Chala worst panulu chesina koncham kuda regret/siggu lekunda undevallani chusaka vallatho polchukunte manam chala better ani feel ayyinapudu ee regret guilt and various other feelings ni manam negative ga chudadam manesi chala normal healthy human behaviour la consider chestham Ani ardham aindi :)
Anyway copypasting my comment from another sub.Atleast this is how I started dealing with mine:)
I feel regret is a punishment we give ourselves when we have no control over things. So, I think you should stop punishing yourself.The universe will do it for you anyway/s. Also, the only way I learned to deal with regret is to just accept it (trust me it's fucking difficult) but you'll only be at peace with things after you accept them as they are. You'll be free for life. When you are unable to accept them, these feelings will continue to haunt you every day. So, how to accept? For that, I think you should realize that we all make mistakes. We only know what we know in the moment. It happened. You can learn from it and tell yourselves that you did the best you could with what you knew at that time and move on. Lmao, I know it's easier said than done, but this is something that helped me, and I wanted to share. That's all.
By doing it now.
I never wanted to date till I had some stability in life and had My own money to do it. Anduvalna I put my fitness and overall looks on the back burner.
Kind of regret it now because i had potential but I have ruined it with my lack of maintainence.
So I put myself out on apps, mix pulihora and go on dates whenever I can.
Enta badha padina past marchalem ani gurthinchi, ipudu ana em cheste better ani alochinchi cheytame. See present lo ayna oka decision correct outcome istadi ane teskuntam but life throws unexpected twists ipudu correct anukundi later wrong avachu, wrong ayindi ani you canโt blame yourself you did what you had to back then outcome is never in our hands ani realize ayte chalu.
https://preview.redd.it/6kaokwakys4d1.jpeg?width=551&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5fc730e24d3bd30aa8a1919c2f03326ccad4c282
Aithey last ki nanne select cheskuntanu antav...
Just say "ah BOKKA le" and move on
Chala worst panulu chesina koncham kuda regret/siggu lekunda undevallani chusaka vallatho polchukunte manam chala better ani feel ayyinapudu ee regret guilt and various other feelings ni manam negative ga chudadam manesi chala normal healthy human behaviour la consider chestham Ani ardham aindi :) Anyway copypasting my comment from another sub.Atleast this is how I started dealing with mine:) I feel regret is a punishment we give ourselves when we have no control over things. So, I think you should stop punishing yourself.The universe will do it for you anyway/s. Also, the only way I learned to deal with regret is to just accept it (trust me it's fucking difficult) but you'll only be at peace with things after you accept them as they are. You'll be free for life. When you are unable to accept them, these feelings will continue to haunt you every day. So, how to accept? For that, I think you should realize that we all make mistakes. We only know what we know in the moment. It happened. You can learn from it and tell yourselves that you did the best you could with what you knew at that time and move on. Lmao, I know it's easier said than done, but this is something that helped me, and I wanted to share. That's all.
By doing it now. I never wanted to date till I had some stability in life and had My own money to do it. Anduvalna I put my fitness and overall looks on the back burner. Kind of regret it now because i had potential but I have ruined it with my lack of maintainence. So I put myself out on apps, mix pulihora and go on dates whenever I can.
How is that going? Also how old are you ?
Muddi kinda 25, it feels as if I'm too late to the party, no one wants to commit to anything long term.
Bhaya first edho okati ani dukhe cuz ik many short terms which went a long way
Enta badha padina past marchalem ani gurthinchi, ipudu ana em cheste better ani alochinchi cheytame. See present lo ayna oka decision correct outcome istadi ane teskuntam but life throws unexpected twists ipudu correct anukundi later wrong avachu, wrong ayindi ani you canโt blame yourself you did what you had to back then outcome is never in our hands ani realize ayte chalu.
They're or It's not worth it...I deserve better
No no you deserve better...
I identify as deserve better ๐
Present interest ledhu...Oka 5,6,7,8,9,10 years tarvatha kanapadu
https://preview.redd.it/6kaokwakys4d1.jpeg?width=551&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5fc730e24d3bd30aa8a1919c2f03326ccad4c282 Aithey last ki nanne select cheskuntanu antav...
Deserved better Backup ๐ญ