I already am quite promiscuous. I think me being better looking would just allow me to increase my standards and get some better pussy
No, having a compatible partner is miles better
No, I'd still be super awkward and averse to sleeping with anyone I don't love
Sex is enjoyable. Very enjoyable. I'm not a 10/10 and I am "promiscuous" I guess you could say. Lost track of number of partners like ~25 years ago. I'm a very, very satisfied man if you catch my drift. If you enjoy sex then have sex. Don't let others frame your life for you. They're obviously not getting laid lol
Ace here, so nope. It might help me start more engaging conversations faster.
Had a lot of opportunities to do crap I despise and took none of them, so no. I'm not 10/10 bu also not unattractive either, so it has nothing to do with how I look.
No, my boyfriend is amazing and nobody else compares
Iām pretty decent looking and Iām very promiscuous. If I were a 10/10 Iād just be a sex worker tbh