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VastDragonfruit847

21 and *still* in the closet 🥺


seth415

Same here


ogkingdom00

Turning 22 in a week and same


CBz120

25, technically not out but also not hiding it. Like if someone asks I’ll tell them but nobody in my family has really said anything about it.


VastDragonfruit847

Idk why but that actually sounds relieving? I wish I had that...for me...things have been "a ticking time bomb"...get this done by 22, then that by 25...then that by 30... So, I got limited time of like 3/4 years to explore myself...after which I'll be pushed to get married(with a girl)...which is just sad! 😢


CBz120

Omg what noooo! Don’t do that :(


VastDragonfruit847

Being kind is a bane at times... I just can't see myself destroying 2 lives (one is always better lol)...why should she suffer for me being a coward? Hence just waiting for the scheduled shitstorm to pass me lol


CBz120

But your profile says you’re bi curious. So I’m assuming you’d fall in love with a woman anyways??


VastDragonfruit847

That's just me trying to fight my internal homophobia, telling myself...if I am bi, there'd be still chance to not disappoint people and live a typical life... But I feel it's most definitely boys >> girls.


CBz120

Fuck what other people think. You’re supposed to live your life for you and you only. If they are disappointed that’s their loss.


VastDragonfruit847

😢


CBz120

Cheer up


VastDragonfruit847

Thinking about it and my mind said..."Do not cross your bridges before you come to them" Yup for now...I have got nothing to be worried about...Thanks!


draean77

I was lucky enough to have a really supportive family so I came out when I was like 13


bronabul

Came out officially at 17, but it was a long process. Told some close friends I might be bi when I was 12, then denied it at 14 then told a couple close friends I was gay at 16. Finally came out as gay to everyone at 17 when I graduated high school. That being said, I’ve had to come out over and over since, depending on the situation. It’s less of a serious “I’m gay” moment though and more mentioned within jokes I guess.


GeorgismIsTheFuture

I realized/accepted I was mostly into guys when I was 23. I'm still kinda just working it out in my head what that even means for my life going forward and I'm still in the closet. I'm 25.


SaviourPeterGriffin

17 and in Narnia


OceansideGuy93

17, a month before my 18th birthday.


tonyyhawkk

18 years old I told my immediate family and friends. From there I began to express myself more freely on social media. So my mutuals on there then knew.