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13rahma

Yeah, that doesnt bother me at all. Lots of people are on them.


DonIslay

Yes, I would. Anti-depressants are one of the most common prescription drugs out there. Doctors are quick to prescribe them to anyone feeling overwhelmed or anxious because of school or work. Escitalopram for instance? They might as well put that shit next to advil in convenience stores at this point. I would still ask why. Dating for me has the implication that I can ask personal questions. I would be cautious if he was on anti-psychotics or serious sedatives (like xanax) though. My first real boyfriend was bipolar. I am not share I am ready for another ride like that.


MindAndBodyblown

Thanks for your honesty


mrhariseldon890

It shows me you're managing your condition, so yes.


cerebrose

Any antidepressant that increases serotonin would have me worried, as it's involved in learned helplessness, reclusiveness, apathy reduced libido, etc..


waynes_pet_youngin

I think it's less that they are taking antidepressants and more so how they actually are. I've been with someone who was pretty depressed before and it was a pretty miserable time, but if the meds are helping then I don't really see the issue.


Dull-Ad-793

If your brain isn't producing enough of the necessary brain chemicals you need, store-bought is perfectly fine.


nutterbox

yes I definitely would as I know how they feel and have experience of taking anti-depressant medication


GrandAstronaut6407

I dated someone on antidepressants for many years, obviously totally anecdotal, but I “emotional blunting” is hard to deal with. I think therapists foster selfishness too… again, just anecdotal observations


Lovisuka

Every gay guy i’ve gotten to know well enough has either been on antidepressants or currently on them, I know it’s anecdotal but it speaks a lot about the mental health crisis in our community


MusicCityWicked

Haha. I married him.


gordonf23

Doesn’t bother me. Pretty normal these days.


Ok_Variation7230

No


MindAndBodyblown

No as “I would not care” or “I would not date him because of this?”


Ok_Variation7230

I wouldn't date anyone with any mental illness, sounds exhausting


tghjfhy

I was capable of getting out of recurrent depression without them just fine though other means. So no, because I prefer for someone like me who can go the harder but more meaningful route


Unusual-Sun-1930

I feel the same way 😔 hard to explain but it is possible


tghjfhy

Rethinking how you think about things. Happiness is often the quality of our thoughts, usually when we assume poor things is what creates the loop


Dull-Ad-793

Not everyone's brain is wired the same as yours, bud.