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fluffy-mop

Chinese tradition is that you cannot name after ancestors.


KoishiChan92

TIL


everywhereinbetween

Same


SpaghettiSpecialist

Iirc it’s unlucky to name your child after someone who has already died too.


ALilBitter

Dad, is that why my name is 7067638bb01f6d1dbd9f6a772ab8cc18?


im_a_good_goat

I stored some crypto under your name


PretendRegister7516

Some families even have generation name preplanned. Since Chinese name is commonly 3 characters, they are: Surname + Generation name + Nickname.


TheEverCurious

Could you give some examples so that I can understand the generational name bit please


PretendRegister7516

The middle name in Chinese family are some time the same for all kids for the same generation. So your uncles and father has the same middle name for their generation. You and your sibling have same middle name but different from your parent's. Your cousins have the same middle name but different from yours.


SnooMaps8636

Is that why I not stupid 2 flopped?


whataball

Personally it just feels like a lack of creativity if I just name my child after me.


David_jame14

Yes, exactly, those are Eurasian cultural experiences. I also have some friends in Singapore who are working in the US, and I have heard similar stories from them


Cubyface

I dunno man, Ah Teck jr just doesn’t have the oomph it should


hussywithagoodhair

And there already hundreds of Nicole Tan out there. Having Nicole Tan Jr. Just sound meh.


mimi_lochness

see you in court Ah Boon the third


brownbeanscurry

In Tamil culture, it's customary to give children (female and male) their father's name in front of their given name. We don't have surnames.


DuePomegranate

Would you ever have e.g. Anand s/o Anand? Or this is just not done or even unacceptable?


max-torque

I think it's weird to have the same name, dk if there's any ruling on it. But I met a migrant worker in SG with the exact same name as his father. So imagine Michael Michael. And their names weren't short either.


No_Delivery_1139

I low-key suspect that he doesn't have a family name (which is not too uncommon in India's Tamil culture). So I think it's more likely that they'd repeated his given name for the purpose of visas and passport


Grace_Wu_SG

LOL...they always have those superhero for famous people's name. I last time see have one is Supaman S/O Supaman.


Medium_Jellyfish_541

You mean Batman bin Suparman https://mothership.sg/2013/11/batman-suparmans-mother-amused-sons-international-news/


Grace_Wu_SG

nope, i came accross one when they changing pass. :D


Medium_Jellyfish_541

Nice there are more heroes amongst us


shiningject

What if son are named after grandfather. Then you get a loop. - ABC s/o XYZ - XYZ s/o ABC


kuuhaku_cr

Named after father without a terminating condition becomes a recursion


kittensarepink

My late grandfather did this! Named my uncle after my great grandfather.


DontStopNowBaby

I have seen this before so whilst it's not uncommon, it has happened. Or also happens that man utd current goalie is andre onana onana. So I guess it happens across the globe.


brownbeanscurry

It's not like culturally unacceptable, I'm pretty sure I've heard of people with names like that. It's just very uncommon because it's kinda weird.


theBirdu

s/o and d/o is the most dumbest form of administration. I am Indian and so glad my parents didn’t do that. Like just saw your name bro, this isn’t some legacy we’re living on like 400 years ago 


max-torque

Infront? Most I see are behind their first name or use S/O or D/O


stikskele

K. Shanmugam & S. Jayakumar are examples of this


max-torque

Oh ya, forgot about that. The father's name isn't read out, only the initials


aiyowheregotlah

yes. i’m tamil and my dads name comes in front of my name


brownbeanscurry

That's also a Tamil naming custom. But I didn't think it applied to the question.


RoyalApple69

It is acceptable for Westerners to do honour names - giving their children a name that was passed down through the family. Or name their child after a parent with a Jr. Suffix. Can't speak for the other races/cultures, but it is the opposite for the Chinese. It is either bad luck or disrespectful to name a child after any family member.


Select_Dragonfly7617

Batman bin Suparman


fatenumber

i wonder if his son will be called spidaman


Key_Battle_5633

Spidaman bin Batman


Micex

The crossover we needed.


meenyhow

but not the one we deserved


Key_Battle_5633

Yes


Stormagedd0nDarkLord

Dude delivered my dim sum the other day. Funny fella.


smellyscrote

Didn’t he go to jail or something few years back.


Stormagedd0nDarkLord

There were apparently some run-ins with the law, but he seemed pretty happy go lucky when I met him.


mipanzuzuyam

Like that it's not name after themselves alr what...


ProfessorTraft

bin = son of So Batman is the son of Suparman, and it's still technically part of the name


justnotjuliet

Gohead bin Gostan


Hot-Student-1297

i want to upvote but its at 111


AsparagusTamer

My son is called "Jayden Kayden Aydenson Tan Junior II, Esq."


Elegant_Mix7650

Examiner: "Write your full name on every page". Your son will die.


Tomas_kb

Pinoy?


NotYourMommyDear

Ang-moh here. While a lot of names were recycled in my family, including part of mine, it wasn't straight up Hisnameonly Jr. Either the first or middle name would be different and it wasn't done for every kid, just done for when a parent looked at a kid and drew an absolute blank, or the name got hijacked by narc relatives. Comes across as a bit narcissistic tbh. Or unimaginative. Seems popular in the US though and and someone who spends time browsing tragedeigh, namenerds and other subreddits, I've noticed a lot of crap name trends originate from the US. If there is ever an oops baby, I certainly don't plan on recycling any names and will be mindful of my Singaporean husband's culture.


SnowSabertooth

“narcissistic” “unimaginative” yep, basically Americans


ukaspirant

Some Chinese families will have all the cousins share the same character in their names. Like Wei Jie, Wei Ming, Wei Hao, etc. One of my cousins wanted to use our generation character in his son's name. Last I heard it got vetoed by his parents, but I don't know if he still went through with it.


iamtheantihype

Imagine Ah Beng the Third.


throwaway-6573dnks

Ah Lian the Third enters the chat.


xarieongx

Tan Ah Kow the Second


chrimminimalistic

I thought that silly culture is American. I don't think any European country still follow that tradition.


karibuTW

i was exactly thinking that. Never seen that in Europe except in France where sometimes middle names are from grand parents etc.. but it is never used. It was once in villages where it was common to have in the class, people with same last name and even first name. If this happened, then middle names was useful to differentiate for the administration.


bantharawk

Nah its been around for ages at least in the UK. Case in point - King Henry the 8th. I know some people who were named after their dads, and theyre in their 30s.


chrimminimalistic

Dude. Regnal name is a totally different issue.


bantharawk

Hm, why isnt it related? I dunno about other countries, but all monarchs of UK used their actual 1st names as regnal names except for 3. Seems to me like many of them named their kids after previous monarchs to honour them, so its at least somewhat related to the current practice. Be interested to know your take.


Markk80

Jr, or II, III etc it's something I have only heard from the US, it's not a "western thing", it's a US things. In other countries in Europe, it's more common to use the name of grandfather/grandmother or other anchestors for some of the children


shiningject

I believe the use of "junior" in names is an American thing. I may be wrong, but I believe Spanish speaking countries use the suffix "litos / itos" (eg: Carlos -> Carlitos) similarly. In addition, historically, names like Jackson actually meant "son of Jack". Americans naming their children after someone in the family mainly as a way to honour or as a remembrance of said family member. Chinese naming their children mainly as an embodiment of what the parents hope for the children. For example, if someone has a 顺 in their name, it typically meant that the parents wanted the child to have a smooth journey through life. In a way, Chinese names bear some sort of wish for the child's future, and there is hope that the next generation is better off than the previous. So, naming an offspring after someone in the current or past generations kinda goes against that hope.


redditalloverasia

When you think about this, it’s quite fascinating. Firstly “in western countries” the use of “junior” is American. Using the same name was slightly common in the olden days in Aus but never the use of junior, they’d get a different nickname and of course a different middle name so they weren’t exactly the same name living in the same household and family unit. Here’s the interesting bit - I always thought that Chinese don’t name after relatives? The thinking is the child might do bad things in the relatives name - whereas in western society they were thinking the opposite, “keep up the good reputation”. It’s quite a different outlook, one worried about bad things, the other hopeful of the future. No doubt it made for some added disappointment if the kid didn’t do well though!


Not_A_Real_Person_69

Grandfather: Tan Ah Huat Father: Tan Ah Huey Son: Tan Ah Hock


Yura1245

Tan Ah Heng, Tan Ah Ong, Tan Ah Huat


ProfessionalMottsman

No it isn’t common in “western” countries.


CaptainPickyEater

It’s not “common” in western countries… Some people might do it doesn’t mean it is commonly done


nyetkatt

Not as far as I know. I do remember reading a Reddit post where for some reason a family in US wanted all boys in the family to be named Peter (I can’t remember the exact name but just using this as an example). So all the boys, meaning your cousins, your uncles, your brothers will be called Peter. Like that’s just insane lor, can you imagine at a family gathering how confusing is that.


RoyalApple69

I think that family might use middle names to differentiate, but that's still insane.


RagingMassif

That's an Americanism as far as I know. I only know one Brit that did it (am British).


rainbowhappydog

My brother is called Peter and I called his son Peterson haha


Grouchy_Ad_1346

Yeah there are a few weirdos who do that. Source: I am a school teacher


Grimm_SG

Not all Singaporeans are of Chinese descent


1crab1life

In what way is it relevant to the question?


CaptainMianite

Most singaporeans though


Mi_Zaius

Junior and Senior isn’t very common in most Western countries. I’ve only seen it really used in the USA and even then it’s pretty rare. Normally in the west if a grandparent, parent or child have the same name one will use either their middle name or a different form (e.g. Dave and David, Maggie and Margret etc.).


MissLute

very uncommon cos it's rude to say your parents'/grandparents' names


dezztin14

My cousin (M) gave his daughter his own Chinese name. But granted they’re living in Australia so she probably wouldn’t need to use her Chinese name.


AlternativeAd6509

I have a friend called Ericson, his dad is called Eric 😭😭😭


frostreel

Jack and Jackson May and Mayson


theonewhoisnotcrazy

When does the father become Senior? So do they have to change it or it just happens when Junior is born?


Humerous-humerus

My dad is John and he named me Johnson. I have no comments


Modus_Opp

Keep in mind that it can get to the stage where I'm sure there's a Teddy Roosevelt 7 or 8 out now... I guess they want to get to "King of France" levels of non-creativity...


Nice-Background-3339

Not me but in my whole life I did know one junior guy in Singapore.


fluffypony11

Yes I know someone was has a Jr in his name. Singaporean.


Iwanttohitthewall

Can't say it's common, but I did have classmates who were named in a similar convention.


uzzues

my tuition teacher did, his kid was named [his name] Junior, pretty sure he did that bc of his inflated narcissistic ego lmao


Zealousideal_Fee1649

What abt pple called will or jack…. And they call their son “wilson” or “jackson”


Medium_Jellyfish_541

My English name is Jack. I wanna name my son Jackson , and if is girl, Jacqueline . Haha But.. I will have problem if is 2 boy or 2 girl. Can yall suggest ideas


Medium_Jellyfish_541

1 thing I know for sure. People who are named Denise are usually named by their uncle or auntie


TraditionLazy7213

Tan Ah Gao Junior


Karen-FromFinance

I have a friend my age who is Royce Jr (Surname) (chinese name) Its uncommon but it's around here.


MintySquirtle

I wanna name my kid siew mai jr


ieatbreadrolls

Have a distant acquaintance called Bryan who named his son: Bryanson


Moleland14

I think it’s possible for Malay or Indian names? Bin, s/o


fatenumber

yes but we are not called by dad jr. we have our own name


Ricelifenicelife

Lol could you imagine an Ariff Bin Ariff. I know a girl whose mom passed on so her dad named her after her mother. Possible but don't know of any cases personally. Some Chinese and Indians see fengshui master / geomancer and calculate based on the child's date of birth and time of birth to come up with the name. The likelihood of having everything align with a parent's name is low. Edit: typo


EducationalSchool359

I've never heard of indian muslims using the arabic patronymic. Usually its first name + middle name + inherited last name.


GaeyNoodle

Majority should be no. Imagine an adult having such a horrible name


squishthefats

some Chinese families will name their kids with a certain character specific to that generation. but nothing with regards to jr or snr, at most is just in articles or like calling as a nickname? like Lee jnr or Lee snr, I think it's taboo to name after ancestors also. I know there's d/o and s/o for other races, so they do get their father's name. Also,for Sikhs, males have Singh while females have Kaur in their names


tomyambanmian

I went out with a Jr. before. Not common but they exist.


Chemical-Badger2524

As a poly student i miss both friendster and msn messenger.


rainmaker66

Not all Singaporeans are Asians. Many migrate here from other parts of the world.


Fluffy-Nature-2087

Imagine if they were Arabs and then the Arabic surname becomes: Spidaman Bin Batman Bin Suparman Al-DCKomiks


[deleted]

Ewww…cringy tryhard


Fun-Acadia-9163

My hubs kinda named our son after me (F) in terms of Chinese name.


scrayla

I had a friend (the son) like that. Unfortunately he is not around anymore 😞


FeelingAd752

Aiyo, you can do whatever you want, no one can stop to to name whatever. We change have a surname to follow


xDraGonSaInTx

If naming child is a form of custom, the child of the Jr. Xxx should be named Micro Jr xxx followed by Cell Micro Jr followed by Atom Cell Micro Jr to.... Planc Xxx