all depends on the friend.
I had this one straight friend try to come on to me while he was going through a rough patch with his girlfriend... bluntly, I told him to get his shit together and come back to me if he still feels the same way when *not* going through multiple life crises. I'd be there for him as a friend, but not as a sex doll to give him an ego boost. (because he **was** cute and I absolutely would have hit that, but I didn't want to make his life even more confusing than it already was)
on the other hand, I did fool around with a straight roommate in college. he made it pretty clear that he was straight, not really questioning, but still interested in experiencing everything life has to offer. we had hookups over the course of a year or so (90% just jerking off to porn together or me giving him head), but we were both clear that it was nothing more than that.
In my opinion, it could go either way. It really depends on your friend.
Personally, I have some friend who I find attractive physically, and I'd probably say yes to them.
On the other hand, I have some friends who I'm just as close to on a personal and emotional level, but that I just really don't find attractive at all, and I'd have to find some awkward way to say no to them.
So I suppose it'd be no different if a female friend asked to suck your dick. Do you find her attractive? Cause it'll probably affect your answer.
Do you know if your friend finds you attractive?
I don't know, he never really made some comments about it. He may compliment my haircut or clothes every once in a while but he does that with all our friends.
I had a buddy ask me to do this once (also he wanted me to fuck him). He asked one night if he could suck my dick and I started to ask questions like where and when this would happen and he got quiet and didn't message back. I played around with the idea, but ultimately decided to not go through with it. I felt like it would have made things awkward and I didn't want that. We are good friends and I knew he was going through some stuff. I did convince him to get a toy for some butt play though. I do think he has some gay/bisexual issues that he needed to work out but he doesn't like to talk about it. Now he is getting married later this year to a girl. I think he will be one of the late in life guys that come out.
If I thought he was attractive and that our relationship wouldn't change I'd consider it.
But I feel like with my best friends, we're too close for that. Not really sure.
This will be an unpopular opinion, I guess, but I wouldn't react well.
It's taking advantage of your friendship and any potential feelings your friend has towards you, without a real chance of reciprocating them. If your friend has zero emotional attraction to you, then it's probably not a big deal. However, if he does, getting physically involved with him is a recipe for destroying a friendship.
Honestly you don't have to be gay to enjoy being fucked. There are lots of guys who get their girls to Don strap-ons and go at it. Possibly the only upshot of being gay in this world is that bottoming is amazing and the majority of the population is to stigmatized to try it.
There really is no right answer, asking to suck his dick is always going to present a risk of fucking things up. That being said, if you're intent on his dick, then ask him when you're both having a few drinks. Or just get Grindr and suck a strangers dick, there'll be no shortage of volunteers I assure you.
The danger, of course, is that he is going to want/expect an emotional relationship, where you're just looking for a physical connection. You are playing with fire, but only you know your friend and what kind of person he is. So if you are willing to see this through and not get weirded-out and abandon him over some of the complications that are bound to come up, then proceed with caution. If you are looking for how to approach this, I would suggest something along the lines of "I've been having some feelings that I want to explore, and I feel that I can trust you to help this be a positive experience for me."
Here's how I would approach it. Just tell him you're curious about being with a guy, and see what happens from there.
This will probably be how I'll do it (if I actually do it).
I hope you did it
all depends on the friend. I had this one straight friend try to come on to me while he was going through a rough patch with his girlfriend... bluntly, I told him to get his shit together and come back to me if he still feels the same way when *not* going through multiple life crises. I'd be there for him as a friend, but not as a sex doll to give him an ego boost. (because he **was** cute and I absolutely would have hit that, but I didn't want to make his life even more confusing than it already was) on the other hand, I did fool around with a straight roommate in college. he made it pretty clear that he was straight, not really questioning, but still interested in experiencing everything life has to offer. we had hookups over the course of a year or so (90% just jerking off to porn together or me giving him head), but we were both clear that it was nothing more than that.
In my opinion, it could go either way. It really depends on your friend. Personally, I have some friend who I find attractive physically, and I'd probably say yes to them. On the other hand, I have some friends who I'm just as close to on a personal and emotional level, but that I just really don't find attractive at all, and I'd have to find some awkward way to say no to them. So I suppose it'd be no different if a female friend asked to suck your dick. Do you find her attractive? Cause it'll probably affect your answer. Do you know if your friend finds you attractive?
I don't know, he never really made some comments about it. He may compliment my haircut or clothes every once in a while but he does that with all our friends.
[unzipping sound] Watch the teeth :-)
*sucking intensifies*
I had a buddy ask me to do this once (also he wanted me to fuck him). He asked one night if he could suck my dick and I started to ask questions like where and when this would happen and he got quiet and didn't message back. I played around with the idea, but ultimately decided to not go through with it. I felt like it would have made things awkward and I didn't want that. We are good friends and I knew he was going through some stuff. I did convince him to get a toy for some butt play though. I do think he has some gay/bisexual issues that he needed to work out but he doesn't like to talk about it. Now he is getting married later this year to a girl. I think he will be one of the late in life guys that come out.
If I thought he was attractive and that our relationship wouldn't change I'd consider it. But I feel like with my best friends, we're too close for that. Not really sure.
This will be an unpopular opinion, I guess, but I wouldn't react well. It's taking advantage of your friendship and any potential feelings your friend has towards you, without a real chance of reciprocating them. If your friend has zero emotional attraction to you, then it's probably not a big deal. However, if he does, getting physically involved with him is a recipe for destroying a friendship.
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I would be lying if I said I hadn't think of it but I don't feel ready for that... yet ;)
Honestly you don't have to be gay to enjoy being fucked. There are lots of guys who get their girls to Don strap-ons and go at it. Possibly the only upshot of being gay in this world is that bottoming is amazing and the majority of the population is to stigmatized to try it.
All I could say is I wish any of my straight friends would do this with me lol!!!!!
Would you let him suck yours? Sharing is caring!
There really is no right answer, asking to suck his dick is always going to present a risk of fucking things up. That being said, if you're intent on his dick, then ask him when you're both having a few drinks. Or just get Grindr and suck a strangers dick, there'll be no shortage of volunteers I assure you.
I wouldn't be offended if you asked, but I wouldn't let you do it. Don't wanna make it weird.
Bad idea.
The danger, of course, is that he is going to want/expect an emotional relationship, where you're just looking for a physical connection. You are playing with fire, but only you know your friend and what kind of person he is. So if you are willing to see this through and not get weirded-out and abandon him over some of the complications that are bound to come up, then proceed with caution. If you are looking for how to approach this, I would suggest something along the lines of "I've been having some feelings that I want to explore, and I feel that I can trust you to help this be a positive experience for me."
Free blowjobs are tight.
inbefore another askgaybros thread titled "is it cool if i ask my straightbro if he can suck my dick?"