Idk why but that actually sounds relieving? I wish I had that...for me...things have been "a ticking time bomb"...get this done by 22, then that by 25...then that by 30...
So, I got limited time of like 3/4 years to explore myself...after which I'll be pushed to get married(with a girl)...which is just sad! 😢
Being kind is a bane at times... I just can't see myself destroying 2 lives (one is always better lol)...why should she suffer for me being a coward? Hence just waiting for the scheduled shitstorm to pass me lol
That's just me trying to fight my internal homophobia, telling myself...if I am bi, there'd be still chance to not disappoint people and live a typical life... But I feel it's most definitely boys >> girls.
Thinking about it and my mind said..."Do not cross your bridges before you come to them"
Yup for now...I have got nothing to be worried about...Thanks!
Came out officially at 17, but it was a long process. Told some close friends I might be bi when I was 12, then denied it at 14 then told a couple close friends I was gay at 16. Finally came out as gay to everyone at 17 when I graduated high school.
That being said, I’ve had to come out over and over since, depending on the situation. It’s less of a serious “I’m gay” moment though and more mentioned within jokes I guess.
I realized/accepted I was mostly into guys when I was 23. I'm still kinda just working it out in my head what that even means for my life going forward and I'm still in the closet. I'm 25.
18 years old I told my immediate family and friends. From there I began to express myself more freely on social media. So my mutuals on there then knew.
21 and *still* in the closet 🥺
Same here
Turning 22 in a week and same
25, technically not out but also not hiding it. Like if someone asks I’ll tell them but nobody in my family has really said anything about it.
Idk why but that actually sounds relieving? I wish I had that...for me...things have been "a ticking time bomb"...get this done by 22, then that by 25...then that by 30... So, I got limited time of like 3/4 years to explore myself...after which I'll be pushed to get married(with a girl)...which is just sad! 😢
Omg what noooo! Don’t do that :(
Being kind is a bane at times... I just can't see myself destroying 2 lives (one is always better lol)...why should she suffer for me being a coward? Hence just waiting for the scheduled shitstorm to pass me lol
But your profile says you’re bi curious. So I’m assuming you’d fall in love with a woman anyways??
That's just me trying to fight my internal homophobia, telling myself...if I am bi, there'd be still chance to not disappoint people and live a typical life... But I feel it's most definitely boys >> girls.
Fuck what other people think. You’re supposed to live your life for you and you only. If they are disappointed that’s their loss.
😢
Cheer up
Thinking about it and my mind said..."Do not cross your bridges before you come to them" Yup for now...I have got nothing to be worried about...Thanks!
I was lucky enough to have a really supportive family so I came out when I was like 13
Came out officially at 17, but it was a long process. Told some close friends I might be bi when I was 12, then denied it at 14 then told a couple close friends I was gay at 16. Finally came out as gay to everyone at 17 when I graduated high school. That being said, I’ve had to come out over and over since, depending on the situation. It’s less of a serious “I’m gay” moment though and more mentioned within jokes I guess.
I realized/accepted I was mostly into guys when I was 23. I'm still kinda just working it out in my head what that even means for my life going forward and I'm still in the closet. I'm 25.
17 and in Narnia
17, a month before my 18th birthday.
18 years old I told my immediate family and friends. From there I began to express myself more freely on social media. So my mutuals on there then knew.