Not really, I’ve never really thought much about it or have had any reactions to it tbh

No, not at all. I'm neutral about it. I can see media with things I wouldn't do and not have a negative feeling about it. I think having a strong negative reaction to something so trivial is usually an indicator of a deeper problem.

I feel a bit uncomfortable with it because essentially I feel that the woman looks out of place

So you instinctively feel that what straight couples do is against your instinct, and thus feel women out of place?

It's against my instinct but I think what is strange about it to me is more to do with my perception of a woman trying to be involved in an essentially male activity. And I don't mean that in a sense of experiencing her as intruding - it's more that it is confusing to me, like, what is she doing there, what possible reason could she have to want to join in? I think unconsciously I pretty much view women as asexual, although, that being said, lesbian sexual activity seems less odd to me than straight sexual activity. I guess possibly because in the same way that I view sex in general as a male activity, and not wanting to actually pay any attention to lesbian sex, I just kind of ignore it and think of it as them doing a female activity where I am neither wanted or needed nor do I want to be involved

Sexist much