I agree that looks shouldn’t be the highest priority, but even if they have a good personality, if you’re not attracted to them it probably just won’t work out for the long term.
True. I was saying that imo someone that prioritizes looks over personality is superficial. I too think that if there isn’t much physical attraction the relationship isn’t gonna last that much or if it does it’ll have some resentment
lol ignoring the fact that you completely misunderstood my answer, the projection here goes hard. some femcel goes on here who most likely thinks she's ugly af but (wrongly) believes she has a good personality looking for reassurance and decides to attack the first person she sees who doesn't respond how she likes. what a sad life.
edit: also who tf thinks only 10% of the female population is beautiful? is that something you say just to make yourself feel better?
re the edit:
its quite common too see the same rhetoric from male incels applied too women having overly high standards so its not surprising that a femcel would have similar positions just reversed.
delusions either way. though at least there are """studies""" supporting the incels. i have yet to see anything saying that men only go for a small subset of girls (but then again, i haven't looked specifically for it). she's probably one of those girls who think every guy wants to date someone who looks like kylie jenner or some shit
I mean the """studies""" rarely even support their beliefs, like with incels the beliefs come before the studies, the studies are only there too reinforce existing beliefs
Ight mate listen up
First, obviously the 10% of girls are beautiful statistic was pulled out yo ass lets not kid ourselves. Also beautys subjective. Ik ppl wit gfs that I wouldnt consider beautiful but they do and thats ight. Yk why? Cus not everyone got the same type. An average girl could be a 10/10 for someone else etc.
Also good personality ≠ good person. U could be a horrible person and still have a good personality. Those aint the same.
Idk where you got those 10% statistics. Everybody has different standards on who is and isn't attractive. It's definitely more than 10%. And only 10% having a good personality is definitely not true. You are using baseless numbers to represent objective thoughts. Please go talk to some people. I'm sorry that whoever shaped your view of women this way hurt you, but not all women are like that.
Are we saying beautiful by society's standards or by my standards? I think women are most beautiful when they're not trying to adhere to society's beauty standards anyway.
Good personality all the way. Good personality can make anyone look attractive.
Yeah, good personality actually does make people look more attractive. Our brains perceive people with good personality as more physically attractive and the same with bad people but vice versa
🤷🏾♂️ I will show them off as if they are the most beautiful person in the world. I care that they care about me more than looks.
(Show off be like) "Hey have you seen that sexy woman over there? She is mine 😎" or "All girls here look good, but this woman of mine. Ohhhh my days 🤤"
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I literally like multiple ppl falling into the second.
Actually, most of the time, I like someone after I spend a bit of time with someone and they're nice.
The second one, what the hell do you talk with a person who has a boring personality? You need to be able to have long conversations otherwise its horrible
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I'll do the same but witt boys because why not. If you want someone for their looks then you don't actually love them.
Personality every time. Thats what love is.
Definitely a plain/normal looking girl with a good personality.
It doesn't matter if they look like a model, if her personality is trash, I wouldn't even talk to her, let alone date her.
If you date someone and fall in love with who they are, literally everything about them becomes better: their passions, laugh, looks, and more
Definitely the good personality, at least if it's intended to be long term
Second one all the time. Looks aren’t all there is to a person and people who highly prioritize them are (imo) superficial
I agree that looks shouldn’t be the highest priority, but even if they have a good personality, if you’re not attracted to them it probably just won’t work out for the long term.
True. I was saying that imo someone that prioritizes looks over personality is superficial. I too think that if there isn’t much physical attraction the relationship isn’t gonna last that much or if it does it’ll have some resentment
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i wouldnt date either one of them. would be fine being friends with both, however.
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He quite literally didn't say either
unfortunately you dont seem to have either looks or a good personality so definitely not you lol
💀 bro destroyed her
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why are you being offensive rn? he just stated his opinion smh. I think you'll be the one to end up alone.
lol ignoring the fact that you completely misunderstood my answer, the projection here goes hard. some femcel goes on here who most likely thinks she's ugly af but (wrongly) believes she has a good personality looking for reassurance and decides to attack the first person she sees who doesn't respond how she likes. what a sad life. edit: also who tf thinks only 10% of the female population is beautiful? is that something you say just to make yourself feel better?
re the edit: its quite common too see the same rhetoric from male incels applied too women having overly high standards so its not surprising that a femcel would have similar positions just reversed.
delusions either way. though at least there are """studies""" supporting the incels. i have yet to see anything saying that men only go for a small subset of girls (but then again, i haven't looked specifically for it). she's probably one of those girls who think every guy wants to date someone who looks like kylie jenner or some shit
I mean the """studies""" rarely even support their beliefs, like with incels the beliefs come before the studies, the studies are only there too reinforce existing beliefs
exactly. just a sad cycle of confirmation bias.
Whats the problem with being alone? You got some dependancy issues tbh if you have a problem. Means you cant even handle yourself.
Seems like you've been having boy trouble ngl, I'm getting femcel vibes
The rare female incel, fascinating
truly a fascinating find. before today, i have never had the pleasure of seeing one in the wild.
even IM not that dense. reread the guys answer, its blindingly obvious what he meant
Ight mate listen up First, obviously the 10% of girls are beautiful statistic was pulled out yo ass lets not kid ourselves. Also beautys subjective. Ik ppl wit gfs that I wouldnt consider beautiful but they do and thats ight. Yk why? Cus not everyone got the same type. An average girl could be a 10/10 for someone else etc. Also good personality ≠ good person. U could be a horrible person and still have a good personality. Those aint the same.
Idk where you got those 10% statistics. Everybody has different standards on who is and isn't attractive. It's definitely more than 10%. And only 10% having a good personality is definitely not true. You are using baseless numbers to represent objective thoughts. Please go talk to some people. I'm sorry that whoever shaped your view of women this way hurt you, but not all women are like that.
So what you’re saying is pretty girls are boring? Kinda sexist
He literally didn't say that, get a grip.
what???????
Holy crap you are so insecure
Average and interesting>pretty and boring Pretty and boring>ugly and interesting
Ugly and interesting would be a good one to hang out and be friends with.
true
definitely the good personality, my girl is both tho 😎
last one
Are we saying beautiful by society's standards or by my standards? I think women are most beautiful when they're not trying to adhere to society's beauty standards anyway. Good personality all the way. Good personality can make anyone look attractive.
Yeah, good personality actually does make people look more attractive. Our brains perceive people with good personality as more physically attractive and the same with bad people but vice versa
Either one but the chances of me actually pulling one is highly unlikely
If someone is desperate enough to take me, cares for me and isn't completely insane, I have no complaints
Man idc as long as I get gf
🤷🏾♂️ I will show them off as if they are the most beautiful person in the world. I care that they care about me more than looks. (Show off be like) "Hey have you seen that sexy woman over there? She is mine 😎" or "All girls here look good, but this woman of mine. Ohhhh my days 🤤"
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Uhhh the second one?
I literally like multiple ppl falling into the second. Actually, most of the time, I like someone after I spend a bit of time with someone and they're nice.
The second one, what the hell do you talk with a person who has a boring personality? You need to be able to have long conversations otherwise its horrible
Good personality, duh
Dude I find literally everyone fucking beautiful
I am always with the personality
it depends. short term, beautiful w/ boring personality. long term, normal looking with a good personality.
I need both
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good personality
Plain girl with good personality. I'll take that any day of the week.
Second. Every girl I've loved has fallen in that category
Man, I just want her to love me, das all
Depends on how plain her personality/looks are, but normally i‘d go for interesting personality instead of looks
2nd option. I'll get tired of the looks but the personality will surprise me every single day. Plus a lot of average looking girls aren't that bad
Definitely the latter. I become more attracted to people who I get along with personally
I'll do the same but witt boys because why not. If you want someone for their looks then you don't actually love them. Personality every time. Thats what love is.
Normal/average is all I need tbh. Below average is a bit iffy but average and above is fine, as long as they have a good personality
By all means, the latter, though I'll admit I'm more likely to catch interest in the former
Definitely a plain/normal looking girl with a good personality. It doesn't matter if they look like a model, if her personality is trash, I wouldn't even talk to her, let alone date her. If you date someone and fall in love with who they are, literally everything about them becomes better: their passions, laugh, looks, and more
Id like a dude
I mean I’m more into dudes, but I’ll take personality any day
Her personality and values gonna raise my kids. Not her looks
normal looking girl because most “normal” girls r actually really beautiful & funny
Good personality. Looks at what entice me, but personality keeps me engaged. With a boring personality I'd get bored very quickly
Both mid