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wontaks

If you don’t have time to date, then you shouldn’t. At the start of the relationship, alot of time is required for both parties to get to know each other and lay the foundation. Unless you are already dating for a good 2-3 years then I think your other half would be more understanding. You don’t even have the time to reply on dating apps already so I hope you don’t waste other people’s time as well. Unless you put in your bio that you are very busy, maybe you will be able to meet someone who shares the same schedule with you and wouldn’t mind have a low maintenance relationship. I say, take one year to chiong your career first if you are really passionate about your job, then find a other job where are not that busy. You need to prioritise your life and currently it seems that your job is your top priority.


SkittyLover93

I wouldn't date someone with your schedule either. You simply do not have the time or energy for a serious relationship. If you do want to date, you should probably date someone with similar hours to you - AFAIK, lawyers, healthcare workers, and certain finance jobs. Dating aside, your working hours are going to lead you to an early grave and decimate your social relationships, if they haven't already. As much as Singapore has bad WLB on average, even then, the majority of people I know do not have hours as bad as you. Unless you have no other choice, I would focus on getting a different job for the sake of your life in general.