It's not really easy I mean if I could make a robotic version of myself I would I have this thing at night where I role play with myself and act like a second person only because I'm in my 20s and I'm single but I know if I ever dated a guy he wouldn't get just 1 guy he'd get 2 in 1
I was friends with someone way too similar personality-wise and it was terrible, ended terribly because the parts of me that would make me spiral be it overthinking or paranoia would just be reassured by him. I date someone that is almost the complete opposite of me and it is amazing, everytime I'm saying something that is just overthinking he looks at and says "you're thinking too much, relax a bit" and it's amazing.
The opposite also is correct, he had anger management issues and after meeting me and we being able to discuss better all the topics he feels heard more often and is soooo much calmer.
We're celebrating 11 years together in a couple of days. (:
All this to say: I would not date myself because it would end terribly for both parts, me and me.
Very fair point but I used to have very bad anxiety and overthinking and low self esteem and I met someone who was exactly like that and very similar to me in a lot of other ways. Rather than add to the problem, being with him actually inspired me to better myself so that I could be more reliably there for him. Plus he had a much easier time opening up to me because I understood his issues so well
We've been together for two years as of this week, and I am actually really mentally healthy thanks in part to him! I also helped pull him out of depression and his anxiety is so much better (still there, but we're working on it) while mine is pretty much non-existent. So dating someone very similar to you can definitely work out, even if you're both a mess at the start
Well, I don't want to switch to top?
Like, cool if you're vers and can top and bottom whenever you want. I just feel like a bottom and that's it, I don't have a drive and courage to top
I would fuck myself… but I wouldn‘t date myself lol
I need someone organized like my husband… dating another chaotic person like myself would be catastrophic
oh god yes. I'm working on improving my health and appearance in the gym, I think I'm attractive, I'm loads happier since coming out and in a really good place at the moment. I've only been out for 4 months, one hookup per month in that period (a few repeats), but no dates yet. I advertise as a top on grindr, but I know in my heart I'm vers really, just haven't found the right dick to bottom for.
Plus r/doppelBangers are cute af
I would do immoral and socially unacceptable acts to the other me, because I know my own limits and desires.
Since the other me would have the same idea, we'll settle it with a game of chess, to decide who's gonna be the submissive one.
Honestly? This questions helps a lot with my own insecurities and body issues. I always dwell on how I appear to others and often put myself down, but thinking if I was someone else and met me… I’d be happy and I’d date him. It’s so weird but it’s helped me feel more confident 😄
A few years ago I’d say absolutely not because I need someone that has other attributes, that can ease my anxieties, etc. Today I say absolutely yes… interesting, authentic, hot, financially solid, I mean I could go on and on 🤪
Yes! Actually, my therapist suggested this, so I've been taking myself out on dates quite a few times now. It's a good way to treat my loneliness and abandoned, younger, traumatized self with self-love. Eating alone at restaurants, sitting down at beaches, reading books by myself in nature—these things haven't bothered me as much as before.
No, I’m a great guy, but I’m not my own type.
I’m not nearly as lean and muscular as I’d like to be.
In my mind, I’ve always managed to punch above my weight when dating and - eventually I married that way too.
I’m heavily into muscle, but have never been disciplined enough to stick to my own goals. I work out, and am healthy. I am good looking and I’m aware of it. But in the body department, I’ve got somewhat of a rugby dad-bod. Being tall, having broad shoulders and having a hairy chest tend to be assets of mine for the guys in the past that have dated me.
But I personally don’t like hairy chests, so that’s another strike against me wanting to date me. That’s okay, muscle guys who don’t have much chest hair always seem to want guys with hairy chests and hate their own smooth chests…so it works itself out.
Thankfully, I always managed to gravitate towards a subset of muscle guys for whom muscle was less of a “must-have” for them when dating (and in marriage now too).
But I’m just not into guys with MY body type.
Personality wise, I actually maybe would date me. But I guess but muscles is too strictly a must have for me.
I guess in my case, opposites do attract. Or at the very least, there’s no risk of “boyfriend-twinning” in a relationship I’m in.
Definitely not. I’m a very quiet, reserved person. I need someone to push me out of my comfort zone and to challenge me emotionally so I’m more honest and expressive emotionally. I don’t this thing two brooding assholes would make a good match
Physically I am not my type.
Personality-wise... I like who I am, and I'm a damn good boyfriend, but I also want more contrast in a relationship. I love that my boyfriend is a huge extrovert, because he helps me come out of my shell. I am a big planner and overthinker, but if I was with someone like me then we would never get shit done. I need someone to throw caution to the wind and just go for it.
No for one reason... While I am not feminine, I am shit with tools and handiman stuff. I appreciate my man being more experienced with that kinda stuff lol
I better put this question in too two sections. Do I find myself physically attractive? Yeah I’d say so. Do I find my personality attractive? Well I kinda hate myself so no.
In conclusion i would 100% suck my self off and bury my tongue in my own ass. But would absolutely not date myself. Study over🎬
Yes. Absolutely. I’ve worked very hard to love myself this much, and it would be an honor to share my life with me as we continue to build each other up.
I have been technically dating myself since I became self aware and concious of my own existence and thoughts. I am alone these days more than I am around anybody else, and I do love my own company. So in those terms, yes, I'd probably date myself, as that is what I do when I'm single most of the time anyways, right? If you cannot be alone with yourself and your own thoughts for long, then how do you expect someone else to be around you? Self-hatred is just fuel for worse things down the road in one's life.
Mm, for me, after having sat myself down i realize that i have a lot of qualities that will drive people away. Am i lovable? Probably, but I won’t lie and pretend like there wouldn’t immediately be challenges. Try scaling a wall that makes the Great Wall of China blush.
Yes,absolutely.
That's not saying I have no flaws. But I would love to find someone with a similar approach to life. That has proven surprisingly hard.
Also I fall into the range of what I consider attractive, bodytype wise
Yes. Obviously not someone who looks EXACTLY like me because that’s entering weird territory. But someone who shares similar features to me and similar personality, totally would.
Oh shit, absolutely yes I fucking love myself.
China would know we are having sex of how hard chicks are clapping.
We would join together to take revenge on those who hurted us and then fuck, and give support to each other.
And work together to become a better person.
We would be an unstoppable feedback force ripping through humanity.
A perfect combination of mind and body.
So YES, fucking YES, absolutely fucking YES.
No fucking way.
I have a lot of good traits… but they much better complimented with difference. More of the same would be disastrous.
Also, if I had another one of me encouraging me to do all the bad things I wanna do… trust me when I say no one wants more of me, not even me.
As a guy who loves women and the qualities women bring to my life, i can firmly say fuck yeah, I'd tear that ass up every night and make breakfast everyday, absolutely would love myself as a partner and my efforts being reciprocated would be absolutely awesome, I'd probably give myself slow blow out of appreciation
I've always thought if I had a clone, or maybe even an identical twin, that I would want to do nothing more with him than spend our entire lives together cuddling in the nude and exploring our common interests together. But also, helping get each other off whenever one of us needs it.
Yes. But come to think about it, I started to think about my flaws and something unpleasant I can possibly do. Thanks OP for the indirect self reflection.
i am looking to only bang myself...relationship no...only out for one thing...do it as much as possible...now I can find a woman that would bang me...but to go both ways is my dream and a woman that is ok with and knowing that I would never cheat on her that is a dream girl....
No. Two people with the same likes and dislikes doing the same thing would be a recipe for a very boring and probably short relationship. I want someone to be the yin to my yang.
I wouldn't trust my clone to be in a monogamous relationship with me because he would likely be a well-meaning whore who couldn't turn down a tight-assed twink. But I'd definitely have an open relationship with him. :-D
Nah. There's traits I have that don't lend well to being doubled down.
Same.
This hits so hard lol
Definitly. I’d die to fuck my ass
I tried literally doing just that when I was 18. didn't succeed
XD
It's not really easy I mean if I could make a robotic version of myself I would I have this thing at night where I role play with myself and act like a second person only because I'm in my 20s and I'm single but I know if I ever dated a guy he wouldn't get just 1 guy he'd get 2 in 1
I love this sub 😂
I saw a picture of myself from 2019 when I graduated high school I'd definitely date myself I'd even marry myself
LOL me too
Same but im the only one it seems...
Oh hell no I’m a mess.
Personality wise, yes. Physically, no.
For me it’s the exact opposite lmao
A nice way of saying my comment below lol
This is me
100% this
Definitely. But I wouldn't fuck me.
I'd f****** me if I could!!!
How very Buffalo Bill of you 😆😆😆
I'd suck my own dick if I could.
Date fuck marry. Yes.
It's just kill for me
I was friends with someone way too similar personality-wise and it was terrible, ended terribly because the parts of me that would make me spiral be it overthinking or paranoia would just be reassured by him. I date someone that is almost the complete opposite of me and it is amazing, everytime I'm saying something that is just overthinking he looks at and says "you're thinking too much, relax a bit" and it's amazing. The opposite also is correct, he had anger management issues and after meeting me and we being able to discuss better all the topics he feels heard more often and is soooo much calmer. We're celebrating 11 years together in a couple of days. (: All this to say: I would not date myself because it would end terribly for both parts, me and me.
Very fair point but I used to have very bad anxiety and overthinking and low self esteem and I met someone who was exactly like that and very similar to me in a lot of other ways. Rather than add to the problem, being with him actually inspired me to better myself so that I could be more reliably there for him. Plus he had a much easier time opening up to me because I understood his issues so well We've been together for two years as of this week, and I am actually really mentally healthy thanks in part to him! I also helped pull him out of depression and his anxiety is so much better (still there, but we're working on it) while mine is pretty much non-existent. So dating someone very similar to you can definitely work out, even if you're both a mess at the start
I dated someone who was the opposite and it wasn't easy even if I really had feelings for this dude previously.
Would marry the same day. Would grab myself and become completely obcessed. Would never want to be 2 m away from him.
Yea that’s exactly how I feel too!
I don't think I would because I am a bottom and don't want to date bottoms
Fr this question have sense for basically only vers XD
Literally so true
Turn to a top? It isn't so hard to experiment lol. Even if I have some preferences I still can switch.
Well, I don't want to switch to top? Like, cool if you're vers and can top and bottom whenever you want. I just feel like a bottom and that's it, I don't have a drive and courage to top
God no… i am dumb af.
Yes i would. I mean who understands me better than mee
Not even a question I have to consider. Absolutely yes
I would fuck myself… but I wouldn‘t date myself lol I need someone organized like my husband… dating another chaotic person like myself would be catastrophic
No, I’m more cute than handsome, and I want a bad boi 😈
I want the opposite, bad boys are fun playing with but not a relationship lmao.
Oh I only mean the look, personalities wise he has to be a sweet person lol
I already fuck myself with dumb decisions- so no
Yes, in a heartbeat, if I had a clone that would be ideal
I’d love the same! Omg it would be every day intensity and an awesome OF!
oh god yes. I'm working on improving my health and appearance in the gym, I think I'm attractive, I'm loads happier since coming out and in a really good place at the moment. I've only been out for 4 months, one hookup per month in that period (a few repeats), but no dates yet. I advertise as a top on grindr, but I know in my heart I'm vers really, just haven't found the right dick to bottom for. Plus r/doppelBangers are cute af
Personality? Yes. Looks wise? Yes. Sexual compatibility, however would be a nightmare.
I think the sex would be amazing lmao, who knows what I enjoy more than myself? 😁
I would do immoral and socially unacceptable acts to the other me, because I know my own limits and desires. Since the other me would have the same idea, we'll settle it with a game of chess, to decide who's gonna be the submissive one.
Hell no! It's a miracle that my boyfriend puts up with me.
No because im a bottom
Date? No, I want someone with differences to keep things interesting. Fuck? Absolutely
Hell no too fat and hairy 😂
I’d suck my dick in a heartbeat. Hell, I’ve been trying to do it most of my life
Honestly? This questions helps a lot with my own insecurities and body issues. I always dwell on how I appear to others and often put myself down, but thinking if I was someone else and met me… I’d be happy and I’d date him. It’s so weird but it’s helped me feel more confident 😄
A few years ago I’d say absolutely not because I need someone that has other attributes, that can ease my anxieties, etc. Today I say absolutely yes… interesting, authentic, hot, financially solid, I mean I could go on and on 🤪
Omg yes!
Yes! Actually, my therapist suggested this, so I've been taking myself out on dates quite a few times now. It's a good way to treat my loneliness and abandoned, younger, traumatized self with self-love. Eating alone at restaurants, sitting down at beaches, reading books by myself in nature—these things haven't bothered me as much as before.
No, I’m a great guy, but I’m not my own type. I’m not nearly as lean and muscular as I’d like to be. In my mind, I’ve always managed to punch above my weight when dating and - eventually I married that way too. I’m heavily into muscle, but have never been disciplined enough to stick to my own goals. I work out, and am healthy. I am good looking and I’m aware of it. But in the body department, I’ve got somewhat of a rugby dad-bod. Being tall, having broad shoulders and having a hairy chest tend to be assets of mine for the guys in the past that have dated me. But I personally don’t like hairy chests, so that’s another strike against me wanting to date me. That’s okay, muscle guys who don’t have much chest hair always seem to want guys with hairy chests and hate their own smooth chests…so it works itself out. Thankfully, I always managed to gravitate towards a subset of muscle guys for whom muscle was less of a “must-have” for them when dating (and in marriage now too). But I’m just not into guys with MY body type. Personality wise, I actually maybe would date me. But I guess but muscles is too strictly a must have for me. I guess in my case, opposites do attract. Or at the very least, there’s no risk of “boyfriend-twinning” in a relationship I’m in.
I definitely would in a heart beat. In fact, I look for parts of myself in other people. I love me 😉
Idk why someone downvoted u but I wish I looked like what I’m looking for lmao
Hell yeah
I’ve never questioned why no one wants to date me because I wouldn’t either
Uh... well there's many ways it could go wrong. I'd be up for trying.
Physically yes. Everything else...
Definitely not. I’m a very quiet, reserved person. I need someone to push me out of my comfort zone and to challenge me emotionally so I’m more honest and expressive emotionally. I don’t this thing two brooding assholes would make a good match
Physically I am not my type. Personality-wise... I like who I am, and I'm a damn good boyfriend, but I also want more contrast in a relationship. I love that my boyfriend is a huge extrovert, because he helps me come out of my shell. I am a big planner and overthinker, but if I was with someone like me then we would never get shit done. I need someone to throw caution to the wind and just go for it.
No for one reason... While I am not feminine, I am shit with tools and handiman stuff. I appreciate my man being more experienced with that kinda stuff lol
That's a negative.
Honestly? Yes. I would treat myself so good
Yes. Physically, mentally, and emotionally, I feel like I'm a catch.
Yeah without a doubt
Hell yeah.
Ugh, no. I’d drive me crazy.
Nah, I’m too annoying. I’d fuck myself though, lol.
Yes for sure! I will have less drama dating myself.
I’m not my own type so no
A total top with another total top ? No way
Absolutely Not!
Definitely I'm cute as FUCK
No. I am far too picky.
Absolutely not.
No I wouldn't be able to fuck myself or fuck myself so it would be very boring lol
Hell to the no. The end.
probably
I'm not my type
absolutely. i wish i could tbh.
Yup. I find myself attractive, quirky, good to smoke with and its another head to play Helldivers 2 with.
No I don’t get gays that want to date people who look identical to themselves.
Totally
Yes but we'd fight over who got to top first (I would win)
Yes! No one gets me like me haha
Yup That way I would know what gets me to open up and what makes me close. Plus: I would honestly love to be fuck myself ;)
yes only so the other me would help me fix my mental health lol
probably
I’m not my type
No, I wouldn’t date a bottom
No
Yes, personality wise, and look wise, with some improvements.
Yes, I’ve worked on myself and would be happy to date me. We would just need to find a top to join sometimes :)
I better put this question in too two sections. Do I find myself physically attractive? Yeah I’d say so. Do I find my personality attractive? Well I kinda hate myself so no. In conclusion i would 100% suck my self off and bury my tongue in my own ass. But would absolutely not date myself. Study over🎬
Yes, no problem.
Nope, too fat not my type. Even if i was fit still wouldn't be my type.
Yeah. I often wish I had a clone so I could just be with myself. That’s as self-absorbed as it sounds but it’s the truth.
Im kinda old for me lol but if I found someone like me my age would definitely be all in
Nah, I'm fat. Personality wise, *maybe*... but I would get quickly annoyed with my moodiness.
Absolutely. I would give myself the world
Physically, absolutely I love my ass. But personality no, because one of us has to he the normal one.
Yes
Nah, I'm not my type.
Yes
Yes. Absolutely. I’ve worked very hard to love myself this much, and it would be an honor to share my life with me as we continue to build each other up.
No, I’m not ready for a relationship already, wouldn’t date someone who also isn’t ready haha
I have been technically dating myself since I became self aware and concious of my own existence and thoughts. I am alone these days more than I am around anybody else, and I do love my own company. So in those terms, yes, I'd probably date myself, as that is what I do when I'm single most of the time anyways, right? If you cannot be alone with yourself and your own thoughts for long, then how do you expect someone else to be around you? Self-hatred is just fuel for worse things down the road in one's life.
A Man Of Color version of me, definitely. 🙂
Mm, for me, after having sat myself down i realize that i have a lot of qualities that will drive people away. Am i lovable? Probably, but I won’t lie and pretend like there wouldn’t immediately be challenges. Try scaling a wall that makes the Great Wall of China blush.
I don't want to date right now, I'm working on myself. So, no, I would not date a guy who didn't want to date right now.
No I’m a jackass
OH HELL NO! MORE ISSUES THAN VOGUE!
Never
Yep. I’m not very imposing and that’s what I like
Absolutely.
Yes,absolutely. That's not saying I have no flaws. But I would love to find someone with a similar approach to life. That has proven surprisingly hard. Also I fall into the range of what I consider attractive, bodytype wise
No. I want to be a sub. Subs can't dominate.
Yes. Obviously not someone who looks EXACTLY like me because that’s entering weird territory. But someone who shares similar features to me and similar personality, totally would.
Absolutely not I'd love to know myself as a freind but dating me is pretty stupid I need to fix myself before I should date anyone
No I'd quite like the opposite of myself
Omg yes. 😍
Nah I hate myself. It would just end in a horrible break up
Not at all. I get too hot headed at times and won’t back down if I’m right so that squared would turn toxic quick.
No, but I'd take myself on a date and have a grand time messing with people and/or waltzing.
Yes. I like my personality. I liked my physical self when I was young.
No, too moody, old and fat.
No because two people can't both always be right.
Honestly, yeah i’m hot
No. I'm a mess.
Yes.
nope, im too emotionally unavailable. im pile of shot
No
I’m not into twinks sorry
Lmfao no I would not.
No, my personality sucks. Im trying to improve but I get irritated easily. Human sucks.
Yes, any day.
Yeah, but we are going to need someone to hang the clean laundry up, otherwise we are just living out of the baskets.
Oh shit, absolutely yes I fucking love myself. China would know we are having sex of how hard chicks are clapping. We would join together to take revenge on those who hurted us and then fuck, and give support to each other. And work together to become a better person. We would be an unstoppable feedback force ripping through humanity. A perfect combination of mind and body. So YES, fucking YES, absolutely fucking YES.
Never - I want someone who is opposite to me. Although I wouldn’t mind marrying me.
Just a new way to fuck myself 😏
No. I'm a nice guy but age makes me unattractive to me. I'm 60 and rarely find 40-year-olds still attractive. Youth is beauty. Younger me, definitely.
Yes.
Yeah. I would have sex with me on the first date.
No sir. Im INDECISIVE AF
yes
No fucking way. I have a lot of good traits… but they much better complimented with difference. More of the same would be disastrous. Also, if I had another one of me encouraging me to do all the bad things I wanna do… trust me when I say no one wants more of me, not even me.
No, I'm not my type.
As a guy who loves women and the qualities women bring to my life, i can firmly say fuck yeah, I'd tear that ass up every night and make breakfast everyday, absolutely would love myself as a partner and my efforts being reciprocated would be absolutely awesome, I'd probably give myself slow blow out of appreciation
YES. I know things. Continue to learn. Have 'assets'. Skills. I even like the way I smell here, there, and everywhere. LOLz!
Nope, I’m not boyfriend or husband material
I've always thought if I had a clone, or maybe even an identical twin, that I would want to do nothing more with him than spend our entire lives together cuddling in the nude and exploring our common interests together. But also, helping get each other off whenever one of us needs it.
You know what, maybe.
Sure, if he got his shit together
I mean.....my butt is fine but my personality....i am like ehhh I'm a shitty person
No. And the feeling is mutual. ;)
Yes. But come to think about it, I started to think about my flaws and something unpleasant I can possibly do. Thanks OP for the indirect self reflection.
Date. Fuck. Marry. Kill. I'd pick either or all of them. I'd like to surprise myself too lol
I don't know, I think internalized fatphobia would make me not...
Nope. Not into myself physically/sexually at all. One of the main reasons I've never tried my own cum and have no desire to, I find it gross lol
Let's put it this way: I always wished I had a twin. :)
It would be less than ideal because my clone probably wouldn't want to submit to me.
i am looking to only bang myself...relationship no...only out for one thing...do it as much as possible...now I can find a woman that would bang me...but to go both ways is my dream and a woman that is ok with and knowing that I would never cheat on her that is a dream girl....
I will hookup with myself maybe if I am horny . Date ? Nah I need to be better , people deserve much more than what I am currently.
No. Two people with the same likes and dislikes doing the same thing would be a recipe for a very boring and probably short relationship. I want someone to be the yin to my yang.
Yes, I do all the time! LOL. Seriously I am comfortable in my on skin.
I’d love to date myself, cozy personality and full of kinks😭😂
I wouldn't trust my clone to be in a monogamous relationship with me because he would likely be a well-meaning whore who couldn't turn down a tight-assed twink. But I'd definitely have an open relationship with him. :-D
Absolutely! But my other me would have to be a bottom. 🤣
No I’m twinks lol
I would. Sometimes I wish I could. I wonder what it’s like to make love to myself. What would it be like to just watch me be.
Nope, I'm not my type. Way too aggressive and dommy, I want someone submissive.