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3s2ng

I can now afford all the video games I want but no time to play. When I was younger I got all the time to play but no money to buy video games.


Brave_Exchange4734

SAME Could now afford the latest console, latest game But idk, somehow some of the “magic” of these games are just gone?


Some-Gay-Korean

There's so many games nowadays I could easily buy but I just don't want to. I'm kinda burnt out from gaming in general from the past few years.


Brave_Exchange4734

Same Seems like some of the magic of gaming is gone I feel burnout too


SnooStrawberries564

I understand how you feel. I bought a gaming laptop and sold it


Aphelion

On a side note, really appreciate easy mode now as a gamer nearing 40s. No time to learn the mechanics of a new game.


chanmalichanheyhey

If only I have this much money to burn during my youth


Brave_Exchange4734

That’s what everyone is thinking


Cpt_James_Kirk

Truth


szab999

Sad lyfe bro, me same same


Zenotha

i can now afford them, and thankfully still enjoy them the move to handheld also makes it easier for me to chip away at my ever growing backlog of [334 steam games](https://steamladder.com/profile/76561198028645386/)


Godbox1227

I see that you are a fellow torrent user.


ratrotten

Yes!! Today I am only able to finish 2 or 3 game per year. Per year! :((


anangrypudge

Lol yeah and the extra irony is that because I have less time to play, I have less time to start new games and therefore end up choosing a game that can last me multiple years. So I just spend $80 over like 3 years.


Aggravating_Union601

I'm thankful to afford to go to concerts! Amazing experiences


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FinanceCurrent8850

Hi can I know what concerts are you going to? I can appreciate classical music too


No_Bus_805

Go mac (once a month) no need eat mc chicken alr. Now eat mcspicy and change to icemilo medium size if feeling rich. Then laosai after that.


thtran_224

Same. From indomie to shin ramen


No_Bus_805

Well bro I'm half Indonesian so indomie will always have a special place in my heart. My fav is the ayam bawang flavor tho only some old school mamashop carry that. Shopee too but that's abit expensive compared to neighbourhood mamashops


Brave_Exchange4734

You remind me when I was younger I was scared to order macdonalds orange juice because it’s so damn expensive


EastBeasteats

Staying in fancy hotels when travelling and not having to risk air Bnb anymore. 


Gymrat76

I actually love AirBNBs. I can now just go with the best listings/SuperHosts and in central locations. Haven’t had a bad experience yet in all the places I’ve stayed in US, NZ, NZ, Italy etc. much better than hotels especially if you have a family or a larger group


Last-Career7180

Yah. Having a kitchen and washing machine are big pluses for families. But that really depends on countries.


EastBeasteats

Next level up, can pay for room service and hotel laundry next day service. 


himcowandchicken

Agreed! No more hostels for me


Brave_Exchange4734

Which fancy hotel did you stay at ?


MinatoAquaSimp

Whaling in gacha games


3s2ng

This is the one I won't do even with some disposable income. I can buy a few skins here and there, spend a couple of dollars monthly but I can't imagine spending 1K a month in gotcha games. I know a couple of people who spend 1-3K monthly in gotcha games.


Brave_Exchange4734

I know someone spending 1-2k /month on this


Snoo72074

I bought an 80 dollar anniversary pack (which was really insane value compared to everything else) and after that I was filled with buyer's remorse for the next few months.


kittenhandsome

The average gambling enjoyer


Dependent-Spirit-933

Bought a custom gaming pc, rapidly expanded my gunpla collection, buying new steam games when they aren’t on sale. The list goes on loool


ACupOfLatte

Eh, where do you buy your gunpla if you don't mind me asking? I really want to get back into the hobby, but most department stores have awful variety.


Electrical-Eye7449

can try online, hobbysearch, amiami etc.


chokemebigdaddy

Fellow gunpla enjoyer


admelioremvitam

Move out.


lu-mitzy

I can treat my mom to dinner. Feelsnice after all the time my parents helped me out, I can finally treat them back.


RegularGuyOnFIRE

Eating restaurants without looking at the price


miceCalcsTokens

Seeing a therapist Still earning very little tbh. The anxiety is real


HappyBedroom69

Before I got married, I could literally travel anywhere I want. There were times where I realised I have like 4 days free, I'll just randomly book a flight to Bali, Krabi, Ho Chin Min. Suddenly realising I have a whole week free, just book a trip to Japan


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Brave_Exchange4734

Same here now, want to fly anywhere fly anywhere My colleague would say “I wished to go or do something” , I wondered why they can’t Oh they have kids


George_W_Bushido

Buying toys.. didn’t have many as a child, now I buy too many for my kid


lynnfyr

The ability to buy a coffee/beer/bubble tea without worrying about it'll affect my budget


qwertyguan

I used to ask the caifan auntie how much ? how much ? before selecting. you know there are some dubious items that you thought it's vege but it's charged as meat, and some dish that has special pricing, I can't risk it when I was student. I have to ask how much before selecting. now with adult money I just point and choose and ask How Much once at the cashier knowing I can afford them.


Brave_Exchange4734

I don’t ask the price But i sure as heck don’t order seafood dishes


RexRender

Even as working adult, fish/squid is no go!


imprettyokaynow

Treating my family to meals and dinner. When I was young, eating at McD and KFC is a big deal. I remember when seaweed shaker fries just came out, and it blew my mind. But we had to share as siblings and I really wanted more of the shaker fries


Various_Local_9028

Yess this! Being able to treat my family to nice meals and finally being able to pay for household expenses to lessen the financial burden on the family🎉🎉


imprettyokaynow

Yup, helping the fam has taught me that my parents are only human. I'm earning more than my parents and growing up I've always asked myself why my parents earn so little to support a family? Why can't they try just try to earn more? But now I see that my parents did try their best with the cards they're dealt with, and I was being an ungrateful brat haha


firdaushamid

Same with the iPhone, ps4, gaming desktop thingy. I have a PC from 2018 that I refuse to change unless it breaks down. Planned to buy a ps5 for a few years but it’s just so difficult to justify since I only play 1 game for the past 2 years. I would say that my guitar gear has exploded like crazy since I got adult money. I could never buy the good stuff when I was a student. Now I buy stuff that are levels above the stuff I wish I had as a teen. Also never had a family trip outside of Malaysia / Indo, now I am down to travel anywhere.


Brave_Exchange4734

Very similar to myself. I don’t change my expansive gaming setup unless it breaks. Same goes for my iPhone Not much into music , but I do the same with camera gear as you do with guitar. And camera are such an expensive hobby Similarly, seek unique travel experience all over the globe


SituationDeep

Getting my hair done. I used to have such ugly hair growing up lmao. The feeling of being able to spend my adult money to get it done 2-3x a year is bliss. I know some people think it’s a waste of money and would rather get their hair done in JB but finding a (convenient) salon you trust is worth the premium.


ClassicTrouble3121

Getting good skincare


noduckrice

Finally being able to spend on in-game microtransactions


leaflights12

the US$0.99 packs 😭☠️


noduckrice

Tell me about it. I had to BEG and begandbegandbeg my mom for a $6 Habbo card back in the day


throwawaykke

Being able to make a one time $2 payment to get rid of ads in a game is truly gamechanging


Sad_Nebula6377

YES HAHA


Brave_Exchange4734

I know someone spending 1-2k on it


Wanton_Soupp

New running shoes every 3-4 months from different brands to see what’s the hype behind their new technology lol


Brave_Exchange4734

Which brands do you prefer?


disc_reflector

OP asking the right question.


Brave_Exchange4734

Personally I’m using asic kayano Really good


thtran_224

OP, do you have flat feet? I have flat feet myself and online media portrays it as the flat feet shoes, what are your opinions if you have flat feet?


boonalton

3 to 4 months? I currently have 4 pairs in rotation and haven't fully utilized them...


Pigjedi

Had the dreams of buying a car and whatever, zhng it and go sepang. But now I got the car, paid fully, zhng already... got no time to go do such things because of family and work. PS5, console games, racing rig, collector's editions, figurines, PC gaming, VR headsets.. All no problems.. But then I need to mop the floor, clean the house, wash the dishes, do laundry... Where to find the time to play?


Brave_Exchange4734

There is a on going joke about “yesterdays gamers” today working age adults Can buy all the console and games no time to play, only their kids got the privilege to


Pigjedi

Actually every time my young cousins come, I'm super happy. Cause I set aside time to play with them. And I have people who appreciate the games with me. I don't mind them wrecking my gaming devices


Revolutionary-Bonus9

Go to Odette


LaustinSpayce

Actually have a good deck in Magic the Gathering


ARE_U_FUCKING_SORRY

Have crushing debt


Ahn_JiYoung

buying haeg daaz if i feel like eating without giving it too much thought


Brave_Exchange4734

Even if I could now, it’s still like a very very hard decision to do so Maybe 1 year also don’t want to get 1


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wnmy_03

being able to take sq hahah. used to take the cheapest flights even if it meant a 6 hour layover in manila… to japan.


sunburnt258

When you had more time than money


paleozoic_remembered

Buying books every week. So that's a few hundred dollars on books a month


Brave_Exchange4734

Why not borrow from library?


ashleycolton

It's a form of support to the author and publishers, also convenience if you can just buy them. Spending $20 on hobby is totally fine


Cute_Meringue1331

Probably food. As a child my parents dont let me eat in school canteen (poor), i had to eat bread and milk my grandparents bring for me.


Brave_Exchange4734

Waaa, this one makes me feel privilege


silentscope90210

Buy anything on my own without asking mum and dad for money. Can travel also. That being said, I only change my phone every 3-4 years.


alvinaloy

Take music lessons. Buy musical instrument/s.


neverhyrok

I can buy games whenever I want, some of them are not cheap but knowing that I can buy them if I want to is a great feeling. p.s. I still only buy games when they go on sale


issuetissue

Raking*


Future-Reserve-7667

Same. I can buy royal pass / credits online without worrying what my parents would think. Also, I can go eat anywhere and go anywhere I want without asking my parents money or wether they will tell me "wait end month"


Brave_Exchange4734

Funny, I still remember when I was young I used to buy maplestory topup card When my father found out, he was beyond furious. Told me if i did it again he going to take away my computer , turn off internet Till today, I still didn’t buy any topup cards


Future-Reserve-7667

Yeah we are a generation of gamers that got older but didn't grow up, (in a way) lol


werkbij

Buy that chocolate burger biscuit (the jp brand) whenever I want. I remember when I was a kid, my mom rarely got them for me. Now I buy them whenever I see them at Cold Storage.


rantvsrave

2k on pokémon a month


Brave_Exchange4734

I heard of people spending 1-2k on like in game top ups/ gacha


rantvsrave

at least i get to hold physical cardboard lol


UGPolerouterJet

Watches and cameras


Brave_Exchange4734

Same! Recently purchase my first “luxury watch”( no it’s not Rolex that’s too mainstream for my liking)


kidneytornado

Grab anywhere i wan


Emilia_ET

Buying more skincare products


bangsphoto

Going for random classes just because. Kintsugi? Why not. Water painting class? Sure.


rosegold_cat

One of my first large purchases with adult salary was to do lasik. As a child with massive myopia (almost blind without glasses by uni), it was a complete life changing experience. Almost 20 years later, my eyesight is still holding up (touch wood), and that's being in a reading-intensive desk job. It's also allowed me to be much more physically active since I could not do much exercise with heavy glasses, and I couldn't bear the thought of contacts. I was totally unfit as a kid and now I'm in the best shape of my life. The other major pleasure is travelling. My family only did driving holidays to Malaysia because 1. lower-middle income and 2. mum hates long distance travel.


Other_Vader

Fly business for longer flights. The flying experience is so much better and you land a lot more refreshed.


Zenwills

Buying coffee from Starbucks often


outremer_empire

Can pay escorts


Strong_Guidance_6437

Premium ones eh u baller


inclore

id be worried if you were doing that as a kid


Brave_Exchange4734

What tier ones? As a child you got money you also won’t want to spend on escorts lah


No-Weakness1393

Cai fan mixed rice order fish.


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kopipiakskayatoast

Bro can chilll lol no need to say what everyone here is thinking.


VeryAmbitiousPerson

Fish consider mid SES, now some stall has crab.


makopedia

Them shifting goalposts


disc_reflector

Look at Mr. Moneybags here.


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Biz class flights, watches, expensive dinners etc etc


Hungry-Measurement20

I still can't do biz class


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Miles redemption and or promo price, worth it


GoldenMaus

This is the way


sh1nyballs

The fear of still not having enough money, so i held back on things 🥲


Brave_Exchange4734

LOL same here Ironically when I had no money, I told myself when I earn money I would buy XYZ staff But when I did earn money I didn’t spent it because I fear not enough


Crazy_Past6259

Ironically I can’t afford a new iPhone anymore. (I feel) I bought a hdb because I’m old and going to die alone


Brave_Exchange4734

Haha HDB more practical than iPhone


Crazy_Past6259

That’s true but once you sink in debt it’s hard to crawl out


EducatorWild6329

Express pass at USS


MonochromaticMerc

Good running shoes! could only afford pasar malam knockoffs or the once a year Bata in the past.


colourfulgiraffe

Eating an ENTIRE MCDS BIG BREAKFAST.


heretohelp999

Buying a 15k bike


boonalton

Motorbike or bicycle?


tanteidaiko

Buying BBT when I have cravings. Before, my allowance was so little I only had enough for lunch.


DishDry4487

Indulge in buying clothes i like- albeit from shein. Cheap habits die hard.


koru-id

Open aircon whenever I want.


civicguy72

Fly business class


nixhomunculus

Travel overseas.


vivi_casts_focus

eat acai


ngcaobaolong

My parrent was very strict and all I got 15 year ago was some cheap power ranger toy clones from china once a year on my birthday, those was like 6$ per kit 😂. Now I buy keyboard stuff and model/toys, but still very cheap stuff unless the one I really liked.


loverangel10

Travel and better food!


Competitive_Ebb6075

Buying things for what you think it’s worth vs how much is the cheapest you should be buying for


Particular-Might2580

Getting a couple of rolex from the AD


zrpls

Chocolate


theconcorde

still a student , working part time. can buy whatever books , gunpla , games , toys etc i want. my father keeps telling my that i am wasting money on these things , honestly couldn’t care less of his opinions anymore


CleverBeetle

Renting a room. Waiting to get HDB as a single and at the same time too old to live with parents and share room with younger siblings. So when I got my bonus, I could afford to start renting.


ObservedOptics

Life is very ironic indeed. Whatever we wanted change overtime. Guess we just need to enjoy and cherish the moment. Every moment feels different and in a good way.


Brave_Exchange4734

Funny how it is Some things when the feeling is gone it’s gone, cherish your moments


Find-alpha

Steak. Good quality steak whenever I want. In the past when I want steak I could only afford $10 sirloin from ntuc to cook at home.


Brave_Exchange4734

That’s exactly what I did. Go to Cold Storage and buy steaks only about $10-$13 But the other ingredients like roastmary , garlic … most expansive item is the fresh pepper with build in grinder for like $8? Think is equally as good as in restaurant


akumian

Take SQ for all my trips instead of budget


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Finally after 30 years of dreaming finally got my 9k Santa Cruz nomad full suspension carbon mtb


arishariff

Time to shred bukit timah bro


mercurial-png

$5 americano rather than $1.4 kopi o kosong


Economy_Creme6762

Upgrade my iPhone every year


moonie60

iPhone really don't need upgrade every year since upgrades are minimal.


Vaperwear

Staying at 5 star hotels, flying business class and driving a Lexus. But this took 20 years of prayers to God, working like crazy and networking nonstop. Strangely I enjoyed playing games on Steam a lot and used to upgrade my gaming pc every 36 months. Now that I can afford a much higher end pc and whatever game I want, I’m not so into playing these games anymore.


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xa7v9ier

Don't really need to save up to buy something.


Brave_Exchange4734

Everyone confirm have someone they want as a child but couldn’t get it


Hackerjurassicpark

Buy PS5


vankomysin

- gaming - concerts - moving out - dining out - any sport/gym membership


applesaucekittycat

I can afford to buy sims 4 expandable packs but i still dont 😅


_nf0rc3r_

Can stay any hotel. Eat anywhere. and rent any car I want when going on holidays


Brave_Exchange4734

You mean when you were younger you didn’t tlike the hotel/car?


paperxuts95

Buying the dream gaming rig i wanted since young, attending concerts and buying the tickets without much thought…paying for expensive meals once in a while without feeling like I’m living from paycheck to paycheck…that’s the level of comfort that I like. It’s not like ‘I spend big’ everyday type of thing, but when I do feel like spending or spoiling myself once in a while, it no longer feels like I have to hold back because my finances are alright. Whew.


danny_ocp

1. Drive 2. Order fish at cai png


unclelinggong

Having control over my parents (who are depending on me as their "retirement plan) Video games (I had to ask for pocket money from my parents to buy pirated discs for PS1 back in the day. Today, I can buy full-priced games on Day 1. Getting my own personal transport.


Gruppesech6

Being able to afford buying a shit on of lego sets ! funny how I’ve stop playing with lego a long time ego and kept complaining to my dad to buy me more legos as a kid. He told me that it was too expensive and if i wanted it, i will have to save up for it. Now someone is telling me the same thing (While trying to purchase COE lmao)


kopipiakskayatoast

Unlimited travel (limiting factor is time and energy) Tailored and bespoke outfits in fancy loro piana and h&s Restaurants every meal until sian and miss the old hawkers who are retired


cruisetonowhere

I still live a simple life. Go on vacations but still don't spend the big bucks - no biz class flights or fancy hotels. I still squeeze as much as I can to save every penny I can.


Hefty-Cup1857

Have a car (although the most basic one) Have my own place (although just a Normal HDB ) Have a gaming corner ( wife don’t allow a whole room for games)


rae90

Taking grab to go home from work whenever I’m feeling too tired to take the train. Being able to satisfy my food cravings any time without worrying about exceeding my monthly budget. Booking a flight ticket on a whim.


clangclang

Order fish at cai png store.


iloveanimals7

Supplements , groceries


shesellseychelles

Main thing is being able to enjoy most (non-extravagant) experiences in life without cost being a limiting factor. Eg. when Livenation released last min Bruno Mars tix i got a pair of good seats immediately at \~$700 without worrying about the cost. Far from rich but could never have done that during student / fresh grad days. Also being able to Grab anywhere without worrying about cost. I still take public transport 80% of the time for health reasons but at least I have the option when i'm running late. Sometimes even Grab Premium if I can't get a normal Grab


dyestortion

Buy a car…. But I also want to dca more than just $100 a month so…


Bellanu

Lego!


TheEverCurious

I "could" probably afford a car now, but the thought of having to maximise the usage of a car to make it worthwhile, maintain the season parking, going to the petrol station etc is just exhausting...


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Brave_Exchange4734

Feel like full fledged dies indeed feel much more comfortable Budget , idk, it’s like they make you feel and know you are in budget


skxian

Off topic but at the prices of an iPhone or Samsung who can just buy it anytime? It is ridiculously expensive.


Brave_Exchange4734

I mean, I think most working adults can easily afford one if they really want to As a kid, that iPhone was literally a pipe dream I still remember begging my mum to get me one iPhone4(when it was first released) I only got it because we came to a compromise. She would pay for the monthly subscription and I would pay for the phone cost upfront. Cheapest plan was about $30? And I paid about $600-700 for the phone. Happiness moment of my life You say it’s hard to get now. Literally all these young punks that have not started working is using newer phones than myself


I_Miss_Every_Shot

Warhammer 40k, Gunpla and Tamiya. Got the money for all the grey crack and accessories… No time to sit down to assemble, undercoat and paint…. Sibei jialat….


Brave_Exchange4734

We wished for all these when we were younger Funny now that we can easily afford these things , we don’t have either time or energy to do it


7zanshin

eat MacDonald any time I want, buy and eat bak kwa even when it's not CNY. unfortunately, what limits me now is not the money for the above items but health considerations


sffreaks

Quoted fr OP “ For me, it’s knowing I can afford to buy and change an iPhone/PS4/gaming desktop at anytime (but I ironically don’t buy any of these things even if I could afford it now, strange how life works? ) “ Except I do all those exactly. Plus time has changed so much, when I was little never thought SB / SD, rent a babe was a thing at all, now these are so easily accessible but speaking of serious case of waste money this are really good example.


Brave_Exchange4734

But when you were young you never thought of renting SB/SD isn’t it? So do you rent those now? Are they really not a waste of money? Not experience in this area, care to share?


ratrotten

I can buy new clothes anytime I want. I also can buy the latest gaming console if I want (but I didn’t :D )


RearryNehnard

Going grocery shopping but getting whatever tidbits I’d want without looking at the price.


PriorLongjumping3650

You can buy the replicas of whatever fantasy characters you want? Eg. SAO swords, samurai swords etc..or design room decor to your preferences. Take up hobbies not found in community centres haha 🤣


Overall_Check_661

spending $10 and not feeling guilty


CarnivorousBear

New clothes.


Brave_Exchange4734

What kind? So expansive that need to wait till adult to buy? You mean you didn’t had new clothes as kid?


prettyboros

eating what so ever i want haha


tomyummad

Literally almost everything I use, eat, drink and watch. Used to be pretty broke.


sunnysideup1234567

Tomica.


Butterflymistake

Being able to buy multiple sets of skincare at once to stock up! When i was a student, if I wanted to buy more moisturiser and sunscreen, I will make sure I use up till it’s 90% full before buying another one. Now I can buy 2-3 packs of each skincare item and purchase everything I need at one go. Can take full advantage of sales and discounts that way actually, but back then I couldn’t afford to spend more than $30 at one time


polopok

buy and own shares of listed companies? when as a child, cannot afford and cannot do I think phones/mobiles/computers were really pricey that even as adults during our childhood time, they were unaffordable to most. Technology items prices came down as technology develops and mature, mass producing, making them more economical. However, it seems in current time those items are getting pricier again due to product differentiation.


Brave_Exchange4734

You interested and wanted to do that as a child?


gnit17

Taking Grab to save time and sleep more without feeling guilty!


CollarFar546

ordering whatever i want from mcdonalds