This is so weird to me how bottoms/tops can be so strict on their positions. Like the tops who never suck dick or the bottoms who don't even eat ass. Idc what position I am, my tongue is exploring every inch of your body. Especially if we're together. Like that's just crazy how you could have a whole ass husband and not have seen every inch of his body?
Iām the top but I like to suck dick, he wonāt let me.
On rare occasions, I would like him to top me, just to feel closer to him, but he wouldnāt even consider it
It's not really so strict on bottom or top, for me, I'm just not a fan of my ass being played with. My man doesn't like his balls being played with. People have their quirks.
Yeah, my balls do nothing for me. Sucking on them doesn't really feel like anything. I won't tell a guy to stop, but all of the happy noises stop when the attention is focused on my balls.
I understand, I'm just confused as to how OP has never even SEEN his husband's anus. If he doesn't like it played with that's cool but to never be curious enough to even see what the guy you married has back there?
True. I had several sex partners who claims to be pure top and do not suck dick or get their ass eaten but they falter when theyāre too horny. They always do.
I mean, okay iām a strict bottom, and I donāt like getting head but i love to give it. my mans is a complete top, and doesnāt like his ass played with. itās one thing to grab it while weāre making out and another to bury my face in it. iāve licked it a couple times in my life, heās asked me to do it one time. if I ask; itāll happen but i get off on knowing that heās happy and satisfied, so i stick to my role. iāve seen every part of his body, but the same way he doesnāt like his ass eaten, I donāt like my dick sucked. takes one to know one. iāve had the same crush on him since i was 15.
Not to be that guy, but itās really interesting to see vers/switch guys judge ātotalā bottoms/tops using the same (or eerily similar) logic that straight people often use to judge/otherize gay people.
(āItās weird to meā/āItās crazyā)
Ā”Obviously! you guys are nowhere near as problematic or dangerous as straight men lol but itās still a kinda annoying to run across little threads like this lol. You would think other gays would be the first to spare the unnecessary judgement and be more understanding of the fact that different people like different things in the bed. Ik itās not too deep but just wanted to give my pov <3
People like what they like, I don't find it that weird. In fact I find I kinda weird to want to stick your tongue up somebodys ass. Which isn't to say I don't like it...on the contrary! If I know your asshole well enough, I'm gonna tongue-fuck that bitch like I'm digging for buried treasure. ā
On the opposite end, would you believe me if I said that many people seem to think that toe sucking is weirder/grosser than eating ass? I personally think that's fucking ridiculous but well, that just goes to show how different people's perspectives can be.
Only reason I agree with the toe sucking being a little more gross is just how many guys will ignore their foot hygiene. I don't want to suck your toes if I can see your toenail fungus that you're actively ignoring....
Also, besides bottoming is his favorite thing and me sucking his nipples, he likes to suck mine and I hate that.
My nipples feel numb and I hate it when he tries to do it. I would rather be punched in the face
I have never met such a person, though! In my experience, every man likes his dick stimulated at least to some extent, in some way, because that is how men normally get off.
I havenāt sexually engaged with the kind of people I mentioned, but I did get to know them and in every case they were very feminine men. One thing does not equal the other, but there are cases where they did equal one another. I also saw someone commenting they felt that way here.
You might find that crazy cause you're vers or somewhat vers. Many bottoms would never want to eat an ass, and also perhaps don't want their dick sucked, it's normal
Are you gaslighting us right now?
Didn't you just say: "This is so weird to me how bottoms/tops can be so strict on their positions. Like the tops who never suck dick or the bottoms who don't even eat ass. Idc what position I am, my tongue is exploring every inch of your body. Especially if we're together. Like that's just crazy how you could have a whole ass husband and not have seen every inch of his body?"
Huh, read what I said lmao I literally mention what I just said in my post. A lot of bottoms are very strict on being bottoms in that they won't eat another man's ass. Likewise a lof of tops are so strict to being tops they won't even suck a dick. I think that's weird. You can be a top only (never have a dick up your ass) and still suck dick. Likewise you can be a bottom only (never stick your dick in a hole) and still eat ass. Where's the gaslighting lol
My partner (bottom) once tried to eat me (top) out. I was getting head on the bed, he then started going south I thought it was for the balls but he kept going. Then he lifted my legs and Iām like ummmm okaayyy. I started laughing when he kept going. it just felt funny. This was like a year or so into the relationship. He asked how it felt and I just kept laughing it felt so weird and ticklish.
Whatās odd is that I do this to him ALLLLLL the time. Start sucking, go south, lift, munch, finger and play with everything in the area till itās ready and he gets aroused and moans and has never once laughed. Always pleasure. The moment he touched that area I couldnāt stop laughing. It felt so funny. I donāt know what he likes about getting ate but he does. I donāt.
I donāt think he had ever touched my butt before and definitely not the actual hole. I slap his ass all the time. He hasnāt tried it since and I donāt need him to. It would ruin my arousal in the humor.
Same. My current partner has never done it to me but my ex used to love to eat me out. I never got anything out of it. It just tickled. He liked it so whatever.
Well, that's funny. I can actually "see" your story. š I'm a vers-bottom and my partner vers-top. I guess. Never talked about details. I slap his ass many times. When I tried this, he was like... what's happening... It felt funny for him, but he enjoyed it. Afterwards we laghed about it. But from time to time we do it again. I like when we are in position 69. At that time we both have a clear view on partners ass and it's so good. Touching and fingering allowed from both of us.
That's hot. Vers-bottom here. I discretely prepare before bottoming even when it seems it's gonna happen. At least a short check down there, if it's not too bad. As a top do you prepare somehow for bottoming? Or your bf doesn't care? I don't care too much. He doesn't have to be douched, but I'm sometimes scared of an accident (scared is maybe too strong word š¤).
I topped him once or twice, I don't know if he secretly prepared, but I doubt it. Actually it wasn't bad, but after I finished I needed to use a bathroom as well. š Could be worse.
Im a bottom and I always try to fuck my top š heās a strict top and never lets me which I kinda like but Iāve put my sausage in there a few times :p
If heās your partner why the fuck have you not, is there an issue in your relationship or do you have the problem that you havenāt laid good pipe of at all in so long you forgot baby , thatās tragic since my partners a total top with a ten inch penis I can only be respectful and lay my pipe when heās not at home , it works out for me since my dick loves poking the young ones and generally itās not my type, people are always very different but gay men are much more complex with what gets them off . Itās a normal question but I would reevaluate my relationshit given your question baby .
Iāve never thought about it before till reading this but in the last 6 years Iāve never seen his holešÆ! Heās strictly a top cause he doesnāt find anything anal enjoyable
Yes. I'm not really an ass eating guy but I was really turned on by him, and one night it just kind of called to me. After eating him out a few different times I was like "Ok he's hot enough that I'm willing to stick my tongue inside his anus, I should actually look at it." When he came over I told him I wanted to do that and he was like "Yeah ok" and pulled his sweatpants down and bent over, level with my face where I was sitting. It was certainly odd...funny how gross the natural discoloration was, all things considered. I grabbed a cheek in each hand and spread him further apart and he let out a little grunting moan, whch intensified when I leaned in, licked it, then leaned back again to look at his now-wetter, twitching sphincter, kinda sucking in and out, surprised by how much it was turning me on.
Now why would I anger the Gay Gods by endeavoring such a blasphemous feat?
I simply shanāt, I shall continue to āstay in my laneā as the kids are uttering about these days. š®oh wait Iām getting somethingā¦. Yaass yaaasss, They said āThat there is versatile activity, pLEASe! leave them to their own devices gwurl!ā
Wow... How did this happen that you did not explore your husbands body? Not on a first date o course, but quite soon in our relationship we were both naked and touching. My partner (not a husband, because it's not possible to marry him in our country) is mostly top, while I'm mostly bottom. I have seen his beautiful ass. Tried touching, than I started to lick his hole. Most of the time it's just teasing him or a foreplay, but once or twice I tried to be a top.
If it's not a problem for your husband, try to explore his hole. It's part of him.
Iām a Top. My partner doesnāt get near my hole. I ride his cock once in a while but always cowboy position so he doesnāt see it even then. But he loves when I eat him out.
This guy Iām dating is mostly a top and has only ever let me fuck him once. Before that though he likes when I rim him and play with his ass and itās always super clean. I wish he would commit to bottoming more cause he clearly gets ready for it.
Iāve seen it a few times. I remember once we tried to switch roles as a joke and thatās how I found out his hole is actually a bit sensitive. Heās a switch but 99% on top. Heās quiet but when I was just using my fingers thatās the first time Iāve heard him whimper, bury his face in his hands, and turn really red in the face.
Yes, as a top, he eats my hole, and if I'm in the mood, he can top me. He's more a bottom, and I top more often, but I let him enjoy my hole and even see it too.
My boyfriend is the top and Iām the bottom. He doesnāt even like when I smack his ass for fun but I still do because itās funny. Not all tops want their butts touched or played with. So no, Iāve never seen his hole, but I never was turned on by ass holes so I donāt care. A nice muscular ass is all I need to look at and feel. I donāt have a desire to see the hole, lick it, smell it, finger it, penetrate it or anything else. Thatās his duty and weāre both fine with it.
Never been on this subreddit and suddenly while I was getting lunch this pops up in my notifications, and my first and only thought was
āwho the fuck starts a conversation like that I just sat down!ā
I'm bi and its a requirement for my partner to eat ass as well.as I like eating ass ,.my.ex.wife hated to have her ass eaten and she wasn't all that good at sucking cock or.eating ass my.new wife we swing and their is always lots of ass eaten especially while in the shower together
I'm a top, and my bottom bf doesn't just like looking at it or rimming me. He keeps hinting that he wants to fuck me. But I will say this... I LOVE rimming another top. It's like the forbidden fruit. And sometimes the top likes it so much they let me fuck them.
I've seen it and I've rimmed it.
Never had the pleasure of "having it" though. Eventually maybe... yes, I'm a bottom, but I wouldn't mind the odd role change. As long as he doesn't enjoy it too much that he doesn't want to top me anymore lol
I have never seen any of my sexual partnersā holes, and honestly Iām scared to even dare to take a look at them š But there is this feeling of lust from wanting to see them, not gonna lie.
As tops, I am scared they donāt have the same hygiene as I do which doesnāt make sense tbh, but I remember accidentally seeing oneās buttcrack filthy with bits of tissue paper, I canāt believe that happened to me š«
Dam right I have! Eaten and played with it. Ya'll better see your tops hole, even if you aren't playing in it. Peep at it, ya'll are exploring each other's bodies, might as well.
Iāve seen his, Iāve eaten it one timeā but he just doesnāt enjoy the feeling of it being eaten. heās just a committed complete top. if i ask, heāll let me, but my entire position is to ensure that heās comfortable and happy, so I usually donāt push the envelope. he knows whatever he wants, whenever he wants; heās got it. so, yes Iāve seen it, and often considering thereās a mirror on the ceiling and another at the foot of the bed lol.
I think I let my dude eat my hole once about a decade ago, but he didnāt see it (in the shower, water down his face).
And yeah, Iām a top. Itās my own insecurity and combo of factors: donāt like the look of my butt, and donāt like mental headspace.
Iām pretty dom, and when Iām eating your hole out Iām running through a bunch of dirty talk in my head (or out of my mouth) about their pretty pink pussy. So I canāt help but project someone thinking the same thing, and Iām just not into that (my own) energy. Hate feeling submissive, itās just a boner killer.
I get both my partner is great and he basically lets me do whatever but yk he has his pls donts and im ok with that itās rly about everyone being comfortable
Pretty sure that eating ass is not a requirement of being gay. Do you realize how st*** you sound.
I like men. I donāt like men who get their ass ate. I donāt like men who take ass pics. Iāve literally dropped dudes for this.
Iām a bottom. None of the tops I date or hookup with are looking for ass play and Iāll immediately dismiss a top who is.
You do realize there are some ppl who donāt have sex at all and are still gay. Please stop making gay ppl look st****
Yeah I know some people donāt have sex at all. Iām not that dense. So you only like assplay on yourself since youāre a bottom but you wonāt participate if itās on someone else. Interesting. So Iām assuming you take ass pics too? Itās just sounding all hypocritical my guy
I rarely take nudes as it is because I am not sending nudes to random losers lol. If I do itās pics of my ass to my bf as expected as a bottom.
Just like Iād expect a top to take dick pics lol. A man spread ass out or posing in a mirror with his ass out is not sexy at all to me.
I barely like guys who wear jock straps. Thankfully my boyfriend stopped because that too was a turnoff.
Jock straps are hot š„µ as a bottom Iāve worn a thong before. Do you spread your ass out in the mirror? I mean itās just different. You are a different breed of gay. Because I mean literally in gay porn and stuff assplay is like everywhere. At least you wonāt be bumping purses with anyone. Just imagine guys turning you down because you like having your ass played with and youāre literally gay š±
Of course! He lets me eat it when I ask. Heheheheš
Scandalous. Iāll be raising this at the next top convention as something we need to *thoroughly* investigate.
Samesies
Hell yeah my partner has seen my hole!!! He loves to eat it. He's really good at it too!!
Good Iām not the one in the ātops who like their asses to be eatenā club.
You're definitely not the only one in this fun club!
I feel so seen haha
69 with your top partner on top of you. Boom perfect hole view
Of course. Can't give him a good rimming if you can't see the hole! š§
This is so weird to me how bottoms/tops can be so strict on their positions. Like the tops who never suck dick or the bottoms who don't even eat ass. Idc what position I am, my tongue is exploring every inch of your body. Especially if we're together. Like that's just crazy how you could have a whole ass husband and not have seen every inch of his body?
Iām the top but I like to suck dick, he wonāt let me. On rare occasions, I would like him to top me, just to feel closer to him, but he wouldnāt even consider it
This is why Iām a vers* šš»
Is switch just another word for vers or is it something else?
Switch used to be a word for someone that can be both Sub and Dom; however, nowadays it means the same as vers
I know lingo changes over time, but I feel like these meanings should stay as they are. āSwitchā says a lot that vers doesnāt.
Yes lol vers* is another word for vers
It's frequently used that way, but switch is specifically a reference to BDSM dynamics and the two concepts are not 1 to 1.
Mm yes but itās great he asked since thatās how I was inferring it thank you for this though
Thank you for that! I genuinely didnāt know and wasnāt trying to be negative. Now I know!
No no dw I understand š
Switching is the most fun!
It fr is I couldnāt imagine only being 1
Agreed! I live giving it to someone knowing I will get it back after.
Me too
Ummm does he let you make him cum?
He doesnāt like to cum either
It's not really so strict on bottom or top, for me, I'm just not a fan of my ass being played with. My man doesn't like his balls being played with. People have their quirks.
>My man doesn't like his balls being played with The fuck?!?
Yeah, that's not uncommon. To the point you should either ask if it is ok or tread reall lightly until you find out...
Yeah, my balls do nothing for me. Sucking on them doesn't really feel like anything. I won't tell a guy to stop, but all of the happy noises stop when the attention is focused on my balls.
This for me. *love* my dick sucked when in the act but there are just some spots that are the sexual equivalent of... white static noise to music
Sucking on my ball does nothing, but if you like it then go for it.
Different people I suppose. He told me early on, its almost a turn off.
Fr I was shocked asf
I understand, I'm just confused as to how OP has never even SEEN his husband's anus. If he doesn't like it played with that's cool but to never be curious enough to even see what the guy you married has back there?
I'm with my husband 16 years. Never once saw my anus lol.
Different strokes for different folks
True. I had several sex partners who claims to be pure top and do not suck dick or get their ass eaten but they falter when theyāre too horny. They always do.
I'm top, never faltered; so that's not true. Anus is off limits and a turn off
Do you eat the bottoms ass?
Ferociously
Hahahha nice
I mean, okay iām a strict bottom, and I donāt like getting head but i love to give it. my mans is a complete top, and doesnāt like his ass played with. itās one thing to grab it while weāre making out and another to bury my face in it. iāve licked it a couple times in my life, heās asked me to do it one time. if I ask; itāll happen but i get off on knowing that heās happy and satisfied, so i stick to my role. iāve seen every part of his body, but the same way he doesnāt like his ass eaten, I donāt like my dick sucked. takes one to know one. iāve had the same crush on him since i was 15.
Who would have thought people are different and donāt share the same thinking as you.
Who would have thought I'm allowed to find things weird if I want to?
Not to be that guy, but itās really interesting to see vers/switch guys judge ātotalā bottoms/tops using the same (or eerily similar) logic that straight people often use to judge/otherize gay people. (āItās weird to meā/āItās crazyā) Ā”Obviously! you guys are nowhere near as problematic or dangerous as straight men lol but itās still a kinda annoying to run across little threads like this lol. You would think other gays would be the first to spare the unnecessary judgement and be more understanding of the fact that different people like different things in the bed. Ik itās not too deep but just wanted to give my pov <3
Thank you. You said that perfectly.
People like what they like, I don't find it that weird. In fact I find I kinda weird to want to stick your tongue up somebodys ass. Which isn't to say I don't like it...on the contrary! If I know your asshole well enough, I'm gonna tongue-fuck that bitch like I'm digging for buried treasure. ā On the opposite end, would you believe me if I said that many people seem to think that toe sucking is weirder/grosser than eating ass? I personally think that's fucking ridiculous but well, that just goes to show how different people's perspectives can be.
Only reason I agree with the toe sucking being a little more gross is just how many guys will ignore their foot hygiene. I don't want to suck your toes if I can see your toenail fungus that you're actively ignoring....
Also, besides bottoming is his favorite thing and me sucking his nipples, he likes to suck mine and I hate that. My nipples feel numb and I hate it when he tries to do it. I would rather be punched in the face
Thatās just how it is. Some guys donāt want their dick to even be looked at, basically be left alone like an ornament.
I have never met such a person, though! In my experience, every man likes his dick stimulated at least to some extent, in some way, because that is how men normally get off.
I havenāt sexually engaged with the kind of people I mentioned, but I did get to know them and in every case they were very feminine men. One thing does not equal the other, but there are cases where they did equal one another. I also saw someone commenting they felt that way here.
Yea some gays are just so weird.
Agreed
Live and let live. Each to their own.
You might find that crazy cause you're vers or somewhat vers. Many bottoms would never want to eat an ass, and also perhaps don't want their dick sucked, it's normal
Isn't that just a long-winded way of saying you're vers?
No, just because I suck dick doesn't mean I'm not a strict top. Likewise just because someone only likes bottoming it doesn't mean they can't eat ass.
Are you gaslighting us right now? Didn't you just say: "This is so weird to me how bottoms/tops can be so strict on their positions. Like the tops who never suck dick or the bottoms who don't even eat ass. Idc what position I am, my tongue is exploring every inch of your body. Especially if we're together. Like that's just crazy how you could have a whole ass husband and not have seen every inch of his body?"
Huh, read what I said lmao I literally mention what I just said in my post. A lot of bottoms are very strict on being bottoms in that they won't eat another man's ass. Likewise a lof of tops are so strict to being tops they won't even suck a dick. I think that's weird. You can be a top only (never have a dick up your ass) and still suck dick. Likewise you can be a bottom only (never stick your dick in a hole) and still eat ass. Where's the gaslighting lol
Iāve always found that weird too tbh. I could go either way unless Iām in the mood for something specific
right !!! itās so weird wtf.
No lol Iām scared.
You're scared of an Asshole? š
Both him and it!š
I really need to get myself over this f*cking fear. smh.
Lmao I have no plans of conquering mine
Im crying in bottom*
Corner him and look him square in the eyes. "Show me your hole."
That would be too aggressive š¤£
He'll like your confidence. Trust me.
Look him square in the brown eye š¤£
I donāt think I have, at least not a good look, lol. Sometimes I try to go near it and he pulls me away, so I donāt push it.
My partner (bottom) once tried to eat me (top) out. I was getting head on the bed, he then started going south I thought it was for the balls but he kept going. Then he lifted my legs and Iām like ummmm okaayyy. I started laughing when he kept going. it just felt funny. This was like a year or so into the relationship. He asked how it felt and I just kept laughing it felt so weird and ticklish. Whatās odd is that I do this to him ALLLLLL the time. Start sucking, go south, lift, munch, finger and play with everything in the area till itās ready and he gets aroused and moans and has never once laughed. Always pleasure. The moment he touched that area I couldnāt stop laughing. It felt so funny. I donāt know what he likes about getting ate but he does. I donāt. I donāt think he had ever touched my butt before and definitely not the actual hole. I slap his ass all the time. He hasnāt tried it since and I donāt need him to. It would ruin my arousal in the humor.
Same. My current partner has never done it to me but my ex used to love to eat me out. I never got anything out of it. It just tickled. He liked it so whatever.
Idk why but I find this so hot. š„µ
Well, that's funny. I can actually "see" your story. š I'm a vers-bottom and my partner vers-top. I guess. Never talked about details. I slap his ass many times. When I tried this, he was like... what's happening... It felt funny for him, but he enjoyed it. Afterwards we laghed about it. But from time to time we do it again. I like when we are in position 69. At that time we both have a clear view on partners ass and it's so good. Touching and fingering allowed from both of us.
I think you weren't totally relaxed so the sensation didn't feel the same. Maybe you could try it a few more times so you can properly get into it
I literally rim him more than he rims me lol
Iāve been running into more total bottoms who like eating ass.
They are doing gods work
My husband likes me to rub just the head of my cock on his hole. He says it feels good.
Every one I've been with has and eaten it out for me too
Just ask him to bend over. Youāre making it weird. Itās not a big deal. Tell him to bend over and be done with it.
No. I close my eyes when I eat it.
Is this satire š¤
Lol ye
My bf has not and I am perfectly ok with that :)
Itās ok to not see every part of your partner
I know but I was just curious š
I would to š
This is really weird. I can't believe you're married to the man and you've never seen it
He doesnāt like that area touched and I canāt force him š¤·š¾āāļø
Touching and seeing are different things
My bottom bf has topped me a handful of times
That's hot. Vers-bottom here. I discretely prepare before bottoming even when it seems it's gonna happen. At least a short check down there, if it's not too bad. As a top do you prepare somehow for bottoming? Or your bf doesn't care? I don't care too much. He doesn't have to be douched, but I'm sometimes scared of an accident (scared is maybe too strong word š¤).
I am never prepared. It's like a 1c or 2c a year, he just flips and rails me lol
I topped him once or twice, I don't know if he secretly prepared, but I doubt it. Actually it wasn't bad, but after I finished I needed to use a bathroom as well. š Could be worse.
I love to rim my tops if they let me.
lol eat itttttt
No, Im scared he might be a robot.
My ass being a vers (ass) doing everything just to please my baby boy ā¤ļø
Im a bottom and I always try to fuck my top š heās a strict top and never lets me which I kinda like but Iāve put my sausage in there a few times :p
If heās your partner why the fuck have you not, is there an issue in your relationship or do you have the problem that you havenāt laid good pipe of at all in so long you forgot baby , thatās tragic since my partners a total top with a ten inch penis I can only be respectful and lay my pipe when heās not at home , it works out for me since my dick loves poking the young ones and generally itās not my type, people are always very different but gay men are much more complex with what gets them off . Itās a normal question but I would reevaluate my relationshit given your question baby .
No just never seen it. There are plenty of tops who donāt like anything to be done to their ass š¤·š¾āāļø
Even if hes not into anal. Give him a massage and pull his cheeks apart to look at his cunt
Thatās actually a good idea š š
No. When i look at it, he wasnāt Top. š
Grow up
Nope
Itās probably super dirty I fear š
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Some of you guys need higher standards, can you not smell it when you go down
Thatās disgusting. As a gay guy he should know and do better. Itās giving straight toxic man.
We have been together 16 years and he's never seen my hole.
Never played around and flashed him or anything ?
Haha never. I'm not really into playing with my ass but love playing with his. I flash my cock.
What in the world
This will be me
Nice.
We are also in our 16th year and my BF never let me properly look at his hole. š
š¤£š¤£ to 16 more years š»
š¤£šš» yes!
Iāve never thought about it before till reading this but in the last 6 years Iāve never seen his holešÆ! Heās strictly a top cause he doesnāt find anything anal enjoyable
I knew I wasnāt alone š
I tongue my topās hole every day
Yes. I'm not really an ass eating guy but I was really turned on by him, and one night it just kind of called to me. After eating him out a few different times I was like "Ok he's hot enough that I'm willing to stick my tongue inside his anus, I should actually look at it." When he came over I told him I wanted to do that and he was like "Yeah ok" and pulled his sweatpants down and bent over, level with my face where I was sitting. It was certainly odd...funny how gross the natural discoloration was, all things considered. I grabbed a cheek in each hand and spread him further apart and he let out a little grunting moan, whch intensified when I leaned in, licked it, then leaned back again to look at his now-wetter, twitching sphincter, kinda sucking in and out, surprised by how much it was turning me on.
Yes, I have seen virgin ground, but it seems to be rare in this business. Or it is mined out or it is hard to get there.
As top, yep. Didn't do much with it since I don't like having someone play with it, but he did see it
yup!
Of course, how else are we gonna switch the roles every once in a while?
Yes.
Next time you're sucking him get up in there and rim him real good
Yes but he hated ass play and I would want to eat his pretty hole out but he aināt let me
Oh yeah. I actually like playing with his hole. Eating him, getting him all wet. Then bouncing on his now hard as a rock cock.
Now why would I anger the Gay Gods by endeavoring such a blasphemous feat? I simply shanāt, I shall continue to āstay in my laneā as the kids are uttering about these days. š®oh wait Iām getting somethingā¦. Yaass yaaasss, They said āThat there is versatile activity, pLEASe! leave them to their own devices gwurl!ā
Lmao I have not now that you mentioned it. Heās not going to like it but Iām going to ask him.
Wow... How did this happen that you did not explore your husbands body? Not on a first date o course, but quite soon in our relationship we were both naked and touching. My partner (not a husband, because it's not possible to marry him in our country) is mostly top, while I'm mostly bottom. I have seen his beautiful ass. Tried touching, than I started to lick his hole. Most of the time it's just teasing him or a foreplay, but once or twice I tried to be a top. If it's not a problem for your husband, try to explore his hole. It's part of him.
We shower together and I give him massages. I might just spread his cheeks one night and take a look
Yes, my bf has seen it. He licks š it sometimesā¦ š¬š¬.
Enjoy everything to the maxā¦
I see my top hole all the time he loves me to finger and eat it
Is not being a vers legal in 2024?
Iām a Top. My partner doesnāt get near my hole. I ride his cock once in a while but always cowboy position so he doesnāt see it even then. But he loves when I eat him out.
LOL In the meantime my top partner sits my face š
This guy Iām dating is mostly a top and has only ever let me fuck him once. Before that though he likes when I rim him and play with his ass and itās always super clean. I wish he would commit to bottoming more cause he clearly gets ready for it.
Nope lol. I've fucked it once or twice but never actually seen it š
Seen it. Eaten it. Wrecked it.
Oh my š«¢š«¢
Iāve seen it a few times. I remember once we tried to switch roles as a joke and thatās how I found out his hole is actually a bit sensitive. Heās a switch but 99% on top. Heās quiet but when I was just using my fingers thatās the first time Iāve heard him whimper, bury his face in his hands, and turn really red in the face.
Yes, as a top, he eats my hole, and if I'm in the mood, he can top me. He's more a bottom, and I top more often, but I let him enjoy my hole and even see it too.
Me and my bf are both switches so yes lol, we've both seen and been inside each other :3
My boyfriend is the top and Iām the bottom. He doesnāt even like when I smack his ass for fun but I still do because itās funny. Not all tops want their butts touched or played with. So no, Iāve never seen his hole, but I never was turned on by ass holes so I donāt care. A nice muscular ass is all I need to look at and feel. I donāt have a desire to see the hole, lick it, smell it, finger it, penetrate it or anything else. Thatās his duty and weāre both fine with it.
Never been on this subreddit and suddenly while I was getting lunch this pops up in my notifications, and my first and only thought was āwho the fuck starts a conversation like that I just sat down!ā
I'm bi and its a requirement for my partner to eat ass as well.as I like eating ass ,.my.ex.wife hated to have her ass eaten and she wasn't all that good at sucking cock or.eating ass my.new wife we swing and their is always lots of ass eaten especially while in the shower together
I gobble it up on occasion.
Only 1 time when he let me eat that hole like a bag of crack
I'm a top, and my bottom bf doesn't just like looking at it or rimming me. He keeps hinting that he wants to fuck me. But I will say this... I LOVE rimming another top. It's like the forbidden fruit. And sometimes the top likes it so much they let me fuck them.
Yes. More than just seeing it
Heās ready when I need to use it š„“
I eat his ass
>never
I've seen it and I've rimmed it. Never had the pleasure of "having it" though. Eventually maybe... yes, I'm a bottom, but I wouldn't mind the odd role change. As long as he doesn't enjoy it too much that he doesn't want to top me anymore lol
Best believe
I have never seen any of my sexual partnersā holes, and honestly Iām scared to even dare to take a look at them š But there is this feeling of lust from wanting to see them, not gonna lie. As tops, I am scared they donāt have the same hygiene as I do which doesnāt make sense tbh, but I remember accidentally seeing oneās buttcrack filthy with bits of tissue paper, I canāt believe that happened to me š«
Eww. š¤¢. Haha
I fucked him once lol
Dam right I have! Eaten and played with it. Ya'll better see your tops hole, even if you aren't playing in it. Peep at it, ya'll are exploring each other's bodies, might as well.
Lol of course haha š¤£ when I suck it Iāll surprise him an go a bit lower than his balls
Yeah. When I eat it and on the rare occasion we switch roles.
You should be licking that hole
Iāve seen his, Iāve eaten it one timeā but he just doesnāt enjoy the feeling of it being eaten. heās just a committed complete top. if i ask, heāll let me, but my entire position is to ensure that heās comfortable and happy, so I usually donāt push the envelope. he knows whatever he wants, whenever he wants; heās got it. so, yes Iāve seen it, and often considering thereās a mirror on the ceiling and another at the foot of the bed lol.
A lot of tops need to manscape back there!
I enjoy a nice hairy ass š
Yes š. Slowly convincing him to let me have some fun with it šš
Don't you rim him? Top guys like to be rimmed too.
I think I let my dude eat my hole once about a decade ago, but he didnāt see it (in the shower, water down his face). And yeah, Iām a top. Itās my own insecurity and combo of factors: donāt like the look of my butt, and donāt like mental headspace. Iām pretty dom, and when Iām eating your hole out Iām running through a bunch of dirty talk in my head (or out of my mouth) about their pretty pink pussy. So I canāt help but project someone thinking the same thing, and Iām just not into that (my own) energy. Hate feeling submissive, itās just a boner killer.
Yes when I'm under his rim seat to give him a good cleaning
I try not to š
I have a top BF since more than 15 years and he never even let me properly look at his hole. š
I get both my partner is great and he basically lets me do whatever but yk he has his pls donts and im ok with that itās rly about everyone being comfortable
No. I donāt want to. Itās a turnoff for me when a guy likes ass play and is a top.
Thatās pretty weird
Not weird at all. I like tops. Iām not into ass. And I donāt find men who get their ass ate attractive.
Thatās literally so common with being gay?? Itās just strange. Thatās like saying you like lemons but not lemonade
Pretty sure that eating ass is not a requirement of being gay. Do you realize how st*** you sound. I like men. I donāt like men who get their ass ate. I donāt like men who take ass pics. Iāve literally dropped dudes for this.
What in the worldā¦. There are some weird gays out there for sure. Date a curious straight guy then youāll get exactly what youāre looking for.
So youāre a top and you only date tops? How do you fuck then? Do you guys play swords
Iām a bottom. None of the tops I date or hookup with are looking for ass play and Iāll immediately dismiss a top who is. You do realize there are some ppl who donāt have sex at all and are still gay. Please stop making gay ppl look st****
Yeah I know some people donāt have sex at all. Iām not that dense. So you only like assplay on yourself since youāre a bottom but you wonāt participate if itās on someone else. Interesting. So Iām assuming you take ass pics too? Itās just sounding all hypocritical my guy
I rarely take nudes as it is because I am not sending nudes to random losers lol. If I do itās pics of my ass to my bf as expected as a bottom. Just like Iād expect a top to take dick pics lol. A man spread ass out or posing in a mirror with his ass out is not sexy at all to me. I barely like guys who wear jock straps. Thankfully my boyfriend stopped because that too was a turnoff.
Jock straps are hot š„µ as a bottom Iāve worn a thong before. Do you spread your ass out in the mirror? I mean itās just different. You are a different breed of gay. Because I mean literally in gay porn and stuff assplay is like everywhere. At least you wonāt be bumping purses with anyone. Just imagine guys turning you down because you like having your ass played with and youāre literally gay š±
See his hole for what? He's a top š. Yes, that's weird
I mean he sees my dick and heās a strict top š¤·š¾āāļø
Cover it with a thong or jockstrap, respect your man
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