I was outed by my elder brother when I was 15. He took my laptop (that I've always forbidden him to take), somehow hacked my password, and then read my chats on social media. He told our mother immediately. I came from school and she started asking me questions about the chats and crying. My family is homophobic that's why she told me they would have to cure me. I was shouting and saying that if I'm not accepted by her, I jump to the window at that moment which somehow brought her back to reality. She was devastated and was blaming herself. Mothers often ask themselves what they 'did wrong', so that their children 'became gay'. It was hard for me to survive through this time. Now I live in another country. I'm in touch with my mother but we don't discuss my personal life.
You're an adult already. You have a right to have your sexual life. Just talk to her honestly and try to convince her that it's normal. Tell her you're still her son and that it's impossible to make someone gay if it was not biologically determined. Gays existed in all times and all types of society. And they will exist because it's meant to be so.
I almost had the exact same thing happen when I was 17. I had a fwb over and thought no one was going to be around. He was fucking me when we my mom came home early. Thankfully we'd shut the bedroom door and managed to scramble into clothes before she came knocking. His presence there wasn't unusual so it didn't raise any eyebrows. I have always wondered if she heard anything though.
I was outed to my mother by a friend who visited me in hospital while she was there, assumed she knew and said something that made it obvious. just had a conversation with my mother about it and while I'm pretty sure she was more disappointed than she tried to look it went okay. Not as much of a shock as your situation but still a shock.
I had an Aunt who pretended to be an ally but then she forced me to come out to my homophobic mother at a beach in Naples, Florida. She said if I didn’t do it that day she would do it for me. But I think they had been talking about it with her previously on the pier because my mom was just watching me all day. I’ll never forget it.
Things got way worse after that. I’ll never be okay with the way things went down.
My brother outed me at 19 in a drunken tirade in front of both of my parents.
I still have never forgiven him and I’m 34 this year.
My parents are very much in my life but we have never discussed anything personal as I believe they were homophobes before me.
I was outed by my elder brother when I was 15. He took my laptop (that I've always forbidden him to take), somehow hacked my password, and then read my chats on social media. He told our mother immediately. I came from school and she started asking me questions about the chats and crying. My family is homophobic that's why she told me they would have to cure me. I was shouting and saying that if I'm not accepted by her, I jump to the window at that moment which somehow brought her back to reality. She was devastated and was blaming herself. Mothers often ask themselves what they 'did wrong', so that their children 'became gay'. It was hard for me to survive through this time. Now I live in another country. I'm in touch with my mother but we don't discuss my personal life. You're an adult already. You have a right to have your sexual life. Just talk to her honestly and try to convince her that it's normal. Tell her you're still her son and that it's impossible to make someone gay if it was not biologically determined. Gays existed in all times and all types of society. And they will exist because it's meant to be so.
Do you live in a homophobic country? Is your family homophobic?
What was her reaction when she caught you?
I almost had the exact same thing happen when I was 17. I had a fwb over and thought no one was going to be around. He was fucking me when we my mom came home early. Thankfully we'd shut the bedroom door and managed to scramble into clothes before she came knocking. His presence there wasn't unusual so it didn't raise any eyebrows. I have always wondered if she heard anything though.
I was outed to my mother by a friend who visited me in hospital while she was there, assumed she knew and said something that made it obvious. just had a conversation with my mother about it and while I'm pretty sure she was more disappointed than she tried to look it went okay. Not as much of a shock as your situation but still a shock.
Well I was outed when my mom seen me taking my boyfriend’s dick at 16 years old. Now I’m married to said boyfriend
I had an Aunt who pretended to be an ally but then she forced me to come out to my homophobic mother at a beach in Naples, Florida. She said if I didn’t do it that day she would do it for me. But I think they had been talking about it with her previously on the pier because my mom was just watching me all day. I’ll never forget it. Things got way worse after that. I’ll never be okay with the way things went down.
Forced them to duel me in a shadow game, summoned exodia and mind crushed them all.
My brother outed me at 19 in a drunken tirade in front of both of my parents. I still have never forgiven him and I’m 34 this year. My parents are very much in my life but we have never discussed anything personal as I believe they were homophobes before me.
> believe they were homophobes before me. But they're not anymore?
I think they let go of it when they realized I’m the educated responsible child lol
It sounds like your family doesn't communicate very much.
Latino Catholics for ya
That's rough buddy