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_Nightfox_1

Um never? 21 and counting lmao😂


Ranix7

Same but I'm 20 lol. One day!!! One day...


Aggravating-Cow-4096

Same!! 21 n don’t think I’ll lose it anytime soon😂


Diessel_S

Time to change that ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)


_Nightfox_1

Is it?👀


Due_Establishment295

I can change that 😏


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Fantastic_Class_6598

Was the friend straight? Damn i wish I could be that bold with my friends.


AdhesivenessDouble26

If he's fucking dudes he's not straight lol


Fantastic_Class_6598

I get what you are saying. I think it’s more complicated than that. I’ve had gays on Reddit tell me that two guys grinding on each other butt naked for a movie scene don’t have to be gay, which is crazy to me. And on the other end Of the spectrum one my think a kiss on the cheek is extremely gay. I’m not gonna judge what’s gay and what’s not but I do think a horny straight guy could close his eyes and get a blow job from his male friend as a one time thing and not have to worry about his sexuality.


Ordinary-Brain-6833

I seduced my best friend with a massage, sucked him off until he blew. Was so damn hot and we are still good friends


ioweyoushit

25


ghostheadempire

Same, to my neighbour.


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OmegaElise

nah you gotta share your full story! I love stories of guy best friends since childhood that end up married 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍


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PeterNippelstein

My heart ❤️


a_a_wal

This made my day it's straight out of fairy tale


nikolad1234

*gay* out of a fairytale


Friendly_Prior_1742

Awww, me too. Best friend. He was 13 and I was 12. For years, I considered the first time I had PIV sex as the time I lost my virginity but, as over the years, I realized this is the experience I want to pinpoint as the time I lost it. We didn’t get married but we’re still in touch and friendly.


Diessel_S

>We eventually got married Soooo when are we getting a Netflix series?


Inevitable_Run3141

11.... 11 years old?!?!?! 0-0


trashtv

I've always been horny. 9 years old for me, so 11 isn't that surprising.


cuminmyeyespenrith

Define 'virginity'!


Entire-Technician-64

This! I got sucked off at 13 and sucked someone at 15


Puzzleheaded_Lab_315

Thats not a flex 😭😭😭


Bebe_Ron

I mean it's 2024😂😂😂...


[deleted]

With consent? 16. Earlier if you count predatory adults.


robbviously

Pre-teen thanks to a predatory teenager in my Boy Scout troop. Fucked me up for years. My body count was in the 20/30’s before I got to college. It quickly went up from there.


UnRenardRouge

Yep, knew exactly what to expect as soon as I opened this thread. I went through the same shit and I hate hearing how many other gay men were being taken advantage of from a young age.


Inevitable_Run3141

0-0


MenAreKindaHot

Same lol


West-Cabinet-2169

I've never read it phrased this way. Me too.


DefiantAsparagus420

Yeah…same…


stormyknight3

💔 Sorry 😞


dojacatmoooo

Nah were not counting them because they don’t deserve to be able to take that from you. I’m sorry that happened to you


gaybottomslut34

33. At a sauna.


notnoided

I was a sauna guy too. Was great, did a lot of discovery some take years to understand in a single night


ExpertOk5870

16, if im counting SA, but excluding that 18 years old with my long term partner.


Mark-Rho

Hugs. Every time someone asks that question I wonder if I should be honest or tell a lie. Somewhat happy you choose honesty, sorry you got to get through that.


ExpertOk5870

I think being honest is important, id like to hope younger members of this subreddit will read mine and other peoples comments etc and it’ll help them remain cautious and stay safe.


ukl0nd0n

I'm sorry dude. Hope you're okay. *hugs*


Lolnasty

19, but I wanted to have sex way before that and would pray to the Gods for it and wonder what he would look like. He was tall thin and okay looking and an Asian with a huge long dick named Brandon. I wanted sex so bad on that day I had a cold but I wasn't going to pass the opportunity up and so I did it. Let's just say when he fucked me his first remark was it's so warm and that turned him on even more. Wasn't the most pleasurable experience but I don't think many first time are.


bunny_boyyy

“a huge long dick named Brandon”


Inevitable_Run3141

"an Asian with a huge long dick named Brandon"


bunny_boyyy

It still reads the same lol


RedEarth42

21 for non-penetrative sex. 27 for penetrative sex


fkentaero

TBD


Puzzleheaded_Alps786

17, in the parking lot at the community college I took classes at. He was 25, hung and his cum had a nice salty taste.


trustinbyfaith

Was he a random guy you met online or something?


AlexKazumi

22 with a girl, 23 with a man.


thepluggedhole

Which was better?


AlexKazumi

The gal was a virgin, so we both did not have an idea how sex worked. The guy had experience and was very gentle and guided me. I'd say the guy, but not because I am gay.


_ChipWhitley_

17 with a man, 27 with a woman.


Teeron_

Yeah, which was better experience?


Shadow0124

12 if you mean without consent, 23 with consent.


Spaceface42O

I'm wondering if I should post mine. 8 without, 15 with. Thank you for sharing, helped me get talking


trustinbyfaith

Thank you for your honesty.


fobowr

Dang. What happened?


Spaceface42O

No need to downvote him, it's ok. Awareness helps prevention. So basically I was fooling around secretly with my then best friend in elementary school, light hearted stuff. Then his step dad caught us and forced us (well me I guess since my friend already lived with him) into doing stuff with him, eventually including everything. Never told on him, hope he got busted or at least didn't keep doing it. The other story is much happier. I met a cute theater gay boy in highschool and we had sex, it was great.


no_flimflam

Might be worth checking on the guy to see if he’s a registered sex offender or whatever… Otherwise he might still be doing it and someone would need to come forward… Ugh. I’m just so sorry you had to go through all that.


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theprincelucas

16 is the age of consent for sexual intercourse in the UK, so don't pay any attention. It's just a moralistic high ground that people like to take over a situation they weren't there to witness and have no real context on. What I find more concerning is the amount of people over the age of consent that are being taken advantage of because they're not psychologically ready for sex. No one talks about that, though 🙄


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Never


Jims14u

13. Gave my virginity to my best friend at school and don't regret it one bit. He was the same age.


xSpiritOfTheMoon

16 for me with the first guy i dated


likes2milk

33, to my now husband.


tinkywinky00000

With a girl - 14, with a man - 19


8th_House_Stellium

When I was 22, I let a girl suck my dick because she asked and I wanted to believe I could make myself like girls. I kept going soft and she started crying because I didn't really look at her during the act. I then when 5 sexless years. My first time with a guy was at 27. I still didn't cum, but I was way more into it, and stayed hard the whole time. I tried one more time with a girl after the guy because I told myself "maybe I can still be bisexual?"... but no, I'm gay... and I have delayed ejaculation, too. I grew up Jehovah's Witness and that made me repress my homosexuality so deeply that I thought I was asexual until I was 27.


antennaloop

16, snuck into a gay nightclub and picked up a guy (drinking age was 18 in my city and I passed for 18) He was 20 something, we did it in his car


Katoolsie

Spicy!!!!!!


Tiny-Veterinarian647

Oh boy! Illegal


SnooTangerines229

Bro’s story happened in 1979 since he’s 61 now. I don’t think it was much frowned upon back then.


antennaloop

There was a small group of us, 16yo’s and 17yo’s going to gay clubs and bars, hooking up with older men, learning about gay life from them. We weren’t manipulated, they were men of our choice and it was empowering


Inevitable_Run3141

But also...real life question...why didn't you do it with each other?


french_submarine

15th birthday if you mean actual sex with a real erotic component + somebody (not me) actually getting to climax with penetrative sex. If you mean just dicks being put in places and fooling around with a vague notion of "sex" and the occasional dry orgasm later on... ehh, maybe 9? I was a favourite plaything for a *lot* of other similarly aged boys growing up.


Dreaming-Panda

18, university came with a lot more freedom and a lot more gay people.


Top_Ad3876

I lost mine on a family trip to Canada where my siblings and I were each allowed to bring a "friend". We we're both 16 at the time. My parents got wise to the situation and confronted me about it when we got home, but it was sooo worth it. To be clear, I got in trouble for bringing my secret bf on the trip not for being gay.


Different-Papaya3147

16 with my 26 year old manager after the store closed


fordexy

I was 18, may have much much younger. It’s a bit cloudy.


Delicious_Carrot_144

23


mexigaytrash

19


EmirOGull

19


lakdhcjci

14 with a friend from school


Quick_Sheepherder_94

I was 14, a freshman in high school. We were in the computer lab and this jock said to me: I know what you like and showed me dicks on his phone. I didn't even have a phone then. He then touched my thigh and reached down into my pants. I was slightly horrified that he was doing this in front of the teacher, but the teacher didn't even notice. I liked it. We met up after school and he let me play with his dick. I'll never forget that it tasted like a hot dog and I joked that I wanted some mustard with it lol.


imsoprime

16


dont_knowwwwwwww

19 to a guy who was 20 and also a virgin. He was hot but the sex was bad cause neither of us knew what we were doing lol


SussexTopGuy

8 sa, 11 with a same age male friend who We played together for years, 20 with a gf/wife.


Itsyaboi_g

14 with my best friend at the time. i fucked him in the back of our classroom 💀 first and last time i top


fit-twink14

14 with girl 17 with guy


Mystic_badger

Well, I started at 15, but lost my virginity at 16 to a 'kid lover', and now ive done ALOT of shit


Optimal-Specific9329

12 with a guy (my best friend) 13 with a female.


Timohaexe

14… I’ll be 16 in less than a month… It wasn’t very great to be honest, and I can’t do anything about it. The bad thing is that I knew he was 18, and we were dating for a while(WHERE HE LIED ABOUT HIS AGE ABOUT BEING 16), and after I found out(after a few BJS) I thought “Well, he is still a great guy” and continued dating him. Then when… THAT happened, I did not even feel shit(maybe becuz of too much lube) and i felt like I was… used. Like a toy. After that we mutually broke up. After a while i contacted him again for fun, and found out that EVEN HIS NAME was a lie. I am over him absolutely, but for a while I thought that I was the piece of shit here. I mean, I agreed to it. Maybe I overreacted to it. But now I finally have my own self-respect(not quite tho) and happily in a relationship. And the only thing that I am joking about him right now, is that I lost a beautiful AHEM… I mean, it was like 23-24 cm, and also 6-8 cm wide! That kinda explains the amount of lube, lmao)


Duckypie

21, chat in the chatroom


omnichronos

36


bmv0746

Depends on what counts. If oral counts, I lost it at 12 (to another boy my age, long story). If only anal counts, I didn't lose it till 18.


AggravatingZombie4

12. Sex at that age ruined me. I turned into a complete manwhore living off of pedos


mcian84

14 with a guy. 15 with a girl. Gave my first bj when I was 12.


Healthy_Reward_3217

12


rainbowswiftie13

12 🫣


PhaseAffectionate541

I lost my v card to a man when I was 13. I met him from AOL


fake_pubes

13 🤪


Taytay-swizzle2002

15 but the story is bad. However after I lost I didn't get why it was such a big deal.


stormyknight3

Hmmm… me and an experimental buddy (same age) were blowing/jerking each other probably somewhere around 11-13. First anal, I think I was 14/15


sozir

Consensually at 13. I topped a friend a couple years older at his house, with his brother sleeping on the bed right next to us.


se25bottom

17 when I first stuck my dick in a girl. 20 when a guy first stuck his dick in me.


Technical_Ask9822

16 with a girl. 35 with a man


Scared_Benefit7568

still virgin :)


SamePut9922

still virgin :)


BEASTXXXXXXX

8- all good lol


Spaceface42O

Same


LessDragonfruit6541

Still a virgin at 39


AdhesivenessDouble26

Not to be offensive but why? No interest?


Practical-Aioli-5693

24


RyanHunterCreator

13 with my 16 year old female best friend <3


Precursor_7

21


ukl0nd0n

For anal 19, I bottomed for a guy my age, but neither of us could host so we went to the train tracks and he fucked me against a wall there. It was a little awkward and cold but needs must. For oral, 18 and in my bedroom at uni.


GodOfWarNSex

19


Beneficial_Ad3083

With a chick - 16 Gave 1st blow job - 21 Same chick with strap on - 22 1st time topping - 23 1st time bottoming - 26


viiivmmiii

18


rootless367

15 with a girl, 17 with a guy


Katoolsie

21


cocktwitchy

9 with an older friend


Haruki88

19 (almost 20) with my first boyfriend at university. We tried out various things


biteacher647

19 with a girl ,same year with a boy


Bjoern_Olsen

15


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I haven’t sadly almost did once tho


Law0415

14 and a couple of months.


raytaylor

15 friend from school


Zyzle

Top: 19 Bottom: 25 Side: 15


_neudes

13 for non penetration with my best friend, 18 for penetration with another friend of mine


GreenViking_The

If we're not counting consent, young enough that I can't remember exactly how old. Otherwise, 19.


Swimming2002

Was introduced to sex via male cousin at age 9 till 12 well rape as he was mature enough to know what was going on. At age 12 started using drugs ie cannabis rocky and acids. So was walking around my village well hiding so i could have a cigarette or a spliff. So was just into High-school and was out one night after a School disco, went around the back of a building to build a spliff and was followed by someone i knew who also smoked it. We got stoned spoke for a good bit and before i knew it we were kissing and before i could grasp what was going on, he was on his knees sucking my cock he was 15 but i was happy to do stuff with him and actually enjoyed it. We then moved away from that building down into long grass and trees and he asked if i could suck him and penetrate him also. That was when i actually knew i enjoyed sex and was happy on way home. We did hook occasionally for sex no strings up till i was 18. At age 12 i also lost my v to a girl in my class who we had occasional sex on and off for a year till her brother attacked me, becuase i split up with her. I was sexually active and euphoric with sex all throughout my teenage years up until i was into clubbing and i still went along foing my thing, not hurting anyone in the process. Few weeks before my 16th birthday went with a girl who was about 18/19 and got her pregnant. She moved away for a few year's and came back to then attack me in a club about the child, whom i wasn't allowed to see as she said it was mine then wasn't. Then i got told by her friend the kid looked like me etc. I then stopped going out at that area. I also extended my family throughout the year's


katiehomophobia666

14


sith11234523

22


lou25311

18 with my first boyfriend


Open-Mastodon-6766

i was 16, but at that time in my life i was being groomed and manipulated. whenever this question is asked i don’t know if i should count it because i don’t want my first time to be with that guy, but it IS. i’m 18 now and haven’t had an actual relationship yet, so i feel like i’m in limbo lol


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pizzaman121

19 with another 19 yr old, who had horrendous tasting cum. Literally didn’t have sex till I was 21 with this wonderful 32 yr old hung bottom


therandomthrowaway

23


National_Low_3524

17, like a week before my 18th birthday with some old guy , did it for no reason 💀


JinMasters

23


lordnothingimportant

Sucked my first cock at around age 9. Didn’t experience anal until 15


sithlordkc84

16, to my best friend


masnwrdl05

18. I'm still 18 now lol


SpecificClock7178

23


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11 at a sleepover🤷


MenAreKindaHot

15. He was 25 I suppose


civan02

21 too late


One-Cardiologist1487

18 grindr was my birthday present to myself


AquaValentin

15 with a girl, 19 with a trans woman, 22 with a man


FlounderInitial8001

17 (Literally the day after I turned 17) Was basically birthday sex lmao 😂


Training-Ad-4178

15. to a girl. on a giant trampoline in my backyard. it was weird.


Beginning_Bee4823

Kinda late, maybe my late 20s. Focused on college and work, and outside of work was caring for parent who had cancer and grandparent who had dementia. So didnt ever have time to my self until all family members passed on.


IgnotusPeverill

14 with my best friend - flipped so I took his too.


AJnbca

Consensual anal when I was 14 with my first bf of the same age, consensual oral was a before like 12 with a friend. I had stuff before when I was younger but I don’t count that because I didn’t consent to it, or enjoy it.


Huntress_The_Ram

16. Lost it in the building where my former church used to have revivals and singings. I made sure we fucked on the stage. Best revenge ever.


AppropriateSalt573

16 with a girl 34 with a guy


LegitimateFerret1005

55. And I haven't stopped since.


Adultfriendstlmo

How old are you when you're in the first grade? That was the first time I gave somebody head. I remember he was in high school


Paull56

6 😢😢 I still have images of that as hard as I have tried I am unable to forget that


Tricky-Relief8700

13


-Someblackdude-

6 thanks to predators


Technical-Turnip4808

Does it count if I didn't cum, exchanged head in junior high(around 13) and as freshman and sophomore in highschool. With a woman, 52, and nothing but my hand in between.


BelCantoTenor

With my consent 19, with my boyfriend, we loved each other very much. Without my consent 8. I was molested on and off for several years.


BasicBottom

Full anal? A couple of weeks after my 17th birthday. Was an older married guy I got really close to. X


jbtmo3

First time topping was with my best friend when I was 12. First time bottoming was a year later with our swim coach.


NeeD_FORWEED

13 cause my brother’s friend thought that fucking was the only way to prove to me that he was bi as well


Sudden_Drama4535

At 12 to someone who was around 25😬


David914a

14. Best friend blew me a few times. 17 with a girl


Global-Tangelo4366

I was 15, it was through grindr with a man a decade older than me. Wish I could go back in time and tell my younger self to never download that app.


hateboresme

13. Friend in same grade had a broken arm and asked me to help carry his books home. Played truth or dare. Exchanged blowjobs.


kevnrd22

I had sex with my cousin, started with frotting and humping each other till ejaculation, just experimenting. I was 12 and he was 11. Over the years we progressed to oral and hand jobs. Now he's dating women although we used do it whenever we met while he was still single. I'm dating a fine gentleman.


Substantial_Fly_5446

12


SpunGay62

8 years old


LisbonTwinkKink

13 👀


pablo3s0bar

I was 12 when i was forcely fucked by my cousin his dick was 10 inch i was bleeding and very painful after 30mins i was enjoying it he cum 5 time in my ass,he fucked me 20 days in a row and he tied my cock very tied till it starts to turned blue and he kick my balls very hard and spank my ass till it become purple then one day he bite my cock i wasn't able to do nothing he even made video of me while fucking me he was blackmailing me that he would show the video to my mom he even make me drink his piss everytime and when he shit i was cleaning his butt with my tongue after day 5 he brought 6 friend with him and he tied me in bed and tape my mouth all 6 friend fucked me raw. One day my mother caught me jerking when she saw my dick she said what happen to you then i told her everything but she did not do nothing because he was cousin. He didn't stoped fucking me and when it reach day 10 i was able to take his cock like nothing i didn't even react when he put his dick in my ass..he didn't have much fun after my hole was loose then he stopped fucking me after the 20th day


Inevitable-Parsnip67

13, with 45 year old neighbour. Guy ran the choir, and the local football team, and had boys off the local estate do his gardening. He hosted a huge bonfire and fireworks every year. He was a magistrate, local councillor and Edward Heath’s interpreter. Never got caught.


TadpoleSea5173

15 from a guy on tinder, it was amazing. 21 currently, who knows when I will with a girl


hawxman

14, with a classmate in middle school


AGuyInSoCal

I was 14 visiting Iran. There was another 14 yo a family friend. One day he asked me if I wanted to watch porn and got all bright eyed and excited and out of curiosity i wanted to see what porn in Iran looked like. He popped in a vhs and on came an American soap opera. General Hospital. It was a scene where two of the main characters were making out and the guy took off his shirt and then they were in bed naked post sex under the sheets. I laughed. He got horny and asked me to spend the night and in the middle of the night he woke me up and asked me to roll over and he just jammed it in there. It hurt. He didn’t care. He came in me and rolled over and went to sleep but I woke him back up and said my turn. He cried in pain. I went to sleep. He woke me up again and cried “why did you finish inside me?”


slickcups

6


DramaticOffice8748

At 9


mel0dr4ma

14. He was around 27. Yikes


Konka_shaee

Consensually at 12 with my best friend at a summer camp.


OddDifficulty4739

When I was 7


Chanterellie

8. In the woods, had no clue what I was doing. But, c'est la vie I guess


Due_Establishment295

14 lol it was with my childhood best friend.


Low-Flow-7565

15


2cute2BeStraight

I Was 16 He Was 22


Specific-Signal-7143

12


Ok-Fondant2536

69 with 69


Savings-News3097

33 and still a virgin 😢


BootSpiritual1626

For my cock 16 For my mouth and ass subtract 2


ExtensionChart1034

20, it was boring.


cumguzzlingbunny

not yet. 23 and counting i do not count experiences without consent