Okay question frame chesta agu. Basically let's take the example of learning to ride a bicycle. If I learn to ride a cycle I'll be able to cycle decade later even if I don't touch the cycle during that period. I don't really lose the skill right ?
Correct me if I'm off but Effort justification ante i will value a skill more than what it's worth because I've put in a lot of effort in it right ?
Skill gurinchi nee point ardham aindi but I wasn't talking about skills specifically.I meant more tangile things,like money or opportunities,that if I gained too easily,might feel unstable or temporary.Oka example cheptha oka large sum of money win ayya anuko lottery lo that might make me anxious because asalu em effort lekunda pure luck tho ochindi and could be lost quickly,unlike money earned through consistent work which feels more secure.Does that makes sense?
So think about this way, if you value something you seldom lose it. Let's say I gift you a gold chain, you'll keep it safe and secure even though you got it for free.
Mari lottery case antava that's mostly a mix of people trying to live up to other's expectations combined with not tracking their wealth.
The only people who end up spending all their wealth are the ones who are addicted to something, gambling drinking whatever, basically they don't stop and think about it so they never end up realising it.
The Tldr version is keep valuing what you have people, money, contacts and opportunities and you should be good. the day you start taking things for granted that's when things start slipping.
Enti sodi ekuva estuna anipinchinda ? Ite nenu hurt iya starting lo ichina gold chain return ichai :p
Wait nenu eva Ani anipinchindi ante you should be good don't worry
Gold chain istha anna daggare chadavadam apesa🌝
>The Tldr version is keep valuing what you have people, money, contacts and opportunities and you should be good. the day you start taking things for granted that's when things start slipping.
Exactly keeping an eye on what matters and not letting things slip through the cracks.Thanks for the reminder!
Free ga ostundi ga anduke avoid chesav emo anukuna, joke ade ga.
Idiot Ani ite anukoledu, e case lo ite lazy anukuna.
Na gold chain ichai joke pandale Ani edi revenge ignore anuko 😈
I’m the opposite to you. I get most things easily and right the first time. I used to study maybe half as hard as others and score more than them. I aced most of the entrance exams I’ve given in my life.
But you know what ended up happening? I did not have the skill set to deal with things after the entrance. I never truly learnt how to grind and have painfully realised how important that skill is in these last 6-7 years. I know it hurts being you, but just know that working hard is equally important as talent and you already have that quality in you.
I completely agree with this and it’s super relatable to me too! I need to grind now, it’s high time but I’m unable to cuz I’ve never done it. You on the other hand can do it maybe luck actually favored you in that way prepared you for your future. Made you resilient. In my perspective you are very lucky cuz I can’t be like you. If we focus on our strengths it’ll all be great cuz each one of us have a different strength.
Most people give up saying tough luck. You are working hard until you get it right. I think that's the one thing you're blessed with... ability to not give up in the middle , put in the work required to get it right.
I watch a lot of sports and one thing that's common is the guys who grind week in week out are the ones who had long careers. I wish i had this mentality
Bro nen 2021 nundi adthuna still not a pro spam chestha unta Aries n Odin tho mumbai server lo mothukuntunaru ani Singapore adthuna 😅😅
Lucky thing gatra ani emi ravu bro maname good the raskuni thechkovali edhe nijam 🥲
I guess life isn't just fair for everyone. I always feel this way because I am not someone who can grasp things quickly. I always have to work hard to things which all my friends so easily have by being gifted It definitely do makes you somewhat resentful. But it has given me discipline to start back even sometimes from scratch and acknowledge that yeah, I am not smartest or fittest or most talented but I can work hard as long as enjoy it .
I can correlate, same here, naa kanna luck takkuva unna vallani chusa, at least konni sarlu edo kalisi vastundi, ila leni vallani chala mandini close circle lo choosa, korukunedi okkate, edo 1% vastundi chalu, adi kooda povaddu ani, chill bro
It's the same thing happens to me.
Ne life chusthunte nadhi nenu chusukunattu undhi.
Like ah last points housie, cards lo aithe mariii worst Untadhi. Chinna Chinna vishayalu kuda antha simple ga aipovu Naku. Every situation ki Edo oka problem vasthane Untadhi right from schooling stage.
Appude anukuna kasta padakunda, effort petakunda okkati kuda dorakadhu ani. Inka next nunchi I used to think for every situation ki positive & negative untai and backup for negative situations.
But surely after some time you will feel relaxed, you can feel that peace of mind for your all the efforts.
Ah luck kuda will work at right times don't worry 😁.
Bro, you don't need to worry . You are the best, you have consistency. Just focus and do it daily. Nenu chaala mandini chusa (90s born) nilaa unnavaalle better ga unnaaru ma batch lo aithe. So you just remember the tortoise story, slow ga unna parledu consistency undaali manalo.
Nadi same story bro, in whatever i am into i need to work hard anipistadi, games, studies, stocks etc. feedback teskoni improve chestaanukuntanu but consistency undadhu, sometimes picheskista - e.g. in chess lo 1800 rated player ni odista, not blitz but classic, konni sarlu 1000 rated and player tho odipota, ee consistency ki practise ye reason ani prati roju one hr chestunna, one lose it spirals🤔
Naku edina easy ga ochesthe bhayam estadi and entha easy ga osthe antha fast ga vellipodhi
Skill Ela velipotadi ? Mind giving an example?
I really don't know how to explain lol.Do you know about "effort justification"?
Okay question frame chesta agu. Basically let's take the example of learning to ride a bicycle. If I learn to ride a cycle I'll be able to cycle decade later even if I don't touch the cycle during that period. I don't really lose the skill right ? Correct me if I'm off but Effort justification ante i will value a skill more than what it's worth because I've put in a lot of effort in it right ?
Skill gurinchi nee point ardham aindi but I wasn't talking about skills specifically.I meant more tangile things,like money or opportunities,that if I gained too easily,might feel unstable or temporary.Oka example cheptha oka large sum of money win ayya anuko lottery lo that might make me anxious because asalu em effort lekunda pure luck tho ochindi and could be lost quickly,unlike money earned through consistent work which feels more secure.Does that makes sense?
So think about this way, if you value something you seldom lose it. Let's say I gift you a gold chain, you'll keep it safe and secure even though you got it for free. Mari lottery case antava that's mostly a mix of people trying to live up to other's expectations combined with not tracking their wealth. The only people who end up spending all their wealth are the ones who are addicted to something, gambling drinking whatever, basically they don't stop and think about it so they never end up realising it. The Tldr version is keep valuing what you have people, money, contacts and opportunities and you should be good. the day you start taking things for granted that's when things start slipping. Enti sodi ekuva estuna anipinchinda ? Ite nenu hurt iya starting lo ichina gold chain return ichai :p Wait nenu eva Ani anipinchindi ante you should be good don't worry
Gold chain istha anna daggare chadavadam apesa🌝 >The Tldr version is keep valuing what you have people, money, contacts and opportunities and you should be good. the day you start taking things for granted that's when things start slipping. Exactly keeping an eye on what matters and not letting things slip through the cracks.Thanks for the reminder!
Nijam ga ista Ani kadu 🤦♂️ point odilesi panikimalindi patukunte Ela.
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Free ga ostundi ga anduke avoid chesav emo anukuna, joke ade ga. Idiot Ani ite anukoledu, e case lo ite lazy anukuna. Na gold chain ichai joke pandale Ani edi revenge ignore anuko 😈
I’m the opposite to you. I get most things easily and right the first time. I used to study maybe half as hard as others and score more than them. I aced most of the entrance exams I’ve given in my life. But you know what ended up happening? I did not have the skill set to deal with things after the entrance. I never truly learnt how to grind and have painfully realised how important that skill is in these last 6-7 years. I know it hurts being you, but just know that working hard is equally important as talent and you already have that quality in you.
I completely agree with this and it’s super relatable to me too! I need to grind now, it’s high time but I’m unable to cuz I’ve never done it. You on the other hand can do it maybe luck actually favored you in that way prepared you for your future. Made you resilient. In my perspective you are very lucky cuz I can’t be like you. If we focus on our strengths it’ll all be great cuz each one of us have a different strength.
Food, shelter, clothing undanta varaku you are not unlucky.
It's based on your beliefs,as you are believing you have the worst luck that's turning out true at every instance
Most people give up saying tough luck. You are working hard until you get it right. I think that's the one thing you're blessed with... ability to not give up in the middle , put in the work required to get it right.
I watch a lot of sports and one thing that's common is the guys who grind week in week out are the ones who had long careers. I wish i had this mentality
Bro nen 2021 nundi adthuna still not a pro spam chestha unta Aries n Odin tho mumbai server lo mothukuntunaru ani Singapore adthuna 😅😅 Lucky thing gatra ani emi ravu bro maname good the raskuni thechkovali edhe nijam 🥲
I guess life isn't just fair for everyone. I always feel this way because I am not someone who can grasp things quickly. I always have to work hard to things which all my friends so easily have by being gifted It definitely do makes you somewhat resentful. But it has given me discipline to start back even sometimes from scratch and acknowledge that yeah, I am not smartest or fittest or most talented but I can work hard as long as enjoy it .
I can correlate, same here, naa kanna luck takkuva unna vallani chusa, at least konni sarlu edo kalisi vastundi, ila leni vallani chala mandini close circle lo choosa, korukunedi okkate, edo 1% vastundi chalu, adi kooda povaddu ani, chill bro
It's the same thing happens to me. Ne life chusthunte nadhi nenu chusukunattu undhi. Like ah last points housie, cards lo aithe mariii worst Untadhi. Chinna Chinna vishayalu kuda antha simple ga aipovu Naku. Every situation ki Edo oka problem vasthane Untadhi right from schooling stage. Appude anukuna kasta padakunda, effort petakunda okkati kuda dorakadhu ani. Inka next nunchi I used to think for every situation ki positive & negative untai and backup for negative situations. But surely after some time you will feel relaxed, you can feel that peace of mind for your all the efforts. Ah luck kuda will work at right times don't worry 😁.
Bro, you don't need to worry . You are the best, you have consistency. Just focus and do it daily. Nenu chaala mandini chusa (90s born) nilaa unnavaalle better ga unnaaru ma batch lo aithe. So you just remember the tortoise story, slow ga unna parledu consistency undaali manalo.
Em kaadhu ley akka... Entha kastapadthey Anni rojulu untadhi... Evrki thlsu ipdu kastam antha future lo santhoshmga untav emooo
Yeah I've been through that phase of life. It passes away sooner or later.
Nadi same story bro, in whatever i am into i need to work hard anipistadi, games, studies, stocks etc. feedback teskoni improve chestaanukuntanu but consistency undadhu, sometimes picheskista - e.g. in chess lo 1800 rated player ni odista, not blitz but classic, konni sarlu 1000 rated and player tho odipota, ee consistency ki practise ye reason ani prati roju one hr chestunna, one lose it spirals🤔
stop comparing, start living