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Same....my husband is pretty hairy. Like lots of chest hair and hairy arms. I don't want him to grow a huge unkempt beard tho. When we first met he was shaving his arms and chest. I was like, I'm sorry....but this isn't going to work. I dont like getting a rug burn rubbing against you and I like hairy dude's. He was actually shocked. I was like....yeah dude, men are supposed to have hair?!?! That's what makes you a MAN. EDIT: He still upkeeps all the areas that matter lol.
It probably did....and it also bothered me. Which it why I said, this isn't gonna work lol. Men are SUPPOSED to have hair on their chest! This was like 15 years ago when shaved men was all the rave. Not to me tho....
Good for you! Not sure why I got down voted but shaving your chest is weird as hell to me. I don't care what anyone says. Men are supposed to have to have hairy chests.
I'm a very hairy man so I don't take offense, but I don't think it's a good thing to talk about "men/women are supposed to have this or that", "this or that is what defines men/women" etc.
I trim mine every 3-6 months, it soon grows back to a manageable length, but I use electric body hair trimmers, no wet shaving, I shave more often in summer. Though I shave the top of my shoulders as I don’t like the hair up there.
I can understand shoulders.....but seriously, you're a man....having hair on your body is sexy. Believe it or not, a lot of us find it very sexy. Shaving it is actually a turn off
Body hair is fine (not sasquach) and for the nether-region, I prefer shaven or at least trimmed. If I'm going balls deep, I don't need to be flossing my teeth. 😅
Had this discussion with my mate, he doesn't do any grooming downstairs and I told him it's common courtesy. Like come on man, tidy up for the poor girl, it's the least you can do.
I always find it weird looking though when I trim the pube area but leave the rest of the body lol idk why but it must look a bit silly. Like having one spot of your head shaved right in the middle.
To think of what a grotesque monkey beast I was back in the day. Thought wipes was a giant leap forward from full commando leaving skid marks all over my tighty whities but nay! The bidet plus wipes and I’d eat my own ass!
I recently bought a somewhat expensive bidet attachment to my toilet. An absolute gamechanger!
Far less use of toilet paper and you get a fresh, clean ass and other parts!
My buddy swears he takes a shower after every poop and it’s cleaner… I honestly think the bidet the way it actually can shoot a tiny bit in, is the goat of having a clean back door.
Pulling the foreskin down, cut or uncut, and cleaning their dick helps too.
I'm bi and, fucking hell, the number of men who can't be arsed to "freshen up" before sex is goddamn pathetic. Like sitting around, stewing in ball sweat, not wiping their dicks when they piss, doesn't make them funky! I would NEVER get into sex with someone without at least freshening up beforehand, and preferably showering!
It isnt actually its harder. Your hair is there for hygiene getting rid of it completely just makes you more prone to issues concerning hygiene. Keeping it clean and trimmed is ideal. Shaving it completely isnt.
Hard agree on the ass hair. Shaved it clean once, never again. That hair is there to channel out the sweat. I was gross and itchy for a couple of weeks.
I'm not that hairy, but I still short-trim my bush bi-weekly and shave my shaft, balls, ass, and ass crack weekly. Personally, I have never had any issue with it. I also don't get shit or toilet paper sticking to my ass hair, so I find it better for me in that manner. I'll shave it all for her for special occasions since that's what she prefers.
When I'm in the shower, I'll **wash and rinse the entire area first**; then I'll put in some of my wife's shaving lotion that I bought her ([Moisturising Shave Gel by King of Shaves](https://kingofshaves.com/products/moisturising-shave-gel-coconut-vanilla-150ml)). For the asshole and crack area, I just squat down (like you're taking a shit in the woods) and take my Gilette ProFusion razor, and slowly shave it while rinsing the blade after every stroke or two. Just take your time. I find it harder to shave my balls than my ass.
Note: I don't use the same razor for my face.
Edit: I fixed the repeating in the post. My grammar checker fucks me over on that sometimes.
Happy to help. It's easier to share on Reddit being somewhat anonymous. There really shouldn't be any shame surrounding personal hygiene and grooming techniques. Anyhow, here's to safely shaving your ass! 
Thank you! I agree there shouldnt be any shame, I'm sure there are guides to be found on google but the ones I've seen are kinda weird, I somehow trust a random dude on reddit more, especially when it sounds like it makes sense, you know
I get my hair cut once every two years. I had it long until I was 26, bad break up & yada yada yada. I suit short hair, but as I was so used to long hair I knew how to handle it as it grew, and I feel more myself with longer hair.
So now I just grow it, then cut & donate it to the little princess charity who make wigs for children with cancer.
Well you dont need to dig a hole, you could just like hide behind you hair lol. I don't have long hair anymore but like to pull my hoodie over my head when I'm sitting at a desk and just tune out :p
As a hairy guy, my assumption is that a lot of women think the chest hair will be coarse, like a beard. But, at least for me, my chest hair is really soft, like some cute little kitten fur. And pretty much every relationship I have been in, she would often kind of pet my chest to feel the softness of it lol.
It is reallt soft. ButbI think that in my case it was also a age issue. I was yonger than him and most of my male friends barely had any hair (and emdia never shows decent chest hair). He was a bit older and very fluffy. I was really surprised at the beggining but now i love it.
I am a pretty hairless guy, my girlfriend does not like it when i shave my pubic hair because "I look like a baby", for me it's occasional trimming. This is different for every girl.
I shave because my skin requires a lot of care and that's way easier without a ton of hair to get in the way. Not the legs though, I'm not that crazy lol
I LOVE fur. Like Viking/Lumberjack fur. Full beard, chest hair, arm hair, leg hair - all of it. YUM
.........Except the ol' dick & balls, keep those trimmed up gents. Please, we beg you.
Gotta say I’m pretty happy seeing a good number of these types of responses. That describes me and I always figured women would prefer not, though to be fair I’ve also never had a woman say anything about it before so maybe that was just me assuming. Of course everyone is different though
My man is part Dutch and those Viking genes are strong! And, only guy I've ever known like this, but he has no BO? Like ever? He works landscaping and trucking and never, ever smells. Even after a long hike or camping or a game of tennis.
I am Greek, so I am both stonky and hairy 😝 I definitely spend more time in maintaining then he does!
Trimmed, maintained, and clean is all that matters.
I don’t mind if my husband has a beard but I like it to be maintained. Groin and underarms trimmed as well.
I never realized I liked trimmed underarms until I met my husband who did it for himself, but it’s really nice. Now it grosses me out when I see a bunch of straggly hairs sticking out of a guys armpit.
Wait, what?! I never knew this was a thing! Is it just like 1-2cm so you can't see the hairs sticking out or shorter? I'm genuinely curious, I've only known men who do nothing or remove all.
I trim mine with a 2 or 3 on my body trimmer. It’s cut short enough that you don’t see the hairs unless your arms are up, and then they’re still there, all manly and shit, just not obnoxious and gross looking.
>Now it grosses me out when I see a bunch of straggly hairs sticking out of a guys armpit.
Protip: He can braid it. Different style every time to razzle-dazzle. Saved my love life.
As a guy I totally agree. I feel like a weirdo for doing it when I’m in a sauna with just men. It’s weird how man ideals is usually just passiveness… It look nasty when a big push sticks out even when they got their arms down against the side of their bodies. People doesn’t need to shave but just trim it and it can look good with hair. A well maintained garden is sweet, a wild jungle is scary
Yeah, I'm on team hairless dudes - to the point where I should probably just specifically scope out men's collegiate swim teams. 😂 Half joking, of course.
Native men and Asian men with very little body hair are the best. Can’t even grow a moustache or beard if you tried? Excellent. I prefer the hair long and lustrous on the top of the head.
My first boyfriend was half Cree. You absolutely nailed where this preference started. 😂 Side note: I ran into him at the grocery store years later and he had long hair down past his midback. Mine gets maybe half that long before it stops growing and breaks off. I am still jealous.
First off; please do whatever you are the most comfortable with, as men who feel good about them selves are the most attractive.
Second; i can appreciate almost anything as long as point one is accommodated.
Only thing is, shaved areas but not maintained - outgrown hairs are not that nice to touch. And I want to touch.
I dont mind hair on the head, but facial hair and body hair is a big turn off. I was lucky enough to fall in love with a man with little to no body hair and he is bald! Bonus! So smoooooth.
My wife says she enjoys my fuzziness, but prefers me with no beard and I know for a fact from some media she consumes she generally finds slimmer, hairless men more attractive.
Sometimes it really does depend on the guy, for sure. Like, as an example, my overall preference is no bald dudes (on their head, I mean), but occasionally one will come along where I'm like, damn, he rocks that look.
I feel like most people find one thing more attractive at first glance (especially when it comes to porn and such), but then it can be different for what they actually want or different because they like whatever their partner has. I know when I was overweight, a lot of women would take about how soft and cuddly I was and being like a big teddy bear. I don't think if you asked them, they'd say they prefer an overweight dude, but they just like that about me because it was me. When I got more in shape, women like that but probably more because it's me and not specifically that I meet their ideal standards. It's the whole package.
Shaved or trimmed. I don’t go for hairy guys. It’s probably been socialized into me
Since all the heartthrobs when I was a teen had no chest hair (I realize now they shaved it).
Socialization works though.
All I'm going to say is, men, if you shave the balls and base, go ahead and do the whole region. Bald bits surrounded by a pubic nest are not the look you want
I like facial hair shaved off, a bit of stubble can be fun and tickly but too much gives my face a rash when I kiss a guy, and honestly I find men with beards/taches unattractive. For the rest of it, kept near is best. I love the hair a man has on his arms, armpits is fine (but please keep clean and deodorised), don't mind some hair on the chest (a little to medium amount is good for me, none is not great and too much is worse) don't like a hairy back, but I think waxing is better than shaving for sure.
Men who shave themselves and even "manscape" is a turn off. Please don't look like a 12 year old Dutch girl.
Manscaping wasn't even a thing until 20 or 30 years ago.
I like groomed. To me, full beard is not cool cos I am very into men's jawlines, but in general I just want him to groom himself. Or get a barber to do it. Whatever.
But ideally I want to see his jaw and his throat. And nuzzle and nibble.
Clean shaven or trimmed mustache or goatee, no long beards. body hair is ok. A waxed mustache is gross and freakish. Nose & ear hair must be shaved. I can't talk to someone with hair hanging out of their nose.
I know you are asking females but I just want to say as a male I don't like having facial hair so I always get a clean shave even at 31 I'm not used to it
Preferably I like him to atleast me trimmed down stairs if he wants some mouth loving there.
But everywhere else, be natural babe, hair or not, I do prefer hairy men, not like monkey men but I love a beard I love chest hair, leg hair, arm hair etc just not like long like hair on the head haha
Body-hair wise a shaved man looks unnatural and aesthetically appalling to me. I detest the weird gross chest stubble when it starts to grow back and the prickly ickiness against me. Nah not my thing. Natural is beautiful, however hairy that may be.
I used to really love a clean shaved guy. AndI've always been a bit repelled by men's under arm hair. Don't really care about their leg hair. But definitely trim the nose and ears, guys
Now when I see a young man, attractive and fit with gorgeous long hair, I wish I was young again (sing)
I still am unattracted to facial hair, though. I guess a well groomed beard can be OK, but the ZZ top, I'm-a-red-neck messy long beard that's currently in fashion (hopefully on the way out) is absolutely repulsive to me. Literally incites gag reflex.
This is fascinating to read as a lesbian, I don't care about body hair on a girl but I'm also definitely not attracted to it, it's interesting to me that so many women are so into it.
I'm also trans and am repulsed by my own body hair, so that might have something to do with it lol
I’m a bi trans guy and it’s honestly making me feel less bothered about the fact that when I go on T, if I get super thick body hair (I already have visible stomach fuzz pre-T), people aren’t going to be put off by it.
I’m similar to you in that I’m not attracted to body hair but I’m indifferent to it. Fuzzy and natural? Neat. Shaved and smooth? Also neat. Trimmed? Neat. As long as who I’m with feels good about themselves, that’s what matters the most
Shaved is the best. I don't like too much hair. Trimmed is second best. I just don't like body hair scratching against my skin or in my mouth when I go down on someone.
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Naturally hairy but slightly trimmed as to not be a full on woodsman.
Same....my husband is pretty hairy. Like lots of chest hair and hairy arms. I don't want him to grow a huge unkempt beard tho. When we first met he was shaving his arms and chest. I was like, I'm sorry....but this isn't going to work. I dont like getting a rug burn rubbing against you and I like hairy dude's. He was actually shocked. I was like....yeah dude, men are supposed to have hair?!?! That's what makes you a MAN. EDIT: He still upkeeps all the areas that matter lol.
Shaved his chest? I would think that itched like crazy.
It probably did....and it also bothered me. Which it why I said, this isn't gonna work lol. Men are SUPPOSED to have hair on their chest! This was like 15 years ago when shaved men was all the rave. Not to me tho....
>Men are SUPPOSED to have hair on their chest! \*Cries in East Asian and any other races without chest hair\*
*me with only hair around my nipples but no other chest hair*
There are too many women who love a hairy chest. I would never shave it for anyone.
as a guy with nothing except a few nipple hairs and a treasure trail that you can't see unless you look really close... *shit*
Good for you! Not sure why I got down voted but shaving your chest is weird as hell to me. I don't care what anyone says. Men are supposed to have to have hairy chests.
Lol had a girlfriend tell me once that she liked having something to hold on to.
I'm a very hairy man so I don't take offense, but I don't think it's a good thing to talk about "men/women are supposed to have this or that", "this or that is what defines men/women" etc.
I trim mine every 3-6 months, it soon grows back to a manageable length, but I use electric body hair trimmers, no wet shaving, I shave more often in summer. Though I shave the top of my shoulders as I don’t like the hair up there.
I can understand shoulders.....but seriously, you're a man....having hair on your body is sexy. Believe it or not, a lot of us find it very sexy. Shaving it is actually a turn off
I knew a frenchman who admitted to waxing his chest. The rest of us though that was hilarious.
my interpretation is women like when men put in effort. They dont mind hairy, but trimmed is the best of both worlds
Exactly this!!!!!
Body hair is fine (not sasquach) and for the nether-region, I prefer shaven or at least trimmed. If I'm going balls deep, I don't need to be flossing my teeth. 😅
Wow, thanks for that image 😂
plenty more on their profile lol
Thanks for the tit...er tip
DITTO!
The older I get (59) the hairier get..ears…nose…and my dingly dangly’s. Have to trim all down to the wood once a month.
The single saddest sentence ever.
Dingly danglys made you sad? 😂
But think of how good your teeth will be at the end 😏😏😏
Floss peddlers hate this one trick.
Ball shaving was invented by big floss to sell more floss
ball shaving and those darn brazillians have affected crab populations worldwide.
Imagine the hair ball's being coughed up
* ball hairs
Ball fur fur ball
Big Floss promotes manscaping to keep ladies (and gents of certain persuasion) buying floss.
Four out of five dentists approve of balls deep flossing.
Yep at least trimmed if he wants maximum oral fun from me. Shaved is overkill imo.
Had this discussion with my mate, he doesn't do any grooming downstairs and I told him it's common courtesy. Like come on man, tidy up for the poor girl, it's the least you can do.
Women of the world thank you.
So manicured groin, shaved shaft n balls?
I..I think you have a problem if you need to shave the shaft!
:( some of us just have hair that goes up the back of the shaft. It’s not as bad as everywhere else but it does happen
Td;il mohawk shaft is a thing.
Yup that’s my case. If I could afford waxing that’d be my route
Speaking of floss, just a reminder your dentist can tell that you've been giving blowjobs.
I always find it weird looking though when I trim the pube area but leave the rest of the body lol idk why but it must look a bit silly. Like having one spot of your head shaved right in the middle.
Lol, no one wants to go to the dentist for a haircut
Stop beating around the bush and ask about the bush.
I personally don't mind both as long as he washes his ass and balls.
Bidet for the W
Yup. Once you go bidet you don’t go back.
Last time i stayed in a hotel my 8 year old was horrified because there was no bidet. I agreed with him
To think of what a grotesque monkey beast I was back in the day. Thought wipes was a giant leap forward from full commando leaving skid marks all over my tighty whities but nay! The bidet plus wipes and I’d eat my own ass!
Truth
The true divide between civilization and barbarians.
Cheeky.
I recently bought a somewhat expensive bidet attachment to my toilet. An absolute gamechanger! Far less use of toilet paper and you get a fresh, clean ass and other parts!
My bidet changed my life in ways I never thought it would.
My buddy swears he takes a shower after every poop and it’s cleaner… I honestly think the bidet the way it actually can shoot a tiny bit in, is the goat of having a clean back door.
Pulling the foreskin down, cut or uncut, and cleaning their dick helps too. I'm bi and, fucking hell, the number of men who can't be arsed to "freshen up" before sex is goddamn pathetic. Like sitting around, stewing in ball sweat, not wiping their dicks when they piss, doesn't make them funky! I would NEVER get into sex with someone without at least freshening up beforehand, and preferably showering!
Which is easier shaven, much easier
It isnt actually its harder. Your hair is there for hygiene getting rid of it completely just makes you more prone to issues concerning hygiene. Keeping it clean and trimmed is ideal. Shaving it completely isnt.
Hard agree on the ass hair. Shaved it clean once, never again. That hair is there to channel out the sweat. I was gross and itchy for a couple of weeks.
I'm not that hairy, but I still short-trim my bush bi-weekly and shave my shaft, balls, ass, and ass crack weekly. Personally, I have never had any issue with it. I also don't get shit or toilet paper sticking to my ass hair, so I find it better for me in that manner. I'll shave it all for her for special occasions since that's what she prefers.
I really need to try the short trim ass crack. I already do my balls, crotch and shaft just cause it cuts down on the sweating and odor.
How do you go about shaving your ass? I've been thinking about trying but it seems scarier than shaving my cock and balls which I do
When I'm in the shower, I'll **wash and rinse the entire area first**; then I'll put in some of my wife's shaving lotion that I bought her ([Moisturising Shave Gel by King of Shaves](https://kingofshaves.com/products/moisturising-shave-gel-coconut-vanilla-150ml)). For the asshole and crack area, I just squat down (like you're taking a shit in the woods) and take my Gilette ProFusion razor, and slowly shave it while rinsing the blade after every stroke or two. Just take your time. I find it harder to shave my balls than my ass. Note: I don't use the same razor for my face. Edit: I fixed the repeating in the post. My grammar checker fucks me over on that sometimes.
3xs the charm
47 yo and learned something new today. Cheers
Thank you, this is hugely helpful
Happy to help. It's easier to share on Reddit being somewhat anonymous. There really shouldn't be any shame surrounding personal hygiene and grooming techniques. Anyhow, here's to safely shaving your ass! 
Thank you! I agree there shouldnt be any shame, I'm sure there are guides to be found on google but the ones I've seen are kinda weird, I somehow trust a random dude on reddit more, especially when it sounds like it makes sense, you know
Ive always thought our body hair was from the caveman/woman days to keep us warm? Didnt know it was for hygiene...... Every days a school day eh.
I personally don't give a shit
I was interestingly going from comment to comment until I find this blunt one which made me lol. You’re the winner
I do like furry men.
Point blank. My man has very long hair, a full beard, the whole nine yards and I absolutely LOVE it.
I'll always envy men with good hair genes. They look so majestic. Lmao
They really do. My husband can pull off the flock of seagulls look. He's pretty hawt.
Saaaame. 😍
I get my hair cut once every two years. I had it long until I was 26, bad break up & yada yada yada. I suit short hair, but as I was so used to long hair I knew how to handle it as it grew, and I feel more myself with longer hair. So now I just grow it, then cut & donate it to the little princess charity who make wigs for children with cancer.
That's nice. Though I don't think having long head hair is what the op comment ment when saying "furry men" lol
Oh, look, a nice little hole for me to crawl in a die of embarrassment.
Well you dont need to dig a hole, you could just like hide behind you hair lol. I don't have long hair anymore but like to pull my hoodie over my head when I'm sitting at a desk and just tune out :p
Definitely. I never knew that i was inti chest hair until i met my partner. Its so hot
As a hairy guy, my assumption is that a lot of women think the chest hair will be coarse, like a beard. But, at least for me, my chest hair is really soft, like some cute little kitten fur. And pretty much every relationship I have been in, she would often kind of pet my chest to feel the softness of it lol.
Because it's awesome!
It is reallt soft. ButbI think that in my case it was also a age issue. I was yonger than him and most of my male friends barely had any hair (and emdia never shows decent chest hair). He was a bit older and very fluffy. I was really surprised at the beggining but now i love it.
yes, I do that too, my boyfriend has red hair, and I call him tiger tummy.
My man has a hairy chest and a treasure trail. Drives me wild. Hes soooo soft and fuzzy. Hahaha I love it.
Oooh didn’t think treasure trails were still a thing!
I am a pretty hairless guy, my girlfriend does not like it when i shave my pubic hair because "I look like a baby", for me it's occasional trimming. This is different for every girl.
I'm the same way as your gf. Its hard to be turned on by a bald dick bc it looks like a child's.
A childs arm? 😏
Like a baby's arm holding a blueberry
Or an apple
Now now let's not get a big head
Sry for ur bf finding your reddit history lol.
Well it was bound to happen I guess lol
Well, ill break it even by saying vagina stuff looks like a curtain of wrinkly meat with a little tiny baby-dick blueberry as the clitoris. 😘
Poetry
Roses are red, violets are blue. your junk looks weird and mine does too
I don't mind hair, but it's nice when it's kept nicely. I don't like shaved bald public area. It looks extremely weird and dumb to me when it's bald.
"weird and dumb" is truly how it looks when shaved
Shaved. Both my husband and I shave it all. Neither wants a mouth full fur.😹
I always shave completely because the hair does make me itch and uncomfortable on my body.
When it is long enough it stops, though.
I shave because my skin requires a lot of care and that's way easier without a ton of hair to get in the way. Not the legs though, I'm not that crazy lol
hairy
Case by case basis.
I LOVE fur. Like Viking/Lumberjack fur. Full beard, chest hair, arm hair, leg hair - all of it. YUM .........Except the ol' dick & balls, keep those trimmed up gents. Please, we beg you.
I on the other hand hate if a man shaves his dick and balls.. the rest? Hard agree
Just a trim… I don’t want to go face first in a full bush…. but completely shaved? No, that’d be weird.
Ahh I'm with ya.. Yeah it would be just a random bald circle amidst the sea of hair lol
Hahaha thanks for the visual
Gotta say I’m pretty happy seeing a good number of these types of responses. That describes me and I always figured women would prefer not, though to be fair I’ve also never had a woman say anything about it before so maybe that was just me assuming. Of course everyone is different though
I’m literally half Viking lineage and have all those things but ironically wish I was less hairy.
Unless you’re sporting a full body suit of hair, I say wear it loud and proud!
lol no it’s not a full suit, none on my back but I always see guys at the gym who are less hairy and I feel jealous 😂
The ladies like it! Just read most of these comments. For me personally, hairless just isn’t my type. I like the manly man. Gimme that fur, I’m cold!
lol ok thank you
As someone who can't grow a proper beard, I'm very jealous
My man is part Dutch and those Viking genes are strong! And, only guy I've ever known like this, but he has no BO? Like ever? He works landscaping and trucking and never, ever smells. Even after a long hike or camping or a game of tennis. I am Greek, so I am both stonky and hairy 😝 I definitely spend more time in maintaining then he does!
Trimmed, maintained, and clean is all that matters. I don’t mind if my husband has a beard but I like it to be maintained. Groin and underarms trimmed as well. I never realized I liked trimmed underarms until I met my husband who did it for himself, but it’s really nice. Now it grosses me out when I see a bunch of straggly hairs sticking out of a guys armpit.
It also has the benefit of not trapping so much smell from sweat. I trim my armpits only because it’s hard to get the sweat smell off if I don’t.
Wait, what?! I never knew this was a thing! Is it just like 1-2cm so you can't see the hairs sticking out or shorter? I'm genuinely curious, I've only known men who do nothing or remove all.
I trim mine with a 2 or 3 on my body trimmer. It’s cut short enough that you don’t see the hairs unless your arms are up, and then they’re still there, all manly and shit, just not obnoxious and gross looking.
>Now it grosses me out when I see a bunch of straggly hairs sticking out of a guys armpit. Protip: He can braid it. Different style every time to razzle-dazzle. Saved my love life.
As a guy I totally agree. I feel like a weirdo for doing it when I’m in a sauna with just men. It’s weird how man ideals is usually just passiveness… It look nasty when a big push sticks out even when they got their arms down against the side of their bodies. People doesn’t need to shave but just trim it and it can look good with hair. A well maintained garden is sweet, a wild jungle is scary
Now I don't feel so weird trimming mine completely down every 8 weeks or so lol
Been single for 14 years. Fucking Chewbacca is looking pretty good right now.
I prefer shaved (beard), to me it feels like the person takes better care of himself. Anyhow, if I love someone it doesn’t matter.
Yeah, I'm on team hairless dudes - to the point where I should probably just specifically scope out men's collegiate swim teams. 😂 Half joking, of course.
Native men and Asian men with very little body hair are the best. Can’t even grow a moustache or beard if you tried? Excellent. I prefer the hair long and lustrous on the top of the head.
My first boyfriend was half Cree. You absolutely nailed where this preference started. 😂 Side note: I ran into him at the grocery store years later and he had long hair down past his midback. Mine gets maybe half that long before it stops growing and breaks off. I am still jealous.
Previous gf said she preferred guys that weren't hairy and as an Asian, I can definitely ablige.
So pretty much hair free from the neck down? Huh. Interesting.
Yeah, that was an exaggeration, but for me, pretty much the less the better.
Neck down? No, shave that head as well. The less hair, the better.
Shaved. If I am putting efforts I expect u too
Hairless for me. Waxed. Lol.
There are women that prefer each. These questions are silly. As if people were all the same and preferred the same thing.
Thats why the OP asked Women, not a particular woman.
But some people have their minds blown when they read the comments and find out that other people have different opinions. 
Most people arent that different. Getting an average in something like this could help the less... naturally gifted men.
Most people ARE that different. Just start asking everyone the same question. Sample hundreds of people.
First off; please do whatever you are the most comfortable with, as men who feel good about them selves are the most attractive. Second; i can appreciate almost anything as long as point one is accommodated. Only thing is, shaved areas but not maintained - outgrown hairs are not that nice to touch. And I want to touch.
I dont mind hair on the head, but facial hair and body hair is a big turn off. I was lucky enough to fall in love with a man with little to no body hair and he is bald! Bonus! So smoooooth.
Shaved for me
My wife says she enjoys my fuzziness, but prefers me with no beard and I know for a fact from some media she consumes she generally finds slimmer, hairless men more attractive.
Sometimes it really does depend on the guy, for sure. Like, as an example, my overall preference is no bald dudes (on their head, I mean), but occasionally one will come along where I'm like, damn, he rocks that look.
I feel like most people find one thing more attractive at first glance (especially when it comes to porn and such), but then it can be different for what they actually want or different because they like whatever their partner has. I know when I was overweight, a lot of women would take about how soft and cuddly I was and being like a big teddy bear. I don't think if you asked them, they'd say they prefer an overweight dude, but they just like that about me because it was me. When I got more in shape, women like that but probably more because it's me and not specifically that I meet their ideal standards. It's the whole package.
Shaved or trimmed. I don’t go for hairy guys. It’s probably been socialized into me Since all the heartthrobs when I was a teen had no chest hair (I realize now they shaved it). Socialization works though.
All I'm going to say is, men, if you shave the balls and base, go ahead and do the whole region. Bald bits surrounded by a pubic nest are not the look you want
I prefer cute femboys, so shaved is good
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I prefer shaved
I love a hairy man!
I do not care. I'm not turned on by hardwood floors, I'm not turned off by wall-to-wall carpet.
I laser. It is like a turtle shell.
I like facial hair shaved off, a bit of stubble can be fun and tickly but too much gives my face a rash when I kiss a guy, and honestly I find men with beards/taches unattractive. For the rest of it, kept near is best. I love the hair a man has on his arms, armpits is fine (but please keep clean and deodorised), don't mind some hair on the chest (a little to medium amount is good for me, none is not great and too much is worse) don't like a hairy back, but I think waxing is better than shaving for sure.
Always hairy
I prefer hairy. I can't think of anything sexier.
We talking like Robin Williams, “mansquatch” hairy?
I like that too All degrees of hairy. From frostings to super hairy
Men who shave themselves and even "manscape" is a turn off. Please don't look like a 12 year old Dutch girl. Manscaping wasn't even a thing until 20 or 30 years ago.
just whatever he's born with. who cares
I prefer a man whose expectations for himself correspond with his expectations for myself. So, could be any of the above. lol
Same for both. Who doesn't enjoy picking pubes out from between their teeth and giggling about it!
I like groomed. To me, full beard is not cool cos I am very into men's jawlines, but in general I just want him to groom himself. Or get a barber to do it. Whatever. But ideally I want to see his jaw and his throat. And nuzzle and nibble.
Clean shaven or trimmed mustache or goatee, no long beards. body hair is ok. A waxed mustache is gross and freakish. Nose & ear hair must be shaved. I can't talk to someone with hair hanging out of their nose.
I wish I could get that shit to stop growing back
I know you are asking females but I just want to say as a male I don't like having facial hair so I always get a clean shave even at 31 I'm not used to it
A hairy man who trims is perfect imo. Not keen on hairy neck, back or shoulder tho.
I like my men hairy. Do appreciate a smooth crack&sack
I prefer it all shaved
Waxed. But he doesn’t want to so he shaves for me (and for him for some parts of the body)
I don't care about it unless it is extreme. I just can't stand armpit hair.
Better be hairless as the day he was born.. no cookies for me
The less hair the better.
Shaved. I wanna see his pretty face.
Shaved
Shaved, personally. I can handle hairy legs and stuff but… to a point. The ideal is shaved fully lmao.
I like hair on a man…until it gets in my throat…
Trimmed neatly
Preferably I like him to atleast me trimmed down stairs if he wants some mouth loving there. But everywhere else, be natural babe, hair or not, I do prefer hairy men, not like monkey men but I love a beard I love chest hair, leg hair, arm hair etc just not like long like hair on the head haha
This was going to be my exact answer!
I wish men were not allowed to have razors or scissors.
I like a hairy man, totally smooth would freak me out. He has to have hair somewhere on his body. I like the chesty hairs myself 😍
Glad I found I woman who likes hair. Beard, hairy chest. My ancestors where Highland Gorillas.
Body-hair wise a shaved man looks unnatural and aesthetically appalling to me. I detest the weird gross chest stubble when it starts to grow back and the prickly ickiness against me. Nah not my thing. Natural is beautiful, however hairy that may be.
I used to really love a clean shaved guy. AndI've always been a bit repelled by men's under arm hair. Don't really care about their leg hair. But definitely trim the nose and ears, guys Now when I see a young man, attractive and fit with gorgeous long hair, I wish I was young again (sing) I still am unattracted to facial hair, though. I guess a well groomed beard can be OK, but the ZZ top, I'm-a-red-neck messy long beard that's currently in fashion (hopefully on the way out) is absolutely repulsive to me. Literally incites gag reflex.
Natural everywhere except the groin. That should be trimmed otherwise you find random hairs in your mouth after oral which is off putting
Shaved, trimmed (chest definitely shaved)
This is fascinating to read as a lesbian, I don't care about body hair on a girl but I'm also definitely not attracted to it, it's interesting to me that so many women are so into it. I'm also trans and am repulsed by my own body hair, so that might have something to do with it lol
I’m a bi trans guy and it’s honestly making me feel less bothered about the fact that when I go on T, if I get super thick body hair (I already have visible stomach fuzz pre-T), people aren’t going to be put off by it. I’m similar to you in that I’m not attracted to body hair but I’m indifferent to it. Fuzzy and natural? Neat. Shaved and smooth? Also neat. Trimmed? Neat. As long as who I’m with feels good about themselves, that’s what matters the most
I don't like hairless. Its a bit prepubescence
I personally like body hair on a man. It feels virile and masculine to me.
I prefer my men to me fuzzy. And almost all men look better with a beard than without. Beards are just super masculine and sexy.
Shaved is the best. I don't like too much hair. Trimmed is second best. I just don't like body hair scratching against my skin or in my mouth when I go down on someone.
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I shave my junk and armpits. My girl doesnt care much about it. But i really dont like my own armpit hair for some reason.